It is funny how the person that discarded you develops so much hatred for you just because you accepted and checked out. Reminds me of a kid that trashes expensive toy, throws it away then gets angry at the prospects of another kid finding it and playing with it
Mine left me & has proceeded to become full of hate over the fact that I picked myself up and moved on. Can’t wrap my head around how he said that he had to go because I made things awful for him & he’s worse off now than he was before and somehow it’s still my fault 🤷🏻♀️
If they haven’t completely destroyed you, broken you down or ruined your reputation they will not get over you. Everything is a competition and they have to win. They will scorch the earth until your downfall.
I think if we leave them, they’re almost like a toddler that’s dropped an ice cream on the ground. They’ll feel angry and have a tantrum, until they get another ice cream, and then they couldn’t give a shit about it.
When you get back up and become better than you were before in all areas of life, have gone no contact with them, moved away, changed your phone number, blocked them from social media and they here from the grapevine how happy you are thriving and surviving, they hate you even more. Make sure you are safe too. You never know their level of craziness. Especially, if you are the one who discarded them. They thought they had destroyed you. But, you rose up from the ashes. I am rising.
My ex hurt me so much the last two years and two months. That mental abuse. I summoned the courage to write him a very kind and loving farewell note. But I heard he was already vacationing with one of the women he has been cheating with. Hope he is happy with his achievement as an abuser. You cannot be evil to one and be good to another. It is still the evil heart faking it. He was dearly loved. Cannot hate him. I know that I meant nothing to him. Thank You God for giving me a heart that loves. I pray God that He carries me through this painful healing journey. I still enjoy seeing how other men are still good to their partners. The devil cannot win over what God intended for good. Do not expect anything bad to them. Do not wish them evil, evil might befall you. Let God do His part. He a God of justice. The God Who sees you.
If he happy is only because she feeds him more then you. That's the only time they move on. Cry tonight then get up and appreciate it's over. Good luck
I left mine on a Saturday and by Thursday he was still begging me to come home and while crying and begging me, he said he had met and was already in love with another woman. Please, how stupid did he think I was, I knew what was going on long before I left him.
Never let them know your needs or true feelings. They use that information to break you and use against you. Do not engage in any conversations about yourself. Any and all Information will be used to destroy you.
thats so crazy just having this talk with myself like 10 mins ago to not wish any harm or bad to him i wish him well Vengeance is the Lords and ill let him decide who he needs to avenge on my behalf
I learned this real quick. I would hear about an ex that was “the one that got away” and she was up on a pedestal and I felt like I had to compete with her memory, at the same time he told me about another ex that did things he hated, so of course it made me feel like I better not do those things. He had a whole ass resume of things women did/didn’t do that were good/bad lol. I’m sure I’m on that list as an example now too 😂
I intentionally inflicted a series of narc injuries to make myself immune to hoovering. Got blocked, haven't heard a peep. Been almost a year. This was a highly avoidant covert narc. Obviously I wouldn't recommend this strategy to everyone, some narcs might respond dangerously, but it worked a charm in this case.
This strategy works with a lot of narcs. It's called mortification. They will still think about you though and may never get over you but are unlikely to contact you. They will just sulk to themselves about it. I've witnessed this myself
I was at a restaurant for my sons Bday party sitting one seat away from my ex’s 2nd wife (the one after me). I mentioned to a mutual friend that I wanted to get married again. He overheard it and told me that I disrespected him. I reminded him that I was sitting close to his 2nd wife (the one he cheated with when we were married). and to never talk to me about disrespecting him because I wanted to get married again. (I cussed him out privately.)
My father is a narcissist and has never gotten over my mother for leaving him. We’ve never had the best relationship because I feel he tries to punish me for her leaving. As I got older, I have learned to mirror his traits and not only use it on him, but on others. But only when they try me… I could be really narcissistic because of what I’ve been through in general, but I’ve always had self awareness and studied Child and Youth so I could understand myself and stopped being messed up before 25.
Before I blocked my ex narcissist we barely saw each other. I use to tell him if he found someone else that offered more than I was able too I was happy for him and he would reply with 😊 I later found out I was the side chick and he had a whole family. I'm SOOOOOOO glad I left him. Now I have piece that surpasses alllllllllllllllll understanding 🙏
I wonder was we dating the same person 🤣🤣🤣 he lied about being divorced, he was living with his wife and their son but towards the end I gave him hell talked to him like he was a piece of crap 💩 I’m a Scorpio my words hurt deep
I went to the court and applied for a protection order on the 19th last month. I blocked him on all socials, Today his mother tried to called me luckly she is. Blocked and I had unknown number which I didn't answer. Im still hurt and just want to be left alone after a 5 year roller-coaster with a narc.
My ex told me “I’d have to leave you because you’ll never leave me” and in that moment I realized that’s why he treated me the way he did. I then caught him cheating and as I told him before, should he get caught again, regardless of counseling, I will leave. I then moved 13 driving hours away. I do not entertain him in any way but yet he literally called me twice today at 3am! He text me and I leave him on”read” He will wear you down until you give in and since it’s not working on me, is he doing this because he thinks it’s a challenge?
Vaknin maintains, and I agree 100%, its all about them. There is a difference between "functional hoovering" (i.e., when they MUST hoover you because there is no other supply available to them), and, hoovering you to restore lost grandiosity; you not being available or "accessible" challenges the narcissist's grandiosity which causes a narcissistic injury and even possible "mortification" which they MUST compensate for. The idea is that you accept the hoover so that the narcissist can tell themselves again how fantastic and irresistible they are - it has nothing to do with you. The latter here is the most common reason. The second most common reason for hoovering is to get you back so they can inflict revenge on you for not remaining "accessible" to them. NEVER ever think that hoovering has anything to do with your worth to the narcissist. Think like this at your own peril. Regards and stay safe, simply give yourself closure and stay well away.
Was married for 8 years. He wanted me gone and told me so often. After many reverse discards I left. Never heard from him again. He moved on to the next one very quickly.
