Surprising Mom...After Being Yelled At
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Our boy drove all the way home just to surprise his mom and hangout with us for the weekend. The 2nd was World Autism Awareness Day. We should all focus on the things that matter, the things that benefit people in the autism community.
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Very well said, Priscilla! If we could all be more accepting and understanding, this world would be such a better place.
Saw a shirt in a photo thatI want to find. It says," if you can be anything, be kind". Says it all. Went to the market with my brother in law who recentky had back surgery, so I'm his heavy lifter. At the frozen food section he was looking for different burritos and they were all messed up, others having put things not back where they belonged. As he looked through them he straightened them all out, putting like things together then into the correct boxes. Another shopper came by and also was looking for particular combinations and complimented him on fixing the section. He asked her what combinations she liked and what she was looking for and the three of us had a nice conversation. Made our day.
Are you THE Lori Morgan 😂
The way she kept waving at grandpa to leave haha
I absolutely love Isaiah surprising Cilla! IT'LL NEVER GET OLD! Welcome home 🏡💓
Honestly, I never had this kind of mother/son bond with my mom (I’m almost exactly a year older than him I think since I’m 10/30/2000) and every time I see it, kinda makes me tear up. I don’t remember the last time I hugged her and I live with her still
😕 Let me give you a hug.
My Mum was never a hugger but I knew that she loved me. I hope you at least know that you are loved!
I challenge you to give your mom 5 hugs tomorrow. Just because your mom may not initiate those hugs, doesn't mean that you can't. It's never too late. And, you'll probably make her day by making her feel loved.
@@girlfromsouth214 I only wished I could, I lost her to cancer but she in my heart everyday
Because of your channel my 9 yr old son understands and accepts people with autism. When we are out and are around anyone who maybe he will just look at me and ask “like Abby” and when I tell him yes he just moves on or tries to help if there is a need. Thank you for doing what you do and I love seeing Abby be so much of a teen 🙂
I love that you are accepting of those with disabilities of varying degrees! I myself am a 30-year-old woman with Cerebral Palsy who works at a movie theater in my hometown. A lot of people just see my wheelchair but they don’t see the person within at and we need to continue to spread awareness of those with not just visible disabilities but also those with invisible disabilities as well.
Awe. What a great surprise. And Nala so happy to see Isaiah. She was like, PET ME.
I love Sandie she my fav, love when she keys there on her back and looks at u like what,what I do lol
Aww Isaiah ur the best so happy u got to go home. I love when my oldest son comes to visit. What sweet kids.
We I love it! What a nice surprise! I have to say I’ve been watching for several years now and I work in childcare, have since 2002, and I had heard of autism but can honestly say I didn’t understand it. Ever since I found you all I have such a better understanding and have since had kids with autism in my class and that helped me to better help them and understand them better. So thank you for what you do!
Isaiah looks great. He has lost a lot of weight. He looks like a young man - not a teenage boy. What a wonderful surprise!
I agree, it does seem like he lost some weight & he looks super cute! 😏😊
Loved the “surprise” at the end. 😁💕
He needed to get away from the food at home. Too many snacks, donuts, fried foods, etc. He looks great!
Summer also gained weight while living there. I worry about Abbie and her wonderful parents with all that extra weight. Type 2 diabetes is around the corner, and maybe cardio problems. Abby needs you, so take some time to think about the diet. I doubt you have a guardian as all of us have had people come in and out of our lives who say they will be a guardian and then they have life changes and are no longer available.
Your son has lost weight. Looks great. Abbie as precious as ever.
Wow he has lost too much weight, no more Isaah
@@cookiepirolli5792 I disagree. I’m officially obese and think he looks great. I wish I could do half of what he does on his vlogs.
The Best! I get to surprise my son in 10 days. Can’t wait
That was a awesome entrance and the surprise on mom's face man o man so special 👍
MAASS FAMILY YOU ARE AMAZING. ❤
ALL OF YOU!!!!❤😙
We had a calico like yours and she was the cuddliest cat ever. When we would arrive home she would lie on her back like your dog Sandy does. She loved her belly rubbed and she would cuddle for hours. She had long fur and she loved to be brushed too. I miss her. 😢
I totally agree with the Ted/kitchen talk. FYI I watched the part of Isaiah walking in twice. I was in tears. 💞
"Differently-abled" literally makes me cringe because you're just trying too hard to be politically correct. Disabled isn't a bad word, and we know that's what you're trying (not) to say. The thing I hate about disability and illness communities is the focus on gatekeeping and speaking for everyone. If anything, that turns people off to whatever message you're trying to spread. Not to mention, it's hypocritical "I want you to accept me, but I have the right to tell you how to live and whether or not you "qualify" as one of us."
