Flylady Back to Basics - Setting up a Daily Focus/Weekly Schedule (save time, eliminate stress)

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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2024
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  • @DianeinDenmark
    @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +8

    You can find more videos on setting up a daily focus/weekly schedule here ua-cam.com/play/PLxIYCyTLBED8zLVhPYDw7C2NWvMXWglQb.html

  • @RececcaClaire
    @RececcaClaire 5 років тому +31

    Diane, when you take off a jacket or cardigan to chat with us it reminds me of Mr. Rogers and how the show always started with him getting ready to talk to his friends in his home by changing his shoes and jacket. So cozy and welcoming :) Thinking back, he wore indoor shoes too!

  • @penelopesheehan5927
    @penelopesheehan5927 2 місяці тому

    As always, I’m renewed and refreshed by spending a bit of time with Diane! As I watched this video, I settled on two areas of weekly focus that I’m going to start today. One is that I’m going to set a day each week to focus on grooming and upkeep of myself; nails, hair, shoe and clothing care and repair. The other is that I’m going to make a list of friends whom I want to keep up with, and set one day each week to focus on reaching out to a particular friend. As a retiree, I need the structure to maintain these areas that used to seem to take care of themselves while I was working. Thank you, Diane!

  • @vtinecali
    @vtinecali 3 роки тому +5

    I’ve never heard a Yourtuber tell their audience to set a timer. Love it!!

  • @ellenh278
    @ellenh278 5 років тому +15

    My control journal at this point is a piece of graph paper written with routines,whb, and daily focus and slipped inside large Ziploc bag. I just use a permanent marker (dry erase was self erasing) and I check things off during the day/week. It erases very easily with a cloth and dab of rubbing alcohol. I will eventually do something more permanent but I'm still tweeking this list and probably will be for awhile. I use the opposite side for reminders or ideas for antiprocrastination day and menu etc. Diane said use what I had. I did. And so far it's all I've needed. (I did use pink and orange and green markers to write my different lists to cheer it up and I check it off with my 'happy color', purple. lol). I tend to overplan and under do....so this is a big win for me lol.

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +1

      I love how you kept it simple and effective, Ellen!

    • @ruthtorphy2204
      @ruthtorphy2204 5 років тому +1

      Ellen
      What a great idea Ellen. I’m going to copy that for our RV trips .
      Especially moving to a new place each week.
      I’m afraid we’ll forget to wind in the awning some morning😬

  • @judyhibel2894
    @judyhibel2894 5 років тому +11

    After a year and several lapses due to moving house and health issues, I think I’ve finally got it!!! Morning and evening routines in place. They are the framework! Then WHB on Mondays and 15 minutes in the current zone Tuesday-Friday ( I leave Saturday and Sunday for family time). Daily focus tucked in there Tuesday through Friday with the flexibility to switch up what happens on which day.
    Why did it seem so complicated? I think it was factoring in the zones. But now it all makes sense!!!
    Thank you so much Diane!!

  • @mixedmedialife7916
    @mixedmedialife7916 5 років тому +13

    I now think of the "daily focus" as a mindfulness practice. I know my life can't be controlled (😭) but it can be tended to and thoughtfully considered. The "plan" part of Tuesday's Plan & Play has become more and more valuable to me. Which reminds me - off to add to my list of things to consider on those days! Happy little Friday all 👋🎉

  • @PHDinMeTV
    @PHDinMeTV 5 років тому +53

    People are going start staring at me for saying Bahookie and Wee Bit and I will have Diane to blame! 😆 Enjoyed this video Diane especially the point of you don’t have to buy anything to get started! All it takes is just getting off of your Bahoo... See there it goes! Thanks for sharing 🌸

    • @mlelmendorf
      @mlelmendorf 5 років тому +6

      Along with "skoosh, skoosh." Haha. Love it!

    • @jacquelynkassa926
      @jacquelynkassa926 5 років тому +2

      Oh I’m there already. They think I’ve been on holidays!! 😆 rah rah rah!! I already say “Bob’s your uncle”!!

    • @deeh5048
      @deeh5048 5 років тому +3

      Exactly! And lighting my candles to make my environment more hygge! (“Hoogeh”)
      I’m even thinking in her accent now! Just love, love, love her and her videos!

  • @shrinkshy
    @shrinkshy 5 років тому +15

    “Or both of them” boom boom!
    Love you Dianne!

