10 -17 yrs old || Tips for teenager girls I wish I knew earlier!
Вставка
- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- thank you for clicking on today's video. i hope you're safe and doing well. please take care of yourself ilysm ♡
⚬⚬⚬
𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐍𝐄𝐂𝐓
↳instagram: @obakie / obakie
↳email: obakiecelestine@gmail.com
⚬⚬⚬
𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐂
↳ Change - Metzmusic • (FREE FOR PROFIT) Jazz...
⚬⚬⚬
𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐑
I do not own any pictures/photos poses in the video. if you own any pictures please contact me so that I can give you credits.
⚬⚬⚬
#aesthetic #teenagers #glowup #girlstips #girl
Hi girls! Just one thing, there is nothing wrong with sleeping with a bra, there is no proof of it causing any damage or reducing growth, im saying this cuz there may be girls who feel more comfortable wearing bra (as myself), there is nothing wrong with it! Im 17 and I have never been affecfed by it 🙌
Ty
js bc u didnt have any problems doesnt mean that others wont get hurt, but like since theres no proof id still be careful
I WAS SCARED FOR A SEC
Just be careful to not wear an underwire bra because that can cause cancer, is uncomfortable and it can hurt
Sadly I have and after I dropped wearing it my bubs became bigger but they became more sensitive
The only lesson that I would've liked to learn earlier (I'm almost 18, so by earlier I mean when I started my teenage years) is to embrace my introversion. Forcing myself to be extroverted and try to hang out with everyone when in reality I didn't feel comfortable at all made me think that I was weird for a long time, which made my high school experience kind of meh. I think we aren't taught that enough, and we all just try to be socially extroverted people because that's the capitalist standard.
even my friends also force me to talk to other people , partying and all but i kind of hate it , i really like to be my own self
Omg I resonate sm- hs isn’t as “fun” for me in terms of the social aspect, since I’m not as extroverted as I used to be & sometimes I feel a bit lonely. COVID & other things kinda led to that. But I’m trying to embrace who I am as an individual, so that I can become more comfortable w my own company, which will then lead to me being more confident around diff ppl. So like embracing my introversion, while also not shying away from the company of others.
truee
@aria same
Thx for the tip, I have recently started realizing this and I am gonna start high-school soon so I am gonna keep it in mind so thank you so much and everybody is always trying to make me an extrovert and I am not comfortable at all I am not gonna change at all just because other want me to.
You actually are like the big sister I’ve never had. Your advice helps a lot
Yea Same
Wtf I always sleep with a bra on
@@JF59122 why isnt it uncomfortable
@@ilac6748 no clue
@@JF59122 look at pinned comment
Being a 13yr old and watching this,
Man I'll never waste my teenage years.
I got a good headstart.👌👌😚☺
Same!
same
I'm 14 and I'm kinda suffering
@@shinobublush6584 same 🥲
I’m 14, I find that we have good times and bad times :/ but I cherish the bad times as much as the good times, bc it’s the only 5 years we have so we should cherish every moment :)
Another piece of advice I really like is “not everyone is your friend” my mom taught me this when I was younger. It basically means you don’t HAVE to be friends with everyone. If someone doesn’t like you then so be it. That’s their loss. It’s fine if you only have a couple close friends, half of the time it’s better that way.
Man I tried to make friends with a kid at my school and he just blew me off. Felt bad, but I understand that it’s his choice and I just hope he’ll be able to open up to somone one day, even if that person isn’t going to be me.
my mom told me something similar :D this is a really important one, especially since a lot of times we try to befriend “everyone”. find your close friends, the real ones, the ones that stay. if someone’s mean to you, they’re not worth your time. thanks for bringing this one up!
