Woooiii don't judge this lady,,shinda ni baya sana inafanyanga mtu kuwa patient ukingoja mazuri kesho.mtu huwa minds zimekuama kabisa.i understand her.then bila pesa unashindangwa naenda wapi nianze wapi.may the Lord remember her in a mighty way
Its terrible to hear these stories on daily basis.I agree with what Wambui said,once you have children your life must be about your kids so that the next generation of kid's wouldn't be so much damaged .We are not doing our children any favors by staying in a situation where domestic violence occurs daily.They will be marred by iit in their lives.. Their is no way a person who loves you or his family want harm or pain in his family.
Hw do people keep on going back to toxic relationship nt once or twice, shukuru mungu uko hai, let this be a lesson to every single lady, better ukae single bt uko na peace
Ruru rugano onaharia wambui urauga tutigathii haraya nimuracokereria,,,aii rutiramenyeka kuria ruroretee,,,,but wamama wajifunze kupenda watoto wao kuliko marriage,,,,uyu mutumia anabore saana ,,ukahurirwo mwana akaimba na akauga ndakwire ngoro think twice ukwenda haroo wee ,,,im single mum 4 the last 11yrs na siwezi linganisha watoto wangu na mtu yeyote ,,
@@sarahthuku4859inakaa nhuyu mschana ni type yako,,,,how comes mtoto anagogwa kichwa na the following day anagogwa side ingine na unasema dwakuire ngoro,,,,,
Nlikua na boy friend alikua ameanza hiyo tabia ati kunigongea mtoi ile siku alimgonga the next day nlikua stage nkirudi kwetu 😂🤣🤣 akaniletea wazee nka wa waacha apo wakiji ongelesha mm sipendi ujinga anani gongea mtoto kwa nn
Hawa watu violent mostly they are quick to say sorry and they didnt change,wangu alinsho anaweza niua na aede aite watu wetu wanitazame nkiwa mortury,mimi hio nguvu ya kulala huko ilinishinda till to day,i afraid married again 17 yrs back,may the lord protect your daughter
Kuna siz ya Dad aliolewa na mtu kama uo vita through out... mwishowe alipata pressure na her 3 daughters awajawai olewa. ...bona mtu avunilie ujinga asiitwe single mother 😏
Akuhura ria mbere urenge kura engutura akuhuranga ta mboco......pia mtoto anasapwa juu ya nini hapo hakuna upendo alafu usikie amekatwo mikono nii urimu ucio ndigienda..mundu abatie athome na ria mbere....anyway Ngai amuteithiee
By the way it's good ata kueda kwa akina the so called husband uliizie watu wa area siku hizi unaeza fuata mtu aliuaa na hujui iyo damu ikue inawafuata. Weee
najaribu kufanya mahesabu yangu ....lets assume unakula 100 kwa hoteli na bwana ata atumie 50 bob...thats 150 bob a day.....in a month that is 4500......mbona msilipe hao 2k iyo ingine 2500 mjipange.....alaaaaaa........
Uyu ena ngoma... Nii ingihika na mwana mundurume anafaa apede mtoi mwenye ulioleka na yy kushida mwenye ata utazaa na yy... Ulionyeshwa red flags mapema but huezi safe life ya mtoi unampitishia traumer... Weee unafaa police
What women go thr in the name of marriage, only God knows,how women sacrifice themselves to save marriages bt men never appreciate,God will help her find her kid.weeeee ikifika ni watoi jipee shughuli and love your kids most
Pls women lets us not comment harshly towards this young woman let us show kindness and empathy...and support we all need to be there for each other...to elevate each other as women to raise up together. Some comments here are just heartbreaking. Sometimes people seems strong from tge outside but inside tgey are totally broken...childhood traumas are a trigger to getting into traumatic abusive relationships. You become enslaved to the narcissist they are very manupilative...very controlling...very calculating...very confusing. One day very loving the next ver angry and aggressive (love bombing). This young woman needs counseling. If you have never walked in such a relationship pls do not comment.
Sijawatch sana but can tell as always I say... Kenyan ladiez are very cheap as chipo mwitu.. mtu unakatiwa ata hujui kwao, hujui wazazi wake, hajui kwenu ushaapanua miguu unaza. Alafu unakuja hapa kutupea ati rugano... Me I always value my kids more even than a president. My kid first.
