Hey guys I am not spreading any hatred about anybody... I am just sharing my weird experience... please don't take this video as a negative because I am only sharing the facts. There are many south Indian people who are really good to me.
@@kulvinderbrar-z1wActually it's not the"language " that is making barriers... it's people's attitude... people always try to make a group and exclude the minority to make them suffer and enjoy it by others expense!!
If you are not spreding hatred about malayalis,you can see the comments..once we r alone in country we can undrstd wat we r going through,bt if Ur hospital group is not with you it never means every malayali are like this..I am having many friends in maratti,Panjabi,haryanvi,we are best group co workers here and every1 love me so much.so if they are behaving bad,and you were trying to blame all keralates in social media,what is the difference between you and them..😊so you do your job better oneday they realize your value,that all you need..and for commenters below we all r not that much bad😅
Hello sister, this group or circle thing won't feed you and your dreams. You are there for a reason for your own good so focus on that. You can start reading and learning new things during your free time at job and get better virsion of yourself. God bless you.
Ye mallu brother and sisters aisa hi karte hain. Ye group me rehte hain aur Malayali me hi baat karte hain! Don’t worry dear, apne kaam par dhyan do and try to achieve your dream 😊
Don't worry dear. Be strong. Let them speak in Whichever language they want. You speak in English and we are here to speak in English. Don't ever think of going back only for this reason. You will find them in every corner of the world . Just ignore. All the best . Proud to be a Maharashtrian .
Actually, the Britishers also knew that they would not last long because the hatred they used to get into India would be directed against them. At its core, India has a rotten value system.
@@saurav6996dusri country mein to ache se rahna chahiye. English mein baat kar lo. Jab dono ko English aati hai. Kuch to samajhdari se kaam karna chahiye. Bechari ladki ko rula diya.😮😮
@@saurav6996नॉर्थ इंडियन हो या साउथ इंडियन। किसी को भी भाषा के नाम पर इस तरह परेशान नहीं करना चाहिए। दूसरे देश में हो आपस में मिलकर रहो। बहुत गलत एग्जांपल सेट करते हैं ऐसे लोग।
मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ था जब मैं राजस्थान से महाराष्ट्र गया था वहां पर लोगो ने मुझे मराठी भाषा में अपशब्द कहे थे , 15 साल हो गए पर मैं भुला नही पा रहा हूं ।
There are large number of malayali nurses who are working in UK, the main problem is they don't know hindi. They only know little bit English and most of them are from lower middle class family.Don't get irritated when speak in there mother tongue.Apporach everyone with a good smile.
I belong to South India and i totally agree with you you are a strong woman keep it up there are some scum in our state also 😂😂 don't give a single attention to them and mind your own business be happy ❤
It is true with all the people of India. Even people from Maharashtra they only speak in Marathi. Gujarati s Punjabi’s bangolies people from south when the are in their group they don’t care for other Indian. They will switch to English if one white person is there But they all discriminate other Indians. I’m also suffering from this living in Canada.
Very true. People from south India behave like this. But when it comes to Britisher they are very nice and polite. I am a Bengali living in the UK and I also have some Bengali friends who live here and always talk bad about India.
Love from the USA. I am a health care professional residing in the Washington DC area for over 35 years. I do agree with the statement about South Indians not willing to intermingle with other Indians especially from the North India. What I have learnt it to expand your circle and forget about limiting yourself to Indians. Currently, my best friends are Hispanic and White who would do anything for me. Very few Indians are worth trusting who are not jealous of your growth. It's sad that most Indians like to compare your "status" with themselves and either feel jealous or think you are not worth their friendship. So Ms. Jyoti, expand your circle and break the barriers of limiting yourself to Indians. You will be amazed to find how much common you may have with other cultures. All the best.
Indians living in abroad are like this… be it punjabis, marathis, South Indians,gujaratis, pahaadis…everyone They like to be in their own group or community and one more thing I’ve realised staying abroad for so many years that we Indians are the most racist of all… We do body shaming, we call kaala gora not only each other also other non Indian people, then we try to show off the most regarding the clothes we wear, the cars we drive, the position we hold, and the same mentality we’ve regarding what your kids are doing, when are they getting married etc… Then jealousy is so much I can’t tell you
4:36 Most of the south Indian here in India behave like this. They're very much communal. South Indian like keralian Tamil people are very dangerous. But Karnataka people r to some extent good. Keralian & Tamil people r trying to dominate north Indian but it is impossible. Within short period north,east,west Indian will dominate nursing fields because they are very co operative by nature & large number of students r coming this field from the said parts of India. Don't get nervous. God help them who help themselves. Now I would request you to follow Swami Vivekananda. His quotation: Be bold be strong, you are the creator of your own destiny ". Go ahead.
didi bura mat manna hamare north indians ko Maharashtra me mara peeta tak jata hai jabki ajtak aapne 1 bhi incident aisa nhi suna hoga ki kisi south indian k sath north mei badtamizi hui. pata nhi southies mei itna nasalwaad kyu hain jabki vo khud kaale hain
eveeyone has superiority complex of their own imagination, they consider you servents of muslims (moghuls) thats why inferior, and themselves as a descendents of CHOLA , CHALUKYA empires
This is normal , if you leave with a lot of Marthi people they will prefer to speak in marathi.. as people around you are malyali the prefer to speak in malyali.
I can relate with your problem. I was in similar situation when I was working in US and Turkey. So, befriended more people from other countries or locals and I never felt lonely. Even in India also you can face similar scenarios. So don’t take it all personally. Learn to live alone and make friends outside of Indian communities.
