How to Make The Greatest Comeback of Your Life

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  • Опубліковано 22 жов 2024

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  • @simonalexandero
    @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +6

    What "failure" do you cherish the most and why?

    • @simonesilvame
      @simonesilvame 5 місяців тому +5

      My past is everything I've failed to be. 🙏

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      @@simonesilvame 👏👏👏

    • @macoveiper
      @macoveiper 5 місяців тому +1

      The fact that for a big part of my life I ignored my passion for being an artist, making music and being a dj, when I found myself in the hospital bed 2 years ago I promised myself I will, no matter what I will follow my passion. I failed myself the moment I suppressed my creativity. Don't you ever do that to yourself!

    • @RobinMWaite
      @RobinMWaite 5 місяців тому +2

      In selling my agency one piece of paperwork I failed to sign cost me £10k. Once I’d paid it back I knew I could bounce back from any financial mistake as I promised myself to get that back in my rainy day fund within 6 months and achieved it within 3.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      @@macoveiper thank you so much for sharing ❤️

  • @lauriexwang
    @lauriexwang 5 місяців тому +25

    Some of our best lessons are learned from failures, "life is working for you, not against you." Love this quote.

  • @justmyopinion4938
    @justmyopinion4938 5 місяців тому +32

    Great message, nI really needed this today. Unemployed after redundancy, poor health and single. This comeback will be one for the ages.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      Here’s to that 🔥

    • @Phantoman7
      @Phantoman7 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm looking forward to your comeback! You can do it! Find joy in the experience living and the exploring of what this dark time can show you. There is light, for there to be shadows.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  3 місяці тому

      @@Phantoman7 👏

    • @justmyopinion4938
      @justmyopinion4938 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Phantoman7 Thank you

    • @asmet_2701
      @asmet_2701 29 днів тому

      @@justmyopinion4938feel the same now. 20yo, unemployed, still living with parents and can’t confess to the girl of my life due to all that. Anyway I’ll keep working to create better background than I got now for myself in the future

  • @1jimbojam1
    @1jimbojam1 5 місяців тому +11

    I love the statement an event NOT an identity!

  • @blossoming_of_lotus_flower
    @blossoming_of_lotus_flower 5 місяців тому +7

    I’m always a student of life and forever will be. Imagine if you’re a master, then there is nothing left to learn. It will just get boring.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      All about that eternal student mindset 👏

  • @julesjma
    @julesjma 2 місяці тому +3

    I needed to see this. I have worked as an LPN for 30 years and feel a failure for not becoming an RN, although I tried in the last few years. I am a great nurse and truly care for others. I help people. I am not a failure. I am finding my way back from a deep depression. I MATTER.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  2 місяці тому

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @peggygordon5026
      @peggygordon5026 Місяць тому +1

      I am an RN for 35 years. Many LPN I have worked with were much better nurses. I feel honored to worked with a LPN.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  Місяць тому

      @@peggygordon5026 👏

  • @PeterWare-m1g
    @PeterWare-m1g 3 місяці тому +3

    Especially when you get a catastrophic diagnosis that at the time there was no treatment and you have survived and thriving! Thanks 🙏🌈

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  3 місяці тому +1

      Wow! Now that is what I call a comeback!!!

  • @AnthonyJay
    @AnthonyJay 3 місяці тому +4

    One of the best videos I've seen covering this topic. I made $2M at 26 years old and lost most of it by 29 being dumb. 30 now & on the comeback but man has it been a struggle mentally lol. Partly because I tied my confidence to financial success.

  • @chlobear4903
    @chlobear4903 24 дні тому +1

    you explain it so calmly, very comforting

  • @marygelo8317
    @marygelo8317 2 місяці тому +1

    I internalized fear, failure, not knowing and criticism. Little did I know all these were meant teach me to push harder, learn to trust in myself and go after what I needed to learn and don’t stop. To add insult to injury I believed them until I didn’t and don’t. You shared your challenges and are sharing your experiences to help others. Thank you. I wish I heard your words decades ago. Thank you for sharing and saying out loud what we all need to hear.