@@ndungugathua5515 ata cc wenye hatunanga kwetu maplots ziko...me i remember in 2017 one guy wanted to hurt me kuongea na mmake akadai eti fulani aezi faanya hivo ata wa leo cjai muona nilitoka km cjui naenda wapi...n today God amenitendea makubwa sana...wamebaki kuumwa na wivu😂😂😂 na kuchapa km ghasia...
Characteristics of a narcissist.
1. Do not talk to your brothers or sisters or your people
Woooiii don't judge this lady,,shinda ni baya sana inafanyanga mtu kuwa patient ukingoja mazuri kesho.mtu huwa minds zimekuama kabisa.i understand her.then bila pesa unashindangwa naenda wapi nianze wapi.may the Lord remember her in a mighty way
Ukweli
My children, my first priority
I can't compare them with anyone
Its terrible to hear these stories on daily basis.I agree with what Wambui said,once you have children your life must be about your kids so that the next generation of kid's wouldn't be so much damaged .We are not doing our children any favors by staying in a situation where domestic violence occurs daily.They will be marred by iit in their lives.. Their is no way a person who loves you or his family want harm or pain in his family.
It is very unfortunate to marry an enemy instead of a friend.
An enpowered woman will not go through this kind of hardships.Ladies earn your own money, don"t wait for a man to feed you!.
May she get the help she needs.she is beautiful
Hw do people keep on going back to toxic relationship nt once or twice, shukuru mungu uko hai, let this be a lesson to every single lady, better ukae single bt uko na peace
Narcissist feel always right
Hawa watu wao wanajua kwenye walienda
May u get ua right mum
Ruru rugano onaharia wambui urauga tutigathii haraya nimuracokereria,,,aii rutiramenyeka kuria ruroretee,,,,but wamama wajifunze kupenda watoto wao kuliko marriage,,,,uyu mutumia anabore saana ,,ukahurirwo mwana akaimba na akauga ndakwire ngoro think twice ukwenda haroo wee ,,,im single mum 4 the last 11yrs na siwezi linganisha watoto wangu na mtu yeyote ,,
Shame on you ukitushiana ujue kwanza vle mtu ameteseka
Hata vile huyu dame anaongea something is just not adding up.Ati eating in a hotel?
@@sarahthuku4859inakaa nhuyu mschana ni type yako,,,,how comes mtoto anagogwa kichwa na the following day anagogwa side ingine na unasema dwakuire ngoro,,,,,
@@sarahthuku4859 ko utari hakiri unaweza je tesewa mtoto ukiangalia na macho???she is fool ata sijamhurumia
Matumia mangi matiri mitigo mimi mtu hawezi nitesea mtoi...aiii apana weee apana no no
Ati nyani igiri
Red flags are your eye opener and if you fail to find solution early mambo hukupata Huwa hard🥺😌
"Common sense is common but not to all," mutoto ateseke in the name of saving marriage does it make sense
It doesnt
😝
Ooi I was thinking its me am sharing my story juu its exactly my story
Mimi siwezi rudi kwetu more than three times and the man repeating the same mistake wanawake amukeni this love blindness 😢
Never one slap naenda nikiendanga
Leave alone 3 times kutoka c wezi rudi huko
May God see you through... Na gwathuka kiura ruga.
Na wimenyerere conmen....naunjipende kwanza na watoto wako pia then utapata mtoto in Jesus Name..
Amen 🙏
I wish she screamed to alert neighbours even once
Wooiye namesake pole may God locate your child back to you safe and sound 🙌🙏
Uciu ithe ndagiriire gucorwo na mwana. Very dangerous
Wah.umepitia mengi sana my sister Ngai arokuririkana
Nlikua na boy friend alikua ameanza hiyo tabia ati kunigongea mtoi ile siku alimgonga the next day nlikua stage nkirudi kwetu 😂🤣🤣 akaniletea wazee nka wa waacha apo wakiji ongelesha mm sipendi ujinga anani gongea mtoto kwa nn
Good advice wambui you such a blessing,,,keep on moving on
Wairimu onawe wi funny thimo kae yari yanyu inyueri ona mundu ndagikiraga PIN
My ex was just like yours...I went through hell .. until I couldn't hold it no more...I called it quits...🥺🥺
Sorry,
Hawa watu violent mostly they are quick to say sorry and they didnt change,wangu alinsho anaweza niua na aede aite watu wetu wanitazame nkiwa mortury,mimi hio nguvu ya kulala huko ilinishinda till to day,i afraid married again 17 yrs back,may the lord protect your daughter
That's too much for her,and how she is young ,and cute
Ndio maana I choose not get married again kwanza na watoto wangu heli ni kae single mother for the security of my children
@@joycewanjiru9813 same too me dear now it's 5yrs down the line
@@joycewanjiru9813 u too I choose peace n secure My kids
Bona wambui hii story unakaa kuboika
True it's like shs is doubting or sensing something.
