*More Men are "giving up" because we can see how rigged the game is.* If only I knew this in my 20s. I could have saved time, money & energy on something more rewarding.
@@robertenleed-q3r And if all the other women are doing it, they will too. That's something fashion designers know well. Women don't follow logic, they follow the crowd who is doing the 'in' thing.
What I dislike is that a lot of these jobs vvomen get are really just a veiled transfer of wealth. If your job is to go to a meeting and criticize something a man did, that you yourself are completely incapable of doing, is that really a job, or is it just a way to keep up appearances about equality and what not, at the expense of men? And once you start looking at what a lot of vvomen actually do in the workplace you can see there's a lot of that going on right now. At least I've seen it in the companies I've worked for, since most of them had quotas for vvomen.
And then to top it off, we have to be gaslight with things like women are still being oppressed, payed less money, workplace sexism is our of control and so on...
These job is to betray they have been doing it since eve… HR etc are all SNITCH REPORT DESTROY FINGER POINT positions EVIL and women live drama and betrayal
I strongly suspect my boss' secretary does fuck all at work, when I look at her I can just tell there is nothing going on upstairs. I also believe my boss hired her because of her looks (she's in her 40s and not even that pretty). One time she even tried to lecture us about the women's wage "gap".
@@Jaime-eg4eb You can’t rationalise with a person who is unwilling to rationalise. Women ‘s feelings don’t care for facts, and when everything turns to s**t - because of their stupidity - they take zero accountability.
I worked in a fashion store full of women. I was always the one doing 3 different positions at once at entry level; climbing up on the ladder and cleaning the toilets. I got no bonus but quite the opposite, just ridicule and called lazy. All the other colleagues (mostly female) were treated like babies and praised for nothing; just pretended to rearrange clothes and didn't talk to customers. That was the biggest wake-up call with DEI inequality (of young white men) I've ever had. Go where you're treated best.
I'm 46 fellas. Used to bodybuild in my 20s and early 30s until bad injuries ended it. Been married once. Did the dating thing. I feel for the young bucks out there who genuinely want to meet their significant other. What I have come to find out is most of us are just walking ATM's. However I've also found that most men really don't need a significant other to survive. I got to the point where I asked myself is pussy really worth all the other crap that comes with it??? The answer was no, no it is not. Gentlemen focus on yourself. If you have kids, make them your reason for living. Don't let society guilt trip you, make you feel less, etc. At the end of the day society isn't paying your bills. They aren't doing your job. Once you get control over your libido, nobody really has power over you anymore. Chin up fellas. We can get through whatever the hell life is. Let women drown in their material crap and credit card debt.
will never own a house/apartment will never marry will never have kids will never attain wealth will never be part of a community instead of looking at the our situation and having sympathy we are demonized and hated. let it all collapse!
I’ve given up on women many years ago and I’ll never be motivated to pursue them. Most millennials, gen-z and gen alpha males are just fed up of them. Marriage, having kids, relationships and even one night stands are all becoming less and less common. I don’t blame any man who prefers to be single.
I ain't gonna fuck with a woman that was hooking up with womanizer and pieces of shits as they are man eaters I do desire a good woman that later on I will test to see if she's worthy of my kids and will love me as much as she will love them and can't false me
@@FactsCountdownI choose not be that and actually at first no I didn't but thats a long story anyhow I tested them on media and glad I've never hooked up with any of these man eaters th at have wi th u womanizers I will be a virgin tell the one opposite of yall in the same body Wana come along ill make sure of it to
men are giving up because their efforts are never respected by society and women. we are forced to operate in a society that does not care about us. we're judged on what we have, not who we are. it honestly does feel like a waste of time. my life as a man consists of walks, isolation, feeling useless, and going out to meals by myself. it's peaceful but very lonely
@@elenahauser6617 Women only need to take care of themselves and be kind (or at least keep up an act of being kind). Those are the only things women are asked to do besides the obvious of having kids and taking care of kids.
@@elenahauser6617Women get cash and prizes just for existing. You also get pats on the head and claps on the back just for existing. Sick of hearing the complaints of those who live life on easy mode
I got a security officer job on an industrial site, this Karen landlord tried to be my boss directly. She tried to turn me into the site litter picker, traffic ticket warden, and her personal assistant - doing the jobs she should be doing. I got no support from my manager directly because they feared losing the contract (they lost it anyway), so I started to challenge her directly, and she became more of a c**t. I realised I was dealing with a very dangerous Karen who’d have you up in court for the drop of a hat, so I decided to leave. She was an absolute nightmare who wasn’t just hated by everyone on that site, but every other site she “managed”.
the game is rigged but it won't stop me from fighting for a better future, be a spectator n sit n drink beer and be a pussy and a coward, or be a fucking man about it.
@@TheOneAndOnlycE not being afraid and depressed, there's nothing to do to better the outside world until we better our inner world, get to know yourself and the source of what makes you a scared depressed negative shell and learn to see through it, what are you doing? if your another week cunt professing that grabbing a beer and just watching it all burn is the way then don't bother replying.
Men are not giving up. They are just doing what pleases them instead of doing what society says what it thinks men should do. Unfortunatly society is now feminist run, with feminist views. Men are simply saying no thanks. That is not giving up, it is just not playing that game.
Most men have given up because they don't want part of the system anymore. Who wants to work for a faceless company who pay you peanuts & don't care about you. Also women are hard work & we don't want anything to do with them anymore. Men are looking out for number one & concentrating on their own wellbeing, physically & mentally along with their own growth.
@@longstroker68 women are doing the same thing and they’re okay with their choices and independence also. These algorithms come into my feed because I find people trying to be conformists fascinating because I’ve always been true to my wants.
@@MatthewVanston I don’t live in Tic Tok world - I live my life in real time. Out of of 4.5 billion female humans, doesn’t mean they (several thousands tops) represent all females. Contrary to your delusions, women are living their full lives right now, and not giving a shit about what men think of them every minute of the day. It’s a new phenomenon vs past women centering men for financial reasons.
Female bosses are a nightmare, they try to act like men, but they're often acting out a parody of the worst fictional men you can imagine from film and television.
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Given up?! 😳 I sold everything and bought sailboats and now I live-aboard one just fishing. That's not giving up that's rebuilding my life. I now have a yearly cost of living of $3500, I can't be bothered to work, all I do is my hobbies! That's not giving up, that's upgrading!
I knew in 1997, at the age of 26, that my life was effectively over; and that the rest of the way would be nothing but passing the time until the end finally comes for me. I learned early on that there is nothing worthwhile in this world that is available to me. There is just no way around it when you are an unattractive, unpopular male. I watched as all of the spoiled white women around me advanced upwards in their lives' while still spitting contempt at me for being a white man.
Thomas, I recommend you read the Bible. After tons of torment, atheism, and realization that nothing I did here mattered, I finally found something worthwhile that lasts if I allowed Jesus into my heart. Edit: Also, established religions generally are not the same thing as being a Christian. Separate the churches and religions from being a follower of Christ. Most of them are corrupt self-serving institutions that do not actually fulfill the teachings of Christ. Though it can be very helpful if you find a good church, it is not necessary if you follow the Bible.
61, and it took me about 55 years to finally see the light. Stop making getting laid your primary focus in life. Sure, if you want to start a family a woman is required but otherwise, just look at how much drama, aggravation and financial burdens we are putting ourselves in just to have a relationship with them. The last 6 years of being single (I still get the desire to go on dates every now and then) has been the most fulfilling time of my existence. 100% of my net income goes directly to my wallet where I have 100% control of how it is spent. That, my brothers, neutralizes these Boss Babes who still want to follow traditional dating constructs (Men should pay for everything) while they continue to stack money for only themselves.
