Tbh i would be happy if i was her ig because i would eat all that food alone in peace without loud ppl around me, without ppl talking things that i could live my life without Just eat in peace a lot of food And don't tell me I'll be fat, because when i gain weight i easy lose that weight too sooooo
What was the reason she cancelled? We were invited to my husband's boss's home for Christmas dinner and we felt a lil pressured to go since he was a new horse n so even tho that day is my birthday,we canceled our plans with our family n friends to attend yet when the day came as we were getting ready the boss called to cancel stating he had partied the night prior so had a hangover n wasn't up to host us. I was livid n there after declined several invitations but we had moved next to him n again felt pressured to go but this time by my husband so after my second beer there I then proceeded to tell his boss why I didn't come to any of his previous invitations in front of all the guests n his jaw n everyone else's was on the floor. He looked at me so surprised n without words he then noticed everyone watching n apologized. Suffice to say that was our last time attending any other of this man's parties because he just wasn't a respectful, considerate or appreciative man. I could tell even his wife hated him. My husband has since found another job.
@@EleighaLipscomb-oi3pl which got him killed, so basically he did. It was an awful thing all around on the dad’s part and he should be ashamed of himself. It is neglect and parents are always telling us to do things correctly, just like she asked; but he didn’t. It is completely her father’s fault and he basically did kill the dog. If he just would’ve done what she asked Nimbus would still be here.
Omg! I don’t celebrate Thanksgiving, but seeing how much she worked for such a beautiful dinner, and then seeing the hope melt away literally made me cry…
Same thing happened to me last year. My mom was entering hospice so I decided to host thanksgiving for the first time. I cooked two turkeys mashed potatoes, candied yams, stuffing etc. bought table cloths paper plates and 200 dollars on dessert asking everyone what they wanted. The day before everyone cancels. Never again. Edit: Thank you for all your kind words, this year for Thanksgiving we’re going to feed the homeless, donating food and toys to those less unfortunate.
I don't comment on other people's comments much but I'm so sorry. 😭 That had to have felt horrible, and damaged some good opinions for you. :) It was on them though, you were trying to do something really kind and giving. I hope all of your holidays from this year on will be filled with those who appreciate you.
Almost the same has happened to me. Even had a bounce house rented. The dining area looked like a quinceanera the way I set up.All that wasted food since everyone bailed on me.I spent over a hour crying in the restroom so my kids wouldn't see. I'm sorry that happened to you. It sucks to put all that effort into it and nobody cares.My kids were happy at least.They had everything to themselves. And said if felt fancy having a big o setup for the 4 of us 😂.
Awww am sorry!!! Thats why i dont do anything like that at my house because am scared everyone will cancel on me and leave me hanging. I hope they made it up to you because thats horrible to do😢
I could see the tears in your eyes when you move to the mac and cheese off camera... I'm so sorry, and I hope that everything is okay and your family gets to have a day together very soon. Your food looks very good by the way
Ashley, I am deeply sorry for your loss of your little bundle of joy. Losing a loved one is never a good time in someone’s life when they made someone so happy. R.I.P. to Nimbus. Fly high little angel 🕊️
Omg I’m watching this after her father caused the death of Nimbus. Like they seem like they just don’t care about poor Ashley’s feelings at all 😢 We love you Ashley! ❤
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
I defiantly relate. Made a ton of food for my birthday party cause people told me they were coming. Only three people showed up out of the 12 that said they were coming. My sister told me that those who came are the real ones. My best friend traveled for over an hour to the party and the other so called friends live nearby and didn’t show up. My bestie is a real one
happened to me too, except my bestie told me she herself gonna bring everyone to my party, my mom ordered a lot of food only for it ended with no one coming to my birthday party, not even my best friend. The next day, she didnt even say sorry 😌
Me and my husband have lots of mutual friends so my parties are always really nice, big or small, but of friends that are only my own I invited 4 total, 2 who live in town 1 that lives 1.5 hrs away and another that lives 5 hrs away +$120 bridge toll for crossing there and back, the two friends from out of town actually showed up when I told them I understood if it was too much, the 2 friends from in town both canceled on me last minute, like during the party. I was so bummed out but now if I do invite them to anything I just message our group chat with the day and time and don't bring it up again, saves me the disappointment. I understand canceling but last minute canceling is the worst.
And that’s why I just go to dinner for my birthday or have a quiet me with my wife and kids, I don’t make time for the disappointment that can happen. All you can do is give a straightforward answer when you’re invited and that’s a yes or a no. Sorry you had to go through that.
Yea I usually just plan to have my birth day just me and my girl and I might go see my mom if she in town at the time. I’ll invite people but no one really ever shows . My job this year did more then anyone . But half my job is family so it counts !!! But I got some happy birth day at least on social media 😂😂
This made me sad now that we know what happened to baby Nimbus thanks to them Im like... Damn i can understand why she has the bad anxiety .... Poor love...
To all of you in the comments in pain: My big brother/best friend taught me something. He said once, "Those who want to be there will be there. You shouldn't pay any mind to those who don't." My sweet sixteen, he is the only person who came. My sister who lived with me even made it a point to leave. He was there because he wanted to be. He died a month later. Cherish who you have and forget who you don't. It gets better, I promise. I just turned eighteen and even if barely anyone in my family showed up, I still had some of my people. ❤️
Totally agree! It does getting better. Times will heal and show us who we should keep in our life. Don't wasted time on those who don't even care about you.
omg the wisest words that ill live by i love this thanks for sharing im sorry nobody showed up but u were able to see who was really there for u and its something ull never forget! HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY BOO! 💜🥰
the fact that she decided to cancel on the day you were expecting them, that's so horrible. the least she could've done was call you a day before saying that she wasn't able to make it, seeing all the effort you put in into making a really good meal for your family and them cancelling on you is the worst feeling ever..
@Aas why are you getting so mad at her. No one’s saying her mom is a “bad” mom or “crappy” mom. Also, she doesn’t owe any of us an explanation’s as to why they cancelled. She was just hurt that it happened. Obviously she doesn’t hate her mom or think she’s a shitty person but sometimes life happens. No one in this scenario is a bad person. It’s sad with how much effort she put into it but it’s not the end of the world.
@Aas ever think that her and her mom are not the problem but it’s everyone who looks at them and just assumes the worse?? With literally no back story or anything? That’s society for you. Maybe don’t judge people based off a small clip on the internet. Again, she didn’t own anyone any explanation. She just wanted to share that she was sad her family cancelled. If she’s not mad at her mom then I don’t think everyone should be painting her as a bad person when no one knows the story. Doesn’t sound like a them problem, sounds like a society problem.
@@calmcuke6865 im not? literally just saying if she had something coming up and wasn't able to make it then she could've called in advance to let her daughter know so that she wouldn't of had to cook all that food just for them to not show up...did you even read my comment properly?
Hello beautiful, I just wanted to share in your grief. I’m so sorry for the tragic loss of Nimbus ❤ Mainly the part that makes it worse is the parent situation. I’m 41 yr old and the amount of times my Asian parents fkd up on an emotional level - I can’t count. Just know that all your feelings are valid even if your father doesn’t understand. If they don’t change, your expectations will change over time and that’s ok. Sending so much love ❤
@@hutikult8247 calm down bro. stop bringing ut up. she doesn't probably know what that is bc shes probablg dumb (no hate or wtv) not even my mom knew what it was
The fact that her parents canceled Thanksgiving on her and then let her dog die is super messed up. And Ik it was not rlly there fault. We all luv u gurl, stay strong!❤❤❤
It isn’t rude, she could’ve gotten sick, someone could’ve gotten hurt, there’s millions of things that could have went wrong, her mom sounded sad too so it is not “rude”
My family did this to be once. It wasn't a holiday but I had planned a housewarming for two months, bought a crap ton of food, had games set up, my kids were excited, and it was basically just family. But then my sibling decided they needed to film something for a school project on exactly the same day and time so my entire family bailed on me the morning of so they could be there for my sibling. That was around the time I started seriously considering going no contact
Getting my kids hopes up like that I would have been pissed. The decent thing to do would have been to give a 24 hour notice to say hey we’re doing this instead of coming over sorry to inconvenience you and the kids we’ll do something on another day. So that way you’d have time to prepare yourself mentally to tell your children that what y’all had planned isn’t happening that day but you’d find something else to do that would be fun and they’d be excited about to do with you
This feels even more like a kick in the teeth, given I just watched the Nimbus video. It's really taking a lot in me not to assume the worst of her parents.
