Rosa doesn't even give a shit about Jason. Not one shit. I think she's quite likes the fact he's being bitten. He says he needs to man up. Does Rosa allow it?
Having made a few comments regarding this situation, I now put it all in one place and go step by step, in this one rather long post, through what I see going on between this couple, in the hope that the people who have been so against Rosa will hopefully THINK before judging and really look at this relationship with better insight...... Rosa’s whole body language throughout, is calm and non-confrontational, her voice is consistently gentle, both with Jason and Bonzo. Jason is the one leaping about like crazy and shouting at the dog a great deal. Next Rosa talks to Graham and as she does Jason gives her such a disdainful look. Then Jason says they argue and he shouts at Rosa!!. He says she intervenes with the dog, which tells us she does help him, but she does not do it like he wants her to even though the dog obeys her. Then, he tells her what she should say and do, that she should tell the dog off.. which would absolutely be the WRONG thing to do, because as soon as she intervenes, the dog is well behaved and IF she told Bonzo off then she would be punishing the dogs GOOD behaviour. Jason is just pissed off that Rosa will not obey his bossy, coercively controlling and incorrect commands. Then he rudely speaks for them both and says WE cannot pinpoint what the problem is !!!!!!!!!!!!! but then he does correct himself by stating, with a sneering contempt for Rosa’s opinion,.. !Rosa THINKS she knows what the problem is.. The truth is that he refuses to consider that Rosa is correct, that she absolutely does know exactly what the problem is, has been trying to explain it to Jason but he has such little respect for her that he will not listen to her. Rosa is by now, seemingly absolutely at the end of her tether with Jason for being so arrogantly bossy, for demeaning her and for refusing to even consider that she is right and Rosa says.. “it won’t be the dog that goes”. I applaud her for sticking up for herself and her dog against such an unempathetic man who does not have the morality to even see he is in the wrong let alone the balls to admit it. Then Jason throws a childish strop and marches out of the room lol. He is now fully in.. “poor little me” pathetic mode. Furthermore, it has not even crossed Jason’s mind to wonder how Rosa can be in control of Bonzo and he can’t, nor to watch Rosa to learn from her. Rosa has the patience of a saint with this bloke who shows her such little respect. Then in comes Graham…. At lo and behold he gets Jason to copy what Rosa does. Jason gives Graham the respect that he has been too .. what? Dumb? Arrogant? to give to his long-suffering partner, listens to Graham and problem almost instantly solved and Graham again achieves miracle worker status. Yey Go Graham xx Then, so many people here including yourself instantly judge and says that Jason deserves better than a partner like Rosa. I, on the other hand wonder why on earth does Rosa want to be with this self-satisfied, pompous,controlling man? Rosa and her dog are absolutely lovely. Jason has a great deal of self-improvement to work on and I hope he will gain some insight into his dreadful demeanor towards Rosa. He should apologise to her abjectly but I very much doubt that he could even see the necessity for that
The woman is right, not horrible..Did you see how condescending he is towards her when he says "Rosa THINKS she knows? Rosa absolutely does know but he is so arrogant that he cannot accept that. I think Rosa deserves better.
I think he is a very kind and gentle man and the dog took advantage of it and Rose saw that this continuous situation dragged him down into being a frustrated coward, and she did not like to be with a coward, she judged him, so instead of lifting him up, she chose to see him getting weaker and weaker until she was ready to leave him/or make him leave, and the poor guy became passive- aggressive because of that, because she have chosen the dog side...frankly, I get her being disappointment by his behavior because it is not very "manly man", but she is not a generous loving person-in my opinion he deserves better.
Why is she horrible? Because she knows her dog best? Because yes she does. Because she doesn't want to give away her dog as soon as a new guy steps into the picture? Neither would I. If you date someone with pets or kids, they're a part of the package.
Why are people so mean to Rosa? She knows her dog best and the dude keeps on questioning her. If you as a pet owner is willing to give up your pet as soon as you meet a new partner, then you shouldn't have pets to begin with!!! Geez.. y'all are nauseating.
The couple have been together over 14 years. They've had the dog for 9 months. So that's not the situation here. And I do get your point (it's not the dog's fault) but I still thing it was a mean thing to say to her partner of almost 15 years about their new dog.
