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Where is the video in the description to cultivate social circle? Man its so good the way you put together your videos. It fit my way of learning so much and It brings a hint that it is also your way of learning. This knowledge you are teaching its practically rotting and going with the dust. Keep at it man, thank you so much
Honestly I respect the guy that tries and fails miserably more than SO MANY dudes that wouldn’t even try. I used to be nervous as shit too at one point. It took a lot of rejections before I could learn to relax myself
At least he's starting somewhere. I remember these days when I first started game haha. Takes a lot of failures, but eventually you get better only if you don't give up Things to note, sexual attraction is everything. A woman will know if she sees you as a sexual option or just a cute friend or not attractive at all from the moment she meets you. Game is just a playful and flirtatious narrative to connect to the female creating comfort and if you really understand how to seduce women you can dom them through conversations intensifying the attraction. However understand it all starts from a psychical attraction standpoint, so get in that gym everyday guys. Also as you gain experience with this, you will immediately pick up on every girls energy, even your own. Its the masculine energy that pulls her. So you'll be able to tell with suddle behaviors of the female whether she's interested or not at all. No interest females you would just say "didn't mean to bother you, enjoy your day" something along those lines. An interested female will actually have a conversation almost effortlessly.
No dude these broads still play with your feelings even when you get the digits. I’m 6’0 200lbs I’ll say I’m attractive scale 8/10 And these broads still be texting me like jesters they are, I just block em and move on with my happy single life. They’re just attention whores. And the thing I don’t get is I always see these baddies with dudes that look like they came out from there moms basement playing video games. I still question why they give me a hard time while boys like that get them easily. Even though I don’t really care at the same time.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 you're real depressing.... At 6ft still taking this dating thing way to seriously 😂 First the guy is right, if she find your attractive, the conversation is will flow like water, if she's not interested, move on. Simple. If she starts to play games after the number, just stop writing her delete the number but again! Its not that serious 😂 In fact the women like that you'd want to avoid anyway, and don't you dare tell me its every women who is like this, because it's not. I've seen both side. The annoying hoe that just wants to text buddy and the girl who is serious about meeting up, that plays no games, dope date! With the sex being as dope, with no games, now explain her behavior with me, btw I'm definitely not 6ft like you, so please stop crying 🤦🏾♂️
@@MFKST Well, they were all flirty af and straight to the point saying if I had a gf and I said no she asked for my number and I gave it to them. Some of the girls texted first and most times I texted first. But the ending was the same it led to nothing I wanted to meet up with them and told them that threw texts. Then they started ignoring me and leaving me on read. I don’t know what I did wrong. And Ik it’s not that serious, it just bothers me why this always happens to me.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 bro it happens to every guy. I'm above average in looks, fit body not tall around 5'8. But I get hit on all the time. I get numbers every week and still experience the same flakes with girls you experience. I'm also Indian Ethnicity, meaning it's even harder in the dating world for me trying to date white, Spanish women. Race is important to females. This is just what dating is today due to social media. Understand that a lot of women who are interested just enjoy the moment of the interaction. Then when you text to schedule a date there interest is gone. What you need to do is gauge her interest level through texting in the beginning. If she's showing mutual interest you escalate it to calling to connect with her more. Then you set the date. But understand what I mentioned in the beginning majority of girls enjoy the feeling in the moment of meeting. Just work on areas you need to like not over texting, or pursuing. Sometimes it's not you bro, sometimes especially in this dating society it's women. Don't overthink it. Sometimes I take breaks from women. And just focus on the gym and my mental health. You seem to have the psychical aspects there to attract women but may be lacking in how to seduce them. I could be wrong. Just reflect on things you can improve on. Kyle shows good videos on how to seduce and escalate sexual tension. Seduction is a masculine vibe, that essentially dominates the girl verbally before the bedroom.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 nah bruh, I think those dudes that look like "gaymers" are probably simps trying to hook up with her just like you or they are their bfs, who don't even get 🐱 Whenever you see a woman with a fella ugly af and who has no game, no swag, she's using him for validation or settle for him because she couldn't got with the one she really wanted. You're just not as cool as you think, because looks matter of course, money matters and status matters but you gotta also have game, if you're that good looking, you have an incredible advantage over ugly ass dudes like me so don't waste it, being self conscious about yourself. Keep approaching and writing field reports, eventually you'll get to the point of your failure and then it'll be easier to solve it
Yeah thank you for saying that bro. It's like we have to be super cool and interesting all the time to get their attention while their answers are: yeh, no, hmmm
Well, if he wouldn’t have gone straight into interview mode without even introducing oneself , it would’ve worked out better. I could even feel some cringe
This video was the BEST advise I have heard from you (or any youtube coach) I have been advised. You did not only tell me what to do, you told me (and showed me), what not to do. It was like every sports coach, ever, sitting down the entire team a day after the game (win or loose) for break down on what was done right and what was done wrong. Thank you.
