Bitter experience with own people 😓#indian #nurses #nhs #uk #viralvideo @jyotimaneshwar2630

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  • @jyotimaneshwar2630
    @jyotimaneshwar2630  3 місяці тому +160

    Hey guys I am not spreading any hatred about anybody... I am just sharing my weird experience... please don't take this video as a negative because I am only sharing the facts. There are many south Indian people who are really good to me.

    • @sumitasharma6402
      @sumitasharma6402 3 місяці тому +22

      ​@@kulvinderbrar-z1wActually it's not the"language " that is making barriers... it's people's attitude... people always try to make a group and exclude the minority to make them suffer and enjoy it by others expense!!

    • @kannuzworld6973
      @kannuzworld6973 3 місяці тому +9

      If you are not spreding hatred about malayalis,you can see the comments..once we r alone in country we can undrstd wat we r going through,bt if Ur hospital group is not with you it never means every malayali are like this..I am having many friends in maratti,Panjabi,haryanvi,we are best group co workers here and every1 love me so much.so if they are behaving bad,and you were trying to blame all keralates in social media,what is the difference between you and them..😊so you do your job better oneday they realize your value,that all you need..and for commenters below we all r not that much bad😅

    • @lalitkhoiwal
      @lalitkhoiwal 3 місяці тому +9

      Hello sister, this group or circle thing won't feed you and your dreams. You are there for a reason for your own good so focus on that. You can start reading and learning new things during your free time at job and get better virsion of yourself. God bless you.

    • @neetu4316
      @neetu4316 3 місяці тому +11

      Are bhai ap maharastrian bolne lag jao unka dimag ghoom jayega😂😂😅

    • @IT-Technical
      @IT-Technical 3 місяці тому +13

      Also in saudi arabia, I feel the same problem with sauth Indian peoples, they don't like the rest of the parts Indian peoples 😔

  • @NarendraSingh-nb8bn
    @NarendraSingh-nb8bn 3 місяці тому +380

    Ye mallu brother and sisters aisa hi karte hain. Ye group me rehte hain aur Malayali me hi baat karte hain! Don’t worry dear, apne kaam par dhyan do and try to achieve your dream 😊

    • @JuveriaTabassum-iv3oq
      @JuveriaTabassum-iv3oq 3 місяці тому +40

      Leave them they are mad they are doing same thing every where in Saudi Arabia

    • @NafeesAhmedShaik
      @NafeesAhmedShaik 3 місяці тому +15

      I totally agree..

    • @devk6739
      @devk6739 3 місяці тому +24

      In Bangalore also

    • @MrunalHeble
      @MrunalHeble 3 місяці тому +19

      Don't worry dear. Be strong. Let them speak in Whichever language they want. You speak in English and we are here to speak in English. Don't ever think of going back only for this reason. You will find them in every corner of the world . Just ignore. All the best . Proud to be a Maharashtrian .

    • @hamzashaikh6429
      @hamzashaikh6429 3 місяці тому +29

      Ye south indian aisa hi kartey hai groupism kaam ata nhi bakchodi poori karengey

  • @satvik3555
    @satvik3555 3 місяці тому +41

    Now I can understand how Britishers were able to rule here for 250 -300 years

    • @ppen8359
      @ppen8359 3 місяці тому

      Actually, the Britishers also knew that they would not last long because the hatred they used to get into India would be directed against them. At its core, India has a rotten value system.

    • @cass6885
      @cass6885 3 місяці тому

      By spreading hatred against Indians against Indians. In Africa tribes against tribes. Aryan invasion? Caste system etc.

  • @ashishpanwar4462
    @ashishpanwar4462 3 місяці тому +53

    ये साउथ इंडियन लोग हमसे बहुत अलग होते है जो अपनापन,एक दूसरे की मदद करने की भावना,दया,धर्म हम लोगो के अंदर होता है इनमे बिल्कुल नही होता

    • @saurav6996
      @saurav6996 3 місяці тому

      मतलब कुछ भी

    • @Devkaransingh1987
      @Devkaransingh1987 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@saurav6996dusri country mein to ache se rahna chahiye. English mein baat kar lo. Jab dono ko English aati hai. Kuch to samajhdari se kaam karna chahiye. Bechari ladki ko rula diya.😮😮

    • @Devkaransingh1987
      @Devkaransingh1987 3 місяці тому

      ​@@saurav6996नॉर्थ इंडियन हो या साउथ इंडियन। किसी को भी भाषा के नाम पर इस तरह परेशान नहीं करना चाहिए। दूसरे देश में हो आपस में मिलकर रहो। बहुत गलत एग्जांपल सेट करते हैं ऐसे लोग।

    • @Class11-cu1ou
      @Class11-cu1ou 3 місяці тому

      No hate to anyone but this is true , their thinking is quite different from north indians

    • @two8915
      @two8915 2 місяці тому

      waha b jakar marathi madhay bolachay bola hoga unkay samnay kaisay maharashtra may krtay ho 😂

  • @josafstofen4423
    @josafstofen4423 3 місяці тому +31

    बहन जी यह सच है ऐसा मैंने किसी हरियाणा के बंदे से भी सुना है कि यूके में भारतीय लोगों को भारतीय ही ज्यादा परेशान करते हैं।

  • @PaulLepcha-ur8nr
    @PaulLepcha-ur8nr 3 місяці тому +13

    We are from North East our face looks like Chinese but we are proud to be an Indian.
    We being Indian should help each other.

