I had 2 kids in span of 2.5 years. Life was difficult for first 5 years but energy level till early 30s help u keep up. Everything works out with support of good day care, supporting house staff , parents , in laws- any one is enough to pull through and i was able to get back to work. Its been 18 years since , am working , my kids have each others company and care, we have fun together. Having kids has its own challeneges but its also fun to see them grow, grow with them, have company...
U said it so beautiful, patiently and with love so that the other person also understands your prospective.. it's indeed the fact if both of you guys understand each other's boundaries then there is no space of differences..
Hi. Just today only i was thinking about you both. Bahut din hogaye aap dono ki video nahi dekh paayi. Good to see you both. Thanx for spreading this great message.
गुड मेसेज है सबके लिए बच्चे होने के बाद एक औरत की लाईफ पूरी बदल जाती है उसकी देखभाल करने में अगर एक ही बच्चा है तो वो बाद में तरसता है अपने भाई-बहन के लिए ये भी सच है !
You guys are fav😍 aapki jodi humesha salamat rahe 🥰may god bless u aadi bhaiya,varsha didi aur apki beti ☺I love to watch your Videos whole day ❤ you look like my aadi bhaiya 🥰
Do bache to hona hi chahiy, I understood ye sab problems aur difficulties hoti hai, but wahi bachche thode bade ho jaate hai to support bhi bahot milta jb tk hamari age badhne lagti tb tk bachche help krne layak ho jaate isliy time p shaadi aur bachcho ka bola gya hai. Jitna late krte health p utna negative impact padta
My health suffered a lot, seriously a lot, bombarding with so many health issues, plus postpartum depression, which is still there.. though wanted second one, but afraid to go for another... And had too many issues during pregnancy too, smell n taste issues, acidity, big hunger, gestational diabetes..
Thnk god my husband is soo supportive.... My daughter is 3 n half everyone in family ek bacha Or kr le..... My husband like bacha hmara paida usse krna tumhe kya h.... Jb uska mann hoga kr legi Or agr ni hoga to ni kregi hmari family complete h.... Mere ghar ana h to apni boundaries mai rah kr ao 😂😂😂😂
Can't believe that someone could make these videos.. thank you both ❤❤ Love to you ❤❤ your all contents change our minds. Again thank you to add little changes ❤
Life changes dramatically after having a baby but at the same time it is necessary to have children on time, try to keep no more than 3-4 years between the siblings. While you are still energetic and the experience of looking after a baby is still fresh, it’s best to start the process for another child soon. Sooner, the better
Mery 2 bacchy han .. aur aik recently 36 weeks ka expired hoa ha. But phir bhi i want more ...i like bht sary bacchy . Ye taklif bhi bary ho kr bhol jata ha....🎉
In today's time and in India, two are enough, the country is already loaded with a big population, which is impacting natural resources land and cattle...
True yaar.... baby hone ke baad ki life bilkul alag hoti.. sab kuch change ho jata.. na job par jaa sakte na apne man se kuch v kar sakte... never ending responsibility aa jati.... Upar se starting ka 1st year soch kar dar lagta ab 2nd baby plan karne mein.. main raat bhar jaagi hu pure 1 saal... na din mein so paati thi... wo phase mere lie bht jada stressfull tha.. upar se khud ki body loose si faili hue... overweight.. khud par koi kapda acha ni lgta tha... I was so much stressed bcz of these things.
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Job par kyu nhi ja sakte ? Ye sab capitalist system aur tumne khud ne banaya hua hai responsibilities baat lo
Madam main or husband bas hm dono hi hai parenting karne ko... ghar se koi aana ni chate sab apne apne kaam mein lage hai... Husband ki job aisi ni k unhe hybrid tak mile.. unko daily ofc hi jaana parta.. to main apni 1.5 yrs ki beti ko kya apke ghar chor kar job par jau... or rahi baat daycare ki to maaf kare main apni etni choti bachi ko bhar waloon k bharose ni chor sakti.. na eski jarurat hai.. jb bacha ho jae tab gyan pelna..