  • @kimtaylor9096
    @kimtaylor9096 5 років тому +6

    thank you Diane. And thanks for the link to the video about where you started. It's very encouraging and helpful because it is true that at times looking at your home, how clean, organized, and how easy it looks for you I forget that you did begin, at the beginning. I've tried the flylady system for short. Before and it is true that each step was, rewarding. Having the clothes picked out for the next day, leaving the kitchen in order, and I experienced that each thing led to another, naturally and easily. I kind of got into a groove and just found myself picking up things here and there or swish and swipe when I'm in the bathroom and it was satisfying and encouraging. Somewhere I dropped the ball I don't even remember now. I'm at a point of, Isurrender. I must have a disorganization gene or an ADHD brain or something but just to surrender and say OK, as you did in the introductory video, tell me what to do, stop thinking, and just do something. Including those baby steps but I have to say I hate shoes on in the house! I know you must hear that a lot but actually whenever I really want to clean I have to have shoes on! Always have. Thank you for your hospitality and sharing. 🙂

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +1

      Yay, go you, Kim! Yes, I enjoy wearing my indoor shoes - I get so much done!

  • @ruthtorphy2204
    @ruthtorphy2204 5 років тому +3

    Diane, Thank you. We are retired. Always on the move, as we have two married children plus two grandchildren in CA.
    This routine really helps when we return home
    It’s hard when a couple is not on the same page when in retirement.
    It’s all good when one has their health.
    My favorite saying “ Its good to be home”☘️🌞

  • @lindapetrey6708
    @lindapetrey6708 5 років тому +8

    I have been married 52 years. I just want you to know your advice is timeless and so helpful.

  • @TheaNicolaides
    @TheaNicolaides 5 років тому +7

    Going to gather some blankets, towels, etc. to donate for people in the Bahamas, and getting motivated! Thanks again, Diane! Have a beautiful day.

  • @gracemann391
    @gracemann391 4 роки тому +1

    You are very kind to do all of this for us!

  • @joyful8072
    @joyful8072 5 років тому

    Hi Diane, I'm like some of your other followers. I just don't seem to "click with" and get into following the FL system. But happy to report since following you here and watching you I am making progress on many long needed projects around the house. The one daily thing I am doing which helps a lot is the skoosh, skoosh. I am also motivated to get off my bahookie more and spend a few minutes doing something, anything. It really helps overall. Once I get through this big declutter project I think I will finally be able to get into the FL system as my mind will be 'freed up" to focus on it. It might be backwards to what is recommended but need to do it the way it works for me. Thanks always for the motivation you provide to your followers.

  • @n86784
    @n86784 5 років тому +2

    Hi from South Africa Diane! Your video's have made a huge difference in my life! Thank you so very much! Looks like we may have the first rains of Spring tonight, sky looks promising!

  • @jonathanpountney8071
    @jonathanpountney8071 5 років тому +6

    It's nice to have a refresh on systems particularly after the summer when they can slip (guilty). Lorna

  • @marythomas6452
    @marythomas6452 5 років тому +1

    Love the Spotify playlist idea ❣️

  • @barbararussell897
    @barbararussell897 3 роки тому +1

    I need a Frame work. Thank you

  • @jeannebowes2898
    @jeannebowes2898 5 років тому +2

    Pretty blouse on you! The daily focus is energizing and keeps me company in managing my small household. Actually pleased I do not have any errands or appointments today on the way to the gym, but may stop and purchase that new doormat for the front door( useful and attractive with the fall pots of flowers). PS. Later I realized I did have to get gas, so stopped at Costco , purchases needed household items to last through the winter, and purchased my first Christmas gift for son back east. I also checked my holiday supplies again and need nothing, all will be used. Batteries, tape, ribbon, cards ( I rewatched Super Cruising through the holidays last night).

  • @ADAstrong
    @ADAstrong 5 років тому +4

    Boom boom! You have me laughing 😂 every morning! Laughing is a good thing and it ties right into self-care too! Have a great day Diane!!! ❤️🌻

  • @margaretsofocleous8137
    @margaretsofocleous8137 5 років тому +2

    We are still melting here but hubby is much better. I will be getting in the sea in a few minutes. I always procrastinate cleaning my fridge but I did it yesterday I think I am going to go through some paperwork later today routines and zone is done so I can just enjoy my day and do a little shopping later. Have a wonderful day xxxxx Margaret

  • @annetterobinson5308
    @annetterobinson5308 5 років тому +1

    I love your term "little Friday"! I work 4 ten hour days from Monday through Thursday, so the term totally applies to my work week!♡

  • @jillz1542
    @jillz1542 2 роки тому

    framework - Yes. and if a person is too overwhelmed, exhausted, depression, actually can't make decisions and need the "Do this, do that" help

  • @karencompton5926
    @karencompton5926 5 років тому +4

    Good Morning Diane😘 Bit of blouse envy going on here 😉😂 As I started to watch you (despite MR, dinner in crockpot and a load of muffins cooked!) I thought I should earn your video so I got off my bahookie and featherdusted porch, hall, stairs, landing & office.....thanks Diane xxx

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 5 років тому +1

    Hi Diana
    Once again thank you so much
    You are an inspiration and you make me laugh
    You have a lovely personality
    So easy to listen to
    And so honest
    And yes I am well into fly lady
    And no I haven't got time yet but that don't matter
    I use the clock by timing myself for 15 mins this works for me
    I can't say this enough its really made me so relaxed
    Because I do my morning routine and evening
    And like you say chose your days for your jobs
    Weekly? Monthly
    I have really got I to the hang of it
    I am retired but Like my afternoons for myself to take part I in my activities for myself
    Diana God bless you and your family

  • @pattyomalley833
    @pattyomalley833 5 років тому +2

    You explain things very clearly. Thank you! Enjoy your day! 👋❤

  • @michellekennedyhawkins7995
    @michellekennedyhawkins7995 5 років тому

    September is the perfect time for a refresher course. I love your videos for this. Thank you.