  • @maheshrathod204
    @maheshrathod204 3 місяці тому +6

    I belong to South India and i totally agree with you you are a strong woman keep it up there are some scum in our state also 😂😂 don't give a single attention to them and mind your own business be happy ❤

  • @starnight455
    @starnight455 3 місяці тому +12

    What Marathi s do with UP, Bihar people,same south indian do to marathis..no need to feel bad.....

    • @goodwillhuman
      @goodwillhuman 2 місяці тому

      😂 wahi na jharkhand Bihar up walon ko ye tang krenge 😂 and inko sukh shanti chahiye

    • @chandnisvlogs1153
      @chandnisvlogs1153 2 місяці тому

      @@starnight455 correct 💯 jo boyenge wahi katonge,marathi also behave bad with outsiders

  • @omanishpk
    @omanishpk 3 місяці тому +8

    मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ था जब मैं राजस्थान से महाराष्ट्र गया था वहां पर लोगो ने मुझे मराठी भाषा में अपशब्द कहे थे , 15 साल हो गए पर मैं भुला नही पा रहा हूं ।

  • @sagardiwachali
    @sagardiwachali 2 місяці тому +9

    आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही है साउथ वाले ये खुद भी लड़ते हे भाषा के चक्कर में

  • @rohitthakur212
    @rohitthakur212 3 місяці тому +5

    Plz trust a forigner rather than an Indian if u are living abroad.Its a bitter truth.

  • @shashi.v.k
    @shashi.v.k 4 місяці тому +8

    Yes South Indian ke log bahut matlabi hote hai I know that.... Woh log apne logo ko hi support karte hai....

  • @ushathedreamer9593
    @ushathedreamer9593 3 місяці тому +8

    Indians living in abroad are like this… be it punjabis, marathis, South Indians,gujaratis, pahaadis…everyone
    They like to be in their own group or community and one more thing I’ve realised staying abroad for so many years that we Indians are the most racist of all…
    We do body shaming, we call kaala gora not only each other also other non Indian people, then we try to show off the most regarding the clothes we wear, the cars we drive, the position we hold, and the same mentality we’ve regarding what your kids are doing, when are they getting married etc…
    Then jealousy is so much I can’t tell you

    • @ibrahimwaka3916
      @ibrahimwaka3916 2 місяці тому

      @ushathedreamer9593 It's true .They always despise any other group and they want you to follow what they dictate.Its like as if they are paying you.

  • @RaviSharma-vw7py
    @RaviSharma-vw7py 3 місяці тому +8

    Most of the South Indian’s behaviour are bad for North Indian as I have been felt in USA and Singapore

  • @pratikgajjar6183
    @pratikgajjar6183 3 місяці тому +16

    I think it happens everywhere. Even when I visit Maharastra, I see Marathis behave rudely with non maharstrians

    • @Aviraj-vk2zc
      @Aviraj-vk2zc 3 місяці тому +2

      You wrong with Maharashtra, Maharashtra is the only state where you will people from all over thr india

    • @sheetalb3200
      @sheetalb3200 3 місяці тому +1

      You are absolutely wrong. Infact people come in Maharashtra and think that marathi people are dumb and they are oversmart.

    • @shashimishra6973
      @shashimishra6973 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@sheetalb3200 I was in Mumbai at TATA hospital with my mother.... A local person of mumbai was calling me Bangladeshi while I'm from MP state

    • @superman_returns111
      @superman_returns111 2 місяці тому

      oh may be he might be uneducated​@@shashimishra6973

  • @sharadpalkar
    @sharadpalkar 3 місяці тому +5

    आता माघार नाही जे ठरवलंय ते करून दाखव आई भवानी यश नक्की देईल छत्रपती शिवाजी महाराज की जय बोलायचं आणि कामाला लागायचं.. भविष्यासाठी खूप खूप शुभेच्छा..🙏

  • @govindnayak6336
    @govindnayak6336 3 місяці тому +7

    I am south indian not every south indian aise hota but aapke case me aap sahi ho

  • @sangeetakhare5315
    @sangeetakhare5315 3 місяці тому +6

    It is true with all the people of India. Even people from Maharashtra they only speak in Marathi. Gujarati s Punjabi’s bangolies people from south when the are in their group they don’t care for other Indian. They will switch to English if one white person is there But they all discriminate other Indians. I’m also suffering from this living in Canada.

    • @thejohn9051
      @thejohn9051 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly......bengolis are also the same😂😂😂

  • @sudiptasarkar9262
    @sudiptasarkar9262 3 місяці тому +7

    Very true. People from south India behave like this. But when it comes to Britisher they are very nice and polite. I am a Bengali living in the UK and I also have some Bengali friends who live here and always talk bad about India.

  • @sreekudu
    @sreekudu 3 місяці тому +6

    There are large number of malayali nurses who are working in UK, the main problem is they don't know hindi. They only know little bit English and most of them are from lower middle class family.Don't get irritated when speak in there mother tongue.Apporach everyone with a good smile.

  • @cinturajput
    @cinturajput 3 місяці тому +5

    Puri duniya mai indian logo k siva sab acche log hai behaviour mai.