@@maximetouze9669 it depends Bro because since you came from another country, It increases your chances to pull more girls here. It is the same Idea me as a Brazilian approaching girls from the U.S, for example.
True, take a sociology class and learn that life is a series of learning to play different roles which combine to create a ‘self’. Be the person you want to be, fake it til you make it
At least the guy tried to make an effort. The girl was just giving him one worded answers and not asking anything back. I would of just said have a nice day 👋
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF It doesn't happen anymore but it's so tempting almost natural to validate someone who isn't interested in you. It's an instinct which must be overcome which I did.
It’s better to throw a positive complement like that in the beginning of an interaction, it helps set the tone for the rest of the convo in a positive light. If you wait until she’s reacting negatively and or uncomfortable, it won’t work.
He just wasn't her type. No amount of teasing and cold reads and negs or whatever other 'game' you like would have changed that interaction. Girls simply don't want to encourage guys who they aren't into (and so you get one word answers, sarcastic replies, ignoring you etc etc). It's a numbers game. Even for the 'best'
You have to have something to say but that takes confidence and creativity which most men lack. The only way to improve is through practice repeated trial and error.
She was not interested and kept the interaction going to record him. Do y'all see how manipulative women are? She used his naiveness against him. She could have rejected him right away but kept the interaction going to record him.
Of course that is female nature. In my opinion even if this guys game was good that type of woman was not worth it. Very uptight ego attitude goes as far to record him lmao you dont want to date that type of woman.
The sad thing is most women are like her nowadays. They look at you like you're an alien and are not interested unless you're 6'3, a celebrity or a millionaire.
Honestly it's embarrassing to say but I'm currently exactly like the guy in the intro. I never know/have anything to say when I'm talking to girls (even guys) and it almost always end up looking like that😩
She was simply not attracted to him.... Case closed.... A woman that's not initially attracted to you will make it very hard.... Move on to the next one
That's what I'm saying. It's so obvious when she looked at him nothing made her "tingle". She clearly did not find him physically attractive, and then his terrible interviewing approach was icing on the cake for how not attracted to him she was already.
He didn’t have any game but she seemed like she was being uptight just to make the guy look bad. If she was sexually attracted to the guy (game or not) she probably would’ve been the one acting nervous
@@CommandoMaster If the short and ugly guy is charming, funny and charismatic. He would have that girls digits in under a minute. Stop making excuses dude as to why it's impossible to succeed in game. Anyone can improve their game. It just takes time, discipline and improving ones communication skills. Women's attraction for men doesn't come from men's physical attractiveness by itself. It mainly comes from their "Personality".
@@CHAINDRIVER if that short charismatic dude would pull, then my short charismatic friend should pull that hot girl instead of me. looks are important,but not everything. stop lying to yourself that looks of a Man dont matter, they do. because somehow I end up with girls that my friends with better game try to pull.
It was a combination of his robotic game and her blank stare which screamed zero attraction, even a lambo parked outside wouldn't of saved him from rejection. As I preach to the young guys I mentor. Looks max, get a job in sales/forces You to approach strangers, and when you see a chick you like "Always shoot your shot". Some of the best pulls/long term FWBs I had, were shots I took with basically strangers. Yeah, I missed a few as well. However, timing can make all the difference. Sometimes you just happen to shoot at the right place in time. Which is why you don't leave the house looking like a scrub. A couple sprays of cologne and a nice fitted shirt, can add to the odds of you getting that girls number or not.
Very great job When you forcast the short clip in the middle of your video we can really see the difference in how thé interaction could have been different if he would have use your tips instead of being fucking cold where at the beggining we could assume that it’s the girl’s fault who dont give him nothing to work with but no ! You right, he opened her he should give her potencial hooks with a story telling !
Listen if you're ugly, financially broke, fat physique u need these advise. If you're rich, good looking and you have good physique then it'll be that girl who want to talk with you and you'll see that effort coming to you..
It’s best to keep pickup simple and short. You want to be able to have these girls around long term so it’s best to space your attraction out over time instead of just love bombing her as a stranger. Build comfort, familiarity and keep things positive. Every girl is different and every girl behaves/reacts differently. Once you get to know the girl and her sense of humor, of course.
Kyle hit us up with the fucking breakdowns man.It serves as this little practice or real time kind of scenario where you can fit yourself into it and see how to make it better.Oh and I realised you are only doing shorts now they be hitting hard as fuck …big ups
I believed you were going to hit me with some energy and say Saturday or something. Next week sounds like a playing it safe kind of thing.. risk it a little bit. You are definitely a Scorpio I just get that vibe
boys this is REALLY important: you definitely want to trigger a reaction in your open but from my experience, I wouldn’t say shit like “this looks like a boring ass job”. It’s too early to be that polarizing. Chances are she’ll probably agree but in the case where she actually likes the job, she’ll give you huge shit, something like “I actually like this job” in a very disgusted attitude. Vibe in the open and open up about yourself and be polarizing but in a non offensive way. Good example is like pineapple on pizza. If you don’t fuck with pineapple on pizza, that’s something you could easily tease her over like “no, you’re one of those people? I don’t know if I can keep talking to you”. No one can possibly get offended by liking pineapple on pizza or something non offensive like that. Be polarizing but don’t make it offensive. This mainly applies to the open though. Once you’ve built some interest, then you can be a little teasy, offensive because then she’ll already be invested and care about.
