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  • Опубліковано 7 чер 2017
  • Hey guys.
    I know you've all been wanting to know my side of the drama that's been going down lately, so here it is. Being 100% honest. It was really difficult for me to sit down and pour my heart out to you guys, so please just understand that I needed to get everything off of my chest.
    Please don't take the song too seriously. We're just 2 youtubers trying to make a difference in the world and have fun.
    This song is heat...................
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    Musicaly - lol wtf thats still popping?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 167 тис.

  • @ryan
    @ryan 7 років тому +12862

    "I was addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unattainable."
    Wow.

  • @juliannelempert8792
    @juliannelempert8792 7 років тому +11362

    "I think I was addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unobtainable" damn that's beautiful.

    • @miichelle19
      @miichelle19 7 років тому +15

      Jshawn Oconnor its not like that. Nice profile pic DASHIE. ilh

    • @GlitterTitter
      @GlitterTitter 7 років тому +37

      Julianne Lempert isn't that from sex and the city 😂

    • @Lena-oo5rd
      @Lena-oo5rd 7 років тому +8

      IKR

    • @ezanahabtamu2401
      @ezanahabtamu2401 7 років тому +8

      Julianne Lempert aaaaaaaaaaaa GOLDEN STATE Fan

    • @teenyb4752
      @teenyb4752 7 років тому +29

      Julianne Lempert I saw this comment as soon as she said it lmao

  • @brianadesire7072
    @brianadesire7072 4 роки тому +3514

    Who’s here after Tana’s new video that’s basically saying all the same things about Jake as Alissa 👀

  • @kalebashworth6725
    @kalebashworth6725 4 роки тому +1351

    Who’s watching old videos for no reason

  • @banjibanjoko4325
    @banjibanjoko4325 7 років тому +1435

    If you think about it, all these wouldn't be happening if it wasn't for the random 12 year old girls

    • @ashleygonzalez564
      @ashleygonzalez564 7 років тому +13

      BANJI Banjoko Yep

    • @CraftingWithTopaz
      @CraftingWithTopaz 7 років тому +8

      BANJI Banjoko she was just trying to be nice. She didn't know she was gonna end up in that situation

    • @MIGABYTE101
      @MIGABYTE101 7 років тому

      yeah yeah yeah yeah

    • @manilak4415
      @manilak4415 7 років тому +4

      BANJI Banjoko Well yeah but then Alissa would not have gotten the modeling job

    • @nathylove9271
      @nathylove9271 7 років тому +20

      BANJI Banjoko ya but if Jake didn't cheat on Alissa then Jake and Alissa could have a good relationship so it's Jakes fault

  • @anne-qo8bt
    @anne-qo8bt 7 років тому +2553

    "I think i was just addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unattainable"
    -alissa Violet
    *literally describes my life rn*

  • @tyen2235
    @tyen2235 4 роки тому +1980

    Imagine if those kids never got their ride...

  • @shellykaufman5550
    @shellykaufman5550 Рік тому +226

    I remember watching this but I was so young I didn't really understand properly. I'm so sorry you went through this. No one deserves to go through what you went through. I'm so glad it's over and that he's out of your life. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and telling your side of the story. He emotionally abused you and trapped you in a situation. No one deserves it

  • @isabellabello8708
    @isabellabello8708 7 років тому +4444

    *For some reason in the thumbnail it looked like her hoodie had cat ears* 😂

  • @elizabethfalconer682
    @elizabethfalconer682 7 років тому +1554

    Ok but why is no one talking about how all those little girls got into a strangers car?!

    • @elizabethfalconer682
      @elizabethfalconer682 7 років тому +58

      Honestly thank goodness it was you alissa because it could have been anyone

    • @makenzieflinchbaugh866
      @makenzieflinchbaugh866 7 років тому +13

      Devan Howlter-Pancakes omg I know right!!!

    • @hope3203
      @hope3203 7 років тому +67

      who wouldn't get in a car with THE alissa violet tho

    • @jbeanz3039
      @jbeanz3039 7 років тому +34

      She wasn't THE Alissa Violet back then though

    • @GawdGenetics
      @GawdGenetics 7 років тому +28

      Want some candy?

  • @natashak5461
    @natashak5461 4 роки тому +3390

    2020 quarantine anyone?💀

  • @Me-lr6sk
    @Me-lr6sk 4 роки тому +835

    Who’s here after Banks cheated on her😔

  • @bigjohn5717
    @bigjohn5717 7 років тому +10917

    So your life with Jake was "I hate you I love you" by Gnash.

  • @undercoverkiller9141
    @undercoverkiller9141 7 років тому +2026

    NO WONDER WHY LUCAS AND MARCUS LEFT TOO

    • @nathalienicole3534
      @nathalienicole3534 7 років тому +20

      TheHackingMachine YEAH :(

    • @nadzeeraadz4264
      @nadzeeraadz4264 7 років тому +2

      TheHackingMachine RETWEET

    • @dec_mber
      @dec_mber 7 років тому +67

      It all makes sense now... **MIND BLOWN**

    • @atafontini252
      @atafontini252 7 років тому +40

      OMFG I FORGOT THEY WERE IN TEAM 10 TOO!!!! So sad that they left:(

    • @fayrise483
      @fayrise483 7 років тому +5

      TheHackingMachine martinaZ twins that's why

  • @yoi4577
    @yoi4577 4 роки тому +332

    Who’s here after faze banks and Alissa Violet break up

  • @DFthepolarbear
    @DFthepolarbear 4 роки тому +2056

    No one deserves to be treated the way you were. He’s a narcissist.