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
@@thejamcam And so what? She puts her life on the internet that means people will comment on it. If she didn't like ir, she should've disabled her video.
@@schy9614 but you still shouldn’t comment about it, nimbus was a very big thing in her life like reminding that nimbus died is like reminding someone that their grandma died or smth (sorry if that happened for you) and yes she puts her life on he internet but that still shouldn’t mean that ou should comment on tings reminding her that he’s gone. All I’m saying.
@@thejamcam Doesn't matter what people's intentions are, she puts her life on the internet WITH comment section on, people are free to comment whatever they feel. Free speech means free to speak. Lastly, she introduced her dog to the internet then she tells us how he passed away. People obviously had a parasocial relationship with that dog, so it's not all about Ashely. She let people in her life then allow people to comment and feel as they wish, she made her views by being emotional, it's obvious people still going to be emotionally invested. This is consequences of your actions.
It breaks my heart. If I was her I would have cried after, like working that hard and being that excited and making all that yummy food, I would cry. I bet she shed a tear or two just based on her face. You can see her heart drop when she said it’s canceled.
@@duomonkVRidk if it’s on both iPhone and android but if you updated your phone you should be able to get them(it might be on both but all I know is that it’s on iPhone 🩵)
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
your face when mom said she wasn’t coming 😞 i send big virtual hugs. i had this happen to my on my 21st birthday. i didn’t even want to go out and celebrate because i preferred to be home with cake and drink a beer with my dad but my coworkers insisted i did something so they suggested a really popular sushi restaurant and i was pretty excited and invited a few other people. the evening comes, i’ve just walked in to put my name down for a table and then calls and texts started coming in that they couldn’t make it. one even tells me it was someone else’s’ birthday and said they were going clubbing and told me to go over there instead. i remember sitting there with the only friend that showed and just had to hold in my tears and call my dad to take me home. i somehow managed not to cry but geez did my chest hurt. i felt so betrayed and no one even apologized. i ended up transferring locations because i felt so embarrassed.
lol these comments are so weird! Why did you let your friends influence you to do something you didn’t want to do? If you just wanted to celebrate your bday with your dad, you should have just done that. 🙄 then you want to play the victim when nobody showed up to the party that you didn’t even want lol
Nah , girl my mom straight up said she would not come to my hostel to get me because of her friends get- together, like I was having desintry and dengue..... When I said it hurt me she was like " i thought you would be happy if you found out your mother was finally getting socialised" ...yeah not when I am literally dying. She came after 3 days since it took time to manage. I had told her to come the next day itself since I was not able to bear it.
That was a shitty thing to do. A real mom would never! Not unless there was a serious emergency. Truly terrible how many selfish parents there are out there.
This didn’t really happen with me, but I can relate. I work in a retail store, and I had to close that day at my job until midnight. My mom, brother, niece, and moms bf were all enjoying family time, eating the feast I prepared the night before. As I got home, everyone went to sleep, and I just sat in the dining room alone, eating quietly. I cried that day, because I wanted to celebrate with my family. Even last year on thanksgiving, my mom and I celebrated alone but we had each others company. It made me tear up but my mom did wake up and sat with me to give me company, and told me that she was grateful for me 🥲 Edit: y’all are sweet istg- thank you all. T^T NEW EDIT: I finally left that job, so I didn’t miss the rest of the holidays. ❤️
I think I can relate. I got extremely sick on Christmas eve 3 years ago. I had to go to the ER and I cried my heart out to the doctor. I begged him to let me go home between shots of morphine when I was conscious. I was in pain and close to death but I felt like I was missing something important. My family is spread all over the country and I was losing the chance to see them. I was stuck in the ER for 2 weeks and my mom visited everyday. Only a couple other family Members visited but I felt so sad inside. I had put so much effort into celebrations to see all my snacks, appetizers and gifts being left at home.
Girl I did that shift 7 years in a row as a single mom! No one ever wanted to work close on holidays so I always took it because they paid double… so I spent the holiday mornings with the kiddos then they went to their dad and I went off to work to make that double pay baby!😂. It sucked but was well worth it because the paychecks showed it and holidays are expensive as a single Mom and I was able to spoil my kids🥰
I'm sorry if I was there I would of stayed up or got up when u got there I used to work retail and my boss made everyone work on thanksgiving because she said it wasn't fair to give certain people the day off but we didn't work long shifts everyone with kids was off by 1 and everyone without kids worked until 1030 but me being the 1 cooking I had to rush home and finish everything b4 3 so my husband could eat because he had to work 430pm to 430am his job don't even give him Christmas off
Sadly I can relate bc this happened to me. Made a whole, huge dinner and my family bailed. This was last year. It was the first year after my Aunt passed away, and she was basically the mom I never had, so it was a rough one. And the few family members who had said they were coming just never showed up. Didnt even call to cancel. Luckily I had my brother and my boyfriend though. Thank God for them! Still really hurt though. Now I celebrate with my boyfriend & his family & I'm so grateful for them!
That sad and inconsiderate of your family. Thanksgiving is a big deal. Lots of planning and prep work. I'm glad you have others to rely on during this time of year.
After what happend to Nimbus i think i can relate what the situation with her family, it's the same situation with mine and the best way is to stay faaaar from them who can't appreciate you and your effort
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
My mama was in the hospital this year. The nurses were so kind and brilliant. The hospital cafeteria cooked us all Thanksgiving dinner and the nurses each brought a dessert for patients and family to have!!! They even let the grandkids up to eat with her if they passed temp check! It was so so so sweet.
One thanksgiving my mom was really sick from cancer so I decided to make all the food for my family’s dinner. I spent the two days before getting out of work and preparing desserts and everything I could when I had time. Then the day of I knew I was super overwhelmed and asked if my siblings could help me with certain things. They all just ignored me and went to my dads while I had to finish everything on my own. I didn’t even eat when they did I felt so used and unappreciated after I was all done. They loved it though.
I literally cried during the end idc if this was a year ago it’s still rlly sad and u can see that she just wanted to full on ball right there because of how her family bailed on her on the most special day, I can tell how much that day was special to her, all that hard work for nothing
That’s the saddest thing ever “I wanna celebrate with you” got me sobbing 😭😭😭 edit:thank you guys so much for 4k likes❤️ edit 2:DAD!! IM FAMOUS I HAVE 6K LIKES!!!!
although i have no idea what thanks giving is but i can definitely feel her excitement go away and the sadness in her face was very much relatable for a lonely person.
Thanksgiving is a American holiday that tons of Americans celebrate. Long long ago in England people wanted religious freedom so they went on a boat called the may flower hoping to go somewhere else than England. They made it to Massachusetts in America the boat ride was horrible. Many people died and got sick. They tried living there it was horrible it was the winter and no one could eat. They got kicked out by a native tribe and had to go somewhere else. They lost even more people but they finally found somewhere where they could start a colony, A new native tribe helped them out. Showed them how to cook how to plant how to hunt. They were soo grateful! So they had a bunch of harvest and decided to have a feast with the native people. They had fun and ate there food. So thanksgiving is basically a holiday that represents being grateful and eating food for being grateful and stuff,
@@Strawberrybearslimes-bo4gl Not trying to start anything but as a non american, hearing that they left for religious freedom is wild to me bc we learnt that they were religious extremists. We have thanksgiving in Canada too though! It's a similar stuff your face holiday I think.
