My mom was a housewife. She never wore makeup in the house. Meanwhile, I’m a dude making banana oatmeal pancakes just for myself while watching this because all grownups should know how to cook. What Andrew Tate sells is perpetual adolescence.
Agreed! I am a stay at home mom, but I would have never married a man that didn’t know how to cook. I watched my mom do everything for my dad, and I realized quite young that I did not want that kind of marriage.
“Poorer women having been working forever” THANK YOU! Yes in the 1950s until her death in the 70s my grandmother worked in a dress factory. One of the things she did was sewing the linings into winter coats. Some families had the luxury of one income during the time that conservatives love to lionize but many didn’t.
Growing up as a Mormon guy, I hadn’t even realized how much women were groomed into being subservient tradwives since a lot of that grooming happened in young women’s lessons, where I wouldn’t have seen it. I was basically taught that women were just naturally perfect wives, which in turn was used to groom me into heteronormative gender roles by telling me “here’s what you have to do to be a husband worthy of these innately subservient women.” It also made me expect women to be perfect and subservient, and when I found out that they weren’t it wasn’t hard for the online right to gull me with incel talking points. You and other socialists really helped me get out of all that, Vaush. Thank you.
That's really interesting. So they're taking aside both sides and telling them "the other half is doing all this naturally with no effort so you have to be like this with a lot of effort" and as long as they aren't ever encouraged to communicate properly they'll never find out both of them are forced to live a lie for the sake of the lie the other person lives? Sounds like a reciprocal hell.
If you listened to a little less Vaush and Hunter Avalone, and a little bit of something else, you might not be a pathetic pussy loser that's going to die a virgin.
@@fordalels I think they meant that they give their crust to their dog as a treat, I mean unless it's stuffed crust that's what I did with my old dogs
A lot of people genuinely want to stay in the home and that’s perfectly fine. I don’t have an issue with people deciding these things but they always bring tradwife gender role horrible stuff into it. It takes the love and care of the home out of the equation.
some people believe that this is the ONLY way it should be but a real feminists take would be to say, a woman should be able to make that choice on her own vs having society tell her HOW and WHAT she should be doing
It worked fine for about 99% of human history. And the other 1% has been an unmitigated disaster, people have never been more depressed and mentally ill than they are right now in western liberal nations.
@@KingJT80I think you are being too generous to feminists here, even if you put the word "real" in front of it. I have seen Feminists complain about this sort of thing even if the woman insists this the lifestyle she wants for herself. I have seen them say that women like this are just brainwashed whether they realize it or not, and those women should be discouraged from having such a lifestyle. They think women need to be saved from themselves and thus tradwives need to be stopped. There is a lot less acceptance for this sort of thing amongst feminists than people realize. To be clear, I do not want a tradwife
It comes down to voluntary vs compulsory. If you have the means to stay at home, spend hours making bread and sewing clothes, and you genuinely want to, by all means go for it. But don't push the idea that this is the only way women can function in society. Being a career woman, staying single, a queer polycule, and any other choice you want to make are equally valid.
I’d go into it with eyes wide open, though. Being financially dependent on anyone means you can end up in a really bad place. So many of my friends had middle aged moms scrambling to survive because their husbands left them for someone else or had only stayed because of the kids. You put up with a lot more bs when the choice is between near poverty and living comfortably.
@@flor9389 Exactly. When you're dependent, the line between voluntary and compulsory starts to blur. Lots of decisions that seem great don't look so good twenty years down the line. As a middle-aged woman, I have a whole lot of friends who've faced the sorry choice between staying in a situation where they are mistreated or starting over with nothing. And it's not just tradwife types, it's women who only worked part-time or took "dead-end" jobs that offered them the flexibility to chauffeur their kids around.
Did you know that 2nd biggest killer of women before the 20th century was cooking as their large skirts would easily catch fire so everyone please wear sensible clothing whilst cooking, regardless of gender :)
To the person who said she's just making a sandwich, she's making a sandwich for three hours. A real non larp housewife makes their dough the night before, or even the bread if they're getting wild.
Video editing exists, the portion of her making bread is likely pre recorded material. She likely makes her bread all the time same with jam and PB. My grandma made EVERYTHING from scratch. The thing i highly doubt is that her daughter asked for a PB sandwich.
@@toedrag-release Oh absolutely it's an edit, but the narrative framing of doing it all in one day is still super stupid. It doesn't help anyone, especially those that are actually interested in making good bread. If your recipe video doesn't help people make better food more effeciently then what's the point really, especially if it actively obscures the effort and timing necessary for proper prep.
@@fluidthought42 Bullseye. It's all performative, meaning it isn't just a nice educational video on how to make a kicking pb+j. It's a type of propaganda.
“She ended up having a few and wanting more” YEAH BECAUSE YOU MADE A TODDLER WAIT 3 HOURS TO EAT BREAKFAST! She also was very obviously reading a recipe. She really only broke character once or twice, but the second rising was “about 30 minutes to an hour”-you just made this bread and you don’t remember how long it sat while your toddler moaned IM HUNGRY MOMMY? (Nothing against people who make everything from scratch, but the idea of not having at least one of these premade from the last PBJ is ridiculous. Totally broke the immersion for me.)
Ofc not, she denied the toddler breakfast and then fed her a big lunch. Also, she may be overfeeding her, the kid will be fat. Also these people don't seem to know that "cooking prep" is a thing. Did she think the kid magically wasnt going to be hungry tomorrow?
I make a lot from scratch and one of the cool things about jelly is that you can make a bunch once a year and then never again..... She didn't have to do it like this . (Peanut butter is more like once every month and bread well. Why not make it the night before ? Or have it ready to go in the morning...??)
@@yogidevendrabiriyani1777 this entire video is a fake script. She didn't make this because the toddler wanted a sammy. She wanted to make a tiktok video about making a pb&j from scratch and add tradwife roleplay on it.
The number of times the outfit changed probaly should have been your first tip off that this wasnt all the same prep let alone the same day. This is a conglomeration of multiple days recording.
Yeah, Vaush has good points on the history of working women and reactionary RETVRN content but... y'all see that bread fake out? The bread she used for the sandwich is not what she baked. The bread she baked has an uneven, dense crumb (underproofed) and the sandwich bread has a perfect crumb and perfect, even slices. And why would you cut so much extra bread off with the crusts? Even without the crusts, the homemade is larger than her palm and taller than it is wide. Weird how cutting the crusts off made her bread exactly the same size and square shape as a standard store bought sandwich loaf. The "mini" sandwiches are to disguise the fact she had to pull out the Sara Lee lmao
no! don't point out that she doesn't know what she's doing... we might realize she's full of sh*t. Seriously, this is 100% theater. I bet she's never attempted this prior to this video, or since. Also, feathered sleeves while you cook food? 🤮
Lol I wonder how much trauma she went through after failing to slice homemade bread. Bad tradwife, baaaaaad. Hubby will give her proper spanking for pastry not being up to his standards.
back in the 1970s there was like a bakers strike or something in the UK and my grandmother had to bake bread because it wasn't available in the supermarket for several weeks. When it was over my grand father suggested she keep making the family's bread because he thought it tasted better but she flatly refused because it was a pain in the ass that took hours of her day every morning.
Fresh bread is notoriously not necessarily cheaper to make. Professional bakery scale dunks on making one loaf, industrial scale exceeds it even more than that but industrial bread is like... not good. Generally home baked bread is a lowkey luxury item that saves you no money before you even factor in the time.
Fresh bakery bread is the optimum because it was made by someone whose job is to make nice bread and goes through dozens of iterations per day. The appeal of home baked bread is mainly the IKEA effect: you like it not so much because of how it tastes but because of the effort and sense of accomplishment in making it. If you were to give it to a complete stranger with no context they would almost certainly rate it lower than the bakery bread.
@@andydyer6591 You can learn how to make really good proper bread. Most bakeries use a ton of additives to better automate the process. Most people nowadays preferring highly processed garbage over real bread--be it homemade or baked by a traditional bakery--and food in general doesn't mean it's better.
"What's for dinner, honey?" "Sorry babe, spent all day on PB&J." Seriously though, housewife here, and this is a COMPLETE FRAUD. These videos are appealing to people who are so unfamiliar with this life, that this crap seems plausible. It's a LIE. And it's encouraging young women to pursue a life of thankless drudgery. If you even suspect you might want a domestic life, talk to an older woman who's lived that way for 20 years. Get the real data.
“Babe why are there three stand mixers five saucepans eleven cups fifteen measuring spoons seven knives and two cutting board in the sink?” “I was making PB&J sorry didn’t get around to dishes”
They are trying to romanticize this lifestyle because in their mind, they are somehow “antiestablishment” (it’s not) it’s arguably the default setting (no offense) but as always the the key factor and all this *is choice* That’s what feminist support
@@Are_you_eyeballing_me I have three siblings and my mother was most of the time a stay at home mom while I was young. She did a lot of the stuff this woman did. Baking bread (not with the normal flour, but special healthy one that you can only buy at special stores), making homemade jelly, cooking almost every day. We even had a garden were we grew tomatoes, zuccini, salad,... (my parents are the kind of people that are a little bit too worried about chemicals and stuff) I even knew a lot of other families who did this kind of stuff. None of these moms would ever get long fingernails and were perfectly styled. That shit takes A LOT OF WORK!
Your telling me you don't just have 3 hours on a week day to make a pb&j? One a serious note though I get tired out just making a normal meal that take 30-40 minutes, I don't think I would have the energy to do anything else after spending this much time making a sandwich of all things.
As a stay at home dad with a 9mon old, i can say that there are a lot of facets of our culture that look down on stay at home fathers. It's not always explicit, but there's very little respresentation of stay at home dads as being a positive thing, and when you do see the generic, "This is what it means to be a man," it's almost always wrapped up in socially prescribed gender roles rooted in white middle class america.