    • @khall187
      @khall187 3 роки тому +34

      Gimme a break. She has equal opportunity to break up with him - why didn't she? Because she was getting exposure because of him. Don't act like she was forced to do anything.

    • @brandyjohnson738
      @brandyjohnson738 3 роки тому +8

      @@khall187 that's the point

    • @synaesthesia4183
      @synaesthesia4183 3 роки тому +2

      Past that on the scale, I'm afraid.

    • @leanne8271
      @leanne8271 3 роки тому +16

      @@khall187 you’re a dick. She was attached to him because he led her on for so long. That’s why she wanted to stay

    • @billyderick8349
      @billyderick8349 3 роки тому +14

      @@khall187 what the actual fuck!

  • @mirandah5452
    @mirandah5452 7 років тому +830

    my stomoach dropped when she said she can hear them banging in the other room 👊✋

  • @emmajones8626
    @emmajones8626 5 років тому +7403

    Anyone here after shane dawsons video😆

  • @rae3286
    @rae3286 4 роки тому +2258

    Who's here after Alissa and faze's Twitter war?

  • @katrinacrider3370
    @katrinacrider3370 3 роки тому +96

    Let’s not forget that he assaulted a girl Bc she wouldn’t give it up to him.... he’s ruthless and deserves to be held accountable

  • @yadelisgonzalez6547
    @yadelisgonzalez6547 6 років тому +2325

    I keep starring at her nose highlight

  • @Fnaticuoco
    @Fnaticuoco 7 років тому +1708

    Me : I hate drama
    Me 10 minutes later : (Watches every Jake vs Alissa drama.)

  • @tutujohnson7356
    @tutujohnson7356 2 роки тому +517

    I remember watching this in middle school and just not understanding how hurt u were but now I am senior in hs and its just crazy how much I can relate to this now

  • @vandeniuke1138
    @vandeniuke1138 4 роки тому +362

    "I don't know if i was in love with, or the idea of him"

    • @sanabils5012
      @sanabils5012 2 роки тому +9

      “you don’t LOVE me topper you love the IDEA of me you love being SEEN with me” 😭😭

    • @nourayman5374
      @nourayman5374 2 роки тому

      @@sanabils5012 that’s literallyyyy the first thing that came to my mind 😭😂😂😂

  • @danachen5998
    @danachen5998 6 років тому +492

    a lot of guys and girls who've never dated a fuckboy wouldn't understand where she's coming from because they "weren't dating" and she technically did choose to stay at the house.
    imagine this. you find a what seems to be a super sweet guy and it seems like he's falling for you. and you guys talk and flirt for months. then you move in together and ACT like a couple. do everything that couples do. say things couples say. but....you're not a couple? jake literally called alissa his ex so yeah.... they were dating without a title.
    imagine this person literally bringing random girls into the house you guys live together in fucking them. every. night.
    at this point you are in love with him because...you guys are unofficially dating. THAT FUCKS UP YOUR MIND SO MUCH. it makes you go crazy. imagine hearing your front door opening late at night then hearing him and a new random girl laughing and flirting while they make their way to the same bedroom that you guys fucked in. your heart literally falls down to your stomach and cracks into a million pieces. its like you know what's going to happen but you can't do anything about it. if any of you have had an abusive family member, it's the same as hearing them come in. knowing that they're going to hurt you and yell at you but you can't do anything about it. jake psychologically and mentally abused alissa, that's for sure. she chose to stay because she loved him even though he still continued '''''''cheating''''''. and he would continue saying "i love you" and acting like nothing's wrong which made her fall deeper. like she said, she was addicted to being hurt by him. she was addicted to feeling any emotion caused by him. whether it was anger, love, sad, anxious, happy etc, she lived off him.
    on top of this, she can't invite guys over. ...why not? they're """not dating""" remember? i'm sure this was her mentality when she "cheated". she was angry at him and wanted revenge. "i'm not dating him so, fuck it". going by what jake said, technically what she was doing was okay since he could smash a new girl every night.
    anyways, i'm glad she found someone who treats her right. fuck fuckboys.

    • @rosepark8777
      @rosepark8777 6 років тому +24

      ikr! finally someone said it T.T I feel like many people doesn't understand this. And that's really sad. I feel so bad for Alissa cuz that must've been emotionally painful. But at least she's happy now ^_^ and hopefully she'll recover from this horrible stuff.

    • @natanyaparsons8491
      @natanyaparsons8491 6 років тому +5

      Gorilla Ghost did you even read it?! It was only everything goes with him

    • @flubbernuggets2513
      @flubbernuggets2513 6 років тому +11

      Gorilla Ghost you sound so insensitive she loved him and thought he did too, you're probably like 7 so you don't understand heartbreak but one day you will wether its like Alissas' case where to person you love cheats on you or if they break up with you. ALSO if you were Alissa and you were in love with a boy, lived in the same house and hear him fucking a different girl every night would you want some little kid who understands nothing to get over it because they were never "Girlfriend and boyfriend"? Next time you comment try and think about how you would react if you were the UA-camr and some bratty little kid who know absolutely nothing about what your going through comments on it in a negative way.