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I am one of those men "giving up" . In other peoples eyes anyways.Spent 20 years as a electrician, busting my gut and for what? Had my kids, relationship went to shit (on me,blue pill) Now i only do 2 or 3 nights a week, and spend my days exercising, biking sailing and spending time with my younger partner, i try to educate guys where i can on masculinity. My life rocks
Yep agree, I will walk by a woman I don't know having a heart attack rather that administer CPR since I may be sued. I will administer CPR to a man. I believe the term is reap what your sow.
Don't forget western societies increased immigration massively over the last 40 years while simultaneously outsourcing our manufacturing base to China. This left the average western man screwed.
guess i'm above average. i'm an immigrant from post ussr ukraine and doing pretty well in financial terms my reasons for walking away is women's attitude body counts lack of loyalty legal encouragement of divorce and the fact women were not around when i was poor now i don't wanna be their retirement ...not financial
MGTOW... it's not that bad, lads... take care of your health, finances, retirement options, and fellow men. We don't need women to be fulfilled and experience the fullness of life. 30% of men raise the offspring of other men and never know... this is all you need to know and understand.
@@stephaniepersin4222 Because the day they decide to stop supporting society and instead fight to topple the system, you'll be in for a world of hurt, lady. Most food production, industrial production, maintenance, law enforcement and national defense is handled by men. If they all decided to stop working, you'd have no food, no safety and no running water. Be careful what you wish for, lady.
because comparison is the thief of joy, there is men out there who get super hot women obsessed with them just by their looks, others just by their status, other by both, most men dont have the looks to begin with, and disappointments stack up until one cant handle any more disappointments, then giving up is the only way to not go insane
Just travel the world, man, cultural norms are different everywhere. Society is shit, but communities are cool. If you want to make money, read some books about money. Educate yourself. The world owes you nothing.
@@Pelanoras I don’t have many options other than escapism through video games, sleep, music, other hobbies. I’m a slave to my job because I’m not capable of anything else. I just go to work because I have to eat. Other than that, you can catch me not participating in this hell. The only thing that gets me through is the thought that one day this will all be over. Thank you for being polite and giving me uplifting advice instead of yelling and name calling like most people.
@@willyfisterbum7259 Don't limit yourself by saying you're not capable of anything else. Human beings are amazing and have the ability to adapt to any situation. If you live a pathological life, you create a pathological society. In this world, nobody really cares what you do in life, but they care that you are safe. Sadly, you have no choice than to participate in this “hell”, since you're already part of this “hell” why don't you give it your best. Don't let your potential be limited by other people's thoughts. Also, the money you make in the marketplace doesn't represent the value you have as a human being. Life is always the most precious. If you want to compete in the real world, decide early on in which market you want to enter and acquire the necessary skills. You are the designer of your own life. The best investment you can make is always in yourself. Your issues have nothing to do with other people. I wish you well.
@@jemhoare2105 Well you do have justice by court, equality of opportunity, security by police, and welfare programs. I don't know what country you're from. Remember that if you don't like the situation in your country, you can always leave for another one. Migration happens all the time.
The system is soulless and we are basically modern day slaves to a corrupt system. I am motivated and love to work hard but refuse to slave away or pay taxes to a corrupt system. Not to mention the men who also get screwed over by women or the courts. As men (especially native British men in Britain) we are the enemy of our own political elite who are supposed to represent us! We need a complete revolution and to spend our time and effort building a new system away from our current one. I believe it must be a spiritual movement that also starves our corrupt system. Stop working, paying the BBC, paying taxes, paying sky, etc and put our money toward the movement. Sadly I don't think people are up for the fight or are still brainwashed in our current system.
I agree with a lot of what you're saying mate. I've been thinking lately that the destination the west is heading towards is unstoppable. Maybe it would be better to go back a few steps and start over....but like you said, it won't happen. Not enough people have the minerals for that. So we have to come up with other ways. Make the system work for us as best as we can. Ideally, not alone. Try and connect with as many like-minded men as possible and see what can be achieved
I wouldn't say this is "our" system to begin with. The brainwashing didn't just happen, in the same way a dog doesn't just start leading the herd. There's a shepherd behind the scenes.
Other than getting a terminal illness and having that respect for life again I don't know why the fuck I'm waking up the world is not for me no reason to leave the house Aren't we already to die?
One thing became clear to me over a decade ago. Us men are programmed to believe our only value in life and only reason to be alive is to find a woman, get married and take care of her and kids sacrificing everything that we want and that makes us happy in the process. This is outdated thinking. This is your grandfather's life. The number one reason we are here is to make ourselves happy. Stop thinking you need a woman to be happy. Spend time alone. Do and pursue that which makes you happy and don't let any woman take that from you. If you decide at some point to add a woman in have expectations that she follows your rules for being a part of your life. Look at a woman like an accessory to your life, not like your reason for living. Only allow one in if they add to your life and want to be a part of it. Not if they totally try to change it. Men need to quit panicking and grasping the first woman they can... relax, enjoy, and make yourself your number one priority.
Its really kinda impressive how so many countries are following this same trend... i realized my best bet was to get my crap house paid off quick and enjoy my time alone. Its gonna get harder out there with fewer places to run to.
Yeah definitely feels like the walls are closing in somewhat. Where I am in Cyprus, 13 years ago it felt like a safe haven from a lot of that shite. But now, it's worse than a lot of places in some ways
Feminism has destroyed family and blokes have decided to sit on their hands rather than work hard and lose it all when a women gets fed up; what a suprise.! If I had my time over again I would get out of this country but at 70 and retired I can manage for a while at least, but my sights are set on other places, Iv'e had enough of the BS.
There is nothing to even give up on. What you thought existed was never real in the first place. A lot of men are simply accepting this reality which looks like giving up.
Maybe. But I don't think it will be a traditional collapse like in times gone by. I think the west will morph into something almost unrecognisable, which I actually think will be worse than what we already have!
I recently heard a man say that if he ever felt tempted to get married again, he'd prefer to just find a woman who hates his guts and buy a house for her. I think many men who have been through a divorce can relate.
I honestly think I have the answer. Well, something that would put a dent in their agenda. And that is simply to be a little more selfless and help one another out more. We’re all so wrapped up in ourselves selfishly that we don’t work together anymore. Everything is a means to an end and we need to get spirit back. Spirit for humanity and community. I think this is an insanely huge part of why we’re failing.
Agreed. The modern world makes us chase numbers on a screen. Numbers, numbers, numbers. We'll do anything for the numbers. We'll be evil to each other for the numbers. We might not be able to walk away from this system, but we can do our best to put dents in it.
I’m 43 I’ve never been with a woman and I’ve made the decision that unless I love someone then I think it’s ok to be with someone who also shows the same love back, but I’m not going to be with somebody just because there available because those women I have no feelings for and I don’t think that would be right to do. But at the age I’m at and the way things are going, I don’t want anyone now and I’m not interested in anyway shape or form. I’m happy to be alone and be able to do what I want when I want.
To accomplish your own purpose. Maybe it'll be within this game with different goals. Maybe it'll be a different game entirely. But having a general, adaptable principle or goal to strive towards can be pretty important.
