HSV 1 Does Not Mean You Have Oral Herpes

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  • In this video, Alexandra Harbushka from Life With Herpes shares the misunderstandings of HSV 1 and how people automatically think it's oral herpes.
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    Here’s the deal. I’m going over this so that you can have more information and use this to educate your partners or give you answers to your diagnosis. It really doesn’t matter what type you have nor does it matter where you have it. Yes there's a HUGE stigma about having geniatl herpes but at the end of the day it’s herpes.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 233

  • @nleem3361
    @nleem3361 Рік тому +63

    Thank you. My sister is a nurse and said 90% of people have hsv1, so her clinic doesn't even test for it unless someone ask... I didn't have an outbreak, but my doc just tested me for sti's and that came back positive. I was totally freaking out until I did some research and talked to my sister and now your UA-cam video... thank you again.

    • @flock9487
      @flock9487 7 місяців тому +6

      Same shit just happened to me, I’ve been getting cold sores since a child but when I seen the hsv1 come back I was distraught but I think I’m okay

    • @ozzymarley1010
      @ozzymarley1010 4 місяці тому

      ​@@flock9487cold sores = oral herpes

    • @juanzamarripa3778
      @juanzamarripa3778 3 місяці тому +2

      @@flock9487you’re 100% ok. I have HsV-1 too. Had cold sores maybe 3 times like years ago. Haven’t had one since. Has never affected my life at all in any way.

    • @RNL-kg1zb
      @RNL-kg1zb Місяць тому +2

      I’ve never had a cold blister in my life but Dr. say HSV 1 positive

  • @ACAPREDDUDE
    @ACAPREDDUDE Рік тому +13

    6:12 "The good news is it's SUPER COMMON.".... Very well presented, in depth, and informative presentation! For years I've questioned the svererity of both, but am so much more relieved, as a Gen X'er, knowing I have the very mildest symptoms: small lesions that only appear every blue moon😊😇

  • @flashhwebb3075
    @flashhwebb3075 3 роки тому +9

    THANKYOU SO MUCH QUEEN

  • @sherrymengel2054
    @sherrymengel2054 2 роки тому +10

    Great info.. 🙏

  • @empressande4603
    @empressande4603 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video 💜

  • @CAmom75
    @CAmom75 Рік тому +7

    Ya.... Have always had mild cold sores on my tongue. Have a current partner who is VERY efficient. So after dealing with lots of stress because of my divorce, I came down with a horrible outbreak. Bad sores both orally and genitally, fever, swollen lymph nodes, fatigue, whole package. 😕

  • @codyb5327
    @codyb5327 3 роки тому +55

    Hey guys your not alone I have an outbreak right now, everyone who says they don’t have it.........think about how likely it is they’ve never been tested, all the partners they’ve had and just because they show no signs they think there good. Then think about the percentage of people they know have it, and then think about how that number might be dwarfed by all the untested people. I don’t think I know anybody that’s been tested.

    • @TNT31414
      @TNT31414 3 місяці тому +1

      Even if they get tested they may have it. Drs don’t usually test for hsv

  • @eriksterling5070
    @eriksterling5070 3 роки тому +29

    2:21 that's the she starts REAL talk, your welcome.

  • @aliveandawake9093
    @aliveandawake9093 4 роки тому +19

    God bless you 🌸🌸Stay strong and continue to overcome

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  4 роки тому +2

      Thank you my friend!

    • @aliveandawake9093
      @aliveandawake9093 3 роки тому +1

      @@lifewithherpes you're welcome. I am so sad right now. I lost my boyfriend. I feel so lost and helpless and totally confused. This herpes thing seems so insignificant now. Sometimes, things happen and it looks like the end of the world but what in the world is more important than LIFE? 😭☹️

    • @joeduran5834
      @joeduran5834 2 роки тому +1

      Same soo sad and depressed I just found out I have it ...I feel like it's the end of the world

    • @shikhatozsumi5475
      @shikhatozsumi5475 2 місяці тому

      It's same problem I have lots of depression....I lost my GF and now I'm alone it's seems like the world is end for me😭🙈🤯🦠💀

  • @masterskater256
    @masterskater256 2 роки тому +5

    Ty for ur answer if u decide to answer

  • @user-sh8jo1jz2t
    @user-sh8jo1jz2t 3 роки тому +9

    Why everyone typing the same thing

  • @soxivicious2913
    @soxivicious2913 6 місяців тому +2

    I tested positive today but i have never had a outbreak my test came back 41.30

  • @house_of_stars_3578
    @house_of_stars_3578 Рік тому +8

    I'm. 48 and since the age of 27 I always had it on my leg. It was a shock but I started to learn to live with it and since years taking loads of lysine always did wonders, preventative and during the outbreak. I was always super happy I didn't have it in my face! Now all of a sudden I have all these spots around my mouth and am freaking out!