I’ve been apart or “free” from my ex narcissistic girlfriend for just a little over a year now. The sick thing is I got so used to the whole hot/cold behavior, the silent treatments and the hoovering that even now, I wouldn’t be shocked if she tried to Hoover me back. But you bring up a great point, I think for the most part she’s moved onto her next supply, and maybe even a supply or two beyond me now. While it took me well over half a year or more to really regain myself, and process the discard and the lack of a Hoover, it was truly a blessing in disguise. Yet I still fear that she may Hoover me. Cause even though I haven’t seen her in over a year, she will occasionally send an innocuous little text about something completely random, I’m guessing to not be too obvious. I don’t know if she’s just trying to get a feel for how I feel, or whatever, but she will do it. Or since we both work at the same hospital but in different departments, occasionally she’ll find some random excuse to try and use my printer…. In a hospital full of them like she did this past monday. Occasionally I’ll have a very short conversation with her, but I try to avoid the level of communication we had when were seeing each other. I feel like she’s keeping tabs on me, as some kind of “break glass in case of emergency” supply now. Maybe in case she burns through her current supply, or supplies and she just gets horny and figures maybe todays the day she’ll break that glass? I don’t know. I fear that though. Way back when, when we first got intimate the sex was crazy, then at the end it became so robotic and non intimate, professional wrestling seemed more believable. And then over time as her mask started to slip and I’d hear veiled insults directed at me under her breath during a date. And then she’d imply she had a stable of men besides me at the ready. Needless to say at the end, I was emotionally tapped out. I wanted out, but I truly struggled to pull away even after the discard because I didn’t know it was just that. Though I’ll admit, she gave a golden nugget of a quote I’ll never forget after a date and after a bit of drinking as I was driving her home. She said “what do you really know about me? I only show people different personas.” Cause now, I do wonder what did I ever really know about her? Besides the bare boned basics? I really don’t know. And that has troubled me for some time after the discard. I still come to watch videos about narcissism by you and others to this day on occasion because I’ll find a topic that rings a bell. This topic did just that. I’m still clearly processing it all. But thank you, these videos really do help educate and help me process my experiences with her and help.
OH,MY! You're echoing my sentiments. I wonder if these people are produced in a factory. My ex (covert malignant,type) shows sames mannerism...I'm just thankful she's one time zone behind me with miles btw us.
He has been gone for two years and he claims he loves his family and wants to come back. He just isn't doing anything to change. He works 12 to 14 hour days and hasn't changed his ways. Work is his life and family is verery low on his list.. He is obcessed with the praise he receives from other people who have no idea who he is.Yet, he won't file for a divorce. WHY?? He doesn't care what is happening with his family.
He’s still getting something from that family dynamic. And you also have to remember they don’t have much self reflection if any at all. So what you perceive as neglectful, he may not even see it that way. Unfortunately. I think if you actually want a divorce, you will have to be the one to file. I’m sorry. But if you want change.. that’s probably not going to happen. There’s a chance for some insight if he is the vulnerable type. But if he is malignant in any way you can forget it. You will either have to make 1,000 more adjustments to his ways to accommodate HIM, and the results you desire. Such as instead of expecting him to come up with ideas to spend time as a family.. you have to do it.. you have to maintain the relationship you want when it comes to most narcs anyway. And some still leave their partner. It’s a sad way to live.. or you can just -leave.
As a self-confessed narc, how do you keep yourself in check when things get bad & you feel like ur losing control? I'm not being snarky,,I'm just amazed at your (and your wife's!) strength bc I Know how low & hateful they are. How accountability is a 4 letter word to them. How resistant to truth. Especially, how they truly believe that YOU are the problem and THEY are the victim!! So,,,,hat's off to the both of you 🙂
Got a dangerous one that keeps sending me insults once a week after 3 weeks of me not talking to them. I already got the police involved after being told that she’ll burn down my house and kill my dogs.
My 1st husband's 2nd wife ended up using my full married name. She never legally changed her name or took his last name and, he never told his family that we separated. For 20 years after I left him, they thought we were still together. 13 of them after he meant her. They went out of state and his family never met her, thought Colleen was me😂. A year and a half after they married, 12 years after they met, he reached out to me wanting to reconcile. Believe it or not, she was a bigger narcissist than him.
I actually found tracking devices when I moved out the house. He had cameras all around the house as well and told me he'll be watching to see if I bring another man over to the house.
I nipped that in the bud and got a restraining order with the quickness! Got to court and lied on me like there was no tomorrow….said I came to her residence dressed in all black, and that I was the one stalking her😂😂😂 but baby I laid out all the receipts:text messages, repeated calls, screenshots…then this fool broke out the waterworks said I dunno why she won’t leave me alone😮😮😮 I’m clutching my pearls, but the judge knew I wasn’t lying. Even brought the new cell mate to court to lie to and I had never seen this woman a day of my life. Just pitiful and pathetic!
He will always see me as the biggest narcissistic injury ever! Oh my! We will chat when this is all over! He is a covert also! You are filled with so much knowledge!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Don’t have to worry bout him stalking me, he Already had been grooming his new supply-so I know I won’t hear or see him again. I was manipulated in what he needed and what he wanted at that time-Divorce is going thru and that’s definitely he knew what I was gonna do, he planned it out. Well Peace be unto him and Whomever he has moved on to.
This is a really peaceful and strong thing to say. I hope you continue to feel that way. I know there’s extreme amounts of ups and downs. Good days and bad days. Sometimes you feel like you can conquer it all. And other days you’re wondering how to stay alive. But keep preserving!
@@chanel82593 Thank U, I Guess U know me, and to say “ Extreme amounts of ups and downs ,” I had come to reality that We All go thru life with wins and losses. I am 63 years season. When he tells me that God told him to be fruitful and multiply( which he knew I couldn’t have children Even Before he married me) I knew then to accept the outcome. I mean what I say, I definitely say exactly what I mean from the heart. I pray the Best for him. I Never wish Any harm on No one. That’s how I was taught. Life goes on( as my grandmother say, “keep living) as God Almighty Jesus Christ Himself gives U strength. Y’all say, it’s what it’s. Again I speak Blessings over him and his new supply ‘cause I ain’t dying and going to hell for no one, including myself. So I know I don’t have to worry about him stalking me- he got what he wanted 💯☺️🤲🏾
He doesnt get over anything good or bad. He definatetly will forever hold a grudge due to me contacting his ex. I told him i was going to and i guess he thought he scared me out of it by telling me nobody would believe me etc., either way i am more than okay with it as long as he leaves me alone and i keep my peace.
Wish i had found this channel sooner bc it would have gotten me out of the of a toxic situation sooner. I knew it was wrong but i kept thinking i was tripping bc the manipulations were so good.
