This family will never get another daughter in-law like this one. Anyway ndīrī njega ndīcemanagia na. mûthī mwega. Hongera Phyllis Kwa kuvumilia na pole kwa yote uliopitia, Mungu atakubariki kwa njia ingine. Take heart.
Phyllis you are a very great woman.I salute you for your wisdom.You deserve respect and love but not pain and frustration.Oh God please bless her to succeed in everything.
Very calm young lady... How I wish you completed your education... Its not too late. God will bless you to provide for your son.... May favour follow you....
Wambui,,,you always do it very right,,,your advice ,your parting line is always very educative and important....May God give U always that knowledge to help our families understand we reap what we sow
Haki Wambui My sisters matharikagira mutumia wa my brother utuku andu me toro bro yakwa atari kuo!! Maa umuthi uyu thiina uria makoragwo naguo Wah wah nyonaga ni mitugo iyo mekaga
But why are some men so fortunate to have such forthright wife,forgiving and ready to move on and yet they continue hurting them in every action they do.This lady shall surely succeed in happy life because her conscience is sincere.I loved her forgiving nature because some of us if wife suspects any love affair outside you shall neve have peace in your life.
Only God k'ows what i went the hands of mother-in-law, but nashukulu mungu i left the marriage and am very proud mother of two and i don't regret being single coz kaa ningdkaq kwa hko marriage ningekufa kitambo, Phillis mungu ata kuonekania you are a good woman
Philis or I introduce you to my brother,he's a widower and his last born is in class 7, although he's on his fifty's,I would want you to have a home.your so good to stay alone.
Mutumia ngatha niuyu,don't lose hope, your future is in the hands of God.You are still young you will get another man if that one is not planned for you
In my opinion, I feel like if we contribute & may be Wambui plugs her with a good agency ya kwenda Dubai,Qatar etc she can progress very well, husband & in-laws will just be hearing of her progress from a distance,she seems & sounds like a very hardworking woman
Pole sana phily for what you went through,what l love about the whole story is that you didn't waste your time pretending that all was well,you took a step and left that home. Even if the husband didn't expect that,he contributed when he sided with her mother and that so called house help. Anyway Philis you are one in a million and God will never leave you nor forsake you.put your trust in Him and He will direct your steps.Your future is bright 🌞
But sometimes keeping silent in the name of acting mature can harm oneself,its good to call a spade a spade and pour everything on the table,whatever will happen the solution will come afterwards 😉
The mother in law was mean but the meanest of them all was the husband who disrespected her so. Phyllis dear, imagine you should thank God that you left. That environment was poisonous; not just for you,but your son's as well. Those sisters in law will never know peace. All the best dear.
So while her parents were busy hustling for her fees, she was busy doing other manenos?? Sometimes some masaibu that happens in one's life ni ya kujiletea tuu...if she could have concentrated with her studies first, maybe she could have changed her thoughts za kuolewa early......And again why did her parents plus the In-laws didn't intervene for her to finish first high school first, some college or university? Some parents 🤦!!!... their reasoning is out of this world...
The question ⁉️ am asking myself is, sasa coz huyu mama amefunguka, si aibu itamaliza hao sisters in law na mother in law. What will they tell the village pple now that the truth has come out? Second, coz this sisters in law have kid's, do they think their children especially girls will ever have peace in their marriages? Ya dunia ni hapa hapa2.
My husband used to sleep with his relatives, elderly women, his boss who was a man,his biological mum,n now the reason made me quit is finding him in a very compromising situation when playing with my 2 yrs old girl. It's a long story.cant share ata mtoto Leo n she is almost 10 yrs now ananiulizanga y I left her dad n can't say anything since she is still under age.this made me introduce myself in to drugs which am fighting with till today. I have now decided to be a lesbian.i hate men with my everything that makes me a human being
The devil uses people to destroy you, in your case, he made you take the wrong route of self destruction. Repent, pick yourself up and shame the devil. I don't think you are happy. Anyways sorry about what you went through, glad you left.
