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  • Hmmm 🤔. Battling instability in a new country can be overwhelming. I shared some of the experiences I had in this vlog.
    Thankfully, It ended In praise🙌🏽.
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  • @KosyJohnson
    @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +408

    DISCLAIMER ⚠️
    This vlog is not in anyway with the intent of condemning or tarnishing anyone’s image.
    Bear in mind my channel is about “MY REALITY”. I personally decided to share how it has been relocating to a new country which includes sharing my ups and downs.
    Believe me, this is a fraction of my reality. As I don’t get to share everything about my life. Amidst my transparency, I know the extent I wish to go with my content creation.
    In addition to the aforementioned, if I wanted to make my life appear to be all rosy and beautiful, I could do that effortlessly with my content creating & editing skills.
    So, I hope you watch this video with all pureness of heart, enjoy & most importantly, learn from it.
    Thanks for watching ❤

    • @happinessalerah1809
      @happinessalerah1809 2 роки тому +10

      I'm rooting for you Kosy, all will be fine. Stay positive like you always do ❤️.

    • @Asio_Faith
      @Asio_Faith 2 роки тому +4

      🫂 🤍 🫂

    • @medinatmustafa2489
      @medinatmustafa2489 2 роки тому +8

      My darling pls stay strong okay..all will be fine...your positive vibes is what i want to see in you...relationship is not rosy dear,we can only try our best..i just want you to be positive🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @nknora665
      @nknora665 2 роки тому +6

      It well babes I just pray god help you both pray you guys get a house so you can both leave peacefully

    • @_nursemonique
      @_nursemonique 2 роки тому +8

      Even after writing this someone still dropped a harsh comment I replied the person and seems he or she deleted it 😑😑 humans

  • @fidelisbanaaleh6980
    @fidelisbanaaleh6980 2 роки тому +264

    Men handle things differently especially when he feels it’s his responsibility to sort things out .. and during these times too, you should put your phone down and be present in person…. For example, you could have helped with the last Bagage, but you waited for him to come pick it up… he’s stressed mentally and you need to put the phone down and be in the present with him .. what you deem as little isn’t little to the other .. and also do not use general scenarios for your relationship… the fact that people separate in the diaspora don’t mean you should think along those lines … put the phone down and be in the present babe.. you are a wife now

    • @alero1035
      @alero1035 2 роки тому +55

      Someone finally typed my thoughts. Being present in the moment is a form of showing empathy too. I'm watching some incident happen and I'm like girl now's not the time to make videos. The videos is a part of making money yes, but something's ought to come first.

    • @peacegarba7410
      @peacegarba7410 2 роки тому +8

      True talk though

    • @iyiolapeter6554
      @iyiolapeter6554 2 роки тому +10

      You just out my thoughts down

    • @iamernestchukwu
      @iamernestchukwu 2 роки тому +238

      I had to come in here. As much as I was stressed, I understood that my wife was on something she’s passionate about as she would do same for me if reverse was the case.
      I really appreciate your observation too. Many thanks.
      ps: I actually told her to not bother with the bags

    • @trustshantella9738
      @trustshantella9738 2 роки тому +5

      @@iamernestchukwu pls put aside your stress, manage for the present moment, live withon limits and be positive in the reality of your wife... that's if you're the husband we see behind korsey

  • @nomathemba8688
    @nomathemba8688 2 роки тому +31

    I was 19 years old when I came to the UK 😭 and I remember everything that I went through but today I look back and smile. Whatever you do, please allow God to be the steering wheel in your life. All the best to you and your husband. My advice to you, in this country, please don’t involve any 3rd parties in your marriage or relationship. Avoid having many friends.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for this advice 🙏🏽. I really appreciate ❤️

  • @princessifunanya557
    @princessifunanya557 2 роки тому +93

    Thanks Kosy .
    You and your hubby are giving us the most realistic relocation vlog i have ever watched .
    Your heart is pure and things will always work for you.
    Your bond with your hubby is SPECIAL UK RELOCATION WAHALA HAS NOTHING ON IT.
    God settle you guys and prosper you people 🙏.
    You are both courageous and Amazing 👏 ❤

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks a lot Ifuu ❤️. I really appreciate your love and kind words. God bless you and everything concerning you in Jesus name, Amen 🙏🏽

    • @princessifunanya557
      @princessifunanya557 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson AMEN ❤❤

    • @divinemandate4662
      @divinemandate4662 2 роки тому

      I don’t know you but I subscribed to your channel I love your content

    • @gladys500
      @gladys500 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson frrrr
      I am a new subscriber
      And I must sayyy
      I love your videos a lottt❤️❤️

  • @ogochukwumadufor1353
    @ogochukwumadufor1353 2 роки тому +42

    I can only imagine the stress at this point and its beginning to get the
    best part of you both especially your man, his yet to start working yet he keeps spending from the one he has and nothing is coming in,its crazy nne, you on the other hand,doing your utube job and you get to vent your emotions to us but he literally has no one to do same so, you remain the only one he can lash out his stress on so bear with him oh,men are big babies,we do better with stress than they do cos we are usually more vocal so dont cry nne,everything is gonna be alright and even better🤗.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks you so much Ogoo❤️. I really appreciate your kind words 😍