I also think this is what causes the disparity between many women wanting a traditionally masculine man with a man who's more in tune with their emotions, will do housework, communicate healthily, take care of the baby, etc. Not that I directly face this issue, as I'm happily married, but you can't reliably expect to find a man who fits both categories perfectly (as much of what it means to be traditionally masculine actively inhibits some of the aforementioned traits)
nothing wrong with women liking cooking/cleaning or whatever but it's when their man partner is literally incapable of cooking her a meal when she's sick or has zero idea how to use a vacuum that it can definitely become a problem. It reminds me of men that want a divorce when their wives receive a cancer diagnosis because they know they'll have to take on a more active role in the household.
The most miserable old people are the ones who lost their partners and never shared any of their responsibilities. Their lives fall apart around them because they don’t know what to do.
@@badwolf3618 this is false. op's comment says "cancer diagnosis", but it also includes general disability & illness where they're more at risk of being divorced. i literally couldn't find any study on what you commented. additionally, there's a growing influx of women who are working & taking care of the kids. women are just as capable of being providers + men are just as capable of being caretakers.
@@badwolf3618Your conclusion would make more sense if single income families were still ubiquitous, but now most women work full-time jobs on top of still being responsible for the majority of childcare and housekeeping. The stats don't really tell you why people divorce their spouses after a catastrophic medical diagnosis, but the most likely one if that it's financially crippling and it's hard helplessly watching your partner suffer.
The problem is when people are pressured into it due to societal expectations. And one partner holding all the power is of course also an issue 9 times out of 10.
I’ve been a wife and mom of two for over a decade. I’ve been a stay at home mom and I’ve been back in the workforce for 5 years now. Being a stay at home mom is fucking awful and isolating in today’s world. Back in the day when we actually had community and we raised kids are a collective, it may have been less isolating, albeit more financially abusive. But you would literally have to pay me $150k a year to convince me to go back to never working at least part time again. These women are either unicorns or delusional.
@@haleyspence It's all dehumanizing. Retail is kinda fun tho at least. I was thinking being a house wife is kinda like a suffocating office job. But you do have a reason traditionally to at least leave the house, so that's a plus. If you work from home tho...
The “fresh food” bit is just the privilege speaking and it’s for the benefit of the adults who can feel smug about themselves. Toddlers don’t give a shit about “real food” or not they’d eat mud with ketchup on it if they were able.
Gonna be honest, I'm male and my biggest dream is being a house-husband. Like I do understand that housework is a lot of work, and raising kids is a lot of work, but it's work I would be doing for my family and myself and I would directly enjoy the fruits of my labor vs slaving away for 8 hours a day in an office job which may be more comfy than cleaning but leaves me with zero sense of accomplishment or feeling that I am in some way doing something valuable for society. The problem is just finding a woman who wants a stay-at-home husband and also makes enough money to singlehandedly support a family lmao.
I mean, depending on where you live, being a house-husband or a house-wife can count as a job -> the government gives your a salary. It just depends on the country. I know some require you to have 2-3 kids or something, but it's worth checking out.
I'm a childless house-husband, myself....and, yes, it's _great_ work if you can get it, heh. Key is finding a woman who hates cooking and/or can'tcook to save her life. Mine has burned hard boiled eggs. Twice.
As someone who did exactly that for two years: no, really, you don't. Okay, maybe ONE kid, who is in preschool -- any more than that is staggering at the precipice to Hell. Too many ugly tales to tell, but start from this: my "free time" was spent catching up on shattered sleep-cycle, caring for lawn/garden, fixing the car, driving crosstown ALONE for groceries and hardware, baking, washing dishes, and doing laundry. Most "friends" who'd be horrified if HALF that was expected of a woman would criticize me openly for not doing enough to entertain my wife "who works so HAAARD to support you!!" (When I was out, her idea of childcare was some mix of locking them in their rooms and trapping them in playpens... and when I was home, her "kid-care time" became OUR job which meant MY job.)
I once dated a woman who I'm pretty sure is making 7 figures a year right now. If we were together she'd have a nice breakfast, lunch, and dinner if she wanted. Unfortunately our lives were going in different directions. She was super cool and I would have treated her like a queen if I wasn't working. Still friends with her and she's now a mom with a husband and I'm honestly super happy for her. Just in case I'm coming off as sexist right now but with my last ex I would play with her cats every morning despite always needing a few band-aids every time so they wouldn't wake her up so she could sleep in and then when she'd wake up I'd have a hot cup of coffee for her in bed and breakfast all ready. And she had even less money than me and I'm broke!
There's no contradiction here. People should be free to live their life as they please, as long as they aren't harming anyone else, but biological necessity still exists, no matter how hard you want to wish it away.
@@Kevo6492The biological necessity to remain in a single family suburban dwelling and operate the electrical cookwear of course, just as evolution intended!
Anyone remember Bean Dad? He took six hours to feed his hungry nine year old because he refused to teach her how to use a can opener. Imagine the plot twist of these two being a married couple.
Nono. The order of events isn't portrayed in the video correctly. She first gave the kid a nice sandwich (made with store bought bread) Then she proceeded to spend the rest of the day cosplaying and making an ungodly dough that she later threw away.
What your seeing is video editing and likely a bit of a white lie.nyou can see in the video she's wearing different things while she makes different things. This means she made them all seperatly at different times and recorded each individual thing. She then spliced her different videos together and made 1 video. she also likely does all the prep work while her kids are at school for 8hrs a day. C'mon this should be obvious to people in 2024 like watching those fake prank videos.
are we not gonna mention the fact that she absolutely fucked up by not having that stuff prepared already? You don't make jam when it's requested, you make jam when you run out. She got caught procrastinating. trafwife fail, tbh
She did you can clearly see it in the video. She's wearing black when she makes the dough, she's wearing white when she cuts the bread she's wearing a sweater when she packs the lunch. What you're seeing is video editing. She recorded herself making different things in advanced. Then she splices the videos together and Wala seperate videos coming together for a PB and J sandwich.
@@fluidthought42 honestly I don't think many people do know. Judging by alot of the comments. I could be wrong, it can be hard to tell on this channel who's joking and who's being genuine
The issue is not just a matter of whether the tradwife lifestyle becomes compulsory. Whether it's Andrew Tate or tradwives, there is something toxic about performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life. Tradwife content is about presenting as the most feminine woman who ever womaned. If it suddenly became the norm for women to take three hours to make PB&J sandwiches from scratch, they'd start growing the wheat just so they can say they're doing it better. We're seeing stuff like this, because social media incentivizes extreme, competitive behavior.
"Performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life." ~~ HI I just wanted you to know that I felt very called out with this because I was just going over my fucking pie recipes so when I submit them to the county fair this year and was definitely feeling like a villain xD
The think I hate the most about that video is the goddamn absurd sleeves. OK, sure, doll yourself up for the cooking video, but at least avoid the most impractical sleeves possible for the kitchen.
I hate how some men who want women to have a *"stay at home with no job"* lifestyle because they don’t want women to have money to spend on their own. It rubs me off the wrong way.
My girl stays at home with our son and loves it. It’s not that I don’t want her to have her own money, it’s that I have that aspect covered and we live comfortably. I don’t have to worry about the house and she doesn’t have to worry about money.
If a man can afford it and wants a stay at home wife and a woman wants to be a stay at home wife and not have a job I see no problem with it. Some woman want to be stay at home moms, in fact my Ex wanted that but it wasn't something I could afford really and is a big reason we broke up. For context that was nearly 10 years ago before this red pulled nonsense was around.
As someone who spent many years as a professional chef, the actual baking and cooking parts of the video are absolutely wrong and would result in bad food. Just as an example, you never use a rolling pin when making loaf bread. That pushes all the air out of the dough which ruins it. You shape bread dough by hand. That's why her bread didn't rise in the oven. A loaf of white bread should rise by almost 100% in the oven. There are similar things wrong with the jam and peanut butter. This video is clearly just for the clicks. I have no idea how money is made on Tik Tok but that is what this is about.
Oh god this reminds me of a time I shared a house with 3 other students, one of them being a hardcore house mom. This girl wanted to live like a family, which meant everything was a team effort and she set all the rules. She demanded we waste enormous amounts of time making bread and pasta, polishing cutting boards and cleaning out garbage before throwing it away, among many other things. She was so obsessed with living climate friendly, dirt cheap and hyper-clean, I was forced to spend 7 hours a week doing housework during my studies (which were more intense than my full time job). What a horrible time
Wow so someone tried to help you live cleaner, cheaper, and more responsibility and you see his as "horrible". Life isn't just studies or work, it's everything. Especially for someone starting out life it won't hurt to live cheaper and practice valuable life skills while you have a cushion and support
I once shared a student apartment with a girl like that. As an example, she’d go through our communal trash and confront us for not properly sorting out every single recyclable, which we all found inappropriate (nothing wrong with wanting to recycle but it’s not chill to go through your roommates’ trash and scold them). Also wanted us to adhere to her cleaning schedule, which again could have been reasonable but she was very uncompromising and angry about it from the beginning. We weren’t obsessive cleaners, mind you, but it’s not like we left food out to rot, had bugs, or even had dirty dishes lying around… it’s just like there’d be some dust on the floor or small crumbs on the counter or whatever. On the cleanliness scale of college kid apartments, it was pretty good, and we even already had a weekly chore schedule before she moved in. It extra was bizarre because she was extremely controlling of the kitchen space but meanwhile her room was basically a massive pile of unsorted clothing and personal items in the middle of the floor. She had serious anger issues so eventually one of my roommates just drove her to explosive levels of rage by basically saying “no, i dont agree to do that” to her chore schedule over and over. One day, she ended up screaming so loud over the placement of a coffee table that our apartment neighbors thought it was a domestic dispute. She moved out not long after.