@@stellacoelhocurtis171 exactly 🙌🏽
@@hi.iamhuman.3564 that’s a good way to look at it 🙌🏽
As a person who literally relies on people's validation, this was very comforting to hear :) I always feel like everybody has to like me and if they don't then I'm not good enough 😭 so thank you for this
'Wearing tighter clothes makes you more attractive' - remember you don't have to wear them if you are uncomfortable
I personally wouldn't follow that advice at all
right, i like pastels, and she said wearing red white and nudes will be attractive.. aside from white i hate wearing those other colors
I agree, I’m not comfortable wearing tight clothes, I find oversized clothes more comfortable and cozy for me.
@@Mitsukii- OMG UR PFP>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
@@Lailaaa.. 😚😚🫶🫶🫶❤️
My advice is enjoy your teenage years while it lasts. Don't force yourself to grow up especially around 10-15. There is always a right time for everything. Don't compare yourself to girls on tiktok and wonder why you don't look like that. Don't get influenced by peer pressure. Make good friends, build boundaries and make memories. You don't need to have relationship goals or a bf. It's not a necessity. Take care of yourself and surround yourself with positive energy.
Balance your social and study life. Grades don't predict your future but they do help shaping it. If you push yourself to be consistent now it will be beneficial for you to focus more in college. Take part in co-curricular activities, like debates and speech. They really help in building confidence and make your communication skills better. Choose a sport that could keep you occupied in your free time so you don't get bored. Be creative find your talent. Don't think you are less than anyone. Be experimental and open to trying out new activities even if they don't turn out good. Don't care about popularity in school. Be your own hero, try not to depend on others for help and figure things out on your own. It will make you stronger. Be a supportive friend and appreciate your friends accomplishments and take motivation rather then getting jealous. Don't let anyone take you for granted and don't be afraid to cut out toxic people from your life. Be kind yet don't let people step on you.
Thank you. I'm already in my last year of being a teenager, and I feel like I haven't lived to the fullest or enjoyed much of it
Man, this comment NEEDS TO BE PINNED THIS IS LITTERAL LIFE ADVICE.
me about to turn 16… what do i do
@@in.themeantime. it's okay. You will never be able to enjoy life if you feel like you are too late. You could still do all that I mentioned. You are still pretty young.
im 14. i ruined my first 2 yrs of teenage not caring about myself. at the start of new year, i promised to improve and now i am slim, healthy and fit and even more stronger. both emotionally and physically. i will add more tips to my routine to improve as much as i can. tysm
same!! :)
same except i started out w so much anxiety and not caring about myself & my own health :( i hope this year will get better for me and that from now, i’ll start to work on myself and take care of me :))
You’re young and you’re learning. Don’t beat yourself over it. What’s important is persisting to improve in you’re future. There’s no pressure on how you’re “teenage years” should be.
@@bamikbia yea. I'm working on myself too let's get a better version of ourselves 😉
@@riddlesangerissues3127 yup 👍
And!!
To all my religious sisters out there, NEVER be ashamed of your beliefs. The way you dress, act, or speak, is nobody else’s business but yours! Don’t be afraid of your peers knowing who you are and what you believe in 💗☺️
❤
❤ thank you :)
❤
thanks!💗
Thank you ❤️
As a teenager, I try to live the moment and not “post” the moment. I try to experience and discover as much as I can. I try to find new good habits, new places, and new experiences. I try to teach and develop myself as much as possible. I try to not care about people’s looks at me. I try to be a good person with all my heart. Trying all those things at once every single day is hard work yet so amazing and worth it!
It’s a great feeling to see all these wonderful advices given to all the first year students out there. I wish I’d recevie these advices when I was in my first year.
Are you talking about Harry Potter first year? :)
It doesn’t necessarily mean the person is talking about Harry Potter, it depends on their nationality and where they are, like in America it’s grade in school while for the UK it’s year.
@@rouxthebag ya good point, I just wanted to ask
@@Creative_1234 It’s fine
@@Creative_1234 first year is a term used in Ireland and uk *Mabye more idk*
I'm 15 right now, and this video has legit helped me so much. I feel like there's a particular purpose for me doing things now. Ali you're the best!! Thanks so much!!
