Kakaba-kaba ka ba? (Are you too nervous to speak?) - Payo Ni Ate Lyqa - Get Hired
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I failed twice during my first and second interview with the different companies. After kong mag salang sa pangatlong pagkakataon. I watched this vid. eto I got the job na
Congrats
congrats
Congrats po.
congrats po yieee
Sana mngyari din to sa akin?
I still remember the days when my professor had appoint me to report certain topic. I used wrong grammar and my classmates were all laughing at me for that one wrong grammar I have been uttered. Now, I am watching this video to build again may confidence in public speaking. I am always watching a lot of videos from you to learn more. Thank you ate Lyqa!
Same here
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Same experienced😭
Same 😭
My take:
1) Prepare for the interview.
2) Practice for the interview may it be the questions or the assessment examination that you're applying.
3) Pause and take a breath for a moment to clear-out your mind you'll be able to think properly.
(breath in, breath out, think then attack)
4)Pardon yourself be forgiving. Accept your mistakes. Don't be to hard on yourself.
thank you ate lyqa!
Whenever I practice speaking in English, I always see myself in front of a mirror so I know how I look like. Then during interviews, I imagine that the interviewer is my reflection I see in the mirror whenever I practice, and it help me a lot. Hehehe.
nice po
I was failed my interview yesterday because of I am nervous, since I see your videos for education I am interested to learn that I am now practicing and I'll stimulate my brain, Thank you Coach Lyqa for your videos inspirations and tips
any updates to your career sir, did you already land a job ?
What's the latest update?
Agree, don't overthink and don't be too hard to yourself. "Kapag nagkamali, bawi na lang next time." Thank you Ms. Lyca for this very informative video.
I love how ate talk about God, cos guess what? I am here because I preach sa simbahan namin. I'm 15 and I am always nervous before stage but because of the Holy Spirit I am able to be the voice of God.
I had just fail my interview today. I thought it's th end of the world until I saw this vid. God Bless you miss Lyqa.
Yeah its true i feel the same way actualy..
Hi just wondering since I came across at the logo of your profile whythe nazi logo?
@@loumarasigan4363 to be honest that symbol means alot different in Indian culture so probably why it's white I guess?
hai mam can u teach me to be confident speaking english
Mahirap talaga.
Tip:
1 prepare
2 practice
3 pause
4 pardon (yourself)
idol po kita 😍 slamat po sa tips
ito yung youtuber na may malasakit ng sobra sobra thank you Ms Lyca!
"di yon katapusan ng mundo" nagising ako sa message nato masyado ko kasi dinibdib interview last friday kasi alam kong di ako pasa. ilang araw ako nalugmok di maka kakain at tulog. Watching you Ms. Lyqa gave me hope and be forgiving always lalo na sa sarili ko. First time ko panoodin ang vid mo dito sa youtube dami ko na agad natutunan. Thank u :)
No. 4 hits me so much. I'm the kind of person na, if I made a mistakes or failed on something, never na mawawala sa utak ko. But Ms. Lyca solved my problem. You're right, bawi nalang next time. There's always room for improvement.
I suffered from social anxiety since I was in high school. It sucks big time. Fast forward to today, I am now in college and my anxiety wasn't as bad but I still get the nerves whenever I have to speak in front of other people. Honestly, I haven't had people to talk to regarding my condition but I'm glad that you can give advices to people like me. Even though di pa naman ako magaaply for job interview since 1st year pa lang po ako. Still, I want to thank you for making quality content. Thank you Ma'am Lyka. Kudos to you. 🤗
How did you know po na may social anxiety kayo. Kasi ako gusto ko din malaman kung meron
@@freakyfreddy7934 sa part ko po natatakot akong nasa harap ng maraming tao. Natatakot akong makipag socialize sa iba. Takot akong baka husgahan at I humiliate nnmn ako ng iba. I'd rather be on my own than being with a company.
@@freakyfreddy7934 Manginginig, Manlalamig pag nasa public. Worst is difficult to breath.