@@steroidsretenoid mfer I learned nothing, scraping yoghurt from the bottom of plastic cups is not a life skill. I have no respect for people who fetishize housework, you can be a housewife and have fun all you want, but don't force that shit onto others. I do what needs to be done and fill the rest of my time with something more meaningful. I'd rather spend 5 hours playing the piano or doing sports than renovating a cutting board. And in the time it takes to do that, I've earned enough money to buy 10 (recyclable ones, I might add). I used to think like you, then I actually became an adult and realized that it's just unadulterated bs.
@@steroidsretenoid Those things are fine in general but sounds like this person in particular was extremely inefficient and obsessed over small things, wasting time which be better spent studying or working. Why the fuck would anyone waste time making bread and pasta when they could just go buy it from the grocery store, unless they’re a stay at home mom of course.
As a person who is married to a stay at home mom, this content is disturbing to me for a different reason. Most people do not have the ability to stay home and not work. This content, in my opinion, is less like Andrew Tate’s and more like Kylie Jenner’s. Projecting a false image of wealth and beauty in order to sell envy to less beautiful, less fortunate and insecure people. My wife does not have this much make up or dress this nice when she’s making a sandwich for our kids or chasing them around all day. Unfortunately, making people feel bad sells and is captivating to a certain kind of person. It’s selling the idea that “you’re not good enough” to a lot of women, telling them “you can’t make bread and jelly for three hours and look this beautiful doing it.”
@@titanblooded6222 I never said it was intentional. But that’s the result of that kind of content whether it’s intentional or not. It’s selling an ideal yet impractical aesthetic of life that isn’t good for people. Also, bro your channel is about the annunaki and the fuckin Illuminati. The fact you’re arguing about the “pragmatic reason” of anything is hilarious.
As an ex-Mormon (I was forced to go by my grandmother) in teaching you are told the woman is meant to be near completely subservient and dependent on her husband and the thing they are meant to do is clean the house and have kids. Your also judged if you don't marry young in the church and start having kids.
The soft voice thing is taught to women to keep em ‘sweet’. Mormon’s , the Duggar’s , it’s a thing to infantilize women and keep them just above the kids in hierarchy
Was married 30 yrs. Hubby got Ms and had too stop working before 30. I was the breadwinner & he focused on being a great dad and husband and cook. Thank God i was able to give him a comfortable life as long as he was with us. Miss you every day 💔❤️
I've noticed broadly two types of harmful trad-female socialization so far, but it's kinda changing. The first one is the more empathic, but kinda codependent type of woman; the middle class woman, who has all the right genuine social skills, empathy, whatever, but uses them in line with patriarchal standards, making her effectively codependent on capitalist patriarchs. Basically the family's emotional care worker. Those who became aware were the ones who ended up using their empathic awareness for feminist causes. The second type is the stepford-type of socialization, where more emphasis is put on outward appearance, manners and daintiness. True empathic awareness is completely left behind though, as the hegemonial veneer doesn't allow for "common" authenticity. Women from this group, if they didn't manage to become aware and join feminist causes, either stay the stepford-wife, or become a girlboss and/or complain about man-spreading. This woman is foremost stepford, but also kinda both. I just think it's really interesting how the stepford-type seems to absorb the careworker-archetype into its model. Like care work is now supposed to be the sign of max cultivation, instead of being relegated to commoner maids. It smells like the co-option of "empathic" values seen in all modern family-first and pro-life policies. They fucking subconsciously know how wretched they are, as they know they need to adopt any semblance of healthy interpersonal stuff. They always have.
The hilarious/tragic thing here is that this is incredibly shitty and selfish childcare sandwich making. Your kid asks for breakfast and you're like, ""Thank god, I can put on my makeup and record myself making the world's most intense sandwich so that the internet will praise me." Like this is the world's most masturbatory sandwich pretty sure this is half ragebait. What a fucking internet we've gotten huh?
It's really not that deep. She said she gave them snacks and let them play while making it. Are mothers not allowed to find joy in motherhood? Why aren't the allowed to have fun with it?
@@hihiz432 Nobody said anybody can't enjoy motherhood. And I'm no mind reader but generally kids ask for food when they're hungry, not when they want to mess around for three hours. Getting fully dolled up and recording yourself making bread for tiktok is not Neutrally Enjoying Motherhood. You have to be brain damaged not to see ulterior motives here.
I had a long term GF who liked doing tradwife stuff, and it was fine...because she made it clear that she did it for her own entertainment and not because of some bizarre gender role expectation. Sure, it was great to come home to warm homemade pretzels and craft beer! But on a weeknight? I'm going to make stuff in the crockpot for both of us because I can make it early and it's done when I get home, and the fact people have said I'm "out of role" doing so seems pretty weird to me. What's the deal with how ironclad America is about gender roles?
The worst, insidious aspect of "tradwife" shit is how people call ANY domestic work "tradwife stuff". No, your girlfriend didn't do "tradwife" stuff, she had a hobby for pretzelmaking and brewing.
@@x999uuu1 Well it's also that she liked the whole "made up trad girl" look sometimes (ngl it was probably partially fetish stuff) but again, that's just an aesthetic package. She also likes cottage core and goth. Basically it's like saying there should be a series of expectations placed on you because you dress in a particular style. America loves seeing fashion as a lifestyle, somehow...
Always worth bearing in mind that these women who advocate for the traditional housewife… have jobs. This woman’s job, which she is paid to do, is content creation.
god it gets me so mad how the right keeps saying the left hates trad families... No Sane Persona hates trad families we HATE that they make it out to be the ONLY thing that should be allowed smh its also not even the lefts fault its that its LITTERALLY to expensive to live like that and thats what gets me even madder
Putting aside whether this is a good message or not, being able to stay at home and be supported financially by a partner (while enjoying a good quality of life) is a privilege that few can afford these days. You may as well start an “upper middle class living” trend. I thought the point of a trend was that it was accessible?
The same interests pushing this kind of propaganda are also the same same interests making it difficult for one income to support a family. The reason this is being pushed is to politically push people right in order to protect the economic and political power of the minority exploiting the majority. It’s part of the far right strategy to protect their interests amidst a collapsing economic system. Their biggest threat at this point is working people uniting along class interests and removing the exploitative economic foundation that is the source of the elite’s wealth and power.
Who are these women trying to convince? Other women? Men? Themselves? If they feel comfortable betting that a guy can and will support them forever, then no one is going to lose sleep trying to convince them otherwise.
My wife likes these videos and it's really just because she finds having a job too unbearable. Staying home all day and being able to raise our son is just more appealing to her.
@@apoc5000nobody was contesting that some can afford to do so. I’m choosing to work in the home for my man for example, and we will complain about capitalism all we want thanks.
Well hateful feminists on Reddit do lose their sleep. They hate men and easily stereotype men. Much like red pill men, how they stereotype women. Both feminism and red pill are extreme ideologies. Both are cancer to society.
the really crazy thing is this woman is 22 years old, married to a man who's 25 and has been married to 2 other women, and her children's names are slim easy and rumble honey
seriously the biggest sign that someone's not doing homemade shit regularly are the nails. I used to work as a baker and I still somewhat do, just not with preparing and cutting the dough myself anymore and nails like this?! you can't knead dough like that and you have to do that to properly get it into shape. I hope that kid won't have mommies fake nails as a little surprise treat in their food one day .. and don't let me start on the hygiene part with long nails and especially fake nails. there's a reason bakers, cooks and so on are not allowed to have that .. *yikes*
She literally said the bread came out so nice and gold and then cuts als the crust away??! When you have a nice bread the crust is the best thing about it
Seeing all of this, and being a young, somewhat depressive, shiftless man, I find myself finding the idea of becoming a househusband or secondary earner pretty appealing. The domesticity of it all, caring for a wife and kids, and my labor benefiting my family sounds way more appealing than slaving away at any kind of job.
I wish they would just come out and agree thay communal living works. The only reason they don't is because the ONLY communal living they'll agree to is having a "nuclear family". No other versions count to them.
I don't believe her kids asked for a PB&j sandwich. She also didn't make all this in 1 day as you can see her outfit changes every recipe. In fact she's wearing a completely different outfit from when she makes the bread to when she cuts it. It's all seperate videos made at seperate times that she spliced together and claimed her kid wanted a PBJ sandwich. It's so obvious I can't believe nobody else has picked it up.
Considering how picky a lot of kids are. Can you imagine spending 3 hours on making them bread for breakfast, just for them to throw a temper tantrum because it's not exactly the same bread they ate yesterday?
Andrew Tate isn't a traditionalist. Both the husband and the wife have to embrace traditional gender roles and norms for it to work (but yes, it's awesome 😋).
My dad (a Vietnam vet) told me when I was a kid that I should be an independent person and shouldn't end up with some loser who doesn't know how to do basic things like cooking and cleaning. To hear about these Tate or red pill guys wanting a mommy-maid-wife, who they don't want to emotionally open up to (since they believe their weaknesses will be held against them), is quite pathetic. Love is a risk, but if you end up with a great partner, then it's worth it. These guys must not know what a healthy relationship is because how else are they falling for these manosphere losers who aren't successful with relationships to begin with.
@@zuiop9993 PB&Js are really unhealthy though. A good nyaster makes sure their catboy maintains a balanced, high-protein diet. It's also good for the meal to be in liquid form, so that poor thing doesn't extert itself with unnecessary chewing.
- _"...honey what are you doing?"_ - _"making pb&j´s from scratch"_ - _"Its 4 o'clock in the morning, why on earth are you making pb&j´s?"_ - *_"Because i lost control of my life"_*
The dishonesty in this video is the worst part. I can understand maybe making your own peanut butter and jam and bread, but not on an individual basis. Make it for the week, or make a batch and store several jars of it. Nobody is making fresh peanut butter and jam every time their kid wants a sandwich. This whole video is a lie.
