WOMEN WANT TO BE LED SPIRITUALLY.

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  • @M00nlord
    @M00nlord Рік тому +6820

    You don’t need to be with someone that is far ahead of you on the spiritual path, but rather someone that is willing to go to the fullest length on that path with you.

    • @kimberlyowens3279
      @kimberlyowens3279 Рік тому +100

      Wow, good one!!

    • @Nicholson_way
      @Nicholson_way Рік тому +65

      I screenshot it your comment, so I never forget it

    • @Who-cu9eu
      @Who-cu9eu Рік тому

      In the U.K. you’ll never find a woman that looks as good as her that preserves her virginity. Literally impossible. I might need to move to the US🤣🤣

    • @carlval11
      @carlval11 Рік тому +124

      Also someone who is further along spiritually may want someone just as equal or further than he is.
      Just my thoughts

    • @majorcoats7777
      @majorcoats7777 Рік тому +41

      Unfortunately hypergamy can't be hacked

  • @passerau
    @passerau Рік тому +8792

    Word of advice: always watch what a woman does, not what she says.
    Stay Blessed
    Ty🙏

    • @PedroSantos-tz1hg
      @PedroSantos-tz1hg Рік тому +288

      Very true brother.

    • @alsahib3768
      @alsahib3768 Рік тому +158

      Jezebel..pub crawler..

    • @LdAmaro71
      @LdAmaro71 Рік тому +376

      You’re right, yesterday I found a comment from a lady stating, “I want a Godly man.” When I visited her page she has a playlist with the name “Secular Music.” By the videos alone she was not lying being secular music. Came back to her comment and wrote, “You need to align yourself with God. ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and His Justice, everything else will fall in their place.’ By listening that type of music you’re opening a portal for Satan and his demons into your life.” Let’s hope she does what she needs to do to accomplish anything on God’s name and honor.

    • @julzriosdirector
      @julzriosdirector Рік тому +166

      She doesn't look any humble from inside, just listen...

    • @fatimagh462
      @fatimagh462 Рік тому +52

      ​@@LdAmaro71 is music considered a sin in Christianity?

  • @TNTTruth1
    @TNTTruth1 Рік тому +1623

    My wife is a third generation preacher's kid, very pure in heart. I was a druggie hippy when I met her. As a five year old she prayed that God would give her a husband that was a preacher. I got saved her in her parents church, married her. 48 yrs of marriage, 35 yrs starting a church and pastoring it together! God used her to heal my broken heart and together we have touched many lives for Christ! Think about it!

    • @joekie71
      @joekie71 Рік тому +37

      Only God! 🙌🙏 Thank you for this wonderful testimony of God's grace and mercy. Does not matter the person, God knows the heart and the plans and purpose for each of us. We just have to trust our Heavenly Father. He loves us. ❤

    • @kumzingtangtur4384
      @kumzingtangtur4384 Рік тому +12

      Wow! This is great! So touching.

    • @kumzingtangtur4384
      @kumzingtangtur4384 Рік тому +11

      You girls are doing great. I would love to meet you guys physically. I'm a Nigerian, from Plateau State. I'm single and seriously trusting God for a wife for many years now.
      I have a dream to relocate to the United States of America one day. I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist. Currently doing my master's in a field of Medical Laboratory Science and trusting God to prepare and write the American Society of Clinical Pathology international (ASCPi) examination to enable me secure a job in the United States of America and relocate. If or when I relocate, I will love to meet with you guys.
      Thank you and God bless!

    • @TheKingsChannelOfficial
      @TheKingsChannelOfficial Рік тому +1

      Spot on ! Well spotted. @@abel4776

    • @TheKingsChannelOfficial
      @TheKingsChannelOfficial Рік тому +1

      Praise GOD. Amen ! The Lord Jesus is Awesome ! GOD Bless you guys !!

  • @Thebig_KC
    @Thebig_KC 2 місяці тому +14

    Coming back to this comment section six months later as a young man, this message did help me improve in my depth and study of scripture and the word. I believe every woman deserves the kind of man she speaks of, so guys take a hint. ✌️

  • @hunterhenry930
    @hunterhenry930 9 місяців тому +83

    I felt this. I was brought back to my faith bc of a woman, but we ended up parting ways. Shortly after, God showed me how she wasn't gonna get me into Heaven, and I could not be more thankful for God opening my eyes. For the first time, I'm excited about being single and pursuing a better relationship with Jesus

    • @TheMusicMan49
      @TheMusicMan49 Місяць тому +2

      I'm so proud of that and happy for you! ❤

    • @lovejoy71422
      @lovejoy71422 9 днів тому

      No woman will ever get you into heaven! Only Jesus!

    • @honeybadgertigertiger2972
      @honeybadgertigertiger2972 2 дні тому

      Jesus pbuh time was expired. Please make contact with yesus pbuh creator that were never expired i meant Allah

  • @shillsdontspookme9208
    @shillsdontspookme9208 Рік тому +2467

    My husband and I grew in faith together.

    • @cameocaprice7366
      @cameocaprice7366 Рік тому +112

      This.
      Thank God it was His way and not mine, because my husband went from drug addict to pastor and I’m glad I didn’t tell God “no this isn’t good enough for me. He has to be perfect first “

    • @lifebeginswithaseed
      @lifebeginswithaseed Рік тому +46

      ​@@cameocaprice7366 Absolutely. I think it's just something she desires in her heart. We all do that, you know? I hope she doesn't miss out because of that tho. What's the old adage..."If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans."? Lol. ❤❤

    • @christianamor8828
      @christianamor8828 Рік тому +18

      Beautiful. As long as Christ is the foundation upon which a relationship is built the distance you already walked does not really matter imho. May God bless you.

    • @alreadybanned-pe6se
      @alreadybanned-pe6se Рік тому +4

      You need to follow him.

    • @jamiemcmullen4767
      @jamiemcmullen4767 Рік тому +5

      That's really precious

  • @glennstauffer7183
    @glennstauffer7183 9 місяців тому +560

    From one who’s happily married to the same woman for 43 years - the key is first BEING the right person and then letting God lead in CHOOSING the right person.

    • @cammontreuil7509
      @cammontreuil7509 9 місяців тому +6

      Actually you are wrong. If we are reasonably mature and socially adjusted, we can be happy with many thousands of different people.
      The one and only soulmate is a myth and a lie infatuated people want to believe.

    • @fahimaahmed3188
      @fahimaahmed3188 9 місяців тому

      "111" 🙌💯

    • @henokseyoum2987
      @henokseyoum2987 9 місяців тому

      We are at the beginning of the end of times. Marriage is from God because God created Eve from Adam and gave him Eve, and this is where God created marriage. So marriage is from God but Satan is against everything that belongs to God, and this is why the devil made many youths single, to divorce, to make abortion, enforced them to be engaged in same-sex marriage, which even the animals can't do, etc. By the way, I myself am single.

    • @Sunline2002
      @Sunline2002 9 місяців тому +1

      That's well said

    • @WeiFinder
      @WeiFinder 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@cammontreuil7509You're pooping on their parade just let them think what they want to

  • @FATMANYOU2
    @FATMANYOU2 8 днів тому +25

    It's the same thing i was looking for, so i got on my knees and stopped dating for 2 years and asked the Lord for a woman who loves GOD and me, beautiful on the inside and outside. Married 20 years now! Want he do it!❤💪🏾🙏🏾💯

  • @WarriorNurturer-vg8fd
    @WarriorNurturer-vg8fd Рік тому +4005

    Love isn't about finding the right person, it's about becoming the right person.

    • @WatchList-xf8ic
      @WatchList-xf8ic Рік тому +106

      DING-DING-DING-DING-DING!!!

    • @josephinediamond2727
      @josephinediamond2727 Рік тому +31

      The ego judges

    • @Handbook08
      @Handbook08 Рік тому +60

      Half true there, brother. Attraction plays a very important element as well, it has to show some glimpse of Realization or else what differs them from anybody?

    • @sabrinashema
      @sabrinashema Рік тому +24

      Love is about finding the right person in every situation, so work harder on yourself the time you meet the one make sure you are the right person simple 😂or choose to learn before cause we all going to count on you whether you like it or not 🧐🤣👋

    • @nataliej.3579
      @nataliej.3579 Рік тому +5

      Are you saying she needs to not be religious?? Clearly not

  • @essbeenarido6823
    @essbeenarido6823 Рік тому +152

    I am thankful to GOD for marrying a man who led me to the faith in JESUS CHRIST. We always talked and discussed about GOD and HIS WORD. One thing he always tell me, in whatever I do, think and say always give glory to GOD.

  • @paulinamontanna
    @paulinamontanna Місяць тому +38

    i am blessed to have an amazing man given to me by God. He is a beautiful man inside and out and we teach each other about theology. it’s such a beautiful experience and feeling to know that God crafted him for me!! I never knew love like this was possible in this generation!

    • @redlineshawn1700
      @redlineshawn1700 26 днів тому

      God isn't a cosmic match maker lol. Yea you found him, but nothing more than luck

    • @paulinamontanna
      @paulinamontanna 26 днів тому +1

      @ Sounds like you are a little jealous 🤣 It is not luck, it is through prayer i’ve acquired a blessing and your opinion only matters to you. My experience with God and my spouse is simply mine and is a blessing to me!

    • @redlineshawn1700
      @redlineshawn1700 26 днів тому

      ​@@paulinamontannajealous of what? My wife thinks the same thing you do, and I tell her the same thing I said to you. He's not a matchmaker. 😅

    • @Hellencia-xk7pw
      @Hellencia-xk7pw 9 днів тому

      ​@@redlineshawn1700 oh,but He is!

  • @thelordshumbleservant
    @thelordshumbleservant 7 місяців тому +44

    Ever since I was baptized in the Holy Spirit I encounter people who are sick, need healing, in pain or have other physical problems and I have had the privilege of laying hands on hundreds of people in Jesus name and I’ve seen more people get healed than I can keep track of and most of them were healed instantly. I love being in His presence. Now I just need someone who will walk beside me in this gift. I’m looking for my best friend, the one God created just for me. I know she’s out there.

    • @mathematicianphd7395
      @mathematicianphd7395 4 місяці тому

      I need a miracle healer woman. Pray for me 🙄

    • @benztruck1936
      @benztruck1936 20 днів тому

      Who baptised you? I need to get it done and am trying to see who/what is a good group to get it done by or however a person terms it…Thanks. 👍

  • @oliviakilpatrick
    @oliviakilpatrick Рік тому +104

    I remember thinking this, and maybe not for her, but for me, it was pride and immaturity. I married a wonderful man who is growing in his leadership and I’m growing in my submission.
    You have to be ok to submit to a man who isn’t as far along as you’d like but has the earnestness and potential to get there.