Why get rid of the dog when the dog is not at fault but the man does not listen to his wife? My dog once bit my lodger, I told the lodger if he ever again put my dog into the position of having to bite to make the lodger pay attention then the lodger would be out of the door faster than he came in. I had been telling and telling my lodger not to do something or he would back the dog into a position where he had to bite. Like the man here.. my lodger would not listen to me and the dog bit him. Why keep a man who does not give his wife the courtesy of giving what she says credence. He only paid attention when Graham told him he was encouraging the dog's behaviour but not when his wife told him exactly the same thing.
I am 3 minutes into this and immediately the lady puts her finger on exactly what is going wrong, She says she thinks the man is encouraging bonzo and so she sides with Bonzo. I am siding with her and Bonzo. He shouts at her.. what sort of man shouts at his wife? She tells him he is doing it wrong but he takes no notice of her!!! If the man would only listen to his wife then he could have turned this around so fast. He needs to use his brain and think... what am I doing that she isn't? He is turning himself into an exciting tug toy for Bonzo and yes she is absolutely right in that he is encouraging Bonzo to be over excited but he refuses to listen to her. So now I will continue watching. ..
@@dustinfisher29 just looked it up looks a nice dog bet they are a handful. My friends dog would have a crack at anything. He was so loving to his family but any other dog he just wanted to fight.Highly intelligent but had a real attitude.
@@BeyondtheIights genetics and evolution of each breed.Dogs are definitely our best friend but they do some crazy things Then again they probably think we do too😂
@@terrystephens8603 Yeah I get what you mean, a lot of people go for the wrong type of dog for their situation, someone looking for a house dog to sit in a lot shouldn't get a Border Collie, Greyhound etc. I've had three Border Terriers over my lifetime and they've all been brilliant especially my last one he didn't have a growl in him was just a softy. I've had many different dogs Westie, Staf, even a Pitbul crossed with a Rhodesian Ridgeback who was just a huge giant baby.
Except this couple has issues, Jason encourages Bonzo's half-aggressive, half-playful behavior by acting silly and not confident. If he showed more strength, Bonzo AND his girlfriend would respect him more!😅
He seems to be a nice guy. His partner is really condescending towards him. Think he needs to leave her and not necessarily bonzo. Maybe Bonzo is doing him a favour by making him realize fully what she is like. he needs to pack it in with her.
Most people could deal with their dogs without the trainers visiting!! This was a really easy one with a little terrier, we have a Patterdale that was far more out of control than this, took 10 months to get a complete turn around.
The dog and the wife are more intelligent than the man.. The man shouts at her. She has had enough of a man who shouts at her and refuses to accept that she is right when she tells him that the dogs behaviour is the mans fault, So the chap has forced her into making a choice.. and I applaud her choice.
Poor Rosa, being vilified for putting her dog first. My dogs come first too because they can't fend for themselves. Help from Graeme has fixed the problem and dear little Bonzo is now happy. Clearly, Jason is very fond of him. Win/win. Stop picking sides, people, there's 3 sides to every story. Bravo Graeme, as always.
@@dshe8637So are humans, what's your point? What makes you think you're better or more important than other living beings?! Gee, the absolute ego of some people....
@@schnugelischnugg9812 often there is. Sometimes it's a result from an unexpected event or an unusual problem that no member of the general public would know how to solve.
Now I know she just did not say it wouldn’t be the dog that goes then straight after making comment giving her partner of over 10years the side eye🙄🤦🏾♀️. She pretty much placed the blame on her partner rather than take her share of the responsibility by not putting her dog in his place. If my partner had said that to me and also happily placed blame on me I’d be out that door. How detached from reality must she be to side with her dog rather than be like we need to resolve this situation quick as the dogs behaviour is tearing the relationship apart. She just doesn’t seem bothered about saving the relationship. That’s quite sad.
@LoneSheWolf09, You are watching but not seeing or understanding what is going on between this couple and have come to completely the wrong judgement. Jason is 100% to blame for the dogs behaviour and Rosa has tried to teach him how to deal with Bonzo but Jason does not give her the respect of listening to her. She can do no more than she has done and she has zero share in the blame re the dog's behaviour. . I am so annoyed and fed up with so many people getting this situation so completely wrong as you have done and so wrongly judging and blaming Rosa that I have posted (above, today 23rd Aug) a full step by step explanation of what is going on in the whole video, Should you care to better your understand of the relationship between Jason, Rosa and Bonzo then you can read that post . Rosa has had the patience of a saint in putting up with this man's poor behaviour towards both her and Bonzo for goodness knows how long
@@LoneSheWolf09 As you "see perfectly well" then you can hopefully also see how you made a mistake in your view of the relationship between Jason, Rosa and Bonzo That it is Jason causing a rift between them not Bonzo as you originally thought or even Rosa.
