@@Gogeta2501 It’s okay. My dad, grandparents, aunts, siblings, uncles and cousins (and possibly even mother) on BOTH sides of the family are ALL like this towards me… I’ve always been the black sheep for no reason known to me. They make up lies on me and they all talk trash lies about me. They side with people who have transgressed me, JUST SO THEY CAN TALK MORE CRAP ABOUT ME LOL… When I came to them for a final chance to apologize and stop, they BLAMED ME… I feel LITERALLY like the brother in this video..ABOUT EVERYTHING.. I know why they do it now, they were trying to destroy me(or get me to destroy myself) and sacrifice me and it didn’t work…. They tried to have me killed on multiple occasions, and Ive never done anything wrong to any of these people.. when my grandfather dies I came to try to help my grandmother for like a month, just so she wouldn’t feel alone. NO ONE ELSE CAME in the family. Well you know what she did??? She accused me of stealing her DENTURES, and pulled a gun out on me and held me hostage for a day until she finally found where she misplaced them!!!! And to this very day she acts as if I did something to her, never apologized to me, avoids me, and this was almost 10 years ago…… this is just one truth of the multiple I have endured because of these demons… 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@Kmarialay stay away from these crazy people. these people are far worse then mine he only tried to attack my dignity and image and he knows he cant beat me in combat. And is a manuplitive and sad man. I gave his 2nd chance and he didn't learn and cant address issues with me with only me. without having to address it in front of children my father and mother. Like he never been taught 2 real men settle things alone no one needs to know what or how. I learned a lot of things from him what I should never do to others because bad people give you experience and the worst people give you lessons about humans behavior and nature. stay safe man the guy didn't say sorry either god will punish those type of people. I continue to become what I love writer personal trainer and coach and yeah i also do youtube. focus on gives you hope and light and good energy that fuels you . stay away from drama and toxic people they never chancge
@@Gogeta2501 Wow. “Bad people give you experience, worse people give you lessons”… that is a really good and true way to put that. I know what you mean about your brother because I’ve dealt with MANY people like him and worse. You know too that these people never change, they only get worse the more access you give them to you and your life. I kept giving them chances because I always wanted to feel a sense of family, but one thing that I was told when I was little was “just because they’re family, doesn’t mean they’re good for you” and even though I heard the truth, I guess I just had to experience that to understand what it truly meant. Idk, I guess I just didn’t want to believe that some people, my own family, could be that evil to try to kill me for no reason, I truly don’t understand it but God said that I wouldn’t understand evil. I’m still unsure about my mom but one time I got shot at point black range 5xs and she claimed she didn’t hear the gunshots but it was right outside of her window… I was BEATING on her window screaming, and when I ran inside , I saw her up in her room as if she was searching for something, but she said she heard nothing… I’m just, confused… but lately I have been staying away from the whole family on both sides. I still talk to my mom but I don’t visit much anymore. It all really hurts and is confusing…
@@Kmarialay recover and bounce back and find your touch back and your people 🔥⚡⚡ I make shorts about shit like this maybe it helps. Listion to this song it helps: You get What You give By New Radicales
True, it's extremely rare because we live in a time that a lot of people, especially arrogant and fake people takes no accountably for nothing, nor apologize or make things right.
They say time heals all wounds. I just hope one day the people who wronged me will stop living rent free inside my head. I'm good most days but sometimes I wake up thinking about them.
Same here! Whether it be a romantic breakup or a family situation, recovery is oftentimes is a "two steps forward, one step back" process. Just like yourself, I try not to think about it anymore than I have to or at all anymore. (I hope that day comes for me soon because it has with some other people in my life and I'm waiting for the proverbial landlord to evict those people from my head too permanently..SOMEDAY!)