Exactly...eshe sabki soch ho jaye to kya baat...lekin agar esha humare ghar me kaho na kahenge ye sab kya naya naya bahana bana rahi ho...bacche gift hai ishwar ka...ma ko to khushi hoti hai..humne bhi 2-3 bacche paale hai ek ek saath hume to koi dikkat nehi hui etc etc😢😢
Lol. My elder one started taking handling my younger one at age of 5 years and i could comfortably leave them together and go for work. I feel blessed to have timely decided to have 2 children in span of 2.5 years - they always had each other when i went to work. Ofcourse good day care, inlaws or parent support, good house help - any one of them are also great deal helpful but kids need someone their age to grow holistically. Today both are 18 and 16 years and great friends, i have been working for past 15 years . Life is good but be careful ..its never easy. 😉
Nuclear family me jada problematic ho jata hai bachha palna , pahle joint family me bachhe kaise pal jaate the aram se ... Aur ye jo issue uthaya hai ek dum genuine hai . Aurat ke life sach me bahut change ho jaati hai bachhe ke baad
What if she would say no , what if she doesn't want second one Kitna conflict ho jata na jab ki karna aur dard sehna use hi hai 😢 Men ka to kya hi hai , ek aur chahie suna dete hai 🤦♀️
A cheery on yop is when we have very less support or sometimes no support from maternal side. Gor a women it becomes nithing less than a nightmare however good the husband n inlaws may be.
Pta ni mere childhood mein siblings sabse bde kalesh the.... Aaj bhi unse zeada baat ni krti... Or husband ki bhi brother k sath koi bonding nhi.. ulta life issues huye hain
@@nehathamman3621 that's sad! People with MERA KYA or MUJHE KYA MILA/MILEGA attitude, can't enjoy relationships! This is general observation, nothing about you! Look at South Korea and Japan, no one wants a kid there now, forget about having a child or 2 children? Birthrate is dropping steeply and is less than 1! Selfish and consumerist attitudes are leading to this trend.
bhut shi design h mere 2 baby k bad halat bhut khrab hogyi. phle ka jamana alg tha bache ko svi rkhte the or bacha pal jata tha ab esa n hota kaam krne k liy Mai joint family me hu or bacha rkhne k liy Mai nuclear family me change hojati hu
Ha sahi bole sab pahle bhi maa baap yahi sochte ki sirf 1 hi accha hai to aaj he gyan plene ke liye itne subscriber nahi hote na hi india ki itni population 😂😂😂😂
Kitne time wahi same chiz krti rhogi life bhar .. after 30, dimag khraab hona start ho jata hai.. and friends, they all get married and their matter of the day is marriage and kids... Haaan agr koi group ya community join kro to alag baat hai
Males can never say, yes not only you but i will also take responsibilities, Males could take responsibilities for house chores so mother can have quality time with baby. But noooo, they will never come up for help
Apni thodi sey aaram key liye parents apne bache ko isolate kar dete hain, single child 90% life mein depression mein jayega hi, 2 ya 3 bache jada extrover aur smart hote hian, socialize ache tarike se karte hain. sabse zaroori jab life mein kabhi koi mushkil ati hai to single child single hota hain koi sahara nahin hota. I am a single one I know it how much I wanted a brother or sister.
@@nehathamman3621 agar aap akele hote toh shayad hote hi na. log kute bhi 2 palte hain ke unko company mile, ekela kuch sikhta nahin hai, agar aap 3 bhai they toh iska matlab nahin ke 3 bhai ho toh depression hota hai. 1 chil ka toh pakka hota hai depression mein jana, apka koi aur karan hoga.
@@parinda1001 pr jese aapko lgta hai ki siblings hote hain to bdia hota hai... Haan parents ki responsibility bat jati hai.. pr mere case mein sb mere pe hai. Bht kam sister pr. Bhai ka kuch nhi... Actually it depends ki siblings kese hain... Hubby k case mein saamne wala zeada selfish hai, uski wjh se bht dikkat Hui mujhe .
A true influencer it's very important to understand this 😢
Ye zruri tha ..... shukriya ap dono ka
Bhot se log apke is vdo se inspire honge
Good message... I am suffering from this problem.. Mere do bete hen sirf 1.5 saal k fark se aur dono ceserean se meri life intehai mushkil ho chuki he
Sad to see... but may allah keep blessing you. Time passes quickly and u will heal back soon. Dont worry dear.
That's why family planning is important.. you must plan how much a gap should be there between two kids...