  • @plantpowerbuddy
    @plantpowerbuddy 5 місяців тому +3

    Great video, Simon. I'm definitely in the midst of a storm... but know I'll come out stronger 💪 Thank you for your wisdom. X

  • @Mr.Honest247
    @Mr.Honest247 15 днів тому +1

    Thank you, great wisdom shared here.

  • @sofiane1unique
    @sofiane1unique 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you bro, I was feeling very low, I really needed to hear this message ❤

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      So glad to hear that it resonated ❤️

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks.. my life is a lot easier than a lot of people have to deal with but I've been through stuff that still troubles me every day and nearly beat me a few times so it's really nice of you to say these things about tough times to have some good perspective on tough times thanks

  • @martinperalta3119
    @martinperalta3119 5 місяців тому +3

    Keep up the good work Simon!

  • @reachankitsobti
    @reachankitsobti 5 місяців тому +2

    Love the reply from the farmer, maybe, maybe not. Growth mindset is about being detached from the outcome.
    Thanks Simon for always challenging our mind to feed with new thoughtful questions to know ourselves better.
    1. Who must I become to have what I want.
    2. What is this teaching me.
    3. What is the opportunity here.

  • @Cabdiwahaab-Rabaax
    @Cabdiwahaab-Rabaax 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks so much for your helping me to enjoy my life tomorrow.

  • @mwtan2
    @mwtan2 5 місяців тому +1

    I really love your video about life. In life, the failure is an event not identity. There is no beautiful roses everyday. We have many challenges. The reality is we are resilient and we don’t give up easily if our dream or desire is bigger than distractions/negative emo/failure. We need to shift our perspective. Ask the right questions who do we want to become? Clarity is power!

  • @ptxnoel370
    @ptxnoel370 4 місяці тому +1

    I feel blessed that I encountered your you tube page, this has helped me a lot. Thanks a lot.

  • @dinabaxter5393
    @dinabaxter5393 5 місяців тому +1

    Love the farmer story, there is so much wisdom inside of being attached to no outcome. Thanks for the great insights.

  • @dianakroenke4013
    @dianakroenke4013 2 місяці тому +1

    Just thank you

  • @everybodyworksinsales
    @everybodyworksinsales 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow, what a post, Simon. Having a healthy relationship with failure. Having clarity of the person you want to become and being able to operate from that.

  • @SkipYearSix
    @SkipYearSix 4 місяці тому +2

    Have you done a video on how to get through suffering?
    I’m 31 and was diagnosed with a chronic eye disease which has changed my life in every way.
    Any advice would be amazing.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 місяці тому +1

      So sorry to hear and will note that down in my ideas list for a future video 🙏

    • @SkipYearSix
      @SkipYearSix 4 місяці тому +1

      @@simonalexandero amazing thank you! I’m sure it’s a lesson for me to learn and I’m grateful that’s it’s forced me to slow down for my kids 😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 місяці тому

      @@SkipYearSix I can so relate to this especially as a fellow parent ❤️

  • @Blindswordsman1994
    @Blindswordsman1994 3 місяці тому

    So inspirational, especially the part where you mention about how life doesn’t get easier but we just get stronger 🙏🏻💪

  • @graceandmarvellouswonders6249
    @graceandmarvellouswonders6249 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this it feed my soul. Loved the ego examples and couldn’t agree more. Also during those hard times can mean that you have been planted 🤦🏾‍♀️!! ✌🏾

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      So glad to hear that you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @Phantoman7
    @Phantoman7 3 місяці тому +1

    Great content. Thank you!