    • @ogochukwumadufor1353
      @ogochukwumadufor1353 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson ,❤️

  • @herexcellencymumtv
    @herexcellencymumtv 2 роки тому +37

    I love how real this vlog is. When people just relocate, people back home think they are already enjoying.
    Relocation and settling is not an easy task especially moving with tons of luggage and children.
    When you feel overwhelmed, breath in and out, chew the harsh words about to jump out your mouth and always remember your spouse is also stressed and is thinking of how best to navigate a hurdle too. Don't let the devil in. You both are a team. It has worked for me countless times.
    I wish you the best.

    • @gladys500
      @gladys500 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly
      Absolutely nobody would show us this part
      The show us the rosy part alone
      Lol.

  • @ojoakinoluwa5197
    @ojoakinoluwa5197 2 роки тому +54

    Dear Sis (and her Hubby... "Baby" as she calls him 😁)
    Misunderstanding should not be treated as normal or celebrated (yes, it will DEFINITELY happen), but as much as possible avoid it.
    Support each other... Understand each other's plight...
    It can really be nerve tightening when things are taking unexpected turns... However, it's at this point you need each other the most.
    This may not even be the time to defend your rights...
    When one is raising voice, the other should bring it low.
    Imagine the comfort of having each other...
    You're already tensed... Don't make it more difficult for yourself.
    Small misunderstanding can be avoided.
    It's not going to be easy keeping quiet when the other is throwing tantrum.
    But, the two of you should not be throwing tantrum at the same time!
    Think of the aftermath of your misunderstanding (if you give in) and try to hold it in...
    Most times, what the other person is doing or saying is from the place of the pain they are feeling, not because they hate you or think they can rub on you anyhow.
    Try and understand from their perspective and let misunderstanding pass over.
    A wise man once said;
    "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"
    ➖ Prov. 15:1
    Think about this.
    God bless you and your family!

    • @_nursemonique
      @_nursemonique 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you ojo

    • @Adobelle_Concepts
      @Adobelle_Concepts 2 роки тому

      Thank you very much.
      Very helpful

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot Ojo😍. I appreciate you taking your time to be helpful to I and my hubby.
      I really I’m grateful for your kind words. Truly small misunderstanding can be avoided.

  • @abiolavlogs0001
    @abiolavlogs0001 2 роки тому +97

    First off, let me say since I found your channel weeks back, I've always been looking forward to your videos because of your originality and how detailed your videos are. Secondly, relationships are hard..Trust me, it's not rosy anywhere. Don't worry Babe, God got you.

  • @juliet5446
    @juliet5446 2 роки тому +30

    All the best Kosi. Life abroad is not easy at first. Am happy someone is documenting the reality of living abroad. Everything will be alright.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +2

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thanks a lot Juliet ❤️

  • @adeyinkaajani7726
    @adeyinkaajani7726 2 роки тому +56

    I feel for you both striving to settle down. We ( men ) are always under pressure and angry when things are not yet working the way we want it. You both will enjoy everything later and look back to appreciate each other more. It has happened to some of us too 13 years ago but it's story now. Stay strong lady 💪

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience 🙏🏽. I really appreciate ❤️

    • @graceomakada5082
      @graceomakada5082 2 роки тому

      Oga speak for yourself

    • @adeyinkaajani7726
      @adeyinkaajani7726 2 роки тому +1

      @@graceomakada5082 please read my comment very well and understand my subsequent point by saying "it has happened to some of us" I never said all men act that way. Why are some Nigerians don't like to read in deep comprehension for God sake....why?

    • @victoriaogunsanya9074
      @victoriaogunsanya9074 2 роки тому +1

      I would encourage men to get mentors who are successful and key into self development, read books and if necessary speak to your pastor or a counsellor whilst going through this. Please please please don't take it out on your wife and children.

  • @firstladynaija
    @firstladynaija 2 роки тому +15

    Wait did I just watch! an hour video without knowing? Kosy you are a phenomenal woman.

  • @faitholuwapelumijacob2192
    @faitholuwapelumijacob2192 2 роки тому +15

    I can relate to what you guys are going through, i and my husband got to the uk last Saturday and we have been fighting since that weekend, we got to reconcile last night, the mental, physical and financial stress of moving to a new environment is exhausting. Just stay strong, everything will be okay soon enough

    • @infinitylove8071
      @infinitylove8071 2 роки тому

      From ur voice and complain you are not a good wife material

    • @wambsmie
      @wambsmie 2 роки тому

      @@infinitylove8071 🧐😳

  • @dorisdaniel3065
    @dorisdaniel3065 2 роки тому +10

    The first time I watched your video, I was attracted to your gentle and calm nature.
    Thank you for being soo vulnerable and choosing to show us the reality of your everyday life (that's something that is rare on UA-cam).

