Her friend told her the truth when she said “You are going to get your heart broken twice.” This movie was very good. Many lessons to learn all throughout.
@@miriwood2819 I was a nervous wreck through the whole movie. Good thing I don't drink coffee! The premise was rather unbelievable...she didn't ever even meet her new stepchildren, haha but Connie Sellecca stole the show. She was very believable and she is a good actress, not to mention, she's absolutely beautiful. 💓🎭💓The husbands are good actors, too. They were all good actors in this movie.
Always loved Connie. Always. And Perry King always plays those kind honest sweet caring husband roles He is very attractive. Cant believe he's 75. Very lovely man. We're getting old us children of the 80s and 90's. Such a beautiful time. ❤❤❤❤i love watching old lifetime movies.
@@luciezak3671 I think her acting is awful. Hyper and talking fast like she's on medication when she's telling lies and hard faced and miserable at other times. A poor performance from her.
Loved these Connie Sellecca films. I always wonder why she wasn't cast more back then in movies! She is beyond beautiful but also has an *inner light* that few people possess.
@@kennettabradford6566 I cannot understand why they put so much makeup on her here. She's a lovely lady, but alas...like Tori Spelling ...actually makes herself look UGLIER when caked with makeup goo.
I agree... She's a rare beauty, she glows inside and out, absolutely stunning... ❤ But just in my opinion, I think the weird haircut in this movie does nothing for her... What were they thinking back then... Ohh well 90s fashion, gotta love it..... 😅😂
@@GoWithDaFlowMo I must agree about the haircut. I normally love the *bob haircut* (no one rocked it better than Candace Cameron in 1996, for example)....but it does not suit Connie Sellecca. It cuts off at her jaw in a surprisingly ugly way. But her dark hair (I always was jealous of) almost makes up for it. :)
The lesson we can take from this movie is to learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. So hopefully you don't make that kind of mistake. Also, great movie!
@@remixandkaraokeIt has nothing to do with God, It just has to do with being a decent person that wouldn't do anything that YOU wouldn't like to be done to you!
@@remixandkaraokeAnd the "God loving People" Are indeed the ones who commit the most disgraceful atrocities! NO ONE is good enough to Preach! Let alone MEN the vile buffoons who can't even control their perverted sexual desires and even towards Babies! And when you think of words such as Loving, Forgiving, Caring, Nurturing and Patient... You think of A Mother, A Woman... When you think of a Man, the only word that comes to mind is only Strong (you can ask any 3 year old) Physically of course, Women possess the qualities that the Bible describes as The Lord! 😋
I agree! I have heard of bigamists before & never understood it. I don't believe in cheating on a marriage, but that makes a LOT more sense than trying to balance 2 spouses!
A lot of women are looking for a good man. Here she had "2" , who both loved her. And now she has none. My heart ached more for the husbands. This was a good movie.
@@ananciataodindo7044 THAT I didn't think of .... Ha Haaaa!? But we aught to be better than STUPID - They'll always be stupid & we need to be better - Stoop only to poop -😆!?
When both guys found out- yet they were "just talking"...understanding that marriage doesn't mean u own them& it could still slip away....while in most parts of world violent crimes would be the result...never married/committed or cheated but realize how fragile marriage could be...
Gave me a headache, so chaotic, that kind of life is not living, just trying to survive the lies & deceit. Affairs always end up hurting someone. I can't imagine this kind of 'life'
I have never cheated. Never thought about it, even on a boyfriend. The way i see it is that i don't like to do to others what i don't want them to do to me. When you lie and cheat you hurt others. There is never a happy ending. Some people get a thrill or makes them feel better. Who knows.
I never could understand why cheaters burden themselves with lies and double life - it makes both relationships stressful and unpleasant and ruins both unavoidably.. by the end cheaters always loose BIG time
You forget that in the mind of the cheater they lose nothing as normally they already have another sucker in the wings to fall back on after leaving (or being kicked out) by the one they are betraying.
When I'm watching the movie now, I thought one of them was an abusive and she ran away, she didn't have money for divorce you know, lifetime movie thing I think this movie is lifetime but without violence😅
Don’t forget she loved them too but something was missing in her life that the other one was offering : Quality time. She didn’t want to marry but didn’t want to loose him. Risking game.
Blah blah blah u know how many times the truth has completely destroyed my life😂 I'll take white lies every now and then depending on what it is and the out come could be 💅🏼👍🏻
I would never question how anyone's feeling about anyone. However, I would question character. If you are committed and you know you are in love with anothwr or whatever, isn't it that the first thing you do is get away or end the commitment? Choosing to make a fool of another person is unforgivable in my book. Nope. Love what the other guy said about the point of getting married. Exactly!
I would call all 3 of them toxic... Becky cheating on her husband and hiding the marriage from Mike, Mike being ultra clingy, forcing her to get married and being incredibly superficial (calling her beautiful all the time yada-yada and not having meaningful conversations), Jeff being self-absorbed and way too career-oriented to the point of neglecting his wife's needs... My guess is that Mike and Becky never really moved on from each other and she was in a vulnerable place emotionally, especially after her dad's passing. Jeff not being there for her emotionally and Desiree cheating on her spouse probably influenced her to do crazy things, such as having an affair and getting married to her past lover. There was a lack of maturity and accountability from all three sides in my opinion. I appreciate that Jeff was willing to work on their relationship after everything that happened. I liked him better than Mike. Big thumbs up for Angie, the voice of reason. 👍🏻 Enjoyable movie all things considered.