Same po tayo ng condition 😥
Same us po, I am currently 1st year college taking education. Tho I have social anxieties lalo na kapag reporting. ‘Di ko pa rin alam why I took this course when in reality I am shy potato.
Hoping to know you overcome your social anxiety po.
18:35 "Galingan nyo nalang sa susunod" Huhuhu andami kong nasayang na opportunity. Ang hirap ng ganitong buhay. Tapos nag o-overthink paaa😣. I hope this video will help me to my future interviews. Thank you Coach Lyqa😘
Apportunity po.
@@rhenzponggo1129 isa ka din ahahaha
Same here hayss
I think Ms lyca is a Christian😇kitang-kita yung talented na galing kay Lord💙
@@rodolfoabano6231 tf?
I stutter, stammer, babble, and fumble during interviews, and listening to you I realized that my problem is not really the kakaba-kaba itself because I almost always have a smooth start but rather the speaking block or mental block that occurs at some point when the questions become challenging or into stuff that I didn't cover in my preparation. I hope you can delve into this in your future videos.
Same😭
Same I just failed my 1st interview cuz of that😭
Same
Same. 1 year ago na pala to 🙂
@@ArianeEnairaNuyda still same that's why napadpad ako dito hahaha I've failed 3 interviews na dahil din dyan :>
share ko lang yung naexperience ko nung nag ojt ako sa isang sikat na BPO company dto sa cavite, my supervisor ask me to discuss about the company's referral recruitment process (sa madaling sabi mgsasalita ako sa harap ng mga applicants na magagaling mag English) , sobrang ko as in nginig buong katawan ko then nasa kalagitnaan ako ng discussion bglang hnd ko alam kung anong "IN, AT , or HERE" ba ung gagamitin ko ang ending binigkas ko lht tpos kunwari hnd ako nagkamali grabe tlg hahahaha
SKL 🥰
Tinatamaan ako coach sa last part ng video, sa "pardon yourself" kasi honestly i feel so down nung last try ko po sa interview, and parang mula nun na trauma na ko. Kaya di na ko nag ta try mag apply for other position or sa ibang company dahil dun sa fear ko from that time.
Nkpag prepare nman po ako, pero feeling ko it's not enough during that timw kaya di ko na win yung 1st level interview 😅
Pero salamat po sa mga tips like this, para mas ma-improve ko pa ang sarili ko.
Keep safe po and Godbless
May final interview ako mamayang 1pm Good luch and wish me luck guys❤️❤️
I failed my interview today. Kapag pumasa ako, magcocomment ako ulit dito 😊 Trust the process! Keep on praying 🙏🏼
Ano inaplayan mo ba?
Well? How about now?
Na experience ko last saturday na interview po ako sa BPO company, that is my first job interview. Sobrang kabado although nag memorize and na review kona resume ko. kaso lahat po ma na memorize ko is ligwak nagka rumble rumble mga sentences and grammar ko. First station upto 4th station ng interview pumasa. Pero mung nasa final na OMG. Tell me about yourself, na hindi mo sinabi sa mga interviewer a while (Diko alam i english ate lyqa pero yan pagkakaintindi ko) grabe nag story telling po ako sa past life ko, tapos after ko magkwento, okay we will call you if you past or fail thank you. Then totoo po sinabi niyo na kapag mali yung sarili natin dipo natin kaya patawarin . Ayun Hindi po ata ako nakapasa sa final interview hanggang ngayon hindi pa din po sila nag memessage. Sobrang nakakatulong po yung mga videos niyo❤️❣️ next time alam kona po gagawin💛💚. Godbless ate lyqa hope to see you soon po. Staysafe and stay healthy🙏🏼❤️
Nangyari sakin to final interview na BPO company din tapos wala akong naisip na isasagot nagkautal-utal na ako huhu
The hardest to answer is the easiest question.