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️.

  • @gifty2595
    @gifty2595 2 роки тому +36

    Marriage comes with its highs and lows and it helps to build character. Speak life over your marriage, speak Psalm 128:3 over your marriage. This transition will work out for your good and your husband will cherish the gem that you are as you grow together in this new land. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks Hope 🙏🏽. I really appreciate your words of encouragement ❤️

    • @gifty2595
      @gifty2595 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson Awww anytime sis 🙌

  • @atasteofcath
    @atasteofcath 2 роки тому +21

    Always love your vlogs! So happy that you have secured your apartment! 🎉 Now you can finally settle in properly.
    ⚠️ Little word of advice please don’t show us documentation or any card/ID we don’t need to see it. The internet is not safe and fraud etc is everywhere. Also when you move to your apartment be careful not to show us the road/road name, door number etc. safety first!

    • @morenmorenkeji
      @morenmorenkeji 2 роки тому +2

      You're right ✅️ 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Cath🙏🏽. I really appreciate your advice 🙏🏽. I will do just that ❤️

    • @atasteofcath
      @atasteofcath 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson Better to be safe than sorry

  • @showeringhope7471
    @showeringhope7471 2 роки тому +16

    U are becoming my favorite UA-camr

  • @onyiibeg
    @onyiibeg 2 роки тому +14

    This is what relocation does....it's breaks you and remould you... The stress of no roof over your head is one, and then the employment one. But the truth....this too shall pass. It gets worse before it gets better. All the best Kosi. Hugs

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks Onyi ❤️. It will only get better 🙏🏽

  • @bbnaijagistplug
    @bbnaijagistplug 2 роки тому +8

    Don't worry it's just the stress, the whole situation is foreign to your hubby, I know you are strong, don't hold on to any negative reaction from your hubby at the moment. Dont complain much to him, encourage him, Cry if you need to, Stay strong, positive and lovely 😍. It will always get better

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot for this🙏🏽. I really appreciate your kind words and I believe it will definitely be Great ❤️

  • @Esnath
    @Esnath 2 роки тому +43

    Hi Kosy
    When you are going through a stressful transition it’s very normal to fight over small things in a relationship.
    I have been married 20 years this still happens sometimes even now.
    Though it gets easier as you know each other’s triggers.
    What you are going through is very normal.
    Don’t take it to heart.
    Your challenges are just starting it will get better and you will be tried again in your relationship.
    Such is life, if you are not tested you are not on solid ground.
    God bless your union I wish you where in Manchester you could stay with us.
    Till you find accommodation.
    I’m from Zimbabwe I understand what you are going through.
    The offer is open if you choose to move this way.
    Lots of love

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +5

      This means a lot to me Esnath❤️. I really appreciate your kindness 😍. God bless you.
      I believe all will be fine 👌🏽

    • @waltersprincess241
      @waltersprincess241 2 роки тому +1

      You are a lovely soul

    • @michelles_world
      @michelles_world Рік тому +1

      @Esnath you’re very kind. Really appreciate the words of wisdom
      Thanks and love to Kosy and hubby for being so real and sharing personal snippets of their lives with us❤

  • @dorcasadegah492
    @dorcasadegah492 2 роки тому +13

    I saw how relieved husband was when It was confirmed that they had gotten the apartment, it’s not easy Kosy just take things easy and everything will be fine even though it’s tough, moreover any of you can just break down at any moment so it’s up to you both to uplift each other and be there for the other…May God strengthen you both 🙏❤️‍🔥💋

  • @mustaphaosman3762
    @mustaphaosman3762 2 роки тому +10

    I love your originality, humility and heart of gratefulness. I enjoy watching your videos

  • @angelokoli
    @angelokoli 2 роки тому +31

    I just found myself crying while watching the part where you sat alone. Stay strong Kosy. It’s not easy at all

    • @janesygray4776
      @janesygray4776 2 роки тому +1

      So you’re here too?

    • @angelokoli
      @angelokoli 2 роки тому +1

      @@janesygray4776 I’m so here 😂😂. I found her channel while I was trying to learn how to start mine. 😊😊

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      @Angel Okoli, Thanks beautiful 🥰🥰. I really appreciate your love ❤️

  • @dorcasadegah492
    @dorcasadegah492 2 роки тому +8

    I see how relieved husban was when it was confirmed, Hhmm Kosy just take it easy even though it’s tough, any of you can just break down and it’s only you both that can uplift yourselves…May God strengthen you guys ❤💋

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thanks a lot Dorcas❤️

  • @REETAMSHELIA
    @REETAMSHELIA 2 роки тому +4

    Thank God no baby or child in the mix for now it would have been harder for you guys. Don't worry nothing lasts forever, you will be fine and stronger. Be strong and remain joyful and thankful.

