I recently left my toxic work place last month and its the best thing I have ever done. I tried to get myself work whilst I still had a job there and I couldn't even work on my resume because that's how low my self esteem fell, I was so disconnected from myself that I couldn't even hear myself think. Its a month on and I'm loving the work opportunities coming my way, its like all my blessings opened up when I left there... Don't stay in a toxic work place, the risk it posses on your mental health will never enable you to stay sane.
The best advice i can give to someone is just do your job and dont worry abot what anybody else is doing dont look to the left nor to yor right and dont forget to ask god for a little help
This is far to be the best advice. The best advice is run. We can't ignore what's going on around us, we are not stones. We are part of the surrounding and we unconsciously breathe into it. If something doesn't serve you and is harming you and your values just leave, you are not a statue
I quit and done volunteering instead. The job was that shit that I'd be happier working somewhere for nothing instead of being paid working for a toxic bully manager.
when they continue to find ways to overload your workload and always find ways to set you up to fail. When this continues to happen unnecessarily then you know there’s a problem. And sometimes talking to the supervisor or superintendent will make no different. There is the possibility that these people are behind this type of degradation in the workplace. So do be aware of this, as this happens quite often in the military.
I am sorry to hear that you have encountered such toxicity in the military. For me, the civilian world, in terms of transitioning, is far more toxic. I did not come across any issues while I served Active Duty or Reserve, but did have setbacks in the National Guard, which is why I went back to the Reserves. Both Active Duty and Reserve components are Federally funded and mandated, which is why I believe there are fewer issues. They are held to higher standards. My suggestion is to you: keep a forward mindset. Whatever you do, try your best to remain focused and silent, as well as objective. If situations occur that could provide a detriment to that, point it out immediately to those who you can trust. If you have no one who can help, it may also be of interest to choose another MOS or perhaps request a transfer. Learn what you can, make the most of it, & keep it moving. Good luck.
I think it's ridiculous how we allow HR to not fix this...its literally there job ....to find team players....not just fill the void with anybody....toxicity should not be accepted it should be avoided at all cost as it will eventually ruin the buisness.....and you will be stuck with debt....
I worked in a toxic environment for 17 years. It's hard to admit it, but it broke me down mentally and caused me to contemplate suicide. The bosses would have no problem of verbally abusing people. Even fellow employees would bully and back stab. After 17 years I had had enough, I quit the place and went to work at a job that paid 50% less but I sure was happy there and enjoyed the work and the people I worked with. I worked at the new job for 10 years and then retired, it was a tough decision for me because I really liked the job and the people, but it was time for me to retire. If I knew then what I know now, that toxic job I had, I would have left the place the next day.
Exactly I was disgusted when my retired boyfriend called his best friend and business partner his boss. I told him can you at least call him your business partner? Grow tf up
I dont like the title . Its like " how to accept your toxic workplace and be happy with it ", as if its the responsibility of the employees, not the employer. Pure gaslight! Sounds like domestic abuse.
I recently left my toxic work place last month and its the best thing I have ever done. I tried to get myself work whilst I still had a job there and I couldn't even work on my resume because that's how low my self esteem fell, I was so disconnected from myself that I couldn't even hear myself think. Its a month on and I'm loving the work opportunities coming my way, its like all my blessings opened up when I left there... Don't stay in a toxic work place, the risk it posses on your mental health will never enable you to stay sane.
The best advice i can give to someone is just do your job and dont worry abot what anybody else is doing dont look to the left nor to yor right and dont forget to ask god for a little help
This is far to be the best advice. The best advice is run. We can't ignore what's going on around us, we are not stones. We are part of the surrounding and we unconsciously breathe into it. If something doesn't serve you and is harming you and your values just leave, you are not a statue
@@lemaxx2638 The problem is so many workplaces are the same.
@@argonaut6386 this is so trueee, doesn't matter where, size of company, all are same . How others are made to fit in this and others no ?
@@lemaxx2638 Indeed, the sad thing is there's no need for it. Just the nasty side of human nature.
"catty coworkers" is a perfect description for these soulless individuals
I quit and done volunteering instead. The job was that shit that I'd be happier working somewhere for nothing instead of being paid working for a toxic bully manager.
Dont blame you...life is too short..God bless😇
At my workplace they can't keep new hires because it's a horrific place to work. It's exhausting. So many problems and fellow employees are useless.
when they continue to find ways to overload your workload and always find ways to set you up to fail. When this continues to happen unnecessarily then you know there’s a problem. And sometimes talking to the supervisor or superintendent will make no different. There is the possibility that these people are behind this type of degradation in the workplace. So do be aware of this, as this happens quite often in the military.
I am sorry to hear that you have encountered such toxicity in the military. For me, the civilian world, in terms of transitioning, is far more toxic. I did not come across any issues while I served Active Duty or Reserve, but did have setbacks in the National Guard, which is why I went back to the Reserves. Both Active Duty and Reserve components are Federally funded and mandated, which is why I believe there are fewer issues. They are held to higher standards. My suggestion is to you: keep a forward mindset. Whatever you do, try your best to remain focused and silent, as well as objective. If situations occur that could provide a detriment to that, point it out immediately to those who you can trust. If you have no one who can help, it may also be of interest to choose another MOS or perhaps request a transfer. Learn what you can, make the most of it, & keep it moving. Good luck.
This happened to me in the workplace. I ended up getting bullied out of the workplace.
I quit and got something much better. That was my solution.
Avoid gossip ... Don't take it personaly ...
He's on mark with his assessment of toxic attributes - good advice.
I think it's ridiculous how we allow HR to not fix this...its literally there job ....to find team players....not just fill the void with anybody....toxicity should not be accepted it should be avoided at all cost as it will eventually ruin the buisness.....and you will be stuck with debt....
Hr only care about ceo
@stream dance like nobody’s watching the problem is, i don't snitch
HR are usually friends with the bullies.
You'd be surprised. Many HR departments turn a blind eye to toxic behaviours.
There are any number of UA-cam videos etc. that highlight HR as being at the root and/or cause of the problems.
9am Monday morning FML - careful what ya wish for! Half joke, need to take our health serious
I worked in a toxic environment for 17 years. It's hard to admit it, but it broke me down mentally and caused me to contemplate suicide. The bosses would have no problem of verbally abusing people. Even fellow employees would bully and back stab. After 17 years I had had enough, I quit the place and went to work at a job that paid 50% less but I sure was happy there and enjoyed the work and the people I worked with. I worked at the new job for 10 years and then retired, it was a tough decision for me because I really liked the job and the people, but it was time for me to retire. If I knew then what I know now, that toxic job I had, I would have left the place the next day.
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You nerds should know all about that lol.
how can you call another man a boss
Exactly I was disgusted when my retired boyfriend called his best friend and business partner his boss. I told him can you at least call him your business partner? Grow tf up
I dont like the title .
Its like " how to accept your toxic workplace and be happy with it ", as if its the responsibility of the employees, not the employer.
Pure gaslight!
Sounds like domestic abuse.
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