    • @beingroxy
      @beingroxy 11 місяців тому +1

      Years ago, I met a man who knew the Bible front to back. Raised in church and could hold a good Bible study. BUT he was void of the presence of Jesus. He had no true relationship. Come to find out he was doing this with many women in the church. I was just 1 of em. This was of my doing not God too. But I NEVER felt the presence of Jesus with him. See a man can give you so much theology but NOT love Jesus at all. Meanwhile, there's a man who may not be as biblically literate who Loves Jesus and SHOWS Jesus in his actions and CAN authentically lead his family and Love his wife as Christ loved the Church. Ladies let Jesus CHOOSE your spouse no need to go on endless dates. God can direct every other part of your life, so why not in your season of wanting a mate? Let HIM CHOOSE. 😊 Trust him with this!!
      And yes! Most certainly pride. I'm not married yet. But this was my thinking too. Had a long, exhausting list of spiritual things I wanted in my husband. God humbled me and told me, nope. Are you marrying Jesus in the earthly flesh? No. You're marrying a human. And he will have flaws. As long as he is willing to grow with you and Jesus, God will be glorified. He must be glorified in our weaknesses. Prayerfully, her mind changes, and Jesus shows her this is not what truly matters. But that he truly follows Jesus foremost in all his imperfections. Leadership will grow. She wants an already made man. Can this happen sure? But what is God's plan for HER ultimately?

    • @oliviakilpatrick
      @oliviakilpatrick 11 місяців тому +3

      Well, I do think some of the high standards are just plain having a BS meter and selectivity, our healthy hypergamy if you will, but yes, feminism has been a poison suggesting women don't need men. We DO! We need GOOD men!! @@beingroxy

    • @mfawls9624
      @mfawls9624 11 місяців тому +4

      Very true. You set expectations for a man and we will struggle through anything to meet them. Don't set expectations and we will drift lazily.

    • @CruzLegend3
      @CruzLegend3 11 місяців тому +2

      That was well said.

    • @beingroxy
      @beingroxy 11 місяців тому

      Is youtube hiding comments? I can't see my original comment lol?

  • @feliciaslightlyunfiltered
    @feliciaslightlyunfiltered Рік тому +344

    This woman took the words, thoughts, compassion, understanding and wisdom out of my heart! Yes exactly…a Godly woman desires a Godly man that knows the deeper things of God and is on a higher level than her❤. Amen sis amen

    • @blessos
      @blessos Рік тому

      A "Godly woman" doesn't casually speak of "all the great guys" she's slept with.
      Absolutely ridiculous.

    • @aaabbb-py5xd
      @aaabbb-py5xd Рік тому +12

      Lol, so she wants to marry the Pope.

    • @EmpressPrincess
      @EmpressPrincess Рік тому

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @wiseman4160
      @wiseman4160 Рік тому +10

      Why does she have no accountability. Maybe she should look in mirror and become person she is trying to attract. And also not be delusional.

    • @aaabbb-py5xd
      @aaabbb-py5xd Рік тому

      @@wiseman4160 The mirror correctly said that she looks competitive in the dating pool, so she got full of herself and overreached. To her, likely everything started to look like a settle that is not good enough. This is why she basically set the bar at the level of a priest or a pope. Or maybe she's just virtue signaling to cover up her inner thot lol

  • @Jays1ndone
    @Jays1ndone 9 місяців тому +210

    My wife and I both had our own list of what we wanted in a spouse and God laughed at us both and none of what we were looking for was on either of our lists besides being a Christian. You may THINK you know what you want but just listen and watch to what God has for in store for you and you’ll TRULY be blessed by it. Just make sure you’re both equally yoked and they love God more then anything else and then pray about it, He’ll let you know!

    • @dannylowefitness1347
      @dannylowefitness1347 7 місяців тому +2

      haha nice one

    • @JurgenWeber5000
      @JurgenWeber5000 5 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful that you get this respons from GOD. I work with him, live with him, laugh with him, enjoy his eternal presence and protection and be still amazed and wondering how the whole creation of our world and dimensions is constructed, so genius, wisely, creative, beautiful, loving, connected and intertwined. And everyone's world is also a Mirow of them self. As inside so outside. So make peace and love to and with everyone and everything, because it's all you. And there is no hierarchy. Nobody is more or less. Even GOD says this, because every piece and everyone is part of him or of you. There is only you or GOD. Only the identification with your ego makes it difficult to comprehend this truth and live it. That takes time. That's the reason why Jesus said: "The father and I are one"! We are all one. Pieces Consciousness on the way to "know" not believing, no to know it, that we are all one and that kind of Consciousness is Christ-Conciousness. Knowing that all is one. We are pieces of GOD but at the same time we are all, what we can experience in different ways. But when you don't know it yet than takes it also the necessary time to integrate this truth, to live it, to express it more and more with every encounter. How do you love your home, your neighbor, your Government, other countries like Russia, how do you interact with all animals and nature to give your love is more easy but all parts? Every moment. Being grateful to the air, to the sun and moon and so on, these are all area's where we can develop and express our Love and ONENESS.
      We are all on the way to become fully the unconditional true Love that we truly are.
      GOD bless you all and I love you all too.

    • @tank1238
      @tank1238 4 місяці тому

      hahaha, YUP!

    • @QueenieCurlene
      @QueenieCurlene 4 дні тому

      ❤ your comment ❤

  • @gvjrvartuli
    @gvjrvartuli 2 години тому

    I have the perfect guy for you - my nephew is a true blessing from God so filled with the Holy Spirit. I at the age of 49 look to Him for wisdom and comfort because He leads me back to the word of God. He reminds me a little of Solomon. He has so much faith and so much love. He is very funny and so humble. I would love to go through life with a quarter of the patience and the faith he has. I am so proud of him. May God bless you both and God will send you the companion meant for you. "It is not good for that man should be alone, I will make him a helper comparable to him." Remember you have the greatest Helper already in Jesus. Thank you both for your continually encouraging words via your podcast. You are in inspiration to myself and my daughter.

  • @veemo8830
    @veemo8830 Рік тому +219

    Sometimes being single is the only way your life can be quiet enough, so you can truly listen to God. The right person is someone that you see God in, and they will make you grow closer to Him.

    • @lyliarose5911
      @lyliarose5911 Рік тому +6

      Quelle belle phrase 😮 je suis d’accord

    • @christinaduplessis4332
      @christinaduplessis4332 Рік тому +4

      Amen ,amen

    • @AnomalyBelleza
      @AnomalyBelleza Рік тому +7

      Yes yes yes! This is so true. I love being single because it does, indeed afford you the quiet time to really tune into God‘s instruction.
      At least, for me, being single, has truly allowed me to silence the noise, have an enormous amount of me time, and has helped me further understand and appreciate the basic elements of life.

    • @LdAmaro71
      @LdAmaro71 Рік тому +3

      I understand each one of you because where there’s silence is peaceful, but in my case I long for that Godly companion. 🙏🏼

    • @JohnJohnCrusher
      @JohnJohnCrusher Рік тому

      Unfortunately god is a fictitious construct of the human mind. Sad to see

  • @goldenocean8129
    @goldenocean8129 Рік тому +770

    Not just theology, but someone who is truly humble. Many proud men can talk about theology. Being married to a prideful person is hard.

    • @clarkkent3730
      @clarkkent3730 Рік тому +30

      EXACTLY

    • @elijahrose7913
      @elijahrose7913 Рік тому +21

      True theology will lead to Godliness

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому +20

      Theologians aren't christian and christian are not theologians

    • @warriorofthelord4142
      @warriorofthelord4142 Рік тому

      @@nathanmccumber8965Some are

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому +5

      Everybody on UA-cam need get off study God word king James bible God word in English. Including myself. These woman know not Lord Jesus Christ

  • @EpiCoconut
    @EpiCoconut Рік тому +217

    Focusing on God in your singleness is such a blessing I will never forget. I never appreciated it till those days were gone!

    • @frankjones5283
      @frankjones5283 10 місяців тому +2

      The scripture says it pretty good.
      You will be concerned more about them than God.

    • @fahimaahmed3188
      @fahimaahmed3188 9 місяців тому

      🙌

    • @benztruck1936
      @benztruck1936 20 днів тому

      Doesn’t that tell you you’re with the wrong person…

  • @letmebreakitdown2u152
    @letmebreakitdown2u152 Місяць тому +8

    God will bring you that man! It's so great you're willing to let him bring you that!! It will be the best best best thing to have a man of God!!

  • @Officially_FabulousFABI
    @Officially_FabulousFABI Рік тому +205

    I knew a men of faith was the one for me.
    I remember after our first date my husband sent a paragraph long prayer. 4yrs later I still receive them! Our conversation has turns into insightful conversations then breaking into a heartfelt prayer over us…that’s the man I was waiting for ❤

    • @stevenscott9863
      @stevenscott9863 Рік тому +5

      Amen to you

    • @kairossoteria6215
      @kairossoteria6215 Рік тому +4

      i am looking for a woman like your man.

    • @fey10107
      @fey10107 Рік тому +1

      Wow I'm so happy for you

    • @petiteklutzy
      @petiteklutzy Рік тому +2

      Exactly that's the man my soul is longing for with whom the conversation turns into some insightful conversation❤

    • @Muzzy0085
      @Muzzy0085 Рік тому +1

      I'm glad that works for you ..

  • @Younglambs
    @Younglambs Рік тому +281

    After several years of dating I was looking for a life partner. I got down on my knees and said God your word says to ask and you shall receive. I believe this and I am asking you for a wife. One that is smart, beautiful, and knows how to cook as I love to eat. Within that month I saw her and knew she was the one and even asked to meet her parents to show I was sincere in dating her honorably. 8 months later I proposed got married 3 months after that. She is beautiful; engineering degree, loves to cook. 2 year later had our first child. We have had more kids in our 35 years together. God is so good. Don’t give up on God.

    • @lph07395
      @lph07395 Рік тому +13

      Beautiful ♥️

    • @roses993
      @roses993 Рік тому +19

      Oh wow nice! I'm an engineer, i love history, and im a christian. And i love cooking. Ive had suitors but things dont work out because they are not men of God and because im waiting til marriage. I pray that the right man of God finds me in the right time😊

    • @lesystemepronos4301
      @lesystemepronos4301 Рік тому

      @@roses993 Hi, can I ask to see you on instagram..? there is no private messages on youtube

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Рік тому

      Good 4 you, but many are not so lucky : And, some prefer Not to defile their souls with the love for females, because they Love God Faaar Far Above everything else . ua-cam.com/video/YIHMPc6ZCuI/v-deo.html&pp=ygUaZGlyZSBzdHJhaXRzIC0gc28gZmFyIGF3YXk%3D

    • @h2flow1
      @h2flow1 Рік тому +3

      ​@@roses993I'm right here

  • @jannaswanson271
    @jannaswanson271 Рік тому +6678

    It is better to be single than settle for the wrong man!!! (or woman)

    • @We_shall_overcom
      @We_shall_overcom Рік тому

      Same goes to a man, this is dangerous times.
      Porn, only fans, narcissistic people, delusional and deprived minds. Self centred instead of putting family and God first.
      Be careful out there!

    • @JediKnight006
      @JediKnight006 Рік тому +308

      Or women

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому +29

      Once your Married it's for like Roman 7:2-3kjv.
      If you know people the divorced and remarried and their partner still alive they are living open adultery sinning against God and there partner. Luke 16:18kjv. Mark 10:9-12kjv Matthew 5:31-32kjv. Malachi chapter 2:14-17kjv.

    • @ruthhannamaria
      @ruthhannamaria Рік тому +15

      Amen to that ❤

    • @timmy6402
      @timmy6402 Рік тому +1

      ​@@JediKnight006any women abuse me, her funeral is the next day

  • @recommendmovies
    @recommendmovies День тому +1

    I SOOOO RELATE TO THIS. SUBSCRIBED!!❤😊... If I should add anything to this, I think having great knowledge of theology is amazing but not the main thing. He should have a personal relationship with God and be submitted to Christ❤

  • @heatherheaven33
    @heatherheaven33 Рік тому +338

    I have been with the same man since I was 18, we have grown together, our faith has grown, and we are going to have a son. God has blessed us so much. 🙏 but when we both got together neither of us was the best. But we want to be better for God and for eachother. And growing together has been amazing and has been the foundation of our journey together.

