Things Non-Muslims Should Know About Muslims | Dakara Ma | Non-Muslim Reaction | Rules of Islam
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2024
- In this reaction we take a look at Dakara Ma's video titled: "Things Non-Muslims Should Know About Muslims". This video explains on some of the basic rules and cultural items associated with Islam, that some may be unaware of, using a very light hearted feminine touch.
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i find it interesting that people see islam as ‘restrictive’ but humans will naturally follow the laws of the society/country they live in
EXACTLY
Like y th would I follow a human rule and standard over GODs rules and laws? Makes no sense
because they dont see that , being okay with just shaking hands because its just small thing to be a problem! but after time they want hug, they want kiss on chicks then problems will keep on coming because people will never be contented. and ISLAM prevents this problems despite with this ofcourse muslims are just humans commit mistakes but atleast we dont think that this is OKAY , we sin and we repent.
@@lana_354"I like not from worldly life but perfumes and women." (Ibn Sa'd, Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabir, Volume 1, p. 469)
He is a fake prophet because what kind of a god marries a 6/7 year old and sleeps with a 9 year old.
Absolutely
@@lana_354 Yeah, and then they call us terrorist and have we have no freedom just because our religion rules are "odd" and different 💀 Just leave us alone lol
6:21 actually she forgot to mention that you can touch relatives. Brothers, fathers, Uncles,Grandfathers etc
Few I was gonna say..... nice 🙏🙏
There are 2 categories 1 ) mahram 2) non mahram
Mahram include blood relatives and if you breastfeed any infant then he will be your mahram
@@stayspiritualthere is mehrim or na mehrim concept in Islam,,,,, 😂😂😂😂😂😂
And also a woman can show her hair or dress as casual to those relatives too.
@@aa.r2588 👌👌👌👍👍👍👍
As a Muslim you can hug your brother, father, son, grandfather, grandson, nephews..etc
😂😂rapist muhammd
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
gross mf. @@jean-pierresteenberg
@@jean-pierresteenberg May Allah give you hidayat 🤲🏼Ameen
May Allah give you jahanam inshallah. Ameen
Don't worry, you can hug your mother, daughter, sister and very close relatives known as "Mahram" in islam
Yeah father's hugs are the best.
7:07 what you guys don’t understand is that when it comes to religion, we never change.
If it was just a tradition or a custom then sure, things do change but we believe that Islam is the ultimate truth and all its teachings are from God! How can we change it! That’s why most Muslim never compromise on their religion
Exactly THANK YOU!!!!!
I don’t care if the world changes my religion doesn’t have to 😪
Agreed! We cant change something from god. It impossible. Thats why Quran was never changed!
This probably says more about me than anything else, but that sounds like the most morally bankrupt and egotistical concept ever. The idea that anything we know is set in stone and unyieldingly true is such an antithesis to reality to me. Double so if the knowledge comes from a divine source. : /
@@orcmcc But if it is coming from God himself, wouldnt it make sense? He knows everything. From our birth, death, animals, astronomy, science and literally everything! To us, Quran is perfect. The complete truth about basically everything in the world. Theres somewhere i read someone saying "Its funny why people think God need to 'catch up' to the society now. God is literally all knowing". God's word has always been perfect. Heck i doubt most of us could even catch up to everything that is said in the Quran.
(btw dont bother to reply. Idk why i cant get notifications at all. Maybe bc of the email im using, but yea) Have a nice day!
@@adriana-3128To me the fact that it comes from god is enough of a reason not to, but I am of the opinion that if a god or gods exist then it is the duty of humanity to overcome them and there works. To me, that is the point of life. Understanding and mastery of world we live in is the goal. Very incompatible life philosophies :).
The world is changing but Islam will never change. Muslims might (some of them)
But Islam is forever.
And the prophet peace be upon him said
Islam began as something strange and it will go back to begging strange so glad tidings to the strangers.
Exactly thank you!!!