  • @GoldStarWork
    @GoldStarWork 5 років тому +1

    I need this refresher cause I’ve been a bit slack with my routines lately.

  • @kathyrezac8591
    @kathyrezac8591 5 років тому +1

    I really, REALLY needed this today! Just moved from the wets coast of the US to the east coast and can’t seem to get myself back to “business”.

  • @erikam.2872
    @erikam.2872 5 років тому +2

    Dear Diane, thank you for your motivation and your tips. I follow you for quite a bit and try to integrate the Flylady methods into my life.
    I always wonder how you "manage" your children. My question is whether you also have routines with your children (homework, learning for tests or vocabulary). I often have the feeling that I spend a lot of time with it, and that afterwards I'm so exhausted that I would rather not do anything. Also disputes with my daughter (puperty) throw me completely off track. How do you deal with it? It would be nice if you could make a video about it.

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +2

      Hi Erika! I often talk about how my family uses routines during my Q & A videos - here's a link to the playlist ua-cam.com/play/PLxIYCyTLBED9fh1uPZwhq68Lx3pEXuPRm.html Remember to keep the routines/your children's routines as simple as possible - so that they are helping you and not making you exhausted! LOL!

  • @Magicme79
    @Magicme79 5 років тому

    It’s been raining pretty much constantly the last couple of days. So I’m burning candles for the first time this year. So ready for fall.

  • @karenramnath9993
    @karenramnath9993 5 років тому +3

    Skinny dipping! 🤭 You are full of unexpected surprises 😉

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому

      Here's the video on winterbathing(skinny dipping) ua-cam.com/video/b9KaaA4FqzA/v-deo.html

  • @leapwithjudy
    @leapwithjudy 5 років тому

    Hi from Australia! Love your videos! You are very calming!

  • @jeanninemorgan3526
    @jeanninemorgan3526 5 років тому +1

    Hi @dianeindenmark my FLY system got thrown into a tailspin because we had to evacuate for Hurricane Dorian. BUT as you say, the system is flexible- so as we just returned home, I’ll be doing my Weekly Home Blessing today. Followed by some me time and some nail polish 😃Love your videos 🖖☀️👍🏼🕶🌸🌼🌻☕️🍫🇺🇸

  • @leahkammeraad2746
    @leahkammeraad2746 3 роки тому +1

    My daughter likes your pearls she said your missing a pearl crown

  • @chrisrules1014
    @chrisrules1014 5 років тому +1

    That blouse looks gorgeous on you.

  • @dehaan714
    @dehaan714 5 років тому

    I love the cloth swap video’s! I’m curious about your new catch.

  • @mlelmendorf
    @mlelmendorf 5 років тому +2

    Oh my goodness, I am definitely going to start telling my children that it is "pupa time."

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +3

      Ha ha! I say it to my kids too...they are teens are roll their eyes! 😍

  • @angelabarbara139
    @angelabarbara139 2 роки тому

    it's been years I sometimes follow you, and you always say not to start a control journal, not to get a planner just pencil and paper will do. so when is the time to get organize and have some lists of routines and have an idea where we are at and going? I feel more scattered that way. your tips are great. but I see you have a control journal and a calendar. You can help us to make one.

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  2 роки тому

      I show you how to start a control journal here! 👋 Control Journal (Flylady): ua-cam.com/play/PLxIYCyTLBED9sZBtZ2s_TIR1T6K2ZHZbY.html and my Flylady Refresher videos are here 🎥ua-cam.com/play/PLxIYCyTLBED-1vdMwaAhm7Z_3Br__gals.html

  • @littlejoyeveryday8675
    @littlejoyeveryday8675 5 років тому

    Ms Diane i love you.you are aorable.thank you.hi from Greece

  • @pamelagroves2142
    @pamelagroves2142 5 років тому +1

    What is Hooga?

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому +3

      Hygge is the Danish art of making every day things special/taking time to enjoy the moment ua-cam.com/video/nEcWuFtQ6yk/v-deo.html

  • @haumea6166
    @haumea6166 5 років тому

    Where are you originally from?

    • @DianeinDenmark
      @DianeinDenmark  5 років тому

      Edinburgh, Scotland. Then worked in Luxembourg for 10 years, before moving permanently to Copenhagen.

  • @MsRazno
    @MsRazno 5 років тому

    Does anyone even use stamps and post-office?!?! We are in 2019... Most of post-offices are closing here.