Well.. come on now. There's always the odd pair of socks you don't need or want. Maybe the random tool you can use to do more work and make everyone else's lives easier.
@@decwow Now, I see your point, and totally agree with you as a dude who was raised primarily around women and always been expected to do every bit of hard work with absolutely zero appreciation for it, ever, buuuuuuut... I also REALLY like tools. Not that I've ever gotten any as a gift. Once again, proving OP's point.
Fenn's facial expressions are always so good, truly gets across just how these images get burnt into her soul. My friend has put a pizza in the oven without a baking tray before, it was so painful to see the result.
some people just assume their SO can read minds or something... but why talk to each other, when passive aggressive post on the internet generate "internet points" for you, i guess...?
The painted rock gift is what you give your girlfriend when she keeps saying “the gift doesn’t matter so long as it’s from you”. It’s basically a power play of “put your money where your mouth is”.
That pizza was a digiorno pizza and it actually supposed to cook right on the rack, but it seems the pizza did not enter in a frozen state, that is why that happened.
Nope. I've tried on multiple occasions from frozen, even with my freezer usually being set to a lower temperature than the manufacturer generally recommends, and every time they sag pretty freakin' bad. Not THIS bad, but still bad. Which is why I think it's ridiculous that they removed the cooking instructions for cooking on a baking sheet from the back of the box. Personally, I have a couple of pizza pans, just because I like pizza, as any upstanding individual should.
I hate the idea that men use weaponized incompetence to get out of work. Sometimes they just do a bad job because they don’t know how to do something. Everything men do is not malicious or meant to hurt women.
yeah, you need the situational context. Maybe he's never had one or been taught to use it right, or maybe hes pulling the same stunts I did with mom at 15 when I didn't want to do chores. We really can't pass judgement. Except for icecream cone guy, he's deranged.
I agree. People complain about weaponized incompetence too much. Often one partner just doesn't know better, or does a good job but does it differently.
@@avroarchitect1793 Considering that so many people nowadays can't even tell the difference between a boy and a girl, I think that not knowing how to best use a dishwasher is definitely the more likely of the two. Hell, I grew up in a house without a (working) dishwasher, then grew up to live in an apartment without a dishwasher. I know how because I still used them at other people's houses, but it's not too far fetched for someone to make it to adulthood without knowing how to use one properly. Hell, most people that DO know how to use one correctly don't even know that you need to clean the dishwasher itself on occasion. While someone being dumb may frustrate me, I don't know why someone's first assumption would be that said stupid person is being malicious, and this is coming from someone who's usually pretty quick to assume the worst of people.
6:58 he probably thought it was one of those pizzas that tell you to put it directly on the middle rack in the oven after removing the plastic film and cardboard cutout...
2:39 Extreeeeeeeemely rarely. We do not want to be considered incompetent. We don't use weakness as a weapon. If a man is doing this to you, you have REALLY pissed him off about the issue.
If those gumballs disgusted you, wait til you learn about the gum wall in San Francisco. Its an alleyway where people leave their gum and its *decades* worth of gum on the wall, its a bit of a tourist attraction
@@maxpowers9129 Meh, I've tried with them frozen rock-hard, and while not that bad, they usually sag WAY too much. Which is why I always give the instructions the finger and put it on a pizza pan.
If someone was to give me a rock with a skull painted on it I would be happy because they at least thought of getting me something. You know what they say it's the thought that counts. Also I like collecting rocks.😀
That failed pizza in the thumbnail is painful to look at and if they wanted to put the ice cream down they could've easily used a bowl or even a cup. Shaming a partner on the Internet rather than talking it out with them is such a lame behavior that should be considered a big red flag.
3:30 this isnt a guarenteed throw your oven out scenario like Fenn thinks, i mean, its not great, youre going to have to disable your smoke alarms, and it might destroy the heating element (emphasis on MIGHT, and even then its generally a cheaper part than an entire new oven) but scrape out most of it that you can, open a window, put the strongest fan youve got blowing at said window, run a cleaning cycle, and flee to the furthest room in the house that you can for a few hours. Might want to call your emergency services non emergency line too to let them know what youre doing and that the smoke plume coming from your window isnt your house burning down.