@@manhwamaster5880 true
I just failed my over the phone interview today, and I admit that I lack of communication skills and self conficence, I got so nervous to the point that I couldn't construct my sentences in my head😵
sameee kinakabahan ako na hindi
ko na alam sasabihin koo
Same here
Same po 😩
Thank you ate Lyqa. Huhu very inspiring. Sobrang nawawalan na kasi ako ng pag asa mag apply kahit di ko pa nasisimulan after ko magresign sa previous work ko and it's been 5 months na wala akong work. Ngayon pinag aaply na ko ng parents ko at ang kinakatakot ko sa lahat ay ang interview. Habang tumatagal bumababa ang tiwala ko sa sarili and lagi kong tinatanong sa sarili ko kung anong purpose ko sa buhay bakit ganito ako? Kahit na graduate ako ng college nandto ako sa bahay nakatambay pero yung mga dati kong classmate professional na. I really don't know what to do with my life. Thank you ate Lyqa. Habang pinapakinggan kita parang naiiyak ako at gusto ko magconfess ng nararamdaman ko. Ilang beses kong gustong ipaliwanag sa parents ko na hindi ako okay at hindi ako ready pero ang totoo, nawalan lang pala talaga akong confident dahil sa naging experience ko. Balak ko nang mag apply ngayon at naghahanap ako ng work from home jobs. Sana makapasa. 🙏🏻
God Bless po. Bago mo po akong fan😄
Same situation. Pero kakayanin!🥰
I kept watching videos like ds.takot aq sobra for my age sa tagal q d nag apply lalo sa ganitong field.kailangan q na magwork pro inaatake aq ng takot wla pa aq nasisimulan. Sana mahanap q na ung courage at mag apply na. Need to learn so many things pa..
I failed my first interview yesterday because of nervousness huhu ,but I won't give up
I'm planning to apply in a BPO company 2 days from now and I'm watching your vids because I'm lacking in comm. skills. It's a big help for me. Thank you for this Ms. Lyqa❤
Ate Lyqa, can you make a video for "How to speak english clearly" dahil hindi lang kaba ang kalaban ko. Pati narin po sa way ng pagsasalita. Like, no one understand what I want to say. Huhu. Hope you notice! God bless! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
First of all before u speak in front of people u must think that all you can face u put in your mind all of them are fool, so that u can manage your nervouz, don't think anything that they are so intelligent they also a human a commit error and of course u must practice so that u can recall what was what u have practicing 😂
@@ellyduman-ag7599 I don't mean to be rude or harsh but you really need to improve your English writing skills. Take this as a constructive criticism.
@@imogenpaige1780 Hahaha exactly
Hello po Ma'am Lyqa😊
English major here and all of your videos were totally help me to improve my skills especially in speaking and i hope that you will not stop making another videos to help us. God bless you po.😊
UA-camr na sobrang humble
Mam idol po kita,Godbless💖
Sobrang agree po ako sa Pardon. May problem po ako when it comes to speaking. I get anxious to the point na nahihirapan akong huminga, nag da-dry ang throat ko kaya inom ako ng inom ng water, naluluha ang mga mata, or nag me-mental block ako. Dati, sakto lang naman po ang kaba ko during interviews dahil hindi masyado ako nag e-expect ma hire agad kasi fresh graduate at gusto ko lang gumala muna, pero ang problema ko nung nag seryoso na ako sa paghahanap ng work at maraming interview na ang pinagdaanan ko, hindi ko malimutan ang mga mistakes ko sa interviews until such time na iniisip ko na bobo ako, ang tanga ko simpleng bagay lang nagkamali ako. Tapos habang tumatagal naiipon siya at ayun na nga kapag na interview ako halos di na ako maka hinga. Dumating sa point na ayaw ko ng mag apply ng trabaho dahil natatakot akong ma interview. Kaya na isip kong mag take ng IELTS exam to boost my knowledge at confidence dahil may review naman. During sa speaking exam ko, inatake ako ng sobrang kaba to the point na parang nag papanic na ako. Inom ako ng inom ng water at ayun nga in the middle of my interview na bulol ako, yung bulol na akala ko at ng interviewer ay na stroke (no joke po!) na ako. Thank God, na bawi ko naman at na tapos ang interview. Di man kataasan ang nakuha kong score but salamat sa Diyos at naka pasa naman ako. Nagamit ko din yung experience na yun when I had a language exam. Although, sobrang kaba ko pa rin pero at least di na to the point na parang nagpapanic. Thanks for this video! I'm a new subscriber po.
i feel you po
I would like to thank you maam lyca to teach us how to get confedence in the public speaking.