@@nancynguyo8100 Eeee
Niukweli ameboeka
Nimehurumia huyo mtoto wa shule...I think vile Mimi napenda watoto wangu siwezi Kaa na mtu kama huyo...urudi kwenyu more than 6times 🤔🤔🤔rekee nemwoo
Ucio Ni Muguruki
I wish parents know how childhood traums affects a child am 27 years and I still remember what I say growing up
Watishereu maisha kiura ruga
Waaaaa hi ndio tunaitanga bottom up ya maisha niguo youth mararega kuhikania na kuhika Ngai akuonekanire Kairatu wone mwana waku.
Characteristics of a sadistic man,weeeh wanawake tujipende i say!
Hi Wambo, you looking pretty as always.
Ile time tunatafuta ma bibi wa zuli kama Jane aki mwingine hataki I wish God would give me a good wife like hear
Kuna siz ya Dad aliolewa na mtu kama uo vita through out... mwishowe alipata pressure na her 3 daughters awajawai olewa. ...bona mtu avunilie ujinga asiitwe single mother 😏
Who said we. Must get married
Women let's empower ourselves aki before marriage
I can imagine the trauma in the elder boy...he needs counselling to avoid inconveniences in his future....
Ngai Ndurarwa na niguo i shukuru njega ninge ni mwaruta mwana kuo heeehe
Pole sana
Huyu mama Ni genuine kabisa
Ucio uhiki wahianaga ta makofi maria makilo funga funga funga fungua fungua
Múndúrume angikúringa ria mbere agútura akúraga ta mbembe cia githii. arafu wedo wagúcirirúo ndútúraga tene tene..
Akuhura ria mbere urenge kura engutura akuhuranga ta mboco......pia mtoto anasapwa juu ya nini hapo hakuna upendo alafu usikie amekatwo mikono nii urimu ucio ndigienda..mundu abatie athome na ria mbere....anyway Ngai amuteithiee
@@wambuinjuguna1431 Yeah akúhura ria mbere eguturaa uguo..Arafu wedo ndúciragirúo tondú mundu mugima arakanio atia ati ndakarúe natimwana nioii úria areka..Nii ndingihota kwanja múndú urakuhurira mwana tiwega
By the way it's good ata kueda kwa akina the so called husband uliizie watu wa area siku hizi unaeza fuata mtu aliuaa na hujui iyo damu ikue inawafuata. Weee
No riu kwariamari uyu handu hatulogini na mirire ya mukawa I ndungithire wira🤔ona muthuri ucio nieciragia muno mutumia ni gwiciria haraihu
Gikuyu akiuga cira wa kirimo uturaga riko uka thie uka thie Mundu akeyaka ri kana iganire
najaribu kufanya mahesabu yangu ....lets assume unakula 100 kwa hoteli na bwana ata atumie 50 bob...thats 150 bob a day.....in a month that is 4500......mbona msilipe hao 2k iyo ingine 2500 mjipange.....alaaaaaa........
Uyu ena ngoma... Nii ingihika na mwana mundurume anafaa apede mtoi mwenye ulioleka na yy kushida mwenye ata utazaa na yy... Ulionyeshwa red flags mapema but huezi safe life ya mtoi unampitishia traumer... Weee unafaa police
May she take the threats seriously;
Woi waturugini wanyuri..ahikite dayscholar....woi we just hope that she will get justice she deserves
What happens to the shop because he closed the shop early to come home, to start the fight?