طوبى للغرباء ❤ well said 👏
@@angelax4046
ذكرتني بنشيد أحبه للشيخ سعد الغامدي
غرباء ولغير الله لا نحني الجباه
غرباء وارتضيناها شعارا في الحياة
إن تسل عنا فإنا لا نبالي بالطغاة
نحن جند الله دوما هكذا درب الأباة
@@MM-tk4mv أنشودتي المفضلة 🤍
not hugging in islam is not considered traditionalistic it's a way and a lifestyle that should be included whenever wherever by us muslims ...and thank u
Talking about being open minded but they can’t even apply the same rule by respecting the fact that Islam hasn’t been changed and will never be till the end of times 😂
@@theboa7525 well spoken
yh its seen as odd in today's society but it's a kin to a person not wanting anyone to invade his/her personal space. But if we say our religion says it then everyone is up in arms lol
@@7625e it's double standard policy of the western world
@@7625e Even that phrase I dont like it. "Todays society", as if the whole world has a shared culture, views and society. I get what you mean and this is more for others, but we have to remember that outside of europe and the Americas, it is actually very common in many countries regardless of religion to not have much physical contact with the opposite gender, wether thats because of the gender or simply an aversion to excess physical contact in general differs of course. Look at Japan for example, no one will say that japanese people are backwards or weird because they dont hug strangers like people in the west, but when people in Saudi Arabia do the same thing people think it's strange or backwards or regressive. As a muslim I say this, if keeping with islamic ruling and legislation is regressive, then regressive is good. Progress isn't always a good thing..
I remember doing wudu at ihop bathroom and a woman walks in and she says, “you’re fine, I have a Muslim friend”. 😍
Sunnah means the way of the prophet. Basically, he showed us how the quran is to be implemented in our lives. Quran is the primary source of authority.
Its like a tradition of Muhammad PBUH
6:32
She is talking about the strangers who are not related to her (not a father, a brother, a son, a nephew, a niece, or an uncle).
7:08
1- I have a question please; what kind of spirituality will be remained?
2- does it mean that people's kindness measures or civilization indexes are the female's availability for being hugged or touched by strangers?
3- What if change accelerates? what will be the required indicators of openness and civilized behavior by then?
4- where do you think that will lead to?
Aisha may Allah be pleased with her used to host parties where the imams used to compete how much "liquid" they could put on her. The one who covered the most white liquid got the most hasanat. Subhanallah! 😂
@@jean-pierresteenberg didnt know your mothers name was Aicha
@@jean-pierresteenbergDidn't know you graduated from Jackal university!
We must distinguish and avoid hatred and distraction attempts. We had questions and we expected answers. It seems that this person does not have an answer, Replying to such comments gives it value. It is wise to ignore them.
@@Ruya-Vision1 and yet, it has intrinsic value...
This is about the "hugging & shaking hand" part.. There's easier way to understand this rule by knowing this basic rule :
1. If the person you about to hug/shake hand are a person who you can get marry to, it's HARAM (forbidden).
2. Therefore a small child, your mom, grandma..you get the picture...they are HALAL (allowed).
You can only touch them hugging/hand shake once you get married. This is simply because human are weak to flesh.. A simple touch could end up to be something else..😅
We are MUSLIMS, not Christians nor Jews, we don’t reform our religion depending on our actual socio-political situation.
We know that God The Allknowing has sent down the seal of Prophets and laws to abide by till the end of times.
So what about YOU try and be open minded to this fact.
True, this is the only cmnt which got what they are implying while everyone is giving justifications
Well if that what's on agenda then where are those devil's at. They seem to be talking a lot more sense.
