MY SUCCESSFUL IVF JOURNEY | WHAT WORKED, 4 CYCLES, MISCARRIAGE, DIAGNOSE

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  • This is my year long journey going through IVF the good, the bad, the ugly, and everything in between. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat to have a small chance at becoming a mother. I wanted to be as honest as possible and share all of the high’s and low’s. It was never easy from the beginning but I am so incredibly happy to say we pregnant! Thank you for being so patient with me in uploading this video. I knew it would be difficult to film and edit this video and just needed to be in a better place to go back to some of these memories. I know so many of you have reached out asking so many questions because you are going through a similar situation and are frustrated or feel alone. You are not alone, so many of us go through infertility and yet it’s not something most people talk about. I hope my story give you some encouragement and hope.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 620

  • @moonlightdust851
    @moonlightdust851 4 роки тому +127

    Fellow IVF warrior here! We were TTC for 6 years! 4 rounds of IVF, 1 round of IUI. 6 pregnancies. 5 miscarriages, 2 of those at 20 weeks. It was a long and painful battle of infertility. And now we have a 7 month old baby boy conceived naturally. To anyone who feels discouraged, know that you are not alone and your victory will come.

    • @lailaniortiz8995
      @lailaniortiz8995 Рік тому

      How do u know if u have infertility....and need ivf????

    • @moonlightdust851
      @moonlightdust851 Рік тому

      @@lailaniortiz8995 diagnosed by the doctor. After one year of trying.

    • @KS-cl8br
      @KS-cl8br Рік тому +2

      ❤ Congrats on the baby. Did you do genetic testing on the embryos, what got it to work.

    • @KS-cl8br
      @KS-cl8br Рік тому

      ​@@lailaniortiz8995
      man:
      sperm analysis test
      women:
      modern fertility has woman fertility test plus ask Dr for DHEA-S levels,
      Testosterone levels,
      Vitamin D levels,

    • @heddadakudao6138
      @heddadakudao6138 9 місяців тому

      Yes what git it work?

  • @CynthiaHarris1
    @CynthiaHarris1 4 роки тому +65

    I am going through IVF now. I just had my egg retrieval yesterday. Prayers are appreciated. I was not lucky enough to have Insurance cover these charges. I live in NC and Insurance does not cover. It is costing $20,000. We only have enough $ for one cycle. Prayers it only takes one. Thank you for sharing this!!

    • @mrs.doublee8765
      @mrs.doublee8765 4 роки тому +1

      Have you researched Grant's and scholarships for fertility treatments?

    • @CynthiaHarris1
      @CynthiaHarris1 4 роки тому

      Mrs. Double E I have not. Is this a thing? Do you know of any specifically that I should research?

    • @mrs.doublee8765
      @mrs.doublee8765 4 роки тому +2

      Baby Quest is one, but if you google fertility grants, a list will come up. Some are state specific, but others are for everyone. Some women even donate their unused meds. I ended up with some unused meds myself because I responded so well during my retrieval cycle, so I didn't have to go the additional days.

    • @CynthiaHarris1
      @CynthiaHarris1 4 роки тому +1

      Mrs. Double E thank you so much for your help.

    • @emu9520
      @emu9520 4 роки тому +1

      I am praying for you now

  • @MissPaulaLove
    @MissPaulaLove 4 роки тому +137

    You’re so strong Belinda. God gives his toughest battles to his toughest warriors! Congratulations and enjoyed every sweet moment!

    • @MissPaulaLove
      @MissPaulaLove 4 роки тому

      Enjoy*

    • @hangingwithazalea9899
      @hangingwithazalea9899 4 роки тому +7

      Sorry, but the Jesus I know doesn’t give people his toughest battles to anyone! It’s called Life! And life’s not fair! But we got Jesus to help us through it period! We’re not strong! It’s called no choice! Maybe someday you will go through infertility and then understand it.

    • @tracymarshall8056
      @tracymarshall8056 4 роки тому

      To understand more about pregnant program t.co/ZjiQWg7kxq At 44 years of age, I had been able to resolve my erection problems. After learning that my period was delayed, It made me really fired up. Now I welcome parenthood and maternity.

    • @sitt73
      @sitt73 4 роки тому +2

      That is not true !I am here with a second ivf , not working !I am a flat broke ass woman and broken into pieces ...😥😥😥

    • @kiarar361
      @kiarar361 4 роки тому

      Mick Walsh same with me . I’m devastated in my second ivf just showing 3 follicles. I have low amh . I’m not able to sleep

  • @lovehetfield5291
    @lovehetfield5291 4 роки тому +95

    Belinda I cried with you! I will be starting my IVF journey in August, God willing. Thank you for sharing your story. Gives me so much hope. ♥️♥️

    • @Sami-qu8ev
      @Sami-qu8ev 4 роки тому +3

      Love Hetfield God bless you ❤️

    • @IamRenC
      @IamRenC 4 роки тому +3

      Good luck

    • @katielyons8638
      @katielyons8638 4 роки тому +3

      I will pray for you i will be starting ny ivf in August as well i am excited and scared

    • @lovehetfield5291
      @lovehetfield5291 4 роки тому +1

      @@katielyons8638 thank you ❤️ I will pray for you as well!