    • @theawsomebella5823
      @theawsomebella5823 6 років тому +2

      flubber nuggets z

    • @theawsomebella5823
      @theawsomebella5823 6 років тому

      Minicraf

  • @babysvogue4449
    @babysvogue4449 7 років тому +1563

    holy shit this hurts and it's not even me

    • @glossylanz2419
      @glossylanz2419 7 років тому +26

      same :(( my heart hurts

    • @LucaCiocanu
      @LucaCiocanu 7 років тому +12

      Quiet its jake's fault

    • @AngryDoggoYT
      @AngryDoggoYT 7 років тому +6

      Arno Cuevas dude chill there was no in-between they weren't dating that's why jake was dating other girls

    • @Wiszo
      @Wiszo 7 років тому +3

      daeesies iknow right

    • @nattykay2817
      @nattykay2817 6 років тому +6

      Damn this video is messed up about the truth! I can't belive in front of our own faces Jake lied about this. I'm glad Alyssa made this video. i use to be a Jake pauler but now I think Jake does these videos for the attention and get Alyssa out of his life. Ily Alyssa , I'm a Alyssa violet fan!!!😭😔

  • @samanthamiller4845
    @samanthamiller4845 2 роки тому +1277

    And we are here again thanks to Tana! Im so sorry hes so horrible.

  • @babygirlhehe9748
    @babygirlhehe9748 4 роки тому +238

    Here after Tana's video. Jake is literally still the same. Yikes

    • @imroxyandrews7041
      @imroxyandrews7041 4 роки тому +11

      Exactly the thing is He should have stayed with Erika As she was helping...Its all starting from the beginning again

  • @rolypoly9850
    @rolypoly9850 7 років тому +2173

    Real friends don't need to sign a contract.

    • @jimmyphillip3601
      @jimmyphillip3601 7 років тому +26

      Roly Poly He wanted her to be in Team 10. So she needed to sign a contract.

    • @jay-xd2nw
      @jay-xd2nw 7 років тому +25

      Roly Poly IKR WHAT KIND OF CRAP IS THAT

    • @wxvy.charli7780
      @wxvy.charli7780 7 років тому +5

      Roly Poly yeah ofc, if it wasn't an actual company where they do make money

    • @crisnetzi9506
      @crisnetzi9506 7 років тому +9

      Roly Poly omg sooo true

    • @Nyahchick
      @Nyahchick 7 років тому +5

      Roly Poly preach!!!

  • @iikhalaii8784
    @iikhalaii8784 7 років тому +1534

    Greg Paul really disappointed me he's a grown man.

  • @cassxx5446
    @cassxx5446 4 роки тому +889

    This video is so ridiculously close to tanas new "truth" video likes it's scary. They both loved Jake so bad when he couldn't care less about them.

    • @donathan2933
      @donathan2933 4 роки тому +27

      Jake’s an asshole

    • @chris82strike
      @chris82strike 4 роки тому +3

      @@donathan2933 yep

    • @donathan2933
      @donathan2933 4 роки тому +5

      vivi bisi seriously Logan needs teach his dumbass excuse for a brother morals

    • @chris82strike
      @chris82strike 4 роки тому +10

      @@donathan2933 Jake is the worst person on earth, he should learn to tell the truth instead of making excuses

    • @emmy3516
      @emmy3516 4 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/U1-iiAa7xyg/v-deo.html

  • @Firezq
    @Firezq 4 роки тому +448

    Who's here after the banks incident?

  • @thepurplemooncat
    @thepurplemooncat 5 років тому +372

    “I don’t know if I was in love with him or the idea of him”
    “I was addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unattainable”
    “I loved getting hurt by him, that’s how much I cared about him” 💔😭

    • @minahlee1863
      @minahlee1863 5 років тому +2

      That's when you know that the one person thinks that the other is their one... but it's also sad, knowing that he's hurt the one that loved him

  • @brianaharris8192
    @brianaharris8192 7 років тому +1924

    The Greg Paul part has me heated

    • @paominhaojojohangsing357
      @paominhaojojohangsing357 7 років тому +85

      Briana Michelle he kissed another girl on his sons video just shows how great a father he is I'm telling u the easy fame and money is getting into their heads

    • @brianaharris8192
      @brianaharris8192 7 років тому +17

      Joe Hicks exactly my thoughts

    • @yourmom4465
      @yourmom4465 7 років тому +26

      Briana Michelle Pam is better

    • @brianaharris8192
      @brianaharris8192 7 років тому +21

      Doctor Who Love2 vlog mom is pretty cool

    • @andressings8851
      @andressings8851 7 років тому +6

      Briana Michelle Swear!

  • @rocsummits
    @rocsummits 4 роки тому +783

    This sounds just like Tana's recent video. Damn. Sounds like he has a real system. Sad.