Essentially be polarizing in areas that have nothing to do with choices in her life IN THE BEGGINING. Don’t point out her job choice, lifestyle choice like if she works out or not, stuff like that
She seemed uninterested from the very start just by looking at him. In my opinion, these girls are not worth approaching and there is nothing you can say that will change their minds. Yes, he interviewed her but honestly the guy is probably tired of getting rejected and already has a feeling about the outcome by her bitter responses and facial expressions. Ive been in this situation before and i just walked off without saying anything. Not worth my time.
It's interesting that you recommend holding off on displaying intent. In my experience women will bounce very quickly if you don't let them know why you're talking to them and keep a good flirty vibe.
I personally wouldn't do the "let's hang out as a group" thing. Especially because I wouldn't want to do that anyway. I mean technically you could do that, get her contact, and then just ask her out regularly, and say that the group couldn't make it or something. Also, asking out someone you frequent regularly could work, but I wonder if the awkwardness would really be a big deal if she rejects? It probably wouldn't be, I would just go for it. I tried twice in my past, and both times they said they had a bf but it wasn't really awkward after. It would be way more awkward if you ended up dating, then broke up and had to see them again lol
That kinda brings me flashback when I was wid my crush… any advice on how to get ha back? Coach I know for a fact you’re reading comments…. How bout u help a lil brother out, I been supporting for a min.. would greatly preciate the look out! Much love Coach
The majority of women who you sleep with or see on multiple occasions, provided you’re displaying high value throughout the entirety of the interactions, will want to lock you down. That’s just part of female nature. Usually if a girl is fine with boundless amounts of casual sex, she has some trauma or major baggage regarding romantic relationships or commitment. Keep spinning the plate until she inevitably brings up the “what are we?” Conversation and play it from there. If you’re cool with a relationship, you have the most leverage in setting boundaries and expectations. If you don’t want a relationship, just be honest and let her decide if she wants to continue your current casual relationship or cut it off. Just don’t get into a relationship with a girl you don’t find compelling or valuable enough to deserve that effort from you.
it wasn't their game tbh. Firstly, it's likely she just wasn't into them/attracted. So it was never gonna go anywhere. But more importantly, she literalyl wanted to make a tiktok berating men. Even if some handsome stud approached her, she'd have very likely reacted the same. It will always look like 'bad game' when a girl is just giving you nothing to work (which will always be the case when she's not interested)
Too many options for girls these days. If you're not already experienced or really good at opening/conversation skills, then she's not gonna respond well. Plus using your established social media/clout to get her interested in actually meeting up with you, then you're gonna get rejected badly.
It was definitely his "game" or lack thereof, she started recording when she realized how weird he was being with the questions. Mind you, she was the only one working in the store, and she wasn't sure how he would react if she outright rejected him. That's mostly why she was acting the way she was.
@@shreddedguy679 I agree in general. If he was a chad she'd have went for it, but in that situation whilst she was making a tiktok waiting to be hit on so she could reject someone and post it, I think he'd have had the same result. And even without the whole tiktok thing, my point is that people always say 'oh, it was his game' when someone gets rejected when in fact, that's almost irrelevant lol. If a girl isn't into you, she will basically ignore you and give you nothing to work with, so to someone looking on it will always look like 'bad game'. No PUA in the world can get a girl who isn't into him. It's basically a marketing lie. You can't negotiate attraction. She basically decides before you've even finished your opener!
@@Zacksleeps 100% man, i agree with what you said, i can attest to that myself, ive gamed for years, i stopped for a couple years but now im back in it, but over the years of doing it my experience was exactly how you said, luckily im a pretty good looking guy and im in very good shape as i gym 5-6x a week, and what i can say is ive had interactions that went amazing but turned out she was just talking to talk to me, when i text they dont reply and in one instance the girl blocked me lol, but on the flipside ive had some dead interactions, platonic and in one case i slept with a girl on the same day as i approached her in daygame, and i can conclude in the same as you, it was easy because they thought i looked good, ultimately it comes down to that... the most honest way to sell game is to be upfront with men and also tell them to hit the gym and max out their physical appearance otherwise they wasting time, no point being a dancing monkey for random chicks
Asking for Instagram instead of a number is an automatic L, plus we all know she has Instagram Last time I had a girl insist on IG is because she had a boyfriend or I had her number and she had intentions of stalking my social media
Basically keep the conversation fun/engaging at the beginning. Don't ask too many boring interview questions. Then use your social media/friends/social status/clout to get her to come out with you on a group party invite to then get friendzoned later on because you're not actually trying to get her on a date 1 on 1. She just sees you as somebody to get some value out of. Also a lot of guys don't want to go out, get drunk/party. Stupid and a waste of time TBH.