Ye south Indian converted christian honge....mere saath bhi hostel mein sabse jayda ragging .kia tha ....infact jo meri roommate brahaman south indian thi usko to inn converted Christians ne rula hi diya tha
So what is your actually problem.Got ragged by senior,s? Or you Got ragged by Christian senior, s? I am against all type of ragging. But you are saying in the comments about converted Christians. Can you explain me about that?. Before Commenting just go to Wikipedia and search Kerala Christian, s. Then you will get our history?. You also seemed talking about one of your friend who was a Brahmin got ragged. Why you are specially mentioning him as Brahmin What is his speciality. Do everyone needs to respect him Just because he is a brahmin?. I also got ragged in college from Senior, s from all religions, but i didn't go behind there religion and caste? I am against ragging. When my friends does this ragging i stopped from doing so. Please don't bring Caste and religion in all this things.
Many Indians hate other Indians for no reason at all. Perhaps it is jealousy, competitiveness and some perceived slight or insecurity. I am sorry to hear about your experiences. Stay strong. Jai Maharashtra!
Your husband is absolutely correct, don't spoil your future because of them, I also work for NHS and I'm also from Mumbai , the same thing happens in my hospital, I sometimes feel I'm in kerala and not UK, I just ignore them, so do as your husband says . We are mumbaikars and we don't give up.
I suffered the same thing in Singapore for over 16 years. I am also from north India. I hate to say this, but south Indians hv some kind of hatred for hindi and hindi speaking people. And they hv to such sense and cultural values as to not isolate non-southern people by herding in their groups to ignore and isolate others by speaking just their own local language.
This is not a problem you need to develop a quality and that is able to coperate with others. I'm from Bihar people's abuse me in my face but tactically I dealt with them. Never back down
Why don't you refer Marathi and North Indian nurses and doctors to your hospital. You can help relocate them from India and this will help the hospital, you, and them as well.
South Indians hotey he aise hai, apne aapko pta nhi kya samajhte hai..... Vo toh apne aapko indian bhi nhi samjhte..... Hindi language se itni nafrat karte hai.....
@@two8915 acha toh south indian apne aapko Indian bhi kyu nhi bolte, why they want separate nation...... And you dumbo ...... Yes..... Hindi is our national language..... Jo karna hai Karo maro..... National language Hindi he rahegi.....
India mai UP, Bihar, MP, Rajasthan, wale kabhi language ke upar faltu pareshan nahin karte baaki mostly South mai hamesha language ko lekar problem create karte rehte hai 😑
In my workplace I am the only one North Indian in my ward even,there are only very few north Indians in my hospital. But to be honest they all are treating me very nicely. I have made a really good bond with a few of the malayalis . I understand apne Jo feel kia hai wo bilkul bhi achha nahi hai. But everyone is not the same. Hope ki apko bhi achhe friend mile because it's very important ki paraye desh me apne friends ho. ❤
That is because your attitude is good. This woman's attitude is bad. She herself says that initially the Malayali nurses treated her very well and became friends with her and helped her. But this woman had problems when Malayali nurses speak with one another in Malayalam. She then went and picked a fight with one Malayalee nurse demanding that the Malayalee nurse should stop speaking in Malayalam with other Malayalees. Thereafter they treated her accordingly. And now she is playing the 'victim'. And she wants sympathy from Ytube viewers. She created the problem. Then goes and complains to the hospital management demanding that Malayalees should not speak among themselves in Malayalam. How childish is this woman? Will you ever find a South Indian going and complaining to Management what Bengalis should not speak in Bengali among their own group or Punjabis should stop using PUnjabi in their group? Then people wonder how South Indians nurses are preferred in hospitals worldwide and why they keep getting promoted. Because they focus on their work and are not busy making Ytube videos at workplace like this woman did [and was called to HR who told her to stop making videos at work].
Be brave. I saw people from S India Ricksha wala/taxi drivers forcing other Indians to speak in their South Indian language. As a foreigner visiting India and knowing only English/Hindi/French I think I must not venture there because they will feel offended if I can't speak their language.
I am also maharashtrian Medical Scientist in Australia.. Most of the coworkers are from south india.. They act the same.. But i ignore them and do my work.. Because i did not came here for them..
Honestly speaking, it's not a big problem. Even people who are living in Maharashtra for job purpose face similar issue. I've heard many of my non Maharashtrian friends complaining of such instances. This will happen upto some extent, natural behaviour. Don't get upset. These are the challenges one has to face when he comes out of his comfort zone.
Yeh toh koi problem nahe hai kyo k aisa he hota hai agar koi v 4,5 same language Wale bande bethe honge toh wo apni language mein he baat kare gay apko b samajna chahiye k koi sirf apke leye apni language toh nahe bolna band kr skta agar apki state k 5,7 bande honge toh wo b aise he kare gay yeh koi ajeeeeeb baat nahe hai normal hai
Each and every people of india do this. Punjabi wil speak Punjabi, tamil, Malayalam,telgu, kannada,telgu they will speak in their own language. But person should understand when to speak which language. It's very common in india and uk. Part and parcel of life united by India divided by language.
Sister I am a mallu myself nd let me tell u, ye problem hum sab logon meine hi ... problem is neither we respect each other frm different states and neither we try to learn each other's culture... Even Maharashtrian does the same, even Delhi people does the same just that we don't realise bcoz few of the languages sound more over like Hindi but the languages which r actually derived directly frm Sanskrit it's difficult to understand but important thing is to respect each other...u come to Mumbai Maharashtrians will will taunt people frm north by saying bhaiya nd if u go north they will taunt people frm South as Anna ...