Coach hope you will notice this.
How to answer this question.
"Why do you want to apply here?"
"What would be the reason, that you will surely stay longer here in our company?".
Hayss namemental black ako jan coach. Still not know how to answer that better😭😭😭
Thank you for reminding us about being extra careful about overconfidence. This is a great work you do right here. Keep 'em coming!
Thank you, Ms. Lyqa! This video is very timely. You are a blessing.
I'm like that yung nag kamali lang ako ng konti sa school or yung grammar ko or whatsoever sobra yung atake ng anxiety and concuiosness 😭😭
BASTA MAIRAOS AYOS! THANK YOU COACH!
I can totally relate to the "Forgive yourself part". I once applied in an ESL company and I got to the demonstration part. I mistakenly corrected the student's answer to a question where in fact the answer was already grammatically correct. That time I really felt frustrated about myself. However, I miraculously got hired regardless of that error.
We are humans and making mistakes just proved that we are indeed one.
Almost 2 years nako nanonood ng video kaka panood ko, swerte naman ng lalake mamahalin mo expert sa English 😍😍
Thank you coach 😍😍😍 Your the best coach ever👌👌👌
It's helps to boost my confident to talk with others , lalo na sa interview kailangan na kailangan ko 'to. thank you ma'am lyqa. God bless po ☺️✨
Katapos ko lang panuorin to may interview ako ng 2:30pm virtual pero nkaka kaba pa din. Thanks Ma'am Lyqa sa mga tips. Kaya ko to. Fighting! God bless us all 😇🙏
How was your interview? :)
@@pnb9760 Di po ako natanggap e. Haha pero I know naman I did my very best. Nasagot ko lahat ng questions. Haha ewan ko ba sa HR na yun. Twice na ako nag failed sa same company na yun and puro final interview 💔 pero tuloy lang buhay! Hehe fighting!
Relate na relate ako grabe!!! Ate I've been watching some of your vids!!! Napakarami kong natutunan!! More vids pa po!!
Hello po. I would like to say thank you for helping me passing the CSE professional level. I know ive been busy and didnt have time to study coz im a graduating student. Your videos really helped me, gave me ideas and tips on how to pass the civil service exam. I passed last March 17 examination, and that was my 1st take. Thank you po, and God bless you more.
Wow congrats
Ty po
@@hinatashoyo3494 your welcome, i wanted to ask if some of the questions na nasa civil service exam eh na cover na ni team lyqa?
2. During the exam, nagbibigay po ba sila ng scratch paper?
Yes, po. Parang same lg sa mga exercises nya at tinuturo dito. Mas mahirap lg talaga yung English Vocab kasi ang lalim ng mga words na ginagamit nila at oras talaga yung kalaban mo. Pwede pong gamitin sa pgsosolve yung test booklet na binigay nila sa inyo.
@@hinatashoyo3494 ah i see. Thank you
Thank you coach lyqaaa struggle ko din yan sa mga job interview pero sobrang relate ako hahha ung mga mistakes ko noon sa interview nagiging lesson sa akin ngayon. Sobra ako na motivate sa video na ito. Thank you coach and Godbless❤
Thankyou mam ang daming beses ko nabulol and ma wrong grammar sa interview pero dahil naging honest ako sakanya at nag sorry ako sinabe ko na "im really sorry mam/sir for my english but im trying my best to improve it i hope ur kindly consideration" and dahil don siguro napangite ko siya at ipinasa niya ako.