Well that's his way of doing that. I guess if you really want high value relationship you gotta make some changes in your life or just hope for a chance that may never come. That's what I'm getting from all these videos
Game: open a girl with a bait question. Follow up if she seems uninterested. If she shows no effort, NEXT. I don't have time to be some dance monkey for some low interest girl.
The problem is as well as being a logical boring conversation the girl can't run away unless another customer comes. It's as if you're cornering the girl.
I'm gonna be honest it doesn't matter even if she wasn't into him from the get-go. It's not always gonna work out with every girl but the point of getting good at game is to not come off as a socially uncalibrated dude that's just goin around trying to get girls randomly but rather a charismatic social guy that's inviting girls into his life ... if she is interested/attracted/intrigued then great if not well it was a fun positive interaction ... the issue is that this guy seemed to be just blandly trying to get an "approach quota" met i.e. hot girl - approach - say words - get number - try to meet ... rather it should be hot girl - fun flirty vibe - approach and be positive - ask questions that are uniquely about her to get her hooked - pepper in jokes - then exchange info/build comfort - qualify a bit - screen a bit - suggest a date first subtly - if she bites then go through logistics and set up date - exchange info - parting words/set up some inside jokes or leave on a positive note so she is excited to see you ... Or alternatively if during the interaction or during screening she seems a bit uninterested just cut the conversation short and say nice to meet you and remember: be pleasant don't be salty she has no obligation to like you
Kyle, what do you think about giving that good compliment at the first instant. Then suddenly pulling back into a conversation? Is giving a compliment first appropriate? Then talking/flirting?
If you feel the desire to give that good compliment, then do it. You don’t need anyones permission to do something that comes from the heart. If you complement her and she acts like a bitch to you, then she ain’t the one to be around with bro
Games not tight but still I got more respect for the dude who at least tried than the recipient living life on easy mode looking like entitlement was a person. This is the attitude all men should have.
I get all the people saying the dude’s appearance is just not her type. I get it. But even that, if this dude was skillful and has a decent amount of game, he could have got her to reply much more positively. Not to mention, i’ve known some people in my life who dated partners that were at first not their type in terms of appearance.
Dunno why a lot of women do this A guy is trying his best to approach u even when he's nervous but for some reason, U feel the need to record and try to embarrass him on tik tok when U can just be nicer or just say no "Like I'm just trying to do my job" What the heck! like there was no need to post that She isn't worth his time tbh
It was game over she was already in a irritated mood and didn’t like him if bro was asking me these questions I would’ve showed some grace she didn’t give him shit to work with
I know this is an older video. But, I do these exact same things that this guy is doing with an interaction when I don't know the girl. And I can feel the girl wanting to walk away from the conversation, and for me, it's hard to get out of the logical mindset I have when talking to women. When you're used to it, it becomes easy to fall into it, and it's not good. Cause I don't get the responses I want.
Maybe slightly, but even if “Chad” asked those questions and in that manner, chances are it would have still gone no where lol. Props to the dude for trying, but it was atrocious. Game and charisma can be learned, its just uncomfortable at first which holds many people back.
I liked the video but i am not cold-approach guy, i mostly don't validate any girl and give a aspect of a mysterious guy, i only approach when a girl gives me a good signal of interest, thats when i start my initial investment on she and get her number.
Sometimes it isn’t about game but just knowing when a chick isn’t feeling you, if you don’t know how to read women you could be making things awkward by keep on trying when she clearly isn’t feeling you. Learn how to read people
@@ronevlogstv We're all feeling the looming threat of false allegations man! And there ain't just one to be afraid of, there's many! But I don't ask them their age. I just vet them to make sure they're not crazy, and most of them are!!!
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Kyle u should put the video in the description. The one about the social circle.
Where is the video in the description to cultivate social circle? Man its so good the way you put together your videos. It fit my way of learning so much and It brings a hint that it is also your way of learning. This knowledge you are teaching its practically rotting and going with the dust. Keep at it man, thank you so much
I hate it when these type of shet happens
Poor guy was probably nervous as shit, at least he tried. Most people wouldn’t say shit.
this tbh
the girl is the problem not him
@@zakariaslayer715 how dude was interogating her lame questions and no substance
@@kaeez Women do this exact same thing, their luck that i don't answer like this girl. The questions were creepy but so was she.
Honestly I respect the guy that tries and fails miserably more than SO MANY dudes that wouldn’t even try. I used to be nervous as shit too at one point. It took a lot of rejections before I could learn to relax myself
Game is a skillset, anyone can learn it if he is willing to put the effort and work hard. 🔥
Big Facts.