@orcmcc Your cmnt makes literally no "S. E. N. S. E"
@@userfriendlyforever Translation: If this the immutable word of the only existing god the clearly they are a deranged lunatic, and it is more moral to side with those that stand against that beings words. -_-
@@orcmccjust as nature's laws like gravity and molecules' structures won't ever change, even more so the rules that govern human, isn't it illogical that these universal law remain but the life's guidance God explicitly/"intententionally" sent for all humanity that traverse time need to change while human's nature and innate inclination in essence will remain the same no matter the time? things that can trigger human into some deviations in the past will also same in the present or future
women in Islam are not allowed to shake hands or hug only with strangers but it's ok with their husbands, fathers, brothers, uncles,. They can even take off their veils
u meant walies , not velis that sound like turkish accent
@@aacc5984veils, meaning hijab and other head covering
@@aacc5984she meant veil the hijab
vice versa for man too
Yeah so are men , theyr not allowed to shake hands or hug with strangers (women) but it's ok if it's their wives, mothers, sisters,... (mahram). They can even see them without hijab 😊
I'm Muslim and you can hug your fathers and brother uncles grandfather's but not strangers and male cousins
and for males it's the opposite you can't do the same with females
not hugging the other gender does not include your father, brother, husband and son
I was just about to say that 😂
A girl or woman can hug her father, brother, grandfather, uncle, husband, or son, but she is not permitted to hug other than men who are not related by blood or family. I hope I made it clear
Don't forget nephews! I hug my nephew all the time when we meet eachother even though he towers over me now 😭😭😭 they grow so fast
During pandemic everyone experienced, no hugging, shaking hands and we also experienced we pretty good to interact with even mask on face 😊
Loved it!
*Visiting the sick.. recommended by the prophet (pbuh) 70.000 angels prays for a person who visits the sick.
10:35 Unfortunately this happens no matter what but in Islam, we can say with conviction that this is a human error. Muslims will sometimes lie to themselves or deliberately twist words to their own favor. For example, smoking! Islam strictly forbids eating/intaking anything that is purely harmful to you and (I think) addicting is also forbidden.
Yet so many make excuses about why they can smoke cigarettes or shisha. Human's by nature will take the easy way out, it's almost inevitable. But thankfully, this is an individual issue, scholars will generally admit that this is not okay.
That's true smoking and music
Smoking is haram and should never be done PLEASE DONT GIVE YOURSELF LUNG CANCER KIDS!
Thank you for this comment! I was getting so tired of Muslims saying "smoking is only disliked but not haram" like c'mon...ofc it's haram...
I am a Muslim living in South Africa. My Christian neighbors have keys to my house. They enter and help themselves to my groceries/food even when I am not there. What's mine is there's. That includes the bathroom! So they enjoy liberties with us, but they have to 'istinja' when using our toilet. Its a win-win because they learn better hygiene.
6:38 wait,,, we can hug our fathers, brothers, grandparents and uncles 😭
In Quran the one chapter mentioned by the of mother marry....
Chapter name is Surah Maryam
People have become so open minded that their brain fall out.
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TRUE, the they think it's got them complains when their partner "che. ats" on them. They are liberals you can't expect anything good from them anyway 😂
when she said not allowed to hug men she didn't mean her father, siblings and nephews...she meant other men
Islam is the way of life, this religion full guidance start from your birth until you die.
Nice joke non Muslim will go in hell clearly written in book real way of life 😂
😂😂😂😂 defend this or prove it to adam seeker
Cute. Informative. Sweetly narrated. And you both react with respect. :)
Thanks! 😃
the washing feet thing is funny until you're in that situation and u start getting anxiety 😭
Ya, really, I can appreciate that. I don't like anyone having to be stressed out. 🙁
You can feel compassion WITHOUT physical contact. As you say, "the world is changing", we have a digital life now. We could hang out with people simply just by talking or texting with them. Also, if any non-Muslim refuse to be touched or hugged, people will say "Well, that's their privacy and personal space. You can't invade it without their consent". Irony, huh? Also, isn't there are five love language that people often to talk these days? There soooo many ways to express the love and compassion. Like Dakara Ma presented in her videos, we smile to people, we share/give food to other people (family, neighboring, friends, or just a stranger in needs), be kind with others, helping them, and says something kind to support them.
There will always be the latest in Islam, sir,
If We want to know. May Allah grant peace to both of your hearts, sir. And thank you for sharing.♥️🇮🇩
you guys are cool and so respectful. Really like your reactions, subscribed.
Assalamu alai kum brothers (peace be upon you )
We are getting better at it. We didn't start so great. Are earlier videos might offend you.
@@stayspiritual honestly wouldn’t mind that.! Having an open mind and searching for truth can make you being exposed to multiple reactions and actions but that doesn’t mean you meant to disrespect in anyway.!! Keep doing you, Allah (GOD) will surely guide you to the truth.!!