@@feesaylon7252 oohhhh you teacher might've been talking about the people who were with the king in England who only wanted them to worship their religion. Or, it could've been like on the may flower their were people who wanted to strike it rich for going to a new land for money and stuff and there was the pilgrims who wanted religious freedom, I hope that helped!
We don't have Thanksgiving where I'm from, but this made me think about my 14th and 15th birthday. I have always made a point of doing things for people I would want for myself. I would always go to the birthday's of my friends, performances, sleepovers, etc. so when I invited all my friends to my birthday I really thought that they'd come. No one showed. I remember just watching the clock the entire time, cried myself to sleep too. Same thing happened next year. Never really celebrated my birthday again. Y'all showing up matters. (Edit: this is getting so much more attention than I expected it too 😳)
I would of definately came as long as there was cake, no one invited me 😒 My parents never celebrated any of their kids' birthdays, let alone spend money & time on throwing a party for a bunch of kids to come over who didn't have any connection to them or their world. As for you, the only advice I can give you is, don't stare back at the past, just look forward to the future, dream, plan & execute. This truly is your life & you need to draw the path going forward. Stand firm in your decisions & don't let others bring you down with their emotional roller coaster of a life. You are better off without them. Life post school graduation is very different. You will meet people from all walks of life & all age categories & make new friends. Believe me, it's not as scary as one might think. You will instantly grow some years up once you enter those doors & walk the halls. I had to get used to calling professors by their first name or surname, whichever they preferred 🤭
you deserve a better friend group. if those guys don’t have the time of day to return the favour to someone who they didn’t realise were probably one of the best people they could have ever met, they’re not real friends
Ashley is a very strong woman and also a very happy person with nimbus but since nimbus is gone..Ashley is just very sad hope you will be ok Ashley I know it’s very hard to loose a dog. Fly high nimbus love you from nick ,Ashley and all fans of nimbus and ashley ❤🕊️
Girl I’m so sorry. I watched this video just after the video mentioning what happened to Nimbus (RIP little angel 🤍) and I can’t help but think how this family of yours is treating you and your boundaries (it reminds me of how my family used to treat me) and it saddens me so much. I know it’s not my place to tell you what to do, but I just hope and pray you’re gonna find a way to heal and remove toxicity out of your life. I can see how you have a big heart and love to love and just hope you’ll find a way to keep your heart protected and some good ears and guidance to help you. 🫂💞 Much love 🫶🏼
I can’t enjoy cooking anymore because every time I make an effort and am happy at the result, my brother makes comments about how disgusting it is and I shouldn’t ever cook, just to piss me off. Even when it’s bussin (do we still use that word?)
@@udontevenwannaknowbruv don’t take it to heart all brothers do this but secretly love our meals :) happens to me all the time but he still eats all my food and asks me to cook
Just experienced this at home. Both my parents cancelled their own birthday treats which i booked prior & had to make plans for them. They didnt tell me they had other plans at the very last minute on the same day. So end up it was all wasted & i never got the sorry that i deserved. Wounds that would never heal 💔
I hope you grant yourself the gift of healing by forgiving them anyway. And then forgive yourself for trusting that they would be there, because they were actually supposed to be there. Forgive them anyway. You deserve a happy heart.
Forgive them they didn’t know. I almost had this situation happen to me I almost bought tickets to a game for my parents (moms bday or Christmas gift) and my dad said they will be back home on the 26th and the game is on Jan 1st but my mom said she was going to be gone that day because she’s going pick up my grandma and it’s a 5hr drive. So look at it this way, next time just communicates with them. I know it’s a surprise but sometimes they end up not knowing and end up planning stuff. So communicate communicate and communicate!!! Please forgive them I know you are livid. I’m sorry that it happened to you!!! I hope you were able to cancel your reservations or at least get your money back.
@@ambs9223thank you so much for the kind words!!!!!! I really need to hear this!! I hope you would heal too dear sister & you deserve nothing but the best!!!!! I’ll be keeping you in my prayers ❤️
@@peta591indeed that the act of forgiving is powerful. Thank you for reminding me precious soul ❤️ i pray that you are blessed in any form of goodness throughout your life.
Her parents… are not very caring to her I feel bad 😢 first cancelling a dinner right in her face she was so happy but then her mood slowly changed from this: 😂❤😊🤪😜😝😆 to this: 😕🙁☹️🥺😢 and second her father left nimbus out alone, and unfortunately… he got eaten by, a coyote 😢 Ashley deserves much better… But Nimbus saw her pain and sent Ghost to her! Nimbus you brought joy to this world thank you 🙏 😢
I hope she had a really good reason because cancelling so close to the event is awful. I hate when people cancel last minute when you’re already there or have everything prepared because it makes you ask yourself why you even bother. I know this happened a while ago but Sending hugs. 🥰
Did this for a Christmas Party that I invited so many people to and got everyone gifts. My friends were the only ones who came and stayed! Sometimes friends are more like family than your actual relatives. Ik things happen tho.
Awe she looked so hurt and heartbroken 😔 she put in such a huge effort too, bless 🙁 I literally wanted to reach through the screen and give her a huge hug and pinch a bit of her Mac n cheese and those popper thangs! It all looked soooooooo good!! Kudos to you girl 👏
“HALEPEENYOS” TRIGGERS ME BUT GALEBIO IS MY LIMIT. BRO GALEBIO. WHAT IS THIS AMERICAN PRONUNCIATION FAILS EVERY HUMAN WHO SPEAKS SPANISH OR ANY DIALECT OR ANY PETSON WHO HAS LATIN ROOTS?!
“JaLePio pEPeRs” also the sadness in her eyes. she looked so passionate for the mac and cheese. man that happened to me on my birthday. i was preparing the cake and they just told me they cancelled.
I’m so sorry that ur Thanksgiving dinner with ur family was canceled 😢 u can spend thanksgiving reading our exiting comments as if we celebrated with u!❤
I feel you. My mom didn't come to my house either, she told me last minute she made other plans even though we had decided on who was making different things. She lives about 1,500 feet away from me, literally around the corner. I am tired of being upset and hurt. It's as if the more she can hurt me the more it satisfies her. It has gotten bad over thr last 3 years with her.
I can’t even tell you how much I relate. Please, please, please - for the sake of your own health - STOP attempting to please your mother, if this is how she acts. She acts this way, because of how AWESOME you are, and she can’t handle it. And I am not stating such, to make you feel better - it’s a full on fact. I know, from very personal experience. And if you let this continue getting to you, it WILL cause chronic health issues. I was bedridden/housebound, for a near decade, with adrenal disease - while my mother, legit, attempted to stress me out to DEATH, while being my “caretaker.” From ages 26-35. Because of this adrenal disease, both due to internal health issues - as well as constant exposure to stress/trauma growing up and over the past decade (recently found out my grandmother was diagnosed with narcissistic personality amity disorder, in the 90’s).. I started perimenopause early; only a few months ago, right before my 35 birthday. I haven’t even had a chance to get married and have kids, yet - the one thing I prayed to become a better person for, the month prior to my getting sick, nearly a decade ago. Please, do not let someone who’s only joy in life is to destroy yours, have that power over you - simply, because they are your mother. You owe her NOTHING. You’re in my prayers.
@@XOChristianaNicole oh my goodness. I do hope it gets better for you. I know its rough. I love my mom but I wasn't the one she really liked.... and I knew it and I believe that's why I try hard to please her. I pray it gets better for you. Dont give up.
Awe! That felt like an arrow to the heart and not in a good cupids arrows way either! Ive been there many times sadly! Holidays can be really stressful and chaotic and a scheduling (so that you can spend time with everyone) nightmare!