THIS, I so want the same .. but I watched a video just this day about a man and he said that he didn’t want to forget so that way he will remember what to do and what not to do…he said something like “if I forgot a stove would burn my hand, then I’d just keep burning it over and over”… and I understood what he meant…
Experiencing this now. I never thought I would see the day my die-hard christian family member(s) could switch up so quick all bc I decided to set boundaries. God took that blacksheep curse and turned me into a G.O.A.T. being successful in every aspect of life and it's not being well-received as it shouldnt be bc change is for me to imply while they learn to comply. Tfs Tyler much love. 🙏❣️💯
Never explain yourself to these trifling people , keep a dignified silence it’s so powerful , I’ve cut 2 family members out because of their gossiping and pot stirring , my distance and my silence has saved my mental health , it’s been 5 months since I cut all ties and I rarely think about them now my peace has been restored at long last , I should have done this years ago but it took a long time to make a break from the strong bonds that families hold over a person, but once you are free you realise you were a prisoner and life is better without them .
unfortunately, in my case I'm not, I was set up for failure from day one and I've been always sick and now after they almost killed me multiple times with poisons got even sicker... They sabotage me whenever I go with the help of the authorities.
My narcissistic mother chose for me to be the dumpster and trash can of the biological group, so I went no contact. My female siblings chose to treat me the same way. I have gone no contact with the entire biological bloodline, and none of them are welcome in my presence, for any reason. I've been done with those people. They deserve everything that is coming for them.
This shit is too real. I've experienced certain family members do me grimy. My cousin told me a particular family member was missing, but I was very indifferent because I don't interact with him because of his evil ways.
Dont do nothing because revenge is of the lord. I have seen it with my own eyes timd and time again. I whad laughed and silently scoffed bec of my believe in jesus and prayed before eating. He denied god and claimed to be godlike from within. Few days later he whas walkimg and then snapped his leg several places just by walking. Before someone pwed me money for the work i whas hired to do, he dropped me of end pf the work and pro.ised me to pay later that evening he lnever came. I whas upset bec i needed the mpney bec i didnt ha e food. No answerimg to phone etc. Than i gave it to God and forgave him truly. 2 days later he came to apolagized and gave me my money. O didnt knew where he lived so he could be gone and would knever see him again of he wanted. But god leaded him not even to my own hpuse but to my sisters house where i whas that evening to babysit my nephew and nieces. I am never there. But there he whas with my money God is good and he takes care if you trust him in all situation. Just gi ve it to hi. Or it will eat you and make youre soul bitter
How can they be so cold? I know what it's like having narc siblings and a mother who ruined major life events I'll never get back. Stay strong brother.
Family members like that will also switch the story around to make it seem like it was completely your fault when it wasn't. You have to love from a distance. Otherwise, your peace will be disturbed.
I dont even want the apology because this person tried to destroy me and even told lies and turnt another family member against me the betrayal is enough the hurt from it will never go away even after I helped this person seem like they turned on me more😢
Thanks Tyler. Yes. Going through this now with a family member and a friend. Agree with all you said. At some point you gotta cut them off otherwise you're giving them permission to treat you shabbily and disrespect you.
Yes They will cross the line even more when you are short and difficult to make money because of that and they treat me very Bad!! And the only thing I can do is wait to have a job and pays well even if it's 15h. They treat me extremely like garbage mom , brothers and more. aleast there is a large park by the house to walk.
Tyler is one of the Goats of realness!!! The studies in the dojo of realness and practices the art of keeping it real!!! Salute to king 👑👑👑!!! I love your content !!
Yep not even disappointed anymore I don’t care I got other ish to be focused on! Life goes on!!!!! That’s they problem not mines I’m gone be good regardless and I’m not wasting my time anymore time is precious and ima enjoy my time and continue to elevate period
I had an uncle and aunt join forces and spend about a whole year trying to break up my marriage through harassment, abuse, and telling lies on me to tarnish my character. I have two kids and I think they wanted to destroy their futures because they didn't do well with their own kids. For some reason they see me as a threat and I have only shown them kindness and love. It's been about 4 years since I cut them off and I've even kept away from other family members who know about the situation and kept silent on the issue. I do not expect them to apologise as they are too arrogant.
Yep they cross the line with all the evil they've done then on top of that get offended when I stand up and speak up or they be snooping on my FB to see what I'm saying and to who I say it to.
I keep having to change phone numbers (because they like to openly hack those), email addresses, etc. In fact I left Facebook all together because they kept setting up the odd troll account. I like how Tyler reinforces not to even deal with them unless they apologize exactly for what they did
That's where you can turn it into a fun game and post completely fake things online to see who gossips about it or asks you about it in person. This is barrels of fun to do.