You guys are so respectful and the comment section is so respectful thank u for being respectful
May Allah guide you to Islam brother
And keep them videos uploading and more videos about Islam people wanna actually learn 🤍
i really recommand u to try to go on the livestream of :the muslim lantern:, it would help u understand islamic povs way better
I hope one day he will be on the show, that would be awesome.
@stayspiritual Just reach out to him that would be interesting
Yes, I recommend it too.
brother Mohamad Ali will be very helpful if u have any questions about Islam.
I always love your reactions on Islamic videos, please more and more ❤❤❤❤
Thank you ... there will be more. 🙏🙏
we do what we do because its ordered by Allah, we don't need to change anything about islam
We can hug close family like Spouse, siblings, parents grandparents, aunts, uncles... etc. You don’t alway have to wash your feet before prayer if you already washed them for a previous prayer that day and have your socks and shoes on.
Maa sha allah, ZABARDAST video and Zabardast reaction.
Of course you can hug and kiss your father, brother, , son, uncle, grandfather, nephew, grandson. But not a stranger or a cousin ( because in Islam it’s allowed to marry your cousin)
I have watched few Islamic reactions you guys have done and by far this has been my favourite.
Appreciate it
Great Muslims from Pakistan 🇵🇰 ❤
Quran isn't changed at all.
Well thats how quran not changing because thats how is it
2:14 Indonesia have many Muslim women preachers and Content creator from the hardcore to the gentle. So it's not new i hope you guys can find it later
6:37 as a Muslim, if you women you can hug your Father, brother, a boy child, grandfather, your grandson. Other than that you can't hug or touch unless is emergency
We can hug our blood relatives but can't hug strangers 😊
No, in Islam its fine to hug you relatives but in the video she means strangers, male friends and so on
In Islam, all thing in life has rules and guides to follow., it's guide us to we won't lost in our way, from wake up to sleep, such as: how to wake up so we feel grateful to be alive, how to take off our clothes, how to take a bath, how to dress, how to look at the mirror, how to cook, how to eat, how to drink, how to entering/exiting the house, how to depart to a journey (go to school/work/market/anywhere), how to study, how to work, how to sneeze, how to yawn, how to propose for marriage, how to do budgeting and spending money, how to behave around other people (parents, teacher, friends, or even stranger), how to take care of children, how to take care of parents, how to speak, how to stand in justice, how to forgive people, how to run a region, how to be leader, how to be a follower/supporter, and sooo many more that I can't write because I need to helping my sister. All of these and other rules you can find them in Qur'an and Sunnah.
P.S.: For non-Muslims, maybe these rules are so annoying to follow, "oh, it's my body and my life, so I'll do what I want". It's okay. But didn't all of us follows our country's rules (like taxes or traffic rules)? Even more close, didn't we all live in our parents' house, and they set up their rules, so we grow to be good person? For student, we have the school rules. Worker has their company rules. What's wrong living with guides, rules and order?
10:20 there is actually something like that lol, instead of having to wash our feet every time you do ablution , you can instead lightly graze your socks with water , but this has some requirements aswell, like your socks have to be completely clean and you have to wear them after doing full body ablution (essentially just a shower with some extra steps) , then you can proceed to wetting your socks (lol) before prayer for the next day and a night then the ritual expires and you have to restart with a shower and clean socks. this might seem useless but trust me it makes a difference in winter if you suffer from chronic cold feet like me.
Your open mindedness 😊😊😊😊👏👏
When a Muslim is on deathbed he will never yearn some hugs but what he yearns is that his friends & family pray for him that Allah may forgive his sinns
Hugging the opposite gender in islam.
1. You can hug your family - people who you cannot marry for obvious reasons
2. You can hug an elderly , even in their death beds
3. Prevention is better than cure
In Islam, the rules about men and women not touching each other are there to keep everyone safe. It's like saying it's better to stop something bad from happening in the first place, rather than trying to fix it after it's already happened. For example, if a man and a woman shake hands, and the man starts thinking he likes the woman just from that small touch, those thoughts could lead to bigger problems like arguments, sadness, or even more serious trouble.