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому +2

      We'd really suggest you to get tested and see what it is.

  • @zigzag5085
    @zigzag5085 3 роки тому +10

    I girlfriend has type one i don't have non yet how common is it to get it from her? Also how common is it for her to give it to my genitals? Please i need help I don't want to leave her because of this I really love her but I'm scared and once you catch genital is it forever

  • @sgt.puddingslaps
    @sgt.puddingslaps 2 роки тому +17

    Good diet and exercise plus taking vitamins have reduced the frequency so much that I almost don’t get them at all anymore, however I I do still get them about a once a year sometimes a bit more

  • @andrewwuebker9472
    @andrewwuebker9472 4 роки тому +4

    So help me understand this. So where are you going to breakout if you do again??

  • @LordDirus007
    @LordDirus007 7 днів тому

    I have HSV 1 and never had a cold sore in my Life. Apparently like 67% of people have it. Its like HPV, like 80% of people get that. But you hear Genital Herpes and Genital Warts and people freak out.

  • @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps
    @HIVPositiveDatingSitesApps 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks for sharing....

  • @Madanth0ny
    @Madanth0ny Рік тому +5

    Yea a
    Lot of people have it or come into contact but not everyone gets an outbreak it’s very low percentage that have outbreaks you should say that

  • @disciple4tray
    @disciple4tray 2 роки тому +28

    What's your thoughts on false positives

  • @babymamareads
    @babymamareads 3 роки тому +53

    I’m a little confused🥺 Yesterday I found out I tested positive for HSV-1 but not HSV-2. So does that mean I got it most likely from kissing someone? And is there any way to pin point who we got it from? I had sex with someone new 3 weeks ago and went and got tested 2 weeks after the sex. Can it even show up that soon if I got it from THAT person? I do remember my baby’s father had a cold sore on his lip but that was a year ago and I joked about herpes and he got kinda mad and said he just get the cold sores when it’s cold. So now I’m thinking could I’ve gotten it from HIM a year ago or maybe I’ve had it for a long time and actually maybe gave it to him

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +26

      HSV1 can be both oral (cold sores) or genital herpes. There's no way of knowing where exactly you got it from, unless all people you've ever kissed or had sex with, would test negative, but one.
      Herpes can stay dormant in your body for years.

    • @socialnetwork2348
      @socialnetwork2348 3 роки тому +10

      I also got hsv 1

    • @hakimmihoubi8544
      @hakimmihoubi8544 2 роки тому +15

      you probably had it before, i’ve had it since i was a child it can be passed just by drinking from a cup, but hsv 1 is normal it’s just a light scab on your upper lip

    • @johnq283
      @johnq283 2 роки тому +6

      When you get tested you have to wait 6 to 8 weeks to get full results. Just giving you the heads up

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому +2

      Yes, that's correct. Many people are asymptomatic, so that's the estimation, because many just don't know unless they get tested

  • @UewsSMF
    @UewsSMF Рік тому

    Your take on treatment with BX-795? Thank you.

  • @sc9433
    @sc9433 Рік тому +5

    My hsv-1 outbreak gave me a really bad eyes infections, with no cold sores and no blisters.
    Its really weird because i got nothing on orals

    • @besmart2350
      @besmart2350 Рік тому +1

      How’s your eyes and health now?

    • @sc9433
      @sc9433 Рік тому

      ​​​@@besmart2350 my eyes are fine now, but my optic nerves is permanently inflamed causing dry eyes due to the virus. If i overstrain my body the inflammations gets worse. If im well rested, my healthy body immune systems will keep the virus in check with less dry eyes.

  • @1BluvfreshBeats
    @1BluvfreshBeats Місяць тому +1

    I was falsely diagnosed with hsv 1 and 2 but after comphensive testing it was determined a poor treatment from a tooth extraction triggered a series of events in my body but nevertheless I don't have it but I'm here to help In any way I can I'm not troll or a bot I'm real life person

  • @keshanikavithma2001
    @keshanikavithma2001 5 місяців тому

    Why are there 2 bumps by the side of my tongue . It’s painless and I just saw it once I tried to brush my teeth

  • @eddiedeals713
    @eddiedeals713 3 роки тому +7

    Do you get Constipated?

  • @jaspreetnandra
    @jaspreetnandra Рік тому

    Alexandra - you Goddess!!