    • @Kevin-po2dl
      @Kevin-po2dl Рік тому +4

      ✝️🙌🏻✝️👊🏻✝️

    • @LightnShine
      @LightnShine Рік тому +4

      This is so awesome ❤

    • @LUX_8
      @LUX_8 Рік тому +5

      Are you married?

    • @davidgriffith9590
      @davidgriffith9590 Рік тому +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @irishcountrygirl78
      @irishcountrygirl78 Рік тому +1

      I'm with the same man since 16, married in Barbados at 21, we are 45 now, we met via our local CB radio gang, kids talking on the C B and meeting up. We don't do religion, the CB brought us together. My brothers CB 😂😂😂.

  • @sarahassefa6853
    @sarahassefa6853 Рік тому +233

    My hubby is 100% this. Praise God for him! I respect and admire him more than anyone I've ever met.

    • @SoldierOfGodKJV
      @SoldierOfGodKJV Рік тому +2

      Have you received the Holy Ghost since you believed?

    • @Stephanie-di7qy
      @Stephanie-di7qy Рік тому +3

      You are blessed. It's so hard to find a man so in love and with such a deep faith in Our Heavenly Father. I pray I find this one day. 🙏

    • @ginadelgado7027
      @ginadelgado7027 Рік тому

      Your blessed..

    • @ginadelgado7027
      @ginadelgado7027 Рік тому +2

      Always felt like this young girl.. still haven't know a God fearing Man ✝️📖🙏🏼

    • @attorneyreid7
      @attorneyreid7 Рік тому

      ​@paulwise998 we all received the Holy Spirit The minute we got saved! The Holy Spirit lives in us at the time of our conversion. The gifts of the Holy Spirit and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit are completely different and comes after we develop our personal relationship with God by repenting of our sins daily, fasting, praying, worshipping, reading and studying the Bible, living Holy and
      getting to know God on a deeper level

  • @christian37ism
    @christian37ism Рік тому +75

    As a Christian man who studied theology, masters to be exact, I searched for someone to match my faith. Thank God I finally did. Not only in education but serving in Gods kingdom as well. You’ll find that man, but be the person you’d wish to have and you’ll be that much closer.

    • @WatchList-xf8ic
      @WatchList-xf8ic Рік тому +14

      This girl is suffering from the ultimate "daddy's girl" complex. She
      perceives herself as "greater" than every single man she sees because
      she is believing the lie her earthly father sold her that she is a
      princess. She believes the lie that she is better than any man out
      there, which is how her earthly father has crippled her. This is sad. I
      know gorgeous young women, one who is 35 and a committed Christian who
      wants to find her husband; badly, in fact. However, no guy has yet
      measured up. Part of it is that feminism has killed healthy masculinity
      by "toxifying" it and vilifying it. Part of it is the fact that he
      father has hamstrung her by searing her sense of what she wants in a
      mate. She will end up an old spinster. VERY sad, and so is this girl in
      the video.

    • @user-kc2ep2jl3u
      @user-kc2ep2jl3u Рік тому +4

      A friend of mine married her husband when he had no faith. 30 years later, he's an amazing man of God. Everyone has a different journey.

    • @madhavi.tinsley
      @madhavi.tinsley Рік тому +2

      So Christian’s should make sure they marry someone with degrees? I don’t see that in the Bible at all…

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому

      ​@@madhavi.tinsleyGod never sends nobody to those Jesuit bible colleges. Just study your King James Bible

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому

      ​@@madhavi.tinsleychristian aren't theologians and theologians aren't christian.
      God is not trinity or oneness those man made doctrines of devils.

  • @chelseadawn19
    @chelseadawn19 6 днів тому

    My husband wasn’t a believer when we met, he became a Christian and far surpassed me spiritually and he’s humble. Never underestimate what God can do!

  • @btpictures7195
    @btpictures7195 9 місяців тому +429

    As a Man I totally agree with her. I am teaching this to my daughter. If women chose Man who love God more than them. They will love you for sure. ❤

    • @iamdelannie3979
      @iamdelannie3979 8 місяців тому +28

      Yes like my ex pastor husband did. He will beat me in the house while pregnant and go outside to "evangelise" then come back and say he saved a soul today and my mouth will just stare at him opened 😮. Please choose a man that will have strong values and believes in God. Many false prophets and hypocrites during the end times.

    • @Tmo2024
      @Tmo2024 8 місяців тому +6

      Lmfao literally all my married religious friends all cheat
      Grow up
      There's no infinite recipe to Monogamy

    • @Tmo2024
      @Tmo2024 8 місяців тому +1

      You can teach your dear daughters whatever you want but a man has it 50% in him to kill your sweet darling daughters it's not really what you teach your daughters it's the amount of time you will be there checking in on the relationship while you are still alive.

    • @karter64
      @karter64 8 місяців тому +14

      Y’all missing the point OP made. A man who “Loves” God. Big difference. Being religious, going to church, and evangelizing doesn’t automatically mean you love God. Unfortunately we can do all those things without giving ourselves completely to God to change us. The Bible talks about this. Hence reason to watch people’s actions and not what they say. You can’t say you love God and not exhibit the fruit of the Spirit. Loving God requires death to self (flesh) and picking up your cross to live your life for him so that you can bear fruit. Galatians 5:19-23 lays out what actions to look for. Have a blessed day.

    • @Tmo2024
      @Tmo2024 8 місяців тому

      @@karter64 and you have x ray eyes 😆 you can oick out the wrong and right liars 😆 don't make me laugh and grow 🪴 up

  • @thewrestlingroom410
    @thewrestlingroom410 Рік тому +383

    Ladies, when you find this man, he will have feet of clay, just like you do. Much Grace will be required, no matter who that man is. All the best.

    • @Justaname-00
      @Justaname-00 Рік тому +5

      Hopefully no iron and clay....that's a world power

    • @thewrestlingroom410
      @thewrestlingroom410 Рік тому

      @@abella11 Certainly… “Feet of clay” is simply a figure of speech for areas of life where the flesh is still active and not submitted fully to the Holy Spirit. Aside from Jesus himself, all men and women battle with these areas. That is why marriage is such a wonderful gift. It reveals many blind spots, exposes our pride and selfishness, and reveals areas where we still need to grow. While it is healthy in some ways to set a very high bar for our future mate, we must also understand that we must be prepared to bring a very large vessel filled with grace to the marriage, because forgiveness will be hugely needed. Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth, once said that a healthy marriage is the union of two people who have learned how to forgive. Even the most godly man who studies theology, is very familiar with his Bible, and leads his household well will need forgiveness and grace on many occasions. So will his godly wife. After 26 years of marriage to a godly woman, who married me because she thought I was that, godly, biblically sound man, I can confidently say that It has been boatloads of forgiveness and the unlimited grace of God that has fueled our success thus far… and we continue to discover unsubmitted areas that still need work. Dream, big, forgive big! Extend grace big.

    • @christianamor8828
      @christianamor8828 Рік тому +9

      Or stinky feet. But at least his theology will be straightened out.

    • @joshuadharman
      @joshuadharman Рік тому +15

      ​@@abella11we are all but dust. Dust with water and the breath of Life breathed into his frame.
      This could be an issue if delivery, but standards are powerful and great, but the next level of faith for her will most likely be humility in trusting the Lord in being led by someone that is not perfect.

    • @williamclancy9150
      @williamclancy9150 Рік тому

      ​@@Justaname-00 sounds like a cyborg; iron mixed with clay.

  • @valeriebrown3709
    @valeriebrown3709 Рік тому +92

    It really is a blessing to have Biblical conversations with my husband daily. I pray God brings you to the man He has for you.

    • @AllAboutAndrew444
      @AllAboutAndrew444 Рік тому

      😍🙏🏼

    • @valeriebrown3709
      @valeriebrown3709 Рік тому

      @@trevrockrock16 I didn’t say it was. What’s your point?

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому

      Romans 7:2-3
      King James Version
      2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      Luke 16:18
      King James Version
      18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      Matthew 5:31-32
      King James Version
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12
      King James Version
      9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
      10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
      11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
      12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

    • @valeriebrown3709
      @valeriebrown3709 Рік тому +1

      @@trevrockrock16 “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”
      ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭22‬
      “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
      ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭37‬:‭4‬ ‭‬‬
      I never said every single person is meant to be married. He calls some to be single, but clearly this lady desires a godly husband. Thus my prayer for Him to bring her to the man has for her.
      You know, it’s not very “christian” for you to jump to conclusions about people you don’t know and say their faith isn’t genuine and they’re not a Christian.

    • @valeriebrown3709
      @valeriebrown3709 Рік тому

      @@trevrockrock16 If you keep reading in that same chapter you’ll see that staying single is PAUL’S preference for us, not a command! “I say this as a concession, not as a command.”
      ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭6‬ Jesus, in fact reiterated what was said in Genesis. “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Matthew‬ ‭19‬:‭4‬-‭6‬ The “Therefore” portion was Him adding to the OT verse telling us to still obey the OT in regards to marriage.
      God is not a god of confusion. The entire Bible is His word and has no contradictions. Jesus himself quoted from the OT in the NT all the time, thus showing the OT is not null and void. He even said, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.” Matthew‬ ‭5‬:‭17‬ ‭
      “You study the Scriptures diligently because you think that in them you have eternal life. These are the very Scriptures that testify about me,” ‭‭John‬ ‭5‬:‭39‬ ‭- The scriptures Jesus is talking about are all in the OT, again showing that the OT is not void. The entire Bible speaks of Christ and is still relevant and truth.

  • @SusieQ3
    @SusieQ3 Рік тому +928

    As a wife to a man who loves talking about theology, and leading his family spiritually, I approve of this message!❤

    • @suspecthighly9852
      @suspecthighly9852 Рік тому +2

      Gods not real 😂😂😂😂

    • @otiliamanuelajurj
      @otiliamanuelajurj Рік тому +33

      ⁠@@suspecthighly9852 You are crossing someone’s freedom of choice! You try to force your belief on someone else.

    • @Ebukizy
      @Ebukizy Рік тому

      Aren't christians supposed to be virgins till marriage? 🤔 grifter?

    • @TD-oo1hl
      @TD-oo1hl Рік тому +3

      Good thing to cause if they weren’t religious looks like they probably wouldn’t take you based on ur looks

    • @johnburroughs6511
      @johnburroughs6511 Рік тому +2

      @@otiliamanuelajurj doesn't feminists already do that?

  • @timothyjackson4285
    @timothyjackson4285 11 місяців тому +432

    Thats a good desire. The reason I married my wife was because I was able to talk to her for hours about God and it was genuine. The foundation of our relationship is the will of God. If you do that, you will have good marriage.