  • @PriyankaPatel-mc3to
    @PriyankaPatel-mc3to 3 місяці тому +5

    Don't leave the country.Dont leave your dreams because of those narrow minded people.

  • @sarangag
    @sarangag 3 місяці тому +8

    Why don't you refer Marathi and North Indian nurses and doctors to your hospital. You can help relocate them from India and this will help the hospital, you, and them as well.

  • @nishasuvarna3649
    @nishasuvarna3649 3 місяці тому +4

    All South Indians are not like that,there r many people ,who r down to earth ,like me ,God bless ,and be strong 🙏💝

  • @Yasmin-mi5oh
    @Yasmin-mi5oh 2 місяці тому +10

    South Indians hotey he aise hai, apne aapko pta nhi kya samajhte hai..... Vo toh apne aapko indian bhi nhi samjhte..... Hindi language se itni nafrat karte hai.....

    • @s.dgaming8854
      @s.dgaming8854 2 місяці тому

      Sachi

    • @two8915
      @two8915 2 місяці тому

      hindi is not their language but north Indians like you forcing them to speak hindi which is Shameful

    • @Yasmin-mi5oh
      @Yasmin-mi5oh 2 місяці тому +2

      @@two8915 acha toh south indian apne aapko Indian bhi kyu nhi bolte, why they want separate nation...... And you dumbo ...... Yes..... Hindi is our national language..... Jo karna hai Karo maro..... National language Hindi he rahegi.....

  • @mayanksinghgehlot
    @mayanksinghgehlot 3 місяці тому +7

    India mai UP, Bihar, MP, Rajasthan, wale kabhi language ke upar faltu pareshan nahin karte baaki mostly South mai hamesha language ko lekar problem create karte rehte hai 😑

  • @Ben_Kaushalesh
    @Ben_Kaushalesh 3 місяці тому +4

    I can relate with your problem. I was in similar situation when I was working in US and Turkey. So, befriended more people from other countries or locals and I never felt lonely. Even in India also you can face similar scenarios. So don’t take it all personally. Learn to live alone and make friends outside of Indian communities.

  • @InderPahwa
    @InderPahwa 3 місяці тому +4

    Love from the USA. I am a health care professional residing in the Washington DC area for over 35 years. I do agree with the statement about South Indians not willing to intermingle with other Indians especially from the North India. What I have learnt it to expand your circle and forget about limiting yourself to Indians. Currently, my best friends are Hispanic and White who would do anything for me. Very few Indians are worth trusting who are not jealous of your growth. It's sad that most Indians like to compare your "status" with themselves and either feel jealous or think you are not worth their friendship. So Ms. Jyoti, expand your circle and break the barriers of limiting yourself to Indians. You will be amazed to find how much common you may have with other cultures. All the best.

  • @iNVEST4WEALTH
    @iNVEST4WEALTH 2 місяці тому +7

    I suffered the same thing in Singapore for over 16 years. I am also from north India. I hate to say this, but south Indians hv some kind of hatred for hindi and hindi speaking people. And they hv to such sense and cultural values as to not isolate non-southern people by herding in their groups to ignore and isolate others by speaking just their own local language.

  • @atulstussy
    @atulstussy 3 місяці тому +3

    I feel you! Learn to ignore them because you cannot change the world.

  • @thatpurple_vibe
    @thatpurple_vibe 3 місяці тому +9

    true southindian ka yahi drama hai har jagah

  • @mamtakaushal0524
    @mamtakaushal0524 3 місяці тому +19

    Very true , nurses from karela does not consider themselves Indian and they speak in Malayalam all the time.

  • @jackob3073
    @jackob3073 3 місяці тому +7

    Aaiyoooooo south sai yahi expectations thi
    Tutions mai ye mere sath experience haiiii

  • @amitchhetri7051
    @amitchhetri7051 2 місяці тому +8

    Ye south Indian converted christian honge....mere saath bhi hostel mein sabse jayda ragging .kia tha ....infact jo meri roommate brahaman south indian thi usko to inn converted Christians ne rula hi diya tha

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 2 місяці тому

      Lol Video uploader herself is Christian, she clarified in another comment. Ha Ha Ha

    • @ThomasAlex-oo3xd
      @ThomasAlex-oo3xd Місяць тому +1

      So what is your actually problem.Got ragged by senior,s? Or you Got ragged by Christian senior, s? I am against all type of ragging. But you are saying in the comments about converted Christians. Can you explain me about that?. Before Commenting just go to Wikipedia and search Kerala Christian, s. Then you will get our history?. You also seemed talking about one of your friend who was a Brahmin got ragged. Why you are specially mentioning him as Brahmin What is his speciality. Do everyone needs to respect him Just because he is a brahmin?. I also got ragged in college from Senior, s from all religions, but i didn't go behind there religion and caste? I am against ragging. When my friends does this ragging i stopped from doing so. Please don't bring Caste and religion in all this things.