  • @agnesmogar7323
    @agnesmogar7323 4 роки тому +2

    ang HSV 1 or Herpes 1 ay nakakahawa po bang sakit?

  • @Nixkrude79
    @Nixkrude79 Рік тому +3

    I done kissed somebody who had oral herpes two days later I got a little painless bump near my lip I went to the clinic and got tested everything came back negative but now I got sores at the corners of my lips they prescribed me with the meds but I stopped taking them cause they made me feel nauseated I need help I don't wanna think I have it but it just keeps bothering me

  • @anelya2630
    @anelya2630 Рік тому +1

    I have genital herpes HSV-1. have there been cases in which people have been completely cured of genital herpes hsv-1? I've read stories when people were cured of herpes, but I don't think anyone had genital

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому +2

      Honestly, we have not met anybody. There are a lot of scammers there, claiming to have a cure for herpes, but they mostly preying to people's vulnerability and want to get easy money.

  • @BushyHairedStranger
    @BushyHairedStranger Рік тому

    So HSV 1&2 exist in the Nerve Ganglia correct? Stress can “ignite” an outbreak correct? So is there any cure for HSV? Do Retrovirals help with HSV?

    • @geneviasims7617
      @geneviasims7617 Рік тому

      No cure yet but theyre close to a vaccine; testing on mice and guinea pigs hve shown great results....

  • @TheRichieFan
    @TheRichieFan 2 роки тому +26

    I've been stressing because I think I have oral herpes after going down on a guy and I got tested for gonorrhea, chlamydia but my doctor doesn't want to test me for herpes. I currently have sores not on my lips but close to them and I've been stressing because it's gonna affect my intimate life

    • @josegarza7719
      @josegarza7719 2 роки тому +5

      Usually herpes can’t be tested until 7-14 days of infection. If you have sores that are spreading tell that to a doctor to get an std test of everything under the sun. If you test positive you have to own it and adjust accordingly. Good luck

    • @TheRichieFan
      @TheRichieFan 2 роки тому +2

      @@josegarza7719 yeah I got tested for everything and it came back negative. I have an appointment next week and gonna just ask if I can get tested to see what type of herpes I have. Sadly I know I am gonna have to adjust to it.

    • @ZuuLkDZN
      @ZuuLkDZN 2 роки тому

      @@TheRichieFan update?

    • @nauxsi
      @nauxsi 2 роки тому +3

      Stress won't help. It will mean you get recurrences. The goal is to not have them often. So little that you get on with life.
      So just be in a good place mentally.

    • @TheRichieFan
      @TheRichieFan 2 роки тому

      @@ZuuLkDZN The test came back negative. But I recently got a another cold sore so I'm sure I have hsv just don't know if 1 or 2 yet

  • @user-gc9fi4yw7b
    @user-gc9fi4yw7b 5 місяців тому +1

    I recently got contacted with it from someone

  • @xobelieveox3116
    @xobelieveox3116 2 роки тому +24

    I feel like shit absolute shit. My partner had a cold sore on they lip that was in the process of coming on , I didn’t even know they had this going on but they gave me oral sex and didn’t tell me now I have hsv1 on my genitals 🤦🏾‍♀️ this hurts really bad and makes me feel disgusting. I work in the medical field so when I felt what I felt and saw what I saw I immediately knew what it was and went off on him cause it got bigger on his lip and that day I asked him to take me to get tested was the day I seen he was trying to hid it saying he didn’t know it would effect me. I’m embarrassed and in pain 💔

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому +6

      So sorry you are going through that. I hope you two were able to talk in through. Let us know how can we support you.

    • @loubinggg8402
      @loubinggg8402 2 роки тому +1

      How long after exposure did you get it

    • @kristyc1046
      @kristyc1046 7 місяців тому

      @@loubinggg8402 Nurse here can tell you, you get it immediately, but symptoms are 2-10 days for 1st outbreak

    • @TNT31414
      @TNT31414 3 місяці тому

      Men suck! They only think about themselves.😢

    • @Mariacarline1986
      @Mariacarline1986 3 місяці тому

      I have hsv1 and I feel it's affecting my genital not sure abt orally

  • @Rzagski
    @Rzagski 2 роки тому +1

    I have loaded complex question. Is it possible that someone could have been exposed years before having symptoms. I’ve heard the virus lies latent in the trigeminal nerves. Could migraines induce symptoms ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому +1

      Yes, it is possible. Look at what could be a trigger for it.

  • @Josh-xn9zw
    @Josh-xn9zw 2 роки тому

    I understand that's you can get hsv2 from oral but it's considered rare though correct?