Run from her Jason run!!
😂😂😂😂
He's bullied by the dog because she slowly castrated him, day after day, into submission.
@@EricBarbman Rubbish
Rosa doesn't even give a shit about Jason. Not one shit. I think she's quite likes the fact he's being bitten. He says he needs to man up. Does Rosa allow it?
Why?
A crazy and absolutely wonderful result!!! LOL! So good!!!
Graeme is a magician
She diesnt seem to want to be with the guy
I feel the same. If she want to be with this guy she should have taught him how to deal with this dog. Apparently they don't communicate at all.
@@carolshang She has tried to tell him... he shouts at her and refuses to listen.
I wouldn't want to be with a man who shouts at me either.
Having made a few comments regarding this situation, I now put it all in one place and go step by step, in this one rather long post, through what I see going on between this couple, in the hope that the people who have been so against Rosa will hopefully THINK before judging and really look at this relationship with better insight......
Rosa’s whole body language throughout, is calm and non-confrontational, her voice is consistently gentle, both with Jason and Bonzo. Jason is the one leaping about like crazy and shouting at the dog a great deal. Next Rosa talks to Graham and as she does Jason gives her such a disdainful look. Then Jason says they argue and he shouts at Rosa!!. He says she intervenes with the dog, which tells us she does help him, but she does not do it like he wants her to even though the dog obeys her. Then, he tells her what she should say and do, that she should tell the dog off.. which would absolutely be the WRONG thing to do, because as soon as she intervenes, the dog is well behaved and IF she told Bonzo off then she would be punishing the dogs GOOD behaviour. Jason is just pissed off that Rosa will not obey his bossy, coercively controlling and incorrect commands. Then he rudely speaks for them both and says WE cannot pinpoint what the problem is !!!!!!!!!!!!! but then he does correct himself by stating, with a sneering contempt for Rosa’s opinion,.. !Rosa THINKS she knows what the problem is.. The truth is that he refuses to consider that Rosa is correct, that she absolutely does know exactly what the problem is, has been trying to explain it to Jason but he has such little respect for her that he will not listen to her. Rosa is by now, seemingly absolutely at the end of her tether with Jason for being so arrogantly bossy, for demeaning her and for refusing to even consider that she is right and Rosa says.. “it won’t be the dog that goes”. I applaud her for sticking up for herself and her dog against such an unempathetic man who does not have the morality to even see he is in the wrong let alone the balls to admit it.
Then Jason throws a childish strop and marches out of the room lol. He is now fully in.. “poor little me” pathetic mode. Furthermore, it has not even crossed Jason’s mind to wonder how Rosa can be in control of Bonzo and he can’t, nor to watch Rosa to learn from her. Rosa has the patience of a saint with this bloke who shows her such little respect.
Then in comes Graham…. At lo and behold he gets Jason to copy what Rosa does. Jason gives Graham the respect that he has been too .. what? Dumb? Arrogant? to give to his long-suffering partner, listens to Graham and problem almost instantly solved and Graham again achieves miracle worker status. Yey Go Graham xx
Then, so many people here including yourself instantly judge and says that Jason deserves better than a partner like Rosa. I, on the other hand wonder why on earth does Rosa want to be with this self-satisfied, pompous,controlling man? Rosa and her dog are absolutely lovely. Jason has a great deal of self-improvement to work on and I hope he will gain some insight into his dreadful demeanor towards Rosa. He should apologise to her abjectly but I very much doubt that he could even see the necessity for that
A week of this and I would have left, what a patient man and thank God for proper dog trainers like Graham ❤
He will make that man run around like a rabbit ..lol
This women is horrible. Poor guy needs deserves better.
The woman is right, not horrible..Did you see how condescending he is towards her when he says "Rosa THINKS she knows? Rosa absolutely does know but he is so arrogant that he cannot accept that. I think Rosa deserves better.
I think he is a very kind and gentle man and the dog took advantage of it and Rose saw that this continuous situation dragged him down into being a frustrated coward, and she did not like to be with a coward, she judged him, so instead of lifting him up, she chose to see him getting weaker and weaker until she was ready to leave him/or make him leave, and the poor guy became passive- aggressive because of that, because she have chosen the dog side...frankly, I get her being disappointment by his behavior because it is not very "manly man", but she is not a generous loving person-in my opinion he deserves better.