You're correct, you can see her outfit changes each recipe. She didn't make it on an individual basis. She made the 3 seperate things at 3 seperate times while recording and spliced the video together into a PBJ sandwich. Also the amount she made is good enough for a week worth of lunches
"Mom can I have a PB&J" >Sure hun *starts from scratch* >No you can't change your mind and go for a pizza or a stromboli. And remember, the crumb has to set so add a whole extra hour to the 3 it takes to proof and bake.
If I remember correctly, something like 10 or 12 hours a day preparing food for the family. It was a full-time job with crazy ot back in the olden days. I'd be happy with a single parent in society being able to support the family working. But gender roles should be consenting choices of the couple.
That was only the case a few times a year on holidays or when they were doing long term prepping and conservation for the winter . They were not having a feast every day so they did not really spend a lot of time on making food because there was not much of it anyway. Of course for the rich with big estates it was different but they had other people working for them.
@@pllpsy665 Depending on how you define 'providing' it could be very time consuming: You might just be slow cooking a vegetable stew in some bone broth, but the pot is sitting over an actual fire that you'll have to tend to keep the pot at temperature for the whole three hours your soup is simmering.
watching her use the stove with that robe, I just imagine her sleeves bursting into flames. I worked in a kitchen for years, I have seen more than one towel catch fire in safer conditions than that.
Off topic, but making jam and peanut butter is quite time consuming, so what she should’ve done is make those the day before baking the bread. Or better, buy the fruit in bulk (whichever one you plan on using to make the jam) while it’s in season, and make a few jars of jam so that you always have some (jam can last up to a year so you won’t have to make it until the fruit you used is in season again).
Real. A friend of mine made + jarred a bunch of peach jam with her mom and they gave some to me. absolutely delicious and also eco friendly, especially if it’s made with local in season produce like you’re saying. but making all the stuff yourself at once and creating en entire sink full of dirty dishes for a single pb&j seems insane
She did, you can see she's wearing different outfits each recipe. She also made enough for a weeks worth of lunches. What you're seeing is spliced videos taken on different days making different things. She just edited different videos together
Honest to god I think 90% of the "trad wife" shit is just more of the younger generations not wating to devote most of their waking hours to a iob that barely pays them enough to survive. Being married to someone who's willing to take you on as a financial dependent so you can focus on your family/ hobbies genuinely sounds awesome. (Assuming it's by choice) My only hang up is that i think we need to be careful with the female coded patriarchy. If this attitude becomes common, then the red pill would actually just become true at that point.
>being married to someone else who's willing to do the soul crushing wage labour so you don't have to sounds great! This doesn't sound nearly as good as you think it does.
Sure it sounds great, but domestic labor is undervalued and is often more demanding than it appears. Your partner can work a grueling 9-5 but is it worth it if you’re working 24/7 at home? Also while not having any wealth of your own? I mean if your down for that that’s fine, but I don’t subscribe to painting a disingenuous picture of that life.
I know that is not the point Vaush is making, but this woman doing everything from scratch instead of preparing ingredients earlier just makes me want to cry. The coolest part about doing preserves is that you can do it once per year and not bother for the rest of the year. Heck, depending on the preserve and how you made it you can keep them for a few years and they still will be edible. You can also keep the ready dough in the fridge so you only need to pop it into the oven in the morning. This tradfem LARP fails so much it's just plainly sad.
This woman literally thought she discovered sliced apples with cinnamon on top and wants to name her babies "pear, pepper, frosty, and cherry." She is not the brightest bulb in the box.
I have to admit that when the trad mom said that her daughter wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and she went and made it from scratch I laughed. Who does that? How many hours did that poor kid have to wait before she got her sandwich? Hell, I'm surprised when she started to make the bread from scratch she also didn't go into the yard to plant peanut and grape seeds! "Three months after I planted the peanuts and grapes they were ready to be picked and made into peanut butter and grape jelly, but alas, my daughter had died of starvation"
if i were to ask this woman to make a salad for me, not only would she go to the process of making homemade bread like this but with added steps to make homemade croutons, she'd prolly also grow a variety of veggies in her garden the moment i ask for said salad, and make some balsamic vinegar from scratch, and by the time it's ready, i left her house out of boredom and severe starvation. and her bump would become another mouth to feed. THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO PLAN AHEAD. even my aro/ace sister, who loves doing homey stuff like this, KNOWS THIS.
Maybe it's just me, but this segment feels chaotic in a good way. Lot of good points hit about capitalism being at the center of these tradwife TikTok trends, but patriarchy is also ever-present.
My mom was a stay at home mom, and she would have just used Wonder bread. Making homemade takes hours, so geez, should have made that bread at least the day before.
Bring out the yeast and camera set up. Good Lord. Also a smart trad wife of the 1950s would have all this made ahead of time, or processed food was starting to become widely available and house wives loved it. Wonder bread is as Americana as it gets
It's weird how motherhood has become a performance to be consumed on social media.
Social media is in itself a performance. And people are suckers for two things - pets and babies.
What hasn’t?
@@Gloomdrake True :/
It is very weird, but then again, everything these days literally is a performance to be consumed on social media.
@@Gloomdrake This is the sad truth.
“She ended up having a few of them and wanted more”
Yeah no shit she asked for a pb&j for breakfast and you got it to her by lunch, kid was hungry.
And now you know why bakeries start their shifts at 4 am.
My mom was a housewife. She never wore makeup in the house. Meanwhile, I’m a dude making banana oatmeal pancakes just for myself while watching this because all grownups should know how to cook. What Andrew Tate sells is perpetual adolescence.
Don't forget the MLM scam he runs (well used to run), he sells that as well.
Peter Pan Syndrome - i.e., refuses to grow up.
Agreed! I am a stay at home mom, but I would have never married a man that didn’t know how to cook. I watched my mom do everything for my dad, and I realized quite young that I did not want that kind of marriage.
Banana oatmeal pancakes sound delicious
@@nerag7459 I didn't read the right mlm the first time, lol
Andrea Tate
Anal Taste
Android tape
Sounds hot
MORE LIKE ANDREW TITS
So happy for her transition:)
“Poorer women having been working forever” THANK YOU! Yes in the 1950s until her death in the 70s my grandmother worked in a dress factory. One of the things she did was sewing the linings into winter coats. Some families had the luxury of one income during the time that conservatives love to lionize but many didn’t.
Everyone helped out with farming duties way back when. There’s a reason medieval frescos show men and women in the fields
Growing up as a Mormon guy, I hadn’t even realized how much women were groomed into being subservient tradwives since a lot of that grooming happened in young women’s lessons, where I wouldn’t have seen it.
I was basically taught that women were just naturally perfect wives, which in turn was used to groom me into heteronormative gender roles by telling me “here’s what you have to do to be a husband worthy of these innately subservient women.”
It also made me expect women to be perfect and subservient, and when I found out that they weren’t it wasn’t hard for the online right to gull me with incel talking points.
You and other socialists really helped me get out of all that, Vaush. Thank you.
That's really interesting. So they're taking aside both sides and telling them "the other half is doing all this naturally with no effort so you have to be like this with a lot of effort" and as long as they aren't ever encouraged to communicate properly they'll never find out both of them are forced to live a lie for the sake of the lie the other person lives? Sounds like a reciprocal hell.
Congrats on getting out of that mindset!
@@marzipancutter8144Yep, that's the ideal relationship under all conservative Christian faiths. The way they handle it is just slightly different.
"Andrew Tate grimly carries out his duty to be muscular and bald" lol
If you listened to a little less Vaush and Hunter Avalone, and a little bit of something else, you might not be a pathetic pussy loser that's going to die a virgin.
That fckn sent me 😂💀
@@missinterpretation4984 Same its one of those quotes I'll never forget.
@@foramoreperfectamerica8490 if you ever grew a muscle, your body would reject it like it's venom.
@@markzuckergecko621 You are a pain in my ass in Hunter's comments and now you're following me over here? Seriously?
"you aren't allowed to shit unless you eat the crust"
parent of the year
I don’t eat the crust of pizza because that belongs to the dog
@@karadanvers9648 if eating the crust of the pizza makes me a dog then bark bark
I usually call the crust pizza bones. @@karadanvers9648
@@fordalels I think they meant that they give their crust to their dog as a treat, I mean unless it's stuffed crust that's what I did with my old dogs
@@cyrus6461 the dog can order their own pizza smh
A lot of people genuinely want to stay in the home and that’s perfectly fine. I don’t have an issue with people deciding these things but they always bring tradwife gender role horrible stuff into it. It takes the love and care of the home out of the equation.
some people believe that this is the ONLY way it should be
but a real feminists take would be to say, a woman should be able to make that choice on her own vs having society tell her HOW and WHAT she should be doing
It worked fine for about 99% of human history. And the other 1% has been an unmitigated disaster, people have never been more depressed and mentally ill than they are right now in western liberal nations.
@@KingJT80I think you are being too generous to feminists here, even if you put the word "real" in front of it. I have seen Feminists complain about this sort of thing even if the woman insists this the lifestyle she wants for herself. I have seen them say that women like this are just brainwashed whether they realize it or not, and those women should be discouraged from having such a lifestyle. They think women need to be saved from themselves and thus tradwives need to be stopped. There is a lot less acceptance for this sort of thing amongst feminists than people realize.
To be clear, I do not want a tradwife
@KingJT80 we already live in that world, next. What else does a feminist fight for?
@@Pharomidwhat an ignorant comment 😂
It comes down to voluntary vs compulsory. If you have the means to stay at home, spend hours making bread and sewing clothes, and you genuinely want to, by all means go for it. But don't push the idea that this is the only way women can function in society. Being a career woman, staying single, a queer polycule, and any other choice you want to make are equally valid.
I’d go into it with eyes wide open, though. Being financially dependent on anyone means you can end up in a really bad place. So many of my friends had middle aged moms scrambling to survive because their husbands left them for someone else or had only stayed because of the kids. You put up with a lot more bs when the choice is between near poverty and living comfortably.
