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Dr. Gabor Mate | Part 1: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture | WPS21
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- Опубліковано 18 лис 2021
- Half of North American adults suffer from chronic illness - a fact Western medicine views largely in terms of individual predispositions and habits. This talk shows how a society dedicated to material pursuits rather than genuine human needs and spiritual values stresses its members, undermines healthy child development and dooms many to chronic illness, from diabetes to heart disease, from autoimmune conditions to cancer.
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I have been following Dr. MATE SINCE I discover him a couple of years ago. He speaks of what had always been my intuition. Illness start in our minds and developes through our emotions. So thankful for Dr. Mate willingness to share his knowledge to us all. What a gift!
I couldn’t agree more. I call Dr Mate the humble genius, although of course he’d never call himself that.
Same :) Have you seen the video where he does a presentation with his son?
@@Sashas-mom I don’t think so.
@@FKA68 there are only a few but they are fun, informative and entertaining. I like seeing them interact.
Sikiu I totally agree. And I have felt the same intuitiveness.
Thank you Gabor I
Love your work it’s helped me tremendously I’m a black young 35 year old just finished breast cancer treatment and your work has helped me to grow and heal
Gabor Mate has the most valuable information on UA-cam. For those who need it. For those that can use it. For those that do use it. For the empathy it generates among those who don't need it.
If u want solutions for ur trauma, visit Dr. Bessel van der Kolk.
The medical community will never change. Focusing on the individual, educating through videos, courses, continuing education credits and more. Then naturally others are drawn to us and we teach others. This is a brilliant talk. Thank you.
I love the way Dr. Mate mentions all his discovery and causes of mental and physical illnesses.. his honest compassionate inquiry will be remembered by the world... I am also a victim of a Narcissist mother thoroughout my whole life. Now Completely healed myself with a compassionate inquiry. Found Guru Rajneesh the Spiritual Zen Master used to listen his discourse to meet my trueself. And finally reconnected myself with the lost essence. I am now happy. Still more miles are to achieved... But l love all my spiritual Master including this Great Dr. Gabor mate... Love you Doctor sahab.. I wish he may live long...
God bless you, Dr. Gabor Mate♥️ been a listener of his insights and research and wisdom and practice al these years☺️🤗:) Your beautiful compassion and honesty saves lives:)))🙏😍
I love this man Dr Gabor. I have never found any kind of doctor that everything Dr Gabor speaks about how sad, discouraging, losing hope because I feel that there is no one out there that can help me. I have some medical conditions caused by trauma of being sexually abused, divorced, acused which has caused so much trauma, anxiety & depression. I have had suicidal thoughts of not wanting to live in this world & with chronic pain every day but then I think of my children & the pain I would cause them. Yes when I look back at my childhood the trauma also started there. I use to be strong but now mentally I feel like I will lose it & be put in an institution. I feel lost, empty no desire to do anything & no excitement about everything. I wish I could meet Dr Gabor to give me guidance support love & to say you will be ok. If only the world would have so many doctors like him. Sometimes many of them are doctor’s just by the badge that carries their name or in their office door.
Your story touches me deeply, Eleanor. I have suffered unspeakable suffering and have also experienced your situation of the intractable pain being severe enough that I thought of suicide many times, crying out to God to take me. The only reason I didn't is that it would have destroyed my daughter. I still haven't completely recovered, though the " suicide pain" is gone. I pray that your suffering will be lifted from you and that you recover soon. Sending you love and light 🌻🙏🏼
Keep fighting the
GOOD FIGHT 💪💯
YOU are LOVED!
YOU are VALUED!!
YOU are a WARRIOR!!!
Love & Hope to YOU ❣️
"If not in presence, then in thought and care. And in having struggled, I share."
"When struggling be undaunted. With perseverance comes all manners of all possibilities."
"No mind is all-knowing, all-seeing. Every negative thought or perspective is short-sighted. They only exist in the mind, & not in the reality of change & beyond."
"Persist upon your pain, that it not be in vain. In uncovering meaning & value, comes comfort and elevation."
"My God is a faith & understanding that strength, guidance & appreciation, can be found from within oneself, & from outside oneself."
"No individual is all-knowing, all-capable. Accept your humanness (our reality); and garner assistance & new strength. Without fail, you will heal. And invariably, you'll share your renewal."