@@ifneverquitwasaperson 👍👑
nah it’s basically how you’ve been raised. if you don’t have game right now, it’ll take a very LONG time to develop
@@JhonnyStone100 yeah that’s what I meant, also u can learn fast by right type of guidance
@@KingCol 🙌👑
First lesson: Insult her job.
Thank you sensei!
lmfao
*drive forever starts playing*
At least he's starting somewhere. I remember these days when I first started game haha. Takes a lot of failures, but eventually you get better only if you don't give up
Things to note, sexual attraction is everything. A woman will know if she sees you as a sexual option or just a cute friend or not attractive at all from the moment she meets you. Game is just a playful and flirtatious narrative to connect to the female creating comfort and if you really understand how to seduce women you can dom them through conversations intensifying the attraction.
However understand it all starts from a psychical attraction standpoint, so get in that gym everyday guys. Also as you gain experience with this, you will immediately pick up on every girls energy, even your own. Its the masculine energy that pulls her. So you'll be able to tell with suddle behaviors of the female whether she's interested or not at all. No interest females you would just say "didn't mean to bother you, enjoy your day" something along those lines. An interested female will actually have a conversation almost effortlessly.
No dude these broads still play with your feelings even when you get the digits. I’m 6’0 200lbs I’ll say I’m attractive scale 8/10 And these broads still be texting me like jesters they are, I just block em and move on with my happy single life. They’re just attention whores. And the thing I don’t get is I always see these baddies with dudes that look like they came out from there moms basement playing video games. I still question why they give me a hard time while boys like that get them easily. Even though I don’t really care at the same time.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 you're real depressing.... At 6ft still taking this dating thing way to seriously 😂 First the guy is right, if she find your attractive, the conversation is will flow like water, if she's not interested, move on. Simple. If she starts to play games after the number, just stop writing her delete the number but again! Its not that serious 😂 In fact the women like that you'd want to avoid anyway, and don't you dare tell me its every women who is like this, because it's not. I've seen both side. The annoying hoe that just wants to text buddy and the girl who is serious about meeting up, that plays no games, dope date! With the sex being as dope, with no games, now explain her behavior with me, btw I'm definitely not 6ft like you, so please stop crying 🤦🏾♂️
@@MFKST Well, they were all flirty af and straight to the point saying if I had a gf and I said no she asked for my number and I gave it to them. Some of the girls texted first and most times I texted first. But the ending was the same it led to nothing I wanted to meet up with them and told them that threw texts. Then they started ignoring me and leaving me on read. I don’t know what I did wrong. And Ik it’s not that serious, it just bothers me why this always happens to me.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 bro it happens to every guy. I'm above average in looks, fit body not tall around 5'8. But I get hit on all the time. I get numbers every week and still experience the same flakes with girls you experience. I'm also Indian Ethnicity, meaning it's even harder in the dating world for me trying to date white, Spanish women. Race is important to females. This is just what dating is today due to social media.
Understand that a lot of women who are interested just enjoy the moment of the interaction. Then when you text to schedule a date there interest is gone. What you need to do is gauge her interest level through texting in the beginning. If she's showing mutual interest you escalate it to calling to connect with her more. Then you set the date. But understand what I mentioned in the beginning majority of girls enjoy the feeling in the moment of meeting. Just work on areas you need to like not over texting, or pursuing. Sometimes it's not you bro, sometimes especially in this dating society it's women. Don't overthink it. Sometimes I take breaks from women. And just focus on the gym and my mental health.
You seem to have the psychical aspects there to attract women but may be lacking in how to seduce them. I could be wrong. Just reflect on things you can improve on. Kyle shows good videos on how to seduce and escalate sexual tension. Seduction is a masculine vibe, that essentially dominates the girl verbally before the bedroom.
@@davidbetancourt1of1 nah bruh, I think those dudes that look like "gaymers" are probably simps trying to hook up with her just like you or they are their bfs, who don't even get 🐱
Whenever you see a woman with a fella ugly af and who has no game, no swag, she's using him for validation or settle for him because she couldn't got with the one she really wanted.
You're just not as cool as you think, because looks matter of course, money matters and status matters but you gotta also have game, if you're that good looking, you have an incredible advantage over ugly ass dudes like me so don't waste it, being self conscious about yourself.
Keep approaching and writing field reports, eventually you'll get to the point of your failure and then it'll be easier to solve it
I'm gonna be honest Kyle. Even if his game was tight, I don't think it wouldn't have mattered. This chick was just not into him
Yeah thank you for saying that bro. It's like we have to be super cool and interesting all the time to get their attention while their answers are: yeh, no, hmmm
Well, if he wouldn’t have gone straight into interview mode without even introducing oneself , it would’ve worked out better. I could even feel some cringe
Exactly
… she would have been. Had he displayed the correct behaviors. (Sufficient volume, eye contact, smiling, and commented on something)
That's not true my guy. Granted some chicks will be more into you than others naturally, but with the right approach and game you can win them over.