    • @Eli-cr1qg
      @Eli-cr1qg 10 місяців тому +12

      Amen

    • @EmpressDivineFeminine
      @EmpressDivineFeminine 10 місяців тому +6

    • @EAC23
      @EAC23 10 місяців тому +11

      That's what I'm prying for. I want a woman who loves God first so that we can both fully commit to pleasing Him! 🙌

    • @jeffsuehiro9041
      @jeffsuehiro9041 10 місяців тому +5

      I agree

    • @katieecat
      @katieecat 10 місяців тому +2

      Praise the Lord

  • @mytwosents
    @mytwosents Рік тому +167

    I have a husband like that and it’s worth the wait! There are many great men out there that truly love God and who make great leaders and will always pray for their wife and love her!

    • @ckobo84
      @ckobo84 Рік тому +1

      She's casting a wide net 🐟 , he's got to be out there somewhere.

    • @nicklopez8004
      @nicklopez8004 Рік тому +2

      I came to God a little over a year ago, now i’m just looking for a woman of God

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому +1

      Leaders? Marriage is a partnership not a follow the leader train wreck. Paul wrote that submit/ obey shit and Paul is the Benjamin wolf antichrist. He plagiarized one of his 3 contradictory conversion stories from Eurpidedes and then From THE SAME PLAY, Antichrist Paul plagiarized his escape from prison by earthquake story. Jesus warned you 6 ways from Sunday about Paul. The Ephesians turned away from him. Paul admitted "All in Asia have turned away from me." Ephesus was in Asia. Jesus commended the church of Ephesus in Revelation for trying the apostles and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus by that time.

    • @dianaredeemed
      @dianaredeemed Рік тому +1

      Amen sister! 🙌

    • @PrinceCobraJFS
      @PrinceCobraJFS 8 місяців тому

      ​@@MandyAltamiranowow, where did you go wrong in your doctrine? You sound very bitter.

  • @beautybar9762
    @beautybar9762 День тому

    Oh my word 😂
    I soooooo get it
    And I'm also in that same frame of mind regarding a life partner...I need a wife who thinks like this...I'm called to be a preacher but teacher first before preaching and I would hate to be a wife who kills my Spirit because she just doesn't burn with the same passion for the Word of God namely the gospel...I've stayed single because the women I've dated before Lord bless their souls just didn't respect the Word of God that much straight up facts😅 so this really encouraged me this morning...I just came across you guys yesterday and I'm so inspired...❤😊

  • @irenepotrzuski3519
    @irenepotrzuski3519 10 місяців тому +116

    You are on the right path. Those who wait God will send someone special in their lives.

    • @frankjones5283
      @frankjones5283 10 місяців тому +1

      not necessarily...

    • @crystalcovert5449
      @crystalcovert5449 10 місяців тому +3

      Not true

    • @vincew4297
      @vincew4297 10 місяців тому +6

      Not true, God helps those who helps themselves. People who just sit around and wait for someone special to come into life won’t receive that kind of blessing

    • @frankjones5283
      @frankjones5283 10 місяців тому

      @@vincew4297 After being a Christian for over 50 years.. I say that you are right.
      Also Christians have a misconception of divine protection. So many good disciples have been killed in history. (martyred). starting with Stephen.

    • @irenepotrzuski3519
      @irenepotrzuski3519 10 місяців тому +1

      @@vincew4297 I agree with you 1000%. No doubt about that.

  • @hansfinkemeier6687
    @hansfinkemeier6687 Рік тому +190

    Someone can be full of head knowledge, self-righteous, and memorize the entire bible and have a theological discussion. And yet have no clue what it means to truly abide in Christ and allow His life to flow through you! Just having a revelation about all of this. Thank you Jesus!

    • @mikehiers3332
      @mikehiers3332 Рік тому +7

      Very well said. It's good to know scriptures but it's about your relationship with Christ. How you react in everyday ups and downs. in your faithfulness. you said best in all the post.

    • @throughfrankieseyeznow
      @throughfrankieseyeznow 11 місяців тому +1

      Very very true. God's word is important but if we don't know Him know Him it doesn't matter. I couldn't agree more with you I say it all the time. Jesus will teach His children one to one in relationship.

    • @parentscrib
      @parentscrib 11 місяців тому +3

      At least they started from somewhere, is it not better to encourage, than judge her based on assumptions?

    • @Adam2-13
      @Adam2-13 11 місяців тому +3

      @@parentscribjudgment is necessary in the church we must judge and hold other Christians accountable because they are supposed to know the truth already there is no excuses in Gods house God hates excuses everyone is without excuse the Bible says

    • @parentscrib
      @parentscrib 11 місяців тому +3

      @@Adam2-13 so on what grounds are you judging her, what wrong did she do now. Ain't people just judging her based on assumptions? Have you met her before?

  • @annielarochelle2563
    @annielarochelle2563 Рік тому +42

    God chose a man for me that wasn't even close to believe in God. But he listens and his faith is growing. He trusted me right from the beginning and turns to God more and more by himself. It's beautiful to witness the unfolding of his own path in God. Even when he doesn't recognize it, he speaks the wisdom of God to help me grow and walk on this path.
    As God wants more souls to awaken to Its glory, i think we should lead those souls ready to open their heart to God but unaware yet. It's not easy, even challenging, but so rewarding in God going out of our comfort zone.

    • @samuelbishop3316
      @samuelbishop3316 Рік тому +6

      God works in many ways and not everyone's story is the same due to that. Yours is very encouraging sister.

    • @johannajo1359
      @johannajo1359 Рік тому +4

      Yes this is God's purpose in relating now. It is sad little Christians have their heart open for this because this is what God's heart is like. ❤

    • @mckaelyntennison
      @mckaelyntennison Рік тому +1

      Mines the same way! He wasn’t more spiritually mature than me but he was willing and that’s all that ever matters. ❤

    • @mothegoat6865
      @mothegoat6865 Рік тому

      Thank you much for saying this!

    • @franp7156
      @franp7156 Рік тому

      This is encouraging, thank you for sharing. I pray that mine will be more willing

  • @IfeomaPromise-t6b
    @IfeomaPromise-t6b 3 дні тому

    Most times it's always difficult finding the right man that knows God and respect you for who you are.

  • @deniidepaula10
    @deniidepaula10 Рік тому +671

    Be careful to not wait forever and not find anyone, generally you have to grow together spiritually

    • @WatchList-xf8ic
      @WatchList-xf8ic Рік тому +27

      Not sometimes. All the times.

    • @deniidepaula10
      @deniidepaula10 Рік тому

      Sometimes in this case means the exactly same thing as all the time. @@WatchList-xf8ic

    • @barbarastockler1
      @barbarastockler1 Рік тому +5

      Based!!

    • @iREZARECTEM
      @iREZARECTEM Рік тому +39

      You still have to be equally yoked.

    • @hotpockets69
      @hotpockets69 Рік тому +12

      She's not going to sleep with you bro.

  • @ajpreus
    @ajpreus Рік тому +132

    I married a woman who likes to talk theology. It has blessed my life like Psalm 128.

    • @AnthonyShaw-ty9pi
      @AnthonyShaw-ty9pi Рік тому +2

      Wish I could have found that.
      66 now. Maybe there's still a chance. Been looking in the wrong places probably.

    • @firewgudero3423
      @firewgudero3423 Рік тому +2

      Thanks Ajpreus, 🙏, I pray that God might do the same for me!

    • @firewgudero3423
      @firewgudero3423 Рік тому +2

      Thanks, Andrew 🙏, I mean!! Be blessed 🙌 🙋

  • @jen8932
    @jen8932 Рік тому +272

    Agree. I waited, too, for the right one. I thought I found the one (a Christian guy from a different church) when I was 23, my first date. A few guys courted me who came from same church, too. But it seemed that these guys I first dated were not mature enough for me to lead me spiritually. And thank God I waited for the right one and God gave me my husband now. ❤❤❤ We are 11 years married now.

    • @SavedByChrist7
      @SavedByChrist7 Рік тому +10

      Praise the Lord!❤

    • @NazarofGod
      @NazarofGod Рік тому +4

      🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @regalk-hr7tf
      @regalk-hr7tf Рік тому +8

      You just motivated me🥹 I'm 24 and still waiting to find a girl that goes to the gym and want to grow physically, mentally and specially... Spiritually with me😭😭😭... Please lord hear my prays 🙏😭😭😭

    • @Ke-na-le-Moemedi
      @Ke-na-le-Moemedi Рік тому +6

      Also bear in mind that men are usually very intimidated by and insecure about approaching extremely beautiful women. So God must give your Mr. Right a healthy dose of boldness.
      Please, please, please don't settle for a man you don't find physically attractive just because he's a great theologian. Mr. Right will be the right one, not a compromise that you try to justify because people keep asking or reminding you that time is ticking.

    • @berealrb1496
      @berealrb1496 Рік тому

      Good testimony.

  • @ChildofGod1982-b6u
    @ChildofGod1982-b6u 9 днів тому

    I feel like I’m in the same boat as far as waiting for a Godly man who’s knowledge of the Lord is more advanced then me. I want someone to teach me more and inspire me in my faith more! And we’ll grow together loving and living for God and each other.

  • @martaaltheide5146
    @martaaltheide5146 Рік тому +100

    It’s not about theology. It’s about knowing The Triune God in such an intimate way that everyone knows that there is something different about you, without speaking about Him. The fruits of the spirit : love, joy peace, patience gentleness kindness faithfulness and self control are evident in all you say and do. That’s the husband I met and married. Thank you Jesus for your kindness in bringing him to me.

    • @Matt-zp1jn
      @Matt-zp1jn Рік тому +2

      Yes. And also GOODNESS !

    • @christopherhoye975
      @christopherhoye975 Рік тому +5

      You can’t know the triune God without theology

    • @wallyg7683
      @wallyg7683 Рік тому +8

      @@christopherhoye975but you can totally know theology and not KNOW God. I feel like the lady in this snippet likely meant the latter, too

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому +5

      @@christopherhoye975 You CAN know the triune God without theology. I did. I knew Him at 6 yrs old when He came to me and I hadn't been to a church, read a child's Bible or had any knowledge of theology. I knew Him and Know Him today.

    • @matt_h_27
      @matt_h_27 Рік тому +2

      @@MandyAltamirano
      Theology is literally the study/knowledge of God.

  • @Maverick-zy7yu
    @Maverick-zy7yu Рік тому +69

    There is nothing better than growing in faith together and watching your relationship grow from the struggles of life together. Theres nothing greater than walking together in life. How does one expect a great man to just show up in life. Men and women were created for eachother to help eachother.

  • @brisas33
    @brisas33 10 місяців тому +49

    I’m literally going through a break up rn but I know it’s bc God has something better for me. When me and my ex started dating I wasn’t with Christ. It’s through our relationship that I found God and it changed everything in our relationship. He was no longer the man I wanted bc my wants had changed and now I know that what I need is a Man of God

    • @Goldberryvil12
      @Goldberryvil12 10 місяців тому +2

      Good for you! Hold out for a man who honors God first, and also honors you ❤️

    • @kingdavid3154
      @kingdavid3154 10 місяців тому

      Good for you

    • @wilvzn
      @wilvzn 9 місяців тому +2

      You wanted something new to ride on just say that

  • @KlyerReehan
    @KlyerReehan 8 днів тому

    That's a life of a high value woman. Wish many women were like you. Keep your value and standard. I truly admire your resilience and faith.🙏🇵🇬🙏

  • @alysontveidt
    @alysontveidt 9 місяців тому +132

    That's exactly the man I had, and I took him for granted. He was much older than me and he was just an amazing man. He was the most loving person I ever have known. He passed away with cancer March 15, 2024. I miss him terribly every day and wish I could have known how special he truly was before he was diagnosed with cancer. You never know what you have until you lose it. At least I know he is with the Lord and one day we will be together again.