    • @MrMikail06
      @MrMikail06 4 роки тому +7

      Rochelle Lynn but to be honest: its their fucking fault. If they let themselves treat like that they deserve to be treated like that. No matter what he did they still were hanging on his nuts

    • @valeria5435
      @valeria5435 4 роки тому +57

      MrMikail06 still no one should be treated like that no matter what

    • @MrMikail06
      @MrMikail06 4 роки тому +2

      potatoes ok I just wanna say that their not the innocent ones too. She likes to play the innocent card. You can believe me or don’t. But I think she kinda liked how he treated her. She liked that feeling of „iam not the only one“ that’s why she let herself treat that way and fell in love with him. And then she even did a song about him. And you could clearly her that she still wants it. She’s garbage too

    • @rocsummits
      @rocsummits 4 роки тому +32

      @@MrMikail06 That doesnt make someone garbage because they go back or even want to fall back into bad situations. It makes them human. We all battle things we never speak of. We only know what we see. It stops there.

    • @valeria5435
      @valeria5435 4 роки тому +6

      MrMikail06 jake lit rally made a song abt her too and also clearly said it both their faults. in my opinion she just fired back as she should

  • @jarbincks6715
    @jarbincks6715 19 днів тому +10

    damn i miss this era

  • @1aurak
    @1aurak 6 років тому +484

    10:00 "i think i was just addicted to the pain, of wanting someone so unattainable. i loved getting hurt by him." awww i love you alissa, and i completely understand. i'm so glad that you moved on.

    • @mcho8137
      @mcho8137 6 років тому

      i dont get it. She loved getting hurt by him but is crying about it now. She would not have "moved on" if she was not kicked out. Seriously, who would want to keep a girl like that around? Not excusing jakes actions but do not xcuse alyssa's actions either. They are both fucked up in the head.

    • @user-oy4qi3nr4l
      @user-oy4qi3nr4l 6 років тому +1

      M Chowdhury she loved getting hurt by him but at that time she actually genuinely love Jake but she didn’t when she was making this vid

    • @mcho8137
      @mcho8137 6 років тому +1

      1001010001011 0111001000010101 right. And someone who enjoys getting hurt by someone is not sane of mind. And if she did enjoy it back then why is she playing victim now? She enjoyed it back then so Jake enjoyed torturing her. Both r bad apples.

    • @user-oy4qi3nr4l
      @user-oy4qi3nr4l 6 років тому +4

      M Chowdhury I don’t think Jake Paul “enjoyed” torturing her, but he simply didn’t care and continued to manipulate her and her feelings which messed her up and I don’t think she was actually addicted to the pain like she said. I think she was just in major confusion, while she couldn’t tell if he ACTUALLY loved her back and she loved him so much that she WANTED to give him a chance, but she hated it and was upset hurt at the same time

    • @audreywong9596
      @audreywong9596 6 років тому +4

      M Chowdhury she had feelings for Jake in the past, and love blinds everyone even her. I'm glad she finally got to her senses.

  • @aaliyahlacole6969
    @aaliyahlacole6969 5 років тому +2406

    *“i just loved being hurt by him...” that is SO relatable😕*

    • @slimflam5982
      @slimflam5982 5 років тому +4

      Same

    • @yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole
      @yourbootyholeisyourbeautyhole 5 років тому +25

      Aaliyah Lacole remember to love and take care of yourself. you’re worth so much more thank you think. you deserve to be loved by someone who thinks the world of you.
      i’ve been there too ❤️ i wish you the best

    • @Emma-te1qh
      @Emma-te1qh 5 років тому +2

      Sheeeit that makes no sense shut up

    • @retarded6322
      @retarded6322 5 років тому +4

      Sheeeit Why huh she talk from the ❤️

    • @alana775
      @alana775 5 років тому +5

      your bootyhole is your beautyhole i only replyed to see your whole name

  • @oliviarose7045
    @oliviarose7045 3 роки тому +120

    I love how brutally honest she is and also owns up to her mistakes. Something Jake couldn’t do. I’m happy for you Alissa. Your living your best life right now and doing you ❤️❤️

  • @summersmith
    @summersmith 2 роки тому +109

    coming back to this after 5 years. i love you Alissa you're such a pure soul and you NEVER deserved anything like this. i still hate how the media is brutal to you sometimes like that one time you posted that tiktok of the angles thing and got hate for it when u CLEARLY didn't mean anything but good from it. i GENUINELY hope you're in a happy place. I LOVE YOU QUEEN 💗

  • @brettb8392
    @brettb8392 6 років тому +3954

    Who else is watching this after the Martinez twins left

  • @takeviral
    @takeviral 5 років тому +8346

    who else is here after watching shane's video??

  • @nicolebowen8979
    @nicolebowen8979 2 роки тому +57

    That’s not love he showed you baby, that’s possession. He loved the power he had over you and you suffered traumatically because of this. I hope you’re healed and thriving now

  • @sihamsayedahmad63
    @sihamsayedahmad63 4 роки тому +313

    I truly feel sorry for Alissa, she is GORGEOUS inside and out yet most of her relationships are just painful to watch .. smh she deserves so much more she is really strong

  • @oliwiag3264
    @oliwiag3264 7 років тому +1254

    Well she looks like a mix of bella thorne and kendall jenner😂😂

    • @kenyamedina2319
      @kenyamedina2319 7 років тому +2

      Oliwia Gorska UHH OML FR!!!!!