So, Islam tries to stop these problems before they even start. By not having men and women touch, it stops any bad thoughts or actions early on. This way, everyone is protected, and we don't have to worry about fixing problems because we've stopped them from happening in the first place. It's all about making sure every single person is safe and respected.
Hugging and hand shaking allowed for certain relatives. Like sister, mother , grandmother, aunt (sisters of mom & dad) etc... the persons you're not allowed to get married by the bond of blood.
How it is proggressive to hug someone when you're allowed to marry with the person? Is this rational?
حبيت الفيديو😂❤❤❤❤جدا جدا احتاج اتابعها
To comment on what you guys said :
Hugging the opposite gender is Haram but not if it's a daughter, a sister, a mother, a wife (ofc lol) grandmas and so on
Now this is the main point
There are actually other exceptions, for example you guys mentioned that it's a bit cold that you can't hug someone who's struggling with death and so on, well actually it's not that simple, now i can't just say it's halal or haram but it depends, if like your female relative is sick she is hurt and needed a hug im pretty sure it's cold to leave her like that, in cases like these Allah judges you by your intentions, the hug you'd give to someone who's sick is ofc without lustful intentions, and for that we say you can give a hug and the rest is up to Allah, also if she is the one who went for the hug of course you accept the hug, nothing wrong with that, your intention was to sooth the pain of someone else. And as usual, we always say Allah knows best.
As a Muslim I disagree about the point on how times are changing, in Islam we believe the Quran is the word of Allah, and the He is all knowing. Therefore the Quran applies to all time past, present, and future. If you haven’t read it yet, even as an atheist you should!!! May Allah swt guide you all 💜💜💜
May Allah guide you. Islam is like another science subject, or in philosophical way, it's as deep and wide as the ocean. Man, being Muslim and not practicing Islam at all is useless...a big lose for mankind. Am so proud to be part of this ummah. May Allah help Palestine, Yemen and so on. May we passed the test with flying colors. 🎉❤
I love seeing others learn about our religion
Thats how you fight the tide, standing firm
As a traditionalist myself i see liberalism as a very serious threat not just to religious people but all humanity so if we started to be what so called "open minded" then we're doomed cause eventually we will be completely liberalized and that would be the end of tradition
I don't think you can have liberalism with out conservatism, and visa versa. They actually work off of each other, as part of our human development. Both sides can have disfunction in my opinion, and one is not better then the other.
Traditionalism is not the same as conservatism. I think @monder9224 meant in a more meta narrative manner rather than the mere political dichotomy between conservatism and liberalism which both can be characterized as stemming from a wider ‘Liberal’ (modernist) view. Traditionalism is not a political perspective, rather a pre-modernist worldview itself. As it stands, it gives perhaps one of the strongest critiques of Modernism (by extension of liberalism)
@@Armuman Thanks for pointing that out
@@Frirkrkk92o4ii haha im glad i didn’t misrepresent ur view. Would love to hear more about what u think 😆
@Armuman Yeah, not at all, I'm Muslim definitely wouldn't say that I'm a conservative cause most conservatives are liberals and they don't even know it LOL, And I've responded back to the channel owner but I don't see my comment if you don't mind me asking you how many comments of mine you see in here?
There are a few misunderstandings that often occur between Muslims and other religions. Like when you don't have contact with the opposite sex, where people think Muslims are 100% unable to interact with the opposite sex. Like a woman can't hug their little brother or father, that's not true. Interactions between women such as holding hands, hugging or even kissing men on the cheek are limited to men who are not directly related to the family. Muslim women can interact with their sons, with their brothers, with their fathers, with their uncles, with their grandfathers, with their cousins, because they have a close family relationship with her. However, this limitation only applies to people outside the family, including male friends, brothers-in-law, aunt's husband. The reason is quite simple because physical contact can cause feelings for both of them. And in Islam this can potentially lead to something undesirable, and often harms women. So the prohibition against having contact with the opposite sex is a limitation for men and protection for women. That's why touching the opposite sex is not a sin, it is a rule to protect the name of both.