Hi!
hi im arrmy too
@@naayshajain4753 me too!💜
@@Ethreally_Pretty me too
@@kushalibhicajee9879 oh that's great :) who is your bais btw hehe
Before turning 15 I was so afraid, I don't know why. I just felt guilty and empty all of a sudden as my birthday approached but after turning 15, I realized there's nothing that has changed except my age, my life is the same, I am growing and becoming mature. Yeah studies are a little hard, it stresses me out sometimes but instead of complaining I try to discipline myself and work according to my schedule, that helps alot. The advice I'd give all the teenagers is that don't forget to breathe, don't forget to have a moment for yourself and clear up your head. Go on a trip, treat yourself and find ways to make yourself happy. Trust me, life will be better.
about to turn sixteen too and that’s how i’ve been starting to feel. 16 is supposed to be a big landmark age (it’s when you can drive yourself places where i live) when you really start getting freedom but nothing really changes in that one day, you’re the same the day before and after your birthday and there will be no “magical” transformation between being a 15 year old and a 16 year old. change is gradual and it is slow, but it is visible
A few more hacks for you girls :)
1. Before going to bed, pick out your outfit for tomorrow instead of in the morning. It makes you so much more organized and you'll be able to pick something that'll not only make you stand out, but something you really love
The first tip I do, and it saves me so much time since picking out what I feel good in takes a while. So other people should really do it!
@@Gummybearsharks yea it’s so much better than doing it right after you wake up in the morning!
for the first one: yes, my parents have me pick a fit on the weekends and it helps a lot
This is such great advice!! Thank you so much omgg
Omg tysm this is such good advice
Idk why I clicked on this since I'm 24 almost 25 but I just want to tell you girls that it's gonna be okay. The world is really hard on you but it's not worth your attention and time. Be kind to yourself and enjoy the road you're on. I wished I had given myself permission to just be me and stop trying to be someone else. Stay safe and bless you all
as the oldest and only girl (i have two younger brothers), i never had an older sister to give me advice and never had a younger sister to give advice to. this is so serene and helpful. TO THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE SISTERS: please please please don’t take it for granted, and for those who don’t have brothers i love them sm i def dont take them for granted
Its not like the gender matters. A lot of these advices are applied to guys as well
Same
Being confident in being single is the BEST tip I've ever heard from someone. Being confident and HAPPY being single is the best way to find a healthy relationship. You don't rely on someone to make you happy so you are able to find someone who is healthy for you because you're not clinging to someone who is toxic.
i feel like she explained everything so perfectly
As an 18-year-old watching this, I feel very encouraged because I already do a lot of these things! Thank you for making such a brilliant and beautiful video.
18 gang 🤪🤪
4:11 can anyone tell me what does it mean??
She's like the older sister we all wish we had
Yeh i wish....i dont have any sis...well, but these tips helped alot..i didnt knew some of them
@@skiezxedits i have 3 😭
@@lyricsparks891 lucky i have a brother
@@lyricsparks891 u have 3 sis?
@@skiezxedits yup
"Wearing tighter clothes makes
you appear more attracrive"
I think most of the ppl here are like 10- 14 years old kids 😃
Fr like that's for 16-20 what's that doing here 💀💀
My advice:
This happened like 1 day ago to me-
If a online friend/ friend suddenly starts being rude to you, Unfriend them. You won’t have them in your life anymore, it’s not good for mental health, and they weren’t your friend anyways
I had a friend who I haven’t seen in 1 year and they were sending me rude messages. I just deleted there number and told one of my friends abt it and asked them if it was ok! She said it was and she had the same problem with that person.
Don’t listen to them! You are amazing
No girl around my age is gonna agree to this:
In all my 13 years of living I have NEVER. EVER. wore makeup on my own without my mom putting it on me. I usually never wear ANY makeup when i'm going out or guests are visiting. I only wear it when i'm going to, let's say, a festival where ur supposed to look fancy or smt. And no, its not embarrassing.