This 👆🏼
Nobody has the right to decide who qualifies as one of us! We are all human beings and need love and acceptance … but sometimes people need help explaining ( those non verbal , and those with inabilities to easily communicate ) the on,y way we all grown and learn and do better is to listen to hear …and not to answer back!
I am an individual with what the world calls a handicap ….but I call myself Handicapable ! Because I need to remind myself that I just have to do things differently …..but to have others call me differently as well is fine ..as long as it isn’t said with a negative connotation….and if it is, that’s that persons problem ….NOT a being nice because of ignorance or just being a bully ..is an even bigger handicap !
Thank you for having your channel! It helps me understand my nephews and niece that are at different ends of the spectrum.
Always great when he comes home🥰
Thanks
Best surprise
Amen 🙏 I don't care how ya get there. Just get there!
Well said let people who can speak for themselves let you know choose how they want to be referred to whether person first or condition first. As long as someone is kind then it makes a world of difference. I read a blog recently from a friend who goes through the same stuff as me and this was what part of the blog was about. She shared how it's about intent and how you say things in a kind manner and that's how we learn rather than just telling others they can't ask questions or demanding someone answer all your questions about their disability but kind to one another and understand that we're not always going to feel like answering for various reasons and on the other hand if done in kindness then don't feel like everyone is being mean in asking questions. Those who ask questions in kindness could very well be seeking understanding and want to support others in the same boat.
I wish Scoliosis was more aware and accepted. But there is some people who have no idea what Scoliosis is.
@@cheyennehalliger5438 yes I understand and agree. It's not easy to have a condition to begin with let alone when it's so misunderstood. I completely get that and deal with the misunderstandings of chronic illnesses and disabilities myself.
@@cheyennehalliger5438 my nephew has scoliosis and wore a back brace for most of his teen into adult years. Many people have issues that are not easily visible, so some people misjudge them. Hope your surgery helped and you have recovered. Have a blessed rest of the week!
OHhh!!!! Steve!!! You're ... HOME!!!! 💋💋💋💋
Weird thing I notice: Winter in the mountains has meant Isaiah has lost that Florida tan. Boy you need to get home and see your parents more often! I love that you work so hard to surprise Priscilla too, its adorable.
I love her first reaction both times is Shut up lol
I've been a follower of your content for quite a while now and I just felt I needed to say this: I initially had concerns that my youngest son (he was a baby at the time) was autistic. Not knowing anything at all about it I searched on UA-cam and found you guys. Currently I am still working with therapists and doctors to see if there is a diagnosis of autism due to my concerns still being concerns (he is 3.5 now). I must thank you for all the insight you have given me. Alot of the stuff I learn from listening to you talk about autism I have found quite useful in helping my son especially when he is struggling and I cannot thank you enough ❤️
Side note: the squinty suspicious look Abby gave Nala was hilarious 🤣 she cracks me up 🥰❤️
"Is it Friday already, what the heck" that's me every week when friday rolls around ... 😂🤣
Yes love your channel and the awareness that I have learned. I use to want to be a “learning disability” teacher. I have learned a lot.
Always great to see Isaiah!! Enjoy!!
Aww this is the best!!! Love this. And love when he's home. 🥰💗
Isiahs back! Wow
Hi, when I had a major back surgery for my Scoliosis. We had this cat the minute I got back home she wouldn’t leave my side and she even slept at the foot of my bed. So yes cats are definitely wanted to be around people.
I love how every time Isaiah comes home,Cila first reaction is shut up 😂
My opinion I don’t like being called “special needs” it makes me feel more like I’m not one of the “normal” people.
You are unique! Never understood people trying to be who they aren't, copying someone else, and never being happy. Learned a long time ago that if you try to be someone else you will be a 2nd rate them. You can only be a first rate you so be the best you you can be. Everyone has challenges, they just don't always show if it's not visible. Asthma, lung problems, heart issues, etc. Give your kitty a pet and treat for me! And yes, you are right, Cilla's first reaction is "shut up"!! Love it when Isaiah surprises the family, and us!! So sweet how he loves and interacts with his parents and Abbie. Boy she'll be surprised when she wakes up!! Hugs n love! Have a blessed week!
Hey! I also had one for the same thing! :D
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I’m so sorry I just sorry this, but thank you very much! I would, but the cats have passed away years ago.
Change is ongoing it doesn’t happen overnight just do what u can speak up when your voice shakes and don’t let people shut you down
Thanks for your videos they are very informative ! It is awesome to know there are other families dealing with the same thing. You are right more people need to accept people doing things differently, cause we are all different and unique in our own way!