Didi, How delusional are you??
Why is she horrible? Because she knows her dog best? Because yes she does. Because she doesn't want to give away her dog as soon as a new guy steps into the picture? Neither would I. If you date someone with pets or kids, they're a part of the package.
He’s the best toy that dog has ever had 😂
Amazing Sir Graham 😊👏👍❤
Why are people so mean to Rosa? She knows her dog best and the dude keeps on questioning her. If you as a pet owner is willing to give up your pet as soon as you meet a new partner, then you shouldn't have pets to begin with!!! Geez.. y'all are nauseating.
The couple have been together over 14 years. They've had the dog for 9 months. So that's not the situation here. And I do get your point (it's not the dog's fault) but I still thing it was a mean thing to say to her partner of almost 15 years about their new dog.
To say it wouldn’t be the dog that went was the most hurtful, nasty thing you could say to a partner. Horrible woman.
I thought it was a horrible thing to say too.
I think she likes t, yes she is nasty.
She was brutally honest. If he stays despite that, then that's on him I suppose.
I imagine it's a sore point that they have argued about before, and so she is digging her heels in
Why get rid of the dog when the dog is not at fault but the man does not listen to his wife? My dog once bit my lodger, I told the lodger if he ever again put my dog into the position of having to bite to make the lodger pay attention then the lodger would be out of the door faster than he came in. I had been telling and telling my lodger not to do something or he would back the dog into a position where he had to bite. Like the man here.. my lodger would not listen to me and the dog bit him. Why keep a man who does not give his wife the courtesy of giving what she says credence. He only paid attention when Graham told him he was encouraging the dog's behaviour but not when his wife told him exactly the same thing.
Quick question: if she only bites him, why does he walk her?
he said he likes walking after work
@@MsJubjubbird Yeah, but he could walk the other dog.
She tells him to I suspect.
I am 3 minutes into this and immediately the lady puts her finger on exactly what is going wrong, She says she thinks the man is encouraging bonzo and so she sides with Bonzo. I am siding with her and Bonzo. He shouts at her.. what sort of man shouts at his wife? She tells him he is doing it wrong but he takes no notice of her!!! If the man would only listen to his wife then he could have turned this around so fast. He needs to use his brain and think... what am I doing that she isn't? He is turning himself into an exciting tug toy for Bonzo and yes she is absolutely right in that he is encouraging Bonzo to be over excited but he refuses to listen to her. So now I will continue watching. ..
Right.. so yep.. Graham tells him to "man up".
Border terriers are the craziest dogs i have come across.
My friend had one took the bank manager trouser leg off.😂😂
Have you meet a German Jagdterrier?
@@dustinfisher29 just looked it up looks a nice dog bet they are a handful.
My friends dog would have a crack at anything. He was so loving to his family but any other dog he just wanted to fight.Highly intelligent but had a real attitude.
It's the owners not the dog.
@@BeyondtheIights genetics and evolution of each breed.Dogs are definitely our best friend but they do some crazy things
Then again they probably think we do too😂
@@terrystephens8603 Yeah I get what you mean, a lot of people go for the wrong type of dog for their situation, someone looking for a house dog to sit in a lot shouldn't get a Border Collie, Greyhound etc.
I've had three Border Terriers over my lifetime and they've all been brilliant especially my last one he didn't have a growl in him was just a softy. I've had many different dogs Westie, Staf, even a Pitbul crossed with a Rhodesian Ridgeback who was just a huge giant baby.
Except this couple has issues, Jason encourages Bonzo's half-aggressive, half-playful behavior by acting silly and not confident. If he showed more strength, Bonzo AND his girlfriend would respect him more!😅
She’s lucky to get a boyfriend ….
He seems to be a nice guy. His partner is really condescending towards him. Think he needs to leave her and not necessarily bonzo. Maybe Bonzo is doing him a favour by making him realize fully what she is like. he needs to pack it in with her.
Rowing over a dog😂 im sorry but.....😂 Your the boss. stimulation and control.they thrive for it. I don't know nothing to be honest.xx
Selfish woman. Instead of doing anything she’s just there like “it’s your own problem”. They could’ve done this together before without Graham.
Most people could deal with their dogs without the trainers visiting!! This was a really easy one with a little terrier, we have a Patterdale that was far more out of control than this, took 10 months to get a complete turn around.