  • @MDFaizan-zc6eg
    @MDFaizan-zc6eg 3 місяці тому +3

    101% sach hai yah baat. yaha har samay ignore karna parata hai in sabhi baato ko lekar lekin iska depration bana rahta hai

  • @RS-dg5kh
    @RS-dg5kh 3 місяці тому +7

    UK hi nahi India me bhi jab north ke log south me jate hai to same unke sath bhi south wale Aisa hi karte hai

  • @harpreetkhaira3942
    @harpreetkhaira3942 3 місяці тому +11

    Yeh toh koi problem nahe hai kyo k aisa he hota hai agar koi v 4,5 same language Wale bande bethe honge toh wo apni language mein he baat kare gay apko b samajna chahiye k koi sirf apke leye apni language toh nahe bolna band kr skta agar apki state k 5,7 bande honge toh wo b aise he kare gay yeh koi ajeeeeeb baat nahe hai normal hai

  • @princejoshi8180
    @princejoshi8180 3 місяці тому +6

    Yhi hall US me hi hai

  • @Vijay98765
    @Vijay98765 3 місяці тому +6

    This is normal , if you leave with a lot of Marthi people they will prefer to speak in marathi.. as people around you are malyali the prefer to speak in malyali.

  • @DheerajKumar-xc7jg
    @DheerajKumar-xc7jg 3 місяці тому +4

    Yes south Indians aise hi behave karte hai...they all are alike.. specially TN people

  • @harrysingh23116
    @harrysingh23116 3 місяці тому +10

    didi bura mat manna hamare north indians ko Maharashtra me mara peeta tak jata hai jabki ajtak aapne 1 bhi incident aisa nhi suna hoga ki kisi south indian k sath north mei badtamizi hui. pata nhi southies mei itna nasalwaad kyu hain jabki vo khud kaale hain

    • @Jay-zf6id
      @Jay-zf6id 3 місяці тому

      They have inferiority complex

    • @NILESHKUMAR-vu4ys
      @NILESHKUMAR-vu4ys 3 місяці тому

      Correct broo....i feel when I was in hyderabad. But now I'm shifted in Gurugram Delhi.

    • @Invincible8895
      @Invincible8895 3 місяці тому

      😂😂

    • @superman_returns111
      @superman_returns111 2 місяці тому

      eveeyone has superiority complex of their own imagination, they consider you servents of muslims (moghuls) thats why inferior, and themselves as a descendents of CHOLA , CHALUKYA empires

  • @nehasbaby27
    @nehasbaby27 4 місяці тому +8

    Hey im also maharastrian living in UK and my husband is telugu, i had same experience with telugu people , not my husband as he never treated me different also he was broad minded so he married me but his family relatives and friends who are living in UK for years have never considered me as one of them just bcz i dont speak telugu. Within one year of marriage i understood how bitter these people are so i stopped talking or giving any sort of imprtance to these people. I try to connect with other people instead who are more open minded unlike these fools. I wonder why are south Indians so backward and chindi. आपण सूद्धा भाव खायचा.

    • @jyotimaneshwar2630
      @jyotimaneshwar2630  4 місяці тому

      True❤️

    • @Kkahvsusbwiwvsuusbs
      @Kkahvsusbwiwvsuusbs 3 місяці тому +2

      Ho that's true they have very cheap mentally. But God is with us because we are not behaving as they are cheap people You don't worry about that just keep doing ur work. Always remember karma is there

  • @Shyammayi
    @Shyammayi 3 місяці тому +3

    Be brave. I saw people from S India Ricksha wala/taxi drivers forcing other Indians to speak in their South Indian language. As a foreigner visiting India and knowing only English/Hindi/French I think I must not venture there because they will feel offended if I can't speak their language.

  • @sajitkumar7228
    @sajitkumar7228 3 місяці тому +5

    Sister I am a mallu myself nd let me tell u, ye problem hum sab logon meine hi ... problem is neither we respect each other frm different states and neither we try to learn each other's culture... Even Maharashtrian does the same, even Delhi people does the same just that we don't realise bcoz few of the languages sound more over like Hindi but the languages which r actually derived directly frm Sanskrit it's difficult to understand but important thing is to respect each other...u come to Mumbai Maharashtrians will will taunt people frm north by saying bhaiya nd if u go north they will taunt people frm South as Anna
    ...

  • @PRoychowdhury4356
    @PRoychowdhury4356 3 місяці тому +6

    4:36 Most of the south Indian here in India behave like this. They're very much communal. South Indian like keralian Tamil people are very dangerous. But Karnataka people r to some extent good. Keralian & Tamil people r trying to dominate north Indian but it is impossible. Within short period north,east,west Indian will dominate nursing fields because they are very co operative by nature & large number of students r coming this field from the said parts of India. Don't get nervous. God help them who help themselves. Now I would request you to follow Swami Vivekananda. His quotation: Be bold be strong, you are the creator of your own destiny ". Go ahead.

  • @Pratigyaa382
    @Pratigyaa382 3 місяці тому +9

    South Indian ऐसे ही रहते है,इंडिया में भी,ये कभी भी दूसरो के साथ मिक्स अप नही होते।

    • @RadhaBhatt-sz3nm
      @RadhaBhatt-sz3nm 3 місяці тому +1

      Ha sahi kaha ye Esa hi krte h Pata nhi ku

    • @bittoolal
      @bittoolal 3 місяці тому +1

      Ego hai

    • @Class11-cu1ou
      @Class11-cu1ou 3 місяці тому

      @@RadhaBhatt-sz3nm ye samajh te hain ki north Wale bahar se aaye hain , ye yaha ke mool log hain jinhe , north Wale ne south mein bhaga diya.