My sister you did good you left the marriage for your child but don’t let him destroy you completely. I have nothing against lesbians but don’t self destroy yourself for the sake of a psychopath. . .
Why do people enjoy making others cry? those sisters wajue walijiletea curse kwao na watoto yao, venye sisi hutetea mabibi za brother zetu na ata sio eti wako wazuri saana. This girl is so mature and has a heart of gold.
Nice lady God give her peace .u will make it even me my mother in-law pass me hell and make her son useless.mother in-laws wale hufanyia daughter in-laws hivyo just know there is God na pia ni watoto wa watu.na kuweza kusama my there's God.
Mother in law kwà nini ulifanya hivyo na uko na watoto.malipo ni hapa Dunia nyinyi wasichana muobe Mungu awasamehe Pyllis gipe nguvu Mungu ata kubariki
mmmmh!!! Madam Phylis ! you should be glad that you are out of that mess at the best time, you are young , healthy , physically fit and a mother , many women are chased out of the matrimonial home with many many children and nothing to feed them neither a mother to welcome them back home . shake the dust of a crazy family and look forward for a good life . forgive and move on .
Aki sometimes when you think about marriage unachoka tu..but to the single ladies marriage to be honest it's not a bed of roses..crying kwanza unajifungia you cry unamaliza n continue with the marriage,stress,depression lazima utapata..
I can relate,, ur well analysed, mm huskia ndoa feeling zinaisha,, heri single life najitafutia bila stress za mwanaume,, i was once married... The rest is history
Wow, yaani heartless characters and the Dad and bro wanahanya huyu mam mzee, tabia mbovuu, the pain, God will fight for an innocent soul from high school to kufukuzwa na wazazi, mother in law 😈 too, I kan't
Hii dunia Jameni, If the housegirl was sleeping with her husband and father in law then the husband comes to sleep with the wife it means "Mugiro" has settled in. Amewachanga na damu
Welcome to komothai where most families are ruined by inlaws ,am from komothai and i feel for you dear coz i was once a victim, don't give up gal watakuja kukutafuta but you'll be nowhere to be seen since God will lift you to another level...
When Africans abandoned their culture and followed mzungu........ That's the time we lost real discipline that our elders would give........ Unless we go back... This things will continue happening..... The men or women u see today misbehaving could have been corrected when were boys/girls!!!!!!! Things would be better
@@wamweru9286 and that's that's why if we maintained our traditions things would be different...... Those days it was very very rare to find such happening because elders would gather.... I meant such sin were feared..... There were not even rapes that we see today..... Respect and discipline was on high standard.......
Huyo mother in law hana shukurani kabisa,umshighulikie mumewe hosipitalini na matumizi ,still hela yako anakupea mahitaji yake ,kwaga hadafu na Tamaa! Your husband's infidelity was too much!To those sisters in law,the same shall come to happen to your gals marriage,watafukuzwa hivyo mlifukuza huyu mama.Both your hubby and his mother failed you seriously.You are strong gal ,mungu akufungulie upate Job ,you will make it.
What I don't understand is how parents from both sides allowed the lady to drop her education to get married and do vibarua...it doesn't make sense at all
I was of the same opinion. A man who encourages you to drop out of school to marry him instead of waiting for you to finish with your studies is bad news from start. I wont judge her harshly coz she was too young to make wise decisions. That was your first mistake dear. Sad.
Ata bwanako hakua anakupeda my sister,,,,hajakudefend,,,,ingekua ni wengine wangeanguka Hapo kama dege,huyo bwana die nimelaumu.hajakushow support ya kusimama na wewe wachana nao wake huko
Ndakwira maa,, mm nilikam gulf nikiwa sija heal nilikua na lia kama mtoto, lkn nashukuru huku ni rehabilitation ata ikiwa ni ku ngumu at end month kuna salary.... Gulf has made my heart to iron am healed...
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Have never seen a wiser, more composed and mature woman. I wish her well.