This issue part of the a bigger problem. Since time began we've known life with masculine/feminine genders, now that notion has shifted. The world has changed negatively in many so ways. "The biggest threat to humanity is humanity itself"
Keep up this good work Ryan ; just to note everything is nothing ,you are in the universe and you are the universe nothing actually exsits only in your mind, thinking is dangerous to the mental health ,just be ,brother.
IT is really sad, sometimes I think to myself: "f@ck everyone and everything, I am on my own" and I don't think I am the only one, I honestly think this civilization is doomed .
You are on the right track. Focus on local community building, finding ways to be useful and respected by people you meet as you go about your daily life.
This is so true. I was able to raise a family of four children and wife (obviously) in seventies and eighties on one wage. I paid the full rent which eventually became a mortgage, and this was as a meter reader for the electricity board. Not exactly busted with money! However I did pay for it- try doing that these days on one wage. I haven’t the foggiest idea on what has really gone wrong.
What made the West great, the strong middle class, has slowly been eroded away by the elites and social engineers. That’s basically what happened. And it happened in front of our eyes.
A young man who does not get warmth and empathy from a society will grow up just to burn this same society to the ground to be able to feel some warmth.
There's a part of me that just wants to give up. I think about getting an easy job, working until I'm 65, and then collecting my pension. Then I may live the van life. It makes me upset that I have to work and study like hell just to get a decent job in America. I really don't know why the millions of migrants want to come here. Once the welfare money runs out, they'll have to get two jobs just to eat and pay the rent.
I saw this in a major company in the mid-eighties. All the major positions were held by women and of a particular tribe. The one I worked for was very unpleasant and would stand over me admonishing me in front of co-workers. Imagine the uproar if the situation was reversed. I’m so glad I’m out of the workforce and much older. Obviously, it’s worse now forty years later.
The last girl I wanted a serious relationship with died three weeks ago, and finding someone like her took me way too many years. Yes, it did hurt. It still hurts now, but meeting someone like her made me realise that you can find "a perfect girl" at some point. They are out there, but it can take you over 10 years to meet just one, and if you consider her "perfect", and not just "perfect for you" she probably is really good looking too, so 99% of men will be interested on her, which means that just meeting her isn't enough. In case you're curious: yes, I had something with her, and currently I'm feeling weird when I think of relationships. I don't think that having fun and being a bit more "selfish" with my time is giving up. This is the problem I have with most girls now: they are simply not worth giving up your life as a single man, and many of them think that they're 10/10s, special girls, worth 100% of your time. Basically, they're delusional.
Sorry to hear about your loss brother. I agree most aren't worth your time. But don't let this loss stop you from looking again in the future. Or maybe you won't look for someone, but you'll be open to her. That way, you won't let her leave your life as quickly as she came in because you weren't paying attention. Best of luck out there
I’m on the cusp of self deletion even with my spiritual practices and faith in place. This is a disgusting spiritual war that will unfortunately become way worse before it gets better. There is absolutely nothing wrong with self preservation or self deleting. I’ve lost many friends to self deletion, the best men I knew. I respected their decision and didn’t blame them once. I am unfortunately too non relatable in this world. I’m waiting for 1 more thing to set me off. Then, I’m joining the homies I miss dearly. I will disappear, never to be seen or heard from again.
not wise my friend, doing that only eliminates the chances for things to get better. Instead of trying to live to society's standards or expectations..........live for you and you only. I get it, self deletion seems like a release from hell, used to think about what a relief it would be all the time. However had to change my perspectivve on the matter. If the world wants to reject you, you can return that energy, better yourself and to become something that society fears but respect. Id rather listen to you all night than to hear that you have a funeral.
Don't do it buddy. You have more to give this world amd it will reward you if you allow it....connect with me more inside the community. We can talk there...
I appreciate your concerns, my friend. Though the road we are going down is Challenging, there are many things I enjoy during this human experience after all. Of course I would just be in a different plain of existence, I have more reasons for not eliminating this painful but Magically interesting and chaotic artificial experience than reasons to No longer experience it. I found my TRUE purpose to carry on this journey.
🤠 hey bub before you pull a Predator self detonator deletion please do 2 things, No 1 give me da pink slip and Kets to your Camaro or BMW Car, and No 2 Vote Trump on your mail in ballot and drop it in the mail before you arm the Predator Wristband self detonator.
I completely disagree with your assessment that men are "giving up", in fact I'd call it poor word choice. More like they are refusing to participate in a system that is clearly anathema to their progress. It's like everyone is ready to call young men "quitters" who are brave enough to do what older men don't and never had the balls to do themselves; stand up for men.
Bingo I'm glad someone else sees it.When men start prioritising themselves over the corrupt system it's a great thing.Its right that men choose a life that fulfils them not waste time in service to an ungrateful and corrupt society.
the problem is that all those ''self-improvers'' still think that their ''purpose'' (wtf...) is to ''be useful''. this is a recipe for becoming a slave to feminists sooner or later again
@joshb7326 women flake on you most of the time, and like in horror movies, they always trip over nothing! If you take a woman out for a date at least half the time you're with her, she will be taking off to a restroom! They drain a lot of your time and energy.
It's the guys fault if he allowed that, and if the man give concent than there is nothing wrong with that. Modern man or whining, no wonder now days woman don't want man that playing the victim role. Is a big turn of for woman.
Completely agree, I've been trying dating apps these past weeks and the experience is just horrendous, few matches and when you talk to the women in there it just feels like they are so entitled, like they have 100 other likes/matches in line they put absolutely zero effort in any conversation, now you might say ''well that can be a you thing maybe you just don't have interesting topics'' well, try it for yourself and you will see what I'm talking about, anything you say that doesn't amuse them the slightest they just ghost you, this just makes me want to give up on that it feels impossible
Very comprehensive presentation ! I also wonder how much the fear of being deboned like a chicken in the divorce court system has men gun shut? I have never been married but have seen the horrors of money sucking vampires
40+, no family, no career, no future. Waiting for my mom to pass, since I can't make her live through losing her son. Trying to improve in the meanwhile, but my health issues keep stacking up. NGMI. Sorry.
Same here over 40 no family of my own, my mother has passed recently , I do have a good family with brothers and my father , like you try and improve yourself is what my mother would like me to do as well.
I turn 40 next month and same. My mom's been through a lot, and I love her, so I wouldn't want to do anything drastic at the moment to myself. Mental issues and childhood trauma have certainly led to where my life is today. But even looking around at society, it truly feels like there's no hope anymore. It feels more like surviving instead of living. All the best to you, bro, and know that you're not alone.
Hello, I am 39 years old and I feel very good as a single man. 8 years ago I ended my last long-term relationship and since then nothing serious. i mean more than 5 to 8 months. it's just that women are not humble and claim authority, they set a bad example and everything ends. and those over 40 years simply do not exist for me because I have defined needs and desires. I am currently dedicated to renovating my 1st house which is now 100% mine and my new car. I am grateful to God for everything and I am glad that I can also help my parents. I wish you health and peace of mind above all. success
Crazy times we live in, definitely feeling like the options are getting less and less, for romance, for getting out of a hole spiritually, financially, worked like dogs for what amounts to less and less, and for what, so you can’t own anything, so you can’t even find a half decent partner and have a life with them, everything is a subscription service now, or rented, leased and financed, so a few ultra wealthy capital owners can continue to own and amass everything and be guaranteed continual revenue streams for services/products paid for in truth many times over. Absolute greed at its core and absolutely by design of institutions like the WEF and others of their ilk.