    • @Asaman103
      @Asaman103 8 місяців тому

      MHSRIP

    • @Asaman103
      @Asaman103 8 місяців тому +1

      Amen

    • @Danilynn101
      @Danilynn101 8 місяців тому +2

      Im so sorry rip ❤ you will be with again

    • @sarahlaslett3279
      @sarahlaslett3279 8 місяців тому +4

      I am so sorry for your loss. Bereavement is a painful journey especially when you deepy loved the person you've lost. I pray that you will know God walking with you through this time. You may question at times where God is but later you will know that he was with you all along ncluding those times when it seemed he wasn't. God bless you.

    • @alysontveidt
      @alysontveidt 8 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for your time to even read my comment and respond. This is definitely a journey, the Lord is testing me, and for a moment I was completely failing. But I am beginning to get back to myself, the person Mel helped me become. He was such a blessing to me, and I thank the Lord for bringing him into my life.
      There are moments that I find myself angry with God, but mostly I am angry with myself. Had I not have been so selfish and careless for Mel and his discomfort I believe that we could have found the cancer. But I have learned something about myself and I will forever try to be better, to listen, and to act. Mel and I knew something was really wrong but we ignored the signs and the thoughts, the Holy Spirit.
      This is where I grow up and become the woman Mel strived for me to be.
      Bless you all.

  • @tillyoli1
    @tillyoli1 Рік тому +57

    So so wonderful to see healthy strong spiritually uncompromising women, the smile of heaven is over you xx

    • @ralfulrich6254
      @ralfulrich6254 Рік тому +3

      Don't you see it? They will likely end up with a cat or two

    • @daughteroftheking3220
      @daughteroftheking3220 11 місяців тому

      @@ralfulrich6254that s a worldy perspective she won’t as long as she is obedient to God submits to him and she will eventually submit to her future husband, walks in faith, and strives to be the spouse she desires in her future spouse she is good.

  • @BigFno.8
    @BigFno.8 Рік тому +299

    To be this young, so anchored in faith and know exactly what you want is such a blessing...God bless this young lady.

    • @abelmcguire1951
      @abelmcguire1951 Рік тому +9

      She’s in just another dream world that is ruled by her dreamy ego. Why is this any different than finding your “Prince Charming”. All words and looks eventually wear thin and then what. Fear is an emotion that wears many masks!

    • @poloska9471
      @poloska9471 Рік тому +2

      As someone who is very spiritual but not religious, I think there is some truth to what you're saying for this girl/girls in her situation... though I suppose it goes much deeper than we are assuming here, probably more complex than what we assume so we should reserve judgement since it's not something hurting anyone, just her/their spiritual development journey, maybe it's exactly where she needs to be at the moment... the good thing is she is looking and has made her life revolve around spirituality rather than materialism... I'd say she's doing good in my book - ie. not everyone's goal/journey is that of a nun/monk/priest/etc - even though I've essentially crucified myself spiritually, I still allow myself to be extremely flawed as an individual since truly the framework of god or the spirit is such that it exists to guide us out of our mischievious selfishness and to a greater purpose in life... so we remain flawed regardless of how spiritually inclined we are, but we get really good at catching ourselves degrading and thus immediately correct ourselves to get back on track and even further along... perhaps that's what is or will happen for this girl/etc. @@abelmcguire1951

    • @AdamChagoya-xw7nh
      @AdamChagoya-xw7nh Рік тому +9

      It's not what she wants but what God has planned for her

    • @nitaw.498
      @nitaw.498 Рік тому

      ​​@@abelmcguire1951if you're not a practicing Christian, you won't understand the importance of what she's looking for.

    • @jasonnewby
      @jasonnewby Рік тому +4

      more like indoctrinated by family and community from a young age and still hasn't questioned the difficult things in christian theology.

  • @JimmyMagee-n8u
    @JimmyMagee-n8u 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm an evangelist in what she's saying here is very true I'm very cautious in ministering to women because they quickly become attached to you when you are guiding them spiritually and biblically
    I wouldn't go with somebody either unless they are further in their face than I am and really truly love the Lord Jesus Amen to what you're saying in this video that's wisdom sister

  • @hannahtaylor4579
    @hannahtaylor4579 Рік тому +441

    This girls parents did a top notch job. Well done!!! I want my daughter to speak these words too one day.

    • @vtecbanger3180
      @vtecbanger3180 Рік тому

      How do we know she didn’t just finish 3 hours of squirting videos last week?

    • @arammolina7837
      @arammolina7837 Рік тому +4

      Amen amen

    • @Limon-yt8iz
      @Limon-yt8iz Рік тому +7

      As long as she loyal

    • @blueblade455
      @blueblade455 Рік тому +3

      She's into her religion too early that she's gonna get burned out and have nothing but resentment for it later. She should've waited until she matured and realized what she's based her life around.

    • @BlackguynamedMason
      @BlackguynamedMason Рік тому +11

      How? She's been ran thru? She ain't wifey material

  • @diegot849
    @diegot849 10 місяців тому +128

    When I was around 15, I asked God to send me the perfect woman to marry. And I got married at the age of 35. Before I got married, I had several girlfriends, but after a few weeks in the relationship, there was a sign from God telling me that I got the wrong person. I was never desperate to get married. I have been married for over 12 years, but family, love, and faith are still growing.

    • @oneman4412
      @oneman4412 9 місяців тому +7

      This is nice, been the same for me God always showed me the wrong one after a short time into the relationship. I dated some lovely ladies but they weren’t searching for God the way I was.

    • @da_flea2359
      @da_flea2359 9 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @Jin-Rohhh
      @Jin-Rohhh 9 місяців тому

      How did you guys meet if you don’t mind me asking? Was it in a religious event or out in the wild?

    • @TheGecko213
      @TheGecko213 9 місяців тому

      Story of my life
      I was too smart to be fooled by every girl I dated
      Never liked anyone within a few months together as I was not a simp
      Finally got married at the age of 31

  • @poorbanishedchildrenofEve
    @poorbanishedchildrenofEve Рік тому +44

    I needed the opposite to balance out my strengths and I his. My husband isn't big on talking about theology like I am, he will when it is applicable....but he has cultivated the Queen of virtue: wisdom, and his silent sermons to our 10 children via his actions--protection, provision, and tangible love to his children--has taught me how to love Jesus and live as I believe.

  • @sonuc5007
    @sonuc5007 7 днів тому

    It's really difficult to get such spiritual people these days that too at a young age! May God bless you with a Godly partner who you are looking for 🙌🙏😇💫

  • @travishicks6693
    @travishicks6693 Рік тому +750

    Something tells me that nobody is gonna be far along in their faith enough to satisfy this woman.

    • @caribbaviator7058
      @caribbaviator7058 Рік тому

      Christian friends are the worst especially if they are religious like her.

    • @ihavethedocuments2580
      @ihavethedocuments2580 Рік тому

      Let's see
      Pound of make up ☑️
      Attention seeker ☑️
      Thinks very highly of themselves (prideful) ☑️
      No doubt materialistic ☑️
      A virgin? No ☑️
      You know, I think I'll pass on this one👎

    • @igiveyouthefacts
      @igiveyouthefacts Рік тому +127

      She’s not that close herself. Women who are truly devoted to God to the level she speaks on do not care about keeping up on social media. She’s dated men who God would not approve of all her life that alone tells you about the choices SHE makes which reflects on her. I’ve heard many women talk like this yet their actions always say otherwise. Gotta always watch what they do and not what they say.

    • @jonwolf83
      @jonwolf83 Рік тому +51

      Her laugh in the beginning said it all

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 Рік тому +39

      Social media is a part of how she and many others earn their living. It takes a lot of time and energy to develop the content every week, film, refilm if necessary, edit the videos. The cost of mics, lighting, making sure their appearance is presentable (the reason 75% of you men are here). I believe she does other things to earn an income as well though. You watching this video and commenting is putting food on her table, yet you're complaining.

  • @jimkaras7663
    @jimkaras7663 Рік тому +241

    I married a very good woman that has great faith,
    More than I had. Because God loves us so much he saw inside my heart and brought me up to speed real fast. Don't discard Christian men who are not up to speed. God will bring it out of him!! It's just another form of Evangelizing!!

    • @biga4240
      @biga4240 Рік тому +6

      Yes God not another female

    • @BunnyRabit-yo3lx
      @BunnyRabit-yo3lx Рік тому +8

      And that's just it, not every woman is the same. So many women will be happy with someone that's on the journey with them rather than ahead.

    • @angela-karinalavandiersant1242
      @angela-karinalavandiersant1242 Рік тому +1

      True

    • @nicoobrowner
      @nicoobrowner Рік тому +22

      This is why it's important to not just be a Christian, but a true Christian, a believer. Jesus clearly said you should be evenly yoked. There is a reasom why he said that and many 'Christians' love to find imaginary loop holes in this simple command. The man must lead his family spiritually. It's fine to be a good Christian man, perhapse not to even be an outspoken man in the congregation but it's totally different to marry a man who is not spiritual or a man who has fleeting faith. It's dangerous for your own spirituality. When hard times come and tough decisions need to be made, those that may even test a family's spirituality, you need a Godly man who is strong in the faith. Don't be fooled.

    • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
      @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Рік тому +1

      I agrée

  • @timothywolbert7552
    @timothywolbert7552 Рік тому +1644

    Believe me, if you don't marry a man who listens to holy spirit. The devil will destroy your relationship.

    • @newyorkshakers
      @newyorkshakers Рік тому +71

      If a man knows the voice of the Holy Spirit, and the voice of Satan, and He is a real child of God and God is watching him all the time. The devil will be buried and never have a voice in the marriage. Truth by experience. This is an extraordinary power of God

    • @seerking
      @seerking Рік тому +31

      Usually the devil comes through the woman. The weaker vessel. Always has been that way biblically throughout history. Both parties man and woman need to be on there toes. Always. Which doesn't happen. So at the very least both parties need to have immovable love as a foundation in there soul for there spouse. And a maturity.

    • @Xenazion9834
      @Xenazion9834 Рік тому +15

      The sad part for me is that ex did do such things in front of me, but little did I know that he was listening to the devil all these time. He turned out to be an abusive narc who portrayed himself to be an angel.

    • @monesjones8431
      @monesjones8431 Рік тому +19

      Bullshit

    • @monesjones8431
      @monesjones8431 Рік тому

      I've seen non Christian marriages happier than Christian marriages.

  • @richardliner8683
    @richardliner8683 Місяць тому

    Once again. Wow. I definitely believe God will deliver, when the time is right. God bless you, in Jesus , name, Amen.

  • @russelldoughty506
    @russelldoughty506 Рік тому +112

    I’m so thankful that God yoked me with a Godly woman who is further along in her faith journey. She has been a blessing for me in my faith journey.

    • @mothegoat6865
      @mothegoat6865 Рік тому +11

      Interesting. By her standards she would never marry a man like you bc you’re not “further along” than her. But you and your wife did it (which is completely okay) and grown. Glad you’re both being blessed brother.

    • @kimberley1235
      @kimberley1235 Рік тому +2

      That's really nice 😊

    • @theotherside5865
      @theotherside5865 Рік тому +1

      It’s not real though. It just makes you feel good.