  • @momentswithnessa
    @momentswithnessa 2 роки тому +6

    Seeing you being sad made me teary. I am new to your channel and I love your content. I believe everything is fine now, just pray always, try to relax and don’t let the stress get to you. Your husband is a good man and you are also a good woman. I pray that you get an apartment soon and everything aligns in your favor soonest. ❤❤

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      This is lovely and very kind of you Nessa❤️. I really appreciate 🙏🏽

  • @adelajagrace6755
    @adelajagrace6755 2 роки тому +8

    Hi Kosy. I salute and admire your tenacity. The ability to still make videos through all the choas and even edit and post,weldone!! Can imagine what you are capable of achieving when you are fully settled. Again, welldone and greetings to your hubby.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      This means a lot to me and I deeply appreciate your kind words 🙏🏽. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @Reba1m
    @Reba1m 2 роки тому +12

    The 2nd hand stress and frustration is killing me! I feel for you guys 😭. I really can’t wait for you to really start settling in and winning. You will. Thank you for this channel. ❤️

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @MissTlash
    @MissTlash 2 роки тому +8

    Aw feel like giving you a hug Kosy. Having a misunderstanding under stress while trying to settle in a different country hits different - but with the strength, wisdom and grace of God, you can always move past it. I say this because I do a lot of relationship videos. Going forward it'll help if you both work out a way of resolving misunderstandings so that one person doesn't feel all the burnt especially as you're both in a new country trying to settle and make good memories here. You'll be alright, It'll only strengthen your relationship. You've got each other and God's got you too.
    I think it will also really help if you both try to connect to a local Nigerian church (there's a few I can suggest), that way, when you need guidance or have random questions (which will happen till you're more familiar with things here), you'll always have lots of people to reach out to so as not to struggle i.e you would have been able to call DG Taxis or Nottingham Cars to help with bigger luggage's instead of Uber (and may have avoided the misunderstanding), but we all learn everyday. I live in Nottingham as well as I'm happy to be of help if needed. Glad it all worked out for you both with the Apartment, Congratulations.

  • @daliaa5294
    @daliaa5294 2 роки тому +7

    Please hold on dear. Do not give up. It is hard now but things will get better. Abroad is not rosey but overtime you will reap the rewards gradually 😘

  • @naijagistlounge2643
    @naijagistlounge2643 2 роки тому +4

    I just love how real you are!! Like this is your real life story...I really love it

  • @prud40
    @prud40 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so happy you finally have a place you can call home, your husband's smile of relief, aww bless 🙌🏾 , so happy for you guys

  • @nancyromencia2875
    @nancyromencia2875 2 роки тому +10

    Glad to see another Vlog🥰🥰🥀🥀I'm sorry you've been low please be in good spirit I know it's hard may God be with you.

  • @ladyckm1097
    @ladyckm1097 2 роки тому +8

    OMG!!!! I've been refreshing this page since afternoon. 😂😂😂.
    Let me balance and watch now

    • @NamelyName-i
      @NamelyName-i 2 роки тому

      Hahahahaha same here

    • @NamelyName-i
      @NamelyName-i 2 роки тому

      Those watching and not subscribing what's their problem at all hahahahahaah

  • @aaestherchannel.6145
    @aaestherchannel.6145 2 роки тому +13

    The fact that you are keeping it real is something so big God wil continue to bless you sis 💕🙏 more testimonies to come 🤟🏾 more Grace sis

  • @queenabellpedro
    @queenabellpedro 2 роки тому +17

    Don't worry kossy this phase will pass and you guys will be stronger ...sending you love and light ❣❣

  • @irvingpictures
    @irvingpictures 2 роки тому +4

    Biko, keep vlogging, don’t cut any part out keep it real please because the majority of us here love to see it.
    God bless you and your Husband, you guys are doing well..
    Misunderstanding is just a spice in every relationship, nothing big, nothing new..
    Keep the vlogs, thank you 🙏🏾

  • @princechukwuemeka671
    @princechukwuemeka671 2 роки тому +2

    Since I subscribed to your channel I have been enjoying the reality you shows us and not a doctored clips but “a real stuffs” but this particular clip really puts me on check more in looking for a significant order. You are strong my dear believe me and your man is a gentle man! #Kudos

  • @momentswithdeee
    @momentswithdeee 2 роки тому +22

    I totally and completely understand what you are going through. I stayed in an Airbnb with my husband for 3 months like 3 whole months moving from one to another. At some point we had to go drop our bags with a friend. It was super crazy, I won’t even lie and the friction between myself and my husband just compounded the issue. Maybe we can do a collaboration because it was just stressssssssful but in the end, it ended in praise. I love that you shared this reality, well done

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +3

      I’m happy seeing someone who share same experience 😍. Yes, we definitely need to share our experiences together. Do you stay here in Nottingham?
      Once we settle in, I will reach out to you.