    • @azifhi6737
      @azifhi6737 4 роки тому

      Me too

  • @Lisa6812
    @Lisa6812 4 роки тому +17

    Your story hits me so much. I can feel all my emotions all over again listening to your story. I did IVF 14 years ago. My daughter will be 13 this July. I had 7 years of complications trying to conceive, miscarriages and surgeries and then we were blessed with our miracle. God Bless you, enjoy every moment, I’m so happy for you. ♥️

  • @NavarreteMinerva
    @NavarreteMinerva 4 роки тому +19

    I am 20 weeks pregnant and seeing your video made me cry! Some of us take for granted that we are fertile and able to get pregnant without IVF or other procedures. I’m so happy for you!! You irradiate all the happiness you feel in your heart through you words and your smile! Stay healthy and safe! Wish you nothing but the best!

  • @24kmh
    @24kmh 4 роки тому +69

    Sound like you let go and let God. You’ve always been such a inspiration but with you sharing your story and being so transparent is really inspiring and encouraging. You’re so strong and I just love your spirit. I pray God continues to bless you and your family!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @eveparilla
    @eveparilla 4 роки тому +72

    So happy for you guys! We'll be on our IVF try #3 after this lockdown. I've been infertile since 2014 and had 3 operations already. I don't have my tubes and 1 ovary left so our only choice is IVF. We're also not giving up. Baby dust to all of us who are undergoing the same issue. We'll persevere 'cos God will give it to us in His time. 😊

    • @miao8699
      @miao8699 2 роки тому +1

      Now do you have baby.after ivf successful

    • @SuperLuckao
      @SuperLuckao Рік тому

      He other choice is adoption. Ivf involves destroying the left over embryos doesn't it? Good if u get 1 to stick. What about the others? Freeze them, donate them predispose of them r ur options.

  • @samgpinkylee
    @samgpinkylee 4 роки тому +56

    I gave up on my Chlomid treatment. My husband and I have been trying for a long time already but actively with Chlomid we did 4 months, after bloodwork and testing. I'm amazed at the strength of us women because man it is a process. I'm super sad about this whole process for me but I'm staying positive and hoping that some day I too have my miracle baby, after 6 years. I'm so happy for you and your hubby. Congratulations. You are going to be amazing :)

    • @jessmrrrt
      @jessmrrrt 4 роки тому +1

      samgpinkylee I got pregnant on clinks don’t loos hope

    • @samgpinkylee
      @samgpinkylee 4 роки тому

      Caroline Quezada thank you so much. I am def. staying faithful.

    • @kristapisano841
      @kristapisano841 4 роки тому +1

      Clomid never worked for me. Letrozole (femara) was a better fit. Letrozole + trigger shot + 2 IUIs finally did it for me after 6 yrs of infertility. Obviously everyone is different, just wanted to share that there are many options. Stay positive, love 🙂

    • @samgpinkylee
      @samgpinkylee 4 роки тому

      Krista Pisano thank you, I think I need to start doing my research so I can start seeing other options. Thank you again 🙏

    • @kristapisano841
      @kristapisano841 4 роки тому +1

      @@samgpinkylee No problem! A good fertility specialist is key. I hope u get some answers soon and your baby shortly thereafter 😘

  • @alliemarie2402
    @alliemarie2402 4 роки тому +34

    😭😭 I bawled my eyes out with you❤️ I know the struggle and the deep yearning for a child. My husband and I have been together for 14 years and nothing. You give me hope. Thank you for your story❤️ May God continue to bless you and your family!

  • @michelebanks4534
    @michelebanks4534 4 роки тому +44

    Belinda, you are the only UA-camr that brings tears to my eyes. You're going to be an amazing mom. Congratulations to you and Ricardo!

    • @reginaseguyy2120
      @reginaseguyy2120 3 роки тому

      Rtf TNn hi l😔🤬🌁🃏🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🙈🐵

    • @reginaseguyy2120
      @reginaseguyy2120 3 роки тому

      T y así que ❓❓🚭 htbb em cn Rennes
      Kg

  • @wondernessful
    @wondernessful 4 роки тому +67

    I’m brought to tears on many levels. I’m going through it. Pregnant with twins. I believe it is by the grace of God and also YOU! I messaged you on IG and you encouraged me to see a specialist. I, too, was putting it in the back burner. Two IUIs later, 2 babies on the way. I’m 13 weeks. I still fear the loss because I also have half a uterus in addition to low amh. Anyway, I didn’t mean this to be about me.
    Thank you for sharing your journey. Your tears are my tears. And I am incredibly, incredibly happy for you and Ricardo. As hard as it was to share, thank you for opening your heart ❤️

    • @AClark15
      @AClark15 4 роки тому +1

      wondernessful congratulations to you too!!!

    • @MrsCindyLeija
      @MrsCindyLeija 4 роки тому +1

      God bless your twins!

    • @louilmac1437
      @louilmac1437 4 роки тому

      wondernessful Congratulations to you and it's understandable you are nervous. I too had a unicornate uterus and God eventually blessed me with two beautiful girls. They are now 20 and 16. So please Take care and God bless you and although it's tough try to enjoy every moment xx 🇬🇧

    • @dynasticrawford2621
      @dynasticrawford2621 3 роки тому

      That's great! Congratulations 👏🏼🎊 I hope to conceive twins too one day via IVF treatments

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 3 роки тому +2

      @@dynasticrawford2621 Please do not wish for twins. There are many complications - women don’t realize it doesn’t not always go well. One baby is safer & what you need to be thankful for. Know this from personal experience.

