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  • @Jezabzllz
    @Jezabzllz  4 місяці тому +119

    HAPPYY FRIIIEEDDAAYYY!! 💚 ((: i hope you guys had a great week! make sure to join the twitch stream tonight! we’re doing a giveaway for hitting 200 subscribers🥳🥳 LOVE YOU!!

    • @MondoSongs
      @MondoSongs 4 місяці тому

      Bro have you ever been so greened out you don’t know you are, and you keep getting greened out 😮

    • @Jadecatz
      @Jadecatz 4 місяці тому

      Love your videos lollllll you remind me of an old friend she’s an Aquarius. Are you an Aquarius lol 😂

    • @amandaowens1604
      @amandaowens1604 4 місяці тому +1

      I wanna join you you are such a vibe! ☺️

    • @Haa608
      @Haa608 4 місяці тому

      You are me jezzz😂💓

    • @MondoSongs
      @MondoSongs 4 місяці тому

      This girl is seriously living it up

  • @nidaababyy420
    @nidaababyy420 4 місяці тому +294

    as an adult the biggest think i realized is that you have to unlearn & relearn things that you were taught as a kid

    • @therooster4517
      @therooster4517 22 дні тому +3

      thank you for saying this. i read it in my head and it resonated with me, so I said it out loud and I swear on everything I had an apiphony and a sense of comfort that I'm not alone. I'm 19, soon to be 20, and as I'm going through life, I'm slowly starting to realize that everything that was told/taught to me when I was a kid is the complete opposite to how things really are. Im constantly comparing myself and judging myself based off of what I see people I used to go to high school with are doing and pretty much everyone else I see on social media who are around my age; I compare and judge myself to the fullest extent because I feel like I'm not doing or accomplishing anything remotely close to what my friends from highschool (and college) have/are accomplishing.
      I am so sorry for how long this is omfg 😭😭😭😭
      you genuinely just helped me fix a mental block that I've been dealing with everysince I graduated from highschool

  • @Angelluvspandas
    @Angelluvspandas 4 місяці тому +529

    the friends thing is so real . havent been able to make friends since i was like 15

    • @bipi420
      @bipi420 4 місяці тому +19

      So true im 24 and its so hard😢

    • @TreyGoose
      @TreyGoose 4 місяці тому +28

      ​@bipi420 I'm 28 and the only close friends I had we all stopped talking. I was always the one trying to get everybody together and texting people first. I got sick of it😒

    • @Angelluvspandas
      @Angelluvspandas 4 місяці тому +3

      @@TreyGoose that sucks alot im sorry you went through that . same happened to me

    • @ajax8079
      @ajax8079 4 місяці тому +10

      Get a Dog if u want a real friend, nuff said, goodbye✌

    • @lieselotta
      @lieselotta 4 місяці тому +3

      im 21 and sameeee. lets just be friends 😿

  • @miriamlee7654
    @miriamlee7654 4 місяці тому +212

    got me tearing up w the friend convo, i feel like covid and social media made it so much harder to make friends naturally, but it’s so comforting to see all the comments here feeling the same way. we will find our people soon 🥹🤍

  • @iREK4Ni
    @iREK4Ni 4 місяці тому +151

    "healthy healthy.....but we getting the fried one though" brhhhhhh lmfaoooooo

  • @MM-ui5kh
    @MM-ui5kh 4 місяці тому +123

    The friend conversation is so real omg 😭

  • @yorgieschmorgie
    @yorgieschmorgie 4 місяці тому +43

    i’ve always viewed you as so much more grown up and put together than me and to listen to you talk about not having friends and wanting to go out and doing things alone really puts me back to perspective that none of us know what anyone is going through 😭 reinforced why i love you and your vids so much

  • @LoBarton
    @LoBarton 4 місяці тому +99

    As someone in their 30s trust me the homies will come. I felt the same way about bridesmaids when I was your age & when I did get married I had the most special people with me.

  • @katherina4174
    @katherina4174 4 місяці тому +77

    I normally don’t stay & watch ppl talk for THIS long but girl this was so nice . This video is hitting every right spot frl love uuu

  • @julesg8925
    @julesg8925 4 місяці тому +68

    That friend convo was spot on! BUT there are benefits of being alone…the main one I realized was NOT having to wait for ppl for plans to follow through. or the disappointment of ppl flaking on you.

