i came out to my parents when i was 13. my mom was always open minded about things that weren’t normalized, my dad however wasn’t. i grew up in a relatively conservative household(it was just my dad and i mostly), and he had some homophobic tendencies. now, i’m 19, and my dad wears a pride tshirt to his VERY homophobic work place every day. parents that don’t let their beliefs ruin their relationships with their families are great.
I fee like the only time some people feel the “need” to come out is the people who parents, or family don’t support the LGBTQ+ community. Maybe they want to have an understanding with their parents of who they are and they hope to accept them. Some people don’t care about their family opinions because they do what they want to do but some do care because their family is really close to them personally and they still want to be accepted and loved like they always did. At the end of the day, it’s not weird for them wanting to come out🤷🏽♀️It’s their choice .
Its more of a restraint of coming out to family who don't support, cause who knows, they might kick you out the house, send you to some camp or therapy or just cut you from their lives.
Yea it’s definitely more about fear of acceptance, I will never and don’t feel the need to come out to my parents because I know if I walked in with a woman they wouldn’t care
@@kevinsamson1693 Huh? So you just calling men ugly? Lmao boy shut up. Same sex attraction is natural. You can't just straight up deny other peoples sexuality because YOU think it's not natural. We literally have so many gay and bisexual men on this earth..it is completely normal.
Idk, I can kind of understand coming out to family. It sort of let's them get a realer glimpse into your life and what your future family may look like
Why should they care though it’s not their life they don’t need to know shit about you, just live your life. Same way you shouldn’t expect them to accept your life it ain’t theirs…….
@@ayotalsamoth6867 Babe, that's called being strangers. If you want to have a relationship with family, I feel like there's a disconnect since how you're living your life and how they think you're living your life is different.
@@ayotalsamoth6867Personally, it just felt like I wasn’t being my true self around them if they didn’t know. Especially with some of the values my family has, it just felt like they weren’t loving me for who I actually was if that makes sense.
I’ve agree with Dee, why do we need to make a moment out of being ourselves. My moon was offended I didn’t cry and have a moment with her, she failed to understand that it wasn’t ever about her 😅
What you said about coming out in the beginning of this video is exactly how I’ve felt about it for years! My life ain’t for anyone else so no need to come out to anyone. You’ll see me who you see me with.
The funniest thing happened when my bestie told me she was bisexual. We were in our mid 20's. She called me and says, "I have something to tell you. Are you sitting down?" I say, "who died?" She says no one. "I'm bisexual." I said, " what club are we going to tonight?" She says, "do you hear what I just said?" I said, "yeah I heard you. What club are we hitting up?" She's always been dramatic as fuck. 😂😂😂😂
I'm 52. I had an amazing mother. She loved people. (I however do NOT) Anyway, she raised us to be loving, caring people. I'm thankful that she was my mother. My kids can talk to me about ANYTHING. They know that I'm going to love and support them no matter what and I will ALWAYS be their biggest cheerleader. I'm glad that there's never been a time where they were afraid to tell me something because they thought I wouldn't accept them. I'd hate to be that parent. Those type of parents have no idea how good it feels to know your kids trust you, love you, respect you and to be able to communicate without being afraid. They care about how I feel and what I think. I love that about my relationships with my kids and I wouldn't change that for the world.
7:00 that's exactly what Dee would do when she sees anyone who is on her black list LMAO and 11:33 is the continuation 😂😂😂 + 12:24 her after beating them up
Practice patience. This generation has gone impatient ever since they can consume small bits of information at double speed. Retaining nothing. Getting distracted . I have adhd. But this gen all act like they should be on Ritalin. Not me😂 just wait. Its a 14 minute video.
Some people don’t know that they parent will accept and some parents are hella traditional and won’t accept you If you ain’t hetro so people come out to make they can be true without living fear in there life’s of their parents not accepting you for who you truly is
Be careful with gnats….one flew in my nose the other day and my ma ain’t believe me 😂 I felt it in my brain I got a tissue stuck it in my nose and had a dead fly come out….HORRIBLE AND TRAUMATIC
Dear Miss Lovely Dee Shanell, 🙃Please do me a favor, I have some requests not just as a fan but as a human. My first request is for you to smile in the mirror and thank God for your first blessing life. My second request is for you to thank God for that beautiful brain of yours. Third blessing to thank him for is your lessons you learn yourself and your ability to share information and give of yourself to others. Fourth is that voice used for holding everyone's attention. Last but not least assets you have such as family friends and moral and human support. also a loyal fan base that will fight for you, literally. God Bless you Dee have a blessed day. dust off your shoulders every day you wake up. and no shit, you're fine as heaven too.