This video really helped me make sense of my toxic relationships. I was in two toxic marriages in which I was gaslighted to believe I didn't matter to them, that I dragged them down. And yet, one reached out to me through my father, begging to be given another chance. So, as toxic as he was, at least I have the satisfaction knowing I mattered to him, even if I was an excellent source of supply. In the case of my other ex, he left because I was, according to him, dragging me down. After he started the paperwork for the divorce, tried to get me back, which I refused. He then quickly remarried, which I must say hurt, even though I was with someone else. Strange as it sounds, it's a comfort to know he was trying to replace me, certainly avoid grieving the end of our marriage. Clearly he was unhappy and thought leaving me would make him feel better, but I wasn't the problem.
I cut it off with him and blocked him never heard from him since and he don’t care because he used me and now has new supply to deal with so his attention is elsewhere.. win for me
My narcissist are all still in my IG stories after years and years… one even wrote me an email after many years to tell me that he’s been in love with me all that time (he had discarded me three times) but I didn’t answer. I asked one of them - the one I felt more comfortable with and knew was self aware - what the stories thing is all about and if it’s about narc fantasies and he said yeah but also maybe he just wants to see that I’m OK, hehe. Overall, I found that once I fixed my boundaries they don’t bother me anymore. Nowadays I can go no contact without block delete and all is well 😊 .. my rule is leave at first devaluation, if you don’t, definitely leave after the first discard.
My ex hurt me so badly I couldn’t love the same way anymore and now ppl think I’m the issue when I can’t open up emotionally I distance myself far from love I’m afraid it’ll happen again .
You have to understand it for what it is: that is these narcissists are oppressed by demonic spirits or they have generational curses on them! That means that you should consider the fact according to the Bible that the devil comes to kill steal and destroy. So that demonic spirit used the narcissist to bring you down. NEVER let a demon win. The demon wants you alone without a good husband or wife. Why because God wants you to enjoy life fully. The Bible says we are to have life and joy to the full, until it overflows. So don’t let a man or demon win. You are in a spiritual battle. Get into relationship with God. It might take a while, but YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS! Be strong!
If you're looking for a sign....this aint it! HELL NO! You're hilarious! I am sitting here binge watching your videos and you're helping me so much. Thank you❤
Fill your life that will fill the empfy spaces left when the person left. You may not want to do anything but just start walking, meditate, pray. Rememeber things you did as a child or any other time that brought joy, then find activities and people to join you in rediscovery of those beautiful times Feel your pain, focus on it and feel it, only then will it be released. slowly as your pain goes away, your joy, activites and circle of new relationships grow. Whenever I look back, I find the purpose to it all happening My thoughts are with you, manifesting your highest good Love and Light ❤❤❤❤❤
Lee, can I be honest. Some people like narcissists games. They like the stalking and the crazy 💩. Let me know if you want me to elaborate because some people are just as crazy as the narcissists. I’m just being honest.
@@misskaren6730 To keep it simple. Most people come from terrible backgrounds/upbringings. Learned behavior would be the correct terminology. We watch our parents, other family members, or friends stay in these toxic relationships. We start to think maybe I should just stick it out. Let’s use blueface and chrisean as an example. She knows what he’s doing to her is horrible. She watched her mom go through it. Now she believes that’s what she should accept. She believes his abuse is love. Instead of leaving she continued to get pregnant and terminate the pregnancies. Now she actually having his kid and will continue with the back and forth with him. She likes the what the abuse gives her. It does something for her like drugs do to addicts. Even though it does hurt, she’s convinced herself that it’s not that bad. That’s the bottom line in most of these relationships. Men/woman we know when it’s gotten too bad but some parts of us likes the trauma . The hundreds of phones calls, the showing up unannounced, and the lies they spread. It’s brings excitement in some form. Then when it get too bad we get scared. Then it’s the satisfaction of calling the police. It’s a constant merry go round. Men/women do this. They like it! It’s exciting and fun until someone ends up in jail or the dirt. Narcissism has so many tiers and nobody talks about it on a serious level. Social media is a dangerous place.
It’s my opinion: ~ another simple but informative video to get the community thinking…..Great job engaging with the viewers by answering their questions……
Yes!! The narcissist was over you before the relationship ended. The first affair with the new supply happened when they were over you. Beyond that, they were USING you. Now, they aren't even thinking about you. They couldn't care less about you and they would rather you be unalive than to have the potential to happier and more successful without them. Just move on and be happy. They don't care.
Its actually fun to give them a narc injury. Mine used me for a baby (never met her). I called her out, and then proceeded to text her " just tell the truth". Yeah, she called the cops, tried to get a restraining order (judge didnt buy it). I asked to sign a no contact order. They do not like being exposed, but totally worth it. Stay safe out there
And sometimes, they will return to your home state, go get drunk with a total stranger, then beat that total stranger to death and stab them 3 x's after they were already dead, in your place. That's what happened to me. He gets out next September after 30 yrs. He still wants to get me back....
He went to jail with my daughter was nine and until she became an adult and as a result he has maintained contact with me I think I'm pretty safe though he has to do five years on paper in that state I should be able to disappear by then
@@alicehonestymanson1798 Wow, you stayed in contact after all that. Holy Crap! Please go NO CONTACT with him. Once your child had a cellphone and was old enough to safely communicate with him, there was NO need for you to stay in contact with him. Get therapy asap and go no contact immediately. I hope you realize the danger of continuing to communicate with him very soon. I pray you wake up and protect your daughter and yourself. You are both in danger and I'm not sure that you recognize this fact. Prayers for you.
@alicehonestymanson1798 - Please try to move. You should have done this before now, no reason to be accessible after 30 yrs. Praying that you make it out safely. The Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline can help you maneuver with this. Don't know the number but you can Google It. PLEASE TRY
It also means they are also most likely stalking and hacking you. Trailing your car or having others follow you. They need life time restraining orders.
Mine didnt move on. He expected that ,after repeated dissapointment, I would want to take a role as his " sister" as he didnt want to lose me. My revealing that he was deeply selfish wanting that seemed to bite. But never an apology.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
It gives me so much pleasure knowing he’s watching and wishing and hoping … I don’t jealous other women at all they are welcome to him… i love myself way to much to give a dam about other women … they are welcome to him👍😘
These are not the droids you’re looking for 😂😂😂 Thank you so much for the Star Wars reference, Lee. Love the humor you added to a deadly serious topic. Lee, here’s an idea for a video topic. Can you talk about how narcs take pics of you when you are upset, or sleeping, nudes and sechs vids of the two of you, and all the stuff from you that they store on their phones/devices/computers? I’ve heard this is very much a thing too.