This is the 2nd time watching this. I see how quickly lies can grow. It was very stressful watching her juggle this life. I loved the country house. Angie was a good friend. Mike was a lovesick puppy and so pushy. Jeffery was preoccupied. This gal better have learned her lesson!
@@valentina6429 Right?!! Why would she marry 2 guys?!! I could see having a fling....even a long fling....but marriage?!! This woman is insane! But judging by how BOTH the men reacted later...one even wanting her back...they are just as nuts!
Perry King is gorgeous!!!! I miss him on tv!!!! Where has he been???? He starred in The Lords of Flatbush with Slyvester Stallone Henry Winkler!!! He is a great actor!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤.....
It happens all the time all over the world, and people never learn, even it often claims innocent victims. I think I avoided these situations as a young girl, because my passion was elsewhere. I loved horses and the time with them, and I was a bit of a lonely rider, so I can understand the movie, but I never ever feel that I missed something along the way, by not being involved in any kind of affairs. I was raised to follow the line, education, work and later familylife, I did not follow the book, but I did avoid to get lost in mens jungle, even I had what it took to melt them. It is a great movie, with a lot of truth, but a very sad truth.......beauty and passion are explosive material......
@@samanthalake5011 I fight for animal right's around the world, time is up for passion and fun, I left the female side for good, because I live in the animal world......and nothing attracks me anymore.....
@jannepetersen4660 I believe what you are doing is absolutely wonderful. Some time ago, I saw the movie, The Misfits. It broke my heart to realize there was truth to that movie. Animal cruelty is very real. Please do all you can for the horses. I think they are the most beautiful and magnificent animals. 🙏💦💙🤍 God bless you so .
@@jordon628 Thank you so much, and God bless you to. When we walk in the light of God, we are protected form the dark from the devil, ohh do I wish that all people in the world knew that, what a lot of joy for those who walk the sunny path. Everytime an innocent animal must suffer under neclect, abuse or what ever it might be, God is watching, I woke up at night many many ears ago, and my room was so beautiful and quiet, and it was like another dimension, it was a scenario in seconds, but a voice said out in the room........'Do never feel alone or forgotten, because I will follow you the hole way, and when your last day arrive, I will take your hand, and lead you home for good.......tell the world about me......
Forgiveness and understanding, Rebecca obviously feels undeserving of . Husband pours out his heart to Becky. Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could've been different!! A very enlighting movie ❤ ❤!! 1st husband was willing to try. . . .but Rebecca has to leaarn some hard lessons!
I've had many women fo that. Curiosity, women, it's like Peanut butter and jelly. Some want to claim their territory. Some love upsetting the apple cart.
Thats why i dnt cheat, i just cant, just seeing her go through it confirms why i cant, its looks so overwhelming, tiresome, pretentious, so many lies, i prefer to be loyal i am the faithful all in type, cheating isnt apart of who i am. ❤
I fell in love with Connie when she played opposite James Brolin in the TV series "Hotel" back in the day. I never missed an episode just to see her gorgeous hair and smile!
I grew up watching Connie Sellecca in TV movies & commercials. She was sort of an 'idol' of mine when I was a teenager. She is very beautiful but she also has an 'inner light' that few people possess. I didn't like the show HOTEL back then, but I did like GREATEST AMERICAN HERO!
@@taracollins5597 How could you not like "Hotel" with all of the guest stars and different plots each week? The variety of stars performing was the theme of every show. This is what made this TV series great. I like Bette Davis for her role. I wish her health had held out. Anne Baxter was outstanding as Victoria Cabot. But it was James and Connie that was the element which kept the series going full speed ahead! I watched every episode. Just hearing the music from the intro still gives me goose bumps!
The whole while watching this movie I couldn't help think what a messed up society we have! And how twisted everything is. I am not condoning bigamy, but it really seems ironic that she gets in trouble with the law, and goes to jail, and is put on probation for having two husbands, yet sexual perverts can marry and even adopt children and the state thinks that is hunky dory! SMH
@@tngirl341 You have no doubt heard the old saying: "the squeaky wheel gets the grease." It is only because of the ranting and raving of the sodomites over many years, that our now ungodly nation has accepted sexual perversion as normal. I will guarantee you that if enough people started ranting and raving to have plural marriages, this would also be accepted and become legal. Gods plan was for it to be one man and one woman, but He did work with and even bless people in the bible who had multiple wives. But homosexuality has NEVER been condoned, only condemned in Gods word. So yes, to me it is ironic that what this woman did was worthy of jail, yet sodomites are accepted in this culture. Bass- ackwards if you ask me.
I will never understand how ppl can choose to live this type of lifestyle. All the lies, paranoia, and sneakiness you have to do to keep a lie like this afloat. Is wayyy to much and looks draining. And you will still get caught in the end. So selfish!
I’ve learned to never judge too harshly unless you have been in the same situation before. Love can make people do strange things and go outside of their beliefs. This made for a good movie though
All this movie did for me was bring back memories of my husband’s 6 year affair! I was disgusted in the women, her husband loved her so much, like I did my husband but she felt entitled and had the opportunity to have an affair, so sad this so many women go after married men!
GOOD to see SOME one who recognizes that CHEATING isn't as lovely as they make it out to be because it Connie Selleca. They glorify these things on screen for the public & then wonder why society is so messed up & people think "It's OK, it happens - Live with it!!" Married men & women should be Off Limits - And extra marital affair is CHEATING, plain & simple - Cheating is WRONG!!!!!