    • @zzmoni
      @zzmoni 3 місяці тому +1

      waiting for ppl for plans is so real i def needa get more comfortable w jus doing stuff by myself and when i want to in that moment

  • @georga7940
    @georga7940 4 місяці тому +38

    Favorite UA-camr rn. The friend thing is so very real and valid. I would totally be your friend.

  • @sma3897
    @sma3897 4 місяці тому +23

    “ always have balance” is now my favorite quote

  • @JaimeAce420
    @JaimeAce420 4 місяці тому +27

    Everything about the friend thing is so felt! I've never had cousins, siblings, or close friends that I've been super close to. I always thought it was just me, and maybe people just don't like me.. such a sad and sucky thing to experience. I've been watching you for over 3 months now and always look forward to your videos throughout the week. I am literally answering you or agreeing about stuff while I have my sesh with you. ❤ you girl!

  • @SuperMusiclover545
    @SuperMusiclover545 4 місяці тому +17

    The friends conversation you brought up is so relatable. I'm 26 and have also thought about the bridesmaid and marriage thing and I 100% relate.

  • @processingvibes171
    @processingvibes171 4 місяці тому +5

    the whole friendship part really speaks to me i love how u said exactly what i thought i love that ❤

  • @Sosawalk
    @Sosawalk 4 місяці тому +22

    One of my favorite UA-camrs rn 🫡💚

  • @TaylorJilvaughn
    @TaylorJilvaughn 4 місяці тому +20

    I heavily relate to trying to find a friend group or even just a friend, but struggling to find that spark. In a way I guess I have grouped friendships as like relationship’s, but without the romantic aspect. I still want to go on friend dates, reciprocate love languages, & feel that tie like “These are my people.” Whenever I would make a new friend I always felt like I moved my world around for them & lost myself in the midst. It didn’t feel like we were meeting in the middle to build a friendship that both people benefited from. Of course, I had my faults in the situations, but that’s been a main feeling that’s lingered for me & made it hard to trust that people will stick around.

    • @YouTubefan666
      @YouTubefan666 4 місяці тому +1

      felt this, and you put it all into words perfectly

  • @timminipray18
    @timminipray18 4 місяці тому +13

    🥲 I pray I meet you one day, this video made me get out a loop of depression, (I haven’t been smoking) but I finally took a puff watching your video today and I love your energy lovely. Definitely subscribing!!!

  • @snowpug
    @snowpug 4 місяці тому +10

    im 25 and have the same "why dont i have my group yet" feeling. you were soo real for the finding a genuine friend feels like dating and it is hard. like you said maby its just we have to build a friendship other than feeling it instantly. we live and learn i guess. but same i was prepared to have 3-5 kids by 21 when i was 16 😂(if i ever get married you can be my honerary maid of honor lol) im sooo glad someone else thinks about the teens in the system i feel like most people never do and i to would loove to adopt teenagers to give them a better life ❤

  • @BasicallyMasha
    @BasicallyMasha 4 місяці тому +36

    one time i was at a party and the only food there was jollibee chicken and some pizza. towards the end i was pretty lit and hungry obviously. so i was eating cold pizza, but it was dry so i started dipping it in the jollibee gravy 😭😭 def got clowned on for that big back moment

  • @denaelilly9795
    @denaelilly9795 4 місяці тому +9

    Jez, I feel so much like I can relate to you. I completely understand. I have no friends. Any friends I do have, have moved away or we are no longer friends due to good reason. If you ever need a friend girl, I’m here. Because everything you’re saying, I have always said to my boyfriend 1 billion times and I can relate so much, please know you’re not alone in how you’re feeling! Almost every single day at this point, I wish I could celebrate things with friends too! You’re gonna be great friends with some people and they’re gonna be so lucky. Much love girl 🫶🏽🩷✨

  • @haileymarable
    @haileymarable 2 місяці тому +1

    i love your videos omg, i’ve been following on tt for awhile & now finding you on here! :) i understand not having any real current friends that you just have that amazing bond with. you seem so fun & i can relate to you a lot! i’d love to go to the park, grab some food with ya & have a nice ole sesh or even late night store runs!!🤣✨keep up with the content🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @caliafolk7930
    @caliafolk7930 3 місяці тому +1

    i love watching while gardening you should do a bloopers reels of the outtakes ❤

  • @madisonbrown4435
    @madisonbrown4435 4 місяці тому +1

    i cant lie when u said “i basically purchased the milkshake as a dipping sauce” i busted out laughing omg, thats so real tho i love it too

  • @CassD106
    @CassD106 4 місяці тому +2

    I always feel like we are just besties hanging out and catching up during every video 😆 love you!