Thanks to mr matt siya ung nag interview sakin.
I really admire you, Ma'am Lyqa! 💖 God bless and take care po always. ✨😇
Thanks couch Lyqa! Kinakabahan talaga ako lalo na sa random recitations, I know what to say or I know how to answer the question/s pero yung words nagkakalat tapos nag.stastammer tuloy ako.
Thanks a lot ma’am Lyqa , I’ve learned a lot,, you’re very inspiring .
Natatandaan koparin till now kahit college na ako ako na dinuroduro ako ng teacher ko sa elementary and kinukumpara sa ate ko na naging studyante nila noon. Bat daw yung ate ko matalino, yung ate ko mabilis matuto, tas ako hindi and isa pa nung senior high ako noong may interview para sa immersion ipinahiya ako ng teacher ko na isa sa nag Interview sakin dahil tinatanong lang daw nya ako ng ilang questions pero diko daw masagot ng maayos. Tumatawa pa sya habang ginagawa yun, at syempre pinag tawanan ako ng nga classmates ko
Diko talaga makalimutan mga bagay nayon till now
Kasi isa yun sa mga reasons kaya nawalan ako confidence sa sarili💔
Wow. Thank you for sharing karamihan ng nalalaman nio. Andami nio natutulungan. Salamat always ma'am lyqa 😍
Thankyou ate for this, so informative ! It helps me for my coming job interview
It's easy to become very experienced at repeating the same mistakes. Practice doesn't make perfect; only perfect practice makes perfect.
I'm starting to learn and practice this tips because I'd like to step up for my self-growth. Hoping I can perform this tips during my job interviews soon! In God's grace 🙏
Thank you so much for this amazing tips Maam Lyca. 🙏🏼
Prepare, Practice, Pause and Pardon. Whooo. Laban! Thanks ate lyqa!!!
I'm only 18 and I'm having my first ever job interview for a BPO, I will surely apply all your tips tysm ❤️
I've been thinking about the actual interview for a long time it always brings a lot of nervousness as my heart is always pounding so hard, and suddenly I found myself watching your videos where it lessen the burden in my chest right now which I am so thankful. 🥰🎉
Thank you coach Lyqa.. Glad to know your channel.. And specially your a Christian please pray for me and helping your advices i could pass in A BPO nonvoice account.. God bless to your channel,ministry and family as well
What matters more is the message not the delivery
Sobrang na motivate ako sa vid mo. Now ko lang napanuod. Godbless ma'am.
Fresh graduate here 🥺 pag napifeel ko talagang down ako I'm used to watch your videos na po to boost my confidence then now hearing you say I have to pardon myself I felt like that's the great way to let go the pressure I'm feeling right now.
Super relate...lagi ako kinakabahan everytime sharing na sa bible study..
I really like how you explain it clearly ate lyca . Thank you po i'll take note of that. kaya goodluck saakin bukas😂💕
Hi ate Lhyca Happy Teacher's Day I've been following you for a year already and your videos on studying helped me a lot on my Board Exam. Thank you for your guidance po effective po talaga yung Pomowwdora hehhe ma bless po sana kayo ni Lord ng sobra para maka bless po kayo ng maraming tao.
Naku Idol ko talaga to na youtuber. Sobrang direct to the point lahat ng sinasabi. And sobrang informative lahat.. Thank you Ms lyqa.
Thanks a lot bebe😍
Because of you mas lalo ko pang naintindihan lahat.
Saktong sakto sakin tong nirecommend ni youtube katetext lang sakin ng company iinterviewhin ako this week. Thanks ate lyqa
thank you coach..:) I gained a lot of knowledge simply by watching your video:) I am somehow enlightened.. especially for the "Pardon Yourself" part..
Very helpful for my upcoming online demonstration. Thankyou Ma'am Lyca.
