Sandy B. - AA Speaker - "Everything is Perception" 12-Step Alcoholism Recovery

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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2024

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  • @marshafisch
    @marshafisch 5 років тому +197

    24 years sober and just went through the worst "emotional sobriety relapse" ever! It was in the making for at least 2 years. I didn't drink but I was still very - very ill. All because I DID NOT CHOOSE GOD! Oh, I love God, I talk to Him and seek Him. But I was so out there in FEAR that He was pushed out. Honestly, it was being in a sober blackout! I don't know if you can relate but I am on the mend and looking to re-work my steps on ALL those fears. They were ALL fear based. There is a reason we do a fears list in our 4th step. I am ready to look again... work again... change again.

    • @lyndastacks9132
      @lyndastacks9132 3 роки тому +2

      marshafisch praying for you

    • @biglee3107
      @biglee3107 3 роки тому +4

      Hope your well Marsha well done for surrendering again. 🙏

    • @jeffrey5682
      @jeffrey5682 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks for the inspiration Marsha.
      I’m also looking to do my steps again. Having a great life in sobriety, but find myself drifting away from God a day at a time. 😌

    • @tanyaanderson8779
      @tanyaanderson8779 3 роки тому +6

      Marsha, I can relate. Never had the want to drink but, those fears, pride resurfaced! Praying for you

    • @brentroman4265
      @brentroman4265 2 роки тому +4

      I know exactly what you mean. This is something we don't talk about enough, openly. And it happens to all of us. I struggle with the same place. Your doing great. I promise

  • @craigtravisfehr
    @craigtravisfehr 6 років тому +122

    25 days no booze or weed or pills or meth. Thank you for these tapes.

    • @johnjones4572
      @johnjones4572 6 років тому +3

      Travis Scott well done buddy.. keep it up bro, you can do it 👍🏼

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 6 років тому

      WELL DONE TRAVIS.

    • @morphosis7655
      @morphosis7655 6 років тому +1

      Well done! How are you getting on?

    • @realascanb222
      @realascanb222 3 роки тому

      @@morphosis7655 I would like to know as well

    • @tonysimmons9296
      @tonysimmons9296 2 роки тому

      @@realascanb222 hope you are doing well

  • @mozerm
    @mozerm Рік тому +27

    This is a great message. When he talks about the fact there’s no point to regretting mistakes he’s talking about how free will is an illusion. You did what you did because in that moment it’s all you could do. It’s very freeing to understand this. I love Sandy. One of the best AA speakers ever.

  • @brandonwilson2732
    @brandonwilson2732 4 роки тому +40

    8 years sober thanks to AA.

  • @beauskelton7819
    @beauskelton7819 2 місяці тому +6

    This was the best speech I’ve ever heard in AA

  • @horryh74
    @horryh74 2 роки тому +18

    Sandy really knows how to fire up my spirit and imagination, he has such a great way of putting the program into practical terms, so much to learn from him, We only know a little..

  • @stephendoyle252
    @stephendoyle252 8 років тому +24

    Thanks Sandy for being in this world..............your light shines on....................

  • @jenniferanncattell3672
    @jenniferanncattell3672 8 років тому +33

    he was so incredible~~so blessed to be able to hear him speak ~~

  • @LinaCavalliXXX
    @LinaCavalliXXX 5 місяців тому +8

    15 yrs sober and free

  • @Thetonetemple.
    @Thetonetemple. 8 років тому +18

    Dearest sandy, The gift of AA keeps giving thanx to you and so many. Beyond this life you help me everyday.

  • @curtisyuen6058
    @curtisyuen6058 4 роки тому +32

    Whose here during quarantine?

  • @clee8862
    @clee8862 6 років тому +12

    One of the best speaker ever...🛩️✌️

  • @Havanasyndromev2k
    @Havanasyndromev2k 6 років тому +8

    Eternally grateful to this man and his work .....
    If only people knew how much we had to lose to come to the table with god .... And how truly far we had to go ... Thank you god ... Please never under any circumstances think its futile
    You can recover on all we lost and all we have i know this to be true

  • @davisoneil
    @davisoneil 2 роки тому +3

    I love this guy. Perception is everything. Great speaker.

  • @liamrichards1761
    @liamrichards1761 3 роки тому +11

    I wish I could have met this man. Been in and out of the rooms for a few years now, when times get tough Sandy B gives me a reprieve before anything else does

  • @ynmamflm
    @ynmamflm 10 років тому +24

    Perception is everything!!! This is good. I will have to listen to this about 10 more times.

  • @peteshaw5288
    @peteshaw5288 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for helping me stay sober

  • @morphosis7655
    @morphosis7655 6 років тому +9

    Thanks Sandy, I love listening to you. RIP x

  • @ricklarsen3644
    @ricklarsen3644 5 років тому +10

    i have found my way thankyou sandy 100 percent dependant on GOD

  • @tpckable
    @tpckable 7 років тому +12

    Thank you Sandy!I feel your spirit as I write.