Family members have some strong entitlement simply because of the blood we share n the familiarity. They think they can get away with being rude, disrespectful and condescending because "we're family".. like its a free pass to insult and get away with it. They use passive aggressive behavior too ! My sister wanted me to braid her hair but keep in mind I do hair for a living SO she basically wanted me to do it for free. She's willing to pay the African braiding shop $180 but gonna say to me " I wanted you to braid my hair cause I know you not gone charge me that much"..... 👂🏾huh, what ? Why wouldn't I tho ? I'm using my time, labor n skill to braid the hair so why wouldn't I charge about the same or more ? Oh.. that's right, we're familly🙄
I haven't had it happen with family but have had it with other people who always need help 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 times in a row, never change any habits and are always pissed off at someone and talking about beating someone's ass because of something they didn't like hearing that person say. Usually the thing they didnt like hearing someone say was they didn't say yes to another request. People are not subscriptions.
Heck yes!! This is exactly what I'm going to do. I'm sick and tired of hearing, oh, you're the better person if you just forgive. Why forgive? They just gonna bite you again. Why does everybody always protect the liar? You had me laughing a couple of times dude I can relate!!! You know how chosen ones can tell when they're in the presence of other chosen ones? Because nobody else believes us, lol. Thank you for this message. Namaste 💜
I had a family member who didn’t just cross the line but nuked it with an amount of disrespect that I never would have shown them or anyone. It showed me their true colors that they could care less about me when I’m at my lowest. The idea of them assuming all is well and they did nothing wrong is repulsive. They don’t deserve to even know me. This morning on my walk I kept asking myself what I should do. Can you really cut off a 40 year old connection to your closest blood? Blood without love is worthless. They never apologized and were downright cruel. I stopped asking myself what would Jesus do and instead asked what would Lucifer do. Then this video popped up, I’ll take it as a sign.
Mr Tyler Thanks always for your words of wisdom, and I have no doubt that the Lord is using you greatly to speak facts. It is written that these people are from your own household Nobody is exempt from what is written. Thanks, Tyler, for being obedient for the light to shine through you.❤️💕💯
Thank you for sharing this message. You are so true in all you're saying. I had to break with my entire family, even my own daughter. Very painful, without change or apologize. I have to let my door closed for my own protection 😔
Yeeeees!!! Preach it Tyler!!🙌👏👐 I love watching all your videos BECAUSE YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH & WITHOUT SUGARCOATING A DAMN THING!!! I love it!!! 🙌👏👐 I wish you can do a video on narcissistic Ex's one day or on narcissistic people.... Blessings to you Tyler Gbu always....
When it's your own adult child it's more painful. I care deeply about my child but they're wrong in this. I know karma will punish them because they did me so wrong. I cannot forgive what was done though. I will miss out on my grand children's lives because of all this. Through it all I remind myself that I am worthy and deserving of genuine love from genuine people.
Yep so true and a cple weeks ago i blocked half the fam members, cuz i don't want them running their mouth abt oh btw im grown im 54,basically i done outgrew them ,i really dont need them like that.now there's a few fam members that i may interact with ,and their alright with me .but them other ones i cant deal with or i choose not to deal with,and plus their nosy
At age 54, you've likely already lived the majority of your life, and therefore, don't need to waste one precious moment on no good family members. They're simply not worth it.
Certain family members in my circle are not ever going to make it right by me. Since those certain family members are still trauma bonding. Not working out their issues other than being addicted to Pharmaceutical psych drugs that don't work and lead to earlier death. Everyone wants shortcuts, when shortcuts only lead to more problems.
I refuse to be happy about someone elses misfortune even if they did me dirty. I consider that to be weak. That being said, im not going to do backflips and somersaults to trip over myself coming to the rescue. They can kick a can.
had a cousin get caught with the sack, go behind the walls and start chirping ... get back out and pick the sack right back up and go right back to being on front street .... told him he needs to get a j-o-b and lay low dont pick that stuff up if you cant do the time 'he got mad at me' .... well dis where we part ways cause now we got 2 issues ... 1 . i dont trust u .... 2. aint no tellin when them boys gonna pay u a visit .... u playing with a certain type of fire that i dont play with ...