This video is a big help to me because I am an introvert person and obviously I don't have that much confidence to talk infront of many people but because of this video I have the knowledge on how to stand in front of many people and how to communicate with them. Keep making this kind of content mam. GB
Thank you coach, napakahelpful po 😊. God bless po...
Hi ate lyqa sana makatulong yung advices mo happy 1 M! Congrats!!
Thank you Mam Lyqa! Sakto po at kinakabahan talaga ko ngayon habang nagre'review dahil po nakasched po ako for interview tomorrow. Hehe.
This video is very helpful. Ma'am Lyca contributes too much for us who is eager to develop our speaking skills.God bless you Ma'am 🙂
Ang sarap niyo pong maging kaibigan❤️
thank you po, i have learned lots of lessons that i didn't knew before. Keep on helping and motivating people who are determined to learn.
More power and God bless you more ☺
My kind of 4P's. It's not only on job interviews and public speaking, but it is also applicable in life in general 😊. More power po Ms. Lyqa.
Prepare, Practice, Pause, & Pardon. 4p's. thanks for this ma'am lyq. more power! stay healthy!
I love ate Lyqa. Nawala anxious thoughts ko. Thank you po.
This is really helpful to me. My interview is on the way right now. I'm very emotional person and natataranta kapag nagkamali na. I will use this tips ☺️
I like you ma'am lyqa Yes ganun ako pagmagkamali ako sa speech ko Hindi ko talaga malilimotan
Kaya SALAMAT sa advice
GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS WITH YOUR FAMILY 💕🙏🎉😇❤
nakarelate ako coach, kung nagkamali ako it takes time for me to forgive myself..ehehe thanks sa tips, truly inspiring...
New subscriber here.. I love the way she's giving an advice tlaga💕 I think Christian si Ms. Lyqa. God bless you more.. more power.
I can remember my recent interview where I failed 😭😂 I was advised that I forgot to breathe and that I was so nervous 😅 hinihintay ko pa next interview ko sana talaga di nako kabahan 🙏🏻😅
Pag nag kawork na ko babalik ako dito ❤❤❤❤ salamat Coach
Worth to watch thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience. I have a fear in public speaking and I am struggling also in speaking english.
Sarap talaga simulan ang araw na makinig muna ng Vlogs ni Coach ❤ After devo 😊
Thank you for the tips, Ma'am Lyqa! It really helps.
... Thank you so much Coach! more power and may God bless you always..💗☺️
I failed my final interview yesterday because I'm nervous and I guess I ddin't answer the questions just right or enough. And right now it's kinda bothering me because it's my first time and I failed. But yeah that is okay. I hope I get be better in answering questions next time. Now I am watching your videos to gain my confidence again. Thank you amd more videos to come!
Apakaganda at gaan sa loob tuwimg nanonood ako ng vids mo coach lyka ♥️
So practical are the principles. I feel I'm talking to my interviewer - No sugarcoating and direct to the point. I heard what I need to hear. You're a great help Ms. Lyqa God bless you more with wisdom.
I loveee the "Pardon Yourself" :))) Thank you, Ma'am!!! :)
Thank you miss Lyqa for this encouragement. 😊
Thank you, Ms. Lyqa! The best ka talaga 😊
Thank you for taking away my fears. This helped a lot. 😊
Galing mo talaga coach, sakto mga sinabi mo 😁👍
Ito tlaga ang hinihintay kooo na topic!!!
Grabe po yung kaba ko during my interview kanina lang, hindi ko po alam magiging result. Na mental blocked talaga ako. Hindi ko po alam sasabihin ko kasi nawala na sa isip ko. Hahayaan ko na po si Lord sa result ng interview 🙏
this vid is for me. kasi, sa sobrang kaba ko given na di talaga ako ganun ka talkative-medjo anti-social pa e namemental block ako, nawawala lahat ng thoughts ko.
Pag nagkamali kayo
Wag niyo nang ipoint out.. ok?
bawi nalang...
Great advice ma'am lyqa... Thank you so much miss lyqa... Nainspired po ako
Great advice, coach! I really need this right now.