  • @pamelafranklin3452
    @pamelafranklin3452 4 роки тому +9

    I did not have the pleasure of meeting him but he help me see the world 🌎 differently

  • @user-zb6hb4fs4p
    @user-zb6hb4fs4p 5 місяців тому +1

    I am a Al Anon and love listening to Sandy’s messages.

  • @candacepowell3238
    @candacepowell3238 7 років тому +6

    Sandy, I miss you! I used to go see you at Sibley Hospital on Saturday mornings, the whole experience. Was and still is electric! Love to Conway!

  • @blair4661
    @blair4661 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Sandy, you are loved eternally. 😇💖💛

  • @richardnavarro5664
    @richardnavarro5664 2 роки тому +6

    34 days of recovery its slow going but I'm all in...

  • @franklewis6653
    @franklewis6653 11 місяців тому +1

    Sandy your teachings will live on. Rest peaceful. ❤

  • @taylorsmith4128
    @taylorsmith4128 2 роки тому +3

    Right now i am going through “the test.” And im grateful.

  • @amandacerami6143
    @amandacerami6143 3 роки тому +3

    Most amazing share I've heard yet.

  • @trukeesey8715
    @trukeesey8715 Рік тому +5

    Finding is better than seeking.

  • @NavinHarry
    @NavinHarry Місяць тому

    AA love this program but for the grace of God that you

  • @devinmc8452
    @devinmc8452 7 років тому +33

    I'm ready to get sober I have nothing left.

    • @bazjef
      @bazjef 7 років тому +3

      Devin MC you can do it! Goto a meeting. Surrender ! I belive in u!

    • @indigostar2979
      @indigostar2979 7 років тому +2

      Devin MC welcome . Keep coming back. Your in the right place 🍪☕️

    • @mikhailiwanow2864
      @mikhailiwanow2864 6 років тому +1

      I hope your doing good

    • @augustinehourigan7453
      @augustinehourigan7453 6 років тому

      WELL SAID DEVIN MC. JOIN AA, GET A SPONSOR AND WORK THE 12 STEPS DAILY.

    • @fredrikbanke8252
      @fredrikbanke8252 5 років тому

      Its works

  • @fredrikbanke8252
    @fredrikbanke8252 5 років тому +5

    I love this guy.

  • @karabuller
    @karabuller 2 роки тому +6

    oh my god he's a freakin genius. 32 days today no booze.

  • @catherinetarantini8549
    @catherinetarantini8549 7 років тому +17

    I love his Buddha giggles throughout his talks. Hes like the Buddha, he always had a giggle.

    • @peaveejay1
      @peaveejay1 5 років тому +1

      You knew the Buddha?

  • @ricklarsen3644
    @ricklarsen3644 5 років тому +30

    BEEN SOBER 19 MONTHS

    • @christopher8809
      @christopher8809 5 років тому +1

      How's it going Rick Larsen? Hope youre still hanging in there

    • @jakejacob6464
      @jakejacob6464 4 роки тому

      Happy, Joyous, and Free

    • @creepy3973
      @creepy3973 4 роки тому

      still? hows this 24 hours?

  • @robwinsall
    @robwinsall 10 років тому +12

    Good Talk - RIP Sandy

  • @thetruthwillsetyoufree9209
    @thetruthwillsetyoufree9209 5 років тому +14

    Alcoholism is a disease of perception. Or as my first sponsor told me, 'alcoholism is a disease of the thinking'.

    • @skateboard4415
      @skateboard4415 3 роки тому

      The main problem centers in his mind rather than his body.

    • @betsyjohnson9777
      @betsyjohnson9777 4 місяці тому

      Pms, physical mental and spiritual.

  • @surfman72
    @surfman72 3 роки тому +1

    I love Sandy’s talks they have helped so much.

  • @richardgarlands3270
    @richardgarlands3270 8 років тому +4

    I love this man🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @alexkirk5879
    @alexkirk5879 2 роки тому +3

    Negative thoughts = negative actions / positive thoughts = positive actions - Emmett fox

  • @72fishing
    @72fishing 4 роки тому +4

    Nearly 2 weeks off it, hopefully for life now please god...

  • @LoriTrott
    @LoriTrott 10 років тому +6

    Thank you!

  • @amycrane4988
    @amycrane4988 6 місяців тому +2

    Asking for more help, every day ❤

  • @user-zb6hb4fs4p
    @user-zb6hb4fs4p 5 місяців тому

    I am Alanon and just love listening to Sandy. I wish my dad would have heard him maybe he would have quit drinking.

    • @daniellelichtblau5340
      @daniellelichtblau5340 2 дні тому

      We learned we are powerless over people places and things. All we can change is what we do. Our reactions and our attitudes towards life and others. I'm sure your Dad is proud of you and is working on himself on the other side. It's quite a journey

  • @sarahlarson2172
    @sarahlarson2172 2 роки тому +2

    Who is Tozer? I’m so glad that someone recommended these to me! So good. 💓 🤣🥰

  • @jasonyung5749
    @jasonyung5749 6 років тому +9

    [8:45] when true spiritual learning occurs

  • @pablomoz
    @pablomoz Рік тому

    All-time great. A disease speaks through thoughts and judgments about things. Yes!