    • @momentswithdeee
      @momentswithdeee 2 роки тому +1

      @@KosyJohnson No, I stay in Glasgow, Scotland and we had to move 4 Airbnb and even stayed in a church accommodation for a night at some point. It wasn't even funny.
      Looking forward to hearing from you. Now, you are officially Welcome to the UK

  • @shernelleboney4776
    @shernelleboney4776 2 роки тому +5

    May God give you guys strength at this time.... new location, setting up, settling down Is hard. I am celebrating ten years marriage this week, and it has not been easy. One step at a time...Trust in God always and he will grant you favor 🙏....God's richest blessings to you guys

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Congratulations Shernelle on your marriage anniversary. I wish you many more blessings in your marriage 🙏🏽.
      Thanks for your kind words ❤️

  • @RandomPersonette
    @RandomPersonette 2 роки тому +5

    When I saw where you left your luggage my heart dropped. People do steal in the UK. But everything is a learning curve, one day you will both look back and laugh.

  • @chidoziealexander233
    @chidoziealexander233 2 роки тому +5

    Well, it isn’t easy but please drop the phone when needed to. Especially while carrying those luggage. I think it’s unnecessary to film that process when you are supposed to lend a hand

  • @josseeo171
    @josseeo171 2 роки тому +9

    My dear, I feel your Pain. It’s not easy moving from one country to another, especially one in which you’ve never been before or have family who are Citizens or habitual residents who can help you settle in easily, but trust me, it only gets better. You’re both under pressure caused by all the moving around hence it’s making you guys feel down. Very soon you will move into your own permanent place, then the whole stress and tension will be out of the window by God’s grace, Amen🙏🙏 You guys have been through thick and thin together in Love, very interesting video, enjoyed every bit❤️🥰😘

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      I appreciate your kind and uplifting words 🙏🏽. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @okuokatina2166
    @okuokatina2166 2 роки тому +3

    Kosy my love!! You are a very resilient person!! Please keep pushing!! I can see light at the end of the tunnel!! The lord has favoured you, babe!! Congratulations on your new apartment.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you so much Tina❤️.

  • @GiftKachi
    @GiftKachi 2 роки тому +1

    Oh sweetheart I’m just seeing this vlog, you are such a strong lady. From the whole process of moving to the uk 🇬🇧 I know it wasn’t going to be easy but you have such a strong faith and relationship with your God and I know there is light at the end of this tunnel. Thank you for being so open with we your audience. love you 😘.
    Stay strong, you guys will grow stronger.
    If it’s arguments, it’s going to be there but will fade out with time🤗
    I’m rooting for you darling 🥹❤️
    Hugs 🤗

  • @paschalville8504
    @paschalville8504 2 роки тому +3

    This Lady is a home builder.. My Guy keep her well oo.. cherish her.. together you both will achieve greatness

  • @uduakharry2982
    @uduakharry2982 2 роки тому +4

    God is your strength my sister , there is a slogan that says tough time does not last but tough people do you are one of them ok, you and your hubby are stress up do not worry there is light at the end of tunnel keep moving you guys will reached there from your fellow Nigerian in Florida America

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot Harry❤️. Indeed there’s light at the end of the tunnel. I and my husband will keep moving.

  • @blessakrong
    @blessakrong 2 роки тому +8

    Stress is the cause of all these problems. Everything will get better kosy. God be with you.

  • @kolapoelufidipe929
    @kolapoelufidipe929 2 роки тому +2

    kosy ,you got to be calm and be positive. It not always a bed of rose. Yes it just a matter of time. Please stick with your man, never leave him or do that mistake of breaking up, You will remember this for good in the future.

  • @cheforbenis9350
    @cheforbenis9350 2 роки тому +1

    Kosy there’s something about ur channel i can’t explain, I’m so proud of ur growth 🙏🏿

  • @Amybekee
    @Amybekee 2 роки тому +2

    Omg! I wish I could give you a hug after watching this. No marriage is easy really especially being in a new environment but try as much as you can to be positive and trust me everything will be fine.

  • @Vivianojide
    @Vivianojide 2 роки тому +4

    I have been looking forward to you posting another video, am happy it's here
    Any ways what I want to let you know is that no marriage is a bed of roses, every marriage have it's ups and downs. So be patient and endure. And also be prayerful and God will take control
    Love you

  • @Peacefe349
    @Peacefe349 2 роки тому +3

    I’m so happy for you guy..I mean you finally got an apartment to stay and that’s a great news, I pray God keep blessing and opening more doors of opportunities and love for you guys 🙏🏼

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thanks a lot Peace ❤️

  • @olayinkataiwo8658
    @olayinkataiwo8658 2 роки тому +5

    Congratulations on your new apartment. Am happy for you guys. I love the originality in your videos and am glad I came across your page. Wish you all the best. Be strong

  • @timmzyoflagos6506
    @timmzyoflagos6506 2 роки тому +3

    this vlog is one of the most realistic videos on UA-cam ever, and I so much respect your hubby, still putting on a firm face and smiling on the camera with all the stress packing and packing, I wish you both the best with the apartment, I can wait for your personal apartment tour

  • @nomanghabu
    @nomanghabu 2 роки тому +5

    You are so real,have been married for years and I completely understand the difficult times!!!it’s part of marriage!!!Las las everything will be alright

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Definitely 😍. Thanks a lot Nomang❤️

  • @zinoekowa
    @zinoekowa 2 роки тому +23

    Aww I feel you babe, I connect with you on a 💯, I recently moved into the Uk as well last month and this is exactly what I and my partner is going through, we’ll pass this phase real soon❤️. It will all be fine and worth it in the end❤️. Just subscribed to your channel babe❤

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      It’s satisfying knowing I have someone who can relate to my story. Thanks a lot for sharing 🙏🏽. Hope you have gotten your own apartment?