Your so right, don't know why he's with her.
This woman looks at man with contempt.
She tried.. he would not listen to her. He has no respect for what she said. He thought he was right but he was not.
@@freedombeckoingThis! He doesn't want to learn shit from her.. She's getting so much undeserved criticism...
❤
I love Border Terrier😂 wrong Partner!
Jason deserves better than her.
Leave her with her dog. Find a lady who puts you first , best of luck ✨️
The dog and the wife are more intelligent than the man.. The man shouts at her. She has had enough of a man who shouts at her and refuses to accept that she is right when she tells him that the dogs behaviour is the mans fault, So the chap has forced her into making a choice.. and I applaud her choice.
What...? Would you throw away your pet just because your new partner wants you to? If yes, you're horrible and shouldn't have pets to begin with.
😂😀😀😀
Poor Rosa, being vilified for putting her dog first. My dogs come first too because they can't fend for themselves. Help from Graeme has fixed the problem and dear little Bonzo is now happy. Clearly, Jason is very fond of him. Win/win. Stop picking sides, people, there's 3 sides to every story. Bravo Graeme, as always.
Dogs are animals
@@dshe8637So are humans, what's your point? What makes you think you're better or more important than other living beings?! Gee, the absolute ego of some people....
@elin_ haha people are obviously more important than animals. What do you feed your cat or dog? Humans?
@@dshe8637 He gets veterinary prescription diet and he loves it.. Why? How is that even relevant?
@@elin_ because you feed him animals
Jason, get away from her and fast! She doesnt deserve you!
Hate the name of the show their are no bad dogs and nothing wrong with them it's incapable uneducated owners.
The show title says “dogs behaving badly” - not that the dogs are horrible… and why are they behaving badly? The owners fault.
Its called dogs behaving very badly. The behaviour is bad, not the dog. And theres always a human reason behind it. Read before you write.
Yep everytime it's literally the owners lacking any common sense.
@@schnugelischnugg9812 often there is. Sometimes it's a result from an unexpected event or an unusual problem that no member of the general public would know how to solve.
So the title is correct: it doesn't say dogs are bad, it says they're behaving badly. Biting the shit out of your human is behaving badly.
Now I know she just did not say it wouldn’t be the dog that goes then straight after making comment giving her partner of over 10years the side eye🙄🤦🏾♀️.
She pretty much placed the blame on her partner rather than take her share of the responsibility by not putting her dog in his place. If my partner had said that to me and also happily placed blame on me I’d be out that door. How detached from reality must she be to side with her dog rather than be like we need to resolve this situation quick as the dogs behaviour is tearing the relationship apart. She just doesn’t seem bothered about saving the relationship. That’s quite sad.
@LoneSheWolf09, You are watching but not seeing or understanding what is going on between this couple and have come to completely the wrong judgement. Jason is 100% to blame for the dogs behaviour and Rosa has tried to teach him how to deal with Bonzo but Jason does not give her the respect of listening to her. She can do no more than she has done and she has zero share in the blame re the dog's behaviour. . I am so annoyed and fed up with so many people getting this situation so completely wrong as you have done and so wrongly judging and blaming Rosa that I have posted (above, today 23rd Aug) a full step by step explanation of what is going on in the whole video, Should you care to better your understand of the relationship between Jason, Rosa and Bonzo then you can read that post . Rosa has had the patience of a saint in putting up with this man's poor behaviour towards both her and Bonzo for goodness knows how long
@@freedombeckoing can see it perfectly well for myself thank you very much. Now you take care and you have yourself a good day now :).
@@LoneSheWolf09 As you "see perfectly well" then you can hopefully also see how you made a mistake in your view of the relationship between Jason, Rosa and Bonzo That it is Jason causing a rift between them not Bonzo as you originally thought or even Rosa.
@@freedombeckoinghaving the patience of a Saint isn't allowing a dog to attack your partner. Neither is it verbally putting him down for a TV show.
@@angiehaddington6462 There are none so blind as those who will not see.
the dog likes jason better than the woman. he thinks they are best friends.
24.29 nearly g0t the goolies then
Woman beats man for sure and dog learns this behaviour on him...😢
Stop making shit up..
Jason is not a dog person and the lady is not a human person.
I wonder if Graham could change the dog's behavior into being aggressive towards the woman... I would be funny...
What a deranged comment .