  • @anthonyroberson5199
    @anthonyroberson5199 2 роки тому

    Last night we did something on integrity this is a perfect fit thank you

  • @creepy3973
    @creepy3973 4 роки тому +1

    1st Sandy B. definitely will be listening to more! :)

  • @johnslone7654
    @johnslone7654 9 років тому +3

    way to go , keep up the faith

  • @pontificaterebal677
    @pontificaterebal677 3 роки тому +2

    Thumbs down? Even though I accept that, I still wonder- why?

  • @pamelakelly5869
    @pamelakelly5869 2 роки тому +1

    INCREDIBLE

  • @KAVEH318
    @KAVEH318 7 років тому +3

    Made my day !!!

  • @craigtravisfehr
    @craigtravisfehr 6 років тому +3

    Thank you

  • @markbailey-hd1gx
    @markbailey-hd1gx Рік тому

    Thank you . I truly enjoyed this.

  • @shownconde9088
    @shownconde9088 3 роки тому +1

    GREAT INSIGHTS

  • @SandipKarmakarDrummer
    @SandipKarmakarDrummer 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks

  • @nickdiaz6095
    @nickdiaz6095 2 роки тому +1

    19:59 to start on the actual title.

  • @simon12332
    @simon12332 Рік тому +1

    Spiritual life works, which breeds illusion you don't need it. It's only a theory until you pass some tests. So ask for MORE help. Work the 6th n 7th on loop. Problems Not resolved, removed by perspective shift

  • @davidbarnes1357
    @davidbarnes1357 2 роки тому +1

    This man obviously has a tremendous amount of both sobriety and serenity and surely lives in conscious contact with his Higher Power (G-d). I just with he, and a lot of other speakers for that matter, would not share there philosophy about reality and or the nature of G-d.

  • @larryhenrichs7819
    @larryhenrichs7819 6 років тому +3

    Sandy should considered for adding a 13th Legacy....All his talks

  • @realdill3569
    @realdill3569 2 роки тому +1

    Need a sponsor I need sponsee, how convenient...the fear you can break down by writing it down each fear is stemming from another eventually you'll find all your fears are originated from 1 single fear of death. You have to get to a place where it's 2nd nature to depend on God you don't have to ask him to do songs he's already gonna do this will reduce your praying for certain things but you'll always find comfort in prayer. I need out of my comfort zone to grow my character therefore I simply understand everything is God's will and do the next right thing

  • @mikerotch7447
    @mikerotch7447 7 років тому +7

    isnt this like the power of now? living in the present moment. being present?

    • @peterpetri8571
      @peterpetri8571 4 роки тому

      Exactly so!!! This is all about: we are learning to live our lives in HERE and NOW!!!

  • @johndowd6416
    @johndowd6416 6 років тому +2

    Just do alot of listening.

  • @loutcb
    @loutcb 8 років тому +3

    wow

  • @tammyjanzen151
    @tammyjanzen151 2 роки тому +1

    10 months sober here

  • @jcfg5217
    @jcfg5217 Рік тому

    How do I change my perception somebody please give me an example

  • @Denise0752
    @Denise0752 3 роки тому +1

    Would like to know what the books were called

    • @alexkirk5879
      @alexkirk5879 3 роки тому

      Big book of Alcoholics Anonymous, 12 and 12 of a a
      24 hours a day book,
      Day by day; meditations for daily reading

    • @abdullahibnyahya88
      @abdullahibnyahya88 Рік тому

      He was referencing non AA literature I believe. I think AAs often are intellectually incurious and don't look beyond the horizon of their official literature. Bill W himself is a perfect argument against this sort of attitude, one glance at the titles in his library and you can see that he read widely from a variety of authors and sources. There is a reference in one of the books, I think maybe as bill sees it, that refers to AA as a spiritual kindergarten of sorts. It gives us our orientation and a toolkit but we are meant to search more fully and resolutely for God and to grow in our understanding and love of him

  • @innovativesolutionsfordesi1990

    Chris …. Yes

  • @berniesmith7073
    @berniesmith7073 7 років тому +3

    as close to god by way of a new pair of glasses bernie Twickenham London x

  • @davidwhitcher1708
    @davidwhitcher1708 3 роки тому

    I like how he says he make up that there is no God.

  • @jakejacob6464
    @jakejacob6464 4 роки тому +1

    6 months

  • @TheCaithleen
    @TheCaithleen 5 років тому +1

    Don’t drink and go to meetings

  • @merncat3384
    @merncat3384 3 роки тому +1

    The audience missed a few of his jokes.

  • @jasonyung5749
    @jasonyung5749 6 років тому

    On Holograms [1:57]

  • @ash.sabraski1857
    @ash.sabraski1857 3 роки тому

    They missed the joke about shakespeare lol

  • @tamarinds
    @tamarinds 5 років тому +2

    based and redpilled

  • @kylepatrickmurphy4058
    @kylepatrickmurphy4058 Рік тому

    😁😁😁

  • @shaileshsonegav9908
    @shaileshsonegav9908 6 років тому

    hindi