You are a youngster, and you are at the right place, timely. Do not plan to return, as life is more challenging back in Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, and Pooney, too. It is an aspiration for all educated Indians to maintain their existence overseas.
ये प्रॉब्लम सब जगह है। जम्मू पंजाब हरियाणा बंगाल महारास्ट्र और साउथ इंडिया। पश्चिम उत्तर प्रदेश मे रहना ज्यादा सही है इस मामले मे। अपने परिवार और अपने काम से प्रेम करे किसी की जरूरत नही पड़ती।
Welcome to India abroad. This is common with Indians anywhere in the world, their language, caste and religion is the most important. This is what exists in India too and is exported around the world. This is not new. You have to be strong willed and cruel too, never show weakness, the moment you show that you are weak, they will pounce on you. Cultivate a atmosphere around you of being cruel, and strong minded, you will survive.
I can understand because I felt the same way when i was working in Chennai, these people don’t give us any respect they think they are very intelligent themselves but when I concentrated on my work and got best employee award they were all so jealous and hopeless so please just be practical and dedicated to your work and rest all is useless about them
Hey im also maharastrian living in UK and my husband is telugu, i had same experience with telugu people , not my husband as he never treated me different also he was broad minded so he married me but his family relatives and friends who are living in UK for years have never considered me as one of them just bcz i dont speak telugu. Within one year of marriage i understood how bitter these people are so i stopped talking or giving any sort of imprtance to these people. I try to connect with other people instead who are more open minded unlike these fools. I wonder why are south Indians so backward and chindi. आपण सूद्धा भाव खायचा.
Ho that's true they have very cheap mentally. But God is with us because we are not behaving as they are cheap people You don't worry about that just keep doing ur work. Always remember karma is there
I stay in united States 🇺🇸.. I am marathi. same hear... South Indian ( Tamil, Andhra, Malayalam) they are hindi heaters... they are only cornfotable when they meet their own people...
I’m from Jharkhand Main Aapke Saath hun friend .. Don’t worry yeh Aaise he hote hain… Mujhe Marathi Bhasha bahoot pasand hai .. Har bhasha ki Apni Ek Mithaas hai … Main jab Mumbai jata hoon Toh Energy dekhakar Maza Aa jata hai .. But Mera yeh manna hai k hum Indians agar videsh main jaayen toh Indians bhai behen k saath … ek common language main He bat karni Chahiye … Like Hindi And English … Maine Toh Dekha hai hai bahri Desh main Bangladeshi Aaur Pakistani v Hindi main baat karne lagte hain.. toh yeh South Indian kaise hain bhai … gazab inki Soch hai .. Apne Aap ko Shrestha maane ki inki Aadat Kavi nai jane wali …. Chhoriye Siater Aapko himmat bana k rakhni hai Aaur Khud ko greet kar k rakhni hai Aaur Aaise videos banaiye Aaur UK 🇬🇧 main kaise Hindi bhai behen Ek jagah United hoke Ek Colony main Rahen .. iske bare main Sochiye … Aur Blogs banaiye Taki Koi Isolated feel na Kare .. God bless my dear Sister Bharat 🇮🇳 se Apke bhai k liye Pyar Aaur Aapke Liye managalkamna 🙏🇮🇳 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Didi tension mat lo apni marathi community me join ho jaao agar koi kuch bole to direct inform kar dena. Nahito koi punjabi sardaar bhai ho to unhe bata dena. Sardaar ji 1 minute me theek kar denge. Waise mai bhi pune maharashtra se hu.❤
इसी तरह , महाराष्ट्र के लोगों के बीच में भी रहकर फील होता है, मैं भी जब मराठी लोगों के साथ काम करता हूं तो वो भी मराठी में ही बात करते हैं। ऐसा सभी जगह पे है।
I agree with you sister, ALL OF THE SOUTH INDIAN PEOPLE ARE MEAN and ALL OF THE MAHARASHTRA PEOPLE ARE NICE PEOPLE. I lived in Mumbai all my life and I know they are such nice people. Actually ALL OF THEM are such nice people that it feels unreal. I am so impressed with the way Maharastrians "welcome" everyone from all other cities like Bihar Orissa etc and love them and care for them and help them so much in Mumbai and other parts of Maharashtra. Such lovely people ALL ALL ALL OF THEM. They never speak in Marathi even if they are many people speaking that language only to take care that just one person who doesn't know Marathi doesn't feel uncomfortable or isolated in a different state away from their own home state and NEVER NEVER Maharastrians SPREAD HATE AGAINST MIGRANT WORKERS or asked them to go back to their own state IN HISTORY. Or DID THEY? No No they never did that....cuz ALL OF THEM are such nice people and everybody else is mean.
U faced this situation in UK 🇬🇧 with South India people ,which is not our country ,,, shocking thing is I have faced this situation in Bangalore while during my graduation . Only the lecturer speaks English but they give explanations in their mother tongue language South Indian language and the students also ask questions in South Indian language, they all are friends together and speaks South Indian language….I was alone and thinking as no one understands me but Muslim girls were helpful they knows South Indian language but still they used to talk with me in Hindi or in English … so from South Indian Hindus who shows down North Indian Hindus down … other community people and other countries people are far better with my experience and with my friends and family’s experience everyone has faced this issue
Sister it Seems this is your first abroad experience, nothing to get offended or feel sad, this happens everywhere with most of the people and even Marathis behave in such way.no language is tough and especially Indian languages, learn their language and surprise them , moreover the more languages you learn the more you exposure you get and move freelyanywhere. Fight back politely and never give up.