  • @sportclinic8329
    @sportclinic8329 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you

  • @ophelia476
    @ophelia476 5 місяців тому +1

    Your videos are so useful! Would love to join your events, please let me know when the next one is? 😊

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      Thank you! Info on events I’m speaking at will be shared in the community tab and across my other social media platforms and newsletter as they get confirmed 🙌

  • @ninoellison7793
    @ninoellison7793 4 місяці тому +1

    Just brilliant. Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @maureenharrison1261
    @maureenharrison1261 4 місяці тому +1

    One of my fav parables, thank you for the re telling 🎉

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  4 місяці тому

      It’s a powerful one on how we get to choose what an event or experience means to us. No one reality, only customised realities driven by our thoughts 🙌

  • @jayellwood
    @jayellwood 5 місяців тому +2

    Another awesome vid. ⚡️

  • @michaeldonohue-ju6hm
    @michaeldonohue-ju6hm 5 місяців тому +1

    Such a lovely and inspiring message. Thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      Thank you and so glad to hear that you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @karlkimber
    @karlkimber 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video. I’ve just finished your book and it was such a good read.

  • @swisssusannah
    @swisssusannah 5 місяців тому +2

    Absolutely spot on - life is what you make it.

  • @dquseo
    @dquseo 5 місяців тому +1

    Inspiring message. Greetings from Kuala Lumpur.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      Thank you! And so cool to connect with a fellow Malaysian 😊

  • @marketsqueezer
    @marketsqueezer 4 місяці тому +1

    Extremely good videos, thank you so much.

  • @phoeurnphally7965
    @phoeurnphally7965 5 місяців тому +1

    Great Message, Thank you so much

  • @francinebrzostek9449
    @francinebrzostek9449 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you. This video really helps me today.

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      So glad to hear and thank you for watching 🙏

  • @DERRICKLEONIDAS365
    @DERRICKLEONIDAS365 5 місяців тому +1

    YOU ALRIGHT

  • @yolandagutierrez7465
    @yolandagutierrez7465 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you! 💜🙏🏻💜

  • @helenelarissa7993
    @helenelarissa7993 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you!

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      So glad to hear that you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @nancynguyen9318
    @nancynguyen9318 4 місяці тому +1

    Amazing

  • @dadmindmatters
    @dadmindmatters 5 місяців тому +1

    good video thank you

  • @thaihealthylung
    @thaihealthylung 4 місяці тому +1

    Thankyou 🙏❤️🇹🇭 12.06.2024

  • @RomjanAli19964
    @RomjanAli19964 4 місяці тому +1

    very nice ❤❤

  • @divyv20
    @divyv20 5 місяців тому +1

    Hey Simon , very good video . I can do better editing in your videos which can help you to get more engagement in your videos . Pls lmk what do you think ?

  • @60seconds529
    @60seconds529 5 місяців тому +1

    Hello, is your book available in pdf format

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      A Kindle version is available via Amazon I believe 😊

    • @60seconds529
      @60seconds529 5 місяців тому +1

      @@simonalexandero thank you. appreciate your videos, found you today, all the best

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +1

      @@60seconds529 thank you 🙏

  • @Divyv520
    @Divyv520 5 місяців тому +1

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  • @KieronWilliams-gs2nw
    @KieronWilliams-gs2nw 5 місяців тому +1

    What was the actual lesson here?

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      What do you feel it was?

    • @KieronWilliams-gs2nw
      @KieronWilliams-gs2nw 5 місяців тому +2

      @@simonalexandero I don't know that's why I asked

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому +2

      @@KieronWilliams-gs2nw the hope was to share how we can have a healthier relationship with moments in our lives when things don’t always go the way we would like 🙏

    • @KieronWilliams-gs2nw
      @KieronWilliams-gs2nw 5 місяців тому +1

      @@simonalexandero well my friend it has never gone my way..call me the anomaly.

  • @EricCampbellUAV
    @EricCampbellUAV 5 місяців тому +1

    lost me at “embrace experiments”

    • @simonalexandero
      @simonalexandero  5 місяців тому

      Sorry if it didn’t resonate Eric ❤️

  • @nononomthembu9394
    @nononomthembu9394 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you

  • @CG-gc8ei
    @CG-gc8ei 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you

  • @4thebest-ever
    @4thebest-ever 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @JayMagnifique
    @JayMagnifique 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank You

  • @anetabuczak6138
    @anetabuczak6138 4 місяці тому

    Thank you