She has a huge heart. Some of us would never have taken such scrap from men. I salute you for being such a patient girl. I will call you tomorrow 🥰
A very composed and calm lady. May the good Lord restore you in Jesus mighty name
This family will never get another daughter in-law like this one. Anyway ndīrī njega ndīcemanagia na. mûthī mwega. Hongera Phyllis Kwa kuvumilia na pole kwa yote uliopitia, Mungu atakubariki kwa njia ingine. Take heart.
I back u she deserves true love
You are a woman of substance. God will enlarge your territory and make you whole 🙏 🙌
Philis such a beautiful girl.i wish my son would meet a lady like you.mutiga mwahu akoraga igima.God is ahead of you.
Natasha blessings,give me your no,I connect you with him
From the start to end this lady is a super woman indeed a super woman .hugs hugs mum .the knowledge and wisdom u have it's on another laver
Phyllis you are a very great woman.I salute you for your wisdom.You deserve respect and love but not pain and frustration.Oh God please bless her to succeed in everything.
This sweet lady has a heart of Gold.Waaah your beyond and God is not blind he will reward you my dear.God bless you
Very calm young lady... How I wish you completed your education... Its not too late. God will bless you to provide for your son.... May favour follow you....
She was so young to go all through this some men are wicked and heartless but karma will catch on him niakamenya Ngai witu ndariaga ngima
Wambui,,,you always do it very right,,,your advice ,your parting line is always very educative and important....May God give U always that knowledge to help our families understand we reap what we sow
Haki Wambui My sisters matharikagira mutumia wa my brother utuku andu me toro bro yakwa atari kuo!! Maa umuthi uyu thiina uria makoragwo naguo Wah wah nyonaga ni mitugo iyo mekaga
But why are some men so fortunate to have such forthright wife,forgiving and ready to move on and yet they continue hurting them in every action they do.This lady shall surely succeed in happy life because her conscience is sincere.I loved her forgiving nature because some of us if wife suspects any love affair outside you shall neve have peace in your life.
Hardworking young composed woman. You will find your king.
Only God k'ows what i went the hands of mother-in-law, but nashukulu mungu i left the marriage and am very proud mother of two and i don't regret being single coz kaa ningdkaq kwa hko marriage ningekufa kitambo, Phillis mungu ata kuonekania you are a good woman
Such a young soul with painful story may God give you peace
Philis or I introduce you to my brother,he's a widower and his last born is in class 7, although he's on his fifty's,I would want you to have a home.your so good to stay alone.
Hi namesy
Mundu wi tayari gwaka mucii.mundu mwikindiru
Teresia wambui niambie vile nitakuibox pliz nikwambie
@@teresiawambui3372 nipee huyo brother yako, nko single with two kids 🙈🙈
@@teresiawambui3372 I'm here.
Mutumia ngatha niuyu,don't lose hope, your future is in the hands of God.You are still young you will get another man if that one is not planned for you
Pole sana
God is a silent listener,He watched all this,,He will revenge for you.May God comfort and strengthen you.
phylis you are such a wise lady may you open your heart for love coz you were in a toxic relationship kuunika kwa muiko ti muico wa kuruga ngima
Young but very very mature woman may her change soon.
😘
does she have a young sister coz she have a golden heart very rare to find
Afadhali phillis kuliko mwenye hujui (sister yake)
But philis asha move on so i don't chances 😂 am serious although
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She is such a hard-working beautiful lady..God bless her
In my opinion, I feel like if we contribute & may be Wambui plugs her with a good agency ya kwenda Dubai,Qatar etc she can progress very well, husband & in-laws will just be hearing of her progress from a distance,she seems & sounds like a very hardworking woman
The guy was Mama's boy mjinga sana.. sorry for what you passed through the in-laws and may God's blessings shine on you
Pole sana phily for what you went through,what l love about the whole story is that you didn't waste your time pretending that all was well,you took a step and left that home. Even if the husband didn't expect that,he contributed when he sided with her mother and that so called house help.