Yeah you've hit the nail on the head mate..all done by design, so the little guy gets fuxked, whilst the rich and powerful laugh all the way to the grave...
Why not look at all of this through a positive lens? Men are no longer burdened with performance. You don’t have to be what past generations had to be. Live for yourself. I’ve been single for 10 years because I’m the kind of person who likes to be alone. But I believe that those who aren’t can still live alone, enjoy their own company, or have those few cool friends or family members to talk to every now and then. Solitude and silence are very precious things. Embrace them and move on.
Really? There is a reason 99% or more can’t stand being alone - why do you think simping is out of control? Men can’t stand to be womanless - I barely even believe these statements tbh because I know what men are like in reality
@@James_36 The world has changed. Men can choose to stay the same or adapt, which doesn't have to be as extreme as my lifestyle because that's how I am. Living alone doesn't mean not having women or dates throughout life, it means knowing how to separate things.
Some truth here,back in the 80s a lot of men in mid 20s had a house,maybe a rather modest one but theirs.Thay had a partner and a kid.these men are not out causing trouble,they have a life Very little of that is true today.Dont blame women,blame crazy house prices and good paying"mens work" sent overseas.
@waynejohanson1083 I can't really speak for the 50s,born in 58,my parents thought those days pretty good.They rode into the 50s on bicycles and drove into the 60s in cars owning a home. I became a home owner in 1980,the bank might lend 3 years pay and 1 year partner pay.That wouldn't make a deposit these days.I think this is the driver of social stress and demographic decline,the woke, cultural stuff is derivative
yep, they are emancipated at our cost and theyre still the ones crying the loudest ive never seen a taliban woman making tiktoks about how bad their men are
before my ex's breakup with me, I remember she used to flex and brag about her job after having her apply getting accepted by the employer and SOMEHOW being able to drive without the bothering of authorities when she wasn't even 18 years old yet. she would humiliate me over all that, making me feel USELESS either for her own joy and confidence or to try to punish me with it, at that time I was already 18 years old and had to mostly focus on my house chores and studies instead of worrying for financial issues since my parents had my back so that I can be more confident with my education. I am truly disappointed and out of hope for not only my generation but for the future of humanity because things are getting weirder in mass as time passes by..... I just hope that things get better so that not only me but the rest of those like me can finally be able to breath and have a normal life without being judged or humiliated or dumped over literally nothing. god bless you all.
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Simple : No respect 4 mankind. The Juice isnt worth the squeeze anymore.
Feminism was always bad, is not about "equality", is about hate to men, in the past was like that and nowadays too.
@GeoffBaxter-c7n yeah that’s your “loving” Christian religion 🤪🤣🇺🇸
@Fireneedsair lol and Islam is an improvement 👏
@@onenation8707 lol. Get a brain
*More Men are "giving up" because we can see how rigged the game is.*
If only I knew this in my 20s.
I could have saved time, money & energy on something more rewarding.
Yes men are awake....much more than women in general. Women are lovers of the matrix. A huge red pill to swallow
@@robertenleed-q3r And if all the other women are doing it, they will too. That's something fashion designers know well. Women don't follow logic, they follow the crowd who is doing the 'in' thing.
@@adamkane7513 Trust me it took me 41 years to wise up-and a hard life. I am happy to go along my own path 😊.
@@adamkane7513 I knew that ages ago.
What I dislike is that a lot of these jobs vvomen get are really just a veiled transfer of wealth. If your job is to go to a meeting and criticize something a man did, that you yourself are completely incapable of doing, is that really a job, or is it just a way to keep up appearances about equality and what not, at the expense of men? And once you start looking at what a lot of vvomen actually do in the workplace you can see there's a lot of that going on right now. At least I've seen it in the companies I've worked for, since most of them had quotas for vvomen.
And then to top it off, we have to be gaslight with things like women are still being oppressed, payed less money, workplace sexism is our of control and so on...
These job is to betray they have been doing it since eve… HR etc are all SNITCH REPORT DESTROY FINGER POINT positions EVIL and women live drama and betrayal
I strongly suspect my boss' secretary does fuck all at work, when I look at her I can just tell there is nothing going on upstairs. I also believe my boss hired her because of her looks (she's in her 40s and not even that pretty). One time she even tried to lecture us about the women's wage "gap".
@@Jaime-eg4eb You can’t rationalise with a person who is unwilling to rationalise. Women ‘s feelings don’t care for facts, and when everything turns to s**t - because of their stupidity - they take zero accountability.
I worked in a fashion store full of women. I was always the one doing 3 different positions at once at entry level; climbing up on the ladder and cleaning the toilets.
I got no bonus but quite the opposite, just ridicule and called lazy.
All the other colleagues (mostly female) were treated like babies and praised for nothing; just pretended to rearrange clothes and didn't talk to customers.
That was the biggest wake-up call with DEI inequality (of young white men) I've ever had.
Go where you're treated best.
No girlfriends, no wives, most importantly no children, no reason to no give up. It's that simple really.
I'm 46 fellas. Used to bodybuild in my 20s and early 30s until bad injuries ended it. Been married once. Did the dating thing. I feel for the young bucks out there who genuinely want to meet their significant other. What I have come to find out is most of us are just walking ATM's. However I've also found that most men really don't need a significant other to survive. I got to the point where I asked myself is pussy really worth all the other crap that comes with it??? The answer was no, no it is not. Gentlemen focus on yourself. If you have kids, make them your reason for living. Don't let society guilt trip you, make you feel less, etc. At the end of the day society isn't paying your bills. They aren't doing your job. Once you get control over your libido, nobody really has power over you anymore. Chin up fellas. We can get through whatever the hell life is. Let women drown in their material crap and credit card debt.
will never own a house/apartment
will never marry
will never have kids
will never attain wealth
will never be part of a community
instead of looking at the our situation and having sympathy we are demonized and hated. let it all collapse!
Men prioritising themselves is not "giving up." Get the framing right
This society doesn’t even feel worth being in anymore
True
I’ve given up on women many years ago and I’ll never be motivated to pursue them. Most millennials, gen-z and gen alpha males are just fed up of them. Marriage, having kids, relationships and even one night stands are all becoming less and less common. I don’t blame any man who prefers to be single.
Same here man, men are just ATM machine in today's world
I ain't gonna fuck with a woman that was hooking up with womanizer and pieces of shits as they are man eaters I do desire a good woman that later on I will test to see if she's worthy of my kids and will love me as much as she will love them and can't false me
@@FactsCountdownI choose not be that and actually at first no I didn't but thats a long story anyhow I tested them on media and glad I've never hooked up with any of these man eaters th at have wi th u womanizers I will be a virgin tell the one opposite of yall in the same body Wana come along ill make sure of it to
You guys are just tryna crush my hopes and ets distractions I ain't like yall and don't desire what yall did just fuck rouns
men are giving up because their efforts are never respected by society and women. we are forced to operate in a society that does not care about us. we're judged on what we have, not who we are. it honestly does feel like a waste of time. my life as a man consists of walks, isolation, feeling useless, and going out to meals by myself. it's peaceful but very lonely
@@elenahauser6617 then make your own video about it
@@elenahauser6617 Women only need to take care of themselves and be kind (or at least keep up an act of being kind). Those are the only things women are asked to do besides the obvious of having kids and taking care of kids.
Very true that we are judged by what we do and not who we are. The good ones see past the titles, money and status. Just not enough around...
@@elenahauser6617 And yet hundreds if not thousands of women on OF and Twitch make big bucks, more so than male models or streamers.