    • @AllAboutAndrew444
      @AllAboutAndrew444 Рік тому +1

      Amen

  • @stoabysrizzle4380
    @stoabysrizzle4380 Рік тому +211

    Stay away from narcissistic types guys.

    • @J.W1180
      @J.W1180 Рік тому

      Yeah luckily for all of the guys out there, this chick is going be alone forever because no one is good enough for her. Half of the earth dodged a bullet.

    • @johnsimoney2035
      @johnsimoney2035 Рік тому +16

      That’s the perfect guy for her bc that’s what she is

    • @aaronlarsen7447
      @aaronlarsen7447 Рік тому

      When she gets the handsome fella with the big church, they will direct your p.os. car to the lot in back of the church, that leads to the back row seats, for ugly people, so you don't ruin the pod cast. They still need your money for the hair color appointment tomorrow, and the tan salon the next day, and so on.

    • @sneak-a-leek2135
      @sneak-a-leek2135 Рік тому +4

      @@johnsimoney2035absolutely agree with you!

    • @BrenysF53
      @BrenysF53 Рік тому +4

      That is exactly what she is... using anyone spirituality intead of having her own journey

  • @butchbrown7
    @butchbrown7 10 місяців тому +26

    Shes on the right track with letting God bring a man into her life who's spiritually led👍

  • @yukiejcurrytribeofjudah
    @yukiejcurrytribeofjudah 2 дні тому

    WhO GOD HAS FOR YOU IS FOR YOU, AND THAT'S WHY SOO MANY WOMEN END -UP UNEQUIVOCALLY WOKED WITH SOMEONE THAT'S REALLY NOT FOR THEM SO KEEP THAT STANDARD BABY ❤ BECAUSE GOD ONLY KNOW WHO HE HAS FOR YOU AND YOU ALSO WILL KNOW! GOD SPEED LOVE

  • @moka7122
    @moka7122 Рік тому +301

    It's Soo good to hear a woman talk with such enthusiasm about religion and relationships

    • @TimothyTimikoHanley
      @TimothyTimikoHanley Рік тому

      Yeah but she is delusional. She wants a spiritual man who is 6 feet or more, makes mid-Six figure income, is a 10 in the looks category, is willing to do the household chores, etc.etc.etc.😮🤣😘👋

    • @lotte5173
      @lotte5173 Рік тому +12

      And she is beautiful too......
      May God bless her and all of us!

    • @RobelRobel-r5y
      @RobelRobel-r5y Рік тому +2

      Yeah

    • @kjkenny45
      @kjkenny45 Рік тому +2

      Agreed

    • @kjkenny45
      @kjkenny45 Рік тому +3

      Yes and she's gorgeous to boot

  • @3178527
    @3178527 Рік тому +203

    This is my story!! ❤ 🥲 🙌
    GOD has blessed our marriage and our children because of our obedience to Him.

  • @cbtrece76
    @cbtrece76 Рік тому +64

    When I met my wife I was so lost. Not an atheist, but just so mad at the world, and no direction. She spoke of God to me and introduced me to Christian music. On my birthday 15 years ago she took me to see Third Day in a small venue. I was drinking the whole way up there, not knowing she was going to surprise me. I had been battling alcoholism since a young age and when I saw the sign on the theatre that said, Third Day live, I just broke down and cried like a little kid. I walked into that concert smelling like beer, buzzed, wondering what people would say. But God was with me there. Shining His light on us. Pouring Himself into my brokenness. Blessing us. He saved me. He blessed me with an amazing wife and best friend.
    I say this because I believe that sometimes a good woman can also lead a man. She had faith in God, in our marriage. We now have a strong marriage and family, with God as our center. Our kids know God, and this story too. I want women to know that they also have so much power to help a man, to influence a man in a positive way so they can see God in you, and seek Him. A woman’s faith is just as powerful as a man’s.

    • @Itslewieo
      @Itslewieo Рік тому +2

      Good for you man

    • @myfaithismyfreedom
      @myfaithismyfreedom 9 місяців тому +2

      Love this testimony 🥲 God bless you & your family 🙏

    • @sarunt8211
      @sarunt8211 8 місяців тому +1

      Hallelujah, praise the Lord. Our God is amazing God.

  • @ER-xg4md
    @ER-xg4md 6 місяців тому +3

    People aren't perfect and we all come with flaws. The beautiful things about relationships is funding someone with the same commitment as you, someone who wint give up when things get difficult.

  • @yvettekooistra3611
    @yvettekooistra3611 Рік тому +79

    As a grandma I absolutely love watching and listening to you girls talk about the Lord and waiting for a man that's spiritually further along than. This is also my heart's desire after being left by my husband years ago. You are so on the right track🙏💙🙏

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому

      Romans 7:2-3
      King James Version
      2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
      3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
      Luke 16:18
      King James Version
      18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
      Matthew 5:31-32
      King James Version
      31 It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
      32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
      Those are Jesus words not mine in the Matthew Luke mark.Mark 10:9-12
      King James Version
      9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
      10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
      11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
      12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

  • @AdamMarquez-c5q
    @AdamMarquez-c5q Рік тому +20

    You all are absolutely beautiful! It is awesome to watch people who truly love GOD! And that you make you’re entire podcast around the word of GOD

  • @zoeyedo6521
    @zoeyedo6521 Рік тому +312

    this is such a word, yes yes yes
    lead me, teach me, take me through the deeper revelations of the word and Christ 😭💯

    • @bumaspice
      @bumaspice Рік тому

      Period. 💯

    • @andrewfarrell3986
      @andrewfarrell3986 Рік тому +1

      Zoey,
      You came from somewhere- this is what is MISSING…
      But where?
      ???God was just bored and created the Universe and ALL of us???
      No,
      He says I KNEW YOU BEFORE I FORMED YOU IN YOUR MOTHERS WOMB”
      One of the most import verses for clarity in ALL of scripture…
      I suggest that this life is an opportunity to be reconciled to Almighty through Christs sacrifice (the Door) and obedience (the WAY) to Heaven…
      Christ saved and continues to guide you to the light and away from evil…

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому

      Total crap and denial of Jesus.
      Jesus said "You have no need that any MAN should teach you. The Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth."

    • @Thebridge5
      @Thebridge5 Рік тому

      Salvation is a solo membership not a duo

  • @MiodragKukic-n8p
    @MiodragKukic-n8p 10 днів тому

    God bless you young lady! Stay firm in your faith and Almighty God will sand you someone you deserve.I was praying to find the one who is into it and truly got my lovely wife who is my soul mate,35 years together and love and respect all those years with two beautiful children.

  • @bertdefasko2426
    @bertdefasko2426 Рік тому +26

    What a great testimony! My wife and I had the same experience yesterday. I answered her biblical concerns and we discussed the result. God is good!

    • @ONETimothy2.12-14
      @ONETimothy2.12-14 Рік тому +3

      A lot of both men and women in the comment are attempting to find some issue or another with her but even if they guessed right what she said was 100% accurate. Scripture itself placed a responsibility on men to Spiritually lead their homes verbatim. Many women sabotage this by constantly battling their husband's for authority while this woman is professing the exact opposite. Good for her and may God bless her with a family that brings Him glory.

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому

      @@ONETimothy2.12-14 You are referring to antichrist plagiarizer Benjamin wolf 🐺 self-appointed false apostle me,me,me,I,I,I Paul. Timothy was written by Paul.
      Paul upends Jesus at every turn.
      Jesus NEVER said the garbage you are spewing and NEVER EVER would.
      Who did Jesus reveal Himself to at the well, a man right? No the Samaritan woman who then went and told the boys.
      The woman stayed at the foot of the cross . The boys ran away. Guess feminism emasculated them???
      Males are not fit to lead a woman or a family. That is all their little god complex.

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому +1

      And how often does she answer your biblical concerns?

    • @ONETimothy2.12-14
      @ONETimothy2.12-14 Рік тому

      @MandyAltamirano It's not her job to lead him Spiritually but to express herself predicated on the fact that it's up to him to accept or decide. Her being the lead, him the leader.

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому

      @@ONETimothy2.12-14 You are so full of Paul's demonic crap. Jesus never said nor taught any of that. In fact, Jesus said that you have no need that any MAN should teach you. The Holy Spirit will guide you into all truth.
      How many times have you HEARD Jesus' Voice -audibly?
      The lost trying to lead the lost.
      "Spiritual Leader fella" why didn't you pick up on what the Ephesians did? Paul is a false "apostle " A Snake. His god is Lucifer. If you put in Paul's armor, you negate the blood covenant.
      Paul plagiarized from 7 or 8 pagans and several statements.
      There is NO WAY on this God's green earth that plagiarism is inspired of God.
      The president of Harvard just got canned for plagiarism!
      God warned you 6 ways from Sunday about the wolf Paul:
      1) I come in my Father's name. After Me another will come in his own name and he you will follow. Yep. Yesserie. Billy the wolf follows Paul the wolf.
      2) Jesus said beware of the leven of the Pharisees and the leven of Harod. Paul was a Pharisee from the family of Harod.
      3) Jesus warned If anyone says that they say they saw me in the desert DO NOT BELIEVE them. Paul was on the road to Damascus IN THE DESERT when he claims to have seen Jesus. By the way, the same encounter was in Euripedes. Paul had a Joseph Smith Jr moment! Scumbag POS.
      4) Jesus mentioned that ravaging wolves would come in. This was reference to the Benjamin ravaging wolf prophecy. Most of the early Christians identified Paul as the Benjamin wolf.
      5) Jesus commended the church at Ephesus for trying the "apostles" and finding them false. Only Paul and Silas had been to Ephesus. Ephesus was in Asia and Paul ADMITTED ALL in Asia had turned away from him.
      Good job Asia!!!! Great job Church of Ephesus!!!! You kicked the bums out.
      6) Paul said that the risen Jesus appeared to Peter and the 12. Liar, liar pants on fire!!! Judas had committed suicide and was not yet replaced with Mathias so there were only 11 disciples at that time. Liars always trip themselves up.
      You are so smart, you think you are leadership material, why didn't you know this?
      You just want to be your own god and you have denied Jesus.
      Forever learning and never coming to the knowledge of the truth.
      BTW, a woman just taught you truth you never would have found yourself.

  • @Ghost-eo6jb
    @Ghost-eo6jb 9 місяців тому +39

    Also, remember Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t ever feel like you are further along than other believers because God will show you just how much you have left to learn. We are ALL on a journey seeking after God. There is no spiritual gauge with which we can rightly measure others. Like Pharisees, some may have lots of head knowledge of the Word, but only God truly knows how close someone is to Him.

    • @Jrroaddawg1964
      @Jrroaddawg1964 6 місяців тому

      I agree wholeheartedly.

    • @Jrroaddawg1964
      @Jrroaddawg1964 6 місяців тому +3

      Sometimes we get so interested in looking for what we seek that we don’t recognize the thing that God puts in front of us. The Bible tells us to seek and you shall find. That is what we are taught, but sometimes we’re too busy seeking through our human eyes that we don’t miss what God shows us what he has put there in front of our spiritual eyes. We are all spiritual beings and Jesus wants us to learn from his teachings. When we look for a mate we aren’t supposed to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend material we look for Husband and Wife material. And grow in His grace together.