  • @PoppyGirl715
    @PoppyGirl715 4 роки тому +14

    God bless you Belinda! I understand how losing a baby is so traumatizing, I had no idea I was pregnant when I had an ectopic pregnancy. It ended up rupturing and they had to remove one of my Fallopian tubes. It’s been 2 and a half years since and I am now 5 and half months pregnant with a baby girl. It’s all in Gods time and planning. Praying for you and all of the women!

  • @natalie09ryan
    @natalie09ryan 4 роки тому +28

    Thank you for sharing your story Belinda! My husband and I have been together for 12 years and trying for awhile and nothing is happening.. it makes me feel alone and very depressed.
    Hearing your story gives me so much hope! Many blessings to you, Ricardo and your new miracle baby 💕

    • @PattyGuerrero
      @PattyGuerrero 4 роки тому +5

      Natalie Ryan you got this! I dated my boyfriend super young and have been with him for 11 years and we are barely pregnant after trying for 2+ years. Gods plan is better than ours just when we were about to give up we got pregnant. Sending you prayers!

    • @natalie09ryan
      @natalie09ryan 4 роки тому +1

      Patty Guerrero Oh that is amazing! I love hearing stories ❤️
      Congratulations! And yes I agree, Gods timing is everything! Blessing to you and your family ❤️

    • @YohanaTia
      @YohanaTia 4 роки тому +1

      Just pray and believe that u can!! Someday when the right time comes, when God think that's the right time YOU WILL HAVE A BABY!
      I pray for u too! Keep trying. 😊

  • @mariana1233150
    @mariana1233150 4 роки тому +50

    I can’t wait for the Gender Revealed !!

  • @AbbeyCchannel
    @AbbeyCchannel 4 роки тому +9

    Was anyone else sobbing with her? I had struggles to conceive, and we were blessed with being able to conceive with chlomid. Belinda, I'm so unbelievably happy for you. Can't wait to find out what your little one is, and I can't wait for you to get to experience the continuing joy that is motherhood!

  • @MaleahLilly
    @MaleahLilly 4 роки тому +11

    I cried like a baby watching this. I am so happy for you girl. I know you both will be wonderful wonderful parents. I am so proud of you too for being so open about your journey.

  • @_tyangzo
    @_tyangzo 4 роки тому +10

    I’m considering IVF and literally writing down notes! I am full teary eyes right now -thank you for opening up and sharing your experience. Every bit of it was so touching and informational 💛💛 thank you!

  • @Elizabeth-ev5wv
    @Elizabeth-ev5wv 4 роки тому +4

    I was in tears with you the whole time!!! I’m so happy for you and Ricardo. Hubby and I have been trying for over 5 years. Finally decided to go with IVF...except we did decide to do it in Mexico as we were told our insurance didn’t cover any of it and would start at $20K plus meds, labs and other procedures. I left to Mexico on my own and did all my shots and everything without hubby there until my retrieval since he had to be there for fertilization. We came back. The plan was for me to go back in April to transfer the embryos and then the quarantine started. I can’t lie and say it didn’t make us depressed and felt like it was another obstacle for us to have our baby at the beginning but we talked and told ourselves God has a plan and it will eventually happen. I have to agree with you this has made us love each other so much more...we grown so much and are so much closer. I don’t know anyone with fertility issues so it just seems like no one understands me - even though everyone always says I know how you feel...and I say do you really??? I’ve done so much research and have been obsessed with getting pregnant for so long. I’ve now learned to try and stay calm, positive and healthy. Adoption is always an option. Thanks for sharing your story...and God bless your family.
    Do you mind sharing what insurance you have???

    • @luciavela9513
      @luciavela9513 4 роки тому

      Hello! Where did you go to get the IVF in Mexico?!

  • @thealphalo
    @thealphalo 4 роки тому +9

    You are living proof that love makes all things possible. Thank you for your vulnerability, your honesty...for sharing so much. I am so happy for you 💞

  • @keiryzelaya3205
    @keiryzelaya3205 4 роки тому +10

    You give me hope! I had a miscarriage in January 😢 and it’s the hardest thing i’ve ever gone through after trying for 2 years. 💕 So happy for you!

  • @luvsmetallica08
    @luvsmetallica08 4 роки тому +10

    I'm scared to watch this so I didn't. You're my friend I've seen you happy and glowing, and I don't want to see you any different. I know you said this was difficult and I can't bear to imagine what you went through to get where you are now. You're very strong and caring ❤ This baby is so lucky to have you as a mother.

  • @LynnEpicklo
    @LynnEpicklo 4 роки тому +1

    I too suffered with fertility issues and through several miscarriages. I was blessed to have already given birth to my daughter before we actually became aware of my fertility issues (she was truly my miracle baby). I’m so happy for you and your husband that you are now happily pregnant and send you lots of love and prayers for continued health and the safe delivery of your miracle baby.