It is great...it is not embarassing..people dont know
omg same!! Im not allowed to use any makeup till im 18
omg we’re the same! I hate makeup. all the girls at my school wear it and then ask me why my skin is so clear. usually I’d feel insecure about my bare face but now I’m glad I’ve never worn it.
Isn't that normal though? Kids age 13 in my country get yelled at if they wear makeup
my sister has tried to put mascara on me before bc of my long eyelashes but i litrally HATE make up i cant stand it on my face lmao
"Once you stop seeing others as competition, you'll be happier"
THIS IS SO TRUE
I went through a face of bad insecurities until I just realised, idc what people think of me, I'm going to do my life how I want to
It made me so much happier :)
being almost 18, I would like to recommend my junior self, don't compare!! you are enough and better than a lot of people, just don't mind the words of ones who don't even matter. Just be yourself n do what your heart says.
13 y/o girl here, these tips seem very helpful and I'll implement them in to everyday life
lots of love!!! ❤️❤️
I love how this isn’t just on looks but on so many other stuff. You have earned yourself a sub!!!
Another tip, your teenage years don't have to be perfect. You may not have had many friends, low energy, not much hype. You may not have gone out often to parties and such but that's okay. It can just mean the peak of your youth has yet to come.
Though you couldn't go back in time to tell your teenage self these things, you've just told them to this teenage me and it is exacty what she has always needed to hear
I'm 17 turning 18 this june and I really feel like I wasted most of my teenage years in being sad and depressed for no reason - and the 2 years of real school experience that I lost because of the pandemic is even more depressing to think about, the memories I could've made with friends, the fun I would've had but didn't because of online school. But now I should know better and not worry about things that aren't in my control. Thank you so much again. I just want to have fun, I don't want to look back in 30 years and regret that I missed out on my young adult years by being a depressing piece of &hit
little piece of advice from a stranger: please dont be too hard on urself when you relapse, fall down, or go back to square 1, because I’ve learned that it’s part of the journey :) But im also really glad that u want to cherish and live your life, because you deserve it. Stay safe bae 💕
Let's try to remember we still have time, college is a thing and if your friends currently you can still do things with them. Yes we lost 2 years but we can still make the most of time now
Another advice I would give is to not care what other people think of you. I know, at the beginning it's hard, but once you finally do it you will feel just amazing. Being yourself is always better than trying to be someone who you are not. Everybody is different and that is what makes us unique. Also, don't try to be friends with anyone just because you don't have friends. It's 100 times better to be alone rather than having fake friends. Once I had a friend in primary school and I could notice that she was very jealous of me because I was always had better marks than her at school. Then we stopped being friends, but later in middle school we kinda started being friends again (because I didn't have any other friends and she didn't have any friends). Now we did argue (and in my opinion it was, again, because she is jealous of me) and we're enemies again. The point is that if a person did dissapoint you once, don't give them a second chance because usually they don't change at all
Thank you! As an anxious middle schooler who is super self-conscious (for honestly no reason) I often repress certain things about myself (interests or certain clothing pieces) because I feel like I'll be judged. I need to start having the "it doesn't matter in the end" mindset.
@@soup5093 sometimes I also feel "different" because I don't dress like everybody and my style is just different, but then I thought that why would I try to be like everyone? If I want to wear to school trousers, a shirt and a blazer then why wouldn't do it, just because everybody wears t-shirts and sweatpants? And to be honest I started feeling much better wearing what I like and what I want
do you have any tips on how to go around this? ive got social anxiety so its really hard for me to do this but im getting there :))
@@puosti well, I also have social anxiety sometimes, so here's some tips:
Stop thinking what other people think of you. I mean really. You will never know what others think of you, then why would you try to guess what their opinion is? You don't need to stress about that. Not everybody has to like you, the same as you don't have to like everybody.
Another thing is to stop overthinking. There were times when every night I was otherthinking every little thing I said at school and every little thing I did, and what can I say is that I became exhausted worrying about those details, because many people maybe didn't even notice or remember them. Every person is worrying about themselves, believe me, nobody thinks about how your outfit was today or what you said today, people have so many important things to do that they may even forget all those things, and even if they think about them anyway you will never know, so there's no point in otherthinking, it's just unnecessary and like this you are hurting yourself.