Having this much panicking and then having it canceled right after you tried so hard. Just makes me feel guilty at some point cause I feel so bad because so many others had their thanksgiving and you didn’t get to. I’m sad, but happy thanksgiving! And maybe if it gets canceled again make a Friendsgiving!😅
I feel her pain, the person that I was expecting didn't even have the audacity to let me know she wasn't coming and my children watched and helped me work my ass off for a great Thanksgiving dinner
She literally went from excitement to disappointment. SHE PUT HER TEARS, AND SWEAT THROUGH THE MASTERPIECE OF THANKSGIVING
Lol thank you
Pee pee poo poo
Don't forget the blood, lotta blood and makeup
Im Sorry Sis 😮
That would kill me to hear that. So I would just say fk it. At least I don't have to cook for the rest of the week.
"But I wanna celebrate with you" was like a sword through my heart 😭✋🏽
😭 i feel so bad
Yep sure right! 🤐
Me too😭
@@Haileyplayz00 knowing her she might eat it or give it out to homeless ppl
Tbh i would be happy if i was her ig because i would eat all that food alone in peace without loud ppl around me, without ppl talking things that i could live my life without
Just eat in peace a lot of food
And don't tell me I'll be fat, because when i gain weight i easy lose that weight too sooooo
Bro she looked so happy then her whole mood just got ruined i feel rlly bad this shattered my heart and how much time it took 😢
I know 😢, I hope next year they don't cancel it on her again
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My mom heart broke for this beautiful girl. I wanna hug her and tell her how amazing she is.
Fr. What kind of mom does this shit to their child. Broke mine, too.
Same
That sweater tho 😂 needs to be seen and appreciated in person!
@@aleay7779Maybe she got sick. That happened to me this year.
Omg😢😢😢😢😢😢 I started crying that upset me.
My heart goes out to all the people who have dealt with this situation in any way. My spirit is eating there beside you 😭❤️
How is this so heartfelt and funny at the same time?!😭😅
This comment is a mix of sadness and funniness😭sounds inspirational at first then it’s just funny
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You nice
“but i want to celebrate with you” melted my heart😭
@@AvaniHuddarlmao I don't even know-
how does this have 10K likes but only two replies
What was the reason she cancelled? We were invited to my husband's boss's home for Christmas dinner and we felt a lil pressured to go since he was a new horse n so even tho that day is my birthday,we canceled our plans with our family n friends to attend yet when the day came as we were getting ready the boss called to cancel stating he had partied the night prior so had a hangover n wasn't up to host us. I was livid n there after declined several invitations but we had moved next to him n again felt pressured to go but this time by my husband so after my second beer there I then proceeded to tell his boss why I didn't come to any of his previous invitations in front of all the guests n his jaw n everyone else's was on the floor. He looked at me so surprised n without words he then noticed everyone watching n apologized. Suffice to say that was our last time attending any other of this man's parties because he just wasn't a respectful, considerate or appreciative man. I could tell even his wife hated him. My husband has since found another job.
Same 😢
@@LucyBaez1971I’m sorry that you had to go through this I hope you two are doing better now especially you.
"I wanna celebrate with you...🥺" shattered my heart into a million Pieces
I know when she was putting up the max and cheese she stemmed so sad and disappointed 😢
Bro same 😭
Same😭😢
Same ☹️🥺😭
😫😭💔same😫😭💔
honestly watching this after hearing her father killed her dog makes me so sad. She honestly deserves better family.
Wait what happened!? I know poor Nimbus died but I didn’t know the rest. 😢
@@Livisbouttacry she did a video about it!
@@kaaayl11 ok thanks I’m gonna go watch it now
Well he didn’t kill the dog a coyote did because he left the dog outside
@@EleighaLipscomb-oi3pl which got him killed, so basically he did. It was an awful thing all around on the dad’s part and he should be ashamed of himself. It is neglect and parents are always telling us to do things correctly, just like she asked; but he didn’t. It is completely her father’s fault and he basically did kill the dog. If he just would’ve done what she asked Nimbus would still be here.
When she said "I wanted to celebrate with you " a tear came out of my eye 😢
samee 😭😭💗
Sameeeee😊
same
omg i felt the same way
I felt so bad that sucks it’s happened to me before 😢
Ugh I just felt like hugging her when her mother canceled…I know it’s not the end of the world but she seems sweet and great and deserves quality time
Yeah
She said it was a joke
I agree
Awe 😔 sending lots of hugs her way.. her face really broke my heart
@@TheMrslthompson09 wrong comment section..
Omg! I don’t celebrate Thanksgiving, but seeing how much she worked for such a beautiful dinner, and then seeing the hope melt away literally made me cry…
@@toridahammahI don't celebrate Halloween bc of my religion
@@toridahammah pain ༼;´༎ຶ ༎ຶ༽
@@NOTCJ_14I don’t because most Aussies don’t celebrate it and my mum thinks there is poison in lollies
Lol same
@@Roblox_for1ife remember to not eat the unwrapped candies:)
We love you Ashley ❤ damn my heart broke i could see and feel the pain in your eyes. Love u girl
Same thing happened to me last year. My mom was entering hospice so I decided to host thanksgiving for the first time. I cooked two turkeys mashed potatoes, candied yams, stuffing etc. bought table cloths paper plates and 200 dollars on dessert asking everyone what they wanted. The day before everyone cancels. Never again.
Edit: Thank you for all your kind words, this year for Thanksgiving we’re going to feed the homeless, donating food and toys to those less unfortunate.
I don't comment on other people's comments much but I'm so sorry. 😭 That had to have felt horrible, and damaged some good opinions for you. :) It was on them though, you were trying to do something really kind and giving. I hope all of your holidays from this year on will be filled with those who appreciate you.
Almost the same has happened to me. Even had a bounce house rented. The dining area looked like a quinceanera the way I set up.All that wasted food since everyone bailed on me.I spent over a hour crying in the restroom so my kids wouldn't see. I'm sorry that happened to you. It sucks to put all that effort into it and nobody cares.My kids were happy at least.They had everything to themselves. And said if felt fancy having a big o setup for the 4 of us 😂.
That us messed up... so much waste of food and money!!
Mom I'm famous now🤣🤗🤫
My heart goes for you.i felt really bad reading this😭
Awww am sorry!!! Thats why i dont do anything like that at my house because am scared everyone will cancel on me and leave me hanging. I hope they made it up to you because thats horrible to do😢
This is so sad bro.. this happened to my mom once, and she was so annoyed. Never again did she do that.
Oh I'm sorry for ur mom..Its sad to cancel a day before or on the same day
Kyo pfp
I think this just a skit. They prob all ate together irl
@@damnbee77 Ik lol but still
I could see the tears in your eyes when you move to the mac and cheese off camera... I'm so sorry, and I hope that everything is okay and your family gets to have a day together very soon. Your food looks very good by the way
Good! I hope she cried herself to sleep and I hope her family celebrated without this toxic and selfish person in their lives 🎉
I saw them too. I wanted to cry for her
@@jadec710You are weirdly obsessed with this girl.
@@miranda13c just don’t agree with people getting away with bullshit, sorry you’re happy to be a 🐑
@@miranda13c lol right?!
Ashley, I am deeply sorry for your loss of your little bundle of joy. Losing a loved one is never a good time in someone’s life when they made someone so happy. R.I.P. to Nimbus. Fly high little angel 🕊️
Rest in peace nimbus
Same why would her dad even do that to her what if his dad left her out in the backyard at night all alone (when she was little)
And he left Nimbus go outside at night carelessly 💔
Where can I find that
I’m trying to look for it but can’t find it
My heart sank when i saw the look in her eyes full of sadness when her mother said that she cannot and the thanksgiving is cancelled. 😢💔
Me to my heart sank to 😢🥲🙃
Same 🥺
She literally cook em with all her heart then it got cancelled 💔😭 that's just sad 😞
Same 😢
its so hurt ful
The ending was heartbreaking but the voice over Ja-lay-pee-o kind of killed me
Me too 😂😂😂
I pronounce ja-la-pin-nose NOT HA, JA
@@da1andonly_jj553 WHY
@@Officer_Soap IDK ITS A HABIT
Legit it broke my brain a little bit everytime it said it like that
“Ja-lay-pee-yo poppers” 😂 that auto-voice is at it again! 😂😂😂😂
Heheheheh 😂
🤣
Damn auto-voice kills me EVERY TIME!!
lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
AHAHAHAH
Omg I’m watching this after her father caused the death of Nimbus. Like they seem like they just don’t care about poor Ashley’s feelings at all 😢 We love you Ashley! ❤
What!!!!!