@@elenahauser6617Women get cash and prizes just for existing.
You also get pats on the head and claps on the back just for existing.
Sick of hearing the complaints of those who live life on easy mode
My two reasons:
1. Damned if I DO
2. Damned if I DON'T
FTW!
I got a security officer job on an industrial site, this Karen landlord tried to be my boss directly. She tried to turn me into the site litter picker, traffic ticket warden, and her personal assistant - doing the jobs she should be doing. I got no support from my manager directly because they feared losing the contract (they lost it anyway), so I started to challenge her directly, and she became more of a c**t. I realised I was dealing with a very dangerous Karen who’d have you up in court for the drop of a hat, so I decided to leave. She was an absolute nightmare who wasn’t just hated by everyone on that site, but every other site she “managed”.
The game is rigged so we don't play it. Grab a beer and watch the world burn is my mentality.
I understand the sentiment behind watching everything burn
but there are 24 hours in a day
how to cope?
the game is rigged but it won't stop me from fighting for a better future, be a spectator n sit n drink beer and be a pussy and a coward, or be a fucking man about it.
@@TheLeon1032 what are you personally doing to fight for a better future?
@@TheOneAndOnlycE not being afraid and depressed, there's nothing to do to better the outside world until we better our inner world, get to know yourself and the source of what makes you a scared depressed negative shell and learn to see through it, what are you doing? if your another week cunt professing that grabbing a beer and just watching it all burn is the way then don't bother replying.
@williepie
I like you, do you like the band Deicide?
A lot of this started 50 years ago with the emergence of creditism, global debt, and computers; and accelerated since 2007.
Men are not giving up. They are just doing what pleases them instead of doing what society says what it thinks men should do. Unfortunatly society is now feminist run, with feminist views. Men are simply saying no thanks. That is not giving up, it is just not playing that game.
Yes the wise one are indeed. And this is why I preach never giving up on yourself. Fuck all thr other crap, of you so choose. But never give up on you
Yea I wouldn't even wrap it and put it where u guys been no thank yah
Most men have given up because they don't want part of the system anymore. Who wants to work for a faceless company who pay you peanuts & don't care about you. Also women are hard work & we don't want anything to do with them anymore.
Men are looking out for number one & concentrating on their own wellbeing, physically & mentally along with their own growth.
and the outcome is lessWbaybees
all going toplan
@@Porkypies6munfortunately our women are easily manipulated
@@longstroker68 women are doing the same thing and they’re okay with their choices and independence also. These algorithms come into my feed because I find people trying to be conformists fascinating because I’ve always been true to my wants.
@@stephaniepersin4222 No they're not. The thousands of TikTok videos of all those women crying about not finding a man to settle down with proves it.
@@MatthewVanston I don’t live in Tic Tok world - I live my life in real time. Out of of 4.5 billion female humans, doesn’t mean they (several thousands tops) represent all females. Contrary to your delusions, women are living their full lives right now, and not giving a shit about what men think of them every minute of the day. It’s a new phenomenon vs past women centering men for financial reasons.
I’ll be retiring in the Philippines. It’s a whole different world there. Men are highly valued and respected.
My dad is doing the same next year. He loves it out there
I also heard Thailand is another great spot. I gotta check 'em both out when I finally get the chance!
@@buckfiden1776 The perfect world might be to live in Thailand with a Filipina. 😉
Female bosses are a nightmare, they try to act like men, but they're often acting out a parody of the worst fictional men you can imagine from film and television.
Even most women who have had male and female bosses, say they prefer male bosses
@@Strider9655 had a female boss years ago she was the right hand of Satan,she literally tried to break me and steal my soul . NEVER AGAIN
No purpose, no hope, don't even care anymore. Sit back, grab a drink, and watch the world burn.
mood
Most of it will slowly grind to a halt, in the dark....
Tjaaa
Bez odpowiednich wartości w życiu większość ludzi odpowiada jak ty kolego , ale rozumiem ciebie
Wszyscy wymagają
Nikt nie chce zrozumieć
A elity na szczycie mają w poważaniu los innych
Dopóki nic im nie grozi dotąd mają los planety w dupie
I'm a 55 year old guy who is just putting in time until I die. That's what life feels like, a job and I'm watching the clock until I punch out.
44, I feel the same.
Poor unsung hero.
Investigate bitcoin my friend. You won't regret it.
... and it hurts.
Yeah, I feel like we just have to wait out our time and then we get to "leave"
Given up?! 😳
I sold everything and bought sailboats and now I live-aboard one just fishing. That's not giving up that's rebuilding my life. I now have a yearly cost of living of $3500, I can't be bothered to work, all I do is my hobbies! That's not giving up, that's upgrading!
Yeah man, that's figuring put a way to adapt and make it work for you. You've done good brother
I hear you brother , i am buying my boat next month, my dog and me will be fishing and talking those walks on the beach the 304s all dream off.
Women will vote to transfer the fruit of your labor to themselves.
I knew in 1997, at the age of 26, that my life was effectively over; and that the rest of the way would be nothing but passing the time until the end finally comes for me. I learned early on that there is nothing worthwhile in this world that is available to me. There is just no way around it when you are an unattractive, unpopular male. I watched as all of the spoiled white women around me advanced upwards in their lives' while still spitting contempt at me for being a white man.
Thomas, I recommend you read the Bible. After tons of torment, atheism, and realization that nothing I did here mattered, I finally found something worthwhile that lasts if I allowed Jesus into my heart.
Edit: Also, established religions generally are not the same thing as being a Christian. Separate the churches and religions from being a follower of Christ. Most of them are corrupt self-serving institutions that do not actually fulfill the teachings of Christ. Though it can be very helpful if you find a good church, it is not necessary if you follow the Bible.
I'll hold onto my resources. The top ten percent can have the drama and chaos. I'll enjoy my peace and quiet.
These days, it seems more likely you'll win the lottery than find a good woman, so every time you get the urge to date, buy a scratch ticket instead.
Well said
61, and it took me about 55 years to finally see the light. Stop making getting laid your primary focus in life. Sure, if you want to start a family a woman is required but otherwise, just look at how much drama, aggravation and financial burdens we are putting ourselves in just to have a relationship with them.
The last 6 years of being single (I still get the desire to go on dates every now and then) has been the most fulfilling time of my existence. 100% of my net income goes directly to my wallet where I have 100% control of how it is spent. That, my brothers, neutralizes these Boss Babes who still want to follow traditional dating constructs (Men should pay for everything) while they continue to stack money for only themselves.
michael bayson.----''' happy ahhh born with bigg irish ear's as it keeps me a virgin, as zero females can stand been in public with ''Joker's like me- Sean O'Dwyer.- 136- 140 Hobson Street.- Auckland city. 1010.- New zealand.- South pacific.''
Just subscribed..this subject needs to be recognised more in society.
I am one of those men "giving up" . In other peoples eyes anyways.Spent 20 years as a electrician, busting my gut and for what? Had my kids, relationship went to shit (on me,blue pill)
Now i only do 2 or 3 nights a week, and spend my days exercising, biking sailing and spending time with my younger partner, i try to educate guys where i can on masculinity.
My life rocks
Glad to hear you've turned it around mate. And very happy to hear you're helping the younger generation. We need a lot more of that going on
I lost faith in women the moment they sued men for saving their lives.
Yep agree,
I will walk by a woman I don't know having a heart attack rather that administer CPR since I may be sued.
I will administer CPR to a man.
I believe the term is reap what your sow.
