How to Build Self Confidence & Change Your Self Perception | Transform Your Life

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  • @kayskaht2052
    @kayskaht2052 2 дні тому +8

    I've been watching you for years Aileen (over 8+! Which goes to show how long you've been helping people :). Thank you so much for being such a light in this world. You've got me through (and are still guiding me through) some difficult times! 2025 is my year to journey of self love! Thank you Aileen! 🙏🏽❤️

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  День тому +2

      Thank you for your kind words, that really means a lot! 💖💖

  • @mgsBicycleO9
    @mgsBicycleO9 День тому +4

    I've started to meditate again recently and noticed how negative my self talk tends to be. "I can't, I'm bad at this, I'm not enough". The tip I'd like to implement is to shift into more loving self talk. Treat myself like a dear friend. Show myself that success is possible even without constant criticism and more nurturing words 🙏🍀

  • @dashafilms
    @dashafilms 2 дні тому +22

    part 1: physical self care ( taking care of your physical body; skincare, hygiene, exercise) Where am i lacking? recognize where your weaknesses are and make a plan.
    part 2: self-love and inner wellness ( journaling for self love and compassion, how would you speak to someone you love? building your own internal dialogue) what are the things you can do to nurture yourself? Setting boundaries to protect yourself. What influences do you have in your life? positive? negative? how can you protect your energy?
    part 3 (7:40) self expression and style: what do i feel good in? explore and experiment. what makes you feel confident and powerful? ALL THAT MATTERS IS HOW IT MAKES YOU FEEL.
    part 4: ACT AS IF ( you can act confident, trick your brain into believing you are). BECOME THAT PERSON. IT'S ALL ABOUT ENERGY. PEOPLE JUST SEE BODY LANGUAGE.
    close the gap ( which is our emotions). how does your future self act? show up?
    :)

  • @francescamoscetta
    @francescamoscetta 2 дні тому +3

    Hi there 👋🏼 Thank you for your videos! I’ve recently started following you. I’m almost 40 and have been working hard on myself over the past 5-6 years. For most of my life, I struggled with eating disorders and mental health challenges. Two years ago, I was officially diagnosed with ADHD (combined type) and started medication, which has been life-changing. I also began meditating last year and went through three years of counseling.
    While it’s been a long and challenging journey, I’ve made so much progress, and I finally feel like I’m close to finding balance. I just wanted to share this to encourage others-though the journey is tough, taking it slow and steady makes it possible. We can get there. Wishing everyone a happy and healthy New Year! ❤

  • @icegelofficial
    @icegelofficial 15 годин тому

    Thank you, Miss Aileen. I’m grateful for this guidance. It helped me deal with the woman who used to slander me during livestreams. She's now copying me and using my ideas for her business. It's painful because she and her team continue to do this. But now, I feel more equipped to handle it. I'm still working on it, but at least I'm not feeling as bad. I hope I can become strong enough to see these actions as tests. ☺️🙏

  • @dianadiana101-u7y
    @dianadiana101-u7y 2 дні тому +10

    You really do have all the reasons to be proud of your series. Everybody can see the amount of work you’ve put in and how much you care . It really does help me . Thank you for your dedication ❤
    Happy new year 🎊

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 дні тому +2

      Thank you! 💗💗 happy new year!!

  • @PodBriefChannel
    @PodBriefChannel 2 дні тому +5

    This video is such a boost of positivity! 🌟 The tips for building self-confidence and shifting self-perception are so actionable and inspiring. Thank you for reminding us that transformation starts with believing in ourselves. Here’s to embracing confidence in 2025! 🙌💖

  • @swethachennubhotla7151
    @swethachennubhotla7151 14 годин тому

    You are my favourite youtuber.You helped me so many times in my life when i was stuck.Thankyou for existing ❤

  • @dawnwar2105
    @dawnwar2105 2 дні тому +3

    Drinking more water is something I need to implement! I am also going to try compassionate Journaling. Thank you!!

  • @deepathangaraj5225
    @deepathangaraj5225 19 годин тому +2

    Self care Habit :
    I'm gonna focus on stretching, Skincare and Face massage in the evening to feel relaxed and feel better❤

  • @Annieversee
    @Annieversee 2 дні тому

    Your positive affirmations make me feel so nice💫i appreciate myself more and value myself

  • @katelightstone
    @katelightstone 2 дні тому +2

    Oh girl I am about to binge consume this channel!!