  • @nich852
    @nich852 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing your story! I am starting my IVF i injectables next week! We have been TTC for six years, five IUI’s and one miscarriage. Congratulations on your miracle baby!

  • @nativprincess1
    @nativprincess1 4 роки тому +1

    My husband was very skeptical about IVF as well. Our story is very similar to yours. We got together in middle school/high school at 13/15. We waited 10 years to start trying. For 5 years nothing happened. I was finally diagnosed with pcos and for another 4 years we tried off and on with clomid, femara, Medicated cycles, and iui’s. Finally my husband realized everything my doctor was saying about IVF being our best option might just be true. We finally started that journey. We did two retrieval cycles and ended with 10 embryos! The second cycle was a success! And I’m currently laying next to my 5 month old boy💕 20 years later we have our baby! And we are just beginning our family! Thank you for using your platform to spread positivity about IVF! It is such a lonely process even if you have a very supportive spouse.

  • @jjsanti3529
    @jjsanti3529 4 роки тому +1

    So thankful for your pregnancy! I have been praying for you intermittently for the past 2 yrs. To be able to conceive. I will continue to ask Our Father in Heaven to bless your home and this precious gift.

  • @HotNewLooksSusanJepson
    @HotNewLooksSusanJepson 4 роки тому +5

    Words are inadequate to express how are feel right now about your story. I was having so many mixed emotions listening to you, all l can say right now is congratulations to you and your husband. No matter what, never give up on your dream, light is always at the end of the tunnel!

  • @tintin6510
    @tintin6510 4 роки тому +3

    I'm so happy for you Belinda! Me and my husband underwent 2 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs last year (7 years of marriage) - but we are not giving up! After this quarantine, we are going on for another 1! We believe it will happen soon for us! Always take care my love! We love you!

  • @robynkahle7240
    @robynkahle7240 4 роки тому +3

    The thing is I honestly believe that most women have had a miscarriage and not have even known. It’s just a late period, a heavier flow, more cramping. When you are ttc you know so much more about what’s going on with your body and cycle. I experienced a tough time with our second and it ended up being something called luteal phase defect,. Clomid helped for us but there is no describing that feeling of wanting a baby so bad and not being able to do what so many women can do. All of your struggle will only make you love and appreciate being a mother so much more. You guys are going to be amazing parents. Thank you for sharing your story, it will help so many people going through this too.

  • @cccmv8059
    @cccmv8059 4 роки тому +1

    Belinda we are such strong women. God is with us. I also did IVF and got pregnant the first time. We’ve been trying for 2 years and we were pregnant! We lost her at 26 weeks and I had to deliver her and see her without a cry. She’s our guardian angel and we are trying again and starting IVF in July. Stay strong. I will never know why God decided to do what he did but I have faith he has the right plan for us. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️

  • @jamieladawn9212
    @jamieladawn9212 4 роки тому +2

    So many congratulations. After 6 years and 3 months of infertility, we finally got our miracle. Currently 26 weeks with a little boy. As a woman who’s been through the infertility journey, I see you. Thankful for those supportive husbands. And so very thankful for those baby kicks. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @diana.tosado
    @diana.tosado 4 роки тому +4

    I can not believe many women have to go through all this wanting to be a mom.. I feel so thankful and blessed .. Congratulations ❤️ You made me see pregnancy in a whole different way ..And made me extremely thankful to be a mom and have my baby boy ❤️ Also that feeling if your baby moving is the most amazing feeling knowing you are creating life 😭❤️

    • @diana.tosado
      @diana.tosado 4 роки тому

      OMG I HAVE A FEELING ITS A BOY 💙💙💙💙

  • @heatherhagins8246
    @heatherhagins8246 4 роки тому +3

    Words can’t describe how incredibly happy I am for you and Ricardo! I know the struggle and the hurt and I don’t think I’d be able to talk so openly about it! So thank you for making this video for everyone who needs it! And for giving people hope! My husband and I finally conceived after 7 years and I’m actually only a week or so ahead of you! Congratulations again!

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 4 роки тому +1

    I am a new sub. I am a retired nurse and was unable to conceive a child. I know the fear and pain involved. I want to thank you for making this informative,honest & powerful video. I know you will help another couple. Sending lots of prayers,love & hugs your way. Enjoy this time as much as you can. You so deserve it. Keep smiling beautiful.

  • @kiith50
    @kiith50 4 роки тому +1

    It's okay girl. Cry, be happy, rejoice. It's a great feeling to accomplish being able to give life. 🙏🏽

  • @LadyGlamour11
    @LadyGlamour11 3 роки тому +1

    I cried so much watching this! You are a strong woman that never gives up on what you want in your life, and you have a very supportive husband. I wish you all the happiness in life. Good luck to your motherhood journey 🥰

    • @autahassan143
      @autahassan143 2 роки тому

      Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful.🆗

  • @giskuar
    @giskuar 4 роки тому +1

    I don’t know how many times I’ve watched this!!!! I cried so much. I too have struggles to become a momma and I pray one day his will be my story!!! Thank you for sharing.

  • @countryliving4890
    @countryliving4890 4 роки тому +4

    You’re child is going to see this one day and know how much he/she is loved by both of you🥰🥰🥰 beautiful Blessing from God ... cant wait to see your new journey 😍🤗🤗🤗

  • @CP12350
    @CP12350 4 роки тому +4

    Watching you give yourself the shots is so emotional...I’m so proud of you!