    • @anisha5098
      @anisha5098 7 років тому +1

      Oliwia Gorska so true

    • @maria-uh9pw
      @maria-uh9pw 7 років тому +2

      Yes! But she acts like Bella Thorne, bitchy

    • @theslimegirl1013
      @theslimegirl1013 7 років тому

      Maria Martinez wait what are u trying to say?

    • @klaudia1379
      @klaudia1379 7 років тому

      Polska?♡

  • @mktwins4915
    @mktwins4915 7 років тому +934

    Im too crazy of a bitch if my "boyfriend" told me to get out of the room to hang out with some other girl I'd loose my shit

    • @juliesolis745
      @juliesolis745 7 років тому +10

      MK Twins sameeeee ah

    • @jenten8936
      @jenten8936 7 років тому +14

      Seriously, the cops would've ended being called if a guy pulled that shit on me.

    • @daphne4653
      @daphne4653 7 років тому +3

      MK Twins but she was confused and afraid

    • @lifewithaly7941
      @lifewithaly7941 7 років тому

      MK Twins i would to. that would be messed up.

    • @rachelmolano4949
      @rachelmolano4949 7 років тому +2

      she had a contract with jake and she was aftraid that he would he kick or out

  • @dedoelmx
    @dedoelmx 3 роки тому +71

    After all of this, Jake Paul is still narcasstic.
    Alissa did not deserve to get treated like this, nobody deserves to get treated like this. It's evidently painful :(

  • @thetrapper661
    @thetrapper661 3 роки тому +48

    All 83k dislikes are 9 year olds who are manipulated to watching jake but they don’t know he’s a horrible person

  • @xdshadyyy3727
    @xdshadyyy3727 5 років тому +5222

    This girl did not deserve this

    • @anissaa7663
      @anissaa7663 4 роки тому +28

      @@tonyalewing7282 how?

    • @tonyalewing7282
      @tonyalewing7282 4 роки тому +28

      @@anissaa7663 first she dated Jake than Logan now faze shes lying about that Jake abuse what neaver happen so don't believe what Alissa or other people intill they have prove that something happened

    • @x.lmtzzz
      @x.lmtzzz 4 роки тому +83

      Tonya Lewing she never dated him

    • @hanan2317
      @hanan2317 4 роки тому +31

      Tonya Lewing she’s not u🤣🖕🏼

    • @x.lmtzzz
      @x.lmtzzz 4 роки тому +47

      Tonya Lewing nobody cares if you believe her or not , stop watching her videos then

  • @zoek6155
    @zoek6155 6 років тому +923

    Lets be real... Jake definitely watched this 😶

  • @sigawalu3027
    @sigawalu3027 4 роки тому +49

    I'M LITERALLY ON HER SIDE........INEVER EVER LIKED JAKE

  • @drunk0ct0pus
    @drunk0ct0pus 3 роки тому +56

    the fact that he did it again with tana is beyond me

  • @liabilgrami5194
    @liabilgrami5194 6 років тому +445

    Alissa: it's both of our faults
    Jake: it's her fault

    • @PolarticaStorm
      @PolarticaStorm 6 років тому +15

      Jake admitting he fucked up, it'll never happen. He will do whatever it takes to make himself out to be the pretend Quality Crap he wants his fans to see.n Unfortunately his kiddy fans believe whatever bullshit he posts!

    • @josegpeace3471
      @josegpeace3471 6 років тому +4

      Jake is a bitch

    • @asmrkind2559
      @asmrkind2559 6 років тому +3

      its jakes fault

    • @itzjordyn4079
      @itzjordyn4079 6 років тому

      LILI B Right I can't believe he could do this to her she is so nice I wish that I could hug her and punch jake right in the face

  • @yerrr3562
    @yerrr3562 6 років тому +1444

    “addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unattainable” -alissa violet ❤️

  • @kcjm7345
    @kcjm7345 3 роки тому +51

    I like how she didn’t waste no time telling the story & I felt immersed like she’s talking to me personally.

  • @hazeltropix1170
    @hazeltropix1170 2 роки тому +24

    He triangulated you against other girls, because that gives him power. He was hot and cold with you, because that creates an addiction and is called a trauma bond and makes it very hard to leave. He love bombed you until you felt comfortable to give up your freedom, and once you relied on him, he began to devalue you. Your worth to him, is that you are very very beautiful and it makes him feel even more powerful to make a beautiful woman feel worthless. It's important to understand that people who lack empathy, tend to be very predictable in their behavior. These actions are now red flags that are your gifts from all this, so you can be aware of them for next time.

    • @eeeellen6647
      @eeeellen6647 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly the same as my son's 'dad' he's now on his 13th relationship since my son was born 🙄 my son is 6 🥴

    • @kevthegoat8774
      @kevthegoat8774 2 роки тому +2

      Her continuing to hook up with him when he did that gave him more power, bit she really hit Jake where it hurts by getting with Logan, he will probably never be the same again mentally when it comes to women because of that.

  • @vinamistry5263
    @vinamistry5263 7 років тому +2810

    as an avid body language student, if you look at her body language and eye movement, she isn't lying

    • @madisonalonso5165
      @madisonalonso5165 7 років тому +87

      by looking at Jake's body language, can you tell if he's lying?