  • @thuyinh5264
    @thuyinh5264 2 дні тому

    I’m from Vietnam, i found your chanel several years ago just because i want to improve my English listening skill. At that time i’m not really get what you want to express to everyone. But follow you for long time and my English also improved more and the crucial thing is i can see your messages in every content you said, you’re giving me so much enery to start off and living my life to the fullest when i get stressed out with everything in life. There are so many useful tips thank sm Aileen

  • @justahooman-o9l
    @justahooman-o9l 2 дні тому +2

    I am going to focus on my physical self-care and also self-expression/ style 🩷💝 By preparing more nutritious meals, doing more exercise daily, and getting good quality sleep! To ignite my self-expression, I am going to continue to experiment with my artistic abilities, continue learning how to crochet, play more music (outside of music class and band), listen to more Ted Talks and so on! ☺️ Thank you for sharing this incredible episode on this series (still getting caught up on all the episodes lol)

  • @meganshafer6227
    @meganshafer6227 2 дні тому +3

    Just bought the artist of life digital workbook, it works great on my kindle scribe and I’m so excited for it! Thank you!!!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 дні тому

      Yay so happy to hear that! Hope you have a wonderful year 💗💗

  • @loveallaround1111
    @loveallaround1111 2 дні тому +3

    Thank you so much for your sharing! Happy new year to you and to anyone reading this! Wish you all a blessed year 🤩

  • @Idontcountmistake_yiiee
    @Idontcountmistake_yiiee 2 дні тому +3

    WAKE UP EVERYBODY MOTHER JUST POSTED🗣️

  • @lengsuyurio2245
    @lengsuyurio2245 2 дні тому

    Thank you for this series! Watched it in the morning as I woke up. Im really good in my sleep but i neglect my skincare and exercise too often. What a way to start the series and start the change. Thanks Aileen❤ happy new year to everyone!

  • @AIAffirmations
    @AIAffirmations 6 годин тому

    Yes self confidence!! Love the video 😌

  • @louhillen8254
    @louhillen8254 2 дні тому +4

    Great at skincare
    But stay up too late
    Don’t exercise
    Thank you for the motivation ❤❤

  • @Samanthaxvi
    @Samanthaxvi День тому

    I love all these tips!! Super helpful

  • @Dvbmf-222
    @Dvbmf-222 День тому

    Thank you Aileen you always have the right messages I need to hear at the right time ❤️🙏

  • @tasneemmohammed2315
    @tasneemmohammed2315 2 дні тому

    Hi Aileen 😊 .....
    " Acting as if " it's a very important effective strategy that stepped me into japanese language
    I was acting as if I can talk in Japanese I started writing and repeating daily life sentences and phrases, making simple sentences and read them out load
    Without realizing I became much more better in Japanese even though it's a very hard language to start with .
    But at that time I didn't realise anything about "acting as if" , I was just doing it. But now I do become more aware because of you ... and I will just keep doing it
    Thank you so much... I was waiting for that video from the beginning of the day 😅
    I feel like you are the one who is growing me up .. I am very proud and grateful ❤

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  День тому

      So happy to hear that it worked for you! 💗

  • @fancyflamingo
    @fancyflamingo День тому

    your content is really good and so is your look in this video! 😍

  • @LaBoccaStudio
    @LaBoccaStudio 2 дні тому +1

    Great at exercise but bad at sleeping schedules... sleep too late...
    Thank you for all the episodes🥰

  • @angel_captures
    @angel_captures 2 дні тому

    Your channel is my go-to for videos every day. Happy New Year!

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  День тому

      Happy New Year to you too! 💗

  • @liyah3369
    @liyah3369 2 дні тому

    Uuhhh What an aesthetic 🌟✨🌟🌟

  • @Mar-ME-s3h
    @Mar-ME-s3h 2 дні тому

    Excellent, as always 🌸

  • @fireflythinking1290
    @fireflythinking1290 2 дні тому

    I've been following this series religiously and did all the prompts, thank you for putting this together 😊. Happy new year Aileen 🎉.

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 дні тому +1

      Yay!! Happy new year 🫶🎉

  • @vickikarunia9118
    @vickikarunia9118 День тому

    you are so beautiful in this video, Aileen ! 🥰

  • @supharadaphasataroj5828
    @supharadaphasataroj5828 2 дні тому

    Happy new year, and thank you so much, Aileen.

  • @dilshodqudratov2021
    @dilshodqudratov2021 2 дні тому +2

    Thaks so much❤❤😊

  • @ngocngocxit
    @ngocngocxit 2 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much. Happy new year. I really love your videos that include a lot of great knowledge and experiences. I have learned a lot from them. Hope a great year 2025

  • @shonaassang1053
    @shonaassang1053 2 дні тому +1

    My physical self care habit I’m going to start with is buying a sleep aid tea as part of my nighttime routine to sleep better.

  • @johnnabright
    @johnnabright 2 дні тому

    Happy New Year!!