It’s the married man that made the vows to forsake all others. He choose to get swallowed up in temptation no one forced his hand. He wanted to cheat! It was his job out of loyalty to YOU to stay faithful and not stray. Had he choose to do that no woman in the world could make him cheat. He cheated like all cheaters do because he wanted too. He cheated because deep down he had no integrity and no loyalty except to himself.
I am not judging her. Judging is easy. Understanding is always more challenging. She loved two wonderful men, that were in love with her as well. Usually, It's hard to come across one to have mutual loving committed relationship with for many people - that's why nobody can relate to it. It happens rarely, but it's possible to love two at the same time. Just like you love two children and are not able to choose one over the other. Same thing happened here. It's the societal pressure to comply with the structure of marriage and therefore - structure of feelings, to have things in order, as God and people expect of you...
It might be easy for some people to fall in love with multiple partners but the hard part is to do the right thing. Polygamy is not right and it’s not because society tells you so but because God told us. People are having problems dealing with a partner now imagine with two or more. Now imagine a family with a woman and two dads in a home, do you think that would be easy on them and the kids? Who will be the dad of those kids? Is she going to have two kids with each man? That’s nonsense! It’s easy to love two people at the same time what’s hard it’s to keep faithful to one and love till death. What’s hard for many is to the right thing.
When i was 36, I was in love with 2 different men at the same time. They both knew about each other, and sometimes the three of us hung out together.. not in the dirty way (maybe once). One of them was cute, kind, and loving. The other man was very mean, but exciting and insanely handsome. Things did get a little messy, as neither of them wanted to share me. If I had my way, I would be married to them both.❤
Hahahaha I forgot how wild movies about love were in the 80s and 90s - what did I just watch lol ?? Hahah no wonder everyone of a certain age group has/had such a strange concept of love lol lol
She was married to two men only one month. Was pushed into signing the paper/marriage certificate by the spontaneous second man, who wanted all or nothing very fast, so under the pressure of the man she loved, - the girl caved in. Therefore, unless we've been in same situation - we shouldn't throw the stones at her. Many men had secretly been married to two women for many years, having 2 sets of children on top of it.
She turned back into a young girl who had just fallen in love all over again with her first love, and all of the feelings came rushing back, and she played into them for and relived her dream romance he was her missing link everything she’d desired she founded within her first love and shared and relived memories she didn’t get to. But he was so forceful and so in your face ready to take on the world and get married she did try to tell him at certain times but was unable to do so…… He lived life at the moment and she didn’t and her first original husband was to busy and caught up in his career and being the best doctor he didn’t even get to know his wife or care to much about her feelings as he should’ve but he was a good husband and for the most part she was a good wife she just got mixed up and caught up within the feelings she wished her first husband had for her and she eventually went with it although he gave her half of everything so she didn’t do to bad and the ended for she and her first husband was sweet.
I have loved 2 m3n before, for very different reasons, at the same time. Worst situation of my life. You really can't have everything. Life is not meant to be like that. And when it comes to love, you have to choose so no one gets hurt. When you have too many eggs in one basket, someone always gets hurt. Don't do it. Bad karma. Great movie, very good performances. s it me, or were actors back then much better? They were all really amazing. Good story, and good message at the end.
I can't believe she deceived Mike and didn't let him know she was married . Also she had her ring on when she ran into him on campus. Surely, he noticed. Plus her husband is far more handsome.
She loves mike. You can tell when mike and her sayinng goodbye for the last time, it was like she lost something important in her life. She wasn't like that when she was with jeffry for the last time.
Back in 1994 they could get away with "but i need to learn who I am before I can learn to love anyone" from someone who'd just lost two great men and thinks she'll find another in San Francisco. Those were simpler times then. Email wasn't even being used yet. Nobody would call a screen writer's bluff about the heroine not wanting a penny of alimony from a man she didn't love but who loved her and about the total nonsense that a top surgeon going on emergency calls is likely to lose the love of his life because he's not paying enough attention to her. This movie was a study in narcissism
Am watching from my country Nigeria 🇳🇬 … I wasn’t even born when this movie was Aired but I live American 🇺🇸 old movies.. the older it’s get , the better indeed.
Plenty of doctors are divorced, remarried, having affairs, etc... in fact pretty much all of the doctors and nurses I know are open/poly/ cheating etc...
I love this movie it so just like my favorite are time when I was thinking ,about when I was watching this movie take me back my time to my special moments with someone very special in my heart and still it
I really think she didn't deal with her dad's death properly and it's unfortunate for Mike(Curious as to who marries a woman w/o her meeting your kids). Jeff wasn't the prize honestly, Telling her what to wear and discarding her feelings. I'm happy she chose herself in the end because she NEEDED to be alone
As a teenager i never had just 1 boyfriend. I juggled as many as 4 one time and i have to say it wasn't easy. This movie made me laugh at times because i could relate to the anxiety she went through at times. I must say it is very exciting having multiple boys courting you. I had a great time during my youth i could write a book on some of my experiences. Great movie
I suggest you say to yourself "which one if I had to pick would I absolutely miss the most if they were gone," there is always one you love a little more.
Get married to the both of them then get pregnant and not know who the father of the baby is…. So name the baby after BOTH husbands. Problem solved. You welcome!
What a great movie. I rarely like the cheater in movies but l really liked her character and even sympathized with her but of course you can never get away with that behavior.
0:40 Can someone tell me why they have the lights & sirens on for Becca?!! LOLOL She is a bigamist, not a serial killer! Must not be much to do for cops in that small town, in the 1990s!