This video was the BEST advise I have heard from you (or any youtube coach) I have been advised. You did not only tell me what to do, you told me (and showed me), what not to do. It was like every sports coach, ever, sitting down the entire team a day after the game (win or loose) for break down on what was done right and what was done wrong. Thank you.
I'm from Brazil, I got to know your channel through the seductive nerd, and since then I've never left here.
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I’m going to brazil in a week isn’t it like super easy to get laid there? Like 10 girls for 1 dude or something like that
Papo reto
@@maximetouze9669 it depends Bro because since you came from another country, It increases your chances to pull more girls here. It is the same Idea me as a Brazilian approaching girls from the U.S, for example.
@@maximetouze9669 many Brazilians like gringos, come with the chat you can, here in Brazil it's not so difficult to develop
Boys , just fake a persona and learn acting, lines, life is a joke
Exactly, it's not that serious
True, take a sociology class and learn that life is a series of learning to play different roles which combine to create a ‘self’. Be the person you want to be, fake it til you make it
pretty much. just gotta think the brain can be what the brain wants to be. but has to act what it wants to be
At least the guy tried to make an effort. The girl was just giving him one worded answers and not asking anything back. I would of just said have a nice day 👋
Bro those questions are just too personal to just answer when u just meet someone like who tf goin to be interested lol
Not really personal, just kinda weird/boring.
Bad communication mess you up in other areas of your life.
Trying and failing is better then not trying at all
When he called her cute that was personally relatable, I have given that "last chance desperation compliment" hoping for something, it never works.
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
Dude do yourself a favor a write field reports, so it doesn't keep happening
@@Trump-A-Bad-MF It doesn't happen anymore but it's so tempting almost natural to validate someone who isn't interested in you. It's an instinct which must be overcome which I did.
It’s better to throw a positive complement like that in the beginning of an interaction, it helps set the tone for the rest of the convo in a positive light. If you wait until she’s reacting negatively and or uncomfortable, it won’t work.
He just wasn't her type. No amount of teasing and cold reads and negs or whatever other 'game' you like would have changed that interaction. Girls simply don't want to encourage guys who they aren't into (and so you get one word answers, sarcastic replies, ignoring you etc etc). It's a numbers game. Even for the 'best'
You have to have something to say but that takes confidence and creativity which most men lack. The only way to improve is through practice repeated trial and error.
Great video 🔥
lets gooo 💪🏼😎
that’s crazy 🤧
She was not interested and kept the interaction going to record him. Do y'all see how manipulative women are? She used his naiveness against him. She could have rejected him right away but kept the interaction going to record him.
Of course that is female nature. In my opinion even if this guys game was good that type of woman was not worth it. Very uptight ego attitude goes as far to record him lmao you dont want to date that type of woman.
The sad thing is most women are like her nowadays. They look at you like you're an alien and are not interested unless you're 6'3, a celebrity or a millionaire.
Honestly it's embarrassing to say but I'm currently exactly like the guy in the intro.
I never know/have anything to say when I'm talking to girls (even guys) and it almost always end up looking like that😩
She was simply not attracted to him.... Case closed.... A woman that's not initially attracted to you will make it very hard.... Move on to the next one
That's what I'm saying. It's so obvious when she looked at him nothing made her "tingle". She clearly did not find him physically attractive, and then his terrible interviewing approach was icing on the cake for how not attracted to him she was already.
He didn’t have any game but she seemed like she was being uptight just to make the guy look bad. If she was sexually attracted to the guy (game or not) she probably would’ve been the one acting nervous
Exactly. Game is either good or bad depending on the receiver interprets game. It's completely subjective
Short and ugly dudes know from experience that the girls will always be like this.
@@CommandoMaster If the short and ugly guy is charming, funny and charismatic. He would have that girls digits in under a minute. Stop making excuses dude as to why it's impossible to succeed in game.
Anyone can improve their game. It just takes time, discipline and improving ones communication skills. Women's attraction for men doesn't come from men's physical attractiveness by itself. It mainly comes from their "Personality".
Yep, she was recording it too
@@CHAINDRIVER if that short charismatic dude would pull, then my short charismatic friend should pull that hot girl instead of me. looks are important,but not everything. stop lying to yourself that looks of a Man dont matter, they do. because somehow I end up with girls that my friends with better game try to pull.
It was a combination of his robotic game and her blank stare which screamed zero attraction, even a lambo parked outside wouldn't of saved him from rejection. As I preach to the young guys I mentor. Looks max, get a job in sales/forces You to approach strangers, and when you see a chick you like "Always shoot your shot". Some of the best pulls/long term FWBs I had, were shots I took with basically strangers. Yeah, I missed a few as well. However, timing can make all the difference. Sometimes you just happen to shoot at the right place in time. Which is why you don't leave the house looking like a scrub. A couple sprays of cologne and a nice fitted shirt, can add to the odds of you getting that girls number or not.