  • @michaelwhite6505
    @michaelwhite6505 Рік тому +290

    I was on a Chistian dating site for two years and could not find a Godly woman that could understand the deep things of God , i gave up and he saved a woman that was broken like i had been broken , 3 years later she knows the bible better than any woman ive known . Thank you Jesus

    • @cameronturner7077
      @cameronturner7077 Рік тому +16

      Praise God brother, that's great to hear and I'm so happy to hear that you no longer feel the need to spend time on dating sites.
      God bless you and yours always

    • @murphyr31
      @murphyr31 Рік тому

      You do know the bible is mostly fiction right?

    • @throughfrankieseyeznow
      @throughfrankieseyeznow 11 місяців тому +15

      'christian dating sites" really shouldn't be used to be honest. Real followers of Yeshua don't have to position themselves at all God will do all of that. Christian dating sites, really defeats the whole purpose of waiting for God's pick and what God has for His children that's His BEST. It's basically taking control in one's hands and against God's word because people are not patient. With that being said, glad it worked out for you the way Our Father wanted it and not your way. Good testimony I hope people read your comment and listen and learn. Jesus Bless you.

    • @fukoff666
      @fukoff666 11 місяців тому +1

      Hahahahaha

    • @mmdrodrigues
      @mmdrodrigues 11 місяців тому

      Hahaha better stay seated 😆

  • @yeahiwsoncethere7560
    @yeahiwsoncethere7560 Місяць тому

    One day I got told by my pastor that God will give you the cake either ready made but you have too put the cherry on top or he will give you the ingredients too make the cake. Some things from God don’t come completely ready there will be times where your expected to do the finishing touches this is a learning curve for you and whatever was gifted too you from God

  • @Elllllllllennnnnaaaaa
    @Elllllllllennnnnaaaaa Рік тому +65

    I prayed for a husband who loves God more than me and he answered me 18 years together 14 married, we also waited till marriage❤

    • @Loredo777
      @Loredo777 Рік тому +1

      You waited till marriage? Now were you a virgin?

    • @JohnSmith-fe2pz
      @JohnSmith-fe2pz Рік тому

      4 years dating? This is not permissible according to the Bible.

  • @michelleo4242
    @michelleo4242 9 місяців тому +36

    Maybe you’re the one meant to bring an amazing man closer to God. My husband knew nothing about God and if I wouldn’t have given him the chance I would have missed my biggest blessing in life. He checked any and every box except being close to God. 12 years & 3 kids later and he’s grown spiritually because God put him in my life. 💝

    • @anteantic986
      @anteantic986 9 місяців тому +5

      to bring somebody closer to God you need to be close to God and this woman is not.

    • @fahimaahmed3188
      @fahimaahmed3188 9 місяців тому +1

      😼😅💯

  • @cynthiawheeler1907
    @cynthiawheeler1907 Рік тому +41

    Amen 🙏 I waited and God sent me my husband 3 yrs ago and Hold on Sister 💖 God does choose the best for us!!! I have a leader, a teacher, a protector and provider!!! He is my Head but I am his Heart 💜 And I am so happy to have waited for the Lord and obeyed Him... God Bless you and hold fast!!!

    • @ntartaris
      @ntartaris Рік тому +2

      If you're going to be anything to him....trust me....just be his peace, and keep him satisfied. That is it! He'll run through brick walls for you.

    • @nathaliasimone_
      @nathaliasimone_ Рік тому +1

      Amen . This is beautiful 😁👌🏾✨

  • @zucha2019
    @zucha2019 Місяць тому +1

    You cannot look for a grown dad figure who has life figured out. My husband is almost four years younger than I, he loves Jesus with all his heart. We both help each other. In fact, Eve was given to Adam to be HIS helper, because men have it hard. They go out and slay all day to come home to a peaceful nest. We slay, too, but we don't unload on our husbands, we unload on Christ. No one teaches true roles anymore. Women are not weak and needing husband's empathy. Rather we are strong in Christ to give our husbands empathy and care. The world would be different if every girl married to help her husband rather than vice versa. Just a thought. Been married almost 6 years, 3 little ones, and Christ is my backbone, my husband is my lover. ❤

  • @sosoonia
    @sosoonia Рік тому +99

    Such a wise words. I totally am in the same boat as you Angie, it’s easy to date but finding a spiritual human leader is not running around town. This is why only God can write the right matching love story for each of us. ❤

    • @cecil3602
      @cecil3602 Рік тому +1

      Same , I’m still not far in my faith with God but when I am . He will bring me someone much farther in faith and worships him .

    • @shj221-m2y
      @shj221-m2y Рік тому +6

      yes sister! I pray God blesses you with the man God has in store for you because He absolutely will in Jesus Name. May He shine HIs face upon you and be gracious to you and fill you with Peace that surpasses all understanding in Jesus Name!

    • @regalk-hr7tf
      @regalk-hr7tf Рік тому +1

      You're a wise girl, i pray for you so God gives the right one for your life 🙏

    • @rebecailas6320
      @rebecailas6320 Рік тому

      God is allowing this to happen so that you can trust in Him for what seems impossible. What seems impossible to you, is possible to God :) I felt God leading me to spread the gospel to guys I have talked to in the past and tell them to stop being lukewarm. I chose God over the flesh and a desire for a relationship. As a result, I earned some people’s respect because I was willing to put God before the person. Furthermore, I am not worried about finding a man that is more spiritual than me because I know there are many out there. If you u choose to worry, you are not trusting in God completely and you are making room for the enemy to attack your mind. Faith is trusting God without seeing His promise in our lives (yet.) God wants to grow and strengthen your faith, not let you worry, stress and fear that a godly man like this is does not exist. They do and I have met men who are not afraid to preach the gospel and be bold for Christ. It’s just not God’s Time for you yet. He’s still working on you: growing your faith and building your character. The Bible says “trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He shall make your paths straight.” If your not trusting in the lord with ALL OF YOUR HEART❤️ your path will be crooked., I hope you understand. It’s important for all Christian’s to seek Christ and not earthly things because these things are distractions that keep us away from Christ. Most people want a man so they won’t feel lonely anymore, but God could be calling a women to spread the gospel through her marriage. How would she be prepared for that task if she’s not reading the Bible and praying daily instead of worrying she will never find a true man of a God who is compatible to her? No. God calls us to “seek peace and pursue it.” Do this with all your heart, pray, fast, read the Bible daily and their will not be room for the lies of the enemy in your mind. Of the devil is attacking you more, start praying and fasting more. Turn on the audio Bible when you exercise. Fill your mind with God’s word instead of the voices of people if you want to see the path God has prepared for you. “God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. To give you a hope and a future.” -Jeremiah 29:11

    • @sosoonia
      @sosoonia Рік тому

      @@shj221-m2y thanks beautiful🙏🏼 wish you all the best too

  • @najekosims1580
    @najekosims1580 Рік тому +161

    Most women can't handle the level of discipline that comes with a true man of God I promise you

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому

      It takes a hell of a man to be better than no man at all. I married a great Muslim guy. Christian guys want someone to rule and reign over.

    • @infinisourced
      @infinisourced Рік тому +7

      yep because God will expect more out of THEM

    • @rainsara2795
      @rainsara2795 Рік тому +8

      Are you saying there is more true men of God than women ? Do you go to church ? I think the ratio of spiritually disciplined people is quite equal that’s only my real life observation though

    • @MandyAltamirano
      @MandyAltamirano Рік тому +1

      @@rainsara2795 I took his comment to mean that women have to be very disciplined in their submission to what he THINKS is a true man of God.
      But I could have taken it wrong.
      I am a Christian feminist woman married happily to my partner who happens to be Muslim. We have a boy and a girl both raised Christian with full knowledge of Islam who have both graduated from college. My daughter is a mechanical engineer ( rocket scientist)married to a nice Christian man and they have 3 children. My son is a heart surgeon like his father. He, too, is a Christian married with 2 young children.
      I NEVER would EVER submit to a male just because he was male. If he was my employer, I'd submit to his reasonable requests. I taught my children the same. We are equals.
      Sometimes I lead in things. Sometimes my husband leads in things. I am led by Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I go to NO man for what I can get directly from God. Between you and me, most men are STUPID. Not mine; but most.
      These FAKE Christian guys complain feminists wacked their balls. Nope. feminism just EXPOSED them as the eunuchs that they already are. They did it to themselves.
      Can you imagine standing next to a guy that you have to blow hot air into all the time just to puff up his ego? Or can you imagine dummying it down spiritually so your husband can feel like the "leader"? The whole message of the torn vail is that ALL believers have direct access to God through Jesus in us. That is also how we HEAR His VOICE audibly, make trips to heaven ( it's IN HIM), exercise the Spiritual gifts of healing, prophecy and words of knowledge. Thank God I don't have to go to the Pope. Thank God that I don't have to go to my husband or ANY man.
      I have an EQUAL say in what goes on in our home. For instance, if I wanted to move to Florida and my husband wanted to move to Pennsylvania, we would either mutually agree on the location or I would move to Florida and he could move wherever he wanted. There is NO rule that I submit or obey him just because of his plumbing. These poor churched boys still want to be gods. None of that comes from Jesus.
      If a man is really a man, there is no woman on the planet that can emasculate him. It's really difficult to find an intact Christian male. You'll find one on the farm long before you'll find one attending these FAKE churches today.
      I'll tell you a man's "role" in the household: Replace the engine in the truck faster than I can do it or I'll replace the engine and he can clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner.
      These "churched" boys want a female and a family to rule and reign over. They can find that in Mormonism.

    • @donaldlarrimoreIII
      @donaldlarrimoreIII Рік тому +1

      ​@@rainsara2795
      That's gonna change EXTREMELY SOON!

  • @MM-d289
    @MM-d289 Рік тому +136

    God designed us to be led spiritually by the HOLY SPIRIT, not by another person, including a spouse.

    • @Mannoni244
      @Mannoni244 11 місяців тому +5

      god speaks to us through people

    • @bluetiger5852
      @bluetiger5852 11 місяців тому +1

      No god is leading us by rules and manners documented in Quran, there is no third party in between, it doesn't make sense anyways, wake up people

    • @deidrataylor2919
      @deidrataylor2919 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@bluetiger5852did god wrote the quran himself😅

    • @WatchList-xf8ic
      @WatchList-xf8ic 11 місяців тому +11

      What trash is this??? Have you not read Genesis 2 or Ephesians 5:22-24??? Wives are to be led by their husbands AND by HOLY SPIRIT.

    • @WatchList-xf8ic
      @WatchList-xf8ic 11 місяців тому +6

      @@bluetiger5852 Bro, this is a discussion amongst Christians. You're on the wrong thread. Turn to JESUS!

  • @davyrantucci
    @davyrantucci 7 місяців тому +3

    I’ve been with my Husband for 20 years and understand you. I am so happy I found a true Spiritual Leader. He is amazing ❤

  • @brian95240
    @brian95240 9 місяців тому +323

    A sad thing that has happened is so many are after a man who has already finished his journey and then they want to meet him at his finish line; to "help him" celebrate (with his winnings). They don't want the inconvenience of waiting for the journey.

    • @blessed7fold
      @blessed7fold 9 місяців тому +8

      Well said.

    • @jamtime69
      @jamtime69 9 місяців тому +32

      No one has ever finished their journey!

    • @brian95240
      @brian95240 9 місяців тому +6

      @@jamtime69 Fair enough! That's true. I just meant already having some amount of financial freedom, but yeah...we are always improving 😁

    • @everythingmatterstheory7043
      @everythingmatterstheory7043 9 місяців тому +10

      @@jamtime69 way to totally miss his point.