I was so broken hearted with first husband.All he wanted was to give the best for his wife.But I am in that situation I would rather choose to live with man I loved😢
Great lesson time be learn & both viceversa ! It’s the most distasteful to betray the trust on their wedding vowels! Forget that part, the risk that may break the heart is to become suicidal & mental enough to get someone killed for revenge!
Her friend told her the truth when she said “You are going to get your heart broken twice.” This movie was very good. Many lessons to learn all throughout.
She was going back and forth so much, she exhausted me! I had to get some coffee.
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She's an egomaniac from beginning to end.
Nice husbands, though.
@@miriwood2819 I was a nervous wreck through the whole movie. Good thing I don't drink coffee!
The premise was rather unbelievable...she didn't ever even meet her new stepchildren, haha but Connie Sellecca stole the show. She was very believable and she is a good actress, not to mention, she's absolutely beautiful. 💓🎭💓The husbands are good actors, too. They were all good actors in this movie.
greetings from Australia - I'm about to watch it ..reading what you said I better grab my coffee
Always loved Connie. Always. And Perry King always plays those kind honest sweet caring husband roles He is very attractive. Cant believe he's 75. Very lovely man. We're getting old us children of the 80s and 90's. Such a beautiful time. ❤❤❤❤i love watching old lifetime movies.
Yes, we are. Best wishes from an 80s child.
@@ttephi3667 Same to you hon. Many riches blessings to you. I think if we all wished hard enough a time machine could take us back. 😂
Born in 82 here from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰. Cheers
Connie as is...number constants...😅😊, yes I love brunettes ❤😅🎉
ah the 90s, people had house phones, beautiful time,agreed
I don't know about any of you guys watching this movie, but I'm exhausted.
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Lying is a lot of work & baggages you don't want or need; you can totally avoid the headache!!!😢😢😢
Good Lord this movie has me stressed out with all of the back and forth between two men lol
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@@luciezak3671 I think her acting is awful. Hyper and talking fast like she's on medication when she's telling lies and hard faced and miserable at other times. A poor performance from her.
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ME too!!!!!!!!!!!
Loved these Connie Sellecca films. I always wonder why she wasn't cast more back then in movies! She is beyond beautiful but also has an *inner light* that few people possess.
Connie Sellica is a very underrated actress just like Susan Lucci.
She has on a ton of makeup. On She looks alright
@@kennettabradford6566 I cannot understand why they put so much makeup on her here. She's a lovely lady, but alas...like Tori Spelling ...actually makes herself look UGLIER when caked with makeup goo.
I agree... She's a rare beauty, she glows inside and out, absolutely stunning... ❤ But just in my opinion, I think the weird haircut in this movie does nothing for her... What were they thinking back then... Ohh well 90s fashion, gotta love it..... 😅😂
@@GoWithDaFlowMo I must agree about the haircut. I normally love the *bob haircut* (no one rocked it better than Candace Cameron in 1996, for example)....but it does not suit Connie Sellecca. It cuts off at her jaw in a surprisingly ugly way. But her dark hair (I always was jealous of) almost makes up for it. :)
The lesson we can take from this movie is to learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else. So hopefully you don't make that kind of mistake. Also, great movie!
You also cannot truly love yourself without loving God, who IS LOVE! A God-focused woman would never do such things... Believe it or not.
@@remixandkaraoke I agree and disagree with you because there are many " Christian" women who have been deceived.
@@remixandkaraokeIt has nothing to do with God, It just has to do with being a decent person that wouldn't do anything that YOU wouldn't like to be done to you!
@@remixandkaraokeAnd the "God loving People" Are indeed the ones who commit the most disgraceful atrocities! NO ONE is good enough to Preach! Let alone MEN the vile buffoons who can't even control their perverted sexual desires and even towards Babies! And when you think of words such as Loving, Forgiving, Caring, Nurturing and Patient... You think of A Mother, A Woman... When you think of a Man, the only word that comes to mind is only Strong (you can ask any 3 year old) Physically of course, Women possess the qualities that the Bible describes as The Lord! 😋
@@remixandkaraoke that's a ridiculous thing to say. you don't know every woman in the world so stop making such sweeping statements
I mean....who would choose to live such hectic chaotic life like this??
I agree! I have heard of bigamists before & never understood it. I don't believe in cheating on a marriage, but that makes a LOT more sense than trying to balance 2 spouses!
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A lot of women are looking for a good man. Here she had "2" , who both loved her. And now she has none. My heart ached more for the husbands. This was a good movie.
It’s good for ones to see a woman doing what men have been doing for decades 😂😂
@@ananciataodindo7044 THAT I didn't think of .... Ha Haaaa!? But we aught to be better than STUPID - They'll always be stupid & we need to be better - Stoop only to poop -😆!?
first I see a story that is real, young marriages are fake
Yeah. Becca is so f selfish
@@WulanRosmeinasari You do mean "fishy" don't you - L😜L!?
Rebecca lived in “ that time of the month “ ! 😂 As her friend said, “ the worst lies are the ones we tell ourselves…”
Never understand why people don't just get a divorce if they are unhappy instead of lying and cheating
Because they like their life .
You said it well… is best you walk away than living behind close doors
I say the same thing yes just get a divorce!!!
Because lots of them love money and they know that once they divorce, they won't live the same life again.
They don't want to lose what they already have.
When both guys found out- yet they were "just talking"...understanding that marriage doesn't mean u own them& it could still slip away....while in most parts of world violent crimes would be the result...never married/committed or cheated but realize how fragile marriage could be...
Fellows when your wife doesn't want to make love to you, there's someone else.