    • @vinamistry5263
      @vinamistry5263 7 років тому +129

      +Madass I haven't actually watched a video of him talking about the issue and that's my fault. After watching this one i just assumed he was lying, which I shouldn't have done. I'll watch one of his videos about the issue and get back to you, is that okay?

    • @vinamistry5263
      @vinamistry5263 7 років тому +127

      +Madass I watched Jakes video apologising to Alissa. he didn't talk about any details of the situation so I couldn't read if he was lying or not. However, from his body language and eye contact, overall, I can say that his apology to her was genuine.

    • @devinmd_2
      @devinmd_2 7 років тому +42

      XD, bitch! she talking to a fucking camera nigga! it's different!

    • @Unknown-qm3zy
      @Unknown-qm3zy 6 років тому +158

      Devin Shelton are you thick, whenever you talk about details in your life, no matter to who or a camera, u still make certain movements or small actions when u lie. Do not be so ignorant for this person was just confirming the truth

  • @bradhamilton5872
    @bradhamilton5872 7 років тому +1879

    when england is your city

    • @aprettynerd10
      @aprettynerd10 7 років тому +2

      LOLOL luv u

    • @Sammmmy21
      @Sammmmy21 7 років тому +4

      Brad Hamilton omg you just made me wake up everyone in my house

    • @rawan1132
      @rawan1132 7 років тому +1

      England is not a city 😩

    • @bradhamilton5872
      @bradhamilton5872 7 років тому +11

      fuck me, it's from 'everyday bro'

    • @channelover7819
      @channelover7819 7 років тому

      Brad Hamilton yo England's my city hit me up

  • @nathanhick7664
    @nathanhick7664 4 роки тому +132

    who else is watching this while they are in quarentine and have nothing to do

  • @taylorpurtee6308
    @taylorpurtee6308 2 роки тому +70

    Here beacuse of tanas new tik tok I didn’t even know about this 😱

  • @alicerizkallah2796
    @alicerizkallah2796 6 років тому +1179

    omg her nose highlight thooooo 😍

  • @duruparman9620
    @duruparman9620 5 років тому +630

    “i hated him but loved him at the same time” relatable asf

    • @ismeyet6503
      @ismeyet6503 5 років тому

      Duru Parman nope

    • @bee4907
      @bee4907 5 років тому +4

      Abusive relationship in so many words.

  • @fawaztehami6127
    @fawaztehami6127 3 роки тому +46

    Wow so Alissa was the only gf of Jake who actually loved him and Jake just kept on betraying and being rude to her

  • @hudwizzle
    @hudwizzle 2 роки тому +33

    who’s here from tana’s tiktok

  • @Irislsy
    @Irislsy 5 років тому +1180

    Okay I’m here from Shane’s series and idc even if they found that Jake is a totally different person from who he is from UA-cam, that is NO EXCUSE to treat a girl like this.

    • @emilycochraneX
      @emilycochraneX 5 років тому +2

      IrisMusicx I KNOWWW RIGHT!

    • @TheAuroraGalore
      @TheAuroraGalore 5 років тому +2

      It's those awful parents 😐

    • @chelita9987
      @chelita9987 5 років тому +1

      IrisMusicx
      Hate to disagree with this statement, I beg to differ in the context that he TRULY abused Violet. We have no VISUAL proof of abuse towards Violet. Meaning we do not see Paul hurting Violet physically.
      I am a "believe it when I see it" type of person so I do not take Violet's side on this, but neither do I take Paul's side.
      Please do not believe everything you hear, but remember this is MY opinion, I have the rights to state MY opinion and disagree with OTHERS. This is no hate to either Violet and Paul.
      I am not a fan of Violet and Paul, I began to dislike them when they made that "diss track" towards one another.

    • @Irislsy
      @Irislsy 5 років тому +25

      Aracely Salazar I’m speaking more in terms of emotional abuse like when he said he loves her and hooked up with another woman days later, like how he forced her to leave the room so he could have sex with another woman. That is equally hurtful and no one deserves that. I don’t think she was physically abused either but if u want to talk about physical abuse he definitely does that to others like the Martinez twins 🤷‍♀️

    • @chelita9987
      @chelita9987 5 років тому

      IrisMusicx
      I see, sorry I interpreted it in another way. I just assumed in the physical abuse. My mistake. But, the emotional abuse is debatable, I haven't watched the whole video seeing as I don't really care but I was just scrolling through the comments 😐. I don't know if she gave any valid proof of said emotional abuse, but okay.

  • @blagoje7
    @blagoje7 5 років тому +1458

    Who came after "Mind of Jake Paul" part 1 ?

  • @ashleyd8850
    @ashleyd8850 2 роки тому +26

    Anyone here from tana’s TikTok duet?! 😭

  • @lilyshanine1635
    @lilyshanine1635 4 роки тому +75

    Who’s here June 2020?