  • @breniyahjefferson7072
    @breniyahjefferson7072 4 місяці тому +1

    Your genuinely so real and i relate to you so much. There's not a lot of influencers that are like that and i love that for you keep doing you tho girl stay pure your so kind💞💞

  • @sachimason724
    @sachimason724 4 місяці тому +1

    thanks so much for sharing, really hit hard for me. made me feel like i’m not alone with these feelings about friends, finding your people, enjoying things on your own. thank you 💕

  • @tarafranks3796
    @tarafranks3796 4 місяці тому +1

    Something about the way you speak is soo comforting!!

  • @thriilers1017
    @thriilers1017 4 місяці тому +2

    The friend situation is so relatable. I've always been one to talk to people all throughout school and stuff but I've never gotten to find my people that are like my ride or dies. As you age it def gets more and more difficult just with everyone going into adulthood and having their own stuff going on. Wishing I'll find a best friend or a friend group with to go out and do spontaneous fun stuff with, or even doing what you did in this video. Just some other people to enjoy life with.
    Edit: Just watched the whole vid and pretty much everything you touched on even the wedding stuff is all the same stuff ive worried about to. Don't worry girl, we got this. It's not our time yet queen.

  • @elizabethmurphy7731
    @elizabethmurphy7731 4 місяці тому +1

    I love the long videos !!! Literally the only UA-camr I watch n wait for u to post next

  • @lydiacronshaw844
    @lydiacronshaw844 4 місяці тому +1

    I love how this is in the park it feels like catching up with an old friend

  • @thedivineholls
    @thedivineholls 4 місяці тому +3

    hey girl… i feel you so much with the friendship conversation. i’m getting married next year and only have my sister and sister in law as bridesmaids. it’s been humbling and eye opening. as an adult it’s so hard to make friends.

  • @tcGAMING738
    @tcGAMING738 4 місяці тому

    Love the way you express yourself, looks like you have a good head on your shoulders. Pure hearted in this world is hard to find so happy to see you happy.

  • @espunked
    @espunked 4 місяці тому +2

    i love watching your videos every week ❤ you really help some of us going thru things, including me. :)

  • @Lovelyliv444
    @Lovelyliv444 4 місяці тому +1

    Just in time!! Was looking for a new vid on this channel from watching almost all the podcast episodes 🤣🥰 love you Jez!!! 🫶🏼

  • @ethereallautumn
    @ethereallautumn 4 місяці тому +5

    i love anne hathaway toooo, literally one of my favorite actresses

  • @style.exe.
    @style.exe. 4 місяці тому +2

    i definitely feel that friend part, my friend group pretty is small rn and took me a while to find people that truly care about me and stuff so had to cut out alot of people that i found out werent good for me or even cared about me, it takes alot for me to rly get comfortable enough with people to begin with and feel that connection, the vibes have to be felt, i feel like the older we get (in my 20s) the harder it is to rly make new friends lol at least to me it is, ur vids are always chill hanging out vibes :D

  • @CharlotteQuick-rq7ey
    @CharlotteQuick-rq7ey 4 місяці тому

    This is by far my favourite video of yours! I love your transparency:)

  • @jadiegroebli541
    @jadiegroebli541 4 місяці тому +2

    I allllllways take myself out for a lifted picnic!!! 💝 snacks, fav bev, some word searches, a nice J… amazing. Also!
    Take yourself to the places you’ve been wanting to go! I’ve found that I’ve met the type of friends I’d like to have, just by simply putting myself in places I want to be ☺️ Go alone!