Look out !
Gave me a headache, so chaotic, that kind of life is not living, just trying to survive the lies & deceit.
Affairs always end up hurting someone. I can't imagine this kind of 'life'
I have never cheated. Never thought about it, even on a boyfriend. The way i see it is that i don't like to do to others what i don't want them to do to me. When you lie and cheat you hurt others. There is never a happy ending.
Some people get a thrill or makes them feel better. Who knows.
Well crafted movie that demonstrates shades of love through fabulous performances by all leading as well as supporting actors. Enjoyed! Thanks!
Truly amazing
One and only!!
The last dialogue with Jeffrey was beautifully written ❤.
I never could understand why cheaters burden themselves with lies and double life - it makes both relationships stressful and unpleasant and ruins both unavoidably.. by the end cheaters always loose BIG time
You forget that in the mind of the cheater they lose nothing as normally they already have another sucker in the wings to fall back on after leaving (or being kicked out) by the one they are betraying.
Cheaters are selfish egomaniacs. All they care about is themselves.
Still can't believe the love these two men had for her
When I'm watching the movie now, I thought one of them was an abusive and she ran away, she didn't have money for divorce you know, lifetime movie thing
I think this movie is lifetime but without violence😅
Don’t forget she loved them too but something was missing in her life that the other one was offering : Quality time.
She didn’t want to marry but didn’t want to loose him. Risking game.
It's not real life...
@@the_quaint_gypsy people have done that in real life. A double life
It’s a movie , just make believe lol.
Well , thank God that everything came out in the clear. Better to speak with the truth for the truth shall set you free! Amen!
@rosalugo it's your religion that is makes you think silly things
Blah blah blah u know how many times the truth has completely destroyed my life😂 I'll take white lies every now and then depending on what it is and the out come could be 💅🏼👍🏻
Man I would be exhausted ! I’m exhausted having one man let alone two husbands and two jobs !!!! 😅
I would never question how anyone's feeling about anyone. However, I would question character. If you are committed and you know you are in love with anothwr or whatever, isn't it that the first thing you do is get away or end the commitment? Choosing to make a fool of another person is unforgivable in my book. Nope.
Love what the other guy said about the point of getting married. Exactly!
One thing with cheating is you can't have peace your bound with lies😢
Some people sabotage their own lives. Hard to ever understand that
I always loved me some A. Martinez. Especially during the years when he was on Santa Barbara.
He's gorgeous
I wish i married him 😅 oh my god .If i had met him i would have got married .so sexy !❤
@@helenmcdonnell2585 Yes he is.
I will watch anything with Connie in it..just a beautiful, talented actress..
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Oh yeah I agree. Another great movie she starred in was A dangerous affair.
I love Connie as an actress.
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Same! I've always liked her. My favorite films have to be:
A HOUSE OF SECRETS & LIES
The little-known John Ritter/Connie Sellecca film THE LAST FLING.
I swear they play the same music in all the 90s lifetime movies 😂
I would call all 3 of them toxic... Becky cheating on her husband and hiding the marriage from Mike, Mike being ultra clingy, forcing her to get married and being incredibly superficial (calling her beautiful all the time yada-yada and not having meaningful conversations), Jeff being self-absorbed and way too career-oriented to the point of neglecting his wife's needs... My guess is that Mike and Becky never really moved on from each other and she was in a vulnerable place emotionally, especially after her dad's passing. Jeff not being there for her emotionally and Desiree cheating on her spouse probably influenced her to do crazy things, such as having an affair and getting married to her past lover. There was a lack of maturity and accountability from all three sides in my opinion. I appreciate that Jeff was willing to work on their relationship after everything that happened. I liked him better than Mike. Big thumbs up for Angie, the voice of reason. 👍🏻 Enjoyable movie all things considered.
Jeff's career enabled a phenomenal lifestyle for her. Becky is the only selfish one here.
@@hayaglamazonluxe exactly.
I’ll watch anything Connie Selleca is in.
Her husband is better than that college boy.😂😂😂
LOL! He didn't ever introduce her to his children! I wonder if he bothered to tell them he got married, lol!
Love seeing Connie again. A Martinez is always great.
Well if cheating is great then this "Martinez" is tooooo - And hope you feel the "greatness" when it happens to you!?
Connie and perry the chemistry is great and they played the part amazing I watch it again
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She has better chemistry with A Martinez.
This is the 2nd time watching this. I see how quickly lies can grow. It was very stressful watching her juggle this life. I loved the country house. Angie was a good friend. Mike was a lovesick puppy and so pushy. Jeffery was preoccupied. This gal better have learned her lesson!
Omg this young lady is going to go crazy with these two husband's I couldn't stop laughing 😂 😆 🤣
As if being married to one husband wasn’t enough work lol 😂 😂😂
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@@valentina6429Lol I wouldn’t and couldn’t one is more than enough
@@kchellkat1847 - lol 😂
@@valentina6429 Right?!! Why would she marry 2 guys?!! I could see having a fling....even a long fling....but marriage?!! This woman is insane! But judging by how BOTH the men reacted later...one even wanting her back...they are just as nuts!
Perry King is gorgeous!!!! I miss him on tv!!!! Where has he been???? He starred in The Lords of Flatbush with Slyvester Stallone Henry Winkler!!! He is a great actor!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤.....
Anyone else have anxiety watching this roll coaster ride of a movie, the lies, chaos and the dram..I couldn't do it.. OMG it would be toooo much 😱😂
It was the nostalgia for her with Mike. I wouldn't have married Mike even if I were single.