  • @praddyumnashukla1606
    @praddyumnashukla1606 Місяць тому +8

    South Indian apne ko jyada hoshiyar samajhte hain...angrejo ne aisi hi nhi mari hai bhartiyon ... India ka jyadatar state ka yahi problem hai

  • @Poonam1602M
    @Poonam1602M 2 місяці тому +6

    In my workplace I am the only one North Indian in my ward even,there are only very few north Indians in my hospital. But to be honest they all are treating me very nicely. I have made a really good bond with a few of the malayalis . I understand apne Jo feel kia hai wo bilkul bhi achha nahi hai.
    But everyone is not the same. Hope ki apko bhi achhe friend mile because it's very important ki paraye desh me apne friends ho. ❤

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 Місяць тому

      That is because your attitude is good. This woman's attitude is bad. She herself says that initially the Malayali nurses treated her very well and became friends with her and helped her. But this woman had problems when Malayali nurses speak with one another in Malayalam. She then went and picked a fight with one Malayalee nurse demanding that the Malayalee nurse should stop speaking in Malayalam with other Malayalees. Thereafter they treated her accordingly. And now she is playing the 'victim'. And she wants sympathy from Ytube viewers. She created the problem. Then goes and complains to the hospital management demanding that Malayalees should not speak among themselves in Malayalam. How childish is this woman? Will you ever find a South Indian going and complaining to Management what Bengalis should not speak in Bengali among their own group or Punjabis should stop using PUnjabi in their group? Then people wonder how South Indians nurses are preferred in hospitals worldwide and why they keep getting promoted. Because they focus on their work and are not busy making Ytube videos at workplace like this woman did [and was called to HR who told her to stop making videos at work].

    • @lvzw
      @lvzw Місяць тому

      ​@@samanthamccormick1505hatt uthappam zip your mouth

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 Місяць тому

      @@lvzw Hey paani puri Gaumutra Hindiwallah semi-literate. Stop spitting paan and gutkha. Stop rioting in the name of Mandir Masjid everywhere. lol

  • @vandanamoondra7868
    @vandanamoondra7868 3 місяці тому +2

    Be strong and always motivated dear.... 😊

  • @nancythorat4159
    @nancythorat4159 3 місяці тому +5

    Hi..My sister lives in UK..She is a Nurse..You can be friends with her..We are from Maharashtra😊

  • @sohelkhan4421
    @sohelkhan4421 3 місяці тому +8

    Ap kisi Kerala wale se pucho waha kaha se hai, vo bole ga Kerala se, na k India se, namak haram🤬

  • @kapishthakur7027
    @kapishthakur7027 3 місяці тому +3

    I’m from Jharkhand Main Aapke Saath hun friend .. Don’t worry yeh Aaise he hote hain… Mujhe Marathi Bhasha bahoot pasand hai .. Har bhasha ki Apni Ek Mithaas hai … Main jab Mumbai jata hoon Toh Energy dekhakar Maza Aa jata hai .. But Mera yeh manna hai k hum Indians agar videsh main jaayen toh Indians bhai behen k saath … ek common language main He bat karni Chahiye … Like Hindi And English … Maine Toh Dekha hai hai bahri Desh main Bangladeshi Aaur Pakistani v Hindi main baat karne lagte hain.. toh yeh South Indian kaise hain bhai … gazab inki Soch hai .. Apne Aap ko Shrestha maane ki inki Aadat Kavi nai jane wali …. Chhoriye Siater Aapko himmat bana k rakhni hai Aaur Khud ko greet kar k rakhni hai Aaur Aaise videos banaiye Aaur UK 🇬🇧 main kaise Hindi bhai behen Ek jagah United hoke Ek Colony main Rahen .. iske bare main Sochiye … Aur Blogs banaiye Taki Koi Isolated feel na Kare .. God bless my dear Sister Bharat 🇮🇳 se Apke bhai k liye Pyar Aaur Aapke Liye managalkamna 🙏🇮🇳 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @poojasatyawali2707
    @poojasatyawali2707 3 місяці тому +5

    In Bangalore also...South Indians speaks their language even if the other person in the group is not understanding their language

  • @35ziggy
    @35ziggy 3 місяці тому +4

    Your husband is absolutely correct, don't spoil your future because of them, I also work for NHS and I'm also from Mumbai , the same thing happens in my hospital, I sometimes feel I'm in kerala and not UK, I just ignore them, so do as your husband says . We are mumbaikars and we don't give up.

  • @SunitaKevlogs
    @SunitaKevlogs 3 місяці тому +2

    Dear I am a nurse as well as a midwife. I came to UK in 70’s and retired now. I faced the same problem but I stayed strong. My plus point was I was resident of this country and later I went to USA as well. I will suggest you to ignore these people, they are same every where. You just stay in good books with your seniors and any problem, go and seek official advice and make official complaint that they are harassing you and emotionally torturing you. These people need to learn their lesson. Stay safe and stay strong.