The stalking that my ex did after discarding me down to my Pinterest account I had tp delete mind you he discarded me but once he realized he didn't destroy me, that I was happy and living the stalking began 'heavily'.. It's more so an obsession though which I learned thru therapy. Even reached out to me at one point to inform me he got a good job and moved all which I never replied too I again had to delete my account
Mine did everything to not connect, he will not contact me. I feel bad for all those that left notes. Narcissists try and destroy you. God is helping me heal❤ .
You and me. I have to sit down because I have my own truth for everything you're saying. And 25 years with a narcissistic police officer. I I'd seen the devil. And I've become the devil.. It's like being in the upside down world.. Seriously
Yup mine never reached out the threw me out and never looked back 4 yrs I gave him unconditional love while he destroyed me on every level than blamed me for our demise and ruining his life but he’s out there being a 60 year old player out every night of the week I just petty whomever and whatever he latches onto next. Are they in for surprise?
Mine reached out after a year … saying I just want tug to know I think about you often and hope you’re ok. …… while he’s in another relationship. WTH!!!
Oh Lee. I have cameras and weapons ready to go. Anyone wants to play some games with me. 20 sharpen knives on my wall with their names on it. I wish they would try to mess with me. lol
after 3 weeks of no contact…Ik he over me he was already with a new girl and living with her making videos in her house ( was told this info when I have nonsocial media thats how I found out he was cheating)
Then come to find out he was seen with her at a Jr high football game. Odk if she likes sports or knows someone that plays but he loves all sports and loves all of them and knows alot
Hiding from me didn't think I was gona find out where he was but I did. His mom knew too but acted like she didn't now his dad has cancer I jus wonder how he's reacting to that bc he's a bad narcissist
My ex broke up with me..the next day called me to tell me he is looking for someone better fit for him..later that day I have a ring camera place by my apartment door..I thought the apartment ppl place it there..nope my ex
I got away with knowing that it ended how i wanted it to end … i had enough and decided to call his mum and best friend and let them know what a disgusting person that is and they will never see us together again … the narc mum said ok please leave quietly 😅 the beat friend said the narc hopes we can still be friends and i said … tell him he has lost access to me permanently. Video about that coming soon 😊
28 years married. 3 years free. Divorced. He still calls... views and loves my social media... i moved to another city. He called 3 days ago. No answer sob! 😊
Is it true once you thinkbur over your ex narc then all of a sudden like the last two days my mind has been on him on questions like if he's over me does he think of me he isn't a stalker but I swear I thought I saw him drive by yesterday 😊
Lee! My fiancee and I watch your content all the time. I do have a request. Have you taken the MBTI and do you know your personality type? If so, can you make a video seeing how it relates to narcissism?
@@MentalHealness Dude, that's the same as me! I have not been diagnosed as a narcissist, but I do possess a lot of those ways. But it is crazy as I think a lot like you.
He continues to gas lighting me and I go through the ups and downs of how he does me & finally I walk away...as soon as I think I'm completely over him here he comes...as soon as I completely stop the messages here he comes...oh yesssss he did the love bombing of this female and she was extra toxic and put him in jail and everything...so here he came back to me...then I hear his lies...but hear the truth from others tgat he gave her what I wanted and it back fired and here he comes love bombing me... SMH this is becoming a pattern...I have told him over & over that I am over him...he tells me aaawww thats so sweet... SMH
It is funny how the person that discarded you develops so much hatred for you just because you accepted and checked out. Reminds me of a kid that trashes expensive toy, throws it away then gets angry at the prospects of another kid finding it and playing with it
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Im still trying to understand that lol
Omg yes! She cheated on me but she’s so hateful towards me cause I’m not taking their bullshit anymore!
YES!!!!
Mine left me & has proceeded to become full of hate over the fact that I picked myself up and moved on. Can’t wrap my head around how he said that he had to go because I made things awful for him & he’s worse off now than he was before and somehow it’s still my fault 🤷🏻♀️
If they haven’t completely destroyed you, broken you down or ruined your reputation they will not get over you. Everything is a competition and they have to win. They will scorch the earth until your downfall.
I think if we leave them, they’re almost like a toddler that’s dropped an ice cream on the ground. They’ll feel angry and have a tantrum, until they get another ice cream, and then they couldn’t give a shit about it.
When you get back up and become better than you were before in all areas of life, have gone no contact with them, moved away, changed your phone number, blocked them from social media and they here from the grapevine how happy you are thriving and surviving, they hate you even more. Make sure you are safe too. You never know their level of craziness. Especially, if you are the one who discarded them. They thought they had destroyed you. But, you rose up from the ashes. I am rising.
Aside from lover relationships, this also applies to narcissistic mothers who hate their daughters.
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So darn true but when does it end
My ex hurt me so much the last two years and two months. That mental abuse. I summoned the courage to write him a very kind and loving farewell note. But I heard he was already vacationing with one of the women he has been cheating with. Hope he is happy with his achievement as an abuser. You cannot be evil to one and be good to another. It is still the evil heart faking it. He was dearly loved. Cannot hate him. I know that I meant nothing to him. Thank You God for giving me a heart that loves. I pray God that He carries me through this painful healing journey. I still enjoy seeing how other men are still good to their partners. The devil cannot win over what God intended for good. Do not expect anything bad to them. Do not wish them evil, evil might befall you. Let God do His part. He a God of justice. The God Who sees you.
If he happy is only because she feeds him more then you. That's the only time they move on. Cry tonight then get up and appreciate it's over. Good luck
I left mine on a Saturday and by Thursday he was still begging me to come home and while crying and begging me, he said he had met and was already in love with another woman. Please, how stupid did he think I was, I knew what was going on long before I left him.
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Never let them know your needs or true feelings. They use that information to break you and use against you. Do not engage in any conversations about yourself. Any and all Information will be used to destroy you.
thats so crazy just having this talk with myself like 10 mins ago to not wish any harm or bad to him i wish him well Vengeance is the Lords and ill let him decide who he needs to avenge on my behalf
I learned this real quick. I would hear about an ex that was “the one that got away” and she was up on a pedestal and I felt like I had to compete with her memory, at the same time he told me about another ex that did things he hated, so of course it made me feel like I better not do those things. He had a whole ass resume of things women did/didn’t do that were good/bad lol. I’m sure I’m on that list as an example now too 😂
"If you're looking for a sign, this ain't it, hell no"😅😅😅😅
Congrats on the new book! 😊
😂 appreciate it
It’s like they hate for absolutely no reason.