Anyway Philis you are one in a million and God will never leave you nor forsake you.put your trust in Him and He will direct your steps.Your future is bright 🌞
But sometimes keeping silent in the name of acting mature can harm oneself,its good to call a spade a spade and pour everything on the table,whatever will happen the solution will come afterwards 😉
Pole sana dear omba sana mungu atakupa nguvu bdo unauchungu mwingi sana
May God help you to forgive them. 🙏May God bless u strong woman of God.
The mother in law was mean but the meanest of them all was the husband who disrespected her so. Phyllis dear, imagine you should thank God that you left. That environment was poisonous; not just for you,but your son's as well.
Those sisters in law will never know peace.
All the best dear.
She is very honest thanks to her
Wambui î nduri muthaka. Too smart baby gal. And God bless you for the hope you are bringing back to the society. May the Lord move you higher dear
thanks gal🙏
The Lady is very matured🥰that man lost a gold
Your close friends can be dangerous may God have mercy,Wambui thankyou for the educative story
Na gugikinya atiriri, "................muthiro wathi ti riingi.
Ni riu
So while her parents were busy hustling for her fees, she was busy doing other manenos?? Sometimes some masaibu that happens in one's life ni ya kujiletea tuu...if she could have concentrated with her studies first, maybe she could have changed her thoughts za kuolewa early......And again why did her parents plus the In-laws didn't intervene for her to finish first high school first, some college or university? Some parents 🤦!!!... their reasoning is out of this world...
Great woman Philis, God will see u through, keep trusting in God. U r a hardworking woman ad u will do very well by God's grace.
The question ⁉️ am asking myself is, sasa coz huyu mama amefunguka, si aibu itamaliza hao sisters in law na mother in law. What will they tell the village pple now that the truth has come out? Second, coz this sisters in law have kid's, do they think their children especially girls will ever have peace in their marriages? Ya dunia ni hapa hapa2.
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My husband used to sleep with his relatives, elderly women, his boss who was a man,his biological mum,n now the reason made me quit is finding him in a very compromising situation when playing with my 2 yrs old girl. It's a long story.cant share ata mtoto Leo n she is almost 10 yrs now ananiulizanga y I left her dad n can't say anything since she is still under age.this made me introduce myself in to drugs which am fighting with till today. I have now decided to be a lesbian.i hate men with my everything that makes me a human being
Hugs mamma
Sorry mum , that's true unaweza fanyiwa kitu ujikute lesbian juu ya chuki,, mungu akuonekanie pole
Slept with his mum??? did I read that right??? mum?? like the same vagina he came from????eeeeegheeeew!!!
The devil uses people to destroy you, in your case, he made you take the wrong route of self destruction. Repent, pick yourself up and shame the devil. I don't think you are happy. Anyways sorry about what you went through, glad you left.
My sister you did good you left the marriage for your child but don’t let him destroy you completely. I have nothing against lesbians but don’t self destroy yourself for the sake of a psychopath. . .
Why do people enjoy making others cry? those sisters wajue walijiletea curse kwao na watoto yao, venye sisi hutetea mabibi za brother zetu na ata sio eti wako wazuri saana. This girl is so mature and has a heart of gold.
Ngai ndakanareke makome mbiriraini matacaite uria manacaithia ari macaithagia. Philly ..there is God of another chance 🙏 be strong
they could repent before then …
Ngai mwathani uguo niguo kirumi kinyitaga family yaani unakunywa kisima moja na mtoto wako surely may God intervene to this family
Nice lady God give her peace .u will make it even me my mother in-law pass me hell and make her son useless.mother in-laws wale hufanyia daughter in-laws hivyo just know there is God na pia ni watoto wa watu.na kuweza kusama my there's God.