"What do I need now, is a self-care mantra, that answers your needs."
"I have a physical body, a mental body, an emotional body, and an external body. Attend to that which needs strengthening. Adding strength to one, adds strength to all."
"The quality and balance of our connections to all (food, environment, family, community, work, faith, etc.) determines our health (/spirit). Reflect on, and adjust to, what's diminished, or out of balance."
"Love's fulfillment.. it is gut & grace, coming into place."
~ Paul Jung
"Don't be afraid of your despair. Be gentle with yourself. Take your time with this journey. Let despair guide you to the self you need to birth, the meaning you need to make, the world you need to serve. Let it reward you with a resilient faith in life." ~ Miriam Greenspan
"Your sadness doesn’t make you less of a human being. In fact, it makes you more. More expansive. More connected. Painfully beautiful. Raw. Open. Completely alive." ~ Panache Desai
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ~ Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
"As long as we feel safely held in the hearts and minds of the people who love us, we will climb mountains and cross deserts and stay up all night to finish projects." ~ Bessel van der Kolk
"Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed -- faith, decency, courage -- is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality..." ~ Judith Lewis Herman
"When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is intimacy; where before there was fear, now there is courage; where before in your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm of grace and gracefulness; where before you used to be jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with your self. When love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning." ~ John O'Donohue
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
"The strongest love is the love that can demonstrate its fragility." ~ Paulo Coelho
"So, I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you." ~ Paulo Coelho
@@pauljung3534 Thank you for taking the time to share these quotes. 💖
Thank you for sharing your wisdom❣️
My stepfather did that very thing worked with pancreatic cancer right up until he physically couldn't🙏💖 HE WAS AN AMAZING MAN I JUST WISHED HE HAD TOOK IT A LITTLE EASIER BUT HE WAS DOING HIS DUTY.
Gabor Matè is the most amazing beautiful knowledgeable legend that I, as an Aclass addict have been introduced to Dr Matè at Rehab and this man is my absolute go-to and since being introduced to his talks i haven't touched Aclass drugs since. I have had a life filled with trauma and never feeling good enough. Because I wasn't listening to my body i ended up with Multiple sclerosis 2013. Drugs were my smokescreen but when I listened to Dr Matè i haven't turned back. Namaste Gabor
The doctor (host) should clarify PTSD from C(complex) PTSD. Those of us suffering from CPTSD rarely if ever get symptom-free after 3-4 weeks. This can be for complex, or also sometimes known as chronic or developmental trauma.
Love Dr. Gabor Mate. He simply is the best and he has helped so many people, including myself.
3-4 weeks? I don't know if 3-4 years is enough, especially when dealing with triggers that get reinforced for 30 or 40 years after childhood, even if the parents are dead. Seems to me most cptsd sufferers don't even know treatment is a possibility or cptsd exists until the old coping mechanisms break completely down in their 40s - 60's. By then there is also an addiction layer often, and/or some other misdiagnosis of simple GAD, depression, etc. There is even a correlation between BPD and cptsd.
My uneducated guess is that most problems in the US today have to do with being full of people with unaddressed childhood abuse and neglect to one degree or another.
And I think the ACES study is WAY off. I know so many people that would score 0 ACES if asked, but I know specific examples of traumas in their life that they just "shrug off" or minimize. Yet they drink a bottle of wine every night, work obsessively, chase sex, thrills, etc. and are highly reactive, passive aggressive, rigid, or avoidant.
And most of our leaders, right and left, that seem always angry/resentful/bitter look A LOT like triggered children.
Thanks, listening to Gabor is always an eye opener.
Please please writte a book about bullying. The world needs wisdom about it. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 When i was reading your book i felt like finally someone hears me and feels me. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It seems like bullying is a symptom and maybe a cry for help. My friend called it having emotions come out sideways.
@@missa740 i am not saying that i was a bully! The people that where bulied by others also needs to get a wisdom so that we can heal our self, try to uderstand and forgive. Love and forgivnes are the answer.
27:08 "Depression is caused by pushing down of emotions as a coping mechanism." Wow!
Hi. Love to see other South Africans are watching Gabor Mate! His work could be revolutionary for SA! ❤️
I can easily get addicted to Gabor's teachings.