My brother crossed the line with me a few years ago and I just learned how to cut him off I pray he has a good life he never said sorry especially after what he said about me and my sister he didn’t just cross the line he took the whole mile he hates me until this day and idc he never apologized to me ever I’m starting to live my life I got my Bachelors Degree I am in a relationship which I’m hoping that’s gonna lead to me children until this day I don’t wish nothing bad on him but I refuse to speak to him he’s forever making me feel small and I am blessed with or without him he never treated me right I love him I forgive him and I wish him the best within his life God always got me
Yes They will cross the line even more when you are short and difficult to make money because of that and they treat me very Bad!! And the only thing I can do is wait to have a job and pays well even if it's 15h. They treat me extremely like garbage mom , brothers and more. aleast there is a large park by the house to walk.
havent spoken to brother in almost a year. hes not a bad guy he just doesnt know how to talk to to me or how to say we instead of you. i would be devasted if anything happened regardless. but my case iiisnt that bad
Am I wrong for not wanting a apology I just think we have seasons in people life and whose to say our family members just not meant to be in our life ❤️ like I want nothing to do with them people !
I don't forgive unless the person comes apologize or make amends, or make things right. If they don't ,there is no forgiveness nor do I fool with them.
Tyler I need your honest opinion mine is a family member but a step family member she’s my dads wife and I gave my father the impression that I would try to work things out with his wife but she has traumatized me so much that I don’t think its right to allow her to even be near me I don’t want to hurt him because I know he wants to force a relationship with me and his wife so badly
They’ll never apologize because their pride won’t let them. They think they’re right.
Aka my sociopath of a brother
@@Gogeta2501 It’s okay. My dad, grandparents, aunts, siblings, uncles and cousins (and possibly even mother) on BOTH sides of the family are ALL like this towards me… I’ve always been the black sheep for no reason known to me. They make up lies on me and they all talk trash lies about me. They side with people who have transgressed me, JUST SO THEY CAN TALK MORE CRAP ABOUT ME LOL…
When I came to them for a final chance to apologize and stop, they BLAMED ME… I feel LITERALLY like the brother in this video..ABOUT EVERYTHING.. I know why they do it now, they were trying to destroy me(or get me to destroy myself) and sacrifice me and it didn’t work…. They tried to have me killed on multiple occasions, and Ive never done anything wrong to any of these people.. when my grandfather dies I came to try to help my grandmother for like a month, just so she wouldn’t feel alone. NO ONE ELSE CAME in the family. Well you know what she did??? She accused me of stealing her DENTURES, and pulled a gun out on me and held me hostage for a day until she finally found where she misplaced them!!!! And to this very day she acts as if I did something to her, never apologized to me, avoids me, and this was almost 10 years ago…… this is just one truth of the multiple I have endured because of these demons… 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@Kmarialay stay away from these crazy people. these people are far worse then mine he only tried to attack my dignity and image and he knows he cant beat me in combat.
And is a manuplitive and sad man.
I gave his 2nd chance and he didn't learn and cant address issues with me with only me. without having to address it in front of children my father and mother.
Like he never been taught 2 real men settle things alone no one needs to know what or how.
I learned a lot of things from him what I should never do to others because bad people give you experience and the worst people give you lessons about humans behavior and nature.
stay safe man the guy didn't say sorry either god will punish those type of people.
I continue to become what I love writer
personal trainer and coach and yeah i also do youtube.
focus on gives you hope and light and good energy that fuels you .
stay away from drama and toxic people they never chancge
@@Gogeta2501 Wow. “Bad people give you experience, worse people give you lessons”… that is a really good and true way to put that. I know what you mean about your brother because I’ve dealt with MANY people like him and worse. You know too that these people never change, they only get worse the more access you give them to you and your life.
I kept giving them chances because I always wanted to feel a sense of family, but one thing that I was told when I was little was “just because they’re family, doesn’t mean they’re good for you” and even though I heard the truth, I guess I just had to experience that to understand what it truly meant. Idk, I guess I just didn’t want to believe that some people, my own family, could be that evil to try to kill me for no reason, I truly don’t understand it but God said that I wouldn’t understand evil.