  • @nkoliarinzechi8732
    @nkoliarinzechi8732 2 роки тому +4

    You're doing well sister.favor will continue to speak for you and things will fall in pleasant places for.....you're a winner already!

  • @olatokie8525
    @olatokie8525 2 роки тому +9

    Don't be upset, it's not easy for a foreigner to settle down in another country. I have been there and I was thrown out after three months of stay by the a cousin of a friend of mine in Nigeria who l was introduced to live in the UK. But at current,l am living in my own house. Glory be to God.🙏
    It shall be well with you both, just take it easy. Be patient, leave it to God, to take the course. All with be well.👌👌👌

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thanks for sharing your story. I believe it will definitely be great for us

  • @christyadeojo3459
    @christyadeojo3459 2 роки тому +6

    Kosy, just take it easy, everything will be fine, there will be light at the end of the tunnel. To relocate to another Country is not that easy at the beginning but when you guys settle down and start working, it will get better. Love you dear , regards to your hubby.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Love you too Ma❤️. I really appreciate 🙏🏽

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 2 роки тому +1

    So glad you got an apartment!! It will reduce the stress of settling into a new country. Cooking your own food, making your space nice for you and your hubby 😉 will be good. May God continue to bless you on your journey.

  • @temitopefunmilayo2747
    @temitopefunmilayo2747 2 роки тому +3

    Don't give up Kosi... You are on the right path. Hubby does not mean it in a bad way and like you said, its the pressure. Please, you both are becoming more stronger than before! We love you....

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for this Temitope❤️. I really appreciate

  • @elizabethonyekwue9368
    @elizabethonyekwue9368 2 роки тому +9

    Your vlogs are insightful with relatable experiences. Your passion and enthusiasm for the things you love are infectious. Your trueness and sincerity even in those vulnerable moments is endearing. I'll be pleased to meet you someday.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the compliment ❤️. I really appreciate 🙏🏽

  • @momentswithadwoa5264
    @momentswithadwoa5264 2 роки тому +9

    Hi Tosi, moving into a new country especially one that has a lot of differences can be so stressful. I moved into the UK last year with my family as well, and trust me I honestly considered divorce in the first few months 😅. I was super depressed and overwhelmed so u can imagine. But as soon as we were able to get our own place, trust me everything fell into place like nothing ever happened lol. I just came across your channel and I'm loving your realness, also a UA-camr hope to link up one day...stay blessed

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the reassurance. Stress really does affect relationships but thankfully, God is ever faithful 🙌🏽.
      I hope we do❤️

  • @VeeSweetTea
    @VeeSweetTea 2 роки тому +4

    ooooh MY DEAR don't cry..😔😔😔. We are here to support YOU... .We want to see you guys win thank God this isn't in real time....💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 Team kosy all the way sending you all the love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      This means a lot to me Vee🥰🥰🥰. I really appreciate your love 🥺🥺🥺

  • @_nursemonique
    @_nursemonique 2 роки тому +25

    Thank you for being and sharing kosy
    Good luck on getting the job you applied for
    Where did you get this your abayas from
    And congratulations on the apartment 🎉🎉🎉
    Am sorry about what your going through right now everything will be fine ,stay strong
    Will be praying for you 💓
    Little misunderstanding will always happen
    His just stressed and overwhelmed as well just bear with him, but always pray to God for wisdom to handle every situation in your marriage and God will direct you through it all
    Congratulations on 6k

    • @boljbee1884
      @boljbee1884 2 роки тому

      It's a norm, you're still in the easiest phase, things will align. Wait until you start having kids in the UK then you'll know what challenges are. You'll cry cos there's no one to assist. Slow and steady wins the race though, you'll be fine.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot Monique ❤️. You have become a friend to me and I really appreciate you ❤️. I bought the abayas from @gegclothings on Instagram.

    • @_nursemonique
      @_nursemonique 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson yippe thanks my sweet sister and friend

  • @lctagencyreggiolctagencyre9046
    @lctagencyreggiolctagencyre9046 2 роки тому +4

    Uk is one of the most stressful country to live in with high quota of Isolation, depression e.t.c it will always get better guys,keep head up

  • @officialvanny
    @officialvanny 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so happy for you guys finally an apartment of your own to ease you all the stress and troubles . Congratulations dear looking forward to the new video hopefully you will be settled in your apartment then.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot Vanessa❤️😍🤗.