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
@@thejamcam real
Why did her dad cause it
Just stop how would u feel if everyone started bringing up how ur dog died and Ashley checked out some new dogs but give her a break
That literally broke my heart, her face was so sad. I felt so bad. Especially when she said “But I want to celebrate with you” made me about to cry. 😭
Same I almost cried😢
Sameee
SAME SO SAD😢😢😢😢😢
“I wanna celebrate with you” “I know I love to but I can’t” AHHHH MY HEART I CRIED
NO DONT CRY 😭
I love ur pfp and name @Ejirou Kirishima
@@damaryonford7115 thx ☺️
@@MaisXZC 😭😭😭😭
@@ill.come.back.at.some_point NOOO DONT CRY 😭😭
I defiantly relate. Made a ton of food for my birthday party cause people told me they were coming. Only three people showed up out of the 12 that said they were coming. My sister told me that those who came are the real ones. My best friend traveled for over an hour to the party and the other so called friends live nearby and didn’t show up. My bestie is a real one
Thank God he showed you who they really are!
happened to me too, except my bestie told me she herself gonna bring everyone to my party, my mom ordered a lot of food only for it ended with no one coming to my birthday party, not even my best friend. The next day, she didnt even say sorry 😌
Me and my husband have lots of mutual friends so my parties are always really nice, big or small, but of friends that are only my own I invited 4 total, 2 who live in town 1 that lives 1.5 hrs away and another that lives 5 hrs away +$120 bridge toll for crossing there and back, the two friends from out of town actually showed up when I told them I understood if it was too much, the 2 friends from in town both canceled on me last minute, like during the party. I was so bummed out but now if I do invite them to anything I just message our group chat with the day and time and don't bring it up again, saves me the disappointment. I understand canceling but last minute canceling is the worst.
And that’s why I just go to dinner for my birthday or have a quiet me with my wife and kids, I don’t make time for the disappointment that can happen. All you can do is give a straightforward answer when you’re invited and that’s a yes or a no. Sorry you had to go through that.
Yea I usually just plan to have my birth day just me and my girl and I might go see my mom if she in town at the time. I’ll invite people but no one really ever shows . My job this year did more then anyone . But half my job is family so it counts !!! But I got some happy birth day at least on social media 😂😂
watching this after Nimbus died. We love you bud, may you rest in peace good boy ❤
he died? noo thats so sad😢
@@davidshim8063 yeah, he got eaten by coyotes.. it was devastating seeing Ashley cry. She uploaded a video abt it, please watch
This made me sad now that we know what happened to baby Nimbus thanks to them Im like... Damn i can understand why she has the bad anxiety .... Poor love...
I can’t believe her father did that..
It's sad to know that there's a possibility we'll never see the energetic and cheerful girl again:(
she looked like she was going to cry 😭 im sorry Ashley love you tons💗💗
I understand that feeling sorry for you Ashly 😢😢😢😢😢it happened to me
To all of you in the comments in pain:
My big brother/best friend taught me something. He said once, "Those who want to be there will be there. You shouldn't pay any mind to those who don't." My sweet sixteen, he is the only person who came. My sister who lived with me even made it a point to leave. He was there because he wanted to be. He died a month later. Cherish who you have and forget who you don't. It gets better, I promise. I just turned eighteen and even if barely anyone in my family showed up, I still had some of my people. ❤️
Amen sis!
I’m so sorry about your brother. I’m glad you took his cherished words to heart because it’s so true. May he live forever in your heart.❤
Big Cyber Huggs ❤
Totally agree! It does getting better. Times will heal and show us who we should keep in our life. Don't wasted time on those who don't even care about you.
omg the wisest words that ill live by i love this thanks for sharing im sorry nobody showed up but u were able to see who was really there for u and its something ull never forget! HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY BOO! 💜🥰
the fact that she decided to cancel on the day you were expecting them, that's so horrible. the least she could've done was call you a day before saying that she wasn't able to make it, seeing all the effort you put in into making a really good meal for your family and them cancelling on you is the worst feeling ever..
Don't assume you know why she canceled.
@Aas why are you getting so mad at her. No one’s saying her mom is a “bad” mom or “crappy” mom. Also, she doesn’t owe any of us an explanation’s as to why they cancelled. She was just hurt that it happened. Obviously she doesn’t hate her mom or think she’s a shitty person but sometimes life happens. No one in this scenario is a bad person. It’s sad with how much effort she put into it but it’s not the end of the world.
@Aas ever think that her and her mom are not the problem but it’s everyone who looks at them and just assumes the worse?? With literally no back story or anything? That’s society for you. Maybe don’t judge people based off a small clip on the internet. Again, she didn’t own anyone any explanation. She just wanted to share that she was sad her family cancelled. If she’s not mad at her mom then I don’t think everyone should be painting her as a bad person when no one knows the story. Doesn’t sound like a them problem, sounds like a society problem.
@@calmcuke6865 im not? literally just saying if she had something coming up and wasn't able to make it then she could've called in advance to let her daughter know so that she wouldn't of had to cook all that food just for them to not show up...did you even read my comment properly?
@Aas she doesnt owe us an explanation its none of our business
Hello beautiful, I just wanted to share in your grief. I’m so sorry for the tragic loss of Nimbus ❤ Mainly the part that makes it worse is the parent situation. I’m 41 yr old and the amount of times my Asian parents fkd up on an emotional level - I can’t count. Just know that all your feelings are valid even if your father doesn’t understand. If they don’t change, your expectations will change over time and that’s ok. Sending so much love ❤
Stop reminding her of the past - she’s trying to recover.
@ you’re a bit late in the game, my response to her was 2 months ago
I felt it when your mom said she couldn’t come :(
Her mum knows she supports puppy farms so she has disowned her
why do i see you everywhere
@@anishka5132 bcoz you are everywhere?
@@jadec710 who supports puppy farms?-
Same, I could feel the silence and pain. Sorry your mom could not make it!
This is the saddest video I’ve watched in a while. This just broke my heart. I hope you had at least a nice day with or without family or friends.
You should watch Nimbus video when she announce that he is passed away
Why did that literally hurt my heart? I feel so bad.
Same 😢
Same😭😭😢
Samee 😭
Me to 😭😭
Same😢
I was not expecting that she looked so happy and excited... she worked so hard -
This broke my heart. You looked so hurt and deflated. 😔
probably as hurt as the puppies from the puppy mill she supports
@@hutikult8247 calm down bro. stop bringing ut up. she doesn't probably know what that is bc shes probablg dumb (no hate or wtv) not even my mom knew what it was
@@sofie.77 lmfao
@@hutikult8247 OH NVM I JS SAW THE VIDEO. WHAT.. IVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR IT BC YALL KEEP TALKING ABT IT AND I JS FOUND IT. THATS LITERALLY AWFUL
@@sofie.77 yeah :( its awful but i doubt we’ll see any response to all the comments
That almost made me cry because I know you put your heart and soul into that food 😢
1.3k likes and no comment? imma fix dat..
The fact that her parents canceled Thanksgiving on her and then let her dog die is super messed up. And Ik it was not rlly there fault. We all luv u gurl, stay strong!❤❤❤
It isn’t rude, she could’ve gotten sick, someone could’ve gotten hurt, there’s millions of things that could have went wrong, her mom sounded sad too so it is not “rude”
My family did this to be once. It wasn't a holiday but I had planned a housewarming for two months, bought a crap ton of food, had games set up, my kids were excited, and it was basically just family. But then my sibling decided they needed to film something for a school project on exactly the same day and time so my entire family bailed on me the morning of so they could be there for my sibling. That was around the time I started seriously considering going no contact
this is Reddit worthy
@@believerbackup2315 huh
Getting my kids hopes up like that I would have been pissed. The decent thing to do would have been to give a 24 hour notice to say hey we’re doing this instead of coming over sorry to inconvenience you and the kids we’ll do something on another day. So that way you’d have time to prepare yourself mentally to tell your children that what y’all had planned isn’t happening that day but you’d find something else to do that would be fun and they’d be excited about to do with you
Please tell me you did it?!