    • @Kkahvsusbwiwvsuusbs
      @Kkahvsusbwiwvsuusbs 3 місяці тому

      True said Mam

    • @jyotimaneshwar2630
      @jyotimaneshwar2630  3 місяці тому

      Yesss❤️ thanks for the motivation ❤️🥳

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 Місяць тому +1

      What??? So Malayali nurses talking among themselves in Malayalam is harassment of non-Malayalees now? You want her to go and make an official complaint to her UK hospital bosses that Malayalee nurses speak to each other in Malayalam? Really.
      The hospital bosses will laugh at the childishness of this complaint. Should she also go and complain when Bengalis speak in Bengali with one another and PUnjabis speak in Punjabi with one another and Russians speak in Russian? How are Russians emotionally torturing anyone when they speak in Russian among themselves?
      If this woman goes and fights with a Russian because the Russian is speaking in Russian among their Russian social circle, it would be considered that this woman is emotionally torturing the Russians.
      I am yet to come across ONE HIndiwallah that makes sense. You are no exception.

    • @SunitaKevlogs
      @SunitaKevlogs Місяць тому

      @@samanthamccormick1505 yes it is because in UK you are supposed to talk in common language which everyone can understand and that is English only.

    • @SunitaKevlogs
      @SunitaKevlogs Місяць тому

      @@samanthamccormick1505 If you are in a room full of people from different cultures, That time everyone can not start talking in their own language. That time it is advised to use English only. But if in the room there are 10 people speaking their common language, no other person from different culture is there theat time they can certainly speak in their common language.

  • @sunnypal3205
    @sunnypal3205 2 місяці тому +5

    Just ignore them...

  • @salmatabassum7863
    @salmatabassum7863 2 місяці тому +5

    South Indian logo me Zara bhi Daya nahi hoti he achchi dosti hone ke bad bhi woh kab badal jate he pata hi nahi chalta

  • @uttamchakravarty2216
    @uttamchakravarty2216 2 місяці тому +9

    इसी तरह , महाराष्ट्र के लोगों के बीच में भी रहकर फील होता है, मैं भी जब मराठी लोगों के साथ काम करता हूं तो वो भी मराठी में ही बात करते हैं। ऐसा सभी जगह पे है।

  • @vrishalibhatti3590
    @vrishalibhatti3590 3 місяці тому +2

    Stay calm keep distance smile and do your job enjoy your own company you will feel Awesome

  • @AnjaniShukla-yc9vs
    @AnjaniShukla-yc9vs 3 місяці тому +4

    This is not a problem you need to develop a quality and that is able to coperate with others. I'm from Bihar people's abuse me in my face but tactically I dealt with them. Never back down

  • @ganeshdamai118
    @ganeshdamai118 3 місяці тому +6

    I am also maharashtrian Medical Scientist in Australia.. Most of the coworkers are from south india.. They act the same.. But i ignore them and do my work.. Because i did not came here for them..

  • @markmulye2703
    @markmulye2703 3 місяці тому +3

    Many Indians hate other Indians for no reason at all. Perhaps it is jealousy, competitiveness and some perceived slight or insecurity. I am sorry to hear about your experiences. Stay strong. Jai Maharashtra!

  • @Ravi1982yt
    @Ravi1982yt 3 місяці тому +17

    Mallus aise hi hote hai

  • @mariogonsalves-xc3uo
    @mariogonsalves-xc3uo 3 місяці тому +5

    I stay in united States 🇺🇸.. I am marathi.
    same hear... South Indian ( Tamil, Andhra, Malayalam) they are hindi heaters... they are only cornfotable when they meet their own people...

  • @JacquilineFernando
    @JacquilineFernando 3 місяці тому +3

    I agree with you sister, ALL OF THE SOUTH INDIAN PEOPLE ARE MEAN and ALL OF THE MAHARASHTRA PEOPLE ARE NICE PEOPLE. I lived in Mumbai all my life and I know they are such nice people. Actually ALL OF THEM are such nice people that it feels unreal. I am so impressed with the way Maharastrians "welcome" everyone from all other cities like Bihar Orissa etc and love them and care for them and help them so much in Mumbai and other parts of Maharashtra. Such lovely people ALL ALL ALL OF THEM. They never speak in Marathi even if they are many people speaking that language only to take care that just one person who doesn't know Marathi doesn't feel uncomfortable or isolated in a different state away from their own home state and NEVER NEVER Maharastrians SPREAD HATE AGAINST MIGRANT WORKERS or asked them to go back to their own state IN HISTORY. Or DID THEY? No No they never did that....cuz ALL OF THEM are such nice people and everybody else is mean.

  • @supergirl1892
    @supergirl1892 3 місяці тому +3

    South Indians show same behaviour, to North Indians anywhere, they ignore you, you ignore them, stop taking them seriously, focus on your work and family...

  • @NR-mp6dy
    @NR-mp6dy 3 місяці тому +4

    South Indians always very conservative

  • @gyanendrashukla9379
    @gyanendrashukla9379 3 місяці тому +4

    बहुत बड़ा दुर्भाग्य है,यह सब सुनकर ।

  • @Mark-kc3xg
    @Mark-kc3xg 3 місяці тому +3

    And these South Indian people use to call themselves more educated then North 😂😂

  • @MeeraRava-g8v
    @MeeraRava-g8v 3 місяці тому +4

    I am agree with you 💯

  • @Data.Analytics.with.Garvit
    @Data.Analytics.with.Garvit 3 місяці тому +5

    But punjabi and haryanvi People are better than all other state People .because both are helpful in all countries ❤

    • @sara1012s
      @sara1012s 3 місяці тому

      Oh pls go to canada punjabis employ their own ppl only, they dont even employ other indians. they Always speak in punjabi in canada.