  • @ellyo7082
    @ellyo7082 2 роки тому +4

    You have to be strong dear, the first five years of marriage is always tough.( I have been married for 18years now). You also have to be prayerful, pray for grace to understand and be patient with one another. You must always remind yourselves why you love each other, that will help you to understand that all these issues are just normal.challenges to test your love for one another. God will see you both through. You will do great and l believe you will be a great wife and mum, just be prayerful and patient. Sending you love❤️

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot Elly for believing in me. I really appreciate ❤️. Your advice is really helpful and I’m really grateful 🙏🏽

  • @rachaeloladipo6125
    @rachaeloladipo6125 2 роки тому +3

    Sending you 💓 ❤ ♥ 💛 hun. The Lord strengthen you and help you navigate this season gracefully with wisdom . Praying for you.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thank you so much Rachael❤️

  • @austinonyeka2620
    @austinonyeka2620 2 роки тому +2

    Be strong my sister. You and your hubby have gone through a whole lot of stress trying to settle down.

  • @jess748
    @jess748 2 роки тому +2

    Oh my Kosy!!! The stress can be draining, please keep a positive mindset.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏽

  • @sundayitoroeno5319
    @sundayitoroeno5319 2 роки тому +3

    I am immensely rooting for you and your husband. God is just starting. Congratulations to your new apartment ❤️

  • @tebalelomarobane8496
    @tebalelomarobane8496 2 роки тому +7

    One day you will look back and actually laugh about everything, we praying with you, it will be alright, adulthood is not easy but you will sing a new song soon,love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @amycee4013
    @amycee4013 2 роки тому +2

    I love how transparent and sincere this is

  • @darasimiorotayo6286
    @darasimiorotayo6286 2 роки тому +3

    Kosy, I must really commend you for the strength and courage to do this....you will hardly find ladies that will take that decision you took just to be with a man.
    Another thing I will like to add is there is power in praying together with your spouse. The first day you got there you should have spent your first mins or hrs declaring over the land for your good. You guys have been going through a lot and I believe you should join your faith together and declare over your stay there

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the advice 🙏🏽. I really appreciate ❤️

  • @mmesomajoyce7623
    @mmesomajoyce7623 2 роки тому +5

    Finally you guys have gotten an apartments 💃💃💃💃💃💃
    Congratulations 🎉🎉

  • @FarmerMomo
    @FarmerMomo 2 роки тому +2

    Sis be strong. It’s fine and May the lord continue to strengthen you both. It’s a new place that’s why.

  • @Dat_favorite_Geny
    @Dat_favorite_Geny 2 роки тому +5

    Baby gal.
    You're doing well.
    Just calm down that's what marriage is all about. 2 different people co habiting.
    Different culture and norms.
    Just try to count to 100 before you vent.
    You'll be fine. Take things gradually remember you guys have forever to go.
    Every marriage is a combination of sweet, sour and bitter.
    Enjoy the good times.
    Love ❤ u loads.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot for the helpful advice. I really appreciate ❤️

  • @jordaanolawumi
    @jordaanolawumi 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry, you be fine❤️. Thank you for preparing others ahead.

  • @gloriadavid3373
    @gloriadavid3373 2 роки тому +2

    😊😊awwwn I lived in Russell view wen I studied at NTU years back. This just brought nice memories. I miss Nottingham ❤. Great content 👍

  • @angelaalum5631
    @angelaalum5631 2 роки тому +3

    This is my first time on your channel. To me been in a new country and trying to find your way around is a big stress on its own. I understand his feelings though. you mentioned that he was upset that you left the luggage unattended to that alone added to his stress and he snaps at every little thing. I feel like there’s a lot of time to vlog and show your subscribers around your new environment, but for now your baby needs your undivided attention to feel the fresh breeze of a new country.. I wish you both the best as you settle in your new environment.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot Angela❤️. I definitely will watch my ways😉

    • @angelaalum5631
      @angelaalum5631 2 роки тому

      @@KosyJohnson You got yourself a new subscriber in my humble self. Can’t wait to watch more of your updates on your settlement and starting a new life in a new environment 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽I’m watching from USA 🇺🇸 greetings from my end to yours🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @crafteezy
    @crafteezy 2 роки тому +6

    Kai. ThanK God o! Good to see you and especially your "baby" laughing and smiling in the end. This accommodation/settling phase can take a toll on marriages o. Thank God I came ahead of my family. Hopefully God blesses us with an accommodation soonest too. Wishing you both the very best!