More power to you mam ... This isn't only the scenario of uk but India also Mainly in central institutions where South Indian people doesn't even consider north Indians.. they all are suffering from superiority complex
@samanthamccormick1505 My friend circle was good. All Tamil and Kannadigas were perfect. But I saw discrimination on roads. You've to say sorry even if a drunk local guy will hit your vehicle. All the locals on road and even police gonna support that drunk a$$h0!e
When I was posted in Mumbai, people who were talking in Hindi Immediately shifted to Marathi the moment I tried to join conversation. So this is everywhere.
You should have asked them to teach you their language, they would have happily taught you their language. Issue solved. Apart from Marathi, Hindi and English you would have the knowledge of other Indian languages. Which is good. Aap kamakha Bath Ka batangad banadiya.
U are absolutely right atleast kisi ne to iss bare me khul ke bola I am proud of you.me bhi uk me hu aur delhi se hu sirf South Indian hi nhi infact bht se indians apne hi hoke hume bad feel krate h south wale sirf unhi ke logo ka sath dete h aur kuch North Indian h ho pakistanio ka sath dete h weierd apne hoke bhi apne nhi yha aakr dimag khrab ho jata h kuch logo ka.
@@vishalsingh-ys8xz I am asking you to substantiate your allegations with specific examples of what you have experienced, which makes you say that 'they do same everywhere in every corner of world'. C'mon provide examples. Thank you
Hey guys I am not spreading any hatred about anybody... I am just sharing my weird experience... please don't take this video as a negative because I am only sharing the facts. There are many south Indian people who are really good to me.
@@kulvinderbrar-z1wActually it's not the"language " that is making barriers... it's people's attitude... people always try to make a group and exclude the minority to make them suffer and enjoy it by others expense!!
If you are not spreding hatred about malayalis,you can see the comments..once we r alone in country we can undrstd wat we r going through,bt if Ur hospital group is not with you it never means every malayali are like this..I am having many friends in maratti,Panjabi,haryanvi,we are best group co workers here and every1 love me so much.so if they are behaving bad,and you were trying to blame all keralates in social media,what is the difference between you and them..😊so you do your job better oneday they realize your value,that all you need..and for commenters below we all r not that much bad😅
Hello sister, this group or circle thing won't feed you and your dreams. You are there for a reason for your own good so focus on that. You can start reading and learning new things during your free time at job and get better virsion of yourself. God bless you.
Are bhai ap maharastrian bolne lag jao unka dimag ghoom jayega😂😂😅
Also in saudi arabia, I feel the same problem with sauth Indian peoples, they don't like the rest of the parts Indian peoples 😔
Ye mallu brother and sisters aisa hi karte hain. Ye group me rehte hain aur Malayali me hi baat karte hain! Don’t worry dear, apne kaam par dhyan do and try to achieve your dream 😊
Leave them they are mad they are doing same thing every where in Saudi Arabia
I totally agree..
In Bangalore also
Don't worry dear. Be strong. Let them speak in Whichever language they want. You speak in English and we are here to speak in English. Don't ever think of going back only for this reason. You will find them in every corner of the world . Just ignore. All the best . Proud to be a Maharashtrian .
Ye south indian aisa hi kartey hai groupism kaam ata nhi bakchodi poori karengey
Now I can understand how Britishers were able to rule here for 250 -300 years
Actually, the Britishers also knew that they would not last long because the hatred they used to get into India would be directed against them. At its core, India has a rotten value system.
By spreading hatred against Indians against Indians. In Africa tribes against tribes. Aryan invasion? Caste system etc.
We are from North East our face looks like Chinese but we are proud to be an Indian.
We being Indian should help each other.
No Chinese people looks like Indian.
Being Indian we are proud of North East Indian bro & sisters!
We are with you
बहन जी यह सच है ऐसा मैंने किसी हरियाणा के बंदे से भी सुना है कि यूके में भारतीय लोगों को भारतीय ही ज्यादा परेशान करते हैं।
This is every where. We are all like the same.
Sahi baat h bhai
I think it happens everywhere. Even when I visit Maharastra, I see Marathis behave rudely with non maharstrians
You wrong with Maharashtra, Maharashtra is the only state where you will people from all over thr india
You are absolutely wrong. Infact people come in Maharashtra and think that marathi people are dumb and they are oversmart.
@@sheetalb3200 I was in Mumbai at TATA hospital with my mother.... A local person of mumbai was calling me Bangladeshi while I'm from MP state
oh may be he might be uneducated@@shashimishra6973
ये साउथ इंडियन लोग हमसे बहुत अलग होते है जो अपनापन,एक दूसरे की मदद करने की भावना,दया,धर्म हम लोगो के अंदर होता है इनमे बिल्कुल नही होता
मतलब कुछ भी
@@saurav6996dusri country mein to ache se rahna chahiye. English mein baat kar lo. Jab dono ko English aati hai. Kuch to samajhdari se kaam karna chahiye. Bechari ladki ko rula diya.😮😮
@@saurav6996नॉर्थ इंडियन हो या साउथ इंडियन। किसी को भी भाषा के नाम पर इस तरह परेशान नहीं करना चाहिए। दूसरे देश में हो आपस में मिलकर रहो। बहुत गलत एग्जांपल सेट करते हैं ऐसे लोग।
No hate to anyone but this is true , their thinking is quite different from north indians
waha b jakar marathi madhay bolachay bola hoga unkay samnay kaisay maharashtra may krtay ho 😂
What Marathi s do with UP, Bihar people,same south indian do to marathis..no need to feel bad.....