  • @suwaynesmith1674
    @suwaynesmith1674 3 роки тому +9

    What if your diagnosis with type 1 but has no symptoms or break outs

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +2

      Many people are asymptomatic, meaning the herpes is staying dormant in their systems.

    • @normareynolds3260
      @normareynolds3260 3 роки тому

      @@lifewithherpes It seems like the discourse on antiviral meds addresses outbreaks. Should/can asymptomatic people take antiviral meds indefinitely? It’s hard to find recommended medication dosages and frequency for asymptomatic folks, for either strain.

    • @drankyodrank
      @drankyodrank 3 роки тому +4

      @@lifewithherpes it’s not dormant, your immune system controls it like chickenpox. Latency theory was proven false. The virus is constantly trying to replicate but many ppl have immune systems that can handle it.

    • @carbonbomb4774
      @carbonbomb4774 2 роки тому

      @@drankyodrank actually your immune system can't handle it because it never goes away, your immune nows how to heal outbreaks but it can't stop them for occurring.

    • @rajanvohra453
      @rajanvohra453 Рік тому

      @@lifewithherpes if it’s dooramnt is it still transmitted

  • @socialnetwork2348
    @socialnetwork2348 3 роки тому +5

    I am getting pain I have mouth ulcers I am hsv 1 positive 🥺

  • @user-hs5rd5yd2e
    @user-hs5rd5yd2e 10 місяців тому +2

    If you’ve only had outbreaks on your genitals and never orally but your test shows that you have both type 1 and 2, does that generally means you also have it orally and not just on your genitals ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  10 місяців тому +1

      We don't know. The only way you'd known, is to get a swab test when you get an outbreak. The test would show you which type is causing an outbreak. However, that's probably a lot of testing. Just assume you have both types genitally, if you never had an outbreak elsewhere.

    • @user-hs5rd5yd2e
      @user-hs5rd5yd2e 10 місяців тому

      @@lifewithherpes Thanks for your response.

  • @uomo5909
    @uomo5909 Рік тому +6

    It's nearly impossible to avoid oral herpes. If you wear a mask your entire life and you do not kiss, touch or speak too closely to someone you might have a chance of not getting it. It's good to know when you have it because you should take precations when practicing oral sex to someone. You can use some meds to supress the virus and be able to enjoy oral sex too. I tested positive for HSV1, with no sympthoms at all. There is no need to worry too much about HSV1 or HSV2.
    Great video

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 4 місяці тому +1

      You can get it even from sharing a towel. You don't even have to kiss anyone.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 7 днів тому

      Exactly, 67% of people on earth have it. It's a non issue. HSV2 is the one that people freak out about.

  • @pabloescobar4029
    @pabloescobar4029 2 роки тому +6

    What are the chances of contracting genital hsv1 if you receive oral sex in an early stage of a cold sore?

    • @Arianacccosta
      @Arianacccosta Рік тому

      I got it from oral sex. I just had one shot with my ex bf, then I just caught it within a week. That quick

    • @Angrymobs62
      @Angrymobs62 Рік тому

      What are the chances of transmitting genital or oral hsv when you never have outbreaks?

  • @erica6868
    @erica6868 3 роки тому +13

    Quote Hsv1 and Hsv2 is the exact same thing. Just slightly different/ different strands.Ummmmm HELLO they are not the same thing!

    • @Magdalena-ct1hi
      @Magdalena-ct1hi 2 роки тому +1

      They are! They can both be passed orally and genitally. If you have HSV1 You're just unlikely to transmit it to someone already having cold sores because they already have antibodies and their immune system knows how to eradicate the virus. your welcome ;)

    • @Jay-fz6vb
      @Jay-fz6vb 3 місяці тому

      They are the same. They both cause blisters. The blisters go away and reappear. Type one can end up on your genitals and cause severe outbreaks. You take the SAME medication to heal the outbreaks for both types.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 7 днів тому

      They kinda of are the same. It's just that certain people are more sensitive than others. Honestly I really don't care about Herpes. I have HSV 1, never had a cold sore. It isn't something that I personally worry about.

  • @livingchilling2217
    @livingchilling2217 3 роки тому +8

    Hello!
    I smoked from a bong (hooka) with 3 other guys, I know it was stupid cuz I didn't know them, but now I'm concerned if I could get herpes from smoking from a bong, you know I put my lips in the bong where 3 strangers put their lips too now I'm worrying about contracting oral herpes... is it that easy to get it like that from other people? Even if they didn't have any cold sores or blemishes? I also didn't have any cuts or nothing on my lips but im afraid that if any of them have had herpes in the past but they don't have any cold sores or nothing now i could still get it if they left a little saliva in the mouth piece and i touch it with my lips, Or does it needs to be a lot of saliva from the infected person for me to get it? , is it enough just to touch with my lips the mouth piece to get it? Thanks?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +3

      If one or more or them actually did have herpes and were just shedding (please see viral shedding), you can catch it the way you described. But the chances are low and you don't even know if they have herpes, it seems.