You two are honest and amazing. 💕💕
lsaiah looks amazing and great loss wait. Mum and son together so adorable bless them both.🙂🙃😉😊
She is so pretty and lovely ☺️💜 also very smart and a bit sassy and I love it ☺️😂💜💜
Shoeless Joe!!! Funny how she knows she sneaky.
New sub and I love ur channel such great parents and the ending was so sweet what a great big brother
Welcome 😁
Nala is a calico cat right? They’re just lovable like that, it takes a few years but before you know it they’re meowing to be picked up.
Wow the lad has lost a load of weight. 👍💙👍
He is perfect healthy!
@@cheyennehalliger5438 yes he is looking exceptionally well. 👍🇬🇧
Last year when I came home from being in hospital, I woke up in the middle of the night with my cat just sitting staring at me. Another time I woke up with her sleeping with me. She hadn't done that before
So touching.
When I was younger I was having back surgery and when I came back home, my cat didn’t leave my side and even slept at the foot of my bed.
The older my cats get the more cuddly they are.
I love seeing you guys
Hi abbie and family, welcome home Isaiah , hope y'all are having a wonderful tuesday and stay safe out there ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗
SO COOLthat Isaiah surprised you, Cilla, & came home❣️
I wish I’d had a mother in my life , especially if she loved like Precilla does
Hugs n love, Andrew Richardson. Have a blessed rest of the week.
If people would fight for awareness and the rights of people with disabilities as much as they argue about being offended at terms or other things, then we'd get a lot further with having a better world for people with disabilities than we are right now in my opinion. To many people literally focus to much energy on being offended at everything.
I'm disabled, I have special needs and hey I don't care what anyone calls the needs I have. My focus is getting through each day with minimum amount of pain and being a nice person to others.
I have a cat that does the same thing. Lays on my chest, and my dogs on my legs. I look like a mummy laying in bed. Can’t move, and I slept the whole night like that, lol.
I feel the same way with words... it's about intention. I've even gotten in hot water with disability advocates and friends because I feel any word, even "love" can be offensive, depending on how it is used.
Pricilla. You look vey nice ..😊
I make keychains of the heart with puzzle piece Inside. It's my best seller. To represent autism Awareness.
When my son got his Diagnosis I referred friends to some of your older video's on Autism(Which you should TOTALLY do an updated version on this videos). You guys have totally done a lot of work to help raise awareness and to help teach others.
Let,s all learned for all the right reasons.
Exactly in my old high school I was told that I am only capable of doing cleaning or greater just because I have a physical disability but I am now about to graduate from college this May with an associate degree in education. I truly believe that people with disabilities can do anything they put their minds too.
All right person, you showed whoever that you couldn't do much than that one or two things that they were wrong and you could do it. :-)
It’s also ok that some people can’t work. They just aren’t capable of it and it’s ok.
Welcome home college boy, we are leaving at 3 am (according to your brain) 🤣🤣🤣 Cilla's reaction is ALWAYS the best!!! I LOVE IT!!!❤️❤️❤️ Ab is doing so well!! And all cats are a word that I can't say on UA-cam!!🤣🤣 Dogs are so much better!! Have a great night everyone!!❤️❤️
I'm not a big cat person and am allergic to some. But my brother has three dogs, three cats, and a bird. Everyone gets along except the cats don't seem to be able to fight the urge to try to get the bird! They listen tho when you catch them prior to the jump. And I enjoy his cats. Also had a kitty when I was young. It was supposed to be my brother's but he asked me to care for it for a while, and he didn't have the heart to take it back.
I like your show and your family is so blessed
Happy Tuesday I hope you have a blessed Tuesday I love watching your videos you’re the sweetest kindest family ever💙💚💗❤️🤩😎
I find that it is so tricky I have multiple disabilities but there is my super power making ochre paint and art but I still struggle..... I hate the fact that people don't get it. I have bi polar 2 and anxiety and telplis and I struggle with people saying about my abilities but don't understand sometimes I don't understand
Isn't Isiah like 8 hours away! It's so cool thst he wants to be with his fsmily so much and go on the ride.
That was a great surprise!
As far as Autism awareness/acceptance in my opinion y'all have done an amazing job! I have learnt so much and it has certainly helped as I wait for the formal assessment for my son. You have given me lots of tools and insight that I have been able to share with my family and friends. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Love you all. ❤
The cutest thing i heard was my neice in the same grade as my non verbal severely autistic son telling her friends "This is my cousin Makuyi and he has helping needs"
We make it special day for my grandson that has autism non verbal but is starting to talk and he will be 6 in may
As far as acceptance, I agree. I personally suffered a TBI 4yrs ago and visually appear normal (whatever normal is ) and when I am in certain situations my brain may get overloaded and I struggle. I’ve had people hit me with carts and make rude comments. It’s hurtful. Please just be kind to everyone, you never know.
i feel like Isaiah is my son whenever i see him come home. i'm so happy!