Greetings from Muslim Indonesia 🇮🇩
I love the arts.. so cuuute🥰🥰
Islam teachs us every day moral that why we arent changing with time
You can hug your brother or father in islam
All practicing Muslims: stay in the proper distance, practicing the cleanness because we have to take wudhu and maintain it to pray, stay healthy while eating in allowance portions and taking care of the body, not consume harmful substances/food, not yawn with mouth open (covering it), also cover the mouth when sneezing, etc.
Practicing Muslimah (Muslims who is female): *wear niqab and gloves
Other people during COVID-19: DON'T FORGET TO SOCIAL DISTANCE, WASH YOUR HANDS, WEAR MASKS AND CONSUME HEALTHY FOOD. STAY HEALTHY!
Very creative and great reaction and commentary
Hey thanks Kenny
Just so you know, a girl can hug her biological dad, biological uncle, brother(biological or step-brother from mother's side but only If he got breastfeeded by the mom), biological son and her husband.
Also, a boy can hug his biological biological mom, biological aunt, sister(biological or step-sister from mother's side but only If she got breastfeeded by the mom), biological daughter and his wife.
You can hug your brother and your father and your nephews and uncles not strangers
انت جعلتني اضحك عندما تكلمت عن فقرة العناق 😂😂😂😂 ، خذ نفس لا تستعجل إسأل وابحث
3:30 "im not vegetarian but i tell them i am one when im eating outside" yes girl this is the EXACT thing i always say 🙊
When you haven’t hugged someone you won’t want to hug them in their death. We are ok with praying for them. And that’s the best thing anyone can do.
The muslims can Hug their Brothers or sisters.
As long as their a family member its ok to hug them :)
Hugging in Islam is not acceptable to someone who is not a family member. For example, my brother and I hug each other. My uncle and I hug each other, but of course I will not like intimate hugs. It will be uncomfortable. At my university, we make friends with the boys within respectful limits. We share close seats, we exchange pens and books, and we study together. We don't need to shake hands when we have " alsalam ealaykum"
Of course, my love for my friend will not reach the point of crying for him on his death bed, hugging him in the presence of his wife. My journey with him will end when I find the husband that Allah chosen for me. My love to my friend will be to help his wife and pray for him.
Thank you for the reaction 💙
10:25 you're absolutely right, and I even have an example about this exact topic, wudu! (ablution, as she translated in the video). There is a hadith (saying from the prophet, pbuh) that says if you do an ablution, and then put socks on, you keep the ablution under the socks. meaning, if you break the ablution (going to the bathroom, passing gas, etc) then the next time you do an ablution, if you haven't taken the socks off, all you have to do is wipe over them. the same is true for hijab. BUT this is a thing that people will just conveniently leave out: the socks referred to in this hadith are *leather* socks. meaning waterproof! normal cotton socks of today do not fit the bill to apply this hadith! but people will stop you taking your socks off at the mosque for ablution and insist you don't need to.
This is the most trivial way to learn about Islam
or freaking genius 😉✌
I still shake hand when it's required (like when I working, or during professional event), but if the other person in this case men claps his hand or bowed just to tell me they don't want to shake my hand, I will genuinely happy because I know they do that to protect me and honored me.
6:35 now that's a bit of a misconception; you can hug your brothers and father and some relatives if they're your direct uncle or an uncle you're close to. Like even when they're married, they can hug their father-in-law, but I should also mention that brother-in-laws aren't allowed to do so since it can mean different things based on peoples perspectives. I should also mention that if the person has not reached the age of puberty yet, they usually are allowed to hug people of the opposite gender be it their cousins or just friends. I should also mention that when it comes to intimacy it's fine since you have a different kind of relationship with the person than a usual friend of the opposite gender.
Yah I try not do wudu (abolution - Prepatory washing ritual before prayer) outside or at public building such as school or work. But one time when i was a kid I remember doing it in a public restroom and another kid asked his father what I was doing and he said something to the effect of "he's taking a shower" lmaooo
Just a correction about no hugging the other gender. You can hug your brother/sister, father/mother, niece/nephew, stepfather/stepmother, stepson/stepfather, basically, close relatives.
she forgot to mention that we can touch and hugs and kiss our relatives dad brothers and famlly
Not completly right it depends on what kind of relative and uncles from both sides are mahram which means you can hug and kiss.