Very intelligent woman
Mother in law kwà nini ulifanya hivyo na uko na watoto.malipo ni hapa Dunia nyinyi wasichana muobe Mungu awasamehe Pyllis gipe nguvu Mungu ata kubariki
Jesu mwega guku nigwathuka ma
mmmmh!!! Madam Phylis ! you should be glad that you are out of that mess at the best time, you are young , healthy , physically fit and a mother , many women are chased out of the matrimonial home with many many children and nothing to feed them neither a mother to welcome them back home . shake the dust of a crazy family and look forward for a good life . forgive and move on .
hii wambu ni moto sana,i knw the lady very well those facts are very very hard,na eye opening,
At what point did both parents agree to marry off a form 2 student??
Have wondered too a 16yrs old to get married????some parents 🤔
Aki sometimes when you think about marriage unachoka tu..but to the single ladies marriage to be honest it's not a bed of roses..crying kwanza unajifungia you cry unamaliza n continue with the marriage,stress,depression lazima utapata..
😲!! Single is the best if one is free from sexual desires . I don’t think I would stomach silly men in my life .
It's only those women who are married to abusive and self centered men,but there are very beautiful marriages out here 🙏
I can relate,, ur well analysed, mm huskia ndoa feeling zinaisha,, heri single life najitafutia bila stress za mwanaume,, i was once married...
The rest is history
Wow, yaani heartless characters and the Dad and bro wanahanya huyu mam mzee, tabia mbovuu, the pain, God will fight for an innocent soul from high school to kufukuzwa na wazazi, mother in law 😈 too, I kan't
Woooi this is sad woriruo ni githomo na muthuri o uria wakugiririe urekie shukuru.Makosaaaa 🤭🤔
I wish mtu angekuwa anajua the person you are marrying before the damage and waste of time🤷🤷
True
Sure
God help us
@@mombasakenya3971 haki
So true.😢 sometimes I do regret bt when I look at my kid's nambia God asanti coz nililearn my lesson.
I wish my brother can marry this smart lady
Ati nini...hii dunia ni wapi kuzuri???Kwa Mungu Tu.
You are such a great woman mammy, God will give you a home and you will be treated like a queen that you are. Blessings to you and your son
we heard the story buh plzz we need to hear from all sides i mean both sides
Absolutely I was looking for this comment
Hii dunia Jameni, If the housegirl was sleeping with her husband and father in law then the husband comes to sleep with the wife it means "Mugiro" has settled in. Amewachanga na damu
Na kwanza housegirl ni mama mzee
Ûthukanîri wa thakame.
Imagn
I don't like imagining some things. I can even kill myself. May the Good God help
Waiting
Ma atumia aria ega matunganaga na daimono cia biu
Na athuri aría ega matúnganaga na imarimari
Ndiri njega itunganaga na muthii muru...
This girl is so cute
Wah! Ilifaa iwe put 1 and 2..but pole sana mam ici ihiko ni irigithirie ma woii Mwathani iguira atumia tha
Haiyaaa, uyu ni mundurume kana mutumia ??
Wah, I feel the pain 😢😞, you are soo strong Phyllis
God Remember her and her son🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😍
Welcome to komothai where most families are ruined by inlaws ,am from komothai and i feel for you dear coz i was once a victim, don't give up gal watakuja kukutafuta but you'll be nowhere to be seen since God will lift you to another level...
You know her
And kwamaiko too in Ngewa area
I also know an almost similar case and also from Komothai
Congrats phily pongezi mama kevin keep going mungu atakuletea wako
issues not get solved by being swept under the carpet! they must be sorted out by ALL those who are involved.
Wambo ulisema macho haioni vizuri congrats 🤭🤭😍😍😍
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Uuui ma too painful surely. Pole sana mum be strong 💪 our God is a miracle working God
Wambui hizi nyumba ziko na story weehhh Acha Tu🙉🙉🇰🇪🇰🇪
When Africans abandoned their culture and followed mzungu........ That's the time we lost real discipline that our elders would give........ Unless we go back... This things will continue happening..... The men or women u see today misbehaving could have been corrected when were boys/girls!!!!!!! Things would be better
Sorry , but what does culture got to do with infidelity/immorality and with mzungus ????