Cilla u have been saying for 2 yrs u r not acat person... Nala says different... she loves her mama... heeheehee she love u... ❤
She is definitely a cat person.
Or at least Nala"s person... heeheehee
I am a special education teacher and a special Olympics coach and what I don’t understand is why it is called special Olympics and only kids with ID or IDD as you guys call it are allowed to play. If it is for kids with special needs why cannot kids with Autism and other special needs play…?
I work at my son school he's 7. He has seen some kiddos like abbie and he's like mom they are like the girl you watch on you tube. He can never remember the word autism but he notices it causes your channel.
Hi Isaiah we miss you buddy
You know you can watch him on his UA-cam channel l
When the cat gets used to you they want more love
i have special needs . i call my self a rock star .not that i have special needs . my mom fought for years to get me the help i needed in school then when i did they just yanked it from me and said too bad you can teach your self . so i droped out of high school and got my ged by my self and now own my own catering/baking business . i know the struggles with inpoylemt its inpossible in canada to find work andless you actuly show you have dispitalys and not like me where mine dont allways show or i dont say anything ad ppl are mean . i love watching youe chanle it makes me push my self to do better .
I love Abbie waving goodbye to her grandfather.Quite a milestone
What a great surprise Isaiah! My cat love to cuddle like Nala does! They're so sweet!
The best surprise ever was when my oldest daughter told me she couldn’t come home for Christmas and then she did. I cried happy tears
I was born paralyzed waist down and being called differently abled is fine. It just means that there are some things i can and cant do
I’ve got 5 cats that love to snuggle and petted
Ive always wondered about what its like for people with less mild learning disabilities to work and have jobs, and how employers train them and manage their workload. Do only specific businesses hire them? I imagine it would be almost impossible to find the time to train someone with pretty severe disabilities at any of the places i have worked at, mainly because its pretty fast paced and no one has much time to spend one on one with a trainee, so i just wonder how any business would manage that?
When my kids had ear aches they would be tilt their head. Never say a word just tilt the head. Might be a sign of other issues?
Cilla is not a cat person! 😂😂😂
Me and my husband both have a learning disability and my husband also have autism
This is very well explained
I so agree with autism awareness and acceptance. I have autism and made the mistake of telling the people I work with at a therapy center. Once my coworkers knew about my autism they spoke slower to me and repeated things twice. I thought this was just a fluke since it happened once but then it happened again and again. I knew they didn’t understand how to speak to me. My coworkers and my boss spoke to me just fine before they knew I had autism. I wasn’t treated any differently before. Now I don’t tell anyone at work that I have autism.
Mary
What a great surprise…. Seeing your son after so long is the best feeling ever ❤️❤️❤️😍
Great video. I'm so glad that Isaiah surprised his mom
Just an FYI. You may have to get legal guardianship of Abby when she turns 18. It can be a lengthy process so begin now. I had to get legal guardianship of my guys. My best to your family.
They know, they've been preparing for years, and will start in November when she's 17.5 which is the earliest they can start the process.
Hello beautiful Maass family. 😙 ❤ 😍
I love grandpa 💕
I love when you ask Abbie to do something and she shakes her head NO! Typical teenager lol
It’s her go to now lol
Asa our cats are exactly like Nala. Our cats are just love ❤️!
Nala loves her grandparents!!
It drives me crazy that people get hung up on terminology when we need to be focused on the needs and the hearts of people. If a person is not trying to be malicious in their wording and you “know” what they are trying to say, go with that.
Love the message behind ur channel keep up the awesome work!
There’s a song a choir im in sings…and it reminds me of the differences thing,
“ All Gods critters have a place in the choir, some sing low and some sing higher. Some sing out loud on the telephone wire and some just clap their hands or paws or anything they got now..Listen that’s note that the little birds sings on the melody or the high not ringing and the hoot owl hollers over everything and the porcupine talks to himself “ this is only part of the song …but says we all belong here on this turning world …and we all have something to offer!
I think you/we need awareness to then create acceptence, I mean, it's kind of tough to be able to accept something you are not aware of...
Awesome glad Isah came home to surprise
I was in LD classes in the 80's 90's ... We have come so far ... We learned nothing
What a wonderful surprise. I cried too!
I don't like when someone drinks from my cup either Precilla
Completely off topic but how do you keep your cooktop so clean Priscilla?!?
She cleans it during snd after every use, and wipes everything down every night before she goes to bed.
Dang I almost didn't recognized Isaiah!
Oh my goodness, the terminology minefield is nuts. I have a physical disability and the amount of discussion around what words should be used is just crazy… it’s so divisive and a waste of time. I’m with Cilla, say it with kindness but for goodness sake just say it 😊