Also my apologies if it made Dee uncomfortable I will delete among her request, respectfully 🙏🏽☺️ if you’ll excuse me I’ll enjoy the Wendy’s Jehovah God has blessed me with
Isn’t everyone over this shit by now like if you ain’t care about your parents opinion on your lifestyle then dont tell them shit looking for a reaction. It’s like they always looking for kinda something like tf! Nobody gives af
“Ohhh don’t! I can’t, I don’t wanna cry ion know these niggas 😒” DEE PLS 😂
The thumbnail killed me 💀💀 "it looks like she is praying or something " lmao
☠️
Bwahahaha 😂
i thought she was crying
@@sveoo6448LMAOOOOOO
I js noticed that and I'm damn near at the end of the video 😂
Dee going in on that bug is soo hilarious 😂😂😂. And Thuggin out because one thing she won't do is cry on camera 😂😂😂.
Dee tryna hold back the tears is sooo cute ❤❤❤❤
6:44 “get to the gay shit”
*and then Dee starts boxing a bug* 💀
i came out to my parents when i was 13. my mom was always open minded about things that weren’t normalized, my dad however wasn’t. i grew up in a relatively conservative household(it was just my dad and i mostly), and he had some homophobic tendencies.
now, i’m 19, and my dad wears a pride tshirt to his VERY homophobic work place every day.
parents that don’t let their beliefs ruin their relationships with their families are great.
13?????
@@Iamkai13 yes😕 assuming you did, what age did you come out?
@@Iamkai13Yes. I came out at age 13 as well.
@natetianca I came out at 13 but I knew when I was like 7
@@J1NXXXX I’m straight gang
Not dee getting distracted by the fly so she wouldn’t cry 😭
Righttt 😂
She’s distracted in almost every video she watches, I swear she doesn’t look at the screen half the time
Nah that uncle’s reaction was too sweet
12:21 even when dee is getting emotional she still cracks me up 🤣
That gnat is Dee’s #1 opp these days😂😂
Girlllll 😂😂😂😂 not his mom pretending to not know her son was gay 😂 cause bihhhh be fukn foreal!
I fee like the only time some people feel the “need” to come out is the people who parents, or family don’t support the LGBTQ+ community. Maybe they want to have an understanding with their parents of who they are and they hope to accept them. Some people don’t care about their family opinions because they do what they want to do but some do care because their family is really close to them personally and they still want to be accepted and loved like they always did. At the end of the day, it’s not weird for them wanting to come out🤷🏽♀️It’s their choice .
Its more of a restraint of coming out to family who don't support, cause who knows, they might kick you out the house, send you to some camp or therapy or just cut you from their lives.
Yea it’s definitely more about fear of acceptance, I will never and don’t feel the need to come out to my parents because I know if I walked in with a woman they wouldn’t care
It’s the family choice to reject it! Move out get your own shit and live your life as you please.
@@ayotalsamoth6867What?
@@ayotalsamoth6867 L troll
Plot twist: The gnat was secretly on Dee’s side so that she wouldn’t shed thug tears🤣😭
Period 𝓓𝓮𝓮 live your life and fuck everybody else!!!
@@kevinsamson1693 why hella animals gay tho
@@kevinsamson1693what does that even mean?
@@kevinsamson1693what ??
@@kevinsamson1693
1. no.
2. that just stems from yall sexualizing girl x girl relationships
@@kevinsamson1693 Huh? So you just calling men ugly? Lmao boy shut up. Same sex attraction is natural. You can't just straight up deny other peoples sexuality because YOU think it's not natural. We literally have so many gay and bisexual men on this earth..it is completely normal.
I see a Dee vs Gnats compilation coming soon😂
Omg I love the fact that Dee listens to WeSaidWhatWeSaid
"Get to the gay sh-t!!"😂😂😂😂
I swear Dee be getting to the POINT 😂
That SENT me🤣🤣🤣
@@AdrianAire She's hilarious 😂
@@alexyselysse I was gagged😂
@@queeniis.5458 Deadass dawg 😭
6:46 Hilarious 😂😂😂 “🤨 Get to the gay shit”
That’s an insane statement to say with a straight face lol
Idk, I can kind of understand coming out to family. It sort of let's them get a realer glimpse into your life and what your future family may look like
Why should they care though it’s not their life they don’t need to know shit about you, just live your life. Same way you shouldn’t expect them to accept your life it ain’t theirs…….
@@ayotalsamoth6867 Babe, that's called being strangers.
If you want to have a relationship with family, I feel like there's a disconnect since how you're living your life and how they think you're living your life is different.
@@ayotalsamoth6867Personally, it just felt like I wasn’t being my true self around them if they didn’t know. Especially with some of the values my family has, it just felt like they weren’t loving me for who I actually was if that makes sense.
See that one girl and her dad at the end almost made me cry to
I’ve agree with Dee, why do we need to make a moment out of being ourselves. My moon was offended I didn’t cry and have a moment with her, she failed to understand that it wasn’t ever about her 😅
What you said about coming out in the beginning of this video is exactly how I’ve felt about it for years! My life ain’t for anyone else so no need to come out to anyone. You’ll see me who you see me with.
“she already know?” 😭💀
The funniest thing happened when my bestie told me she was bisexual.