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 Місяць тому

      lol total BS. Punjabis and Haryanvis are the least helpful people. Punjabis are very helpful to Pakistanis, when abroad.

  • @ashutoshsingh8094
    @ashutoshsingh8094 3 місяці тому +3

    If your boss is south Indian or the owner is south Indian then it will be very difficult to work they always humility you

  • @kishanpun1340
    @kishanpun1340 3 місяці тому +5

    Each and every people of india do this. Punjabi wil speak Punjabi, tamil, Malayalam,telgu, kannada,telgu they will speak in their own language. But person should understand when to speak which language. It's very common in india and uk. Part and parcel of life united by India divided by language.

  • @-Prashant-
    @-Prashant- 2 місяці тому +5

    My brother lives in south, very talented software developer, studied from iit, but these people had destroyed my brothers carriers, even god will never ever forgive these people.

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 2 місяці тому +1

      So why doesn't your brother go to the heaven of Hindiwallah land and work with such wonderful Hindiwallahs who will make his career [It is career and not 'carrier' by the way]. So your brother hates South India and South Indian people, and yet continues to live in South India. Why would anyone continue to live in a place even after hating the place and its people? When he can go back to his HIndiwallah place and people? Does your brother also hate it when South Indians speak to fellow South Indians in their South Indian language, just like this woman, whose biggest problem in life is that Malayalees speak in Malayalam with Malayalees.

    • @marissa1133
      @marissa1133 2 місяці тому

      @@samanthamccormick1505 What is Hindiwalla? You are stuck on to that word.
      Hindi is our national language & you very conveniently seem to forget that.
      Every person residing in India should be, at the very least, be able to converse in basic Hindi.
      Bhaiyas are a different clan altogether
      So don’t use Hindiwalas on a repeat mode.
      Be it a South INDIAN or a North INDIAN, we are INDIANS. So we should present a united front.

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 2 місяці тому

      @@marissa1133 What is the most important trait/quality in a Hindiwallah? Zero general knowledge. LIke you. No clue that India does NOT have a National Language. Repeate after me: India does NOT have a national language. I conveniently forgot that Hindi is the Natinal language, because unlike you I know that India does not have any national language. INdia only has official languages - 22 of them.

  • @sachinsidhu1983
    @sachinsidhu1983 3 місяці тому +5

    ये प्रॉब्लम सब जगह है। जम्मू पंजाब हरियाणा बंगाल महारास्ट्र और साउथ इंडिया।
    पश्चिम उत्तर प्रदेश मे रहना ज्यादा सही है इस मामले मे।
    अपने परिवार और अपने काम से प्रेम करे किसी की जरूरत नही पड़ती।

  • @gauravl5457
    @gauravl5457 3 місяці тому +4

    Honestly speaking, it's not a big problem. Even people who are living in Maharashtra for job purpose face similar issue. I've heard many of my non Maharashtrian friends complaining of such instances.
    This will happen upto some extent, natural behaviour. Don't get upset. These are the challenges one has to face when he comes out of his comfort zone.

  • @user-lr3hd5rc6n
    @user-lr3hd5rc6n 3 місяці тому +4

    Exactly their regional language should be banned in UK ESPECIALLY in work place.

  • @calmbluewhale
    @calmbluewhale 3 місяці тому +3

    Welcome to India abroad. This is common with Indians anywhere in the world, their language, caste and religion is the most important. This is what exists in India too and is exported around the world. This is not new. You have to be strong willed and cruel too, never show weakness, the moment you show that you are weak, they will pounce on you. Cultivate a atmosphere around you of being cruel, and strong minded, you will survive.

  • @riteshdeshmukh1827
    @riteshdeshmukh1827 3 місяці тому +6

    Very true, South Indians in the UK, Keralites. malbaaris are weird, I never liked them anyway.

  • @Shantanukarpe-g9q
    @Shantanukarpe-g9q 3 місяці тому +3

    I AM PROUD OF YOU SISTER. I AM MAHARASHTRA BOY.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳👍👍👍👍👍

  • @TheUP53Trader
    @TheUP53Trader 3 місяці тому +4

    Marathi people are very swet and kind compared to south indians

  • @MyCharmNeha
    @MyCharmNeha 3 місяці тому +3

    U r rite.... south indians me favourism bahot jada hota hai... ye log groups bana k samne wale ko nicha feel karwate hai... or nursing field me to ye bahot jada hai... i m also a nurse... and i can relate with u

  • @jay1970
    @jay1970 3 місяці тому +5

    Aur bhi gam hain zamana mein. Duniya mein aag lagi hui hai, bachche bhoonkh se mar rahe hai, unnecessary wars, climate change, illegal migration, pain, suffering…. Aur aap shikayat kar rahi ho ki kisi ne aap se baat nahin ki.. chhodo un logon ko… agar unhen baat nahin karni, nahin karo baat… what’s the big deal?
    Aapsi ladai ki wajah se hi india gulam hua…. I am not saying Brits are not nice, some of them may be nice, some of them may not be nice. Don’t judge people by skin color or language they speak.