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I intentionally inflicted a series of narc injuries to make myself immune to hoovering. Got blocked, haven't heard a peep. Been almost a year. This was a highly avoidant covert narc. Obviously I wouldn't recommend this strategy to everyone, some narcs might respond dangerously, but it worked a charm in this case.
This strategy works with a lot of narcs. It's called mortification. They will still think about you though and may never get over you but are unlikely to contact you. They will just sulk to themselves about it. I've witnessed this myself
@@mimi42428totally agree - they are very resentful
Can you share what did you do him or her,
@@mimi42428 how did you witness it what do you mean by that
I did the same. Left her a month ago. Don't miss all that bullshit not one bit 😂
I was at a restaurant for my sons Bday party sitting one seat away from my ex’s 2nd wife (the one after me). I mentioned to a mutual friend that I wanted to get married again. He overheard it and told me that I disrespected him. I reminded him that I was sitting close to his 2nd wife (the one he cheated with when we were married). and to never talk to me about disrespecting him because I wanted to get married again. (I cussed him out privately.)
Oh my goodness
😂😂😂😂 I know you told his azz off!😂👏🏼
Whew! The nerve!
Narcs love "respect" so much.
Tell all narcs that respect is earned. Never demanded.
You’ll always be remembered. Just like a teddy bear you left behind & can’t find it again.
My father is a narcissist and has never gotten over my mother for leaving him. We’ve never had the best relationship because I feel he tries to punish me for her leaving. As I got older, I have learned to mirror his traits and not only use it on him, but on others. But only when they try me… I could be really narcissistic because of what I’ve been through in general, but I’ve always had self awareness and studied Child and Youth so I could understand myself and stopped being messed up before 25.
stay strong
Well done for having self awareness continue your healing ❤️
This is what I’m afraid of with my children
Got away with your mind/sanity, control, chaos. Living in peace and joy.
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Before I blocked my ex narcissist we barely saw each other. I use to tell him if he found someone else that offered more than I was able too I was happy for him and he would reply with 😊 I later found out I was the side chick and he had a whole family. I'm SOOOOOOO glad I left him. Now I have piece that surpasses alllllllllllllllll understanding 🙏
I wonder was we dating the same person 🤣🤣🤣 he lied about being divorced, he was living with his wife and their son but towards the end I gave him hell talked to him like he was a piece of crap 💩 I’m a Scorpio my words hurt deep
I went to the court and applied for a protection order on the 19th last month. I blocked him on all socials, Today his mother tried to called me luckly she is. Blocked and I had unknown number which I didn't answer. Im still hurt and just want to be left alone after a 5 year roller-coaster with a narc.
Stay strong! I wish you the best 🙏🏻
I would never reconnect with these people, it s a blessing
My favorite question when my ex narc used to compare their ex to me was... WHY YOU NOT WITH THEM NOW....I ANSWERED... CAUSE YOU THE PROBLEM😂😂😂
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My ex told me “I’d have to leave you because you’ll never leave me” and in that moment I realized that’s why he treated me the way he did. I then caught him cheating and as I told him before, should he get caught again, regardless of counseling, I will leave. I then moved 13 driving hours away. I do not entertain him in any way but yet he literally called me twice today at 3am! He text me and I leave him on”read” He will wear you down until you give in and since it’s not working on me, is he doing this because he thinks it’s a challenge?
Yes he definitely thinks it’s a challenge
Vaknin maintains, and I agree 100%, its all about them.
There is a difference between "functional hoovering" (i.e., when they MUST hoover you because there is no other supply available to them), and, hoovering you to restore lost grandiosity; you not being available or "accessible" challenges the narcissist's grandiosity which causes a narcissistic injury and even possible "mortification" which they MUST compensate for. The idea is that you accept the hoover so that the narcissist can tell themselves again how fantastic and irresistible they are - it has nothing to do with you.
The latter here is the most common reason.
The second most common reason for hoovering is to get you back so they can inflict revenge on you for not remaining "accessible" to them.
NEVER ever think that hoovering has anything to do with your worth to the narcissist. Think like this at your own peril.
Regards and stay safe, simply give yourself closure and stay well away.
Don’t let him now you read it anymore. Even that could give him satisfaction
I’m in almost the same exact boat as you, was married for 10 years.
Block his number and from all social media
Received the final discard once he started looking for new supply.
Never heard from him again.
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Was married for 8 years. He wanted me gone and told me so often. After many reverse discards I left. Never heard from him again. He moved on to the next one very quickly.
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Congrats to you and your wife about the book. Stay positive! 😊
Thank you
I’ve been apart or “free” from my ex narcissistic girlfriend for just a little over a year now. The sick thing is I got so used to the whole hot/cold behavior, the silent treatments and the hoovering that even now, I wouldn’t be shocked if she tried to Hoover me back. But you bring up a great point, I think for the most part she’s moved onto her next supply, and maybe even a supply or two beyond me now. While it took me well over half a year or more to really regain myself, and process the discard and the lack of a Hoover, it was truly a blessing in disguise. Yet I still fear that she may Hoover me. Cause even though I haven’t seen her in over a year, she will occasionally send an innocuous little text about something completely random, I’m guessing to not be too obvious. I don’t know if she’s just trying to get a feel for how I feel, or whatever, but she will do it. Or since we both work at the same hospital but in different departments, occasionally she’ll find some random excuse to try and use my printer…. In a hospital full of them like she did this past monday. Occasionally I’ll have a very short conversation with her, but I try to avoid the level of communication we had when were seeing each other. I feel like she’s keeping tabs on me, as some kind of “break glass in case of emergency” supply now. Maybe in case she burns through her current supply, or supplies and she just gets horny and figures maybe todays the day she’ll break that glass? I don’t know. I fear that though. Way back when, when we first got intimate the sex was crazy, then at the end it became so robotic and non intimate, professional wrestling seemed more believable. And then over time as her mask started to slip and I’d hear veiled insults directed at me under her breath during a date. And then she’d imply she had a stable of men besides me at the ready. Needless to say at the end, I was emotionally tapped out. I wanted out, but I truly struggled to pull away even after the discard because I didn’t know it was just that. Though I’ll admit, she gave a golden nugget of a quote I’ll never forget after a date and after a bit of drinking as I was driving her home. She said “what do you really know about me? I only show people different personas.” Cause now, I do wonder what did I ever really know about her? Besides the bare boned basics? I really don’t know. And that has troubled me for some time after the discard. I still come to watch videos about narcissism by you and others to this day on occasion because I’ll find a topic that rings a bell. This topic did just that. I’m still clearly processing it all. But thank you, these videos really do help educate and help me process my experiences with her and help.