I think the way to get the medical profession to hear is to educate ourselves and each other , to the point where such knowledge becomes common knowledge. It’s going to take time, and survivors like Gabor with the wisdom and ability to persist in that education are doing just that. … things are already changing. I can tell because our capitalist system is trying to cash in on quick trauma related cures.
The more we heal ourselves the better able we are to manage and express healthy rage, amd the more we can teach others why there’s a need for it to be expressed.
Reallocation of public funds to support pregnant women with the goal of reducing her stresses? That's revolutionary talk there, buddy.
I am only 21 mins in. I have healed Crohn’s disease with a modality where you heal trapped emotions and trauma and part of my healing was healing the need to save everyone else. I am now working on adrenal insufficiency and best of all get the pleasure of healing my chronically unwell clients. I use the subconscious to find the trapped emotions and I had not connected my need for approval and healing this illness but makes sense ❤
We don't want to get rid of dandelions!
Great video. I'm still working on resolving the damage to my adult life and capacities from the trauma that was often in my childhood and also in my adult life. Everything said here supports the possibility of a better life.
Thank you this was a great brain storm. Loved it. 🙂❤
Dear Gabor Mate, for all of us who have had to repress or suppress our anger in childhood in order to preserve our attachment to our parents, and now as adults either repress or suppress it or sometimes blow up in a rage, we don't (or at least I don't) have a clue what healthy anger is. Would you describe it? Make a video about it? I personally sometimes suppress my anger, so I am fully aware that it is there. Sometimes, however, I get so extremely angry that it is completely out of proportions. How would I go about expressing this anger in a healthy way? I have been trying to find information about it, but I can't seem to find anything useful. Would you explain it?
Wow, it's like reading
my own thoughts 🥺
I battle daily, with anger, depression & constant mind-altering pain ...
It's an epic struggle 🤕
It's exhausting being angry,
all of the time. I try to shake it off, turn it off, let it go, forget about it, pray it away, wish it away, hope it away. I am in a perpetual state of defeat ☹️
It's dug in like a tick!
Keep fighting the
GOOD FIGHT 💪💯
Love & Hope to YOU ❣️
Sally, have you tried just being there with the emotions? That's how normal, healthy people do everyday. Shaking, praying, battling it. These are puritanical values and they don't work for actual healing. Sorry, but that is the truth.
@@alvodin6197
Wherever I go, there I am, so yah ... I'm there with my emotions every day.
Am I to assume you consider me cruthched up by my God? As far as truth goes, I could share many. For starters, I never claimed to be normal, and I'm far from healthy 😏✌️
Wow.what can I say❓Does Mr.Mate' lecture in the states , and WHEN will he come to LOUISVILLE, KENTUCKY‼️‼️‼️‼️👌🏾🎉🤩💕💐💙🤩💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯📚📚📚📚
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Amazing work! Just makes sense
I wonder what doctor Gabor Maté's take is on parents with BPD/NPD and what the healthy parent can do to protect their child of getting harmed. Since divorce would mean 50/50 custody or full custody for the mother, which can also be the parent with the disorder, what can be done in order to circumvent the issue?
Check out the YT channel DoctorRamani. She’s a psych who makes a LOT of content just about narcissism
This is silly. You are assuming that that there is one sick person with npd/BPD, and one victim or good parent. How foolish of you? If you have a relationship with someone with a personality disorder, you yourself are deeply traumatized. Hard to see for someone who plays the victim.
If you are in a relationship with anyone with BPD/npd, you are not healthy so GTFO. Understand responsibility before taking on the victim role.
How about you stop having children with so called bpds and and be a big boy? You must be codependent since you immediately assume that there is a a victim/perpetrator role play going on. And again, why not just stop having relationships with sick people, lest you yourself be sick.? It's pretty simple.
"they just sat there silently" Because it goes against the grain of what was hammered home for years.
The best.
1:38 Topics of talk will be
illnesses
the issue of addictions
and then chronic pain in general
46:00 repression of unhealthy anger Gabor.. "no repression of HEALTHY anger".. oh ok so sorry I meant repression of unhealthy anger. LOL. He gave up.
I feel trauma watching Heather McDonald falling on stage after 5 vaccines.
🤣she still said it wrong. "The repression of HEALTHY ANGER"
Imagine the amount of trauma Black people have been experiencing for about 400 years in the US. The NativeAmericans also have been suffering due to genocidal actions by this country. Let us be real!