Kyle you're one of the best, the delivery is flawless 👌
You are getting slimmer. I don’t think you needed it but..Looking good Coach K!
Very great job
When you forcast the short clip in the middle of your video we can really see the difference in how thé interaction could have been different if he would have use your tips instead of being fucking cold where at the beggining we could assume that it’s the girl’s fault who dont give him nothing to work with but no !
You right, he opened her he should give her potencial hooks with a story telling !
Listen if you're ugly, financially broke, fat physique u need these advise. If you're rich, good looking and you have good physique then it'll be that girl who want to talk with you and you'll see that effort coming to you..
It’s best to keep pickup simple and short. You want to be able to have these girls around long term so it’s best to space your attraction out over time instead of just love bombing her as a stranger. Build comfort, familiarity and keep things positive. Every girl is different and every girl behaves/reacts differently. Once you get to know the girl and her sense of humor, of course.
This dude's game is on another level
Kyle hit us up with the fucking breakdowns man.It serves as this little practice or real time kind of scenario where you can fit yourself into it and see how to make it better.Oh and I realised you are only doing shorts now they be hitting hard as fuck …big ups
longform contwnt coming back next week
I believed you were going to hit me with some energy and say Saturday or something. Next week sounds like a playing it safe kind of thing.. risk it a little bit. You are definitely a Scorpio I just get that vibe
Great vid man I’m definitely saving this one to the watch later playlist this is going to help my game out ALOT!!!🔥
Im glad I know your channel. This is essential knowledge
That was fucking phenomenal! I gotta have you on my podcast one day! The fans need this information
These are my favorite types of videos you do bro. Please continue with it
Great video. When i watch your videos I really feel that you burn for what you do and love it!
It’s so clear that she don’t wanna talk to him 😂
Not with that energy and boring questions lol
People acting like Master PUAs in the comment section and criticizing this nervous kid, at least he tried, I'm sure he will learn.
Coach Kyle literally the big bro we always dreamed of 😢 best advice
boys this is REALLY important: you definitely want to trigger a reaction in your open but from my experience, I wouldn’t say shit like “this looks like a boring ass job”. It’s too early to be that polarizing. Chances are she’ll probably agree but in the case where she actually likes the job, she’ll give you huge shit, something like “I actually like this job” in a very disgusted attitude. Vibe in the open and open up about yourself and be polarizing but in a non offensive way. Good example is like pineapple on pizza. If you don’t fuck with pineapple on pizza, that’s something you could easily tease her over like “no, you’re one of those people? I don’t know if I can keep talking to you”. No one can possibly get offended by liking pineapple on pizza or something non offensive like that. Be polarizing but don’t make it offensive. This mainly applies to the open though. Once you’ve built some interest, then you can be a little teasy, offensive because then she’ll already be invested and care about.
Essentially be polarizing in areas that have nothing to do with choices in her life IN THE BEGGINING. Don’t point out her job choice, lifestyle choice like if she works out or not, stuff like that
I mean would she rather work that job, or be flying to exotic places for FREE by rich/famous guys and partying all day?
@@redpopcorn2177 I would ask her questions that would determine if we have common interests. Otherwise, I wouldn't even bother
Thanks for the video Kyle! This is some high quality content that I can learn a lot from. Please share more!
I’m learning in Colombia.. sadly the only barrier is language besides that good vibes are there for sure
Nice bro… always wanted to go… how is it over there?
Thanks for this information Coach Kyle! Love your videos brotha!
Quality content for free! Love it.
The guy sounded creepy , sounded like he was asking stalker questions, she was correct to be cautious
Thank you, someone with sense! Yes he was clearly weird AF from watching the original video
It’s all about the energy
She seemed uninterested from the very start just by looking at him. In my opinion, these girls are not worth approaching and there is nothing you can say that will change their minds. Yes, he interviewed her but honestly the guy is probably tired of getting rejected and already has a feeling about the outcome by her bitter responses and facial expressions. Ive been in this situation before and i just walked off without saying anything. Not worth my time.
3:21 Great face expression with the mouth.😂
He said you wanna know my pin 😂😂😂😂
He didn't know what he was doin but I still give a little credit he had the guts to try and fail
It's interesting that you recommend holding off on displaying intent. In my experience women will bounce very quickly if you don't let them know why you're talking to them and keep a good flirty vibe.