OH,MY! You're echoing my sentiments.
I wonder if these people are produced in a factory. My ex (covert malignant,type) shows sames mannerism...I'm just thankful she's one time zone behind me with miles btw us.
@@blaquemarco We are lucky we got rid off them!!😇
Those little texts are actually hoovers to test your temp. Please do not go back.
He has been gone for two years and he claims he loves his family and wants to come back. He just isn't doing anything to change. He works 12 to 14 hour days and hasn't changed his ways. Work is his life and family is verery low on his list.. He is obcessed with the praise he receives from other people who have no idea who he is.Yet, he won't file for a divorce. WHY?? He doesn't care what is happening with his family.
He’s still getting something from that family dynamic. And you also have to remember they don’t have much self reflection if any at all. So what you perceive as neglectful, he may not even see it that way. Unfortunately.
I think if you actually want a divorce, you will have to be the one to file. I’m sorry.
But if you want change.. that’s probably not going to happen. There’s a chance for some insight if he is the vulnerable type. But if he is malignant in any way you can forget it. You will either have to make 1,000 more adjustments to his ways to accommodate HIM, and the results you desire. Such as instead of expecting him to come up with ideas to spend time as a family.. you have to do it.. you have to maintain the relationship you want when it comes to most narcs anyway. And some still leave their partner. It’s a sad way to live.. or you can just -leave.
As a self-confessed narc, how do you keep yourself in check when things get bad & you feel like ur losing control?
I'm not being snarky,,I'm just amazed at your (and your wife's!) strength bc I Know how low & hateful they are. How accountability is a 4 letter word to them. How resistant to truth. Especially, how they truly believe that YOU are the problem and THEY are the victim!!
So,,,,hat's off to the both of you 🙂
Oh, and thank you ♡
Got a dangerous one that keeps sending me insults once a week after 3 weeks of me not talking to them. I already got the police involved after being told that she’ll burn down my house and kill my dogs.
This is so healthy to watch, thank you for being honest. Stay blessed 🙏🏽
My 1st husband's 2nd wife ended up using my full married name. She never legally changed her name or took his last name and, he never told his family that we separated. For 20 years after I left him, they thought we were still together. 13 of them after he meant her. They went out of state and his family never met her, thought Colleen was me😂. A year and a half after they married, 12 years after they met, he reached out to me wanting to reconcile. Believe it or not, she was a bigger narcissist than him.
My gosh they both are insane
I actually found tracking devices when I moved out the house. He had cameras all around the house as well and told me he'll be watching to see if I bring another man over to the house.
I nipped that in the bud and got a restraining order with the quickness! Got to court and lied on me like there was no tomorrow….said I came to her residence dressed in all black, and that I was the one stalking her😂😂😂 but baby I laid out all the receipts:text messages, repeated calls, screenshots…then this fool broke out the waterworks said I dunno why she won’t leave me alone😮😮😮 I’m clutching my pearls, but the judge knew I wasn’t lying. Even brought the new cell mate to court to lie to and I had never seen this woman a day of my life. Just pitiful and pathetic!
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He will always see me as the biggest narcissistic injury ever! Oh my! We will chat when this is all over! He is a covert also! You are filled with so much knowledge!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
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@@MentalHealness 😌😌😌
Don’t have to worry bout him stalking me, he Already had been grooming his new supply-so I know I won’t hear or see him again. I was manipulated in what he needed and what he wanted at that time-Divorce is going thru and that’s definitely he knew what I was gonna do, he planned it out. Well Peace be unto him and Whomever he has moved on to.
This is a really peaceful and strong thing to say. I hope you continue to feel that way. I know there’s extreme amounts of ups and downs. Good days and bad days. Sometimes you feel like you can conquer it all. And other days you’re wondering how to stay alive. But keep preserving!
@@chanel82593 Thank U, I Guess U know me, and to say “ Extreme amounts of ups and downs ,” I had come to reality that We All go thru life with wins and losses. I am 63 years season. When he tells me that God told him to be fruitful and multiply( which he knew I couldn’t have children Even Before he married me) I knew then to accept the outcome. I mean what I say, I definitely say exactly what I mean from the heart. I pray the Best for him. I Never wish Any harm on No one. That’s how I was taught. Life goes on( as my grandmother say, “keep living) as God Almighty Jesus Christ Himself gives U strength. Y’all say, it’s what it’s. Again I speak Blessings over him and his new supply ‘cause I ain’t dying and going to hell for no one, including myself. So I know I don’t have to worry about him stalking me- he got what he wanted 💯☺️🤲🏾
By the way, I'm really proud of you and for your little family....Your recovery would've been my lifes dream
Thank you
who recovered?
He doesnt get over anything good or bad. He definatetly will forever hold a grudge due to me contacting his ex. I told him i was going to and i guess he thought he scared me out of it by telling me nobody would believe me etc., either way i am more than okay with it as long as he leaves me alone and i keep my peace.
Wish i had found this channel sooner bc it would have gotten me out of the of a toxic situation sooner. I knew it was wrong but i kept thinking i was tripping bc the manipulations were so good.
YAS!!!! Some of these narcs deserve a Grammy.
Sorry, Lee I feel like he will never get over his baby mama, so Yay for ME!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😊
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@@MentalHealness your cool! 🤓🤓🤓
This video really helped me make sense of my toxic relationships. I was in two toxic marriages in which I was gaslighted to believe I didn't matter to them, that I dragged them down. And yet, one reached out to me through my father, begging to be given another chance. So, as toxic as he was, at least I have the satisfaction knowing I mattered to him, even if I was an excellent source of supply. In the case of my other ex, he left because I was, according to him, dragging me down. After he started the paperwork for the divorce, tried to get me back, which I refused. He then quickly remarried, which I must say hurt, even though I was with someone else. Strange as it sounds, it's a comfort to know he was trying to replace me, certainly avoid grieving the end of our marriage. Clearly he was unhappy and thought leaving me would make him feel better, but I wasn't the problem.