Simple. Where is the reward? Where is the incentive? Why should i support a sick society, or sick women? Why should i work hard? For what benefit?
Strong, critically thinking Men are the real prize here. Back yourself in Fellas.
Hard times bring pressure but pressure makes diamonds.
If you're not chad or tyrone. You have near 0 chance with woman
Don't forget western societies increased immigration massively over the last 40 years while simultaneously outsourcing our manufacturing base to China. This left the average western man screwed.
guess i'm above average. i'm an immigrant from post ussr ukraine and doing pretty well in financial terms my reasons for walking away is women's attitude body counts lack of loyalty legal encouragement of divorce and the fact women were not around when i was poor now i don't wanna be their retirement ...not financial
and the taunting and abusive remarks from white women about this never seem to let up.
Keep Single & You’ll Never Be Ripped Off With Divorce.
I AGREE
The Only Way To Win The Game Is Not Playing.
MGTOW... it's not that bad, lads... take care of your health, finances, retirement options, and fellow men. We don't need women to be fulfilled and experience the fullness of life.
30% of men raise the offspring of other men and never know... this is all you need to know and understand.
A country full of disillusioned, disenfranchised men is a recipe for chaos.
@@polonium13 yet why should it be everyone else’s problem?
@@stephaniepersin4222 Because the day they decide to stop supporting society and instead fight to topple the system, you'll be in for a world of hurt, lady. Most food production, industrial production, maintenance, law enforcement and national defense is handled by men. If they all decided to stop working, you'd have no food, no safety and no running water. Be careful what you wish for, lady.
because comparison is the thief of joy, there is men out there who get super hot women obsessed with them just by their looks, others just by their status, other by both, most men dont have the looks to begin with, and disappointments stack up until one cant handle any more disappointments, then giving up is the only way to not go insane
Comparisons really is the thief of joy. And with social media, that problem is only getting worse...
@@Ryanhorganunfiltered yeah, i heard/read things i should've never heard/read, it really made me miserable and feel like a fking loser
DO MOAR GAP ANALYSIS NOW!!! 🤑🤑🤑
All we have as men now is to find peace within ourselves. Society doesn't value us anymore, so our spirit is all we have left now.
Society has taught me I am worthless and unvaluable. That’s fine society doesn’t want me I’m not gonna beg. Imma head out.
Just travel the world, man, cultural norms are different everywhere. Society is shit, but communities are cool. If you want to make money, read some books about money. Educate yourself. The world owes you nothing.
@@Pelanoras I don’t have many options other than escapism through video games, sleep, music, other hobbies. I’m a slave to my job because I’m not capable of anything else. I just go to work because I have to eat. Other than that, you can catch me not participating in this hell. The only thing that gets me through is the thought that one day this will all be over. Thank you for being polite and giving me uplifting advice instead of yelling and name calling like most people.
@@Pelanoras Society owes us keeping to its side of the social contract. Which it isn't.
@@willyfisterbum7259 Don't limit yourself by saying you're not capable of anything else. Human beings are amazing and have the ability to adapt to any situation. If you live a pathological life, you create a pathological society. In this world, nobody really cares what you do in life, but they care that you are safe. Sadly, you have no choice than to participate in this “hell”, since you're already part of this “hell” why don't you give it your best. Don't let your potential be limited by other people's thoughts. Also, the money you make in the marketplace doesn't represent the value you have as a human being. Life is always the most precious. If you want to compete in the real world, decide early on in which market you want to enter and acquire the necessary skills. You are the designer of your own life. The best investment you can make is always in yourself. Your issues have nothing to do with other people. I wish you well.
@@jemhoare2105 Well you do have justice by court, equality of opportunity, security by police, and welfare programs. I don't know what country you're from. Remember that if you don't like the situation in your country, you can always leave for another one. Migration happens all the time.
All jobs suck. No purpose to anything in this system. Only jobs that make sense is ones that actually help people.
100%
The system is soulless and we are basically modern day slaves to a corrupt system. I am motivated and love to work hard but refuse to slave away or pay taxes to a corrupt system. Not to mention the men who also get screwed over by women or the courts. As men (especially native British men in Britain) we are the enemy of our own political elite who are supposed to represent us!
We need a complete revolution and to spend our time and effort building a new system away from our current one. I believe it must be a spiritual movement that also starves our corrupt system. Stop working, paying the BBC, paying taxes, paying sky, etc and put our money toward the movement. Sadly I don't think people are up for the fight or are still brainwashed in our current system.
I agree with a lot of what you're saying mate. I've been thinking lately that the destination the west is heading towards is unstoppable. Maybe it would be better to go back a few steps and start over....but like you said, it won't happen. Not enough people have the minerals for that. So we have to come up with other ways. Make the system work for us as best as we can. Ideally, not alone. Try and connect with as many like-minded men as possible and see what can be achieved
I wouldn't say this is "our" system to begin with. The brainwashing didn't just happen, in the same way a dog doesn't just start leading the herd. There's a shepherd behind the scenes.
Other than getting a terminal illness and having that respect for life again I don't know why the fuck I'm waking up the world is not for me no reason to leave the house Aren't we already to die?
that's the psyop. They want us to feel that way because they want us all to die.
1. Respect yourself. Don't get respect from others
2. Be useful for yourself first.
I'm not giving up I'm just hiding.
Same.
😂😂😂wow
One thing became clear to me over a decade ago. Us men are programmed to believe our only value in life and only reason to be alive is to find a woman, get married and take care of her and kids sacrificing everything that we want and that makes us happy in the process. This is outdated thinking. This is your grandfather's life. The number one reason we are here is to make ourselves happy. Stop thinking you need a woman to be happy. Spend time alone. Do and pursue that which makes you happy and don't let any woman take that from you. If you decide at some point to add a woman in have expectations that she follows your rules for being a part of your life. Look at a woman like an accessory to your life, not like your reason for living. Only allow one in if they add to your life and want to be a part of it. Not if they totally try to change it. Men need to quit panicking and grasping the first woman they can... relax, enjoy, and make yourself your number one priority.
Couldn't agree more either this 👊
@@brob-zy8zi Until you reach an age where you're considered old and alone. I am old and alone. It's miserable.
Its really kinda impressive how so many countries are following this same trend... i realized my best bet was to get my crap house paid off quick and enjoy my time alone. Its gonna get harder out there with fewer places to run to.
It is a trend based on updated marriage law from the mid 70s. Look at German family law. The kick-off was a law from the 70s. Americans don't see it.
Yeah definitely feels like the walls are closing in somewhat. Where I am in Cyprus, 13 years ago it felt like a safe haven from a lot of that shite. But now, it's worse than a lot of places in some ways
It's called "soft power".
Why?
Playing games, manipulation, headaches and drama. It’s just not worth it anymore.
Feminism has destroyed family and blokes have decided to sit on their hands rather than work hard and lose it all when a women gets fed up; what a suprise.! If I had my time over again I would get out of this country but at 70 and retired I can manage for a while at least, but my sights are set on other places, Iv'e had enough of the BS.
My dad is approaching his retirement and the day he does, he's off to the Philippines. He can't stand what the west has become anymore
They have lost it Ryan women are in fantasy not actually reality
There is nothing to even give up on. What you thought existed was never real in the first place. A lot of men are simply accepting this reality which looks like giving up.
The question posed at the end. How do we solve this issue? Maybe the whole thing needs to completely fall apart before it can be rebuilt.
Maybe. But I don't think it will be a traditional collapse like in times gone by. I think the west will morph into something almost unrecognisable, which I actually think will be worse than what we already have!