  • @juicyhonee23
    @juicyhonee23 4 роки тому

    I've followed you for many years. The reason why I've stucked around was because you're such a genuine and sweet person. It's like I know you even though we don't. I always wonder why certain things happen to certain people. But at the end of the day we wouldn't know love we wouldn't know hard work we wouldn't know the blessings that we are now grateful for. I'm beyond happy for your family on this new journey of Parenthood. You honestly deserve everything and more. You are such an amazing human being. I don't normally go on UA-cam and write a whole essay in comments. But just thought I'd let you know how grateful I am that you shared such a vulnerable moment in your life. Once again congratulations and here's to a bright and happy future!!!

  • @jouselinesmith7669
    @jouselinesmith7669 4 роки тому +2

    I cried with you Belinda ! I’m extremely excited for you , my hubby and I have been struggling to get pregnant for almost 2 years now and I long for the day we get pregnant 🙏🏽

  • @emmacoops642
    @emmacoops642 4 роки тому +1

    Congratulations Belinda and to you hubby as well, you are so strong to go through what you have been through. It took 8yrs for me to finally fall pregnant and he is now 13yrs old. Baby’s/children are certainly miracles 🌺🌺🌺

  • @lisamarie9918
    @lisamarie9918 4 роки тому +1

    I got pregnant so easy when I was 18 so I took it for granted that I was fertile. Sadly, I did not meet Mr. Right until I was in my late 30’s and suffered from PCOS so we were never able to conceive. SO happy for you both. I hope your baby grows up to love and respect you both the rest of your days.💝🙏🏽

  • @BossdomChronicals
    @BossdomChronicals 4 роки тому

    Labor begins long before you deliver. Conceiving, going through the trimesters until you feel safe, morning sickness, all of the prayers for a safe delivery, holding your breath with every little change in the baby’s routine is all a part of labor...Being pregnant is truly a labor of love. After I had my miracle baby at 34, I realized when I went to the hospital to have her that was delivery but the journey of carrying her was the labor. Blessings to you both.

  • @kenialopez8029
    @kenialopez8029 4 роки тому +2

    I am so proud of you Belinda! Thank you for sharing with us this part of your life.
    I have hormonal problems and I also a O negative blood carrier and I had 3 miscarriages when I was young. I wasn’t trying at that point and I had put in my mindset that I was probably never going to conceive.
    I have a soon to be 4 year old and is a blessing!

  • @CB-jv6cj
    @CB-jv6cj 4 роки тому +3

    I love how emotional and real you get in this video. I am now ttc for 30 cycles, I've had a miscarriage a year ago and am able to go and call my doctor in june/July to make a new appointment and I'm expecting to have to do iui or ivf and I felt terrified. This video is really helpful and interesting. It gives me a lot of hope. You seem like such a sweet person, I'm so happy for you.

  • @fabfamily3601
    @fabfamily3601 4 роки тому +1

    Another subscriber here😀. I’ll be having my 6th ivf cycle. After 5 failed cycle ( miscarriages, trisomy and monosomy embryos )I thought that’s it, it will never happen but my husband is very supportive and wants to fight till the end. We named our angel babies, it’s like a comfort for both of us knowing that we have angel babies.

  • @celenegonzalez5488
    @celenegonzalez5488 4 роки тому

    Belinda!!
    This video made me cry! I have been a subscriber for a few years now and I am EXTREMELY happy for you and Ricardo in this journey. I have so much administration for you in how you carry yourself and handle difficult situations. This video will reach SO many people who are experiencing something similar. Thank you for being YOU!

  • @brittany7853
    @brittany7853 4 роки тому

    Belinda this video made me cry tears of joy for you and Ricardo. I pray for a healthy pregnancy, smooth labor/delivery and healthy baby for you two! Your such an amazing person I enjoy watching your videos. This baby is so blessed to have you and Ricardo for parents. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!

  • @jennierosebryan1744
    @jennierosebryan1744 4 роки тому

    Been following your journey for years and now another journey has opened up for you. Can not wait for another episode. Take your time and enjoy everything.

  • @YvonneWWG
    @YvonneWWG 4 роки тому +1

    You’re strong and I admire your courage for speaking from your heart in what you have been through. Please know that you have and are still helping people facing the same situation as you have been though. Your tears are not in vain. My journey has been longer and I’m not giving up . Hopefully we do our ivf implantation in January 2021 but I just want you to know you’re story is reaching many. Stay blessed 🌹

  • @sandyxiong5113
    @sandyxiong5113 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video. My husband we are in the same boat. Married for 5 years. 3 unsuccessful pregnancy. We are currently on infertility treatment and possibly will go toward IUI and IVF. I was honestly scare but your video has given me so much strength. Thank you again for sharing your experience. Bless for a safe pregnancy and delivery. ❤❤❤ You got this!!!

  • @carinadias
    @carinadias 4 роки тому +1

    You are so strong my dear. You know, motherhood is a blessing and you are so inspiring to us and you deserve the best in the world. So happy for you. And if you could get pregnant now and you froze your eggs I believe you will be hable to consive again for a second child if that is your desire.
    I'm a mother of 2 brilliant kids and I can't imagine my life without them and seeing stories like your make me feel blessed. I still want a third baby.
    You are blessed and that baby will be raised the best way. Full of love.
    Wish you the best. God bless you and your family.