What am I escaping? Their BS, that’s what i got away from 🤭
I cut it off with him and blocked him never heard from him since and he don’t care because he used me and now has new supply to deal with so his attention is elsewhere.. win for me
My narcissist are all still in my IG stories after years and years… one even wrote me an email after many years to tell me that he’s been in love with me all that time (he had discarded me three times) but I didn’t answer. I asked one of them - the one I felt more comfortable with and knew was self aware - what the stories thing is all about and if it’s about narc fantasies and he said yeah but also maybe he just wants to see that I’m OK, hehe.
Overall, I found that once I fixed my boundaries they don’t bother me anymore. Nowadays I can go no contact without block delete and all is well 😊 .. my rule is leave at first devaluation, if you don’t, definitely leave after the first discard.
She got her peace back Priceless.
The one that got away didn't get away with anything...they got away from the narcissist. The good one that they lost out on and that discarded them.
My ex hurt me so badly I couldn’t love the same way anymore and now ppl think I’m the issue when I can’t open up emotionally I distance myself far from love I’m afraid it’ll happen again .
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You have to understand it for what it is: that is these narcissists are oppressed by demonic spirits or they have generational curses on them! That means that you should consider the fact according to the Bible that the devil comes to kill steal and destroy. So that demonic spirit used the narcissist to bring you down. NEVER let a demon win. The demon wants you alone without a good husband or wife. Why because God wants you to enjoy life fully. The Bible says we are to have life and joy to the full, until it overflows. So don’t let a man or demon win. You are in a spiritual battle. Get into relationship with God. It might take a while, but YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS! Be strong!
"If you are looking for a sign to reconnect with your narc ex, this ain't it!"I love your dead serious face at 2:16, like you really mean it, damn❤
If you're looking for a sign....this aint it! HELL NO! You're hilarious! I am sitting here binge watching your videos and you're helping me so much. Thank you❤
Lord knows I deserve better, please pray for me!
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Damn. Narcissist are crazy people. Just listening to you quite a few times now. I def know I dodged a bullet.
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Fill your life that will fill the empfy spaces left when the person left. You may not want to do anything but just start walking, meditate, pray. Rememeber things you did as a child or any other time that brought joy, then find activities and people to join you in rediscovery of those beautiful times Feel your pain, focus on it and feel it, only then will it be released. slowly as your pain goes away, your joy, activites and circle of new relationships grow.
Whenever I look back, I find the purpose to it all happening
My thoughts are with you, manifesting your highest good
Love and Light
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Lee, can I be honest. Some people like narcissists games. They like the stalking and the crazy 💩. Let me know if you want me to elaborate because some people are just as crazy as the narcissists. I’m just being honest.
You are right
Could you please elaborate? I'm very interested.
@@misskaren6730 ok let me finish cooking and I got you.
@@misskaren6730 To keep it simple. Most people come from terrible backgrounds/upbringings. Learned behavior would be the correct terminology. We watch our parents, other family members, or friends stay in these toxic relationships. We start to think maybe I should just stick it out. Let’s use blueface and chrisean as an example. She knows what he’s doing to her is horrible. She watched her mom go through it. Now she believes that’s what she should accept. She believes his abuse is love. Instead of leaving she continued to get pregnant and terminate the pregnancies. Now she actually having his kid and will continue with the back and forth with him. She likes the what the abuse gives her. It does something for her like drugs do to addicts. Even though it does hurt, she’s convinced herself that it’s not that bad. That’s the bottom line in most of these relationships. Men/woman we know when it’s gotten too bad but some parts of us likes the trauma . The hundreds of phones calls, the showing up unannounced, and the lies they spread. It’s brings excitement in some form. Then when it get too bad we get scared. Then it’s the satisfaction of calling the police. It’s a constant merry go round. Men/women do this. They like it! It’s exciting and fun until someone ends up in jail or the dirt. Narcissism has so many tiers and nobody talks about it on a serious level. Social media is a dangerous place.
@@MrTeddyBoy89still cooking?
It’s my opinion:
~ another simple but informative video to get the community thinking…..Great job engaging with the viewers by answering their questions……
I appreciate it
@@MentalHealness- And we all appreciate you. Thank you for being so understanding and authentic.
Yes!! The narcissist was over you before the relationship ended. The first affair with the new supply happened when they were over you. Beyond that, they were USING you. Now, they aren't even thinking about you. They couldn't care less about you and they would rather you be unalive than to have the potential to happier and more successful without them. Just move on and be happy. They don't care.
Its actually fun to give them a narc injury. Mine used me for a baby (never met her). I called her out, and then proceeded to text her " just tell the truth". Yeah, she called the cops, tried to get a restraining order (judge didnt buy it). I asked to sign a no contact order. They do not like being exposed, but totally worth it. Stay safe out there
And sometimes, they will return to your home state, go get drunk with a total stranger, then beat that total stranger to death and stab them 3 x's after they were already dead, in your place. That's what happened to me. He gets out next September after 30 yrs. He still wants to get me back....
Why would you stay in contact with him over 30yrs?
He went to jail with my daughter was nine and until she became an adult and as a result he has maintained contact with me I think I'm pretty safe though he has to do five years on paper in that state I should be able to disappear by then
@@alicehonestymanson1798 Wow, you stayed in contact after all that. Holy Crap! Please go NO CONTACT with him. Once your child had a cellphone and was old enough to safely communicate with him, there was NO need for you to stay in contact with him. Get therapy asap and go no contact immediately. I hope you realize the danger of continuing to communicate with him very soon. I pray you wake up and protect your daughter and yourself. You are both in danger and I'm not sure that you recognize this fact. Prayers for you.
@alicehonestymanson1798 - Please try to move. You should have done this before now, no reason to be accessible after 30 yrs. Praying that you make it out safely. The Domestic Violence Abuse Hotline can help you maneuver with this. Don't know the number but you can Google It. PLEASE TRY
@@alicehonestymanson1798Please rush on moving somewhere safe where he can't find you.
And that narcissist disappeared never to be seen again🤣🤣🤣 God's grace
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It also means they are also most likely stalking and hacking you. Trailing your car or having others follow you. They need life time restraining orders.