Start loving yourself. I don't mean to be selfish, but being kind to yourself, complementing yourself when nobody else does, or just having a good opinion about yourself. People in our life come and leave, but you will always be you and that's the only real thing that you have. Take care of yourself like you're a little child, have a positive midset, make your dreams come true because you have only 1 life and now is your chance to do it. Buy the things that you always wanted, have fun, have rest when you need it, don't blame yourself for not knowing something before. I think that you will never be able to love somebody before you learn to love yourself.
Sleeping with a bra on will NOT stunt your breast growth or cause breast cancer!! This has been said by medical professionals and can be researched. When it comes to the ammount of breast tissue, it almost always comes down to genetics, not sleeping with or without a bra. HOWEVER, if a bra is worn for too long for enough dirt and oils to start accumulating, it may cause skin irritation and acne. Wash your bras often.
That's the true comment that i was finding and i think they are comfortable while sleeping
Ur making every to me more comfortable bc everything is happening to me and ur giving me advices including « stop giving rude people attention that’s what keeps them talking » thank you so much❤
She’s literally a mood, she’s my best friend and everything and she’s bae and content is bae and lastly she’s such a big sister to me and I’m literally grateful for her!😩❤🩹
thank you! 🌷✨
Me too she's so frickin awesome 🤩❤❤
@@Obakiee I have a important question....actually I am unable to skeep at night ...i Just can't don't know why I can't thinking at that time plus unable to concentrate in studies to because of thought ....well main question is I mostly sleep at 4 or 5 am but yeppp....i do get 8 to 9 hrs of continuous sleep...is it unhealthy or is it okay....and plus now for exam I study all night as because in day I can't concentrate at all
@@madhushudansingh6623 i hope this helps but sometimes even if you get 8 hours of sleep you should also prioritize the amount of times you stayed awake because you'll still feel tired/dizzy when u wakes up, also remove what's been distracting you and focus on the most important things or something's that you're looking up to, set your goals for the day, make sure take breaks and try not to think too much of the stuff that's bothering u❤
im so happy that nowadays the younger generations get a headstart with these type of videos. back then these weren't that common or they just didnt have advice that was actually useful. but now, it is more available for everyone and i love that.
3:24 instructions weren't clear, now I'm an alcoholic (jk)
Wow! These are actually really helpful advices!
Not just the same thoughts most of the youtubers/tiktokers are saying all the time.
I yould actually use some of them and they make sense!
Thank you!😁
Youre literally the only one whos honest and realistic in her vidsss, and i got soooooooooo many new tipsss
Hey everyone, just saying theres a few things wrong with this video. All the tips on how to appear more attractive don't apply to everyone, like the one where it says to wear tighter clothes or paint your nail certain colors. Only do this if its what your comfortable with!! Some people will feel more confident with it and some without. Do what makes you happy and don't ever change yourself to make someone else happy.❤❤
hi, 17 year old sister advice. you are barely a teenager (focusing on the 10-13 group here), you don’t have to appear “attractive”. you are in this world to learn and find yourself, not to please others with your appearance, especially looking at yourself through adult standards. they already too messed up for adults, they shouldn’t be your concern. focus on keeping your hygiene in a good condition and don’t push yourself to look attractive. you’re too young to feel sexualised. stay safe out there, lots of love x
Yeah but some peoples are insecure, and their way of feeling more confident is to be prettier. So they will do things and find this kind of advice in ordre to be OK with their body. Ofc, they should first try to love themselbes just the way they are but I still remember this : "You don't like yourself ? Create a new version of yourself". In my case I just love to be pretty and love pretty stuffs in général, so to be able to think that I am super beautiful, even more than those pretty girls in my class. So that it can be my reality, I try to be prettier. I am already pretty (in my eyes atleast) and have never hated my body and face tho, just talking from what I know. I also feel like we shouldn't be embarassed of trying to be prettier. We shouldn't be ashamed of trying to have whither teeths or wanting to try longer nails. As long as we do it for us and only us I think that it's perfectly fine.