Actually it's also more than that... as a mother myself I know the duties and responsibilities of a mother never ends ... even in old age
I had 2 kids in span of 2.5 years. Life was difficult for first 5 years but energy level till early 30s help u keep up. Everything works out with support of good day care, supporting house staff , parents , in laws- any one is enough to pull through and i was able to get back to work. Its been 18 years since , am working , my kids have each others company and care, we have fun together. Having kids has its own challeneges but its also fun to see them grow, grow with them, have company...
U said it so beautiful, patiently and with love so that the other person also understands your prospective.. it's indeed the fact if both of you guys understand each other's boundaries then there is no space of differences..
Woman is not child birth giving machine.. Respect feelings and pain...
I wish sab aise sochte is desh mein.... Rising population shows what majority mentality is n this country... 😢😢
Abdul ko bhi batao yeh
@ravishetti87 pehle bachche paida karne laayak ho ja nahi toh abdul ki hi zarurat padegi tujhe fertility clinic ke regular customer
Think about the animals what about dairy products humans consume so cows hv to suffer
Its a good message
A wife is not an object
She fills her husbands life with love and affection
She should be taken care of before anything else
Aise topic b video bnaya aaplogo.❤
Seroiusly kitne asani se 1 min k short video m baatein keh jo ki actually m true situation p lie hoti h
I feel the same... But thinking about me, my body, my career makes me feel guilty that I am just thinking about myself😢
No you should prioritise yourself too.
That’s an understanding hubby there !! So sweet when he says “thank u “
Everyone at home needs to understand this . Life of a mother is also very very important.
Very good way of thinking by husband. 5 stars for being so supportive and understanding 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 a role model for all husbands.
Very nice and good message for society
Aaj se 50 saal pehle bhi aise hi ta hoga?.. or Chuslim?10 bachche
It's important for the child as well to have siblings on time that they can play and spend time with
This video came to me at the right time😊
Thankyou❤
Bilkul sahi bola maam ne❤
Kitne ache chizon ko ache se samjha dete ho
That's the video exactly I was looking for to make someone understand the things..... thanks
I love your couple....so mature
Allhmdullilah.. my husband is very supportive in this matter
Hi. Just today only i was thinking about you both. Bahut din hogaye aap dono ki video nahi dekh paayi. Good to see you both. Thanx for spreading this great message.
it's great for social awareness ❤❤❤
गुड मेसेज है सबके लिए बच्चे होने के बाद एक औरत की लाईफ पूरी बदल जाती है उसकी देखभाल करने में अगर एक ही बच्चा है तो वो बाद में तरसता है अपने भाई-बहन के लिए ये भी सच है !
Bs acha gap ho aur kuch ni
Nice explanation 💗
You guys are fav😍 aapki jodi humesha salamat rahe 🥰may god bless u aadi bhaiya,varsha didi aur apki beti ☺I love to watch your Videos whole day ❤ you look like my aadi bhaiya 🥰
Great video n showing respectful Relationship
Between husband n wife.not like those girls who slap on husband's face while saying anything. ❤
Do bache to hona hi chahiy, I understood ye sab problems aur difficulties hoti hai, but wahi bachche thode bade ho jaate hai to support bhi bahot milta jb tk hamari age badhne lagti tb tk bachche help krne layak ho jaate isliy time p shaadi aur bachcho ka bola gya hai. Jitna late krte health p utna negative impact padta
How lovely to bring Rakhi !! ❤❤
My health suffered a lot, seriously a lot, bombarding with so many health issues, plus postpartum depression, which is still there.. though wanted second one, but afraid to go for another... And had too many issues during pregnancy too, smell n taste issues, acidity, big hunger, gestational diabetes..
Thnk god my husband is soo supportive.... My daughter is 3 n half everyone in family ek bacha Or kr le..... My husband like bacha hmara paida usse krna tumhe kya h.... Jb uska mann hoga kr legi Or agr ni hoga to ni kregi hmari family complete h.... Mere ghar ana h to apni boundaries mai rah kr ao 😂😂😂😂
Jiju ka bhut acha reply tha 😂
Yall are promoting such amazing content guys! Keep it up!!❤🙌🏽
Can't believe that someone could make these videos.. thank you both ❤❤ Love to you ❤❤ your all contents change our minds. Again thank you to add little changes ❤
It's a hypothetical conversation of most women after kids
Really very important topic
Itne saare shorts me ae wala short bahut accha laga❤️❤️ Very nice😊
Life changes dramatically after having a baby but at the same time it is necessary to have children on time, try to keep no more than 3-4 years between the siblings. While you are still energetic and the experience of looking after a baby is still fresh, it’s best to start the process for another child soon. Sooner, the better
Worth sharing😢🎉
Kya sachi me aise husbands real life me exist karte hai 😭😭,those who get husbands like this u r damn damn lucky 🥰
Mery 2 bacchy han .. aur aik recently 36 weeks ka expired hoa ha. But phir bhi i want more ...i like bht sary bacchy . Ye taklif bhi bary ho kr bhol jata ha....🎉
In today's time and in India, two are enough, the country is already loaded with a big population, which is impacting natural resources land and cattle...