    • @jamtime69
      @jamtime69 9 місяців тому

      @@everythingmatterstheory7043 I didn't miss anything

  • @shanaya6384
    @shanaya6384 11 місяців тому +598

    The amount of bitterness in these comments simply because these women are conventionally attractive and talking about Jesus at the same time is actually insane

    • @mervchilewani8374
      @mervchilewani8374 11 місяців тому +20

      It's crazy

    • @demarcusfaulkner7411
      @demarcusfaulkner7411 11 місяців тому +11

      Yeah it's ridiculous

    • @allonzo10586
      @allonzo10586 11 місяців тому

      😂

    • @sassysays29
      @sassysays29 11 місяців тому +18

      you mean plastically attractive - they have had plastic surgery already .... how is that Christ like to focus on your appearance in a fake way? it's not

    • @fernandomarroquin3990
      @fernandomarroquin3990 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@sassysays29To be modern means to accept these things as common practice even with girls within the church. They dont see it as being artificial or vane, specially if they come from fsmilies with a lot of money

  • @danielfortonforton223
    @danielfortonforton223 Рік тому +21

    Pastor Chuck swindoll once said,” Don’t find a woman you can’t live without, find one you can live with “ chuck is a very wise man.

    • @SuperErickelrojo
      @SuperErickelrojo Рік тому

      Wise man?... the guy believes in an invisible bearded man who lives in the sky, who can walk on water, and is a son of himself...
      I think your wisemeter is not working well...

    • @queenofdahouse1591
      @queenofdahouse1591 Рік тому

      Nope. You’ve got it wrong. James Dobson said don’t chose a person you can live with. Chose one that you can’t live without.

    • @daughteroftheking3220
      @daughteroftheking3220 11 місяців тому

      @@queenofdahouse1591his quote is the other way around lol it got me confused.

    • @michaelmichaelagnew8503
      @michaelmichaelagnew8503 9 місяців тому

      This is a very true statement. I'm studying at the same seminary he did but, I was in the armed forces much longer than him. I've met a few women here so far initially I wasn't attracted too but after spending time with them and talking to them I find them allot more attractive.
      A deep love for Jesus (God) and humility are very important traits to look for in a woman. As a guy you should be the same. The fruits of the spirit usually fall into place in both lives when they walk humbly with Jesus.
      Not only can you see it in their life but in how they treat other people. Attitude and humility are two very important traits in a marriage. You also have to learn to love unconditionally for a marriage to work or else it will eventually fall apart.

  • @RandyDickinson-o8f
    @RandyDickinson-o8f Місяць тому

    Angie I have always said God will bring you the person you're supposed to have he made you he knows you better than you know yourself. My sister and my best friend Debbie laughed at me when I said that. Neither of them we're looking for a man and God found the perfect man for the man neither of them tried deluxe themselves. They didn't have to because God did it just be patient❤

  • @wendymafuleka2293
    @wendymafuleka2293 11 місяців тому +359

    Comment section seems to forget that the lady said "For me". She wants and deserves a man that will lead her, this is the desire that God put in her heart.

    • @svperuzer
      @svperuzer 10 місяців тому +2

      True

    • @SacredVictor
      @SacredVictor 10 місяців тому +2

      Correct.

    • @skyislight3804
      @skyislight3804 10 місяців тому +4

      She’s not gonna find it unless it’s a man twice her age

    • @svperuzer
      @svperuzer 10 місяців тому

      @@skyislight3804 True

    • @lifeofraphi_c1099
      @lifeofraphi_c1099 10 місяців тому

      ​@@skyislight3804she will find him coz the same way there are women who as on the spiritual path, there's also men in the same journey and when you find your partner... Damn even Christmas can compare to that joy

  • @davidesomal-nk2pg
    @davidesomal-nk2pg Рік тому +68

    Finding a person with a beautiful heart is so difficult ❤ wishing all of you love peace and happiness always 😊

  • @curtisjones3883
    @curtisjones3883 Рік тому +100

    "I never dated a guy that GOD would've approved for me..."
    That's a warning gentlemen...
    May the force be with you!

    • @spaceboy3101
      @spaceboy3101 Рік тому +17

      Litterally the bar is so high you'll end up pinned to the ceiling.

    • @RiqPsy137
      @RiqPsy137 Рік тому +5

      ​@@spaceboy3101sounds demonic

    • @Worick_
      @Worick_ Рік тому +7

      Huge red flag lol

    • @j-us-t_be-in-g
      @j-us-t_be-in-g Рік тому +1

      @@spaceboy3101 Lmao.

    • @helpmedrlee
      @helpmedrlee Рік тому +6

      It’s troublesome that a imperfect human would know what Gods approval is or is not. Do we truly know Gods approval system? It’s one thing to ask… yes… but to know? With such confidence… that God did or did not approve? Hmmmm 🤔

  • @bellamccready6230
    @bellamccready6230 4 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful when you see two ladies who keep their bodies covered, literally puts tears of joy in my eyes. May God favour them for their modesty

  • @sashmax2189
    @sashmax2189 Рік тому +368

    My God-fearing husband found me and led me back to Christ. He even re-baptized me. I am so blessed! Ty, Father!

    • @cduenas2008
      @cduenas2008 Рік тому +12

      Wait, re baptized you ??

    • @bassbeatzproductions8479
      @bassbeatzproductions8479 Рік тому +8

      @@cduenas2008right ? Shitshow lol

    • @PretentiousCaddy
      @PretentiousCaddy Рік тому +3

      Unless your first baptism has invalid. Then that’s calm

    • @andremosley9358
      @andremosley9358 Рік тому +11

      No need for re baptism, once washed in the blood of Christ all you need is repentance of the sins and mistakes you make….

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 Рік тому +4

      ​@@PretentiousCaddybaby baptism does count or Father Son Holy Ghost baptism doesn't count because they fail to call on the name of Lord. Acts 22:16
      King James Version
      16 And now why tarriest thou? arise, and be baptized, and wash away thy sins, calling on the name of the Lord.
      Jesus said repentance of sins in his name and Acts 2:38 u get name.
      Luke 24:47-48
      King James Version
      47 And that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in his name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem.
      48 And ye are witnesses of these things.

  • @Ruv555
    @Ruv555 Рік тому +63

    For a girl to have the Love of God and Fear of the Lord is undoubtedly one of the best qualities a girl can have! Unfortunately as a man I’m still not married. But I pray to God for someone like that.

    • @SeemoreButts-d6x
      @SeemoreButts-d6x Рік тому +2

      Expect to wait decades like I have been, and I mean DECADES!!!!

    • @Emi777GodGivesPeaceAndJoy
      @Emi777GodGivesPeaceAndJoy Рік тому

      ​@@SeemoreButts-d6xThat's not true at all. I encourage this brother to persevere and wait patiently in the Lord because he does everything in his time!! 👌🏻🎉 And it's wonderful! Not your time, not mine, HIS!
      We need to truely be patient, which we often fail to be lol. We need to asked God for that. He teaches us.
      But hey...
      ☆Waiting for God's timming may also give us a greater miracle than we had hopped for!☆

    • @Emi777GodGivesPeaceAndJoy
      @Emi777GodGivesPeaceAndJoy Рік тому +1

      @Ruv555 my previous comment is to encourage you and to not take the negativity from people which are humans and not God.

    • @lockandloadlikehell
      @lockandloadlikehell Рік тому

      Which god ?

  • @fullofgraceandtruth85
    @fullofgraceandtruth85 Рік тому +40

    "It's crucial to approach love with a discerning mindset, valuing the person for who they are rather than solely focusing on the gifts or external qualities. Taking the time to understand the individual beyond surface attributes is key to forming meaningful connections. Thank you for sharing your perspective."

    • @ONETimothy2.12-14
      @ONETimothy2.12-14 Рік тому

      All very true but there's still the issue of applying biblical teachings. Instead of trying to outwork life and human nature remember that obedience through faith is the number 1 attribute of God's Spirit in us.

  • @2-Shai
    @2-Shai 2 місяці тому

    Yes sister I agree my grandpa was a believer and I hope one day God blessed me with a man like my grandpa ❤

  • @kathryn001
    @kathryn001 Рік тому +23

    Im a God fearing, single Christian woman. And even yet I don't expect my husband to this theologian. I don't expect him to be a preacher. What I am looking for is a man with a kingdom mindset. To be of one mind. To love and serve the Lord together using our spiritual gifts to serve God and others.

    • @kees2616
      @kees2616 11 місяців тому

      Amen! And God does the melting proces.

    • @thecultarchives3440
      @thecultarchives3440 11 місяців тому

      She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯
      It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯

    • @thecultarchives3440
      @thecultarchives3440 11 місяців тому

      She just has a jezebel goal to tick off on her wishlist to break a Godly man & she desires for him to worship her instead of god, so many jezebels like her getting a major high from breaking a religious man...💯
      Dating is not a biblical concept & it is ungodly, shes a hypocrite, a real religious man would only ever court a woman with her fathers awareness, approval & pre-vetting before consenting to him courting his daughter, she has never been courted & is definitely not a virgin either...💯
      It's exactly the same mindset but higher just like their getting a married man to commit adultery with a jezebel like this to then leave his wife & children for her, they believe their looks are more deserving of being worshipped than God, do not be fooled by the supposed religious deceptive jezebel...💯

  • @jonacacarr3839
    @jonacacarr3839 Рік тому +27

    most of the men who are further along in their faith than you are 20 or more years older and they have acquired the wisdom that only experience can provide.

    • @orchid2407
      @orchid2407 Рік тому +1

      No, I am where I am spiritually because I pursue God not perfectly but because I am seeking I am finding. It isn't because of 20 years of experience, it is intentional pursuit of the Lord and that is what she is looking for.

    • @corybee1
      @corybee1 Рік тому

      Amen she's kinda delusional

    • @MyGuy81
      @MyGuy81 Рік тому +1

      ​@@corybee1👀👀

    • @xXQSLegend123Xx
      @xXQSLegend123Xx Рік тому

      Weird pedo answer. Seek jesus christ to fix that for u buddy.

    • @michaelmichaelagnew8503
      @michaelmichaelagnew8503 9 місяців тому

      Not true I've been pretty far along in my faith since I was 15. I've walked with God (Jesus) the past 32 years since then and still single, but I was in a place (Air Force) where there were very few if not many Christian women at all so I'm single. I'm in seminary now so I'm praying and hoping things change. Been praying for that wife for almost 30 years so I know what it is like to walk alone with God. There are mature Godly men that are young, and a woman isn't going to attract that kind of man unless she does the same. I've met plenty of women that were 10's but I wasn't attracted to them, but they were to me, because they were not walking with God.

  • @mskprus
    @mskprus Рік тому +51

    I know exactly what you mean. I believe the same way.
    I'm a man of God for approximately 30 yrs.
    She has to put the Lord before me or anyone else and especially herself! ❤

  • @STAR-LIGHT.1111
    @STAR-LIGHT.1111 7 місяців тому +2

    I get her statement a man to look up to, With respect. That's how i look at mine❤ I respect him so much☺️ A real man triggers these feelings within a woman.

  • @PCM765
    @PCM765 Рік тому +243

    This generation kills relationships. People make things so complicated they end u dying alone. its a lot of good men and women out there.