I know what she did was wrong but somehow I feel sorry for her. This movie was as good the second time as it was the first time
I will watch anything with Perry King ❤❤❤
It happens all the time all over the world, and people never learn, even it often claims innocent victims. I think I avoided these situations as a young girl, because my passion was elsewhere.
I loved horses and the time with them, and I was a bit of a lonely rider, so I can understand the movie, but I never ever feel that I missed something along the way, by not being involved in any kind of affairs.
I was raised to follow the line, education, work and later familylife, I did not follow the book, but I did avoid to get lost in mens jungle, even I had what it took to melt them.
It is a great movie, with a lot of truth, but a very sad truth.......beauty and passion are explosive material......
They're is Inspiration and passion feel that it's all come together
Don't be too cautious though. You'll miss out on the fun things in life.❤
@@samanthalake5011 I fight for animal right's around the world, time is up for passion and fun, I left the female side for good, because I live in the animal world......and nothing attracks me anymore.....
@jannepetersen4660
I believe what you are doing is absolutely wonderful. Some time ago, I saw the movie, The Misfits. It broke my heart to realize there was truth to that movie. Animal cruelty is very real. Please do all you can for the horses. I think they are the most beautiful and magnificent animals. 🙏💦💙🤍
God bless you so .
@@jordon628 Thank you so much, and God bless you to. When we walk in the light of God, we are protected form the dark from the devil, ohh do I wish that all people in the world knew that, what a lot of joy for those who walk the sunny path.
Everytime an innocent animal must suffer under neclect, abuse or what ever it might be, God is watching, I woke up at night many many ears ago, and my room was so beautiful and quiet, and it was like another dimension, it was a scenario in seconds, but a voice said out in the room........'Do never feel alone or forgotten, because I will follow you the hole way, and when your last day arrive, I will take your hand, and lead you home for good.......tell the world about me......
Mike made the right choice at the end. How can you trust someone after they do that to you?
I was honestly expecting someone to die in this movie. Thank god no one did.
It's so hard to Liv two lives the pain hurts so much
Forgiveness and understanding, Rebecca obviously feels undeserving of . Husband pours out his heart to Becky. Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could've been different!! A very enlighting movie ❤ ❤!! 1st husband was willing to try. . . .but Rebecca has to leaarn some hard lessons!
@@donnadilodeIt's just a movie,chill out.
After their first night together, why did he think it was ok to answer her phone???
Life is what we make it!
Who picks up someone else’s house phone just after spending the night??
Ikr.?!😄 just watched it
I've had many women fo that. Curiosity, women, it's like Peanut butter and jelly. Some want to claim their territory. Some love upsetting the apple cart.
@@jeffcampbell2710 Hahaha!
Some people are just too fresh
I would have stopped seeing him right away, this guy, from college, is way too pushy, too intrusive.
Connie Sellecca and Jennifer Connelly look so much alike, like twins
Thats why i dnt cheat, i just cant, just seeing her go through it confirms why i cant, its looks so overwhelming, tiresome, pretentious, so many lies, i prefer to be loyal i am the faithful all in type, cheating isnt apart of who i am. ❤
I agree. If you are not happy why not divorce. Nothing can justify cheating
I fell in love with Connie when she played opposite James Brolin in the TV series "Hotel" back in the day. I never missed an episode just to see her gorgeous hair and smile!
I grew up watching Connie Sellecca in TV movies & commercials. She was sort of an 'idol' of mine when I was a teenager. She is very beautiful but she also has an 'inner light' that few people possess. I didn't like the show HOTEL back then, but I did like GREATEST AMERICAN HERO!
@@taracollins5597 How could you not like "Hotel" with all of the guest stars and different plots each week? The variety of stars performing was the theme of every show. This is what made this TV series great.
I like Bette Davis for her role. I wish her health had held out. Anne Baxter was outstanding as Victoria Cabot.
But it was James and Connie that was the element which kept the series going full speed ahead! I watched every episode. Just hearing the music from the intro still gives me goose bumps!
@@rolls-royceowner1108 I was so young when that show aired (around 10 or so), so HOTEL was probably not to my style then. :)
Lovely
The whole while watching this movie I couldn't help think what a messed up society we have! And how twisted everything is. I am not condoning bigamy, but it really seems ironic that she gets in trouble with the law, and goes to jail, and is put on probation for having two husbands, yet sexual perverts can marry and even adopt children and the state thinks that is hunky dory! SMH
💯 percent true
Cause it's against the law!! It's gross
@@tngirl341 You have no doubt heard the old saying: "the squeaky wheel gets the grease." It is only because of the ranting and raving of the sodomites over many years, that our now ungodly nation has accepted sexual perversion as normal.
I will guarantee you that if enough people started ranting and raving to have plural marriages, this would also be accepted and become legal.
Gods plan was for it to be one man and one woman, but He did work with and even bless people in the bible who had multiple wives. But homosexuality has NEVER been condoned, only condemned in Gods word.
So yes, to me it is ironic that what this woman did was worthy of jail, yet sodomites are accepted in this culture. Bass- ackwards if you ask me.
When this movie was made same sex couples couldn't adopt.
@@retha1875they should have kept it that way
I will never understand how ppl can choose to live this type of lifestyle. All the lies, paranoia, and sneakiness you have to do to keep a lie like this afloat. Is wayyy to much and looks draining. And you will still get caught in the end. So selfish!
I’ve learned to never judge too harshly unless you have been in the same situation before. Love can make people do strange things and go outside of their beliefs. This made for a good movie though
Yes, cheaters always get caught in the end.