@@nashi9940 it’s absolutely ok to want to be pretty, it’s natural. it’s the word “attractive” used when talking about children that triggered me. there’s nothing to be ashamed about in taking care of yourself. i’m just saying that taking this as a top priority is not worth it because i did it and i wish i didn’t. y’all are already pretty and free to embrace it. just please don’t think that it’s obligatory. i’m not against advice, let’s just not pressure preteens to be attractive c:
@@zuzanka6871 Oh okay then, I misunderstood what you said, my bad.
@@zuzanka6871 Oh okay then, I misunderstood what you said, my bad.
i actually had no idea about the first one, and the mascara one! i never knew you could get an infection from that, ive used my friend’s maybelline sky high mascara before i got it and i never knew it would cause something like that, thankyou for telling me this!
ive been needing advice like this! i really appreciate you making a video like this one, it makes me feel like im not alone and that i can get through anything. thank you so much ilysm!
No one has ever given me such good advice like you did 🥺❤ tysm you’re the best
1:49 “If I cut you off, chances are you handed me the scissors.” I love you Obakie thank you for teaching me everything I know ❤
you are literally the big sister i never had. Thx so much for this obakie! Love you lots!
man, spending my teenage years ugly, lonely and depressed is the worst feeling, the amount of videos like these i have watched is insane, i just feel like i will never fit in, or be beautiful
How aesthetically you make your videos is just awesome 💜💜💜
thank you 🥺
@@Obakiee can you please tell me something for body hairs and dark circles?
"Learn to not care, the less you care the less you get hurt" Literally guys this one is the most important and i want to add one more that is "priorities yourself" U are the most important don't hurt your feelings for others believe me its not worth it at all
As a 17y/o autistic lesbian my tips are to focus on yourself, bc this is the time when forming an identity is most important. Nothing society or what the norms tell u to do matters. Be yourself and be wild, try out every trend or invent your own flavors. Practice leaving your comfort zone. In this age range youre going to change SO MUCH and so fast, so don't feel pressured abt ruining ur teen years, and for the love of God, do not date anyone three years older or younger 😭🙏💯
On god ,do not mess with way older or younger people then yourself
This is a lot of good advice. I got my life in order recently and I can say I did about half the stuff on this list and it made me feel amazing about myself. The thing is you can pick and choose which you want to do and which will make you feel best. You don't have to do anything big
0:54 this touched my heart thankuuuu❤❤❤
Confidence is key!!
I'm 13-14 and was always super extroverted as a kid, but then I moved in 2019 around covid so I lost a lot of confidence. Then I got an autoimmune disease called PANDAS/PANS which caused tics. (uncontrollable sounds/movements) I decided to "fake it till u make it" to prevent myself from getting bullied at school, and now I am a rlly extroverted, social, friendly, and hilarious girl. It sucked at first and was totally out of my comfort zone, but it helped and I have a lot of friends who respect me with my condition, and I am also a cheer captain of my school cheer squad! :) This proves that it helps and can quickly change your perspective on the world.
Thank you for the tips! I just turned 14 a week ago and I think I can start to live differently rather then living a lonely life ❤
For me, I’m learning to get over my procrastination. I struggle with it a lot when it comes to doing school work and going to bed. I’m also learning to try and not care what people say about me even if it’s the rudest thing. Also, I’m trying to not compare myself with others. These are very hard to accomplish, but I know it will help me grow as a person and help my mental health.
I usually have a little backup in my bag, Its like self care items incase my skin starts to get dry or lips get dry so its like a small pouch filled with lotion,mosturizer,oil blotter,Pads,etc..