Very aptly put ..❤
True yaar.... baby hone ke baad ki life bilkul alag hoti.. sab kuch change ho jata.. na job par jaa sakte na apne man se kuch v kar sakte... never ending responsibility aa jati....
Upar se starting ka 1st year soch kar dar lagta ab 2nd baby plan karne mein.. main raat bhar jaagi hu pure 1 saal... na din mein so paati thi... wo phase mere lie bht jada stressfull tha.. upar se khud ki body loose si faili hue... overweight.. khud par koi kapda acha ni lgta tha... I was so much stressed bcz of these things.
Job par kyu nhi ja sakte ? Ye sab capitalist system aur tumne khud ne banaya hua hai responsibilities baat lo
Madam main or husband bas hm dono hi hai parenting karne ko... ghar se koi aana ni chate sab apne apne kaam mein lage hai...
Husband ki job aisi ni k unhe hybrid tak mile.. unko daily ofc hi jaana parta.. to main apni 1.5 yrs ki beti ko kya apke ghar chor kar job par jau... or rahi baat daycare ki to maaf kare main apni etni choti bachi ko bhar waloon k bharose ni chor sakti.. na eski jarurat hai.. jb bacha ho jae tab gyan pelna..
Batchit itna asan hota life mein toh life kuch beautiful hota
Exactly...eshe sabki soch ho jaye to kya baat...lekin agar esha humare ghar me kaho na kahenge ye sab kya naya naya bahana bana rahi ho...bacche gift hai ishwar ka...ma ko to khushi hoti hai..humne bhi 2-3 bacche paale hai ek ek saath hume to koi dikkat nehi hui etc etc😢😢
Video is golden ❤ but ek siblings kay bich jyda age gap ni hona chya ..😂😂
Wives are never ready to take effort
So correct!!! But imagine our mothers never had a platform to express so such a thought itself was considered sinful 💁🏻♀️
Same situation in my life these days...
Fact....and in laws ka kuch alag hi funda...
Lol. My elder one started taking handling my younger one at age of 5 years and i could comfortably leave them together and go for work. I feel blessed to have timely decided to have 2 children in span of 2.5 years - they always had each other when i went to work. Ofcourse good day care, inlaws or parent support, good house help - any one of them are also great deal helpful but kids need someone their age to grow holistically. Today both are 18 and 16 years and great friends, i have been working for past 15 years . Life is good but be careful ..its never easy. 😉
At least someone is talking about this
Good conversation.
Especially hormonal changes that make it harder
Kurti link please it's beautiful
Btw love your content ❤
Rightt👍👍
Nuclear family me jada problematic ho jata hai bachha palna , pahle joint family me bachhe kaise pal jaate the aram se ... Aur ye jo issue uthaya hai ek dum genuine hai .
Aurat ke life sach me bahut change ho jaati hai bachhe ke baad
Kon se araam se joint family mein.. joint mein mother ki koi nhi sunta...
What if she would say no , what if she doesn't want second one
Kitna conflict ho jata na jab ki karna aur dard sehna use hi hai 😢
Men ka to kya hi hai , ek aur chahie suna dete hai 🤦♀️
True yaar... Mujhe bhi career sacrifice karna pada .... Bada ajeeb lagta h office bahi jati bas saara din ghar ka bacho ka kaam
Abhi same situation meri hai sab pressure daal rahe hai lekin I'm happy because husband mere support me hai😊❤
Very nice good sms for society 🎉
Right👍👍
Yes we have a girl and we decided keep one child. She never feel alone I always play with her
No tamilmomblogger harmed in this video!
A cheery on yop is when we have very less support or sometimes no support from maternal side. Gor a women it becomes nithing less than a nightmare however good the husband n inlaws may be.