6:38 I got nothing, that there is blasphemy against ice cream. The manly way to handle the ice cream is to hold it in your mouth as your peeing and deal with the brain freeze.
I started watching this video but now I have to stop about 2 minutes in as it hurts to watch. That toxic thing about gifts is reminding me of the toxic relationship I'm in and trying to get out of.
Reached the end and it just felt like seeing the anti-men side of tiktok where they just post and bash and talk down about their husbands or boyfriends. First Fen video I've not enjoyed :/
Yo at 6:39 if I ever did this then that means I am 100% sure its clean so when I grab it I can either wipe down the spot or lick up the ice cream from the counter.
I have a feeling that Fenn would love Dadvocate's videos on "Womansplaining women to men" and "Womensplaining men to women" series.
I was thinking the same thing when during the dishwasher scene, the Dadvocate has an amazing explanation for that
Yeah, it's great little series.
0:05 Alternative title "Average amount of gifts man gets in his whole life aside of parents and bros".
Fr true
Well.. come on now. There's always the odd pair of socks you don't need or want. Maybe the random tool you can use to do more work and make everyone else's lives easier.
@@decwow Now, I see your point, and totally agree with you as a dude who was raised primarily around women and always been expected to do every bit of hard work with absolutely zero appreciation for it, ever, buuuuuuut...
I also REALLY like tools. Not that I've ever gotten any as a gift. Once again, proving OP's point.
This is called "partner shaming" and you'll notice that only one gender ever does it.
How much you wanna bet in that first clip, the wife said you don’t have to get me anything.
and we never saw wat she gave him 🤔
Fenn's facial expressions are always so good, truly gets across just how these images get burnt into her soul.
My friend has put a pizza in the oven without a baking tray before, it was so painful to see the result.
The first one can easily be framed for internet pity points.
I thought the stereotype was that’s men always have to redo the dishwasher after someone else just throws everything in haphazardly.
Oh lord... here we go again...
My ex wife was the one that loaded the dishwasher like that.
That's the way it is in my household.
some people just assume their SO can read minds or something...
but why talk to each other, when passive aggressive post on the internet generate "internet points" for you, i guess...?
4:07 that's Jack Skellington! That gift is amazing! 😭
You should never store anything in the oven that can't take the heat. The odds of someone in the family forgetting too check is way too high.
For real, I only keep my pans in the oven.
The painted rock gift is what you give your girlfriend when she keeps saying “the gift doesn’t matter so long as it’s from you”. It’s basically a power play of “put your money where your mouth is”.
That pizza was a digiorno pizza and it actually supposed to cook right on the rack, but it seems the pizza did not enter in a frozen state, that is why that happened.
@@darkenjm I cook most pizzas right on the rack. Never had a problem like this yet. There must have been a problem or hole in the crust.
I eat a lot of frozen pizza and the vast majority say to cook direct on the rack in the instructions.
@@Wynn_Silver I presume they let the pizza thaw instead of cooking from frozen
Nope. I've tried on multiple occasions from frozen, even with my freezer usually being set to a lower temperature than the manufacturer generally recommends, and every time they sag pretty freakin' bad. Not THIS bad, but still bad.
Which is why I think it's ridiculous that they removed the cooking instructions for cooking on a baking sheet from the back of the box. Personally, I have a couple of pizza pans, just because I like pizza, as any upstanding individual should.
If I had to put down an ice cream cone, I'd just stand it up in a glass
Legitimately never thought of that.
You're a genius!
I hate the idea that men use weaponized incompetence to get out of work. Sometimes they just do a bad job because they don’t know how to do something. Everything men do is not malicious or meant to hurt women.
yeah, you need the situational context. Maybe he's never had one or been taught to use it right, or maybe hes pulling the same stunts I did with mom at 15 when I didn't want to do chores. We really can't pass judgement.
Except for icecream cone guy, he's deranged.
I agree. People complain about weaponized incompetence too much. Often one partner just doesn't know better, or does a good job but does it differently.
@@avroarchitect1793 Considering that so many people nowadays can't even tell the difference between a boy and a girl, I think that not knowing how to best use a dishwasher is definitely the more likely of the two. Hell, I grew up in a house without a (working) dishwasher, then grew up to live in an apartment without a dishwasher. I know how because I still used them at other people's houses, but it's not too far fetched for someone to make it to adulthood without knowing how to use one properly.