😂 wahi na jharkhand Bihar up walon ko ye tang krenge 😂 and inko sukh shanti chahiye
@@starnight455 correct 💯 jo boyenge wahi katonge,marathi also behave bad with outsiders
मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ था जब मैं राजस्थान से महाराष्ट्र गया था वहां पर लोगो ने मुझे मराठी भाषा में अपशब्द कहे थे , 15 साल हो गए पर मैं भुला नही पा रहा हूं ।
आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही है साउथ वाले ये खुद भी लड़ते हे भाषा के चक्कर में
Great
And that is your problem because?
There are large number of malayali nurses who are working in UK, the main problem is they don't know hindi. They only know little bit English and most of them are from lower middle class family.Don't get irritated when speak in there mother tongue.Apporach everyone with a good smile.
I belong to South India and i totally agree with you you are a strong woman keep it up there are some scum in our state also 😂😂 don't give a single attention to them and mind your own business be happy ❤
Most of the South Indian’s behaviour are bad for North Indian as I have been felt in USA and Singapore
Only if they from India. Otherwise if they are from diffrent country are ok..
What did South Indians do to you in USA and Singapore?
It is true with all the people of India. Even people from Maharashtra they only speak in Marathi. Gujarati s Punjabi’s bangolies people from south when the are in their group they don’t care for other Indian. They will switch to English if one white person is there But they all discriminate other Indians. I’m also suffering from this living in Canada.
Exactly......bengolis are also the same😂😂😂
Very true. People from south India behave like this. But when it comes to Britisher they are very nice and polite. I am a Bengali living in the UK and I also have some Bengali friends who live here and always talk bad about India.
आता माघार नाही जे ठरवलंय ते करून दाखव आई भवानी यश नक्की देईल छत्रपती शिवाजी महाराज की जय बोलायचं आणि कामाला लागायचं.. भविष्यासाठी खूप खूप शुभेच्छा..🙏
Yes South Indian ke log bahut matlabi hote hai I know that.... Woh log apne logo ko hi support karte hai....
Plz trust a forigner rather than an Indian if u are living abroad.Its a bitter truth.
Only South Indian
Love from the USA. I am a health care professional residing in the Washington DC area for over 35 years. I do agree with the statement about South Indians not willing to intermingle with other Indians especially from the North India. What I have learnt it to expand your circle and forget about limiting yourself to Indians. Currently, my best friends are Hispanic and White who would do anything for me. Very few Indians are worth trusting who are not jealous of your growth. It's sad that most Indians like to compare your "status" with themselves and either feel jealous or think you are not worth their friendship. So Ms. Jyoti, expand your circle and break the barriers of limiting yourself to Indians. You will be amazed to find how much common you may have with other cultures. All the best.
Indians living in abroad are like this… be it punjabis, marathis, South Indians,gujaratis, pahaadis…everyone
They like to be in their own group or community and one more thing I’ve realised staying abroad for so many years that we Indians are the most racist of all…
We do body shaming, we call kaala gora not only each other also other non Indian people, then we try to show off the most regarding the clothes we wear, the cars we drive, the position we hold, and the same mentality we’ve regarding what your kids are doing, when are they getting married etc…
Then jealousy is so much I can’t tell you
@ushathedreamer9593 It's true .They always despise any other group and they want you to follow what they dictate.Its like as if they are paying you.
Puri duniya mai indian logo k siva sab acche log hai behaviour mai.
I am south indian not every south indian aise hota but aapke case me aap sahi ho
4:36 Most of the south Indian here in India behave like this. They're very much communal. South Indian like keralian Tamil people are very dangerous. But Karnataka people r to some extent good. Keralian & Tamil people r trying to dominate north Indian but it is impossible. Within short period north,east,west Indian will dominate nursing fields because they are very co operative by nature & large number of students r coming this field from the said parts of India. Don't get nervous. God help them who help themselves. Now I would request you to follow Swami Vivekananda. His quotation: Be bold be strong, you are the creator of your own destiny ". Go ahead.
didi bura mat manna hamare north indians ko Maharashtra me mara peeta tak jata hai jabki ajtak aapne 1 bhi incident aisa nhi suna hoga ki kisi south indian k sath north mei badtamizi hui. pata nhi southies mei itna nasalwaad kyu hain jabki vo khud kaale hain
They have inferiority complex
Correct broo....i feel when I was in hyderabad. But now I'm shifted in Gurugram Delhi.
😂😂
eveeyone has superiority complex of their own imagination, they consider you servents of muslims (moghuls) thats why inferior, and themselves as a descendents of CHOLA , CHALUKYA empires
This is normal , if you leave with a lot of Marthi people they will prefer to speak in marathi.. as people around you are malyali the prefer to speak in malyali.
All South Indians are not like that,there r many people ,who r down to earth ,like me ,God bless ,and be strong 🙏💝
I can relate with your problem. I was in similar situation when I was working in US and Turkey. So, befriended more people from other countries or locals and I never felt lonely. Even in India also you can face similar scenarios. So don’t take it all personally. Learn to live alone and make friends outside of Indian communities.
true southindian ka yahi drama hai har jagah
Ye south Indian converted christian honge....mere saath bhi hostel mein sabse jayda ragging .kia tha ....infact jo meri roommate brahaman south indian thi usko to inn converted Christians ne rula hi diya tha
Lol Video uploader herself is Christian, she clarified in another comment. Ha Ha Ha
So what is your actually problem.Got ragged by senior,s? Or you Got ragged by Christian senior, s? I am against all type of ragging. But you are saying in the comments about converted Christians. Can you explain me about that?. Before Commenting just go to Wikipedia and search Kerala Christian, s. Then you will get our history?. You also seemed talking about one of your friend who was a Brahmin got ragged. Why you are specially mentioning him as Brahmin What is his speciality. Do everyone needs to respect him Just because he is a brahmin?. I also got ragged in college from Senior, s from all religions, but i didn't go behind there religion and caste? I am against ragging. When my friends does this ragging i stopped from doing so. Please don't bring Caste and religion in all this things.