@@missrk6623 very few who are awoken and understand deep the comment...... Can see the truth in it
You've a point,but infidelity is a choice
@@missrk6623 Imagn a father sharing a woman with his son!!this culturally not rit...'Its abomination' u get???
@@wamweru9286 and that's that's why if we maintained our traditions things would be different...... Those days it was very very rare to find such happening because elders would gather.... I meant such sin were feared..... There were not even rapes that we see today..... Respect and discipline was on high standard.......
And the teachers be like. ...ni juu hakumaliza shuleee.pole Phyllis. Thanx wambui for this interview coz it will open many people's eyes
Am so sorry for all that forgive them n move with her life baby girl wambui u look smart
Huyo mother in law hana shukurani kabisa,umshighulikie mumewe hosipitalini na matumizi ,still hela yako anakupea mahitaji yake ,kwaga hadafu na Tamaa! Your husband's infidelity was too much!To those sisters in law,the same shall come to happen to your gals marriage,watafukuzwa hivyo mlifukuza huyu mama.Both your hubby and his mother failed you seriously.You are strong gal ,mungu akufungulie upate Job ,you will make it.
You contributed by keeping it a secret to some members of that famly. Kikulacho ki nguonj mwako
Ooh kuna watu na viatu ndunia hii
Atumia aingî mîcîî itû yuraga nîûndû inlawys ..
nîî ndaikarire mîaka îrî na nûthu ngiumîria....
Phyllis wîbange wethe mûtûngatîri akûhoere then wethe pp ûthîî dubai kana qatar wîbange na twana twakû.
Nii ndathukirio ni cusins cia my bf umuthi uyu niguthaitha ndimwaririe nari thimo . Nikuhura gataru muiko . Married 12 years now . Å
Hao wasichana na mama yao wata jua mungu yuko
Waaah there wicked pple in this world...pole mami God will see you through...
I knew. When a girl involves herself in secret love affairs the consequences are dire.
Pay the price of defiance.
What I don't understand is how parents from both sides allowed the lady to drop her education to get married and do vibarua...it doesn't make sense at all
I was of the same opinion. A man who encourages you to drop out of school to marry him instead of waiting for you to finish with your studies is bad news from start. I wont judge her harshly coz she was too young to make wise decisions. That was your first mistake dear. Sad.
True! Sad
Saa ingine girls don't think.instend of finishing school you get married and then unaaza kwenda kulimia watu kwa Samba.
Aki
Kupubazwa na upendo
Ata bwanako hakua anakupeda my sister,,,,hajakudefend,,,,ingekua ni wengine wangeanguka Hapo kama dege,huyo bwana die nimelaumu.hajakushow support ya kusimama na wewe wachana nao wake huko
In fact wambui chungo njega waragia thanks
Hii mambo yakukaa pamoja : the huge extended family haikai poa.
Uka Gulf nikuo tuokire kuninira stress na Ngai aturathimite kinya tutingihugura nathutha, nithengiu Ngai witu nigutugiriria maithori guku riu nituhotaga gutheka
Ndakwira maa,, mm nilikam gulf nikiwa sija heal nilikua na lia kama mtoto, lkn nashukuru huku ni rehabilitation ata ikiwa ni ku ngumu at end month kuna salary.... Gulf has made my heart to iron am healed...
Waa pole sana,Aki ndoa ziko na mambo 🤦🏽♀️
Wisdom comes last
Woi this is what happened to my muiru. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭but Mungu ako kwenye kiti anampigania
Nauria utangienda gwikwo ndukaneke mundu
Wakirega cukuru mwana witu nikii?
Alionja miwa akasema sio surual😉
U left skol cos of a man , ? Ngai fafa , that was the start and end of ur trouble gal
@@catherinekimani9501 ehe....kai wagicheza
Kai kweli?
Wasichana karibu wote wa kazi niguo makoragwo
Philey you are soo calm
Gutukania Thakame Alaaar..... 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Philly, you deserve a better husband, he did not love you. You deserve a better family in law. Gooooo get yourself a husband.