People cheat for the thrill of it
They seem to have no conscience
I agree,it's just better to be by yourself at some point!!
She was really a piece of work.
This movie is amazing! Connie always sells it!
oh my, U can say that again...I watch her, since i was a teenager, great Actress! Connie sells it ha ha
Loved this movie… never had seen it!
Intro music reminds me of the late 70’s/early 80’s band called “Japan” with David Sylvian and Mick Karn who was a fretless bassist
All this movie did for me was bring back memories of my husband’s 6 year affair! I was disgusted in the women, her husband loved her so much, like I did my husband but she felt entitled and had the opportunity to have an affair, so sad this so many women go after married men!
Your husband sounds like a d.head. Hopefully you've moved on and ditched him for treating you like crap and his affair.
GOOD to see SOME one who recognizes that CHEATING isn't as lovely as they make it out to be because it Connie Selleca. They glorify these things on screen for the public & then wonder why society is so messed up & people think "It's OK, it happens - Live with it!!" Married men & women should be Off Limits - And extra marital affair is CHEATING, plain & simple - Cheating is WRONG!!!!!
In this case, a married woman went after another man.
It’s the married man that made the vows to forsake all others. He choose to get swallowed up in temptation no one forced his hand. He wanted to cheat! It was his job out of loyalty to YOU to stay faithful and not stray. Had he choose to do that no woman in the world could make him cheat. He cheated like all cheaters do because he wanted too. He cheated because deep down he had no integrity and no loyalty except to himself.
@@Bri-nc8yp True, HE was "married". She was "hunting"- He's the bigger cheat here!!
I am not judging her. Judging is easy. Understanding is always more challenging.
She loved two wonderful men, that were in love with her as well. Usually, It's hard to come across one to have mutual loving committed relationship with for many people - that's why nobody can relate to it.
It happens rarely, but it's possible to love two at the same time. Just like you love two children and are not able to choose one over the other. Same thing happened here. It's the societal pressure to comply with the structure of marriage and therefore - structure of feelings, to have things in order, as God and people expect of you...
It might be easy for some people to fall in love with multiple partners but the hard part is to do the right thing. Polygamy is not right and it’s not because society tells you so but because God told us. People are having problems dealing with a partner now imagine with two or more. Now imagine a family with a woman and two dads in a home, do you think that would be easy on them and the kids? Who will be the dad of those kids? Is she going to have two kids with each man? That’s nonsense! It’s easy to love two people at the same time what’s hard it’s to keep faithful to one and love till death. What’s hard for many is to the right thing.
True that
When i was 36, I was in love with 2 different men at the same time. They both knew about each other, and sometimes the three of us hung out together.. not in the dirty way (maybe once). One of them was cute, kind, and loving. The other man was very mean, but exciting and insanely handsome. Things did get a little messy, as neither of them wanted to share me. If I had my way, I would be married to them both.❤
@@caressaclark1042 😂😂😉😉😉 i would do the same
Agree.
Mike was all up in everything the morning after 😂 answering phones amd shit😂 oh hell nah fall back home skillet😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pushy guy that Mike is😂😂
I though Mike lover her more but her husband is the one who truly does love her.
Why do you say that?
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Best friends are the best in the end !
You look sensational! You look incredibly beautiful! ...😵💫😀 People are so focused on outside attributes... inner values are second priority.
I enjoyed this movie very much. Thank you for uploading.
Awww our pleasure!
When u want all u lose all. Greed is not good
Omg the elevator scene ! I got an anxiety attack 😂
So she goes back to finish her father's research and dresses like a college student, but dressed like an executive, when she was in the city.
Hahahaha I forgot how wild movies about love were in the 80s and 90s - what did I just watch lol ?? Hahah no wonder everyone of a certain age group has/had such a strange concept of love lol lol
She was married to two men only one month.
Was pushed into signing the paper/marriage certificate by the spontaneous second man, who wanted all or nothing very fast, so under the pressure of the man she loved, - the girl caved in.
Therefore, unless we've been in same situation - we shouldn't throw the stones at her.
Many men had secretly been married to two women for many years, having 2 sets of children on top of it.
She turned back into a young girl who had just fallen in love all over again with her first love, and all of the feelings came rushing back, and she played into them for and relived her dream romance he was her missing link everything she’d desired she founded within her first love and shared and relived memories she didn’t get to. But he was so forceful and so in your face ready to take on the world and get married she did try to tell him at certain times but was unable to do so……
He lived life at the moment and she didn’t and her first original husband was to busy and caught up in his career and being the best doctor he didn’t even get to know his wife or care to much about her feelings as he should’ve but he was a good husband and for the most part she was a good wife she just got mixed up and caught up within the feelings she wished her first husband had for her and she eventually went with it although he gave her half of everything so she didn’t do to bad and the ended for she and her first husband was sweet.
My ex husband married to me and someone in Nigeria
Yeah that happened to my mom@@Godsdaughter1025
Agree.
Very common. Something a Nigerian would do. Sigh@@Godsdaughter1025
This was a great movie…funny, sad and really great points. Love me a good old Lifetime movie ❤
Love CONNIE!!!❤ She's so BELIEVABLE in every role.
I thought that men are the ones who can live double lives.... Wow! Rebecca, you are one of a kind. Nice Movie.
I have loved 2 m3n before, for very different reasons, at the same time. Worst situation of my life. You really can't have everything. Life is not meant to be like that. And when it comes to love, you have to choose so no one gets hurt. When you have too many eggs in one basket, someone always gets hurt. Don't do it. Bad karma. Great movie, very good performances. s it me, or were actors back then much better? They were all really amazing. Good story, and good message at the end.