What does polycule mean?
Man I hate the way you people talk. But I agree.
Fart
@@flor9389 Exactly. When you're dependent, the line between voluntary and compulsory starts to blur. Lots of decisions that seem great don't look so good twenty years down the line. As a middle-aged woman, I have a whole lot of friends who've faced the sorry choice between staying in a situation where they are mistreated or starting over with nothing. And it's not just tradwife types, it's women who only worked part-time or took "dead-end" jobs that offered them the flexibility to chauffeur their kids around.
Those sleeves will catch fire in any kitchen
Yeah if I was doing all that you best believe I look like a kitchen wench
It’s some weird cosplay for sure.
Also it’s impossible to make bread without getting flour on yourself. She did an outfit change between takes.
Did you know that 2nd biggest killer of women before the 20th century was cooking as their large skirts would easily catch fire so everyone please wear sensible clothing whilst cooking, regardless of gender :)
@@WASDLeftClickit’s possible if you use a stand mixer but if you’re in a bakery you’re going to get flour on you
To the person who said she's just making a sandwich, she's making a sandwich for three hours. A real non larp housewife makes their dough the night before, or even the bread if they're getting wild.
fr fr Doing the second proof overnight in the fridge makes your bread taste so much better.
YES THIS!!! As someone who actually bakes good homemade bread, this entire video makes zero sense. And she's ignoring her daughter
Video editing exists, the portion of her making bread is likely pre recorded material. She likely makes her bread all the time same with jam and PB. My grandma made EVERYTHING from scratch. The thing i highly doubt is that her daughter asked for a PB sandwich.
@@toedrag-release
Oh absolutely it's an edit, but the narrative framing of doing it all in one day is still super stupid. It doesn't help anyone, especially those that are actually interested in making good bread. If your recipe video doesn't help people make better food more effeciently then what's the point really, especially if it actively obscures the effort and timing necessary for proper prep.
@@fluidthought42 Bullseye. It's all performative, meaning it isn't just a nice educational video on how to make a kicking pb+j. It's a type of propaganda.
“She ended up having a few and wanting more” YEAH BECAUSE YOU MADE A TODDLER WAIT 3 HOURS TO EAT BREAKFAST!
She also was very obviously reading a recipe. She really only broke character once or twice, but the second rising was “about 30 minutes to an hour”-you just made this bread and you don’t remember how long it sat while your toddler moaned IM HUNGRY MOMMY?
(Nothing against people who make everything from scratch, but the idea of not having at least one of these premade from the last PBJ is ridiculous. Totally broke the immersion for me.)
Ofc not, she denied the toddler breakfast and then fed her a big lunch.
Also, she may be overfeeding her, the kid will be fat.
Also these people don't seem to know that "cooking prep" is a thing. Did she think the kid magically wasnt going to be hungry tomorrow?
I make a lot from scratch and one of the cool things about jelly is that you can make a bunch once a year and then never again..... She didn't have to do it like this . (Peanut butter is more like once every month and bread well. Why not make it the night before ? Or have it ready to go in the morning...??)
@@yogidevendrabiriyani1777 this entire video is a fake script. She didn't make this because the toddler wanted a sammy. She wanted to make a tiktok video about making a pb&j from scratch and add tradwife roleplay on it.
The number of times the outfit changed probaly should have been your first tip off that this wasnt all the same prep let alone the same day. This is a conglomeration of multiple days recording.
She wanted more? Guess I'll make another bread for 3 more hours...
Yeah, Vaush has good points on the history of working women and reactionary RETVRN content but... y'all see that bread fake out?
The bread she used for the sandwich is not what she baked. The bread she baked has an uneven, dense crumb (underproofed) and the sandwich bread has a perfect crumb and perfect, even slices. And why would you cut so much extra bread off with the crusts? Even without the crusts, the homemade is larger than her palm and taller than it is wide. Weird how cutting the crusts off made her bread exactly the same size and square shape as a standard store bought sandwich loaf.
The "mini" sandwiches are to disguise the fact she had to pull out the Sara Lee lmao
You are absolutely correct. I worked in a bakery for 10 years, and I noticed the underproofed crumb as well.
That’s really annoying, I mean commit to the bit at least.
no! don't point out that she doesn't know what she's doing... we might realize she's full of sh*t.
Seriously, this is 100% theater. I bet she's never attempted this prior to this video, or since.
Also, feathered sleeves while you cook food? 🤮
For the same reason that there isn't a real pizza in pornos.
Lol I wonder how much trauma she went through after failing to slice homemade bread. Bad tradwife, baaaaaad. Hubby will give her proper spanking for pastry not being up to his standards.
back in the 1970s there was like a bakers strike or something in the UK and my grandmother had to bake bread because it wasn't available in the supermarket for several weeks.
When it was over my grand father suggested she keep making the family's bread because he thought it tasted better but she flatly refused because it was a pain in the ass that took hours of her day every morning.
I make homemade bread too but only sometimes. It doesnt take hours but is quite an effort including clean up and so on
based
Fresh bread is notoriously not necessarily cheaper to make.
Professional bakery scale dunks on making one loaf, industrial scale exceeds it even more than that but industrial bread is like... not good.
Generally home baked bread is a lowkey luxury item that saves you no money before you even factor in the time.
Fresh bakery bread is the optimum because it was made by someone whose job is to make nice bread and goes through dozens of iterations per day.
The appeal of home baked bread is mainly the IKEA effect: you like it not so much because of how it tastes but because of the effort and sense of accomplishment in making it. If you were to give it to a complete stranger with no context they would almost certainly rate it lower than the bakery bread.
@@andydyer6591 You can learn how to make really good proper bread. Most bakeries use a ton of additives to better automate the process. Most people nowadays preferring highly processed garbage over real bread--be it homemade or baked by a traditional bakery--and food in general doesn't mean it's better.
"What's for dinner, honey?"
"Sorry babe, spent all day on PB&J."
Seriously though, housewife here, and this is a COMPLETE FRAUD. These videos are appealing to people who are so unfamiliar with this life, that this crap seems plausible. It's a LIE. And it's encouraging young women to pursue a life of thankless drudgery. If you even suspect you might want a domestic life, talk to an older woman who's lived that way for 20 years. Get the real data.
Just let them trial it for a week, see how they go. Prob quit after 3 days.
“Babe why are there three stand mixers five saucepans eleven cups fifteen measuring spoons seven knives and two cutting board in the sink?”
“I was making PB&J sorry didn’t get around to dishes”
They are trying to romanticize this lifestyle because in their mind, they are somehow “antiestablishment” (it’s not) it’s arguably the default setting (no offense) but as always the the key factor and all this *is choice*
That’s what feminist support
@@Are_you_eyeballing_me I have three siblings and my mother was most of the time a stay at home mom while I was young. She did a lot of the stuff this woman did. Baking bread (not with the normal flour, but special healthy one that you can only buy at special stores), making homemade jelly, cooking almost every day. We even had a garden were we grew tomatoes, zuccini, salad,... (my parents are the kind of people that are a little bit too worried about chemicals and stuff)
I even knew a lot of other families who did this kind of stuff. None of these moms would ever get long fingernails and were perfectly styled. That shit takes A LOT OF WORK!
Your telling me you don't just have 3 hours on a week day to make a pb&j? One a serious note though I get tired out just making a normal meal that take 30-40 minutes, I don't think I would have the energy to do anything else after spending this much time making a sandwich of all things.
As a stay at home dad with a 9mon old, i can say that there are a lot of facets of our culture that look down on stay at home fathers. It's not always explicit, but there's very little respresentation of stay at home dads as being a positive thing, and when you do see the generic, "This is what it means to be a man," it's almost always wrapped up in socially prescribed gender roles rooted in white middle class america.
I think stay at home dads are bad ass. Y'all get way too much side eye.
I also think this is what causes the disparity between many women wanting a traditionally masculine man with a man who's more in tune with their emotions, will do housework, communicate healthily, take care of the baby, etc. Not that I directly face this issue, as I'm happily married, but you can't reliably expect to find a man who fits both categories perfectly (as much of what it means to be traditionally masculine actively inhibits some of the aforementioned traits)
@@TheybyBaby appreciate it!
Not to be cringe, but the Dad in Madoka Magica was a stay at home dad and he ruled.
@@Remedy462 Nothing cringe about anime! While not a dad, The Way of the Househusband is also a nice series about a former yakuza turned househusband.
I think PB&J means Peterson, biblical lectures and Jungian archetypes when a mormon kid asks for it
As some raised Mormon, this cracked me up. 😂
My condolences :)@@jacqueshardin4601
Also. I want to know. How did she manage to keep a dark dress so clean while making bread without an apron.
or black feathers falling into the food 🤮
It's all fake, that's how
And she kept her ring on during all the kneading
She’s wearing a black dress while using flour!😊
Cuz none of this is real
nothing wrong with women liking cooking/cleaning or whatever but it's when their man partner is literally incapable of cooking her a meal when she's sick or has zero idea how to use a vacuum that it can definitely become a problem. It reminds me of men that want a divorce when their wives receive a cancer diagnosis because they know they'll have to take on a more active role in the household.
So if the guy cooks and cleans up it's ok? That's like all the conservative men though now right, in 2024?
The most miserable old people are the ones who lost their partners and never shared any of their responsibilities. Their lives fall apart around them because they don’t know what to do.
@@badwolf3618 this is false. op's comment says "cancer diagnosis", but it also includes general disability & illness where they're more at risk of being divorced. i literally couldn't find any study on what you commented. additionally, there's a growing influx of women who are working & taking care of the kids. women are just as capable of being providers + men are just as capable of being caretakers.
@@badwolf3618Your conclusion would make more sense if single income families were still ubiquitous, but now most women work full-time jobs on top of still being responsible for the majority of childcare and housekeeping.
The stats don't really tell you why people divorce their spouses after a catastrophic medical diagnosis, but the most likely one if that it's financially crippling and it's hard helplessly watching your partner suffer.