ME TOO! It was my first house after being homeless for five years and I made it Halloween themed and everything and no one came
The " family thankgiving just got cancelled" felt like my heart broke into millions of peices😢
1k likes no replies? Lemme fix that
The way she said "but I wanna celebrate with you" broke my heart😢
This feels even more like a kick in the teeth, given I just watched the Nimbus video. It's really taking a lot in me not to assume the worst of her parents.
Agreed
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
@@thejamcam And so what? She puts her life on the internet that means people will comment on it. If she didn't like ir, she should've disabled her video.
@@schy9614 but you still shouldn’t comment about it, nimbus was a very big thing in her life like reminding that nimbus died is like reminding someone that their grandma died or smth (sorry if that happened for you) and yes she puts her life on he internet but that still shouldn’t mean that ou should comment on tings reminding her that he’s gone. All I’m saying.
@@thejamcam Doesn't matter what people's intentions are, she puts her life on the internet WITH comment section on, people are free to comment whatever they feel. Free speech means free to speak.
Lastly, she introduced her dog to the internet then she tells us how he passed away. People obviously had a parasocial relationship with that dog, so it's not all about Ashely. She let people in her life then allow people to comment and feel as they wish, she made her views by being emotional, it's obvious people still going to be emotionally invested. This is consequences of your actions.
“I want to celebrate with you “ made my 💔
Same
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@@danross4953bro
Me too I would love to have thanksgiving with Ashley
yooo my heart dropped when I saw her face when she cancelled. Literally feel hugged ❤❤
Sameeee 😢
Sammmmeee
It breaks my heart. If I was her I would have cried after, like working that hard and being that excited and making all that yummy food, I would cry.
I bet she shed a tear or two just based on her face.
You can see her heart drop when she said it’s canceled.
Someone give her a hug, she needs it!! You worked so hard and it looks delicious🩵🩵
How u get the teal hearts?
@@duomonkVRidk if it’s on both iPhone and android but if you updated your phone you should be able to get them(it might be on both but all I know is that it’s on iPhone 🩵)
Rest in peace Nimbus!! We miss Nimbus so much! I can't believe we lost another great soul, and you don't deserve this Ashley. We love Nimbus!!! 🕊❤
fly high nimbus
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
@@thejamcam I commented this around when she posted it, I am not saying it right now? Ofc I feel bad but I'm not the one dragging it around
Noooo that “but I wanna celebrate with you” broke me 😢😭🖐️
That’s so sad 😢
your face when mom said she wasn’t coming 😞 i send big virtual hugs. i had this happen to my on my 21st birthday. i didn’t even want to go out and celebrate because i preferred to be home with cake and drink a beer with my dad but my coworkers insisted i did something so they suggested a really popular sushi restaurant and i was pretty excited and invited a few other people. the evening comes, i’ve just walked in to put my name down for a table and then calls and texts started coming in that they couldn’t make it. one even tells me it was someone else’s’ birthday and said they were going clubbing and told me to go over there instead. i remember sitting there with the only friend that showed and just had to hold in my tears and call my dad to take me home. i somehow managed not to cry but geez did my chest hurt. i felt so betrayed and no one even apologized. i ended up transferring locations because i felt so embarrassed.
Aww ❤
Aww, I’m so sorry. ☹️
Brooo I'm sorry this happened!! You don't deserve that! Especially on your birthday
I hope your okay now!♡
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lol these comments are so weird! Why did you let your friends influence you to do something you didn’t want to do? If you just wanted to celebrate your bday with your dad, you should have just done that. 🙄 then you want to play the victim when nobody showed up to the party that you didn’t even want lol
As a mom, I can’t imagine canceling Thanksgiving dinner on my baby girl at the last minute. Hopefully her mom will make up for it this year.
Nah , girl my mom straight up said she would not come to my hostel to get me because of her friends get- together, like I was having desintry and dengue..... When I said it hurt me she was like " i thought you would be happy if you found out your mother was finally getting socialised" ...yeah not when I am literally dying. She came after 3 days since it took time to manage. I had told her to come the next day itself since I was not able to bear it.
@@xixizizi6970how are u now thats so sad to feel like u felt and no one around to give that motherly love hope u r doing fine more love to u❤
Aww that mean 😢 que
Like she worked hard
That was a shitty thing to do. A real mom would never! Not unless there was a serious emergency. Truly terrible how many selfish parents there are out there.
Damn the signs were always there. Keep your peace girl ❤
This didn’t really happen with me, but I can relate. I work in a retail store, and I had to close that day at my job until midnight. My mom, brother, niece, and moms bf were all enjoying family time, eating the feast I prepared the night before. As I got home, everyone went to sleep, and I just sat in the dining room alone, eating quietly. I cried that day, because I wanted to celebrate with my family. Even last year on thanksgiving, my mom and I celebrated alone but we had each others company. It made me tear up but my mom did wake up and sat with me to give me company, and told me that she was grateful for me 🥲
Edit: y’all are sweet istg- thank you all. T^T
NEW EDIT: I finally left that job, so I didn’t miss the rest of the holidays. ❤️
I think I can relate. I got extremely sick on Christmas eve 3 years ago. I had to go to the ER and I cried my heart out to the doctor. I begged him to let me go home between shots of morphine when I was conscious. I was in pain and close to death but I felt like I was missing something important. My family is spread all over the country and I was losing the chance to see them. I was stuck in the ER for 2 weeks and my mom visited everyday. Only a couple other family Members visited but I felt so sad inside. I had put so much effort into celebrations to see all my snacks, appetizers and gifts being left at home.
I'm so sorry this happened to everyone experiencing this :((
Awww your mum is sweet. I'm sorry that happened
Girl I did that shift 7 years in a row as a single mom! No one ever wanted to work close on holidays so I always took it because they paid double… so I spent the holiday mornings with the kiddos then they went to their dad and I went off to work to make that double pay baby!😂. It sucked but was well worth it because the paychecks showed it and holidays are expensive as a single
Mom and I was able to spoil my kids🥰
I'm sorry if I was there I would of stayed up or got up when u got there I used to work retail and my boss made everyone work on thanksgiving because she said it wasn't fair to give certain people the day off but we didn't work long shifts everyone with kids was off by 1 and everyone without kids worked until 1030 but me being the 1 cooking I had to rush home and finish everything b4 3 so my husband could eat because he had to work 430pm to 430am his job don't even give him Christmas off
The disappointment on her face said everything I felt so bad I just wanted to cry with her😢
Sadly I can relate bc this happened to me. Made a whole, huge dinner and my family bailed. This was last year. It was the first year after my Aunt passed away, and she was basically the mom I never had, so it was a rough one. And the few family members who had said they were coming just never showed up. Didnt even call to cancel. Luckily I had my brother and my boyfriend though. Thank God for them! Still really hurt though. Now I celebrate with my boyfriend & his family & I'm so grateful for them!
That sad and inconsiderate of your family. Thanksgiving is a big deal. Lots of planning and prep work. I'm glad you have others to rely on during this time of year.
This happened to me THIS year!
These comments break me…. If I could hug you I would ❤️ I am so sorry, I would eat thanksgiving with you!
I’m really sorry my grandma passed away and a lot of stuff changed l. I hope this year was peaceful 😢❤❤
Families suck. I'm sorry this happened to you and everyone else
After what happend to Nimbus i think i can relate what the situation with her family, it's the same situation with mine and the best way is to stay faaaar from them who can't appreciate you and your effort
well never know what happen behind the scenes but hope all is well
Behind the scenes of what? Her dog died and her father has refused to reach out and apologize. @@saschaflo4287
Why keep commenting about it, why keep reminding her that her dog is gone? Don’t you want her to feel better? Instead of just informing her by saying “oh your dog is dead R.I.P NIMBUS” like just why? Ik you probs feel bad for her but still.