    • @livingchilling2217
      @livingchilling2217 3 роки тому +2

      @@lifewithherpes thanks for the answer+! 🙏
      You are right, idk if any of them actually had any herpes , im just assuming what if they have it? Then I started overthinking on the possibility of me catching it and transmit it to my wife , kinda feel bad because I feel im labeling them and who knows if im the one who passed it to them 🤷‍♂️ but since I've never ever have had a breakout in my 34 years of life, I'm assuming I have nothing, but now i know it could be diferent...they might not be thinking the same about me, or panicking about them sharing the mouthpiece bong with me, they 3 are friends and I was the strager⁰...( also since I've had more than one GF in the past and my wife obviously has a past, ive also shared drinks or a straw in the past, i imagine the same with my wife, im thinking I might have the Virus but never ever had a breakout 🤔)
      This topic is kinda confusing when talking about transmission, I thought that if I didn't see any cold sores in the mouth of the person im sharing with, there wasn't going to be any problem, but apparently there is! I guess i just got me another fobia, about sharing anything that touches my mouth..
      I might be overthinking tho!
      I will endup getting a blood test and see what are the results, you are the 3rd youtuber (I asked two doctors) that knows about this topic to tell me I shouldn't be worry about, that there was a risk but really really low.
      Thanks for your answer, let me know if you think anything else about what i just share with you! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @heartsrlovable
      @heartsrlovable 2 роки тому +1

      @@livingchilling2217 I overthink a lot too but the best thing to do it at least give 2 weeks and go get a blood specified test for both types of herpes. I would inform the doc you shared something with three other people a couple weeks and want to be sure

  • @adrienneharmon5365
    @adrienneharmon5365 Рік тому

    I get blood work tmrrw I’m paranoid it was dormant in my body or something I have no STDs or STIs but my boyfriend got a fever after we had sex

  • @allierey255
    @allierey255 Рік тому

    I get cold sores but never tested positive what?? What does that mean

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      That's interesting. Maybe this helps.
      ua-cam.com/video/JOML_HliAtE/v-deo.html

  • @tyrickarchia7650
    @tyrickarchia7650 3 роки тому +3

    I have hsv-1 but it's on my stomach. No cold sores on or lesion in my mouth. If it's not active can I give oral sex? My first outbreak was only one. I'm just confused

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому

      Herpes is transmitted with skin to skin contact, so this will make it easier for you to avoid that area where herpes is located for you. Just remember, there's always viral shedding and you can always transmit it to a person even without an outbreak. www.lifewithherpes.com/blog/17774-herpes-and-viral-shedding

  • @Marialeovenus
    @Marialeovenus 3 роки тому +13

    Should someone with HSV-1 genitally take antivirals on a consistent basis?? Thank you

    • @carbonbomb4774
      @carbonbomb4774 2 роки тому +3

      You can get a treatment, so if you tested high for antibodies for the hsv1 strain, you can get prescribed medication over the internet that will suppressive the virus for a good time. I think they treat you for 1 year, and you take a daily pill. After a year they stop the therapy. The therapy is to help dormant the virus if you are experiencing outbreaks frequently.

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 7 днів тому

      No, unless you are having constant outbreaks it's a non issue. 67% of people have it. It is a non issue

  • @willdrew9524
    @willdrew9524 3 роки тому +13

    So if you kiss someone on the jaw cheek that can give that person HSV 1??

  • @alicia2931
    @alicia2931 Рік тому

    Hsv 1 has affected my eye area and eyelids

  • @karanpatel1346
    @karanpatel1346 6 днів тому

    Can childhood chickenpox infection be a reason for HSV1 IgG test postive ?

