Im in my 50s and have 2 friends. Most of my life ive avoided people who talk negatively about others. Girls at school...the girls in the office....my family about their partners.... i prefere my own company.
Yes, we choose who should be around us… But sometimes, nobody can lift you higher… And thx God we can listen your programs and move forward with the good stuff inside 🙏🏼
Not many people are willing to be called out.. I guess it’s one way to sieve out those who are prepared to go higher with you. Thank you for this valuable note! God bless you
This is true! I was just talking about this to an elder woman in my church. She was talking about community and how it can help us when we don't see ourselves. I told her a lot of people don't like the truth pointed out to them. I, however, did. I crave it because I realized I've messed up my life and wish someone would have called me out more on how I had treated my husband.
Thank you for sharing, momma Lisa 😊 Word of wisdom 🎀 As women, we tend to naturally NURTURE, REPLAY, and RECALL bad things from people or situations, in order to get attention everywhere we could ... EXCEPT FROM the right ones BY GOD'S GRACE, we have Holy Spirit and wise women like you and others out there to point out, with love, what we miss most of the time So, again, thank you for being here to call it out for what it is and being transparent Blessings from Cameroon 🇨🇲 ❤
I pray that I speak life over my future kingdom spouse. Because the power of life and death are within the tongue. My mouth and mindset robbed me of the possibilities of beautiful relationships in the past. And I'm ready for the best by the most high God and to keep it without tearing it down. Amen
I have totally been there as well, same situation and I've felt like the odd ball cause I thought the same way. I'm a married woman of 21 years, 49 years old and a colorado native born and raised. I'm in Thornton Colorado. Where can i find you? Its no coincidence that you appeared in my feed as a suggested video. I watched you for the first time today when you talked about wrestling with the spiritual realm. I could relate to just about every word you said in that video so thank you for what you do for the Lords kingdom, I'm always seeking the Lord God in everything and its so cool that you may be living in my state. 😊
I had a similar experience except I started bragging on my husband. It went over like a ton of bricks. Needless to say, I stopped hanging out with them. I saw a car today that said, "men suck" and I thought my sons don't, my husband doesn't. It's a sad reality when we have so little respect for all men that a woman would put that on her car. I told my daughter today to be her brothers' cheerleader. It seems to me if we had more of those and less men bashing, maybe men would be better off. We women would benefit as well.
Yup I‘ve been saying this I could lie to my friends and act like they’re in the right but then they won‘t learn from their mistakes so why wouldn‘t I hold them just as accountable as I hold myself?
So true! I don't need my friends to just say I'm right when venting about conflicts between my partner and I. I need perspective, I need wisdom and I need to be called out on MY shit so that when I return home I'm better equipped than before
Soooo good! I completely understand! But I'm a bit different bc I never respond and give very bland answers bc my spirit needs to stay in that Secret Place above their acceptance. Fast forward, now I don't have any friends.. not bc I don't want any but bc unless you're aPaul and Barnabas then more than likely they're a Timothy- of you see what I'm saying
Depends how those guys were jerks. If they dont pull their weight, like MANY husbands do. They had every right to complain. Yet, there you are sitting, judging them
@@aricakritz2765 women are not worse ‘backstabbers’🤣Women are people and as people they can be terrible, just like men. Keep those moronic generalizations to yourself. You trusting bad people is on you
It doesn't help you, your husband, or your relationship to complain. The point is to get around people who are going to help you improve yourself or your situation. Complaining is not a good trait.
We need people that call us higher. Amen! 🙏
Im in my 50s and have 2 friends. Most of my life ive avoided people who talk negatively about others. Girls at school...the girls in the office....my family about their partners.... i prefere my own company.
It's really hard
Me too.
"Have friends that call you higher " So good 😩 🔥🔥
Amen! ❤
Amen… still waiting… too many people are too cowardly to call anyone out for any reason….. what so ever…….😢
Call me higher Lord!
AMEN !!! THIS IS SO TRUE !!!