I’m still unsure about my mom but one time I got shot at point black range 5xs and she claimed she didn’t hear the gunshots but it was right outside of her window… I was BEATING on her window screaming, and when I ran inside , I saw her up in her room as if she was searching for something, but she said she heard nothing… I’m just, confused… but lately I have been staying away from the whole family on both sides. I still talk to my mom but I don’t visit much anymore. It all really hurts and is confusing…
@@Kmarialay recover and bounce back and find your touch back and your people
🔥⚡⚡
I make shorts about shit like this maybe it helps.
Listion to this song it helps: You get What You give By New Radicales
Even if they apologize I don't want them back 😂
Exactly!
Same here!
Sometimes they come to “apologize” just to start the same mess all over again. Manipulation control triangulation etc. 👎👎
True, it's extremely rare because we live in a time that a lot of people, especially arrogant and fake people takes no accountably for nothing, nor apologize or make things right.
str8 facts,
they never apologized till this day
You talking about my family members that I cut off and could care less about what goes on with them Life Goes On Thank You for this so true video
Narcissist family members smh
Or sociopaths
@@Gogeta2501 as well as psychopaths
Haters gonna hate
They say time heals all wounds. I just hope one day the people who wronged me will stop living rent free inside my head. I'm good most days but sometimes I wake up thinking about them.
Same here! Whether it be a romantic breakup or a family situation, recovery is oftentimes is a "two steps forward, one step back" process. Just like yourself, I try not to think about it anymore than I have to or at all anymore. (I hope that day comes for me soon because it has with some other people in my life and I'm waiting for the proverbial landlord to evict those people from my head too permanently..SOMEDAY!)
Well there is a secret to that why you sometimes think of them when a person has done you wrong and not forgave them but I will not say it on here.
THIS, I so want the same .. but I watched a video just this day about a man and he said that he didn’t want to forget so that way he will remember what to do and what not to do…he said something like “if I forgot a stove would burn my hand, then I’d just keep burning it over and over”… and I understood what he meant…
@@TylerJTI You need to do a video on this.
Look up Robert smith faster eft tapping to get rid of the trauma. I’m going through his program right now.
Experiencing this now. I never thought I would see the day my die-hard christian family member(s) could switch up so quick all bc I decided to set boundaries. God took that blacksheep curse and turned me into a G.O.A.T. being successful in every aspect of life and it's not being well-received as it shouldnt be bc change is for me to imply while they learn to comply. Tfs Tyler much love. 🙏❣️💯
You don't owe one ounce of explanation to anyone.
Never explain yourself to these trifling people , keep a dignified silence it’s so powerful , I’ve cut 2 family members out because of their gossiping and pot stirring , my distance and my silence has saved my mental health , it’s been 5 months since I cut all ties and I rarely think about them now my peace has been restored at long last , I should have done this years ago but it took a long time to make a break from the strong bonds that families hold over a person, but once you are free you realise you were a prisoner and life is better without them .
When their talking to you like your an idiot, no, it's over. I don't have to out up with the degrading.
unfortunately, in my case I'm not, I was set up for failure from day one and I've been always sick and now after they almost killed me multiple times with poisons got even sicker... They sabotage me whenever I go with the help of the authorities.
Right on time tyler idgaf about them anymore there so toxic they can't be in my life sorry not sorry✂🗣💯🙏🏾✨I have peace now
I'm done with these family members. Thank you, Mr. Tyler.
My narcissistic mother chose for me to be the dumpster and trash can of the biological group, so I went no contact. My female siblings chose to treat me the same way. I have gone no contact with the entire biological bloodline, and none of them are welcome in my presence, for any reason. I've been done with those people. They deserve everything that is coming for them.
This shit is too real. I've experienced certain family members do me grimy. My cousin told me a particular family member was missing, but I was very indifferent because I don't interact with him because of his evil ways.
Facts theyre jealous of you i have 3 family members i stay away from there toxic
@@Gogeta2501 amen to that!!