बहुत बड़ा दुर्भाग्य है,यह सब सुनकर ।
Many Indians hate other Indians for no reason at all. Perhaps it is jealousy, competitiveness and some perceived slight or insecurity. I am sorry to hear about your experiences. Stay strong. Jai Maharashtra!
Don't leave the country.Dont leave your dreams because of those narrow minded people.
Your husband is absolutely correct, don't spoil your future because of them, I also work for NHS and I'm also from Mumbai , the same thing happens in my hospital, I sometimes feel I'm in kerala and not UK, I just ignore them, so do as your husband says . We are mumbaikars and we don't give up.
Yesss we are very strong ✊🏽❤️
101% sach hai yah baat. yaha har samay ignore karna parata hai in sabhi baato ko lekar lekin iska depration bana rahta hai
I suffered the same thing in Singapore for over 16 years. I am also from north India. I hate to say this, but south Indians hv some kind of hatred for hindi and hindi speaking people. And they hv to such sense and cultural values as to not isolate non-southern people by herding in their groups to ignore and isolate others by speaking just their own local language.
How did South Indians exclude you in Singapore?
This is not a problem you need to develop a quality and that is able to coperate with others. I'm from Bihar people's abuse me in my face but tactically I dealt with them. Never back down
Why don't you refer Marathi and North Indian nurses and doctors to your hospital. You can help relocate them from India and this will help the hospital, you, and them as well.
South Indians hotey he aise hai, apne aapko pta nhi kya samajhte hai..... Vo toh apne aapko indian bhi nhi samjhte..... Hindi language se itni nafrat karte hai.....
Sachi
hindi is not their language but north Indians like you forcing them to speak hindi which is Shameful
@@two8915 acha toh south indian apne aapko Indian bhi kyu nhi bolte, why they want separate nation...... And you dumbo ...... Yes..... Hindi is our national language..... Jo karna hai Karo maro..... National language Hindi he rahegi.....
India mai UP, Bihar, MP, Rajasthan, wale kabhi language ke upar faltu pareshan nahin karte baaki mostly South mai hamesha language ko lekar problem create karte rehte hai 😑
Aap strong rho inki esy Tessy
In my workplace I am the only one North Indian in my ward even,there are only very few north Indians in my hospital. But to be honest they all are treating me very nicely. I have made a really good bond with a few of the malayalis . I understand apne Jo feel kia hai wo bilkul bhi achha nahi hai.
But everyone is not the same. Hope ki apko bhi achhe friend mile because it's very important ki paraye desh me apne friends ho. ❤
That is because your attitude is good. This woman's attitude is bad. She herself says that initially the Malayali nurses treated her very well and became friends with her and helped her. But this woman had problems when Malayali nurses speak with one another in Malayalam. She then went and picked a fight with one Malayalee nurse demanding that the Malayalee nurse should stop speaking in Malayalam with other Malayalees. Thereafter they treated her accordingly. And now she is playing the 'victim'. And she wants sympathy from Ytube viewers. She created the problem. Then goes and complains to the hospital management demanding that Malayalees should not speak among themselves in Malayalam. How childish is this woman? Will you ever find a South Indian going and complaining to Management what Bengalis should not speak in Bengali among their own group or Punjabis should stop using PUnjabi in their group? Then people wonder how South Indians nurses are preferred in hospitals worldwide and why they keep getting promoted. Because they focus on their work and are not busy making Ytube videos at workplace like this woman did [and was called to HR who told her to stop making videos at work].
@@samanthamccormick1505hatt uthappam zip your mouth
@@lvzw Hey paani puri Gaumutra Hindiwallah semi-literate. Stop spitting paan and gutkha. Stop rioting in the name of Mandir Masjid everywhere. lol
Be brave. I saw people from S India Ricksha wala/taxi drivers forcing other Indians to speak in their South Indian language. As a foreigner visiting India and knowing only English/Hindi/French I think I must not venture there because they will feel offended if I can't speak their language.
I am also maharashtrian Medical Scientist in Australia.. Most of the coworkers are from south india.. They act the same.. But i ignore them and do my work.. Because i did not came here for them..
They distrub us till we surrender
I feel you! Learn to ignore them because you cannot change the world.
Honestly speaking, it's not a big problem. Even people who are living in Maharashtra for job purpose face similar issue. I've heard many of my non Maharashtrian friends complaining of such instances.
This will happen upto some extent, natural behaviour. Don't get upset. These are the challenges one has to face when he comes out of his comfort zone.
Be strong and always motivated dear.... 😊
Yeh toh koi problem nahe hai kyo k aisa he hota hai agar koi v 4,5 same language Wale bande bethe honge toh wo apni language mein he baat kare gay apko b samajna chahiye k koi sirf apke leye apni language toh nahe bolna band kr skta agar apki state k 5,7 bande honge toh wo b aise he kare gay yeh koi ajeeeeeb baat nahe hai normal hai
If your boss is south Indian or the owner is south Indian then it will be very difficult to work they always humility you
Each and every people of india do this. Punjabi wil speak Punjabi, tamil, Malayalam,telgu, kannada,telgu they will speak in their own language. But person should understand when to speak which language. It's very common in india and uk. Part and parcel of life united by India divided by language.