  • @mermer8331
    @mermer8331 7 років тому +914

    Now I know why Pam divorced Greg

  • @yewweiqi3311
    @yewweiqi3311 7 років тому +3017

    I could legit feel the pain she's hiding behind this video

    • @dayracarrillo5633
      @dayracarrillo5633 7 років тому +5

      Yew Wei Qi same

    • @paulavarga411
      @paulavarga411 6 років тому +32

      Same,she's such a good girl and I can't possibly understand how she put up with him for soooo long,I really hope she is happy now and I can say that she is one of the most geniune girl on yt

    • @UnicornMagicRandom
      @UnicornMagicRandom 6 років тому +6

      Yew Wei Qi same, I cried

    • @albertsee9302
      @albertsee9302 6 років тому +2

      Yew Wei Qi I cried

    • @giodamilkman
      @giodamilkman 6 років тому +5

      i feel the same

  • @revirahmani4744
    @revirahmani4744 3 роки тому +120

    It’s been 4 years.
    It’s still stuck in my head... not going anywhere
    I’m always with you Alissa 💛

  • @c8catch370
    @c8catch370 4 роки тому +66

    Why is this being recommended to me 3 years later

  • @misscellaneous5329
    @misscellaneous5329 5 років тому +1366

    I really want Alissa or any of the og team 10 members who left, to make a video(s) in response to Shane's series. The tea would be flooding lmao
    Edit: OOFTTT if any of y'all have seen shane's most recent vid... im ready for a truckload of Alissa Violet

    • @myrazahari8567
      @myrazahari8567 5 років тому +11

      Miss Cellaneous is ooohhh yesssssss, imagine Shane gets everyone who left Team 10 to speak, the tea is boiling hot sis

    • @gabiluvsu2much
      @gabiluvsu2much 5 років тому +5

      I'm sure he interviews them in his series! We still have 6 more parts of the series to watch.

    • @hao9508
      @hao9508 5 років тому +1

      I don't think it's still tea at this point guys watch the twins video this is supposed to be on the real news not UA-cam.

    • @ace.error404
      @ace.error404 5 років тому +2

      Miss Cellaneous We would drown in boiling tea.

    • @ermvg16
      @ermvg16 5 років тому +1

      Great idea

  • @amandayu9423
    @amandayu9423 6 років тому +302

    I’m really happy that jake kicked Alissa out, if he didn’t, Alissa won’t be with banks

    • @SHiFtExploit
      @SHiFtExploit 6 років тому +1

      Help me reach 10,000 subscribers without videos facts

  • @eNn13
    @eNn13 2 роки тому +11

    Who’s here after tanas tiktok?

  • @TheBrittanytaylor22
    @TheBrittanytaylor22 2 роки тому +11

    Pov your here after Tanas TikTok response to Jakes.

  • @killermemestar-1229
    @killermemestar-1229 6 років тому +1025

    If this video was age restricted there would be no dislikes

    • @kaylafreeman4501
      @kaylafreeman4501 6 років тому +1

      KillerMemestar - dumb

    • @mechristianwood
      @mechristianwood 6 років тому

      Lmao 😂

    • @IrelandGamez
      @IrelandGamez 6 років тому +13

      If this video was age restricted, there would be no views.

    • @iankim748
      @iankim748 6 років тому +8

      Smily Face you know, I watched some of her earliest vlogs, and that musically video from faze banks an honestly how can you hate this girl... first she is hot as hell, but her personality is so chill, funny, and so damn relatable... the most innocent girl you could probably ever meet, legit watch the musically... how can you possibly hate her

    • @neelmukherjee5423
      @neelmukherjee5423 6 років тому +2

      Smily Face and you shouldn't have been born

  • @zoereed8921
    @zoereed8921 7 років тому +1664

    can we just talk about how greg paul is a grown ass man and he straight up screamed in alissa's face? like wtf? at 13:55

    • @editsandgiggles8831
      @editsandgiggles8831 7 років тому +59

      ikr what the ACTUAL fuck

    • @bryan3718
      @bryan3718 7 років тому +41

      zoe reed it's fucked we should call him out

    • @shathaat5647
      @shathaat5647 7 років тому +99

      Like father like son i guess

    • @vlitten19
      @vlitten19 7 років тому +20

      zoe reed i can't believe it. he's so fucked up

    • @abigailcherie8051
      @abigailcherie8051 7 років тому

      zoe reed where is the video when he did that??

  • @ameehatfield5779
    @ameehatfield5779 2 роки тому +11

    who’s here after tanas tik tok 😐

  • @sadiakhan8989
    @sadiakhan8989 3 роки тому +26

    Why this thing keep happening to this girl 😭 she honestly doesn’t deserve this 😢 she is the sweetest girl and she deserves the world. Banks even cheated on her 😔

  • @yourstrulynina1524
    @yourstrulynina1524 5 років тому +2506

    idk why but i really like alissa’s voice

  • @aishakaukau2409
    @aishakaukau2409 6 років тому +353

    The fact that their father behaved liked that when he saw you explains exactly why those brothers are the way they are

    • @DreaCakes03
      @DreaCakes03 6 років тому +17

      AISHA KAUKAU yes!!!!!! There’s a reason those guys are pieces of shit!