The problem is when people are pressured into it due to societal expectations. And one partner holding all the power is of course also an issue 9 times out of 10.
"Poor women have been working forever" thank you Vaush! Its the gown that gives it away 👏👏👏
I’ve been a wife and mom of two for over a decade. I’ve been a stay at home mom and I’ve been back in the workforce for 5 years now. Being a stay at home mom is fucking awful and isolating in today’s world. Back in the day when we actually had community and we raised kids are a collective, it may have been less isolating, albeit more financially abusive. But you would literally have to pay me $150k a year to convince me to go back to never working at least part time again. These women are either unicorns or delusional.
Where do you work that isn't equally isolating?
Literally anywhere where you can talk to another adult for any amount of time about literally anything lol
@@haleyspence Retail?
Less isolating than homemaking, but retail is way more dehumanizing and uncomfortable not gonna get me arguing against that one lol@@jedahn
@@haleyspence It's all dehumanizing. Retail is kinda fun tho at least. I was thinking being a house wife is kinda like a suffocating office job. But you do have a reason traditionally to at least leave the house, so that's a plus. If you work from home tho...
being a house wife is based
being a working wife is based
doing what brings you and those around you the most joy is based
being a boy wife is the based-est
Based take.
“Mom I want a sandwich”
“Sure give me three hours”
I guarantee those *toddlers* don’t appreciate the difference between fresh and store bought bread.
The store bought white bread has more sugar content so toddlers know the difference and they want store bought.
The store bought bread is far less crumbly and works better for sandwiches.
@@Chelaximimagine spending three hours baking homemade artisanal omegabread just for your toddler to ask for Wonder Bread lmao
@@ChelaximThe gag is that u can get healthy bread from the store lol
The “fresh food” bit is just the privilege speaking and it’s for the benefit of the adults who can feel smug about themselves. Toddlers don’t give a shit about “real food” or not they’d eat mud with ketchup on it if they were able.
Gonna be honest, I'm male and my biggest dream is being a house-husband. Like I do understand that housework is a lot of work, and raising kids is a lot of work, but it's work I would be doing for my family and myself and I would directly enjoy the fruits of my labor vs slaving away for 8 hours a day in an office job which may be more comfy than cleaning but leaves me with zero sense of accomplishment or feeling that I am in some way doing something valuable for society.
The problem is just finding a woman who wants a stay-at-home husband and also makes enough money to singlehandedly support a family lmao.
femboy spotted
I mean, depending on where you live, being a house-husband or a house-wife can count as a job -> the government gives your a salary. It just depends on the country. I know some require you to have 2-3 kids or something, but it's worth checking out.
I'm a childless house-husband, myself....and, yes, it's _great_ work if you can get it, heh. Key is finding a woman who hates cooking and/or can'tcook to save her life. Mine has burned hard boiled eggs. Twice.
As someone who did exactly that for two years: no, really, you don't. Okay, maybe ONE kid, who is in preschool -- any more than that is staggering at the precipice to Hell. Too many ugly tales to tell, but start from this: my "free time" was spent catching up on shattered sleep-cycle, caring for lawn/garden, fixing the car, driving crosstown ALONE for groceries and hardware, baking, washing dishes, and doing laundry. Most "friends" who'd be horrified if HALF that was expected of a woman would criticize me openly for not doing enough to entertain my wife "who works so HAAARD to support you!!" (When I was out, her idea of childcare was some mix of locking them in their rooms and trapping them in playpens... and when I was home, her "kid-care time" became OUR job which meant MY job.)
I once dated a woman who I'm pretty sure is making 7 figures a year right now. If we were together she'd have a nice breakfast, lunch, and dinner if she wanted. Unfortunately our lives were going in different directions. She was super cool and I would have treated her like a queen if I wasn't working. Still friends with her and she's now a mom with a husband and I'm honestly super happy for her. Just in case I'm coming off as sexist right now but with my last ex I would play with her cats every morning despite always needing a few band-aids every time so they wouldn't wake her up so she could sleep in and then when she'd wake up I'd have a hot cup of coffee for her in bed and breakfast all ready. And she had even less money than me and I'm broke!
The conservative urge to argue the essential human condition and rights of freedom but also the biological determination of gender.
There's no contradiction here. People should be free to live their life as they please, as long as they aren't harming anyone else, but biological necessity still exists, no matter how hard you want to wish it away.
@@markzuckergecko621 Wut. What biological necessity are you talking about? Your statement is vague.
@@Kevo6492 men are men, and women are women.
@@Kevo6492The biological necessity to remain in a single family suburban dwelling and operate the electrical cookwear of course, just as evolution intended!
What biological necessity?
Shout out to Tyler Bender's trad-wife parodies! Her parodies have even tripped up actual trad wife creators.
She's hilarious.
I love her!
Was looking for this comment just so I can +1 the notion. She's great. The plastic smile and that neck tilt are perfection.
TYLER YAY
Anyone remember Bean Dad? He took six hours to feed his hungry nine year old because he refused to teach her how to use a can opener. Imagine the plot twist of these two being a married couple.
TikTok so goddamn dystopian, everything there is so artificial and meant to sell you something.
Omg i knoooow. Im dying thinkin of how kids are going to cope with it
TikTok? What about the whole internet?
Fuck bros remember vine
Gabi Belle recently did a whole breakdown of TikTok shop and how awful it is.
The pornographic content of a household surviving on one income...
Alas such are the times we find ourselves in
This makes me feel deeply uncomfortable because I can imagine her poor toddler starving while she takes three hours to make them a pb&j sandwich.
Nono. The order of events isn't portrayed in the video correctly.
She first gave the kid a nice sandwich (made with store bought bread)
Then she proceeded to spend the rest of the day cosplaying and making an ungodly dough that she later threw away.
What your seeing is video editing and likely a bit of a white lie.nyou can see in the video she's wearing different things while she makes different things. This means she made them all seperatly at different times and recorded each individual thing. She then spliced her different videos together and made 1 video. she also likely does all the prep work while her kids are at school for 8hrs a day. C'mon this should be obvious to people in 2024 like watching those fake prank videos.
@@toedrag-releaseschool? That was a toddler
are we not gonna mention the fact that she absolutely fucked up by not having that stuff prepared already?
You don't make jam when it's requested, you make jam when you run out. She got caught procrastinating.
trafwife fail, tbh
Yeah it’s almost like this video was forged by far leftists to make traditional wives look stupid….
Robots have no foresight lol
She did you can clearly see it in the video. She's wearing black when she makes the dough, she's wearing white when she cuts the bread she's wearing a sweater when she packs the lunch. What you're seeing is video editing. She recorded herself making different things in advanced. Then she splices the videos together and Wala seperate videos coming together for a PB and J sandwich.
@@toedrag-release
We know, we're just mocking her narrative device.
@@fluidthought42 honestly I don't think many people do know. Judging by alot of the comments. I could be wrong, it can be hard to tell on this channel who's joking and who's being genuine
The issue is not just a matter of whether the tradwife lifestyle becomes compulsory. Whether it's Andrew Tate or tradwives, there is something toxic about performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life. Tradwife content is about presenting as the most feminine woman who ever womaned. If it suddenly became the norm for women to take three hours to make PB&J sandwiches from scratch, they'd start growing the wheat just so they can say they're doing it better. We're seeing stuff like this, because social media incentivizes extreme, competitive behavior.
Stuff like this is being amplified because it’s suits the far right strategy of the elite.
"Performing your gender roles in an extremely competitive way. It's not about living your best life." ~~ HI I just wanted you to know that I felt very called out with this because I was just going over my fucking pie recipes so when I submit them to the county fair this year and was definitely feeling like a villain xD
I aspire to be a beefy guy who gets away with wearing a witchy apron that bakes bread and makes comfort foods. 😊
The world awaits your channel. 👍
I aspire to be a beefy guy with chic nonbinary fashion and slutty makeup
@@BengtNordstenONG.
I aspire to be a beefy guy who has a non binary fashion sense and wears makeup
Big King Energy right here.
The think I hate the most about that video is the goddamn absurd sleeves. OK, sure, doll yourself up for the cooking video, but at least avoid the most impractical sleeves possible for the kitchen.
I hate how some men who want women to have a *"stay at home with no job"* lifestyle because they don’t want women to have money to spend on their own.
It rubs me off the wrong way.
My girl stays at home with our son and loves it. It’s not that I don’t want her to have her own money, it’s that I have that aspect covered and we live comfortably. I don’t have to worry about the house and she doesn’t have to worry about money.
If a man can afford it and wants a stay at home wife and a woman wants to be a stay at home wife and not have a job I see no problem with it. Some woman want to be stay at home moms, in fact my Ex wanted that but it wasn't something I could afford really and is a big reason we broke up. For context that was nearly 10 years ago before this red pulled nonsense was around.
As someone who spent many years as a professional chef, the actual baking and cooking parts of the video are absolutely wrong and would result in bad food.
Just as an example, you never use a rolling pin when making loaf bread. That pushes all the air out of the dough which ruins it. You shape bread dough by hand. That's why her bread didn't rise in the oven. A loaf of white bread should rise by almost 100% in the oven.
There are similar things wrong with the jam and peanut butter.
This video is clearly just for the clicks. I have no idea how money is made on Tik Tok but that is what this is about.
