You're on point, Tom. It's not that you're better than, it's that you don't allow people to be who you are. Only you know who you are. Pleasing people is an easy thing to do and not being you to please others doesn't work. You don't want drama in your life. I know because I don't either. I finally have my own apartment in which I live alone. No pets. And I feel fortunate, happy and peaceful that I can sleep at night and I'm 58, single, childfree woman never married with no kids. Yes, you can make yourself happy though I wish we'd been taught that as youngsters.
DUDE........Ive been saying this for years!! Im older and single, no kids. F that happy wife happy life shit. It should be happy house happy spouse. All my buddies that are married are miserable. Work their asses off so their wives that dont give them any sex can be happy. YOU hit the nail right on the head here. Im happy and single. Happy new year to you!
I know that this is a touchy subject for most people, especially for women. You have to set boundaries in any relationship and when people disrespect you in any relationship when you have tried to work it out. I just walk away no more discussion needed because I am not going to argue and get in a huge fight with someone that is not taking accountability for their actions. Actions speak louder than words and if you are going to try and blame me for your behavior then it is like drinking poison and hoping the other person is going to die.
Haven't dated in 15 years and don't miss it. Way too much money and time spent trying and then disappointment and reality raises its head.. Joined a square dance group and have way more fun without even talking. Out of 30 neighbors on my street, four have tried to approach me for sex and they are married. Boy, marriage must be fun.
I've always chose inner peace over a relationship. That's why I never truly cared about making a woman happy above and beyond reason. Don't like what I'm doing, bye. I met my wife and I let it be known I will do what I want when I want, but if you don't like it, I have no problem leaving. I have to give her credit though. While we have had our trials and tribulations, she has been a real ride or die woman and goes above and beyond for me.
I don't know you. Maybe it's your personality, you say your happy but I see you have no joy. For myself I enjoy my own company and feel like I'm with my best friend and rarely feel alone.
Julie I appreciate your comment. I have joy in my life. But today was the anniversary of adopting my soulmate German Shepherd Tara. I had to put her down a year and half ago. And you are right I don’t seem like I have joy in my life but today was a difficult day for me and so I don’t have any joy in the video.
The I don't need to change thing doesn't leave a lot of room for personal growth, does it? I'm sure in your head you sound confident and resolved. But to me you come across as defeated and weak. Like you have closed yourself off and are no longer willing to try. Good luck with that.
You're on point, Tom. It's not that you're better than, it's that you don't allow people to be who you are. Only you know who you are. Pleasing people is an easy thing to do and not being you to please others doesn't work. You don't want drama in your life. I know because I don't either. I finally have my own apartment in which I live alone. No pets. And I feel fortunate, happy and peaceful that I can sleep at night and I'm 58, single, childfree woman never married with no kids. Yes, you can make yourself happy though I wish we'd been taught that as youngsters.
Im married, and I took the whole day to myself in my room with my dogs. These days are priceless.
Good video. Thanks. New subscriber.
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Dogs!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ The best:)
@@Scorned405 you got that right! The only time they hurt us is why they die!
I hear you! Appreciate your sentiments. I'm of the exact same mindset.
I appreciate your comment.
DUDE........Ive been saying this for years!! Im older and single, no kids. F that happy wife happy life shit. It should be happy house happy spouse. All my buddies that are married are miserable. Work their asses off so their wives that dont give them any sex can be happy. YOU hit the nail right on the head here. Im happy and single. Happy new year to you!
Happy New Year! 100 percent to your comment.
I know that this is a touchy subject for most people, especially for women. You have to set boundaries in any relationship and when people disrespect you in any relationship when you have tried to work it out. I just walk away no more discussion needed because I am not going to argue and get in a huge fight with someone that is not taking accountability for their actions. Actions speak louder than words and if you are going to try and blame me for your behavior then it is like drinking poison and hoping the other person is going to die.
Excellent post, thanks for sharing. New sub. A+
@@honestmicky Thank you for watching and subscribing. I appreciate it.
Haven't dated in 15 years and don't miss it. Way too much money and time spent trying and then disappointment and reality raises its head.. Joined a square dance group and have way more fun without even talking. Out of 30 neighbors on my street, four have tried to approach me for sex and they are married. Boy, marriage must be fun.
@@alicecoppers8980 love it! You have the right idea!
I've always chose inner peace over a relationship. That's why I never truly cared about making a woman happy above and beyond reason. Don't like what I'm doing, bye. I met my wife and I let it be known I will do what I want when I want, but if you don't like it, I have no problem leaving. I have to give her credit though. While we have had our trials and tribulations, she has been a real ride or die woman and goes above and beyond for me.
Exactly! I appreciate that you understand the inner peace. So many people don't have it and don't understand how you achieve it.
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Well said
Thank you.
Jeez...did you cry yourself to sleep after this video?
Thank you for watching!
My pleasure....stay strong....stay independent
I don't know you. Maybe it's your personality, you say your happy but I see you have no joy.
For myself I enjoy my own company and feel like I'm with my best friend and rarely feel alone.
Julie I appreciate your comment. I have joy in my life. But today was the anniversary of adopting my soulmate German Shepherd Tara. I had to put her down a year and half ago. And you are right I don’t seem like I have joy in my life but today was a difficult day for me and so I don’t have any joy in the video.
The I don't need to change thing doesn't leave a lot of room for personal growth, does it? I'm sure in your head you sound confident and resolved. But to me you come across as defeated and weak. Like you have closed yourself off and are no longer willing to try. Good luck with that.
Thank you for watching!