I recommend this alot cause usually my lips and skin get dry in school!~❤️
This advise acc helped me bc as a yr 7 (yeah I'm kinda young) it helped me way better than the previous vids I watched n I haven't been doing my skincare n my skin hasn't been good so yeah I'm hoping to have a good yr by following these tips byee!
U have phone at 7 yrs
7 yr olds having youtube this early lol i got it way later
@@scarlyt1017 they’re not saying they’re 7 years old. in the UK we have a different schooling system to the US I am also currently in year 7 and I’m 12.
@@bebejewledshop ohh i see thanks for explaining😇
@@scarlyt1017 It’s no problem!
Lol it says: Don't be desperate for love! You will find love unexpectedly. And then it says: do this… you will be considered more attractive. Some examples: 0:23 … 2:19 2:33 2:41 (btw don't be a person you're not, be yourself).
in 2:13 that happen to me not once but twice :> like when the first day of school I really don't wanna take off my mask even my friends telling me to take if off but I really don't wanna do it cause I'm insecure of myself I don't have confident unlike those girls I see from my school they really so pretty I just don't have the confident, then ONE DAY its lunch time I was like really hungry cause I didn't eat much from home then we're walking to the cafeteria then we grab some snacks, NOW when were going to our room, I just take off my mask without making decision XD cause like I'm really hungry that time lol then my one of my closest friend said "dang girl u gotten much prettier" then were walking down the hall way then a bunch of boys staring at me like wth bro ;-; I'm just trying to eat in peace ;-; they are like talking idk what they're saying but I put my mask on then walk away T-T, then it happened again at the Mall my Mom needs to go to the toilet then I go with her ( dude ur grammar needs improvement XD ) then this two boys ( they're like 17-18 ) was freaking staring at me I'm not sure but the other dude was like open-mouth XD before that I take off my mask cause yea XD thats it :D
btw new subs >:3
Girl, you must be so damn pretty-
@@kaviv280 no I'm not @_@
@@whitebun908 Gurl, yes you are.
@@kaviv280 if u say so TvT
Your videos gave me a complete glowup and they are always so helpful
Thank you 🥺💫✨
I'm so glad!
This video helps me a lot I'm turning 13 in september and I rlly loved this video helped me think to not give attention to the bullies in my class!! Also helps me to know things like the ice to remove acne tysm I needed this 😂🤣
Now 15, and have ruined all of my years, I’ll try and salvage this one. The “do your night routine even if your tired” really hit me because I’ve been neglecting it and I feel terrible, also I need to drink more water!! Thank you very much for this 😊😊
You didn't waste those years. You spent them growing and changing. We often improve when we don't think we are. Looking at the past and feeling sorry for yourself isn't going to be very beneficial. Instead focus on the good things that are around and your goals. It's better to think of life as a journey. People change quickly and drastically as teens. The best way to spend being 15 is just to enjoy it. Find little reasons to be happy every day. You're young, don't worry about the expectations society places on you. Everyone is different and can promise you're not alone in this.
I love all of these tips except for the Snapchat has a better camera than and iPhone because Snapchat turns you into someone you aren't it makes you look like someone else and when you realise you look prettier with Sanpchat it makes a person depressed. we should all be happy with our flaws!
i didn’t know anyways thanks for this! 🌷✨
that’s only if you use filters. the quality is still better than iphone camera
It's true to not tell ANYONE your secrets, not even your best friend, and what I mean by secret is your personal life etc.
“Don’t be obsessed with finding a bf” proceeds to give us tips on how to be more attractive to others
Agree "how to be attractive at the age of 10 to 15 🙄
lol these dont really correlate i only want to look better for myself
THANK YOU GIRL 💗💗💗 I needed that so bad thanks a lot
. thank you so much for making us all feel comfortable and loved. we love you
2:20
look some of these tips are good but some of them are very um- questionable. like wtf.