Bottoms seething rn
Oh god this reminds me of a time I shared a house with 3 other students, one of them being a hardcore house mom. This girl wanted to live like a family, which meant everything was a team effort and she set all the rules. She demanded we waste enormous amounts of time making bread and pasta, polishing cutting boards and cleaning out garbage before throwing it away, among many other things. She was so obsessed with living climate friendly, dirt cheap and hyper-clean, I was forced to spend 7 hours a week doing housework during my studies (which were more intense than my full time job). What a horrible time
Wow so someone tried to help you live cleaner, cheaper, and more responsibility and you see his as "horrible". Life isn't just studies or work, it's everything. Especially for someone starting out life it won't hurt to live cheaper and practice valuable life skills while you have a cushion and support
I once shared a student apartment with a girl like that. As an example, she’d go through our communal trash and confront us for not properly sorting out every single recyclable, which we all found inappropriate (nothing wrong with wanting to recycle but it’s not chill to go through your roommates’ trash and scold them). Also wanted us to adhere to her cleaning schedule, which again could have been reasonable but she was very uncompromising and angry about it from the beginning. We weren’t obsessive cleaners, mind you, but it’s not like we left food out to rot, had bugs, or even had dirty dishes lying around… it’s just like there’d be some dust on the floor or small crumbs on the counter or whatever. On the cleanliness scale of college kid apartments, it was pretty good, and we even already had a weekly chore schedule before she moved in.
It extra was bizarre because she was extremely controlling of the kitchen space but meanwhile her room was basically a massive pile of unsorted clothing and personal items in the middle of the floor.
She had serious anger issues so eventually one of my roommates just drove her to explosive levels of rage by basically saying “no, i dont agree to do that” to her chore schedule over and over. One day, she ended up screaming so loud over the placement of a coffee table that our apartment neighbors thought it was a domestic dispute. She moved out not long after.
@@steroidsretenoid mfer I learned nothing, scraping yoghurt from the bottom of plastic cups is not a life skill. I have no respect for people who fetishize housework, you can be a housewife and have fun all you want, but don't force that shit onto others. I do what needs to be done and fill the rest of my time with something more meaningful. I'd rather spend 5 hours playing the piano or doing sports than renovating a cutting board. And in the time it takes to do that, I've earned enough money to buy 10 (recyclable ones, I might add). I used to think like you, then I actually became an adult and realized that it's just unadulterated bs.
@@steroidsretenoidyou have no reading comprehension
@@steroidsretenoid Those things are fine in general but sounds like this person in particular was extremely inefficient and obsessed over small things, wasting time which be better spent studying or working. Why the fuck would anyone waste time making bread and pasta when they could just go buy it from the grocery store, unless they’re a stay at home mom of course.
As a person who is married to a stay at home mom, this content is disturbing to me for a different reason. Most people do not have the ability to stay home and not work. This content, in my opinion, is less like Andrew Tate’s and more like Kylie Jenner’s. Projecting a false image of wealth and beauty in order to sell envy to less beautiful, less fortunate and insecure people. My wife does not have this much make up or dress this nice when she’s making a sandwich for our kids or chasing them around all day. Unfortunately, making people feel bad sells and is captivating to a certain kind of person. It’s selling the idea that “you’re not good enough” to a lot of women, telling them “you can’t make bread and jelly for three hours and look this beautiful doing it.”
I'm going to assume, she's dressed nicely because she's making a video for public consumption. And wants to look nice
@@titanblooded6222 ok? What’s your point?
@@Chanchan19494 That there's an actual pragmatic reason for her dress. That doesn't involve any sort of psychological manipulation
@@titanblooded6222 I never said it was intentional. But that’s the result of that kind of content whether it’s intentional or not. It’s selling an ideal yet impractical aesthetic of life that isn’t good for people. Also, bro your channel is about the annunaki and the fuckin Illuminati. The fact you’re arguing about the “pragmatic reason” of anything is hilarious.
@@Chanchan19494 The ability to entertain an idea without accepting is the mark of a great mind. You don't have to worry about that.
The reason so many women got hooked on pills in 50s and 60s was because they were absolutely miserable
As an ex-Mormon (I was forced to go by my grandmother) in teaching you are told the woman is meant to be near completely subservient and dependent on her husband and the thing they are meant to do is clean the house and have kids. Your also judged if you don't marry young in the church and start having kids.
Kid takes one bite, spits it out, announces they feel more like pizza, now...
The soft voice thing is taught to women to keep em ‘sweet’. Mormon’s , the Duggar’s , it’s a thing to infantilize women and keep them just above the kids in hierarchy
Was married 30 yrs. Hubby got Ms and had too stop working before 30. I was the breadwinner & he focused on being a great dad and husband and cook. Thank God i was able to give him a comfortable life as long as he was with us. Miss you every day 💔❤️
Dang that's rough. Condolences.
I've noticed broadly two types of harmful trad-female socialization so far, but it's kinda changing.
The first one is the more empathic, but kinda codependent type of woman; the middle class woman, who has all the right genuine social skills, empathy, whatever, but uses them in line with patriarchal standards, making her effectively codependent on capitalist patriarchs. Basically the family's emotional care worker. Those who became aware were the ones who ended up using their empathic awareness for feminist causes.
The second type is the stepford-type of socialization, where more emphasis is put on outward appearance, manners and daintiness. True empathic awareness is completely left behind though, as the hegemonial veneer doesn't allow for "common" authenticity. Women from this group, if they didn't manage to become aware and join feminist causes, either stay the stepford-wife, or become a girlboss and/or complain about man-spreading.
This woman is foremost stepford, but also kinda both.
I just think it's really interesting how the stepford-type seems to absorb the careworker-archetype into its model. Like care work is now supposed to be the sign of max cultivation, instead of being relegated to commoner maids. It smells like the co-option of "empathic" values seen in all modern family-first and pro-life policies. They fucking subconsciously know how wretched they are, as they know they need to adopt any semblance of healthy interpersonal stuff. They always have.
The hilarious/tragic thing here is that this is incredibly shitty and selfish childcare sandwich making. Your kid asks for breakfast and you're like, ""Thank god, I can put on my makeup and record myself making the world's most intense sandwich so that the internet will praise me." Like this is the world's most masturbatory sandwich
pretty sure this is half ragebait. What a fucking internet we've gotten huh?
It's really not that deep. She said she gave them snacks and let them play while making it. Are mothers not allowed to find joy in motherhood? Why aren't the allowed to have fun with it?
@@hihiz432 Nobody said anybody can't enjoy motherhood. And I'm no mind reader but generally kids ask for food when they're hungry, not when they want to mess around for three hours.
Getting fully dolled up and recording yourself making bread for tiktok is not Neutrally Enjoying Motherhood. You have to be brain damaged not to see ulterior motives here.
I love it when two partners both work hard full-time to manage their shared household, but only the man recieves money and respect for his labour.
Don’t confuse a PB&J with a P & BJ
Is the peanut butter to entice the BJ? 😂
I'm German and her cutting the crust off freaking TOAST made me irrationally angry. It’s toast, wtf.
Fax
Man, those asmr type voice drives me crazy.
I had a long term GF who liked doing tradwife stuff, and it was fine...because she made it clear that she did it for her own entertainment and not because of some bizarre gender role expectation. Sure, it was great to come home to warm homemade pretzels and craft beer! But on a weeknight? I'm going to make stuff in the crockpot for both of us because I can make it early and it's done when I get home, and the fact people have said I'm "out of role" doing so seems pretty weird to me. What's the deal with how ironclad America is about gender roles?
The worst, insidious aspect of "tradwife" shit is how people call ANY domestic work "tradwife stuff".
No, your girlfriend didn't do "tradwife" stuff, she had a hobby for pretzelmaking and brewing.
@@x999uuu1 Well it's also that she liked the whole "made up trad girl" look sometimes (ngl it was probably partially fetish stuff) but again, that's just an aesthetic package. She also likes cottage core and goth.
Basically it's like saying there should be a series of expectations placed on you because you dress in a particular style. America loves seeing fashion as a lifestyle, somehow...
I grew up Mormon and was raised by a trad mom. It’s strange because it feels like she’s acting like what she thinks a trad wife would act like.
She is. It’s the propaganda of billionaire interests.
The idea that this woman does any housework with these nails is absurd 😂
Or with these sleeves
Always worth bearing in mind that these women who advocate for the traditional housewife… have jobs. This woman’s job, which she is paid to do, is content creation.
My toddler stumbled into my bedroom this morning and shouted “grilled cheese” (picks up a bucket and walks to dairy farm)
god it gets me so mad how the right keeps saying the left hates trad families... No Sane Persona hates trad families we HATE that they make it out to be the ONLY thing that should be allowed smh its also not even the lefts fault its that its LITTERALLY to expensive to live like that and thats what gets me even madder
Putting aside whether this is a good message or not, being able to stay at home and be supported financially by a partner (while enjoying a good quality of life) is a privilege that few can afford these days. You may as well start an “upper middle class living” trend. I thought the point of a trend was that it was accessible?
The same interests pushing this kind of propaganda are also the same same interests making it difficult for one income to support a family. The reason this is being pushed is to politically push people right in order to protect the economic and political power of the minority exploiting the majority. It’s part of the far right strategy to protect their interests amidst a collapsing economic system. Their biggest threat at this point is working people uniting along class interests and removing the exploitative economic foundation that is the source of the elite’s wealth and power.
Who are these women trying to convince? Other women? Men? Themselves? If they feel comfortable betting that a guy can and will support them forever, then no one is going to lose sleep trying to convince them otherwise.
There are men out there able to support their family because they just work hard instead of whining all day about America and capitalism
My wife likes these videos and it's really just because she finds having a job too unbearable. Staying home all day and being able to raise our son is just more appealing to her.
@@apoc5000nobody was contesting that some can afford to do so. I’m choosing to work in the home for my man for example, and we will complain about capitalism all we want thanks.
Well hateful feminists on Reddit do lose their sleep. They hate men and easily stereotype men. Much like red pill men, how they stereotype women.
Both feminism and red pill are extreme ideologies. Both are cancer to society.
@@sunfeatherX3 please exercise your freedom of speech. I support it
the really crazy thing is this woman is 22 years old, married to a man who's 25 and has been married to 2 other women, and her children's names are slim easy and rumble honey
seriously the biggest sign that someone's not doing homemade shit regularly are the nails.