  • @0xpaulax
    @0xpaulax 4 роки тому +1

    I’m so happy you’re pregnant now! Congratulations 🥳 you guys deserve to be parents. That baby was God sent 🙏

  • @MD-hn8lv
    @MD-hn8lv 2 роки тому

    You are a very courageous and role model for many women who are eager to have babies through IVF. Thank you for your openness and sharing your experience. I am touched by how strong and dedicated you are.

  • @erikac8612
    @erikac8612 4 роки тому +1

    Seeing how happy you were the first time receiving the news it made me sad knowing what would happen next. I'm happy you kept on going and overcame the struggle. I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant and I understand the fears early on in pregnancy. Especially with the virus it just throws up a lot of unknowns. I get my full ultrasound next month and so excited to see how much baby has grown. My April prenatal was just online so I didn't get to hear heart beats or see her at all. I love following your journey as i'm not too far behind you!

  • @KristaPaigeCosmetics
    @KristaPaigeCosmetics 4 роки тому +1

    Me and my husband have been trying for a year and a half now and just went for our first consult apt with ivf! Thanks for on the information ❤️ gives me hope! It is so lonely when you see everyone else get pregnant so easily and wonder what’s wrong with you. So happy for you!!

  • @thatthomaslife195
    @thatthomaslife195 4 роки тому +1

    Girl you are making me cry so much. I am so happy for you! I cant wait for this baby and your new life! Its such a great feeling. I was looking at my almost 3 year olds pictures on my phone today and was just so happy and missing ehr being a baby. We are going to start trying for number two this year. I am now 32 and it took us a year to get pregnant when i was 28-29 so I am hoping it wont take as long now. ❤

  • @julia-ov4tl
    @julia-ov4tl 4 роки тому +2

    You guys did it mama god is good

  • @beautyandthebookaholic7347
    @beautyandthebookaholic7347 4 роки тому

    I’ve never cried so much watching a video. You are so strong, brave, and your perseverance is amazing. I’m so happy for you and that your journey has a happy ending. God is good. I pray for a healthy baby and a healthy mommy.

  • @belenhernandez4619
    @belenhernandez4619 4 роки тому +2

    Congrats Belinda!! ❤️👏🏻 You are going to be a great mom!! You are so full of love and your family is so beautiful!!! I wish you the best for this new phase in your life and send you tons of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JojoG3779
    @JojoG3779 4 роки тому +1

    OMG, Belinda, you had me go back in time when I was going through my medical challenges trying to have a baby. I cried with you every moment of it cause I know the roller coaster of feelings you experienced and the joy you're going through right now. I'm so excited for you and Ricardo, I wish you nothing but the best!! May God bless you and your family today and always! Thanks for sharing your story, we live you girl!! Muchos besos back to ya!

  • @cuteangelita9
    @cuteangelita9 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video. I cried with you. It gives me hope. My husband and I went through our first ivf cycle starting last year in June. Had 1 miscarriage and 1 failed frozen embryo transfer. Now currently on hold for our 2nd ivf cycle due to the covid19. For now we’re trying natural but our chances our super slim. Praying for a miracle. Congrats on your baby and good vibes to you and your hubby. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @karlavasquez5860
    @karlavasquez5860 4 роки тому

    I’m in the middle of it and I can’t even stop crying . I’m a sorry you went thru so much . You have no idea how happy I am for you guys ! You will be the best mama ever .

  • @karmydelapaz5551
    @karmydelapaz5551 4 роки тому +5

    I’ve been waiting for your video!!! Omg I’m so happy for you ❤️God bless your pregnancy

  • @NaturalNikz
    @NaturalNikz 4 роки тому

    Belinda I started watching you many years ago and the reason I have stuck around is because you are a honest and beautiful person. I am tremendously happy for you and Ricardo and I pray you will have a beautiful baby that will grow up in a loving supportive home. God bless you and your family 💞

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 роки тому

    I am super late but this video gave me so much hope. I totally understand your tears. I am going for my first IVF appointment and I am excited. I was anxious and angry at God, but now I am approaching this with confidence that He will make it happen for me, as He did for you.
    Thank you for sharing this beautiful story of perseverance.

  • @kaylapaula5740
    @kaylapaula5740 4 роки тому +1

    Belinda, I am so happy for you and Ricardo!! This video brought me to tears. I have been watching you for years and am beyond happy to see your family growing! I work at a fertility center and it's a really rewarding experience to help bring new life into the world. Everything about this video was a huge reminder of that. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others! Seeing the way you talk about your baby makes me so excited to become a mom in the future. I cant wait for the gender reveal!! 💕💕💕

  • @sandyg4801
    @sandyg4801 2 роки тому

    i'm tearing up over here out of pure joy for you. thanks for sharing your experience. i am in my first IVF cycle and have low AMH. you're a warrior xoxox i know it's been almost 2 years since you filmed this as i discovered this video, so blessing to you and your family. im sure motherhood is treating you well