Why can't you have everything? Who told you to settle for less?
Absolutely beautiful woman Connie Selleca brings bavk memories of the good old series Hotel back in the day
Her hometown friend was a 'trooper' in the end ❤ ❤ !!
Crazy! I could never have two husband's. Heck I couldn't have 1. This movie made me dizzy
She did a good job juggling the two husbands for awhile.
@@GeminiladyJackson-xq6hcSure she can juggle 😂 She should have
Worked in a circus lol
I can't believe she deceived Mike and didn't let him know she was married .
Also she had her ring on when she ran into him on campus. Surely, he noticed.
Plus her husband is far more handsome.
Yea but I think they both kinda ugly but I guess Jeffrey if the better looking of the 2
@@kushfairyny1 LOL!!!!
@@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 🤷🏼♀️😅
@@kushfairyny1😅😂😂😂
Jeffrey was better looking 😊
How could she lives a double life with two men's very good movie thank you for uploading it 😊 😀
Films from past decades are my go to choice : no plastic fantastic or woke tripe.
Many thanks .
This movie has me on the edge of my seat!! lol
She loves mike. You can tell when mike and her sayinng goodbye for the last time, it was like she lost something important in her life. She wasn't like that when she was with jeffry for the last time.
She loves herself.
She is selfish and self indulgent. Mike and Jeffrey are toys to her to play with so she can fantasise of what her life could have been.
It's all there with Inspiration, passion when a person love each other there's a ❤❤❤❤❤there with 😭 of all that It's so romantic and wonderful movie
Back in 1994 they could get away with "but i need to learn who I am before I can learn to love anyone" from someone who'd just lost two great men and thinks she'll find another in San Francisco. Those were simpler times then. Email wasn't even being used yet. Nobody would call a screen writer's bluff about the heroine not wanting a penny of alimony from a man she didn't love but who loved her and about the total nonsense that a top surgeon going on emergency calls is likely to lose the love of his life because he's not paying enough attention to her. This movie was a study in narcissism
And this woman must be luckiest he had an amazing husband, she cheated on her. and he still wants her
Am watching from my country Nigeria 🇳🇬 … I wasn’t even born when this movie was Aired but I live American 🇺🇸 old movies.. the older it’s get , the better indeed.
Plenty of doctors are divorced, remarried, having affairs, etc... in fact pretty much all of the doctors and nurses I know are open/poly/ cheating etc...
Good old movie with calm music with texts and Volvo!❤
This was such a riot to watch! Good movie
Exactly.
Its exhausting living that kind of life. When I was young I had many men wanted to date me but I could only deal with one at the time
I love this movie it so just like my favorite are time when I was thinking ,about when I was watching this movie take me back my time to my special moments with someone very special in my heart and still it
Perry king is so handsome!!!!
I really think she didn't deal with her dad's death properly and it's unfortunate for Mike(Curious as to who marries a woman w/o her meeting your kids). Jeff wasn't the prize honestly, Telling her what to wear and discarding her feelings. I'm happy she chose herself in the end because she NEEDED to be alone
My heart is pounding like if I am watching thriller movie 😢😊😅
She must be hell of a woman to get two men who loved her despite what she did and want to start anew with her
Me too!!
A Martinez from Santa Barbara! I recognized him from the back of his head.
omg same! ❤
This movie never gets old!
I love this movie.
Pure classic I would watch with father
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This movie teaches lessons watching from Kuwait January 8,2024 11 pm💙
As a teenager i never had just 1 boyfriend. I juggled as many as 4 one time and i have to say it wasn't easy. This movie made me laugh at times because i could relate to the anxiety she went through at times. I must say it is very exciting having multiple boys courting you. I had a great time during my youth i could write a book on some of my experiences. Great movie
May I know, How old are you now? if you don't mind
It never pays or satires you need Jesus
Satisfies I mean
@@corneliushood5081 Amen!!!!!!!!
@@corneliushood5081 Hilariously funny! L had a great laugh.
This movie awakened me..I am now living the same situation as Becky, both inlove with two incredible men..How can I supposed to solve it😢😤😥
I suggest you say to yourself "which one if I had to pick would I absolutely miss the most if they were gone," there is always one you love a little more.
If you don't make up your mind,one will make it up for you.
Get married to the both of them then get pregnant and not know who the father of the baby is…. So name the baby after BOTH husbands.
Problem solved. You welcome!
It's not possible to love 2 men at the same time. If a man said he loved his wife and mistress the same, we would all groan 😴💤
What a great movie. I rarely like the cheater in movies but l really liked her character and even sympathized with her but of course you can never get away with that behavior.
Well this was about the saddest movie ever......................
Connie Connie sellecca is a beautiful actress
0:40 Can someone tell me why they have the lights & sirens on for Becca?!! LOLOL She is a bigamist, not a serial killer! Must not be much to do for cops in that small town, in the 1990s!
I was so broken hearted with first husband.All he wanted was to give the best for his wife.But I am in that situation I would rather choose to live with man I loved😢
I would never let that doctor go. I am a smart lady.
Lol and what about the other ,mike the mexican guy? You dump him lol 😂
Great lesson time be learn & both viceversa ! It’s the most distasteful to betray the trust on their wedding vowels! Forget that part, the risk that may break the heart is to become suicidal & mental enough to get someone killed for revenge!
Good movie I'm just glad nobody was killed!!!😮😮