  • @iamagrasshopper1920
    @iamagrasshopper1920 2 роки тому +3

    I have a question can herpes 1 be spread if someone gives you raspberries on your shoulder
    I’m not joking Im genuine on asking this.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому

      Technically, there has to be a cut on your skin and the person should have an active outbreak (or shedding the virus). S, yes, it's possible, but probably not very likely

    • @iamagrasshopper1920
      @iamagrasshopper1920 2 роки тому

      @@lifewithherpes thank you so much for replying back Alexandra ♥️
      I have one more question
      The virus spreads even if if there is not an outbreak? Or it can only spread if there is an outbreak

    • @ohyeahjt
      @ohyeahjt 2 роки тому

      @@iamagrasshopper1920 the virus can spread if it’s active, but just because it’s active doesn’t mean there’s an outbreak. Just be safe and inform partners and be safe and there’s no issue :)

  • @Bryanisabela79
    @Bryanisabela79 3 роки тому +3

    love

  • @sweeting6075
    @sweeting6075 3 роки тому +6

    I have a question. My partner just found out he has antibodies for HSV-1 today and we had oral sex three days ago. Is it possible that I have genital herpes? When should I be getting tested?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +2

      The test would usually show positive after 4-6 weeks, but it could take up to 6 months. Unless you'd get an OB before, of course

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      Outbreak

  • @follytalksbigboss
    @follytalksbigboss 3 роки тому +4

    The nurse said you can not transmit hsv1 to the private area by oral sex only by oral contact drinking smoking eating etc

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +2

      Not sure I understand. Isn't 'oral sex' a way of 'oral contact'?

    • @follytalksbigboss
      @follytalksbigboss 3 роки тому +1

      @@lifewithherpes kissing and etc but not by giving or receiving oral from someone with hsv1

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +1

      HSV1 can be genital herpes as well. And you can definitely get it from oral sex. Herpes is transmitted with skin to skin contact, so if someone has genital herpes and you would perform oral sex on them, you are at risk of getting it.

    • @follytalksbigboss
      @follytalksbigboss 3 роки тому +3

      @@lifewithherpes hsv1 is a cole sore hsv2 is genital herpes so I’m not sure where u getting this info but a registered nurse told me this info

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +1

      HSV-1 is mainly transmitted by oral-to-oral contact to cause oral herpes (which can include symptoms known as “cold sores”), but can also cause genital herpes.
      See info on WHO. www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/herpes-simplex-virus

  • @jmichelraj1154
    @jmichelraj1154 Рік тому

    Hi Alexandra pls pls help me pls pls pls I got married only hsv2 girl so preferd for ur country girl pls I'm also good boy why not help me pls help me

  • @loracrumpton1027
    @loracrumpton1027 3 роки тому +15

    This isn't a video to freaking click bait people. Thanks

  • @kaleminer1457
    @kaleminer1457 Рік тому

    Can I get a false positive test result due to another infection? Such a Covid

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      No.

    • @kaleminer1457
      @kaleminer1457 Рік тому

      @@lifewithherpes I’ve only had 1 sexual partner my whole life which is my wife she testing negative for herpes type 1 and my parents are negative as well and I tested positive what could be the reason ? I was recently sick with Covid and have really bad allergies I was just hoping it was a false positive but Tht can never be the case ?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      So, you can try Western blot test. Especially if your values were really low, you can see if you really have it with this test. It's the most accurate, but your insurance won't usually cover it.
      Also, it is possible you got it from kissing somebody else, or an aunt with HSV kissed you when you were a kid, or something silly like that. You can potentially get it from drinking after someone with it, or small things like that. It is a very common virus.

  • @mallikarjunareddy6122
    @mallikarjunareddy6122 3 роки тому +5

    Hsv 1+2 IgG positive means oral or gentle

    • @LordDirus007
      @LordDirus007 7 днів тому

      Neither, one or both. A lot of people are Asymptomatic. I have HSV 1, but never had an "Outbreak"

  • @sinfulbeliever7083
    @sinfulbeliever7083 Рік тому

    So after getting outbreaks with genital herpes, can you still get it outbreaks orally?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому +1

      Once you have the antibodies, no. But you can infect yourself with another type. If you now have hsv2, you can still get hsv1. Some place or another

    • @sinfulbeliever7083
      @sinfulbeliever7083 Рік тому

      @@lifewithherpes I have both strains genitally. Just curious if I can pass it on kissing.

    • @tatianasantiago3296
      @tatianasantiago3296 Місяць тому

      @@lifewithherpesI had hsv2 now I tested for hsv1 I never had a synth on in my mouth

  • @pedro75392
    @pedro75392 3 роки тому +15

    Does hepersyl cures it..

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  3 роки тому +3

      Sadly, there's no cure at the moment and there are a lot of gimmicks out there, claiming they can cure herpes.
      You can surely control your outbreaks with diet, stress, sleep, supplements and antivirals, but it never disappears. The best you can do - and it does happen to some people- they would lower their antibodies to the point where herpes is not detectable anymore, but sadly, it doesn't mean it's gone. It stays in your body for life. 🤷

  • @RealOne-gg8hn
    @RealOne-gg8hn 4 місяці тому

    Im really scared i havent had sex in almost three years im celiabte but super scared the last guy i kissed was 18 days ago but tested 2 years ago came back negative so not sure if he gave it to me or sometime in that 2year span we didn't do anything else i was wasted like an idiot but just did blood work 2 days ago and tested negative for everything but herpes 1 i have no symtoms i am just so depressed and fill like i don't want to live anymore plz help

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  4 місяці тому

      If you were both negative in the beginning, and did not come in contact with the virus in that time, you could not have gotten it.