  • @angieramirez92
    @angieramirez92 4 роки тому +1

    I watch this and I feel your pain!! And I get so emotional because I have pcos and my last baby was such a miracle! And I remember all them negative pregnancy test all them nights I would cry myself to sleep! And it felt like no one understood my hurt!! They told me my tubes were blocked and that my only hope was IVF days after they told me that!! I got pregnant ❤️ still while on drugs but no iui’s nor Ivf 🙂 congratulations on baby 🥰

  • @natalieborjas4712
    @natalieborjas4712 4 роки тому

    I’m crying like a baby!! 😭😭 bless your heart and Ricardo and baby ❤️❤️ I myself was trying so hard to get pregnant with my first husband, and he left me, after 8 years of marriage. A year later I found a person that loves me and accepted me for who I am, I saw 3 doctors and they all told me I would need “a little push” “a little help” to get pregnant. But God is great and amazing. A few weeks ago I found out I’m pregnant and I’m the HAPPIEST WOMAN ALIVE!!! Only God knows how much I cried and asked for this miracle!! Because that’s what my baby is!! A miracle from God! My bf and I are extrema happy and content. I wish you the best love ❤️

  • @zoorganizowanamama7819
    @zoorganizowanamama7819 4 роки тому

    With my first son I got pregnant by accident.
    With my daughter we decided we want to start trying and I got pregnant on the first time. I think I never realised how incredibly lucky I was . You’re amazing and inspiring women ! I am so happy for you ! I wish you all the best ❤️

  • @lorenabellavida
    @lorenabellavida 4 роки тому +1

    I lost count of how many times I teared up during this video. I'm so happy for you & Ricardo.❤

  • @jennifereldridge2719
    @jennifereldridge2719 3 роки тому +1

    Thank for sharing this video with me I been try to get pregnant for almost three years now I had did four Clyde's of letrzole and nothing happened thank you again for sharing this video it's gives me hope again 🙏😇😇

    • @autahassan143
      @autahassan143 2 роки тому

      Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful.🆗

  • @priscillagwinn9129
    @priscillagwinn9129 4 роки тому

    You are a strong person to be have gone through what you have. Thank you for sharing everything (the good, the bad and the ugly). It takes a lot to go through yet alone relive it to make a video. You can see in the videos how this process has made your marriage stronger and I can see the closeness. I love your videos and can’t wait to see the bundle of joy.

  • @beingkitschroeder2507
    @beingkitschroeder2507 4 роки тому

    I just don't know what to say because i want to say everything. You are so loved here in this YT community and we are ALL so beyond overjoyed for you and Ricardo.

  • @celyd5284
    @celyd5284 4 роки тому

    Belinda, I want to tell you how immensely proud I am of you. You are so brave to be open and vulnerable with all of your viewers. I cried with you as you shared your journey. I myself have been dealing with infertility and in order to conceive we need ivf as well as egg donation. You will help so many people with sharing your journey. I'm so grateful to God that you and Ricardo were blessed with your rainbow baby. You are both going to be amazing parents! Xoxo

  • @hannahm7010
    @hannahm7010 4 роки тому

    The start of your journey pretty much exactly mirrors ours. We've been trying for almost 5 years now. Had so many tests done and they've found nothing wrong with either of us... so frustrating. But the option we've been given is IVF. Hoping to start it in the new year, all being well! So happy that you were successful, it gives me hope xx

  • @Stacy_Scraps_Plans_Creates
    @Stacy_Scraps_Plans_Creates 4 роки тому +1

    Oh my gosh, the memories came flooding back to me, I went thru IUI with my 1st child. I had a ectopic with the 1st round and I took almost a year to try again I was so heartbroken. I cried with you, I’m so glad you shared your story, it is so worth it, it is priceless, they are worth every single penny, every shot, every tear! Congratulations!

  • @maurica0x
    @maurica0x 4 роки тому

    I cant stop crying! I can’t even being to tell you how happy I am for you and Ricardo! ❤️ God is good. 🙏🏽 So many blessings to you and him both! Again, thank you for being so real and taking us along on this beautiful journey. ✨

  • @ameliaolsen3
    @ameliaolsen3 4 роки тому +2

    Currently on stims day 5 of our first IVF cycle. Getting motivation to stay positive from your story ❤️❤️ thank you for sharing!

  • @alexad3278
    @alexad3278 4 роки тому +1

    I cried this whole video 😭 I’m so unbelievably happy for you 💕 thank you so much for sharing your story

  • @tiffystyle1322
    @tiffystyle1322 4 роки тому

    I seriously didn't think I would b able to get through this entire video. I had to take like two breaks. My heart is bursting for you guys. I'm so happy and excited for you. Thank you for sharing your lives and your journey with us. I'm praying for your health and happiness. 💕