Sister I am a mallu myself nd let me tell u, ye problem hum sab logon meine hi ... problem is neither we respect each other frm different states and neither we try to learn each other's culture... Even Maharashtrian does the same, even Delhi people does the same just that we don't realise bcoz few of the languages sound more over like Hindi but the languages which r actually derived directly frm Sanskrit it's difficult to understand but important thing is to respect each other...u come to Mumbai Maharashtrians will will taunt people frm north by saying bhaiya nd if u go north they will taunt people frm South as Anna
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Yes south Indians aise hi behave karte hai...they all are alike.. specially TN people
Ap kisi Kerala wale se pucho waha kaha se hai, vo bole ga Kerala se, na k India se, namak haram🤬
I am agree with you 💯
South Indian logo me Zara bhi Daya nahi hoti he achchi dosti hone ke bad bhi woh kab badal jate he pata hi nahi chalta
UK hi nahi India me bhi jab north ke log south me jate hai to same unke sath bhi south wale Aisa hi karte hai
You are a youngster, and you are at the right place, timely. Do not plan to return, as life is more challenging back in Mumbai, Navi Mumbai, and Pooney, too. It is an aspiration for all educated Indians to maintain their existence overseas.
Just ignore them...
Very nice ❤
ये प्रॉब्लम सब जगह है। जम्मू पंजाब हरियाणा बंगाल महारास्ट्र और साउथ इंडिया।
पश्चिम उत्तर प्रदेश मे रहना ज्यादा सही है इस मामले मे।
अपने परिवार और अपने काम से प्रेम करे किसी की जरूरत नही पड़ती।
Welcome to India abroad. This is common with Indians anywhere in the world, their language, caste and religion is the most important. This is what exists in India too and is exported around the world. This is not new. You have to be strong willed and cruel too, never show weakness, the moment you show that you are weak, they will pounce on you. Cultivate a atmosphere around you of being cruel, and strong minded, you will survive.
In Bangalore also...South Indians speaks their language even if the other person in the group is not understanding their language
Even North Indians do the same
Marathi people are very swet and kind compared to south indians
South Indians always very conservative
I can understand because I felt the same way when i was working in Chennai, these people don’t give us any respect they think they are very intelligent themselves but when I concentrated on my work and got best employee award they were all so jealous and hopeless so please just be practical and dedicated to your work and rest all is useless about them
Hey im also maharastrian living in UK and my husband is telugu, i had same experience with telugu people , not my husband as he never treated me different also he was broad minded so he married me but his family relatives and friends who are living in UK for years have never considered me as one of them just bcz i dont speak telugu. Within one year of marriage i understood how bitter these people are so i stopped talking or giving any sort of imprtance to these people. I try to connect with other people instead who are more open minded unlike these fools. I wonder why are south Indians so backward and chindi. आपण सूद्धा भाव खायचा.
True❤️
Ho that's true they have very cheap mentally. But God is with us because we are not behaving as they are cheap people You don't worry about that just keep doing ur work. Always remember karma is there
I stay in united States 🇺🇸.. I am marathi.
same hear... South Indian ( Tamil, Andhra, Malayalam) they are hindi heaters... they are only cornfotable when they meet their own people...
Right in Gulf countries also
South Indian ऐसे ही रहते है,इंडिया में भी,ये कभी भी दूसरो के साथ मिक्स अप नही होते।
Ha sahi kaha ye Esa hi krte h Pata nhi ku
Ego hai
@@RadhaBhatt-sz3nm ye samajh te hain ki north Wale bahar se aaye hain , ye yaha ke mool log hain jinhe , north Wale ne south mein bhaga diya.
Mallus aise hi hote hai
I’m from Jharkhand Main Aapke Saath hun friend .. Don’t worry yeh Aaise he hote hain… Mujhe Marathi Bhasha bahoot pasand hai .. Har bhasha ki Apni Ek Mithaas hai … Main jab Mumbai jata hoon Toh Energy dekhakar Maza Aa jata hai .. But Mera yeh manna hai k hum Indians agar videsh main jaayen toh Indians bhai behen k saath … ek common language main He bat karni Chahiye … Like Hindi And English … Maine Toh Dekha hai hai bahri Desh main Bangladeshi Aaur Pakistani v Hindi main baat karne lagte hain.. toh yeh South Indian kaise hain bhai … gazab inki Soch hai .. Apne Aap ko Shrestha maane ki inki Aadat Kavi nai jane wali …. Chhoriye Siater Aapko himmat bana k rakhni hai Aaur Khud ko greet kar k rakhni hai Aaur Aaise videos banaiye Aaur UK 🇬🇧 main kaise Hindi bhai behen Ek jagah United hoke Ek Colony main Rahen .. iske bare main Sochiye … Aur Blogs banaiye Taki Koi Isolated feel na Kare .. God bless my dear Sister Bharat 🇮🇳 se Apke bhai k liye Pyar Aaur Aapke Liye managalkamna 🙏🇮🇳 Jai Hind 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Didi tension mat lo apni marathi community me join ho jaao agar koi kuch bole to direct inform kar dena. Nahito koi punjabi sardaar bhai ho to unhe bata dena. Sardaar ji 1 minute me theek kar denge. Waise mai bhi pune maharashtra se hu.❤
My friend also faced the same in South India
South Indian apne ko jyada hoshiyar samajhte hain...angrejo ne aisi hi nhi mari hai bhartiyon ... India ka jyadatar state ka yahi problem hai
What did South Indians do? Give examples.