  • @pajamacladangel9920
    @pajamacladangel9920 Рік тому

    I found this out the hard way when I was 18. 13 years ago…

    • @Cobra-gl7or
      @Cobra-gl7or Рік тому

      Back in 2008 your life change forever! So sorry to hear that.

    • @shaylahawkins5677
      @shaylahawkins5677 2 місяці тому

      Do you take lysine daily? Or both that and monolaurin?

  • @mothdust7752
    @mothdust7752 Рік тому

    What to do when diagnosed ?
    What precaution do I take for my family ?
    Thank u
    Just strain 1 oral but ovb u said both so either way I just want to know

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому +1

      Please see here ua-cam.com/video/HTowdN0Ht3w/v-deo.html

  • @JNYC212
    @JNYC212 2 роки тому +14

    I wonder why there is SOOOOO much contradictory when it comes to this? How and why if its been around so LONG is it still extremely CONFUSING. If there are slight differences than they are different. Oral is most likely confirming 1 and gential is 2. SMH! Over all you still have it and I think since the medical field has made it seem so WHATEVEE, ppl actually pass it to each other telling themselves, its no big deal EVERYONE has it. Not a reason to not tell someone or be irresponsible 🙄

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly. I just got my first cold sore this past weekend. Went to the dr. And they have no fkn clue the pathology of this viscous virus. They just say. Everyone has it. Wtf?!

    • @JNYC212
      @JNYC212 2 роки тому +2

      @@Peace2dagawdz I think the medical field in this aspect is a complete fail when it comes to this particular virus. Its not easy to deal with because I know ppl who have it (women) and it seem extremely stressful, painful and damaging on self esteem, on the mind & the body. As a whole we should do better. I wish you luck!!!

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 2 роки тому +1

      The fact that it can kill you makes it absurd that cdc doesnt even want to test it because it might be stressful they say

    • @roberta.k4213
      @roberta.k4213 Рік тому

      You’re all wrong, sexual practices such as oral sex have become far more common, hence HSV1 has migrated to the genital regions. She didn’t explain it very well, it didn’t just magically migrate, it was due to oral sex.

  • @mosesmessiah9098
    @mosesmessiah9098 Рік тому +2

    When does the first outbreak occur?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому +1

      Usually within 14 days. But it could be weeks, months even years - or never. Some people get infected, but never get outbreaks.

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Місяць тому

    I came in contact with it as a middle schooler

  • @jdcarmona33
    @jdcarmona33 Місяць тому

    If u contract hsv1 and u take antiviral medicine early on, can the medicine prevent your body from producing hsv1 antibodies

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Місяць тому

      No, sadly it doesn't work that way

    • @jdcarmona33
      @jdcarmona33 Місяць тому

      @lifewithherpes so even if u contract it and u take medicine. 4 months later the antibodies will show up in a blood test?

  • @jasminkhatun17
    @jasminkhatun17 12 днів тому

    I have genital herpes is it curable ? Can i spreed this with touching or kissing someone? Please reply i am very scared of this . hsv 1 positive

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  10 днів тому

      It is not curable.
      No, you cannot spread it through kissing or touching, if you have genital herpes.

  • @lobabyjinxx
    @lobabyjinxx 3 роки тому +12

    Can you Transmit HSV 1 by kissing someone with no outbreaks?

    • @isaacnewton1545
      @isaacnewton1545 3 роки тому +10

      Yes. I got it last week from girl who didn't have outbreak that time

    • @Peace2dagawdz
      @Peace2dagawdz 2 роки тому +2

      @@isaacnewton1545 hyd. That's fkd up.

  • @PLana-9459
    @PLana-9459 Місяць тому +1

    There's no good news about having herpes!

  • @tincou7694
    @tincou7694 Рік тому

    Do people even have that conversation about HSV 1 that manifests only orally?

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      If you perform oral sёx on somebody, they can get genital hsv1, so yes, you should disclose.

    • @tincou7694
      @tincou7694 Рік тому

  • @DanielaRojano
    @DanielaRojano 2 роки тому +2

    *Is HSV1/2 cancerous?*

    • @DanielaRojano
      @DanielaRojano 2 роки тому

      *I have HSV1 & a day before the results I gave oral, is it a high chance they can get it? Women to male perspective, I hope not*

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому

      About 4%, if you didn't of course has an active cold sore.