Yes, we choose who should be around us… But sometimes, nobody can lift you higher… And thx God we can listen your programs and move forward with the good stuff inside 🙏🏼
Not many people are willing to be called out.. I guess it’s one way to sieve out those who are prepared to go higher with you.
Thank you for this valuable note!
God bless you
This is true! I was just talking about this to an elder woman in my church. She was talking about community and how it can help us when we don't see ourselves. I told her a lot of people don't like the truth pointed out to them. I, however, did. I crave it because I realized I've messed up my life and wish someone would have called me out more on how I had treated my husband.
Thank you for sharing, momma Lisa 😊
Word of wisdom 🎀
As women, we tend to naturally NURTURE, REPLAY, and RECALL bad things from people or situations, in order to get attention everywhere we could ... EXCEPT FROM the right ones
BY GOD'S GRACE, we have Holy Spirit and wise women like you and others out there to point out, with love, what we miss most of the time
So, again, thank you for being here to call it out for what it is and being transparent
Blessings from Cameroon 🇨🇲 ❤
I had a best friend like that, and I remember I would even start talking and thinking like she would towards her husband not a good example.
So true
I pray that I speak life over my future kingdom spouse. Because the power of life and death are within the tongue.
My mouth and mindset robbed me of the possibilities of beautiful relationships in the past. And I'm ready for the best by the most high God and to keep it without tearing it down. Amen
I have totally been there as well, same situation and I've felt like the odd ball cause I thought the same way.
I'm a married woman of 21 years, 49 years old and a colorado native born and raised. I'm in Thornton Colorado. Where can i find you? Its no coincidence that you appeared in my feed as a suggested video. I watched you for the first time today when you talked about wrestling with the spiritual realm. I could relate to just about every word you said in that video so thank you for what you do for the Lords kingdom, I'm always seeking the Lord God in everything and its so cool that you may be living in my state. 😊
I had a similar experience except I started bragging on my husband. It went over like a ton of bricks. Needless to say, I stopped hanging out with them. I saw a car today that said, "men suck" and I thought my sons don't, my husband doesn't. It's a sad reality when we have so little respect for all men that a woman would put that on her car. I told my daughter today to be her brothers' cheerleader. It seems to me if we had more of those and less men bashing, maybe men would be better off. We women would benefit as well.
Yup I‘ve been saying this I could lie to my friends and act like they’re in the right but then they won‘t learn from their mistakes so why wouldn‘t I hold them just as accountable as I hold myself?
So good!
Venting frustration too easily devles into a comparison contest of "who has it the worst." Immensely unhelpful.
AMEN!!!🙌🏽
So true!
I don't need my friends to just say I'm right when venting about conflicts between my partner and I. I need perspective, I need wisdom and I need to be called out on MY shit so that when I return home I'm better equipped than before
Soooo good! I completely understand! But I'm a bit different bc I never respond and give very bland answers bc my spirit needs to stay in that Secret Place above their acceptance. Fast forward, now I don't have any friends.. not bc I don't want any but bc unless you're aPaul and Barnabas then more than likely they're a Timothy- of you see what I'm saying
God Bless her❤❤❤
AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!
Awesome
Depends how those guys were jerks. If they dont pull their weight, like MANY husbands do. They had every right to complain. Yet, there you are sitting, judging them
Perfectly said. I was thinking the same thing. Not all men are like her man.
Women are the worst when it comes to backstabbing. I wouldn’t want to associate with them either. As she said, imagine if the tables were turned.
If they have problems with their husband they should tell their husband. They are foolish women that are tearing down their own man and marriage
@@aricakritz2765 women are not worse ‘backstabbers’🤣Women are people and as people they can be terrible, just like men. Keep those moronic generalizations to yourself. You trusting bad people is on you
It doesn't help you, your husband, or your relationship to complain. The point is to get around people who are going to help you improve yourself or your situation. Complaining is not a good trait.
Even in church groups, they do this kind of talk. Yuck.
This is self righteous, condescending and annoying
All of that can be achieved without a God. How about some emotional maturity and taking responsibility?
Wow she looks weird.