Hell, most people that DO know how to use one correctly don't even know that you need to clean the dishwasher itself on occasion.
While someone being dumb may frustrate me, I don't know why someone's first assumption would be that said stupid person is being malicious, and this is coming from someone who's usually pretty quick to assume the worst of people.
7:42....The way you screamed SUBSCRIBE was so adorable, LOL
6:58 he probably thought it was one of those pizzas that tell you to put it directly on the middle rack in the oven after removing the plastic film and cardboard cutout...
2:39 Extreeeeeeeemely rarely. We do not want to be considered incompetent. We don't use weakness as a weapon. If a man is doing this to you, you have REALLY pissed him off about the issue.
If those gumballs disgusted you, wait til you learn about the gum wall in San Francisco.
Its an alleyway where people leave their gum and its *decades* worth of gum on the wall, its a bit of a tourist attraction
I think I need a Hep A, B, and C cure just reading this.....
Welp. Time to go lick the gum wall!
fennryn's right, some cheese would be good right now.
oh wait, sorry,
Some cheese would be GOUDA right now.
5:44 that man is a serial killer in the making.
5:55 ah yes, my favorite rat V-Tuber.
For the pizza one, many bake your own pizza explicitly say to put it on the rack.
I think that might have been a thawed frozen pizza that got soggy before it was put in the oven.
@@maxpowers9129 Meh, I've tried with them frozen rock-hard, and while not that bad, they usually sag WAY too much.
Which is why I always give the instructions the finger and put it on a pizza pan.
Only 2 in and am already feeling bad for Fennryn.
If someone was to give me a rock with a skull painted on it I would be happy because they at least thought of getting me something. You know what they say it's the thought that counts. Also I like collecting rocks.😀
I always love the expressions you show omg, fox girl vibes max level achieved ❤
That failed pizza in the thumbnail is painful to look at and if they wanted to put the ice cream down they could've easily used a bowl or even a cup.
Shaming a partner on the Internet rather than talking it out with them is such a lame behavior that should be considered a big red flag.
I shall now NEVER put it on the coaster!
3:30 this isnt a guarenteed throw your oven out scenario like Fenn thinks, i mean, its not great, youre going to have to disable your smoke alarms, and it might destroy the heating element (emphasis on MIGHT, and even then its generally a cheaper part than an entire new oven) but scrape out most of it that you can, open a window, put the strongest fan youve got blowing at said window, run a cleaning cycle, and flee to the furthest room in the house that you can for a few hours. Might want to call your emergency services non emergency line too to let them know what youre doing and that the smoke plume coming from your window isnt your house burning down.
Fennryn: I hope he was trimming his beard.
Me: He wasn't. Have fun cleaning that up.
6:40 we don't affiliate with this guy. That's weird as hell.
6:38 I got nothing, that there is blasphemy against ice cream. The manly way to handle the ice cream is to hold it in your mouth as your peeing and deal with the brain freeze.
Good to know that i'm a manly man.
that man is deranged.
2:09 There will be times this bad. You work through it and move on. f you're advocating divorce over just this, perhaps marriage isn't for you.
ah, yes, The ultimate tea
2:00 I'm fine with this one. I wouldn't be posting pictures about it, but I would definitely return things and tell her to her face why I did so.
I started watching this video but now I have to stop about 2 minutes in as it hurts to watch. That toxic thing about gifts is reminding me of the toxic relationship I'm in and trying to get out of.
Don’t listen to the gum pile part with your eyes closed
Sometimes I wish I was cheese
Fenn, let me buy your cozy house from you 🏠 !!!!
3:50 I think it could be cleaned up?
As a Swiss I feel offended that you would disrespect cheese by putting it as slices into a paquage. But everyone can have their wrong opinion
the technical term is "Weaponized Incompetence"
Reached the end and it just felt like seeing the anti-men side of tiktok where they just post and bash and talk down about their husbands or boyfriends. First Fen video I've not enjoyed :/
Yo at 6:39 if I ever did this then that means I am 100% sure its clean so when I grab it I can either wipe down the spot or lick up the ice cream from the counter.
Wipe it down or lick it? It needs to be wiped down either way.😂
Is this just a men-bashing video?