We are allowed to hug anyone that is related to us that can not possibly be our husbands in the future. Example grandfathers, uncles, my dad, brothers, sons, nephews… and I do agree with your point that with anything there are consequences, but if you compare one is clearly better than the other one. In other words, if you close the door and the window how much air can get in compares to leaving the door/ window open
Muslim women CAN hug fathers, brothers and uncles
6:26 brother, and fathers or uncles hahahaha it’s okay to hug them 😭😭 I am a Muslim and from Saudi Arabia
6:21 wanted to mention we CAN hug and touch family/close relatives. We’re not hermits that never speak to each other lol
You seem like a good and genuine people so I just thought I should mention that the “distance” between the two genders is just for stranger and the people who someone “can marry”. Like it’s okay for siblings to hug and for parents with their kids or grandkids, for also nephews with their aunts and uncles. These people are your family and of course you can appreciate and love them as one’s family. The way you looked at it is from a male perspective, which is okay, but you know how some males force themselves into the females all over the world. This is a way to protect females rights, the way I see it. I am a woman who works closely with both genders and I LOVE it when males be mindful of their distance and try to move out of the way when I do my job. There are also some cases that of course physical contact is unavoidable. As in hospitals and such. These cases are okay like it’s not really up to you to decide if it’s critical situation or something. So these exceptions are fine, and this isn’t just new, it always has been. Keeping your livelihood safe is important in Islam that’s why even the prohibitions become allowed in such cases.
I agree that some people need to be open minded and accept/understand others, but you are looking at it from a single lens which is the western perspective. I don’t really like it when westerners say that we should do something different just because of their own views. We view these things as orders from the creator who knows what’s best for you and what’s not. If people TRULY live their life following the Islamic teachings completely then I swear you won’t see any problem. Even westerners who have studied religion very well and are not biased will know that this is the truth.
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Islam also has its own rules of Economics (for example "Interest" is forbidden).
The ablution part there are some prayers that are close in timings so if you maintain your ablution until next prayer time you can pray with the same and don't have to do it all over again that could be what you guys were thinking if there's some shortcut or something like that😅
About hugs in Islam, you can hug the opposite gender of your family members like your child (even your adopted child), spouse, parents, parents siblings, siblings, siblings children and you can hug your cousins/nieces until they are 12
A very good and informative video, but she forgot to mention that women in Islam can hug and kiss their MEHRAMS meaning their brothers, fathers, sons, husbands, grand fathers and brothers of their moms and dads. But not cousins and husbands of their paternal and maternal aunts (among relatives).
The point about “at death”, as Muslims we also have specific burial customs. There are specific rules after someone passes away about who can touch the body. There is also a strict timeline on how soon the body must be buried. So that relative who is across the country might not even make it in time for the janazah (funeral). 6:40
7:15 here there are a lot of relatives that women can hug and kiss (on the cheek) like brothers and father, strangers can't, which are all specified so it's not confusing
10:31 Muslims are honest when we say nothing is changed in Islam
ummm y'all understood the "no touching the other gender" in a wrong way guys xD
when we say this, we mean no touching people who are not family to u, or as we call them "non-Mahrams" which are the people who we should put hijab in front of them. so ofc u can hug ur brother or father or grandfather or uncle...
plus in islam there is no such thing as "close friendships" with the other gender, but only friendships that are baced on respect if so. just like a worker would respect their co-worker and would do anything to help, but no more than that.. no hanging out and stuff.