WATCH YOUR MOUTH! 😠😡🤬
GOOD GOOGA-MOOGA! 😠😡🤬
Dont do nothing because revenge is of the lord. I have seen it with my own eyes timd and time again. I whad laughed and silently scoffed bec of my believe in jesus and prayed before eating. He denied god and claimed to be godlike from within. Few days later he whas walkimg and then snapped his leg several places just by walking. Before someone pwed me money for the work i whas hired to do, he dropped me of end pf the work and pro.ised me to pay later that evening he lnever came. I whas upset bec i needed the mpney bec i didnt ha e food. No answerimg to phone etc. Than i gave it to God and forgave him truly. 2 days later he came to apolagized and gave me my money. O didnt knew where he lived so he could be gone and would knever see him again of he wanted. But god leaded him not even to my own hpuse but to my sisters house where i whas that evening to babysit my nephew and nieces. I am never there. But there he whas with my money
God is good and he takes care if you trust him in all situation. Just gi ve it to hi. Or it will eat you and make youre soul bitter
My dad died and my brother and mother had a funeral and didn't tell me about it. They're mentally ill. I am just like WTF
How can they be so cold? I know what it's like having narc siblings and a mother who ruined major life events I'll never get back. Stay strong brother.
Tlot Pwist: You were the toxic one they cut off 🤣🤣😅
Family members like that will also switch the story around to make it seem like it was completely your fault when it wasn't. You have to love from a distance. Otherwise, your peace will be disturbed.
Tyler tellin the truth, family or not Respect my Space or I will cut you off, Period!
You are right brother I have had to close the door on family members forever .
I dont even want the apology because this person tried to destroy me and even told lies and turnt another family member against me the betrayal is enough the hurt from it will never go away even after I helped this person seem like they turned on me more😢
Thanks Tyler. Yes. Going through this now with a family member and a friend. Agree with all you said. At some point you gotta cut them off otherwise you're giving them permission to treat you shabbily and disrespect you.
If they cause heart ache, betrayal, disturb your peace etc they do it again!
Yes They will cross the line even more when you are short and difficult to make money because of that and they treat me very Bad!! And the only thing I can do is wait to have a job and pays well even if it's 15h. They treat me extremely like garbage mom , brothers and more. aleast there is a large park by the house to walk.
And they will doit again and again.
If Tyler were to make a two hour long video rant, he would still say.............."I'm gonna go ahead and cut this video short."
I have did a rant on my podcast about the doctrine of forgiveness and more are coming. You can check them out there
Tyler is one of the Goats of realness!!! The studies in the dojo of realness and practices the art of keeping it real!!!
Salute to king 👑👑👑!!!
I love your content !!
They will never apologize because it's not in their DNA. They're not built like we are
Yep not even disappointed anymore I don’t care I got other ish to be focused on! Life goes on!!!!! That’s they problem not mines I’m gone be good regardless and I’m not wasting my time anymore time is precious and ima enjoy my time and continue to elevate period
Damn straight!!!
Matthew 10:36
A man’s enemies will be members of his own household!
Damn 2:28
I had an uncle and aunt join forces and spend about a whole year trying to break up my marriage through harassment, abuse, and telling lies on me to tarnish my character. I have two kids and I think they wanted to destroy their futures because they didn't do well with their own kids. For some reason they see me as a threat and I have only shown them kindness and love. It's been about 4 years since I cut them off and I've even kept away from other family members who know about the situation and kept silent on the issue. I do not expect them to apologise as they are too arrogant.
Tyler, I just gotta say, I LOVE seeing your video notifications pop up 💟
Thank you I needed this going through this situation right now.
Same asshole lives with me i trying to leave my house
Man I need this just had to cut my mom off I’m tired of her and her way😢
JUSTICE!
Yep they cross the line with all the evil they've done then on top of that get offended when I stand up and speak up or they be snooping on my FB to see what I'm saying and to who I say it to.
I keep having to change phone numbers (because they like to openly hack those), email addresses, etc. In fact I left Facebook all together because they kept setting up the odd troll account. I like how Tyler reinforces not to even deal with them unless they apologize exactly for what they did
That's where you can turn it into a fun game and post completely fake things online to see who gossips about it or asks you about it in person. This is barrels of fun to do.
Family members have some strong entitlement simply because of the blood we share n the familiarity.