My mama was in the hospital this year. The nurses were so kind and brilliant. The hospital cafeteria cooked us all Thanksgiving dinner and the nurses each brought a dessert for patients and family to have!!! They even let the grandkids up to eat with her if they passed temp check! It was so so so sweet.
*” Gal-aye-pe-ohs”* 💀💀
HAHAHAHAH i was looking for this
Jellaypenyos
stop bullying someones language
@@UnKnOwN_Queen2206 HELP ITS NOT A REAL PERSON SPEAKING ITS A ROBOT😭
@@UnKnOwN_Queen2206 It’s not a real person it’s a robot 💀
She looked so happy until she got the call saying that they had to cancel 😢
1k and no comments? Eh I'm used to it, I just don't like pure silence 😶
@@Bee-hehehe maybe there is nothing to say about this comment
One thanksgiving my mom was really sick from cancer so I decided to make all the food for my family’s dinner. I spent the two days before getting out of work and preparing desserts and everything I could when I had time. Then the day of I knew I was super overwhelmed and asked if my siblings could help me with certain things. They all just ignored me and went to my dads while I had to finish everything on my own. I didn’t even eat when they did I felt so used and unappreciated after I was all done. They loved it though.
That would be forever be the last day I cook or do ANY favors for the fam! Theres no excuse for ignoring you then eating without even a thank you
I'm so sorry you went through that, you deserve so much better
@@ayaebony4461 Accurate. That's scorched earth shit, as far as I'm concerned.
The choking down at least one bite in tears is so real honestly
you looked so excited too. "I wanna celebrate with you" almost made me cry 💔
I literally cried during the end idc if this was a year ago it’s still rlly sad and u can see that she just wanted to full on ball right there because of how her family bailed on her on the most special day, I can tell how much that day was special to her, all that hard work for nothing
If my child ever says "but I wanna celebrate with you " I'm leaving everything and rushing back home .. period
That's what they all say...
@@christineallen1763no most parents will do anything for their kids ... Americans are just weird
That’s the saddest thing ever “I wanna celebrate with you” got me sobbing 😭😭😭
edit:thank you guys so much for 4k likes❤️
edit 2:DAD!! IM FAMOUS I HAVE 6K LIKES!!!!
same:(
Yh same
Bruh exactly. The emotions, 😢 my bottom lip stuck out and I instantly want to hug her. Hugs to everyone who felt this too
@@Kharmaa7 yea same
Same:(
“Ju-lay-pee-o peppers” 😭
😭😭😭
Her face when dragging the Mac and cheese away, broke my heart 😢
the one thing that hurts my heart so much is seeing someone eat alone. so sorry about this ashley
Fr it’s so sad
although i have no idea what thanks giving is but i can definitely feel her excitement go away and the sadness in her face was very much relatable for a lonely person.
Thanksgiving is like where you have family dinners and Defoe your house while you celebrate it like a month before Christmas
Thanksgiving is a American holiday that tons of Americans celebrate. Long long ago in England people wanted religious freedom so they went on a boat called the may flower hoping to go somewhere else than England. They made it to Massachusetts in America the boat ride was horrible. Many people died and got sick. They tried living there it was horrible it was the winter and no one could eat. They got kicked out by a native tribe and had to go somewhere else. They lost even more people but they finally found somewhere where they could start a colony, A new native tribe helped them out. Showed them how to cook how to plant how to hunt. They were soo grateful! So they had a bunch of harvest and decided to have a feast with the native people. They had fun and ate there food. So thanksgiving is basically a holiday that represents being grateful and eating food for being grateful and stuff,
@@Strawberrybearslimes-bo4gl Not trying to start anything but as a non american, hearing that they left for religious freedom is wild to me bc we learnt that they were religious extremists.
We have thanksgiving in Canada too though! It's a similar stuff your face holiday I think.
@@feesaylon7252 oohhhh you teacher might've been talking about the people who were with the king in England who only wanted them to worship their religion. Or, it could've been like on the may flower their were people who wanted to strike it rich for going to a new land for money and stuff and there was the pilgrims who wanted religious freedom,
I hope that helped!
@@Strawberrybearslimes-bo4gl yo you forgotten the most important part the natives also caught the sickness that British also barong whit them
We don't have Thanksgiving where I'm from, but this made me think about my 14th and 15th birthday.
I have always made a point of doing things for people I would want for myself. I would always go to the birthday's of my friends, performances, sleepovers, etc. so when I invited all my friends to my birthday I really thought that they'd come.
No one showed. I remember just watching the clock the entire time, cried myself to sleep too.
Same thing happened next year. Never really celebrated my birthday again.
Y'all showing up matters.
(Edit: this is getting so much more attention than I expected it too 😳)
Get some new friends too 🥺😭😰
@@yowhatup1050 they're all about to finish highschool (I do a different course, so I have an extra year) so I don't really have another choice 🥲
I would of definately came as long as there was cake, no one invited me 😒 My parents never celebrated any of their kids' birthdays, let alone spend money & time on throwing a party for a bunch of kids to come over who didn't have any connection to them or their world. As for you, the only advice I can give you is, don't stare back at the past, just look forward to the future, dream, plan & execute. This truly is your life & you need to draw the path going forward. Stand firm in your decisions & don't let others bring you down with their emotional roller coaster of a life. You are better off without them. Life post school graduation is very different. You will meet people from all walks of life & all age categories & make new friends. Believe me, it's not as scary as one might think. You will instantly grow some years up once you enter those doors & walk the halls. I had to get used to calling professors by their first name or surname, whichever they preferred 🤭
That is so sad
you deserve a better friend group. if those guys don’t have the time of day to return the favour to someone who they didn’t realise were probably one of the best people they could have ever met, they’re not real friends
Ashley is a very strong woman and also a very happy person with nimbus but since nimbus is gone..Ashley is just very sad hope you will be ok Ashley I know it’s very hard to loose a dog. Fly high nimbus love you from nick ,Ashley and all fans of nimbus and ashley ❤🕊️
Girl I’m so sorry. I watched this video just after the video mentioning what happened to Nimbus (RIP little angel 🤍) and I can’t help but think how this family of yours is treating you and your boundaries (it reminds me of how my family used to treat me) and it saddens me so much.
I know it’s not my place to tell you what to do, but I just hope and pray you’re gonna find a way to heal and remove toxicity out of your life. I can see how you have a big heart and love to love and just hope you’ll find a way to keep your heart protected and some good ears and guidance to help you. 🫂💞
Much love 🫶🏼
Cooking meals and giving food to family is a major love language for me, I’d be so upset 🥺 it’s okay, you tried.
Same
I can’t enjoy cooking anymore because every time I make an effort and am happy at the result, my brother makes comments about how disgusting it is and I shouldn’t ever cook, just to piss me off. Even when it’s bussin (do we still use that word?)
@@udontevenwannaknowbruv don’t take it to heart all brothers do this but secretly love our meals :) happens to me all the time but he still eats all my food and asks me to cook
@@udontevenwannaknowbruv Brothers are just trolls LOL mine acts like he's Gordon Ramsey sampling the menu in an episode of kitchen nightmares LMFAO
I felt that in my SOUL.
- "but I want to spend it with you 🥺" - bro I teared up my god
Just experienced this at home. Both my parents cancelled their own birthday treats which i booked prior & had to make plans for them. They didnt tell me they had other plans at the very last minute on the same day. So end up it was all wasted & i never got the sorry that i deserved. Wounds that would never heal 💔
I hope you grant yourself the gift of healing by forgiving them anyway. And then forgive yourself for trusting that they would be there, because they were actually supposed to be there. Forgive them anyway. You deserve a happy heart.