Muslim woman here, we can hug young children, women, relatives. Hugging the opposite gender doesnt hold the same value to us. For non humans hugging between friends regardless of gender is the norm and how you express closeness. For muslim women, we have non muslim male friends and we are very clear in having boundaries so that male friend understand we appreciate their friendship as we converse with them, laugh with them and respect them. However, we dont wish to hug them. For non muslims going in for a hug is normal but for us not hugging men is normal. Its like how some Europeans kiss each on the cheek, in the UK most people don't practice that. Asian bow, most non asians don't practice that. Most people are comfortable with a friendly hug. For muslims we dont hug either. We tend to place our hands on our check. People adapt easily after this is explained. I have male friends and they arent bothered. We live in a world where opposite genders interact, muslims are more selective on the means but at the end of the day its really simple. Once our friends are used to that it, it become the norm. To the point my male friends would frick out if I hugged them thats how used to it they have become. Personality can be expressed in many ways. We are friendly by smiling, looking after our friends, having meaningful conversations and checking in with each other. Not hugging doesn't make us less friendly nor doesnt mean our friendships arent as valuable to us.
I know a lot of people already mentioned this, but I'm not sure if they have mentioned this key part.
Yes you can still touch your close relatives, such as fathers, grandparents, husbands/spouses etc.
Uncles and Aunties ARE included, but under a certain condition.
Firstly, let's talk about the 2 types of people when it comes to who you can have physical contact to, mahram and non-mahram people. Mahram people are those you can have physical contact with, and for girls can show their hair. People who come under the mahram category are your spouses, parents, grandparents. They are also the people whom you cannot marry.
Non-mahram people are quite the opposite of muharram people and are the people whom you can marry.
Now back to aunties and uncles. Aunties and uncles that would be considered be your MAHRAMS are those of your parents blood. So your father's siblings and your mother's siblings. So for a woman, your uncle who is your dad's sister's husband would STILL be your non-mahram, even though he's your uncle.
I'm also certain that cousins are considered your non-mahram too, though don't just rely on me do some research too 😅
Anyway that's what I was taught by both school and my parents. If I have said anything wrong don't feel threatened to correct me in the replies 😅
Guys don't forget to do your research too, I may have missed some info out. And if I have said anything wrong again feel free to correct me :D
6:21 She forgot to elaborate. You are allowed to hug the opposite gender if they are your "mahram." This includes father, brothers, sons, nephews, grandfathers, etc. The "no touching the opposite gender rule" applies only for people that are unfamiliar/marriable.
I never saw this video, but I really live how it's presented.
I agree that we not only need more muslim videos made by muslim women but also by regular muslim people. Not to dismiss the wirk of scholars znd Muslim infulencers, but they have a tendency of being a little agressive abd their content is often about current matters so it's not always ideal for someone who just want to discover the religion step by step.
I as a muslim sometimes roll my eyes when I see a muslim video recounting a certain story or a certain wisdom from our faith and needing to stop every second to trll hiw amazing it is. I get it because I already fell that way but you have to alliw people to hear the full thing to be zble to appreciate it.
As people already say before. The no touch rule obviously doesn't include family members. A woman can't luve her life without having zny contact wuth yer father ket alone her son. And friendships can still be formed, you just shouldn't stay alone in a remote area with only a person of the opposite gender.
As you said, Muslims aren't all the same or at the same level of piety. It doesn't mean they don't believe in it. Prayer us very easy on its own, but it forces you to organize other stuffs around your day. I'm much more productive when I pray, while I stopped praying when I had depression, and still struggling with it nowadays.
Islam is a way if life, it's meant to help us make the best of it. I think most islamic videos on UA-cam fail to show that because they're trying to depict a perfect idlam and ends up appearing cold in the process. I' the end, even if you're a born muslim, you're probably still learning zbout your faith, struggling zbout certain stuff and is probably influenced by ither elements of your life.
I really like her final message. We should stop pointing fingers at others. We're all someone else's monster and while we might not agree with someone we should try to find a common ground even if we're sure we're in the right.
6:33 m a little confused from that conversation cus english is not my first language but i would like to clarify that we have certain people of the opp gender that we can hug, that includes our brothers, father, grandparents, not cousins.
That belief monitor would be interesting
Hi I'm Muslim and I will tell you something about the hug 🫂. You can hug you brother and father but you can't hug other or other family members. 😊
We can hug our brothers and uncles and grandfathers and fathers etc..😂 she mean unrelated men
now i would like to say that hugging or physical contact is only for strangers who can hugg your dad or your brother and the physical contact thing applies only to strangers or ppl who arent related by blood i hope that cleared out some things about that.