  • @modeloviva
    @modeloviva 4 місяці тому

    i laughed so much and related so much to this video. love your yap seshes 😂❤️❤️

  • @nidaababyy420
    @nidaababyy420 4 місяці тому +11

    i thought i was the only one that likes to randomly go to the store. i remember we use to go in walmart & goof around, take pic & never by nun🤣 imma start doin that again🤍

  • @laivuro
    @laivuro 4 місяці тому +4

    i love the food content especially when im eating too its like were friends chilling

  • @skgmrndv-fj8ln
    @skgmrndv-fj8ln 4 місяці тому +1

    omg this is the earliest i’ve ever beennnnn i love it here HAPPY HALLOWEEN 🎃

  • @Lunalyssaa
    @Lunalyssaa 4 місяці тому

    Yessss I am the one you’ve been searching for 😫 tea run at midnight bestie, let’s go! (totally relatable convo today!!!! Ty!)

  • @rylielindhurst4800
    @rylielindhurst4800 4 місяці тому

    Everything you said about not being on the timeline you thought you’d be by this age and the not knowing who you’d even have as your bridesmaids is something I think about ALL THE TIME. It helped so much knowing it’s not just a me thing and that’s it’s normal to not have that “huge” friend group

  • @cristinariv6
    @cristinariv6 4 місяці тому

    Girl ur videos are so therapeutic for me

  • @tylerjohnson1164
    @tylerjohnson1164 4 місяці тому +8

    big back meal: two, two topping pizzas, stuffed pepperoni cheese bread, chicken bacon ranch sammy, and a diet coke, all in one sitting 😅

    • @marinaluna2799
      @marinaluna2799 4 місяці тому +3

      Ur better than me with the DIET coke. Full coke all the way baby

    • @tylerjohnson1164
      @tylerjohnson1164 4 місяці тому

      @@marinaluna2799 0 calories lmao even it's 2 L

  • @andreabajkan4125
    @andreabajkan4125 4 місяці тому

    This video was so relaxing, I even went to a park myself brought fast food and watched this, best part of my day

  • @andyourewatchingkay
    @andyourewatchingkay 4 місяці тому

    i agree with everything u said, we’re best friends and remember that you’re not alone. i love that u posted on my birthday!!( i know that u post on every friday tho) you’re so pretty and i love parks as well

  • @sn7653
    @sn7653 4 місяці тому

    this is one of the realest videos you ever made Jez!!
    really connected with you...we are so similar omg. Love you

  • @MKBlovesu
    @MKBlovesu 4 місяці тому

    I have a broom just like those! I found it in the bushes the night before Halloween, rescued it and have moved all across the country with it. I named it Broom and it stays upside down by my door to ward off negative energies.

  • @kyerapractor
    @kyerapractor 4 місяці тому

    i love the halloween decor!!! i hope you find what you need and want in life aswell!

  • @NigoMadeMe
    @NigoMadeMe 4 місяці тому +1

    Your vods make me happy gang fr

  • @inked420witch
    @inked420witch 4 місяці тому

    Girlie the friendship part👏🏼 my good friend relations literally just needed for the best but I was always waiting on others to do things and missed out, SAME to trying to be social alone lol

  • @sarahmorrison7065
    @sarahmorrison7065 4 місяці тому

    “Turn down my music at a stop light” girl same I be getting embarrassed for no reason 🤣

  • @SulagnaB
    @SulagnaB 4 місяці тому

    WE ARE ALL INTO WHATEVER U POST- FOOD CONTENT, GARDENING CONTENT AND ALSO DEFINITELY THE CRAFTY ARTISTRY CONTENT TOOOO..!! ALWAYS WAITING FOR FRIDAY FOR YA❤

  • @melimelzxox
    @melimelzxox 4 місяці тому

    Im here for all the content frr but this good content got me so happy😊 tyy

  • @earthtoiindiaaa
    @earthtoiindiaaa 4 місяці тому +1

    I looove this park sesh type video💓💓

  • @ranzzcastro
    @ranzzcastro 4 місяці тому +2

    Wish I lived in Cali ❤ we could do the most random stuff while gardening

  • @jennifersanchez1507
    @jennifersanchez1507 Місяць тому

    Okay but WHY ARE YOU MEEEEEE😮‍💨 EVERYTHING you said resonated to the TTTTTTT

  • @annieefissh
    @annieefissh 4 місяці тому

    Im glad I’m not the only one who’s thought abt the brides maid thing. Me too sis. Recently I’ve made a few friends so it’s getting better but I’ve definitely thought the same thing several times.
    Ella enchanted is so good. Instantly smiled when u mentioned it