Forgive them they didn’t know. I almost had this situation happen to me I almost bought tickets to a game for my parents (moms bday or Christmas gift) and my dad said they will be back home on the 26th and the game is on Jan 1st but my mom said she was going to be gone that day because she’s going pick up my grandma and it’s a 5hr drive. So look at it this way, next time just communicates with them. I know it’s a surprise but sometimes they end up not knowing and end up planning stuff. So communicate communicate and communicate!!!
Please forgive them I know you are livid. I’m sorry that it happened to you!!! I hope you were able to cancel your reservations or at least get your money back.
@@ambs9223thank you so much for the kind words!!!!!! I really need to hear this!! I hope you would heal too dear sister & you deserve nothing but the best!!!!! I’ll be keeping you in my prayers ❤️
@@peta591indeed that the act of forgiving is powerful. Thank you for reminding me precious soul ❤️ i pray that you are blessed in any form of goodness throughout your life.
Ouhh.. honey..
"But I wanna spend it with you🥺" That sounded so sad dude😭 I would kill to spend thankgiving with you Ashley❤❤❤
The „I wanna celebrate with you 🥺“ broke me in millions of pieces💔🥺🥺
Her parents… are not very caring to her I feel bad 😢 first cancelling a dinner right in her face she was so happy but then her mood slowly changed from this: 😂❤😊🤪😜😝😆 to this: 😕🙁☹️🥺😢 and second her father left nimbus out alone, and unfortunately… he got eaten by, a coyote 😢 Ashley deserves much better… But Nimbus saw her pain and sent Ghost to her! Nimbus you brought joy to this world thank you 🙏 😢
I hope she had a really good reason because cancelling so close to the event is awful. I hate when people cancel last minute when you’re already there or have everything prepared because it makes you ask yourself why you even bother. I know this happened a while ago but Sending hugs. 🥰
Yea I’m sure she had her reasons tho
"I usually measure everything with my heart"
Yeah, definitely me in the kitchen
“Somehow this food always seems to hurt me” 😂💀
Did this for a Christmas Party that I invited so many people to and got everyone gifts. My friends were the only ones who came and stayed! Sometimes friends are more like family than your actual relatives. Ik things happen tho.
Sad but true
“Every year I make jalaypeeo poppers” 😭😭😭
Knew this comment was gonna be here
The n was forgotten
The look she gave when they canceled broke me
Awe she looked so hurt and heartbroken 😔 she put in such a huge effort too, bless 🙁 I literally wanted to reach through the screen and give her a huge hug and pinch a bit of her Mac n cheese and those popper thangs! It all looked soooooooo good!! Kudos to you girl 👏
“Galebio poppers”
I fuckin can’t 💀🔫
I was fr searching for this comment 😂
“HALEPEENYOS” TRIGGERS ME BUT GALEBIO IS MY LIMIT. BRO GALEBIO. WHAT IS THIS AMERICAN PRONUNCIATION FAILS EVERY HUMAN WHO SPEAKS SPANISH OR ANY DIALECT OR ANY PETSON WHO HAS LATIN ROOTS?!
@@graetyyy_motherwas.here.1340 bro took it personal
@@Rawraha uh heh I don’t know what your talking about 😅😅😅
@@graetyyy_motherwas.here.1340 Calm down dude 😂😂
“Ja-lay-pee-oh poppers” 💀💀
I just noticed that 💀💀💀
💀😐that is………………. wow
its bcuz tts
I read Jay why pee instead of ja lay pee 💀💀💀💀
That caught me off guard 💀
I was so motivated and excited at first, going, "You got this, get it!" Just to have my heart break at the end seeing your sadness. *neverending hugs!
I was feeling sorry for myself until I saw this. Hugs, Girl. 🥹
“JaLePio pEPeRs” also the sadness in her eyes. she looked so passionate for the mac and cheese. man that happened to me on my birthday. i was preparing the cake and they just told me they cancelled.
naa not on YOUR special day
that’s not cool
On your BIRTHDAY?!, that's not cool at all.
I am so sorry also it's your birthday and you were still making all the stuff, they have had a good reason otherwise istg
"JUHLAYPEEO" HAHAHAHAHA
omg I love how the AI pronounces things 💀
It pisses me off
I was looking for this comment! That shit had me rolling...hahaha
Bro seeing the disappointment and sadness on her face is so depressing I feel so bad for her😭😭
Awwwwwwww I feel so bad she put in all of that work in to the food I want to give her a hug ❤❤❤
I’m so sorry that ur Thanksgiving dinner with ur family was canceled 😢 u can spend thanksgiving reading our exiting comments as if we celebrated with u!❤
I am so sorry that your family did that. They probably have a good reason for it but you tried your hardest. We all love you have a good Thanksgiving.
I feel you. My mom didn't come to my house either, she told me last minute she made other plans even though we had decided on who was making different things. She lives about 1,500 feet away from me, literally around the corner. I am tired of being upset and hurt. It's as if the more she can hurt me the more it satisfies her. It has gotten bad over thr last 3 years with her.
I can’t even tell you how much I relate.
Please, please, please - for the sake of your own health - STOP attempting to please your mother, if this is how she acts.
She acts this way, because of how AWESOME you are, and she can’t handle it.
And I am not stating such, to make you feel better - it’s a full on fact.
I know, from very personal experience.
And if you let this continue getting to you, it WILL cause chronic health issues.
I was bedridden/housebound, for a near decade, with adrenal disease - while my mother, legit, attempted to stress me out to DEATH, while being my “caretaker.”
From ages 26-35.
Because of this adrenal disease, both due to internal health issues - as well as constant exposure to stress/trauma growing up and over the past decade (recently found out my grandmother was diagnosed with narcissistic personality amity disorder, in the 90’s)..
I started perimenopause early; only a few months ago, right before my 35 birthday.
I haven’t even had a chance to get married and have kids, yet - the one thing I prayed to become a better person for, the month prior to my getting sick, nearly a decade ago.
Please, do not let someone who’s only joy in life is to destroy yours, have that power over you - simply, because they are your mother.
You owe her NOTHING.
You’re in my prayers.
Listen to the other comment here - just do your own thing in the future to please you. You don’t need her approval anymore.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs
Sorry, to hear this. You have to move on. Don't keep opening yourself up to hurt, just bc it's your mom. Take care of you.. be blessed
@@XOChristianaNicole oh my goodness. I do hope it gets better for you. I know its rough. I love my mom but I wasn't the one she really liked.... and I knew it and I believe that's why I try hard to please her. I pray it gets better for you. Dont give up.
Awe! That felt like an arrow to the heart and not in a good cupids arrows way either! Ive been there many times sadly! Holidays can be really stressful and chaotic and a scheduling (so that you can spend time with everyone) nightmare!
i feel so bad, she looked on the verge of tears. We love u girl
Couldn't agree more
Having this much panicking and then having it canceled right after you tried so hard. Just makes me feel guilty at some point cause I feel so bad because so many others had their thanksgiving and you didn’t get to. I’m sad, but happy thanksgiving! And maybe if it gets canceled again make a Friendsgiving!😅
All your facial expressions were so funny and great. So sorry that the Thanksgiving got cancelled. There is always next year Ashley ❤
Watching this felt more lonely now that Nimbus has died. Fly high tough man 🕊️
You could see the tears in her eyes :( I hope you had a good thanksgiving anyway girl, love ya ❤️❤️
“At least it’s the best Mac and cheese I’ve ever made”wow she has so much positivity even though her family cancelled thanksgiving dinner 😮😢
No but the pain and the way she looked when she was moving the food had me a the verge of tears 😭
Y’all I wasn’t even on time with my comment yet you still found me 😂 thanks guys
Im sorry 😢❤❤❤. Poppers and mac n cheese looks good though 😋.
I feel her pain, the person that I was expecting didn't even have the audacity to let me know she wasn't coming and my children watched and helped me work my ass off for a great Thanksgiving dinner