We were in our mid 20's.
She called me and says, "I have something to tell you. Are you sitting down?"
I say, "who died?"
She says no one. "I'm bisexual."
I said, " what club are we going to tonight?"
She says, "do you hear what I just said?"
I said, "yeah I heard you. What club are we hitting up?"
She's always been dramatic as fuck. 😂😂😂😂
I'm 52. I had an amazing mother. She loved people. (I however do NOT)
Anyway, she raised us to be loving, caring people.
I'm thankful that she was my mother.
My kids can talk to me about ANYTHING.
They know that I'm going to love and support them no matter what and I will ALWAYS be their biggest cheerleader.
I'm glad that there's never been a time where they were afraid to tell me something because they thought I wouldn't accept them.
I'd hate to be that parent.
Those type of parents have no idea how good it feels to know your kids trust you, love you, respect you and to be able to communicate without being afraid.
They care about how I feel and what I think.
I love that about my relationships with my kids and I wouldn't change that for the world.
Dee: get to the gay shit
Me: oh she like me
That shit made me scream-laugh at how damn relatable that was.
That guys mom was really trying to let him feel like he was really keeping a secret 😂
7:00 that's exactly what Dee would do when she sees anyone who is on her black list LMAO and 11:33 is the continuation 😂😂😂 + 12:24 her after beating them up
What a pride month it was
There are these flu sweaters that are electrified… all I’m saying is get you one and fry one of them flies
Fly swaters
i play some youtube vids at 1.25x too now bc of dee 😭 like get to the pointtt
Practice patience. This generation has gone impatient ever since they can consume small bits of information at double speed. Retaining nothing. Getting distracted . I have adhd. But this gen all act like they should be on Ritalin. Not me😂 just wait. Its a 14 minute video.
Dee fighting the gnat Berleezy be fighting lmaoooo
The Hispanic mom looked the most disappointed
Tip for nats: apple cider vinegar in a jar
That will attract fruitflies
Some people don’t know that they parent will accept and some parents are hella traditional and won’t accept you If you ain’t hetro so people come out to make they can be true without living fear in there life’s of their parents not accepting you for who you truly is
Fear of what though….
“Get to the gay shit” had me crying
Heavy on the intro
Heteronormativity is the reason why coming out is so prevalent.
I feel like that’s not a real word 😂
@@DanielFernandez-gv6iyur just ignorant. just because u don’t know a word doesn’t mean it isn’t a real word. like are u ok?
@@carmencaiin nigga I’ve never seen that word in my life so get off my dick 😂
@@carmencaiingirl it’s not that deep. Chill
Yea watching dee attacking gnats is the best thing ever
Bruh when she said get to the gay shi i died😂😂😂😂
Cut is so weird bro
Right? Who’s asking their parents for sex advice 😭
@@malakhi3836i would NEVER. The horror my gawd 😢
Me discovering Dee has a heart 💀
Child I was trying not to cry omg it was so hard
Be careful with gnats….one flew in my nose the other day and my ma ain’t believe me 😂 I felt it in my brain I got a tissue stuck it in my nose and had a dead fly come out….HORRIBLE AND TRAUMATIC
6:48 me 5 secs into a show i started just cause it was said it had gay characters
FRRRRRRR
DEE WATCHES WE SAID WHAT WE SAID !?
My Muslim family would kill me in a heartbeat 🤠
AND I’M IN THE US!
I feel ya but my family is Christian
words every gay kid wants to hear
Dear Miss Lovely Dee Shanell,
🙃Please do me a favor, I have some requests not just as a fan but as a human. My first request is for you to smile in the mirror and thank God for your first blessing life. My second request is for you to thank God for that beautiful brain of yours. Third blessing to thank him for is your lessons you learn yourself and your ability to share information and give of yourself to others. Fourth is that voice used for holding everyone's attention. Last but not least assets you have such as family friends and moral and human support. also a loyal fan base that will fight for you, literally. God Bless you Dee have a blessed day. dust off your shoulders every day you wake up. and no shit, you're fine as heaven too.
Girl…. ☠️
She not gon let you hit bro
@@Kspq I’m with God I felt she was depressed. No sex before marriage. Also God will show me my bride to be. Have a blessed day brother 🙏🏽☺️
Also my apologies if it made Dee uncomfortable I will delete among her request, respectfully 🙏🏽☺️ if you’ll excuse me I’ll enjoy the Wendy’s Jehovah God has blessed me with
Great message but you ain't need to type an essay 😻
Let’s see
12:20
Same lol I’m not finna have a conversation about what I like 💀
I came out 12 years ago by my mom asking who I was on the phone with and I said my girlfriend. And she said oh ok.
Isn’t everyone over this shit by now like if you ain’t care about your parents opinion on your lifestyle then dont tell them shit looking for a reaction. It’s like they always looking for kinda something like tf! Nobody gives af
People do give af which is the whole point, how does this fly over your head?