@@RyanhorganunfilteredI hope you're right, I want men to have no option but to fight ⚡️
@@SocietalCollapseEnjoyeryes I been doing
@@SocietalCollapseEnjoyerspread awareness ets for man like me might be the only one
I would love to see the death of the internet and the smart phone.
I recently heard a man say that if he ever felt tempted to get married again, he'd prefer to just find a woman who hates his guts and buy a house for her. I think many men who have been through a divorce can relate.
They all low key hate us and their goal is to control and destroy. That’s why we quit caring
Lolhahaha
If working class chads like this are saying it then it’s huge
Zero job, houses are out of reach. What do men even have in this society. It’s sad out here
We're effectively in a depression
No job. No friends. No partner. Life is brutal.
I honestly think I have the answer. Well, something that would put a dent in their agenda. And that is simply to be a little more selfless and help one another out more. We’re all so wrapped up in ourselves selfishly that we don’t work together anymore. Everything is a means to an end and we need to get spirit back. Spirit for humanity and community. I think this is an insanely huge part of why we’re failing.
I totally agree. And do it without expecting anything in return. The powers that be have also facilitated this separation and selfish mindset
Agreed. The modern world makes us chase numbers on a screen. Numbers, numbers, numbers. We'll do anything for the numbers. We'll be evil to each other for the numbers.
We might not be able to walk away from this system, but we can do our best to put dents in it.
I’m 43 I’ve never been with a woman and I’ve made the decision that unless I love someone then I think it’s ok to be with someone who also shows the same love back, but I’m not going to be with somebody just because there available because those women I have no feelings for and I don’t think that would be right to do. But at the age I’m at and the way things are going, I don’t want anyone now and I’m not interested in anyway shape or form. I’m happy to be alone and be able to do what I want when I want.
Why play a rigged game?
To accomplish your own purpose. Maybe it'll be within this game with different goals. Maybe it'll be a different game entirely. But having a general, adaptable principle or goal to strive towards can be pretty important.
The casino always wins. Take your coins and keep them.
@@Thalanox it still won't get you laid bro
Amen
Top answer 👏
Thought provoking.
Great upload Mate!
🙏🙏
In order to feel useful, a man needs purpose. In order to be responsible, we need authority.
This issue part of the a bigger problem. Since time began we've known life with masculine/feminine genders, now that notion has shifted. The world has changed negatively in many so ways. "The biggest threat to humanity is humanity itself"
Magneto was right
It is unstoppable and women will never give up the opportunities it was given to them.
Keep up this good work Ryan ; just to note everything is nothing ,you are in the universe and you are the universe nothing actually exsits only in your mind, thinking is dangerous to the mental health ,just be ,brother.
@agnosticevolutionist3567 Humans evolved through thought processes.
Whatt do you mean stop thinking?
the system will collapse, there will be blood and those who survive will finally get to live life as it was intended to be
The real reset, not the wef reset
@@justadildeau yeah, but before the real reset comes, im afraid the wef will get a few years to rule
@@AbcDef-s7r can't wait.
IT is really sad, sometimes I think to myself: "f@ck everyone and everything, I am on my own" and I don't think I am the only one, I honestly think this civilization is doomed .
Its not civilization anymore
Record profits for all the big companies. It's not inflation
I totally agree recently divorced and staying single for the rest of my life. Feminism ruined everything.
Hoeflation and no fault divorce , entering into a relationship is a very dangerous thing for a hard working trad man who has assets
You are on the right track. Focus on local community building, finding ways to be useful and respected by people you meet as you go about your daily life.
Mens version of eat, pray love.
Hunt, heal, and harvest.
Talk to wise men and be kind to yourself.
This is so true. I was able to raise a family of four children and wife (obviously) in seventies and eighties on one wage. I paid the full rent which eventually became a mortgage, and this was as a meter reader for the electricity board. Not exactly busted with money! However I did pay for it- try doing that these days on one wage. I haven’t the foggiest idea on what has really gone wrong.
What made the West great, the strong middle class, has slowly been eroded away by the elites and social engineers. That’s basically what happened. And it happened in front of our eyes.
Unfettered capitalism imho
No fault divorce, single mothers and big brother telling men they aren't fit to raise their own children followed with a dose of child support.
Well I don't want this society to succeed.
A young man who does not get warmth and empathy from a society will grow up just to burn this same society to the ground to be able to feel some warmth.
We give up because the only way to beat this rigged game is by not playing anymore.
There's a part of me that just wants to give up. I think about getting an easy job, working until I'm 65, and then collecting my pension. Then I may live the van life. It makes me upset that I have to work and study like hell just to get a decent job in America. I really don't know why the millions of migrants want to come here. Once the welfare money runs out, they'll have to get two jobs just to eat and pay the rent.
6:00 Things could eventually balance out if we collectively stopped thinking all that matters in life is between a woman's legs.
I wouldn’t say giving up but just don’t have high expectations and hopes to be in a relationship.
I saw this in a major company in the mid-eighties. All the major positions were held by women and of a particular tribe. The one I worked for was very unpleasant and would stand over me admonishing me in front of co-workers. Imagine the uproar if the situation was reversed. I’m so glad I’m out of the workforce and much older. Obviously, it’s worse now forty years later.
Not giving up just boycotting soyciety.
I don't blame you!
The last girl I wanted a serious relationship with died three weeks ago, and finding someone like her took me way too many years. Yes, it did hurt. It still hurts now, but meeting someone like her made me realise that you can find "a perfect girl" at some point. They are out there, but it can take you over 10 years to meet just one, and if you consider her "perfect", and not just "perfect for you" she probably is really good looking too, so 99% of men will be interested on her, which means that just meeting her isn't enough. In case you're curious: yes, I had something with her, and currently I'm feeling weird when I think of relationships.
I don't think that having fun and being a bit more "selfish" with my time is giving up. This is the problem I have with most girls now: they are simply not worth giving up your life as a single man, and many of them think that they're 10/10s, special girls, worth 100% of your time. Basically, they're delusional.
Sorry to hear about your loss brother. I agree most aren't worth your time. But don't let this loss stop you from looking again in the future. Or maybe you won't look for someone, but you'll be open to her. That way, you won't let her leave your life as quickly as she came in because you weren't paying attention. Best of luck out there
Men are lost in todays world😮😢😮😢
The world is lost
Not me
More men need to discover mgtow.
Exit the West first.
If I could pick one word to describe the downfall of the West and it's many issues.
It would be the word "greed"
🙏
THIS!!
I’m on the cusp of self deletion even with my spiritual practices and faith in place. This is a disgusting spiritual war that will unfortunately become way worse before it gets better.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with self preservation or self deleting. I’ve lost many friends to self deletion, the best men I knew.
I respected their decision and didn’t blame them once. I am unfortunately too non relatable in this world. I’m waiting for 1 more thing to set me off. Then, I’m joining the homies I miss dearly.
I will disappear, never to be seen or heard from again.
not wise my friend, doing that only eliminates the chances for things to get better. Instead of trying to live to society's standards or expectations..........live for you and you only. I get it, self deletion seems like a release from hell, used to think about what a relief it would be all the time. However had to change my perspectivve on the matter. If the world wants to reject you, you can return that energy, better yourself and to become something that society fears but respect. Id rather listen to you all night than to hear that you have a funeral.
Don't do it buddy. You have more to give this world amd it will reward you if you allow it....connect with me more inside the community. We can talk there...