They think they can get away with being rude, disrespectful and condescending because "we're family".. like its a free pass to insult and get away with it.
They use passive aggressive behavior too !
My sister wanted me to braid her hair but keep in mind I do hair for a living SO she basically wanted me to do it for free.
She's willing to pay the African braiding shop $180 but gonna say to me " I wanted you to braid my hair cause I know you not gone charge me that much"..... 👂🏾huh, what ?
Why wouldn't I tho ?
I'm using my time, labor n skill to braid the hair so why wouldn't I charge about the same or more ?
Oh.. that's right, we're familly🙄
Good for you. Charge her.
even you give her free she won't grateful and will ask you do more and more in the future
@@rockandblues3635 exactly
I haven't had it happen with family but have had it with other people who always need help 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12 times in a row, never change any habits and are always pissed off at someone and talking about beating someone's ass because of something they didn't like hearing that person say. Usually the thing they didnt like hearing someone say was they didn't say yes to another request. People are not subscriptions.
Heck yes!! This is exactly what I'm going to do. I'm sick and tired of hearing, oh, you're the better person if you just forgive. Why forgive? They just gonna bite you again. Why does everybody always protect the liar? You had me laughing a couple of times dude I can relate!!! You know how chosen ones can tell when they're in the presence of other chosen ones? Because nobody else believes us, lol. Thank you for this message. Namaste 💜
Blood isn’t always thicker than water. Thank you Tyler for your help and insight, you’ve helped me during times of depression and family issues.
💯you are always on point Thank you❤️
These haters are dead to me period.
I had a family member who didn’t just cross the line but nuked it with an amount of disrespect that I never would have shown them or anyone. It showed me their true colors that they could care less about me when I’m at my lowest. The idea of them assuming all is well and they did nothing wrong is repulsive. They don’t deserve to even know me.
This morning on my walk I kept asking myself what I should do. Can you really cut off a 40 year old connection to your closest blood? Blood without love is worthless. They never apologized and were downright cruel. I stopped asking myself what would Jesus do and instead asked what would Lucifer do. Then this video popped up, I’ll take it as a sign.
Mr Tyler
Thanks always for your words of wisdom, and I have no doubt that the Lord is using you greatly to speak facts. It is written that these people are from your own household
Nobody is exempt from what is written.
Thanks, Tyler, for being obedient for the light to shine through you.❤️💕💯
Thank you for sharing this message. You are so true in all you're saying. I had to break with my entire family, even my own daughter. Very painful, without change or apologize. I have to let my door closed for my own protection 😔
Wow what you say is so so true. I thank you sir for this.
if they did it once trust and believe they will try to do it again ...
indeed
And also my mom and sis are 2 peas in a pod smh ,they treat me differently smh ,and they also gossip.
Right on time! Thank you for this video 😊
I'm right there with you bro. I tried now closed that door. No more
Tx for great message. Need more like this
NOTE TO TYLER JTI: YOUR VIDEOS ARE OFF THE CHAIN! 😉👍
Speaking the truth!!
Late March and earlier this month.... unfortunately. I love them, but I've got to move on.
God's blessing and I've got to make my money.
Yeeeees!!! Preach it Tyler!!🙌👏👐 I love watching all your videos BECAUSE YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH & WITHOUT SUGARCOATING A DAMN THING!!! I love it!!! 🙌👏👐
I wish you can do a video on narcissistic Ex's one day or on narcissistic people.... Blessings to you Tyler Gbu always....
When it's your own adult child it's more painful. I care deeply about my child but they're wrong in this.
I know karma will punish them because they did me so wrong. I cannot forgive what was done though. I will miss out on my grand children's lives because of all this.
Through it all I remind myself that I am worthy and deserving of genuine love from genuine people.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥TYLER
Damn,man its been a minute!
The words come out of your heart.I love it!
Thank you for the video
Yep so true and a cple weeks ago i blocked half the fam members, cuz i don't want them running their mouth abt oh btw im grown im 54,basically i done outgrew them ,i really dont need them like that.now there's a few fam members that i may interact with ,and their alright with me .but them other ones i cant deal with or i choose not to deal with,and plus their nosy
At age 54, you've likely already lived the majority of your life, and therefore, don't need to waste one precious moment on no good family members. They're simply not worth it.