How do they hack you? I have a hunch my narc has hacked my phone/laptop, but I’m not sure how to prove it.
Your videos are always so helpful but sometimes the way you bob your head to emphasize things makes me laugh 😂 great video! 😸
😆 appreciate it
Some of them are suicidal and don't care about you calling the police.
the only thing i think is that the person would only think of me to see if they could punish me
Here in England, the narcissist ex has more rights than you, the victim the violently hurt/beat does.
Mine didnt move on. He expected that ,after repeated dissapointment, I would want to take a role as his " sister" as he didnt want to lose me. My revealing that he was deeply selfish wanting that seemed to bite. But never an apology.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@jaypritchett3414 wow, how did you get an adviser, and how do i reach her?
@jaypritchett3414 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
It gives me so much pleasure knowing he’s watching and wishing and hoping … I don’t jealous other women at all they are welcome to him… i love myself way to much to give a dam about other women … they are welcome to him👍😘
These are not the droids you’re looking for 😂😂😂 Thank you so much for the Star Wars reference, Lee. Love the humor you added to a deadly serious topic.
Lee, here’s an idea for a video topic. Can you talk about how narcs take pics of you when you are upset, or sleeping, nudes and sechs vids of the two of you, and all the stuff from you that they store on their phones/devices/computers? I’ve heard this is very much a thing too.
Wow lee very well put about you feeling defeated. Understand
I do have to say I like your new posting on UA-cam for your channel. And it looks great.
Lee, you went hard. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for listening
I walked away from him, i was told he beat his new supply constantly..he tried to reach out to me but i wouldn't reach back..1years 3 months narc free
The stalking that my ex did after discarding me down to my Pinterest account I had tp delete mind you he discarded me but once he realized he didn't destroy me, that I was happy and living the stalking began 'heavily'.. It's more so an obsession though which I learned thru therapy. Even reached out to me at one point to inform me he got a good job and moved all which I never replied too I again had to delete my account
You might have to get a body cam! That was unexpected and made me laugh 😂
After my dad passes I hope to block my brother permanently.
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Mine did everything to not connect, he will not contact me. I feel bad for all those that left notes. Narcissists try and destroy you. God is helping me heal❤ .
Block them go silent just as they do 😂😂😂
You and me. I have to sit down because I have my own truth for everything you're saying. And 25 years with a narcissistic police officer. I I'd seen the devil. And I've become the devil.. It's like being in the upside down world.. Seriously
Yup mine never reached out the threw me out and never looked back 4 yrs I gave him unconditional love while he destroyed me on every level than blamed me for our demise and ruining his life but he’s out there being a 60 year old player out every night of the week I just petty whomever and whatever he latches onto next. Are they in for surprise?
Yes, he will.
As soon as he gets everything he can......
Mine reached out after a year … saying I just want tug to know I think about you often and hope you’re ok. …… while he’s in another relationship. WTH!!!
Appreciate you
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Yes, that is a great question, I recently pondered a similar question...two NPD's in a relationship.
Oh Lee. I have cameras and weapons ready to go. Anyone wants to play some games with me. 20 sharpen knives on my wall with their names on it. I wish they would try to mess with me. lol
after 3 weeks of no contact…Ik he over me he was already with a new girl and living with her making videos in her house ( was told this info when I have nonsocial media thats how I found out he was cheating)
It seems as though while they may not “get over” someone, these “creatures” are experts in “getting one over” ON someone. Just my experience.
They just don't want to fail
Then come to find out he was seen with her at a Jr high football game. Odk if she likes sports or knows someone that plays but he loves all sports and loves all of them and knows alot
😮 that's bad. Had something similar to this before and im glad he gone.
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Hiding from me didn't think I was gona find out where he was but I did. His mom knew too but acted like she didn't now his dad has cancer I jus wonder how he's reacting to that bc he's a bad narcissist
So, it's better to them discard us, right? Oh shit!!!!
Honey I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL YOUR PAIN BEEN THERE
My ex broke up with me..the next day called me to tell me he is looking for someone better fit for him..later that day I have a ring camera place by my apartment door..I thought the apartment ppl place it there..nope my ex
My narcissist has been chasing me for 20 years and we've known each other for 32 year's
Chyba to lubisz 😉
I got away with knowing that it ended how i wanted it to end … i had enough and decided to call his mum and best friend and let them know what a disgusting person that is and they will never see us together again … the narc mum said ok please leave quietly 😅 the beat friend said the narc hopes we can still be friends and i said … tell him he has lost access to me permanently. Video about that coming soon 😊
28 years married. 3 years free. Divorced. He still calls... views and loves my social media... i moved to another city. He called 3 days ago. No answer sob! 😊
Thank you for this .❤
You're welcome 😊
Is it true once you thinkbur over your ex narc then all of a sudden like the last two days my mind has been on him on questions like if he's over me does he think of me he isn't a stalker but I swear I thought I saw him drive by yesterday 😊
My ex hates me. She feels that I'm not man enough for her! Mean while we still married.
He wanted revenge he's telling the truth. I got away from him, 2 yrs ago, and tried to destroy my life!!!
What happens when narcissists get involved with other narcissists? Does it work? Or is it just a ticking time bomb?
So hw moved in w her to keep away from his narcisstic parents I personally think the whole family is messed up if you ask me.
If you were great "supply" theyll never you
Well he used to tell me he liked everything about me. Im good as I am. Not sure what that means then 😂
Lee! My fiancee and I watch your content all the time. I do have a request. Have you taken the MBTI and do you know your personality type? If so, can you make a video seeing how it relates to narcissism?
I don’t have enough experience to make a long vid but I’m INTP
@@MentalHealness Dude, that's the same as me! I have not been diagnosed as a narcissist, but I do possess a lot of those ways. But it is crazy as I think a lot like you.
This all sounds like common behavior
Yes my ghost narc is gone
Lmao she used to make the BEST quesadillas!!
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He continues to gas lighting me and I go through the ups and downs of how he does me & finally I walk away...as soon as I think I'm completely over him here he comes...as soon as I completely stop the messages here he comes...oh yesssss he did the love bombing of this female and she was extra toxic and put him in jail and everything...so here he came back to me...then I hear his lies...but hear the truth from others tgat he gave her what I wanted and it back fired and here he comes love bombing me... SMH this is becoming a pattern...I have told him over & over that I am over him...he tells me aaawww thats so sweet... SMH