I appreciate your concerns, my friend.
Though the road we are going down is
Challenging, there are many things I enjoy
during this human experience after all.
Of course I would just be in a different
plain of existence, I have more reasons
for not eliminating this painful but
Magically interesting and chaotic
artificial experience than reasons to
No longer experience it. I found my
TRUE purpose to carry on this journey.
@@coreyondavis6032the writing is on the wall
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I completely disagree with your assessment that men are "giving up", in fact I'd call it poor word choice. More like they are refusing to participate in a system that is clearly anathema to their progress. It's like everyone is ready to call young men "quitters" who are brave enough to do what older men don't and never had the balls to do themselves; stand up for men.
Bingo I'm glad someone else sees it.When men start prioritising themselves over the corrupt system it's a great thing.Its right that men choose a life that fulfils them not waste time in service to an ungrateful and corrupt society.
the problem is that all those ''self-improvers'' still think that their ''purpose'' (wtf...) is to ''be useful''. this is a recipe for becoming a slave to feminists sooner or later again
Ive been rejected my whole life. Yes ive given up. Im undatable to women and i always have been
Don't worry you haven't missed much.
Yep...society doesn't want men? so they shall!
If you can afford it compensate by hiring a prostitute; it’s better than a girlfriend or a wife, because you still get to keep your freedom.
@@AustraliaUnmasked1984 makes me feel better
@joshb7326 women flake on you most of the time, and like in horror movies, they always trip over nothing!
If you take a woman out for a date at least half the time you're with her, she will be taking off to a restroom!
They drain a lot of your time and energy.
Women want to control men in a relationship. No thanks 😅
they take over a man's entire life
Men want to control women in a relationship. No thanks .😂
It's the guys fault if he allowed that, and if the man give concent than there is nothing wrong with that.
Modern man or whining, no wonder now days woman don't want man that playing the victim role. Is a big turn of for woman.
@@johnoconnell5875 we don’t need a men
@@Hoppahoppa1 stand up to your woman with your masculine self and then get drug out of your house by the Police.
Completely agree, I've been trying dating apps these past weeks and the experience is just horrendous, few matches and when you talk to the women in there it just feels like they are so entitled, like they have 100 other likes/matches in line they put absolutely zero effort in any conversation, now you might say ''well that can be a you thing maybe you just don't have interesting topics'' well, try it for yourself and you will see what I'm talking about, anything you say that doesn't amuse them the slightest they just ghost you, this just makes me want to give up on that it feels impossible
Yep I’m done. Gonna wack off and play video games for the next decade and then skedaddle
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Well said young man, this is all being driven/manipulated by the people in the shadows.
Very comprehensive presentation ! I also wonder how much the fear of being deboned like a chicken in the divorce court system has men gun shut? I have never been married but have seen the horrors of money sucking vampires
40+, no family, no career, no future.
Waiting for my mom to pass, since I can't make her live through losing her son. Trying to improve in the meanwhile, but my health issues keep stacking up. NGMI. Sorry.
Same here over 40 no family of my own, my mother has passed recently , I do have a good family with brothers and my father , like you try and improve yourself is what my mother would like me to do as well.
@@patrickrobinson545 I'm sorry for your loss, friend. I'm glad you have your brothers and dad to help you through it.
I turn 40 next month and same. My mom's been through a lot, and I love her, so I wouldn't want to do anything drastic at the moment to myself. Mental issues and childhood trauma have certainly led to where my life is today. But even looking around at society, it truly feels like there's no hope anymore. It feels more like surviving instead of living. All the best to you, bro, and know that you're not alone.
Damned if you do and damned if you don't.
Buy an X-box and some Beers 😂
Hello, I am 39 years old and I feel very good as a single man.
8 years ago I ended my last long-term relationship and since then nothing serious. i mean more than 5 to 8 months. it's just that women are not humble and claim authority, they set a bad example and everything ends. and those over 40 years simply do not exist for me because I have defined needs and desires. I am currently dedicated to renovating my 1st house which is now 100% mine and my new car. I am grateful to God for everything and I am glad that I can also help my parents. I wish you health and peace of mind above all. success
Crazy times we live in, definitely feeling like the options are getting less and less, for romance, for getting out of a hole spiritually, financially, worked like dogs for what amounts to less and less, and for what, so you can’t own anything, so you can’t even find a half decent partner and have a life with them, everything is a subscription service now, or rented, leased and financed, so a few ultra wealthy capital owners can continue to own and amass everything and be guaranteed continual revenue streams for services/products paid for in truth many times over. Absolute greed at its core and absolutely by design of institutions like the WEF and others of their ilk.
Yeah you've hit the nail on the head mate..all done by design, so the little guy gets fuxked, whilst the rich and powerful laugh all the way to the grave...
@@Ryanhorganunfiltered unfortunately so mate, just gotta keep chin up and focus on positive pursuits in the face of engineered adversity.
Why not look at all of this through a positive lens? Men are no longer burdened with performance. You don’t have to be what past generations had to be. Live for yourself. I’ve been single for 10 years because I’m the kind of person who likes to be alone. But I believe that those who aren’t can still live alone, enjoy their own company, or have those few cool friends or family members to talk to every now and then. Solitude and silence are very precious things. Embrace them and move on.
Really? There is a reason 99% or more can’t stand being alone - why do you think simping is out of control? Men can’t stand to be womanless - I barely even believe these statements tbh because I know what men are like in reality
@@James_36 The world has changed. Men can choose to stay the same or adapt, which doesn't have to be as extreme as my lifestyle because that's how I am. Living alone doesn't mean not having women or dates throughout life, it means knowing how to separate things.
Some truth here,back in the 80s a lot of men in mid 20s had a house,maybe a rather modest one but theirs.Thay had a partner and a kid.these men are not out causing trouble,they have a life
Very little of that is true today.Dont blame women,blame crazy house prices and good paying"mens work" sent overseas.
A lot of it is economic. In the 50's and 60's a man could go and get a job and provide for himself, his wife and his family. I miss those days.
@waynejohanson1083 I can't really speak for the 50s,born in 58,my parents thought those days pretty good.They rode into the 50s on bicycles and drove into the 60s in cars owning a home. I became a home owner in 1980,the bank might lend 3 years pay and 1 year partner pay.That wouldn't make a deposit these days.I think this is the driver of social stress and demographic decline,the woke, cultural stuff is derivative
This all started with the Frankfurt school
not to mention women don't even work as much on the job but get paid the same or more. making the money meaningless.
yep, they are emancipated at our cost and theyre still the ones crying the loudest
ive never seen a taliban woman making tiktoks about how bad their men are
@@AbcDef-s7r 'cause her man would execute her.
It is quite simple: Supply.
Women who are loyal, chaste, and virtuous are mythical.
If there is one, they are blinded by the lights.
before my ex's breakup with me, I remember she used to flex and brag about her job after having her apply getting accepted by the employer and SOMEHOW being able to drive without the bothering of authorities when she wasn't even 18 years old yet. she would humiliate me over all that, making me feel USELESS either for her own joy and confidence or to try to punish me with it, at that time I was already 18 years old and had to mostly focus on my house chores and studies instead of worrying for financial issues since my parents had my back so that I can be more confident with my education.
I am truly disappointed and out of hope for not only my generation but for the future of humanity because things are getting weirder in mass as time passes by..... I just hope that things get better so that not only me but the rest of those like me can finally be able to breath and have a normal life without being judged or humiliated or dumped over literally nothing.
god bless you all.