Thank you a lot, went down a bad spiral last year when I left someone I loved for someone that used and gaslit me. But I'm finally happy again by myself. You got a new sub!
I hope this video helped. Gaslighting itself will be a topic I cover, because it’s too prevalent in relationships. Glad you subbed, and I hope you like the other vids as well!
lol but it’s so true though. and every relationship is different and you don’t know when to expect the ups and downs. that’s funny though. glad you found us!
Love schema is a new concept for me, thanks for explaining that! Ole Miss and matching Jordans? That's a quirky set of references 😄 You're really good at this so far, RLP! See you next video 🤙🏽
That’s awesome, my goal is that you leave this video with some value! Haha yes I have friends from the south, where apparently football is a big deal! lol
That’s what it’s all about for me. I hope you get a chance to check out our other videos when you get a chance. New episodes come out every Sunday. Let me know if there are topics you want discussed.
My cringeworthy dating experiences can be summarized by saying that I am far too susceptible to love bombing. 😕 It wasn't until after the end of my last relationship that I even realized that was a thing. I have never felt so loved and appreciated, adored and desired as they made me feel, but I have also never felt so insignificant. I got to the point where I was either wrong now or I was wrong later for the very same things that they would praise me for. ”I love that you do XYZ,” but then later they would tell me how terrible it was that I did those very same things. Not separate, similar instances, but the very ones that they had told me, possibly even told their friends, in person and online, how great it was. My learned helplessness became more than a bit overwhelming. I know that I was not entirely blameless, though. I did start therapy, trying to work on myself, trying to work on the relationship. Better luck next time, cautiously.
I’m pretty much as far away from being able to get a romantic relationship as possible. I don’t have the self-confidence/charisma to just strike up a conversation and flirt until I end up getting a girl’s number, nor do I feel comfortable doing this (it doesn’t feel like who I am), and I also do not have any friends that are girls
Thanks for sharing. Everyone has a different perspective or journey. I would encourage you to continue to be your authentic self! Honestly, you shouldn’t have to change yourself for anyone.
Real Life Psych It’s a dilemma; I want a girlfriend, but I’m not simply gonna do whatever it takes to get one. I’d be compromising my self-respect and values if I were to put my all into finding somebody who would give me the physical contact that I want. Basically everything in my personality leads me in the _opposite_ direction than romance, except the one main romantic desire. I guess I’ll randomly find somebody one day and it’ll happen naturally
Well, online dating not a fav subjective and even though I told myself I would work on it for February. I’m not happy happy. So a love schema is like a love language basically?
Well, a love language is more a reflection of how someone shows love. A love schema is more what you think love “looks like” almost like a love checklist. Hope that makes sense. Nothing wrong with either, just hope that people take a step back and look at people in totality
@@reallifepsych3309 grows? It's the total lack of opportunity at all that's frustrating. How can I grow and learn (in that area) if I don't get the opportunity? Sure I can keep learning to be patient but It would be nice to learn other things too 🙄
Excited to see where this channel goes :)
I appreciate the support! Glad you’re along for the ride :)
And would love to one day even do a collab!
lol, wasn't expecting to see you here Theodore, just came here after seeing your new upload on the Bobo Doll experiment :D
Likewise, this channel has the potential to become really helpful.
I can not believe Psych2Go and Practical Psychology even know I exist. I have so many more ideas for the channel. These comments are so encouraging!!
My fav is Number 3! It definitely says a lot about a person who uses ghosting as a technique to handling uncomfortable situations.
And unfortunately, people tend to internalize being ghosted when it’s really something that’s out of your control!
@@reallifepsych3309 yes like a lot of things I'm learning! 💛
@@seekingmysoultribe3612 love it
This is the first time I’ve heard of dating aesthetic, but it’s so true! People like to date the idea of someone more than the actual person.
Right. It’s definitely something to be careful of. Some people date because of what they could post on social media.
loving the concept of this channel! keep it up 😃💪🏻
yessss! love to hear it!
great segment. good advice. well done!!!
Thank you so much! Means a lot!
Damn those stats really put things into perspective, thankyou :)
exactly! dating is hard for everyone.
Loving the topic of your channel ! Found you through Sunny! Thank you for sharing such an amazing topic
Thanks, I hope you get a chance to check out the other videos. Love your channel btw!
Really needed this video! Will definitely be following along!
Love it! Looking forward to any suggestions you may have!
Love the references to actual studies and articles. Great video :)
Thanks, that means a lot! And links are in the description if you want to do further reading!
Comment your favorite takeaway or your cringiest dating experience! Happy Sunday everyone!
