8:48 I just often feel like I don't enjoy motherhood at all. That it is not what I expected and the fact all the tantrums and boring horrible work is on me. I still feel so much guilt because if I'm touched out, exhausted and don't enjoy anything.
I am so grateful for the clarity this brought about parental rage and how it is unmet needs that we have. The second take away brought me to tears the moment that you spoke it. I have been identifying myself as a parent and nothing else for a couple years too long now. Being of selfless service, trying to compensate for what I felt like was a horrible beginning to a childhood for my son. Realizing now that I unintentionally only caused more damage by doing so 🥲 I am ready to discover who I am outside of being a mother, I don't fully know that part of myself and letting go of the grip I have seems beyond terrifying. Thank you both for your time, all the work that you have done and for being vulnerable and honest with us all to provide these resources and help as many parents as you can. 🙏💚
5:20 😞 dear God I forgot the nightmare that was COVID. I didn't even have an upstairs or downstairs. Just a two bedroom apartment with a newborn and a toddler.
In one year a child’s thoughts and feelings emotions and physical health habits will change when a parent figure is no longer in the picture. Now my question is why does it keep happening in different homes why is this behavior continue to be over look by social workers . No one is perfect so if they tells me you need to take this class or course and you follow through it and finish at the end of the day once is all said and done. I truly don’t know where to start how or what can I do to get the support I need I don’t feel guilty but I do see the challenges the children go through. I need someone one to guide me exactly what I need to do so I can show up after 3 years.
Yes its if u are hurting the child then it is being a quote on quote bad person. You don’t know how damaging it is in the receiving end. Just because you cant handle the emotion.
8:48 I just often feel like I don't enjoy motherhood at all. That it is not what I expected and the fact all the tantrums and boring horrible work is on me. I still feel so much guilt because if I'm touched out, exhausted and don't enjoy anything.
Gosh im so glad i live in this day and age where we have all these resources ,these conversations help soo much thank you ❤
I really needed to hear this, especially that it doesn't make you a bad person, just a person with unmet needs.
“We need energy to rationalize anxious thoughts.” I needed to repeat this here to help me remember. That hit home.
Thank you.
I am so grateful for the clarity this brought about parental rage and how it is unmet needs that we have. The second take away brought me to tears the moment that you spoke it. I have been identifying myself as a parent and nothing else for a couple years too long now. Being of selfless service, trying to compensate for what I felt like was a horrible beginning to a childhood for my son. Realizing now that I unintentionally only caused more damage by doing so 🥲 I am ready to discover who I am outside of being a mother, I don't fully know that part of myself and letting go of the grip I have seems beyond terrifying. Thank you both for your time, all the work that you have done and for being vulnerable and honest with us all to provide these resources and help as many parents as you can. 🙏💚
5:20 😞 dear God I forgot the nightmare that was COVID. I didn't even have an upstairs or downstairs. Just a two bedroom apartment with a newborn and a toddler.
In one year a child’s thoughts and feelings emotions and physical health habits will change when a parent figure is no longer in the picture. Now my question is why does it keep happening in different homes why is this behavior continue to be over look by social workers . No one is perfect so if they tells me you need to take this class or course and you follow through it and finish at the end of the day once is all said and done. I truly don’t know where to start how or what can I do to get the support I need I don’t feel guilty but I do see the challenges the children go through. I need someone one to guide me exactly what I need to do so I can show up after 3 years.
Oh and thank you so much for putting also the subtitles ! : )
Wow 👏 I needed this ❤ thank you 😊
So helpful ! Thank you so much < 3
Yes its if u are hurting the child then it is being a quote on quote bad person. You don’t know how damaging it is in the receiving end. Just because you cant handle the emotion.
This is kind of hilarious because it’s to picture such a sweet-voiced British woman screaming in rage 😂😂😂 we’ve all been there
snap on roaring before
So so so true …. No skin