    • @_nursemonique
      @_nursemonique 2 роки тому +1

      Yours will be settled too in Jesus name

    • @crafteezy
      @crafteezy 2 роки тому

      @@_nursemonique Amen! Thank you so much 👏

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽

  • @doreenayi3751
    @doreenayi3751 2 роки тому +5

    OMG I’m so happy for you cosy that you got a new apartment I’m guessing by now you would have got your keys and be moved in. Can’t wait to see your next Vlog of your husband carrying you into your new home LOL. You have done so well relocating to a brand-new country navigating a brand-new city and Finding your feet in a brand-new environment. You really have done well moving around from Airbnb to hotel and finally you found a place to live in under a month. You are fantastic and I love your honesty documenting the good and the bad loving your channel all the best keep up the vlogs.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks for your kind words Doreen❤️. I really appreciate 🙏🏽

  • @angelokoli
    @angelokoli 2 роки тому +2

    Awwwhn. He said come by 10, sign the documents and take the key 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼. I’m so excited. I can’t wait to see the apartment. Congrats To you guys 🥳🥳🥳

  • @keshiabarasa6284
    @keshiabarasa6284 2 роки тому +1

    I’m happy you both found a place. You could see the relief on both your faces esp your hubby. It is well

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      It was really a relief 😍. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @Tonia_Kal
    @Tonia_Kal 2 роки тому +2

    Kosy dear, you’re doing great….God bless you and your husband.

  • @oluwadurotimigeorge2027
    @oluwadurotimigeorge2027 2 роки тому +5

    My 1 pence, never give room when there is a rift or misunderstanding between you both, the earlier and quicker you resolve issues the stronger you become. Take it from someone who has small 12 years of learning and many more years to learn. You should understand that he's agitated because he is thinking more of you not getting the best of what he thought he should be easily giving you at this point (based on what he planned for you) be patient, kind, supportive, and cherish each other even when upset.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much George 🙏🏽. I really appreciate your advice.

  • @vula4u958
    @vula4u958 2 роки тому +1

    Pls try and be posting every week. I keep checking for your videos. Thanks for uploading. You are just very real.

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 2 роки тому +3

    Keep being strong❤️❤️❤️❤️everything will be fine. Focus on your relationship not being like them or thinking towards it🙏🙏🙏🙏. Be rest assured you will be fine. God will see you through. Amen..

    • @funmilayoomolade6981
      @funmilayoomolade6981 2 роки тому

      Ogom is here 😊 number supporter 🙌🏽 i too like you in this UA-cam space ❤

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thanks a lot Ogom❤️❤️❤️❤️. I really appreciate your kind words

  • @julietbeauty5757
    @julietbeauty5757 2 роки тому +3

    Sis Kosy, I have nothing much to say but to confess to you that I love❤️ you . I love you being you, I love your reality videos rather than the unknown behind the scenes. I need more of it dear, so go on and give it all. My lil sissys said they love you too and they don't allow me to watch your videos alone😂

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      😍😍😍. I’m glad you find my vlogs interesting . I love you too sis and my regards to your sister 🤗

  • @jamesndemera975
    @jamesndemera975 2 роки тому +1

    This is very normal when moving to this UK. It's a terrible experience especially accomodation. Took us 3 months to settle. At some point staying in village far from our work places with no proper transport. But when it all connects you will just laugh. You are blessed to have settled before winter because then the stress level increases!

  • @lawrentaosiogo7157
    @lawrentaosiogo7157 2 роки тому +5

    Awwwwwwwwww Babes everything will fall in place God is with you 🙏

  • @oluwatomi_
    @oluwatomi_ 2 роки тому +4

    Congratulations kosy, your home is blessed. UK will favour you

  • @happinessalerah1809
    @happinessalerah1809 2 роки тому +5

    Not me talking to my myself this afternoon"Kosy drop a video now" 😩😩......and here it is 🤩🤩🤩. Stay blessed Kosy!!! 😘❤️.

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Thanks Happiness 😍. You too

  • @resatony6676
    @resatony6676 2 роки тому

    The truth is that your blessed with a Goodman.hold on and keep your love burning,GOD bless u both❤

  • @ms.tendie
    @ms.tendie 2 роки тому +2

    There’s always Light at the end of the tunnel, you held on… and keep holding on ✨🤍
    Luv your vlogs Kosy 🌹

  • @nyashamapungwana4541
    @nyashamapungwana4541 2 роки тому +2

    Your husband is a very good man. He is responsible, too. He carries all, leaving the lady be 🌺🌺

  • @estheroluwayemisiolayinka
    @estheroluwayemisiolayinka 2 роки тому +2

    Don’t worry baby girl everything going to be fine you have an amazing man i think is bcs of stress, he is stress out and you too. I know if you settle down things will be normal just calm down and please take care of yourself ❤❤

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks a lot Esther 🙏🏽. He is really amazing ❤️

  • @jummaimariamabu3939
    @jummaimariamabu3939 2 роки тому +2

    Take it easy my dear everything is going to be fine don't cry just pray it happens to everyone okay

    • @KosyJohnson
      @KosyJohnson  2 роки тому

      Okay😍. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @cicimalik
    @cicimalik 2 роки тому +3

    If I were you, I would have started crying 😢...lol. you are a strong woman jere.