I've learnt more about my bad behaviors in general in this video made for dating, than every videos for self-dev I've seen.
Thanks from France ! 🇫🇷
Thanks so much. Please share with friends. We need the help to grow!
Nous vous adorons, cher France!
Awesome insights... thx much RLP !
I hope it helps! Thanks!
Thank you a lot, went down a bad spiral last year when I left someone I loved for someone that used and gaslit me. But I'm finally happy again by myself. You got a new sub!
I hope this video helped. Gaslighting itself will be a topic I cover, because it’s too prevalent in relationships. Glad you subbed, and I hope you like the other vids as well!
Favorite takeaway is letting people know they are not alone
Yes, so important. Dating is hard for everyone. We shouldn’t be hard on ourselves.
I'm new to the channel Alexa. Looking forward to seeing more from you, great content
Love it! I hope you get a chance to check out the episodes on phone addiction and the trailer. Let me know if you have any suggestions!
You use the same expression than me when I'm trying to explain what I feel being single: emotional rollercoaster. I can't believe this hahaha
lol but it’s so true though. and every relationship is different and you don’t know when to expect the ups and downs. that’s funny though. glad you found us!
Love schema is a new concept for me, thanks for explaining that! Ole Miss and matching Jordans? That's a quirky set of references 😄
You're really good at this so far, RLP! See you next video 🤙🏽
That’s awesome, my goal is that you leave this video with some value! Haha yes I have friends from the south, where apparently football is a big deal! lol
Thank you for this! 💗 very insightful and helpful
That’s what it’s all about for me. I hope you get a chance to check out our other videos when you get a chance. New episodes come out every Sunday. Let me know if there are topics you want discussed.
@@reallifepsych3309 Will do! 😄👍
My cringeworthy dating experiences can be summarized by saying that I am far too susceptible to love bombing. 😕
It wasn't until after the end of my last relationship that I even realized that was a thing. I have never felt so loved and appreciated, adored and desired as they made me feel, but
I have also never felt so insignificant. I got to the point where I was either wrong now or I was wrong later for the very same things that they would praise me for.
”I love that you do XYZ,” but then later they would tell me how terrible it was that I did those very same things. Not separate, similar instances, but the very ones that they had told me, possibly even told their friends, in person and online, how great it was.
My learned helplessness became more than a bit overwhelming.
I know that I was not entirely blameless, though. I did start therapy, trying to work on myself, trying to work on the relationship.
Better luck next time, cautiously.
Nice vid
Thank you! The goal is to provide a practical application to psychology so that we can take on our weeks.
U speaking the truth💯💯💯
Thank you for this awesome feedback. Have you watched the episode on screen time?
yes yes yes!
Glad you enjoyed it! Feel free to check out other vids!
@@reallifepsych3309 I did!😅
I’m pretty much as far away from being able to get a romantic relationship as possible. I don’t have the self-confidence/charisma to just strike up a conversation and flirt until I end up getting a girl’s number, nor do I feel comfortable doing this (it doesn’t feel like who I am), and I also do not have any friends that are girls
Thanks for sharing. Everyone has a different perspective or journey. I would encourage you to continue to be your authentic self! Honestly, you shouldn’t have to change yourself for anyone.
Real Life Psych
It’s a dilemma; I want a girlfriend, but I’m not simply gonna do whatever it takes to get one. I’d be compromising my self-respect and values if I were to put my all into finding somebody who would give me the physical contact that I want. Basically everything in my personality leads me in the _opposite_ direction than romance, except the one main romantic desire. I guess I’ll randomly find somebody one day and it’ll happen naturally
Well, online dating not a fav subjective and even though I told myself I would work on it for February. I’m not happy happy. So a love schema is like a love language basically?
Well, a love language is more a reflection of how someone shows love. A love schema is more what you think love “looks like” almost like a love checklist. Hope that makes sense. Nothing wrong with either, just hope that people take a step back and look at people in totality
@@reallifepsych3309 okay thank you, this info is in the links you’ve shared right?
@@MathyLisikaMinsende exactly
Jokes on you, I like being single.
do what makes you happy!
But you have relationships with people? This is the video content...
Lol what about getting to the actual dating stage 😂 23 and never been on a date. Never even matched with anyone. Ahhhh experience is funnnn 😏👉👉
My advice is to be patient. I know it can seem frustrating, but everyone grows at their own pace!
Thank you for following along.
@@reallifepsych3309 grows? It's the total lack of opportunity at all that's frustrating. How can I grow and learn (in that area) if I don't get the opportunity? Sure I can keep learning to be patient but It would be nice to learn other things too 🙄
Honestly, i think your heads in the clouds, 🤔🤥