Fr this is supposed to be for teens and like it also said don't be desperate for a bf??it don't make sense
This is so wrong. Everyone has different clothes fits them and makes them attractive. I mean, I look awful in tight clothes and hoodies fit me the most 🫤
Hello Girls! I just want you to know it is better to journal at night because when you try to sleep most of the time you will have random thoughts in your mind, I journal every night and whatever i think i write it down, then later when i have no thoughts I go to sleep. It is fine to journal in the daytime but i recommend journaling or writing at night-time
3:59 pleaseee sleep on your back! I've been sleeping on the side of my face for many years which caused asymmetry on my face and I've always been insecure 😊
I disagree with "tighter clothes make you appear more attractive" - that's an opinion, not a fact. Loose or baggy clothes are fine, wear whatever you feel comfortable in.
This was so helpful i love how honest and helpful obakie is
Hi girls i do agree with this post wearing tight or fit clothing makes you look attractive. I recently started wearing fit clothes and i got better impression from many people.
0:38 OMG That is such a good idea! I can't buy ANYTHING, because I think, all will judge me...
I needed this so much
It was pretty helpful for me i'm 18 and i think i have a lot of time to change my life 🙂 go forward and do something beneficial for ourselves
Btw mostly i liked when you said " Don't worry what others think about you"🙃
Thanks you Obakie i for such as useful videos for us❤
Your like my guardian angel, thanks for all these tips, I'll make sure to follow them, stay safe and stay hydrated
are we really telling 10yo to paint their nails red to be more attractive¿
I was wondering if someone would say something😂 The “do this to appear more attractive” advice raised my eyebrow a little.
I wasn't ready for the first one 😭😭IT FEELS SO UNCOMFORTABLE WITHOUT IT HELP
No hate ! But honestly there are only 2 3 points which are nice for life and rest of thing are like "how to be attractive and make people fall in love at the age of 10 to 15.
Video says "be yourself " also telling about which color you should paint on your nails, wear tight clothes.
Hmm well I am 20 and I wanna say that just listen to your heart and your mom. You are young just enjoy your life like a kid 😘 ily
big sister who?! you!!!
you really help me, i’m gonna come back to your channel whenever i feel good, or need help.
i got my motivation from YOU!! today!
Me who prefers discord more than snapchat even though I have both: 👁👄👁
tysm, this is really helpful for me because i’ve just arrived in my teenage years 💗😊
0:33 but blue and black are cool too v:
Im 15 and I think I really needed this. Thank you so much you explained everything perfectly
0:24 lesbians watching this: 😭
“8+ hours of sleep”
School: pfft yeah right
Fr 😭
Thankyou obakie .. 💙 each of your advice are on point and it really helps us alot even though some of the Questions aren't applicable/ or not part of our life style you make us Relate And open our minds to it 💐 Love you 💗
im 19 and honestly my #1 advice is to always remember who you are and don't compare yourself with other people.
2:30 I have to have my alarm right next to me otherwise I genuinely can't hear it 😭 I keep it under my pillow
I don’t need a boyfriend because I’m an asexual, but please don’t pressure yourself into finding a boyfriend right away.
Can you suggest skincare routine for a 15 year old? And i'm chubby so i don't feel confident in most of the outfits so can u suggest also what should I wear?
im turning 19 on august but i cant assure yall that this is still helpful for me, not everything but some yuh.
Me when I cut my art teacher in half (she handed me scissors once)
Im turning 13 this year and Im actually thankful i found your channel, thanks! New subscriber heree
3:31 “Don’t waste your money on things you don’t need” sorry Stray Kids albums and skzoo plushes are not waiting
HI STAYYY
as a 19 yrs old, the actual advice i would give is to be comfortable with yourself. trust yourself, know yourself, know your capabilities, know your desires, know your wants, know how to care of yourself, accept yourself and such. promise me, every nice things in life starts within you. if you're happy and comfortable, eveything will follow.
2:36 bro I have phobia to eye contact ;-;
Wear whatever u want not just tighter clothes. if u wanna be more attractive its all confidence its hard ik but you can be confident. just remember that your gorgeous no matter what
4:15
My discharge: oh girl you better not
love the honesty in this video! super helpful