My question too
Wuuui she has gone through hell. May God have mercy
What women go thr in the name of marriage, only God knows,how women sacrifice themselves to save marriages bt men never appreciate,God will help her find her kid.weeeee ikifika ni watoi jipee shughuli and love your kids most
Huyu dem ako 2 sawa but mbona ukubali kutumiwa vibaya hivi aiii
Hiyo stori...
Wira urio oho kana niwahigiro?
Hapo day schooler marriage 💑
Icii ni ciarega mitheko🙄🙄mundu wa kuhura mwana wakwa hatiri undu tungiareriria nake,nakanyanga kubwa kubwa very early in the morning...
Wambui wa Mwangi!!!!!!
Nikuranyitana my dear.
Yani unavumilia hiyo vita yote kwanza nugu hustler haina any siwezi then ur parents are not serious
Pls women lets us not comment harshly towards this young woman let us show kindness and empathy...and support we all need to be there for each other...to elevate each other as women to raise up together. Some comments here are just heartbreaking.
Sometimes people seems strong from tge outside but inside tgey are totally broken...childhood traumas are a trigger to getting into traumatic abusive relationships. You become enslaved to the narcissist they are very manupilative...very controlling...very calculating...very confusing. One day very loving the next ver angry and aggressive (love bombing). This young woman needs counseling. If you have never walked in such a relationship pls do not comment.
Mungu shuka tu uingilie kati
Aiii kwani umelananiwa ndio ukae kwa marriage ya vita
AKUEda nduka
Hee ucio niguturika ati aiguaga wega akuhuura.Ingimutaima etoro anaweza tii😏😏😏
Uyu koruo ehakuhi nanii ingiamba dimunyue ikobi, ritahana niurimu uria enaguo.
Hahaha 😆
Ucio mwanake Ni muturiku muno
Mtoto wako hawezi kusahau lkn muthuri nigutee
Wanaume manugu maya sasa mtoto mnamuumizanga mbona
Gathage gwitu🙊
Kwetu pia
Kwiragwo "Kunyita nda" kana "kunyitia nda"?
Ukiona red 🚩potea siz unangoja nn
Huyu anakaa familiar 🤔
you were married to a narcissist, these are exactly their traits
Aki women why do u get energy go pliz go
Haki wazazi wetu hupitia mambo
Meaning he closed the wholesale you said he had opened
Sijawatch sana but can tell as always I say... Kenyan ladiez are very cheap as chipo mwitu.. mtu unakatiwa ata hujui kwao, hujui wazazi wake, hajui kwenu ushaapanua miguu unaza. Alafu unakuja hapa kutupea ati rugano... Me I always value my kids more even than a president. My kid first.
Mimi ata password ya simu yangu hawezi jua leave alone kusoma text na calls
Waiting
Pole kwa yote umepitia lkn wewe unajitafutia furaha yako unasahau watoto. Pole lakini
Kwani ww ni mende ya wapi
Nalitaka niulize same same hizi shida mtu mmoja
Wueh sad indeed 😭😭
This what am going through though mine stay with her dad mum "grandma" am not happy at all bt since it's happened l have nothing to say bt to pray ...
All of you adults failed the school going kid
Endeleeni kuforce ussues uku nje na mnaona
Hey,,Kwani Watu wengine huwaga hawana kwao,,hio mapenzi siwezi,,..
@@ndungugathua5515 ata cc wenye hatunanga kwetu maplots ziko...me i remember in 2017 one guy wanted to hurt me kuongea na mmake akadai eti fulani aezi faanya hivo ata wa leo cjai muona nilitoka km cjui naenda wapi...n today God amenitendea makubwa sana...wamebaki kuumwa na wivu😂😂😂 na kuchapa km ghasia...
@@gracewangari8121 mimi wangu aliniuma skio ikaaguka nilitoka 2018 nikaeda bahrine sijawahi rudi kenya
@@janewairimuwaritha1302 ghai 😂😂 kwani ulikuanga umeolewa na cannibal pole oiy mama...ebu tuhustle....mapenzi achie maslayqueen😂
@@janewairimuwaritha1302 weee pole aki but hii ya kuuma mpaka skio inaanguka ni serious 😂😂😂
Kwani how much do you love marriage ladies pls stop being desperate
You need the raw hard truth,you did not use your brain at aaaaaallllllllllll