  • @karlamedina5280
    @karlamedina5280 4 роки тому +2

    I bawled my eyes out with you 💜 I know the feeling. We didn't go thru IVF, but we did had a miscarriage the first time we got pregnant. That's has been the worst day of my life, I still cry when I think about. I was around 9-10 weeks when it happened. And it took me 6 years to be ready to try again. I have PCOS so that made it harder. We tried for a year on our own without any luck. I did go thru a lot of testing just to make sure there wasn't anything else going on other than my PCOS, everything was normal on my side. My husband's sperm was normal except the morphology of the sperm (which is the shape of the sperm) was a little bit different. Dr. explained that would make harder for the sperm to penetrate the egg and with me having PCOS it would be even harder to get pregnant. He said that I would probably need IVF. I was devastated and I lost hope, but he started me on metformin to regulate my period and we started saving for the IVF procedure. Thinking that I wouldn't get pregnant without the help of IVF, I just stopped thinking about because we needed to save up the money first. And surprisingly, 3 months later I had a positive pregnancy test. I couldn't believe it, I was soo happy, nervous and afraid of having another miscarriage. When my gynecologist saw me he said: soo what happened?! We was surprised as well. And now I have a year old daughter and she is my life. I love watching your videos and love to see you pregnancy journey, it makes me happy. Can't wait to meet your little one! Muchos besos 🥰💜
    P.S don't mind my grammar, my daughter was helping me type lol...

  • @prasamshapoudel2057
    @prasamshapoudel2057 4 роки тому

    You are really strong women. Seeing you getting emotional made me emotinal bc you've been into very difficult times.God bless you,your baby and you family who supported you so much.Best wishes and love.

  • @seiwhat1
    @seiwhat1 4 роки тому +1

    My husband and I are having trouble conceiving and IVF May have to be our option but watching this makes me less scared if I have to do this. Thank you for being honest and sharing your story. Congratulations to you and your hubby.

  • @paridhiyadav9939
    @paridhiyadav9939 3 роки тому +1

    It was my 3rd ivf cycle. Got 3 miscarriage, 1 ivf miscarriage n now again lost at week 6. I don't knw how to hold. It's been 6 yrs I'm trying for my baby. I hope I will get my miracle baby as we will try again through ivf. Liw amh 1.7. M 31 now. Ur story gives me boost to try again. God help me

    • @autahassan143
      @autahassan143 2 роки тому

      Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful.🆗

  • @CLM5430
    @CLM5430 4 роки тому +2

    WOW What a powerful story! Continued Blessings to your ever growing family.

  • @Planwithlatifa
    @Planwithlatifa 4 роки тому

    I’m so happy u didn’t give up and that you are finally getting the baby u deserve. It’s nice seeing you this raw, don’t worry about crying. It’s such a wonderful blessing to be a mom. I am one and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

  • @Asiafe
    @Asiafe 4 роки тому +3

    Awww I am so happy for you and Ricardo, Belinda 🥺 you guys have come a long way and I just wanna give you the biggest hug!! I can’t wait for the gender reveal video 💕💕

  • @firefilledcreations
    @firefilledcreations 4 роки тому +1

    So happy for you both! Children are a blessing and God is so good. Your next pregnancy, which won't be too long after this one will come much easier almost unexpected. Be blessed!!!

  • @SweetMelin213
    @SweetMelin213 4 роки тому

    Belinda, your story, although difficult, was so beautiful. Perseverance, strength and a strong faith in God has brought you to where you both are today. So happy for you both!

  • @marisol2786
    @marisol2786 4 роки тому

    Belinda, I pray for you everyday!!!! I pray God watches over you & Ricardo & your little Angel!!! I pray every good thing for y’all! I pray God keeps his arms around y’all!! Your little Angel is so blessed to have y’all as parents!!! 💕

  • @jessicaguzman8449
    @jessicaguzman8449 4 роки тому +1

    Congratulations Belinda ♥️ so happy for both Ricardo and you. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @chelseygraciano1509
    @chelseygraciano1509 4 роки тому +1

    I’ve been watching your videos for so many years now and I’m just so happy for you guys! Thank you for sharing your story with us❤️ You will with doubt be amazing parents!!

  • @janicetubman8378
    @janicetubman8378 4 роки тому +1

    This video will be helpful for so many women. Thank you for being so open about a deeply personal topic.

  • @natalieh823
    @natalieh823 4 роки тому

    I am soo happy for you. I have been watching your channel for so many years. Since you lived in the attic. You have come a long way. You are going to be an amazing mother!

  • @Treacherous258
    @Treacherous258 4 роки тому +1

    😭 I’m so happy for you congratulations I’m due in July first time parent I’m excited and scared. I’ll been having so many complications during my pregnancy. I’m happy that I’ll meet my baby soon I’m at 26 week so far . Finally received some good news that I’m gaining weight and my iron level finally up and stable. Found out during my pregnancy that I carry the sickle cell trait with low iron levels and diagnosed with anemia.

  • @tesscan069
    @tesscan069 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. After a year trying on our own with charts and thermometers, my husband and I did 3 cycles of IUI with all the tests and medications. First cycle ended in an ectopic pregnancy which I had to wait to pass; the second cycle gave us our son and the third cycle a set of twin boy/girl babies. Wishing hope to all those out there. I still feel sad about my first loss which may seem silly considering I now have 3 happy and healthy teenagers. It’s important to go though your feelings and lean on those around you. Love and light to everyone. ❤️

  • @simplyy.imagine7810
    @simplyy.imagine7810 4 роки тому +1

    Congratulation on your rainbow baby 🌈 👶🏻 ❤️ You are strong! I honestly can’t wait until you announce the gender of the baby 😭 GOD is so big, everything/anything is possible... Sending you blessings from my little family to yours ❤️