  • @cassandra9724
    @cassandra9724 2 дні тому

    Happy New Year Lavendaire ❤️🍾🎉

  • @Lifeun-edited
    @Lifeun-edited 2 дні тому

    8:25 this was such a unique Outlook for me!!💓🍁
    Happy new year Aileen!!❤❤
    To begin 2025 on the best note I practiced your affirmations in the morning today and it felt so good ✨✨🍁 it made me feel so happy I'm doing this daily now and I even bought myself flowers for the first time 💓

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  2 дні тому

      Love that!! So grateful to share. Wishing you a happy, beautiful new year ⭐️⭐️

  • @vinu0023
    @vinu0023 2 дні тому

    Happy new year. You are glowing

  • @shonaassang1053
    @shonaassang1053 2 дні тому

    Happy new year!🎉

  • @stephaniepolanco835
    @stephaniepolanco835 2 дні тому

    Happy new year! 🎆

  • @sunitajamatia3691
    @sunitajamatia3691 2 дні тому +1

    Happy New Year Lavendaire ❤😊😊love from India(Northeast)

  • @Anna-us2yw
    @Anna-us2yw 2 дні тому

    My favorite parts are parts three and four. I am the kind of girl who is waiting for a good time to wear my favorite dress. I need to break that bad habit because we don't know what will happen in the future. We have to live happily in the present time doing what we like. And every day is a special occasion. I'm into each of your videos that you posted.

  • @BryantHenriquez
    @BryantHenriquez 2 дні тому

    Happy New Year!! 🎇🎉

  • @Alishamaharjan-g2g
    @Alishamaharjan-g2g 2 дні тому

    20 min exercise is what i am going to add in my routine ❤

  • @rupachemudupathi9569
    @rupachemudupathi9569 2 дні тому +2

    Love the thought how you feel dressup that way never thought of it thank you

  • @rochelleannsantos7839
    @rochelleannsantos7839 2 дні тому +2

    Happy New Year Aileen!! 🥳 Thank you for being part of my year 2024 growth! I learned a lot from you. Lovelots. XOXO

  • @DianaNarbaeva-o3x
    @DianaNarbaeva-o3x 2 дні тому

    I love my self care time especially skin care routine 💕

  • @urvashighelani
    @urvashighelani 2 дні тому

    Happy New Year Aileen🎉

  • @gabrielnicholls2000
    @gabrielnicholls2000 2 дні тому

    Happy new years 🎉 .The Mic looks great

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  День тому +1

      Happy new year to you too! 💓

  • @anmol20-zl3kf
    @anmol20-zl3kf 2 дні тому

    happy new year Aileen😍💗

  • @Lakshmi_edits_18
    @Lakshmi_edits_18 2 дні тому

    Lots of love ❤

  • @miams-91
    @miams-91 2 дні тому

    I am a night owl and I have a 8 year old son who is an early bird😂 I am going to focus and learn how to sleep better on this year 2025. I am watching this video at night 😅
    Great video😊 Happy new year ❤

  • @rani1634
    @rani1634 2 дні тому +1

    I like this video it motivated me to do better in 2025 love your message about self care especially physical health

  • @strugglealone666
    @strugglealone666 2 дні тому

    Happy new year❤

  • @Whatworksthisworks
    @Whatworksthisworks 2 дні тому

    👏👏👏👏💯THANK YOU!

  • @irumhoori3201
    @irumhoori3201 2 дні тому

    Happy new year dear , Be blessed 🎉❤

  • @anjug9564
    @anjug9564 2 дні тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤Wonderful😊thank you

  • @thiliniherath5610
    @thiliniherath5610 2 дні тому

    Wow❤

  • @cashmerehazel21
    @cashmerehazel21 2 дні тому

    Audio is pretty soft. And I feel for your arms holding up the mic

  • @annebellamy
    @annebellamy 2 дні тому

    Happy new year im going to change workout get healthy strong muscle i love videos ❤️🎆

  • @Annieversee
    @Annieversee День тому

    Happy new year ✨
    I just opened a youtube channel today being inspired by you... 🌷

    • @lavendaire
      @lavendaire  День тому

      That's amazing! So excited for you, I'm sure you'll do great 💖

  • @zupkachinska5832
    @zupkachinska5832 2 дні тому

    love you

  • @fangxinshi9758
    @fangxinshi9758 2 дні тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @claudiacarolina6944
    @claudiacarolina6944 2 дні тому +1

    First ❤🇧🇷

  • @nurjahasheikh3063
    @nurjahasheikh3063 2 дні тому

  • @charmainebock3079
    @charmainebock3079 2 дні тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sieeeeyuhnever
    @sieeeeyuhnever 2 дні тому

    first ❤

  • @sandralulu777
    @sandralulu777 2 дні тому

    Yoga, yoga, yoga please direct me to a favorite yoga instructor from UA-cam. 🧘‍♀️🙌 I used to teach Kripalu yoga which incorporate Breathe work and yoga asanas. Your input Aileen will be appreciated. Thank you!

  • @Kiki2005newme
    @Kiki2005newme День тому

    I really need it 🍒🍓🩷✨️

  • @sreynochhang8972
    @sreynochhang8972 2 дні тому

    Happy new year 🎉❤