  • @FrmdaGate
    @FrmdaGate 4 місяці тому

    I love the food content please keep doing it it’s entertaining fr fr😂

  • @laila9996
    @laila9996 4 місяці тому +3

    im obsessed with ella enchanted

  • @leejjjjjjj1
    @leejjjjjjj1 4 місяці тому +2

    currently gardening with my first ever pipe! love your videos 🙂‍↕️🙏

  • @princesshdz7
    @princesshdz7 4 місяці тому +1

    i love your mindset!😍

  • @jodiesimons3390
    @jodiesimons3390 4 місяці тому

    I love you and your content ❤! you're so fun and relatable I wish I had a friend like you. 😭 its so hard to make meaningful friendships but this video gives me hope and makes me even more grateful for what I have 🥰 . we are truly not alone ✨

  • @dangitbobby.3942
    @dangitbobby.3942 4 місяці тому

    Aww hearing you talk about wanting to be a maid of honor & what an honor it would be for you, girl…anybody would be honored to have you as a friend & maid of honor, the way you just genuinely care so much like that’s so beautiful & so rare to find. that’s the type of friend I really desire to be & to hopefully have someday but same here, it’s been so hard developing life long friendships since graduating & moving away from home.

  • @aaliyahnextdoorr
    @aaliyahnextdoorr 4 місяці тому +2

    I love your vibee and I love chickfli also lol😭

  • @SoloStormz
    @SoloStormz 4 місяці тому +3

    ❌Milkshake❌ ✅Dipping Sauce✅

  • @francesriveraa
    @francesriveraa 4 місяці тому

    Girl, I love your energy 💞

  • @ce2428
    @ce2428 4 місяці тому +1

    love the vibes. just moved into my new place and can’t wait to decorate

    • @Jezabzllz
      @Jezabzllz  4 місяці тому +1

      that’s so exciting!! congrats on your new place🍾

    • @ce2428
      @ce2428 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Jezabzllzalso when my partner and i get married you’re invited ofc :)

  • @ashleybolanos6698
    @ashleybolanos6698 4 місяці тому

    This was the realest sesh talk

  • @heather.m6678
    @heather.m6678 4 місяці тому

    Most def favorite UA-camr atm ur js sooo reallll🙂‍↕️ and u should do a hair routine video because your hair looks so good!!!

  • @Andrew-tg7dp
    @Andrew-tg7dp 4 місяці тому

    this is my fav video of hers so far. i felt like we were seshing together very comforting

  • @444minah.__
    @444minah.__ 4 місяці тому

    i love watching your videos
    you’re such a natural, you’re gorgeous and you have a great personality
    and i feel like i’m your friend when i watch your videos
    you’re really pretty too

  • @areyoutreesheven9701
    @areyoutreesheven9701 4 місяці тому

    finding your people is hard but part of the journey ! i can say i’ve found my people, but i still struggle with what you talked about as well. I can do well in places alone, but i’m still awkward asf 😂. but i feel you. it’s a little tough getting through life without ppl to lean on.

  • @Suzysongbird
    @Suzysongbird 4 місяці тому

    Ella enchanted was one of my favs growing up too🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @VictasiaParker
    @VictasiaParker 4 місяці тому

    of course i choose to watch this on a Sunday.. a blessing and a curse that they aren’t open 😂

  • @KAOVK
    @KAOVK 4 місяці тому +1

    PERFECT TIMINGGGG

  • @Moondustsmellsfunny
    @Moondustsmellsfunny 4 місяці тому

    Your videos are always amazing, you have such a gorgeous energy.