  • @micaray7662
    @micaray7662 4 роки тому +13

    If I get cold sores and one day I would like to have a family. Will I not be able to kiss my baby?

    • @radiant2052
      @radiant2052 4 роки тому +8

      I have the same concerns! I think it is best to avoid kissing infants (their weak immune systems can't handle the virus and they could die from infection) and to avoid kissing older babies on the lips.

    • @survivingtherionmitchell
      @survivingtherionmitchell 2 роки тому

      I would not. You can transmit it even without having an outbreak

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому

      Please see this short clip. ua-cam.com/video/0iL2Ap9GCLc/v-deo.html

  • @masterskater256
    @masterskater256 2 роки тому

    I do have a question
    My cousins wife’s younger sister has type 2 but a cold sore was present last yr
    She got her tested and she was positive
    Now to my question there was a mix up with a 🪥 that she use which was mines.
    I used it once when the situation was spoken about
    We all knew to watch our stuff because she is bipolar and she taking schizophrenic meds
    So it was by accident that she use my toothbrush
    But with that history that happened a few days ago
    Should i be worried she didn’t have sore or nothing 🤷‍♂️

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому +1

      If you have brushed your teeth in a short time after she has been using it, it's possible, however, not very likely.

    • @masterskater256
      @masterskater256 2 роки тому

      @@lifewithherpes yea she def didn’t have an open sore but yea I appreciate ur answer thank you

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 2 роки тому

      The mental issues could be from herpes. If it effects the brain, could be life threatening

    • @RandomGuy-dn1by
      @RandomGuy-dn1by Рік тому

      @@lifewithherpes Excuse me I'm embarrassed to say this but I gave oral sex 5 days ago to a woman and now I contracted herpes on my lips ☹️ will it go away on its own? This is my first time experience something like this.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      The outbreak will go away on it's own. You can use different products or medicine.
      Of course, you will probably get more outbreaks through the years.

  • @MikeL0084
    @MikeL0084 7 місяців тому

    In your opinion how likely is it to have contracted HSV2 during one five minute sexual encounter? Thank you.

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  6 місяців тому +1

      If the person had an active outbreak, then very likely. If not, then the chances are about 1-5% in general. The amount of time doesn't really play a role.

  • @janeaddison413
    @janeaddison413 3 роки тому +5

    🌱🌱

  • @NN-ho2so
    @NN-ho2so Рік тому

    …razors…

  • @Rich-yj4ub
    @Rich-yj4ub 8 місяців тому +1

    Hv1 or 2... it's still highly contagious. Enough said. 🤢🤮

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 4 місяці тому +3

      If you have no hsv 1, you probably a monk or have no friends.

  • @heartsrlovable
    @heartsrlovable 2 роки тому +3

    So, i had bloodwork done and the lady that called and told me i have hsv1 oral herpes of the mouth and she pretty much told me to.google it. The reason i went to the doc if because i have been having bumps all over down there and it would not go away and was painful itchy and some look like white heads but idk if its genital herpes :( i havent had sex with another person over three years. I call my doc office for a call back and they were suppose to call within 72 hrs and its been over five days. It just stressful not knowing if its genital herpes

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  2 роки тому +1

      Hi, so sorry to hear that.
      If you have active sores, we'd suggest you to ask for a swab test. That's how you will see if what you're experiencing is genital herpes. However, if they're already drying up, the test would most likely come back negative.
      Otherwise, hsv1 can be genital herpes. It's not uncommon, but it is usually referred to as oral herpes, which can be confusing.

    • @heartsrlovable
      @heartsrlovable 2 роки тому

      @@lifewithherpes I ended up going to my gynecologist today and she said it definitely is not herpes down there I havent been experiencing any bumps other than my pubic area and hasn't been painful to sit down she said it is folliculitis which is self inflicted on my part. This make more sense since i havent had sex with anyone to have a breakout down there i know it could happen years later but i do get cold sores around the mouth or inside my mouth like i have a little bump under my lip and one near my wisdom in the back which could be the oral herpes

  • @annyakamel
    @annyakamel Рік тому

    Is hsv1 in the genital area life threatening if it goes untreated? Or is it just painful and that is all to it?
    This has been a question I have had for so long hope you can help! Thanks🤍

    • @lifewithherpes
      @lifewithherpes  Рік тому

      No, herpes is not lifethreatening. You can manage it without medication, it may just take longer to heal. However, there are many people that do not use antivirals. Your body is totally capable of dealing with it on its own.