  • @vrindavandham5230
    @vrindavandham5230 3 місяці тому +3

    I can understand because I felt the same way when i was working in Chennai, these people don’t give us any respect they think they are very intelligent themselves but when I concentrated on my work and got best employee award they were all so jealous and hopeless so please just be practical and dedicated to your work and rest all is useless about them

  • @narendersinghchauhan1293
    @narendersinghchauhan1293 Місяць тому +3

    You are a youngster, and you are at the right place, timely. Do not plan to return, as life is more challenging back in Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, and Pooney, too. It is an aspiration for all educated Indians to maintain their existence overseas.

  • @sarato2732
    @sarato2732 3 місяці тому +3

    You are absolutely right.In India also malya lies do the same.very irritating people

  • @wadhawanpathshala1288
    @wadhawanpathshala1288 3 місяці тому +3

    I am 59 years old male Retired Chief Pharmacy officer from Amritsar. You must keep one thing in mind that you ate the most beloved one chosen by almighty to help the needy (patients). Have you ever realised that you are doing pious profession of helping others and you are paid for your services. I mean you must consider this opportunity in a better way. I have realised now after serving in Health Department for 39 years since 1985. Wishing you all the Best.

  • @SK-er8gz
    @SK-er8gz 3 місяці тому +3

    Aap strong rho inki esy Tessy

  • @shoorveer1243
    @shoorveer1243 3 місяці тому +9

    Didi tension mat lo apni marathi community me join ho jaao agar koi kuch bole to direct inform kar dena. Nahito koi punjabi sardaar bhai ho to unhe bata dena. Sardaar ji 1 minute me theek kar denge. Waise mai bhi pune maharashtra se hu.❤

  • @manjusurti1584
    @manjusurti1584 3 місяці тому +2

    Don't worry darling, you are a brave lady aap akeli kafi he unke liye don't give up you carry on bahut aage javogi god bless you

  • @BFRC.Prof.SanjayYadav
    @BFRC.Prof.SanjayYadav 3 місяці тому +3

    मी मराठी,जय भवानी जय शिवाजी जय महारा्ट्र,माराठीमानुस रेडकू रडकु नाही दमदार जग जिंकेल असे नाव कर तुझे, आई सप्तश्रृंगी देवी तुझे काळजी घेतली आहेच आता भीती कसली तुझ्याकडे सोन्यासारखा नवरा आहे, दोघे पुन्हा जगाला जिंकावेत अशीच आई जगदंब कृपा असोत 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

  • @snappywriter
    @snappywriter 3 місяці тому +2

    Very nice ❤

  • @KuchawaMali
    @KuchawaMali 3 місяці тому +5

    भारत में बेरोजगार रहने से बडीया इंग्लैंड में रहो 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @EVERYRAHUL
    @EVERYRAHUL 2 місяці тому +5

    Same here happened in Mahabharata with north Indian 😂

    • @samanthamccormick1505
      @samanthamccormick1505 Місяць тому

      Great. So Mahabharatha, Ramayana and Upanishads have also entered the chat. Great. Bring Mandir Masjid, and Hindu-Muslim everywhere. That is what Hindiwallahs are good for. Now don't start riots also on this forum. LOL

  • @NehaGupta-gn9ro
    @NehaGupta-gn9ro 3 місяці тому +2

    U are absolutely right atleast kisi ne to iss bare me khul ke bola I am proud of you.me bhi uk me hu aur delhi se hu sirf South Indian hi nhi infact bht se indians apne hi hoke hume bad feel krate h south wale sirf unhi ke logo ka sath dete h aur kuch North Indian h ho pakistanio ka sath dete h weierd apne hoke bhi apne nhi yha aakr dimag khrab ho jata h kuch logo ka.

  • @modifyyouthlife3314
    @modifyyouthlife3314 3 місяці тому +3

    U faced this situation in UK 🇬🇧 with South India people ,which is not our country ,,, shocking thing is I have faced this situation in Bangalore while during my graduation . Only the lecturer speaks English but they give explanations in their mother tongue language South Indian language and the students also ask questions in South Indian language, they all are friends together and speaks South Indian language….I was alone and thinking as no one understands me but Muslim girls were helpful they knows South Indian language but still they used to talk with me in Hindi or in English … so from South Indian Hindus who shows down North Indian Hindus down … other community people and other countries people are far better with my experience and with my friends and family’s experience everyone has faced this issue

  • @Neha_ranaa
    @Neha_ranaa 3 місяці тому +6

    Agree with u south indian ese hi hote h

  • @gaurav99ize
    @gaurav99ize 3 місяці тому +1

    It's really hurt when you work with toxic environment who don't take care of their fellow members..be brave and love urself...

  • @flyby7735
    @flyby7735 3 місяці тому +5

    A Pakistani will help you more in the UK than South Indians

    • @cass6885
      @cass6885 3 місяці тому

      No, you're mistaken. You have not learnt about the Koran and Hathes then.

  • @cr.defins
    @cr.defins 3 місяці тому +5

    Mam, in Maharashtra the language concern is also there. North Indians are not considered there. Marathi is compulsory there.

    • @shoorveer1243
      @shoorveer1243 3 місяці тому +1

      Who told you? Kabhi aaye ho maharashtra bhai?