  • @nichotex
    @nichotex 4 місяці тому

    awesome video as always, looking forward to the next one! 😄

  • @AalyiahJoyce
    @AalyiahJoyce 4 місяці тому

    Crazy fun how cozy your introduction is

  • @DametricesHarris
    @DametricesHarris 4 місяці тому +1

    Love the video. We really was just chilling in the park. Thank you for being you. It's nice to know there's beautiful souls in this world. Imma 26yr man, and it is hard to make friends still, but i get it when you actually have a good heart. You have to watch the company you keep. It's gonna take longer for ppl like us to make friends. Because we're in it for the love, not doing it to benefit materially. Anyway, i hope i worded that right. ✌&❤ i love yall. Have a groovy ass weekend and don't forget to thank God always.

  • @mimisaucedo3422
    @mimisaucedo3422 4 місяці тому

    love your energy 🥰

  • @cloeydavis509
    @cloeydavis509 Місяць тому

    girl a have a friend that looks just like you that moves here (alabama) from la and she has the same calm welcoming fun peaceful personality that you have, and she is so social and said she loved the ppl there. put yourself out there! keep socializing yourself, sometimes u find negative energys but sometimes you find the most positive ones!

  • @Yumlishishbbqbbl
    @Yumlishishbbqbbl 4 місяці тому

    honestly i feel you on the friend thing. i haven’t found a friendship that doesn’t drain my social battery.

  • @jolovesjune222
    @jolovesjune222 3 місяці тому

    there has always been this life line that has been instilled in us since we were little of marriage and kids by this age and all that, but it never pans out that way and if it does, alot regret it so young. im engaged now at 35, and honestly could not imagine that at 24! you are perfect where you are at! everyones life is their own unique adventure.

  • @AalyiahJoyce
    @AalyiahJoyce 4 місяці тому

    I'm hoping to do this when I get home from vacation I LOVE fall just as much as this !!!

  • @ikyoulovemelmao
    @ikyoulovemelmao День тому

    we need a uncut version now id love for a 3 hour video of you just yapping

  • @nyquaviousrichards1065
    @nyquaviousrichards1065 4 місяці тому

    You are a great UA-camr I watch your videos everyday even at night when when I'm going to fall asleep but yeah you're a great UA-camr keep it up you going to make it to a million or a hundred million I know you can

  • @p00hkam
    @p00hkam 4 місяці тому

    I’m 22 now, and I def have had the same realization that I thought I would be doing hecka fun activities with some close friends, extravagant or small, and just have a blast with them already at this age. It’s definitely harder making friends the older we get, but I know it’s never too late to make them so I’m not discouraged. I def also have to work on my social skills LOL but also gotta try to appreciate being alone like u do :)

  • @frankie9421
    @frankie9421 4 місяці тому

    18:39 was so real I've had the same exact thought 😭

  • @thegardenpixi
    @thegardenpixi 4 місяці тому

    currently rolling up while watching 🤍

  • @MearraSauron
    @MearraSauron 4 місяці тому +3

    22:29 omg same , I loved Ella enchanted. I wish I lived in Cali, everything you talk about and like doing I like as well! lol I think we would have that friend click 🫶🏻

  • @snakejohnfan2
    @snakejohnfan2 4 місяці тому

    You are the chillest chick, I’m not much of a talker but I like to listen and give my opinion here and there but it is nice to have that one good friend who you can be yourself and say whatever is on your mind

  • @sankandimi
    @sankandimi 4 місяці тому

    LOVVVEEE this video, more videos like this please

  • @444ryn6
    @444ryn6 4 місяці тому

    the friends thing is SO real

  • @ava1772
    @ava1772 4 місяці тому +1

    big back moment: one time me and my coworkers were working a morning shift and at 7am we ordered donuts & kolaches, then at 8am we ordered chick fil a breakfast, then like an hour later we ordered taco bell breakfast..... then at 10 we ordered mcdonald's breakfast & açaí bowls , mind you it was only 4 of us and we ate it ALL😭. its so embarrassing now that i think about it ....

  • @wompwompWomp1
    @wompwompWomp1 4 місяці тому

    That mcdonalds order was insanee LOL. I get it tho hahaha

  • @lunaportman4972
    @lunaportman4972 9 днів тому

    Genuinely I feel like Covid messed all of us up. Like the other day I went out and was so nervous to talk to other people, but once I did I realized how much the other people also wanted to make new friends!! Social shyness is real