@@taronjeroneharris1313 ur right they're not
I am a introvert I don't have those issues but, I have experienced this before.
Can you talk about childhood friends who abounded a person no matter how much he tried to create good activities they constantly said no
Well said. Nuff said .
I needed this…..thank you.
Yes!!! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
The minute I cut toxic family members, toxic democrat friends, and either avoid of told toxic coworkers to eff off… my life became pure bliss
Certain family members in my circle are not ever going to make it right by me. Since those certain family members are still trauma bonding. Not working out their issues other than being addicted to Pharmaceutical psych drugs that don't work and lead to earlier death. Everyone wants shortcuts, when shortcuts only lead to more problems.
Thank you, Tyler!! 💪🏾🙌🏾✨️🫶🏾
I don’t know where you are, but I hope you come back and post new videos. Your videos have been insightful. ❤
big facts tyler
Good !
Thank u Tyler ❤ may Devine Wisdom and guidance always be with you 💝
I refuse to be happy about someone elses misfortune even if they did me dirty. I consider that to be weak. That being said, im not going to do backflips and somersaults to trip over myself coming to the rescue. They can kick a can.
had a cousin get caught with the sack, go behind the walls and start chirping ... get back out and pick the sack right back up and go right back to being on front street .... told him he needs to get a j-o-b and lay low dont pick that stuff up if you cant do the time 'he got mad at me' .... well dis where we part ways cause now we got 2 issues ... 1 . i dont trust u .... 2. aint no tellin when them boys gonna pay u a visit .... u playing with a certain type of fire that i dont play with ...
This!!!
Wise man
Truth 🔥⚰️🖕🏽💯
My brother crossed the line with me a few years ago and I just learned how to cut him off I pray he has a good life he never said sorry especially after what he said about me and my sister he didn’t just cross the line he took the whole mile he hates me until this day and idc he never apologized to me ever I’m starting to live my life I got my Bachelors Degree I am in a relationship which I’m hoping that’s gonna lead to me children until this day I don’t wish nothing bad on him but I refuse to speak to him he’s forever making me feel small and I am blessed with or without him he never treated me right I love him I forgive him and I wish him the best within his life God always got me
Tell it how it is bro preach🙏😌
I don't want to love from a distance i would much rather the enemy keep their distance
Yes They will cross the line even more when you are short and difficult to make money because of that and they treat me very Bad!! And the only thing I can do is wait to have a job and pays well even if it's 15h. They treat me extremely like garbage mom , brothers and more. aleast there is a large park by the house to walk.
Don’t worry. You’re not alone. I was treated like complete trash. No matter what you look like if you’re targeted you’re targeted.
@@HoneyflowerrrYes you're Right Thanks
Yay, Tyler! 🎉
U so right I just had to do what you talking about
havent spoken to brother in almost a year. hes not a bad guy he just doesnt know how to talk to to me or how to say we instead of you. i would be devasted if anything happened regardless. but my case iiisnt that bad
What are your thoughts on the so-called reincarnation trap like is talked about on the subreddit? I think it's a lie.
never heard of it !What does intuition tells you? It will tell you something isn't right😊.
Am I wrong for not wanting a apology I just think we have seasons in people life and whose to say our family members just not meant to be in our life ❤️ like I want nothing to do with them people !
No you’re not. Sorry isn’t enough
I worry about getting new room and leaving here in peace toxic member
Forgive them...but don't forget.
You don't have to fool with them but you should forgive.
I don't forgive unless the person comes apologize or make amends, or make things right. If they don't ,there is no forgiveness nor do I fool with them.
You are obligated to forgive NOT reconcile!
@Tyler JTI agreed 💯 and never forget. I treat them like they are dead to me.
Selah.
Tyler I need your honest opinion mine is a family member but a step family member she’s my dads wife and I gave my father the impression that I would try to work things out with his wife but she has traumatized me so much that I don’t think its right to allow her to even be near me I don’t want to hurt him because I know he wants to force a relationship with me and his wife so badly
Please email me the whole story at my email at tjlwriter32@gmail.com
@@TylerJTI I certainly will thank you so much ❤️❤️