    • @ladycumquato8371
      @ladycumquato8371 6 років тому +13

      so true sons are often the product of their environment is their father is like that it explains a lot

    • @chiraggupta2645
      @chiraggupta2645 6 років тому +5

      hmm..logan is much better though. I think logan is a good guy idk about Jake but the father is 100% an asshole

    • @thehotselcajiminneverposte7485
      @thehotselcajiminneverposte7485 6 років тому +4

      Chiro99 Gp yes logan is such a good person that acts like a fucking douche or "savage" to people

    • @jessisntcool6235
      @jessisntcool6235 6 років тому +2

      TRUE

  • @whitneythelifeofme2518
    @whitneythelifeofme2518 4 роки тому +35

    Who else is here after watching tana’s new video “The truth about everything” and realizing how much her and tana have in common!!?? Obviously the common denominator is jake I am so glad I have never got on the “team 10” train

  • @Lucas-op2dw
    @Lucas-op2dw 2 роки тому +10

    Who’s here after her tic toc

  • @sums2942
    @sums2942 6 років тому +608

    "I think I was addicted to the pain of wanting someone so unattainable" so deep I love you alissa

  • @JessiePatricia
    @JessiePatricia 5 років тому +1522

    Had to come watch this right after Shane Dawson video lol

  • @bm10boy
    @bm10boy 3 роки тому +134

    If your watching in quarantine 2020 for absolutely no reason I feel your pain 😭

  • @reesepaleczny6653
    @reesepaleczny6653 3 роки тому +93

    holy shit that was three years ago, time rlly flies. love u violet even if i dont watch u a lot anymore u will always be my favorite youtuber/influencer. no matter what. ive been watching since before u had a youtube channel on jakes channel. i felt so bad for u when he cheated, i even cried for you haha but once he did that it was rlly hard for me cause i loved watching him but i unsubbed and never watched one of his vids ever again. you deserve so much better than jake or banks, they dont see your worth. youre way too amazing for them. ive always watched u cause ive always thought of myself being a younger version of you not gonna lie lol. love youuu

  • @Helokitty5993
    @Helokitty5993 5 років тому +703

    The PAUL dad sounds like an absolute gem. No wonder his sons turned out the way they did.

    • @thegamelabgaming7556
      @thegamelabgaming7556 5 років тому

      Laura V I wouldn’t say that.

    • @thegamelabgaming7556
      @thegamelabgaming7556 5 років тому +10

      Laura V lol I just realized what you meant after watching the vid. I totally agree with you

    • @amaliagarrido8603
      @amaliagarrido8603 5 років тому +18

      yeah no wonder his oldest son filmed a dead+body and+his younger+son abused his "girlfriend"

    • @hao9508
      @hao9508 5 років тому +5

      @@amaliagarrido8603 and abused a lot of people.

    • @lilililil7240
      @lilililil7240 5 років тому

      Yep 100% agreed

  • @thesweeterthingsindeath
    @thesweeterthingsindeath 5 років тому +1032

    I hope Shane Dawson interviewed hers...Anyone else?

  • @pickletoast3599
    @pickletoast3599 4 роки тому +134

    when she cries pretty too, omfg.

    • @emmy3516
      @emmy3516 4 роки тому

      My Video: Give me positive feed back please if u like I worked hard ua-cam.com/video/U1-iiAa7xyg/v-deo.html I'm an ugly crier

  • @angelinaheide1672
    @angelinaheide1672 4 роки тому +43

    I’m honestly so proud of you. You don’t understand the amount of respect I have for you❤️

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll 5 років тому +822

    Shane brought me here. lol. looking up the twins next.

    • @divinityinversace
      @divinityinversace 5 років тому +7

      im headin there too thanks for ringing a bell in my head lol

    • @kqueen453
      @kqueen453 5 років тому +1

      Same 😂😂😂

    • @sophiasalvador20
      @sophiasalvador20 5 років тому +1

      Like fr

    • @CindyRex
      @CindyRex 5 років тому +9

      O saw the twins first hahahah trying to put every piece together

    • @shalinis1974
      @shalinis1974 5 років тому +1

      Sameee😂 omg

  • @greeneyes3995
    @greeneyes3995 6 років тому +1266

    Whose still watching this in 2018?

  • @jessicashepard3270
    @jessicashepard3270 2 роки тому +10

    Who’s here after Tanas tik tok

  • @camillechoinieree
    @camillechoinieree 3 роки тому +22

    alissa still deserves better

  • @bitaj6386
    @bitaj6386 7 років тому +1901

    I can't believe the other people at Team10 are/were okay with this

    • @ohyeahyeah7541
      @ohyeahyeah7541 7 років тому +94

      Emily J man that shit is fucked up jake can do anything he wants but when they even try the same shit this happens. he should not have treated her like that

    • @annayzv77
      @annayzv77 7 років тому +161

      Emily J I'm pretty sure most of them are not okay with it, but if they say anything they would lose their jobs. The newcomers just believe Jake's lies.

    • @bri7375
      @bri7375 7 років тому +122

      I'm sure most of them aren't okay with it. But if they stand up to him or speak out, they'll lose their contracts and get kicked out .

    • @pancakewaffle1017
      @pancakewaffle1017 7 років тому +3

      Emily J that is true

    • @nodnerboob
      @nodnerboob 7 років тому +15

      Simon Delevingne Honestly like I didn't think he was that bad of a person but he's horrible I wasn't on her side but I am now

  • @migs357
    @migs357 7 років тому +1150

    Gained so much respect for alissa after this

  • @AvidUser32
    @AvidUser32 4 роки тому +33

    Who’s watching this after Tanas video? 2020??

  • @Jbaby-xu5zz
    @Jbaby-xu5zz 2 роки тому +9

    Who else is here from tanas tiktok?