इसी तरह , महाराष्ट्र के लोगों के बीच में भी रहकर फील होता है, मैं भी जब मराठी लोगों के साथ काम करता हूं तो वो भी मराठी में ही बात करते हैं। ऐसा सभी जगह पे है।
sahi kaha bhai Marathi are very aggressive people
Exactly their regional language should be banned in UK ESPECIALLY in work place.
I agree with you sister, ALL OF THE SOUTH INDIAN PEOPLE ARE MEAN and ALL OF THE MAHARASHTRA PEOPLE ARE NICE PEOPLE. I lived in Mumbai all my life and I know they are such nice people. Actually ALL OF THEM are such nice people that it feels unreal. I am so impressed with the way Maharastrians "welcome" everyone from all other cities like Bihar Orissa etc and love them and care for them and help them so much in Mumbai and other parts of Maharashtra. Such lovely people ALL ALL ALL OF THEM. They never speak in Marathi even if they are many people speaking that language only to take care that just one person who doesn't know Marathi doesn't feel uncomfortable or isolated in a different state away from their own home state and NEVER NEVER Maharastrians SPREAD HATE AGAINST MIGRANT WORKERS or asked them to go back to their own state IN HISTORY. Or DID THEY? No No they never did that....cuz ALL OF THEM are such nice people and everybody else is mean.
Very true , nurses from karela does not consider themselves Indian and they speak in Malayalam all the time.
Stay calm keep distance smile and do your job enjoy your own company you will feel Awesome
Aaiyoooooo south sai yahi expectations thi
Tutions mai ye mere sath experience haiiii
What happened in Tuitions?
U faced this situation in UK 🇬🇧 with South India people ,which is not our country ,,, shocking thing is I have faced this situation in Bangalore while during my graduation . Only the lecturer speaks English but they give explanations in their mother tongue language South Indian language and the students also ask questions in South Indian language, they all are friends together and speaks South Indian language….I was alone and thinking as no one understands me but Muslim girls were helpful they knows South Indian language but still they used to talk with me in Hindi or in English … so from South Indian Hindus who shows down North Indian Hindus down … other community people and other countries people are far better with my experience and with my friends and family’s experience everyone has faced this issue
Hi..My sister lives in UK..She is a Nurse..You can be friends with her..We are from Maharashtra😊
Please drop me your Number
Sister it Seems this is your first abroad experience, nothing to get offended or feel sad, this happens everywhere with most of the people and even Marathis behave in such way.no language is tough and especially Indian languages, learn their language and surprise them , moreover the more languages you learn the more you exposure you get and move freelyanywhere. Fight back politely and never give up.
Yhi hall US me hi hai
It's really hurt when you work with toxic environment who don't take care of their fellow members..be brave and love urself...
Aise sankuchit logon se door rahana hi achchha hai.
More power to you mam ... This isn't only the scenario of uk but India also Mainly in central institutions where South Indian people doesn't even consider north Indians.. they all are suffering from superiority complex
Its very true...I left South India and shifted to North India due to almost same reason.
What did South INdians do with you when you were in the South?
@samanthamccormick1505 My friend circle was good. All Tamil and Kannadigas were perfect. But I saw discrimination on roads. You've to say sorry even if a drunk local guy will hit your vehicle. All the locals on road and even police gonna support that drunk a$$h0!e
I AM PROUD OF YOU SISTER. I AM MAHARASHTRA BOY.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳👍👍👍👍👍
Malyalis are very sharp............
.......they might be jealous of your beauty..........are they a different relegion
you are right mam
Aysa to maharastra may Marathi log bhi kartey hai..
When I was posted in Mumbai, people who were talking in Hindi Immediately shifted to Marathi the moment I tried to join conversation. So this is everywhere.
Agree with u south indian ese hi hote h
You are absolutely right.In India also malya lies do the same.very irritating people
You should have asked them to teach you their language, they would have happily taught you their language. Issue solved. Apart from Marathi, Hindi and English you would have the knowledge of other Indian languages. Which is good. Aap kamakha Bath Ka batangad banadiya.
U are absolutely right atleast kisi ne to iss bare me khul ke bola I am proud of you.me bhi uk me hu aur delhi se hu sirf South Indian hi nhi infact bht se indians apne hi hoke hume bad feel krate h south wale sirf unhi ke logo ka sath dete h aur kuch North Indian h ho pakistanio ka sath dete h weierd apne hoke bhi apne nhi yha aakr dimag khrab ho jata h kuch logo ka.
But punjabi and haryanvi People are better than all other state People .because both are helpful in all countries ❤
Oh pls go to canada punjabis employ their own ppl only, they dont even employ other indians. they Always speak in punjabi in canada.
lol total BS. Punjabis and Haryanvis are the least helpful people. Punjabis are very helpful to Pakistanis, when abroad.
Yes you are right....even I have faced this problem but they will not change...
This is very true….they do same everywhere in every corner of world…
What did they do to you? Give specific examples
@@samanthamccormick1505 You really want to offend?..
@@vishalsingh-ys8xz I am asking you to substantiate your allegations with specific examples of what you have experienced, which makes you say that 'they do same everywhere in every corner of world'. C'mon provide examples. Thank you
Right sister nice vlog thanks . join you
Very true, South Indians in the UK, Keralites. malbaaris are weird, I never liked them anyway.