I used to work as a baker and I still somewhat do, just not with preparing and cutting the dough myself anymore and nails like this?! you can't knead dough like that and you have to do that to properly get it into shape. I hope that kid won't have mommies fake nails as a little surprise treat in their food one day .. and don't let me start on the hygiene part with long nails and especially fake nails. there's a reason bakers, cooks and so on are not allowed to have that .. *yikes*
She literally said the bread came out so nice and gold and then cuts als the crust away??! When you have a nice bread the crust is the best thing about it
Seeing all of this, and being a young, somewhat depressive, shiftless man, I find myself finding the idea of becoming a househusband or secondary earner pretty appealing. The domesticity of it all, caring for a wife and kids, and my labor benefiting my family sounds way more appealing than slaving away at any kind of job.
I wish they would just come out and agree thay communal living works. The only reason they don't is because the ONLY communal living they'll agree to is having a "nuclear family". No other versions count to them.
they know it would expose them as the cult they are.
Her making that pb&j from scratch is extra frustrating cuz im putting myself in the kids shoes. "Mom can i get a pb&j this time 2morrow plz?"😂
I don't believe her kids asked for a PB&j sandwich. She also didn't make all this in 1 day as you can see her outfit changes every recipe. In fact she's wearing a completely different outfit from when she makes the bread to when she cuts it. It's all seperate videos made at seperate times that she spliced together and claimed her kid wanted a PBJ sandwich. It's so obvious I can't believe nobody else has picked it up.
@@toedrag-release I know right. When u actually think about it, it shoulda been obvious she's fronting in ffwd.
We need a cage match to determine who’s real top G.
The baking bread and talking softly in that ASMR voice is how they tap into your brain
Considering how picky a lot of kids are. Can you imagine spending 3 hours on making them bread for breakfast, just for them to throw a temper tantrum because it's not exactly the same bread they ate yesterday?
Andrew Tate isn't a traditionalist. Both the husband and the wife have to embrace traditional gender roles and norms for it to work (but yes, it's awesome 😋).
My dad (a Vietnam vet) told me when I was a kid that I should be an independent person and shouldn't end up with some loser who doesn't know how to do basic things like cooking and cleaning. To hear about these Tate or red pill guys wanting a mommy-maid-wife, who they don't want to emotionally open up to (since they believe their weaknesses will be held against them), is quite pathetic. Love is a risk, but if you end up with a great partner, then it's worth it. These guys must not know what a healthy relationship is because how else are they falling for these manosphere losers who aren't successful with relationships to begin with.
hey, nothing wrong w being a female lifestyle sub to a male partner, that's me and i'm so happy, just don't pressure other women.
need a catboy to bring me my sandwich
Hell yeah.
It's the masters responsibility to feed the catboy! He can do other things to make it up to you.
@@zuiop9993 PB&Js are really unhealthy though. A good nyaster makes sure their catboy maintains a balanced, high-protein diet. It's also good for the meal to be in liquid form, so that poor thing doesn't extert itself with unnecessary chewing.
@@Kickiusz I gues it's a win-win situation then. If it gets any more explicit UA-cam might ban you.
@@Kickiusz (hashtag)UA-cam-comments-that-feel-like-Discord-DMs.
I do agree tho.
there is no shot this woman cooks on the reg, look at those nails lol i cant imagine my mother dressed up like a vampire making pb and j from scratch
- _"...honey what are you doing?"_
- _"making pb&j´s from scratch"_
- _"Its 4 o'clock in the morning, why on earth are you making pb&j´s?"_
- *_"Because i lost control of my life"_*
It's the "because I've lost control of my life" Rugrats meme but with raspberry jam instead of chocolate pudding.
The dishonesty in this video is the worst part. I can understand maybe making your own peanut butter and jam and bread, but not on an individual basis. Make it for the week, or make a batch and store several jars of it. Nobody is making fresh peanut butter and jam every time their kid wants a sandwich. This whole video is a lie.
You're correct, you can see her outfit changes each recipe. She didn't make it on an individual basis. She made the 3 seperate things at 3 seperate times while recording and spliced the video together into a PBJ sandwich. Also the amount she made is good enough for a week worth of lunches
Who cares? Let people live how they want to live. This is in no way the female version of that r'pist Tate.
"Mom can I have a PB&J"
>Sure hun
*starts from scratch*
>No you can't change your mind and go for a pizza or a stromboli. And remember, the crumb has to set so add a whole extra hour to the 3 it takes to proof and bake.
Who can afford to be a housewife anymore…
If I remember correctly, something like 10 or 12 hours a day preparing food for the family. It was a full-time job with crazy ot back in the olden days. I'd be happy with a single parent in society being able to support the family working. But gender roles should be consenting choices of the couple.
That was only the case a few times a year on holidays or when they were doing long term prepping and conservation for the winter . They were not having a feast every day so they did not really spend a lot of time on making food because there was not much of it anyway. Of course for the rich with big estates it was different but they had other people working for them.
@@pllpsy665 Depending on how you define 'providing' it could be very time consuming: You might just be slow cooking a vegetable stew in some bone broth, but the pot is sitting over an actual fire that you'll have to tend to keep the pot at temperature for the whole three hours your soup is simmering.
Also it would be more efficient to do a slow rise bread the night before and keep it in the fridge till the next morning....
watching her use the stove with that robe, I just imagine her sleeves bursting into flames. I worked in a kitchen for years, I have seen more than one towel catch fire in safer conditions than that.
Off topic, but making jam and peanut butter is quite time consuming, so what she should’ve done is make those the day before baking the bread.
Or better, buy the fruit in bulk (whichever one you plan on using to make the jam) while it’s in season, and make a few jars of jam so that you always have some (jam can last up to a year so you won’t have to make it until the fruit you used is in season again).
Real. A friend of mine made + jarred a bunch of peach jam with her mom and they gave some to me. absolutely delicious and also eco friendly, especially if it’s made with local in season produce like you’re saying. but making all the stuff yourself at once and creating en entire sink full of dirty dishes for a single pb&j seems insane
She did, you can see she's wearing different outfits each recipe. She also made enough for a weeks worth of lunches. What you're seeing is spliced videos taken on different days making different things. She just edited different videos together
As a german I feel very offended by the bread. Either make proper bread or stop wasting flour.
Honest to god I think 90% of the "trad wife" shit is just more of the younger generations not wating to devote most of their waking hours to a iob that barely pays them enough to survive. Being married to someone who's willing to take you on as a financial dependent so you can focus on your family/ hobbies genuinely sounds awesome. (Assuming it's by choice)
My only hang up is that i think we need to be careful with the female coded patriarchy. If this attitude becomes common, then the red pill would actually just become true at that point.
>being married to someone else who's willing to do the soul crushing wage labour so you don't have to sounds great!
This doesn't sound nearly as good as you think it does.
Sure it sounds great, but domestic labor is undervalued and is often more demanding than it appears. Your partner can work a grueling 9-5 but is it worth it if you’re working 24/7 at home? Also while not having any wealth of your own? I mean if your down for that that’s fine, but I don’t subscribe to painting a disingenuous picture of that life.
I know that is not the point Vaush is making, but this woman doing everything from scratch instead of preparing ingredients earlier just makes me want to cry.
The coolest part about doing preserves is that you can do it once per year and not bother for the rest of the year. Heck, depending on the preserve and how you made it you can keep them for a few years and they still will be edible. You can also keep the ready dough in the fridge so you only need to pop it into the oven in the morning.
This tradfem LARP fails so much it's just plainly sad.
This plus the roll back of female rights should sound deafening alarms for our future.
the shoeonhead final boss
It's like watching "Howtobasic" but less disgusting and more creepy.
Somehow I was waiting the video to turn eldritch or something.
The voice was grating, thank God Vaush kept interrupting it.
She sounds so dead inside.
Projection
I was internally screaming like Samuel Jackson in Pulp Fiction.
"COULD YOU SPEAK UP. WOMAN!?"
@@delrayking5724 Seriously? You don't even know me. Get a life.
@@OctyabrAprelya 😂
This woman literally thought she discovered sliced apples with cinnamon on top and wants to name her babies "pear, pepper, frosty, and cherry." She is not the brightest bulb in the box.
I have to admit that when the trad mom said that her daughter wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and she went and made it from scratch I laughed. Who does that? How many hours did that poor kid have to wait before she got her sandwich? Hell, I'm surprised when she started to make the bread from scratch she also didn't go into the yard to plant peanut and grape seeds! "Three months after I planted the peanuts and grapes they were ready to be picked and made into peanut butter and grape jelly, but alas, my daughter had died of starvation"
Never understood women that wanna be valued as little more than a trophy by their husbands, but to each their own
Conservatives don't want a woman that voluntarily does that. They want one they can train into doing that.
if i were to ask this woman to make a salad for me, not only would she go to the process of making homemade bread like this but with added steps to make homemade croutons, she'd prolly also grow a variety of veggies in her garden the moment i ask for said salad, and make some balsamic vinegar from scratch, and by the time it's ready, i left her house out of boredom and severe starvation. and her bump would become another mouth to feed.
THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO PLAN AHEAD. even my aro/ace sister, who loves doing homey stuff like this, KNOWS THIS.
Maybe it's just me, but this segment feels chaotic in a good way. Lot of good points hit about capitalism being at the center of these tradwife TikTok trends, but patriarchy is also ever-present.
My mom was a stay at home mom, and she would have just used Wonder bread. Making homemade takes hours, so geez, should have made that bread at least the day before.
I didn't know Andrew Tate transitioned.
Several years later: "MOM JUST BUY BREAD LIKE A NORMAL PERSON GOD YOU'RE SO EMBARRASSING"
Bring out the yeast and camera set up. Good Lord. Also a smart trad wife of the 1950s would have all this made ahead of time, or processed food was starting to become widely available and house wives loved it. Wonder bread is as Americana as it gets