Kash esa sab samjh jate😢
Same here ❤
But my advice for all parents is to have atlleast have 2:kids! Siblings are important!
Pta ni mere childhood mein siblings sabse bde kalesh the.... Aaj bhi unse zeada baat ni krti... Or husband ki bhi brother k sath koi bonding nhi.. ulta life issues huye hain
@@nehathamman3621 that's sad! People with MERA KYA or MUJHE KYA MILA/MILEGA attitude, can't enjoy relationships! This is general observation, nothing about you!
Look at South Korea and Japan, no one wants a kid there now, forget about having a child or 2 children? Birthrate is dropping steeply and is less than 1!
Selfish and consumerist attitudes are leading to this trend.
Thank you soo much for this video.... 😢❤ Ye bahut zaruri video hai ... Un sab ke liye jo ek mother par pressure dalate hai ek aur baby ke liye
totally agree 💯
I'm facing the same issue with my husband. He can't understand me.
correct 💯
So proud har maa ko 🙏🙏
This is exactly what i think
Waah ye short meri wife me mujhe send kiya jabki meme usse bola bhi nahi baby ka 😅
Aise mother bolde h yaha log selfish bolenge
Think twice if your parents would say that
Very true ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I've seen reverse cases where wife wants another child and husband is not ready 😂
bhut shi design h mere 2 baby k bad halat bhut khrab hogyi. phle ka jamana alg tha bache ko svi rkhte the or bacha pal jata tha ab esa n hota kaam krne k liy Mai joint family me hu or bacha rkhne k liy Mai nuclear family me change hojati hu
Ha sahi bole sab pahle bhi maa baap yahi sochte ki sirf 1 hi accha hai to aaj he gyan plene ke liye itne subscriber nahi hote na hi india ki itni population 😂😂😂😂
True
The only reason I don't wanna get married
Kitne time wahi same chiz krti rhogi life bhar .. after 30, dimag khraab hona start ho jata hai.. and friends, they all get married and their matter of the day is marriage and kids... Haaan agr koi group ya community join kro to alag baat hai
Nice one
Mere sath ye hi ho rha hai😢
Kashi Muslims Abdul bhi aise hi sochte
Mere bhi dono beto me 8 saal ka fark hai, jab wife mentaly prepare hui
Your videos are very awesome and meaningful but you guys get les views and like why don't you make your team of editing
Try to say No!
There should be two kids, the one child policy which China creates takes phycology toll on your child. They understand it after 50 years.
Very good impressive ❤❤❤
Ye baat her kisi ko smjh aate kaha h 😢
Your body doesn’t cooperate if you wait too long.
So truee
Males can never say, yes not only you but i will also take responsibilities,
Males could take responsibilities for house chores so mother can have quality time with baby.
But noooo, they will never come up for help
Mera husband 4 se 5 Sal wait ki he 2nd baby ke liye.....
Apni thodi sey aaram key liye parents apne bache ko isolate kar dete hain, single child 90% life mein depression mein jayega hi, 2 ya 3 bache jada extrover aur smart hote hian, socialize ache tarike se karte hain. sabse zaroori jab life mein kabhi koi mushkil ati hai to single child single hota hain koi sahara nahin hota. I am a single one I know it how much I wanted a brother or sister.
Galat, hum log teen behn Bhai the.. sbse zeada depression mujhe hai..
@@nehathamman3621 agar aap akele hote toh shayad hote hi na. log kute bhi 2 palte hain ke unko company mile, ekela kuch sikhta nahin hai, agar aap 3 bhai they toh iska matlab nahin ke 3 bhai ho toh depression hota hai. 1 chil ka toh pakka hota hai depression mein jana, apka koi aur karan hoga.
@@parinda1001 zeada Karan wo dono hai depression kaa.
@@parinda1001 pr jese aapko lgta hai ki siblings hote hain to bdia hota hai... Haan parents ki responsibility bat jati hai.. pr mere case mein sb mere pe hai. Bht kam sister pr. Bhai ka kuch nhi... Actually it depends ki siblings kese hain... Hubby k case mein saamne wala zeada selfish hai, uski wjh se bht dikkat Hui mujhe .
Sahi kaha hai
But wtf are men getting offended lol!! 😋 How insecure!
If I say it's blessing, then why r u avoiding
Let's blessings come
And yet many husbands dont understand this
No problem u can sacrifice anything for kids.