I think they're saying you should build rapport first before displaying intent
it’s about keeping a good vibe why would she feel she needs to stop talking to you if your having a fun interesting convo
i display interest first because, wtf i look like building rapport first with every hot girl that walks by? i’m looking for cheeks, not friends 😂
@@JhonnyStone100 it’s not a bad thing to be personal 😁 i bet u get the most gerllllls mane
@@JhonnyStone100 personable*
I personally wouldn't do the "let's hang out as a group" thing. Especially because I wouldn't want to do that anyway. I mean technically you could do that, get her contact, and then just ask her out regularly, and say that the group couldn't make it or something. Also, asking out someone you frequent regularly could work, but I wonder if the awkwardness would really be a big deal if she rejects? It probably wouldn't be, I would just go for it. I tried twice in my past, and both times they said they had a bf but it wasn't really awkward after. It would be way more awkward if you ended up dating, then broke up and had to see them again lol
if she is showing moderate-high interest, i would just go for the 1on1.. the ig group invite is a calibration to soften it
That kinda brings me flashback when I was wid my crush… any advice on how to get ha back? Coach I know for a fact you’re reading comments…. How bout u help a lil brother out, I been supporting for a min.. would greatly preciate the look out! Much love Coach
Love actual examples like this thank youu bro
0:18 congratulations you were hired, welcome to the company
Nice video man.. Great content.. Quite a lot to take in.. Cheers man
Awesome vid!! Great analysis💯
I have no trouble getting girls at all but now the current problem i have is most girls want to escalate into something serious with me
The majority of women who you sleep with or see on multiple occasions, provided you’re displaying high value throughout the entirety of the interactions, will want to lock you down. That’s just part of female nature. Usually if a girl is fine with boundless amounts of casual sex, she has some trauma or major baggage regarding romantic relationships or commitment. Keep spinning the plate until she inevitably brings up the “what are we?” Conversation and play it from there. If you’re cool with a relationship, you have the most leverage in setting boundaries and expectations. If you don’t want a relationship, just be honest and let her decide if she wants to continue your current casual relationship or cut it off. Just don’t get into a relationship with a girl you don’t find compelling or valuable enough to deserve that effort from you.
Damn so much value in this video. Nice one Kyle 👍
Yea I think such a video is great !!! Loved it
it wasn't their game tbh. Firstly, it's likely she just wasn't into them/attracted. So it was never gonna go anywhere. But more importantly, she literalyl wanted to make a tiktok berating men. Even if some handsome stud approached her, she'd have very likely reacted the same. It will always look like 'bad game' when a girl is just giving you nothing to work (which will always be the case when she's not interested)
Too many options for girls these days. If you're not already experienced or really good at opening/conversation skills, then she's not gonna respond well. Plus using your established social media/clout to get her interested in actually meeting up with you, then you're gonna get rejected badly.
It was definitely his "game" or lack thereof, she started recording when she realized how weird he was being with the questions. Mind you, she was the only one working in the store, and she wasn't sure how he would react if she outright rejected him. That's mostly why she was acting the way she was.
nah if it was a chad she may have gone for it, its clear based on the way this dude was talking he probably wasnt that handsome lmao
@@shreddedguy679 I agree in general. If he was a chad she'd have went for it, but in that situation whilst she was making a tiktok waiting to be hit on so she could reject someone and post it, I think he'd have had the same result. And even without the whole tiktok thing, my point is that people always say 'oh, it was his game' when someone gets rejected when in fact, that's almost irrelevant lol. If a girl isn't into you, she will basically ignore you and give you nothing to work with, so to someone looking on it will always look like 'bad game'. No PUA in the world can get a girl who isn't into him. It's basically a marketing lie. You can't negotiate attraction. She basically decides before you've even finished your opener!
@@Zacksleeps 100% man, i agree with what you said, i can attest to that myself, ive gamed for years, i stopped for a couple years but now im back in it, but over the years of doing it my experience was exactly how you said, luckily im a pretty good looking guy and im in very good shape as i gym 5-6x a week, and what i can say is ive had interactions that went amazing but turned out she was just talking to talk to me, when i text they dont reply and in one instance the girl blocked me lol, but on the flipside ive had some dead interactions, platonic and in one case i slept with a girl on the same day as i approached her in daygame, and i can conclude in the same as you, it was easy because they thought i looked good, ultimately it comes down to that...
the most honest way to sell game is to be upfront with men and also tell them to hit the gym and max out their physical appearance otherwise they wasting time, no point being a dancing monkey for random chicks
chef kyle is back
Like South Park Chef?😂
He would have sung a little song.😅
If he was attractive it would be totally different story. Game comes second. The girl just wasnt interested in him
Valid point
Too many options for girls as well. Average/ugly guys don't deserve anything from her.
Love the breakdown and analysis
Asking for Instagram instead of a number is an automatic L, plus we all know she has Instagram
Last time I had a girl insist on IG is because she had a boyfriend or I had her number and she had intentions of stalking my social media
Let’s go another 🔥🔥🔥 video
Basically keep the conversation fun/engaging at the beginning. Don't ask too many boring interview questions. Then use your social media/friends/social status/clout to get her to come out with you on a group party invite to then get friendzoned later on because you're not actually trying to get her on a date 1 on 1. She just sees you as somebody to get some value out of. Also a lot of guys don't want to go out, get drunk/party. Stupid and a waste of time TBH.
Well that's his way of doing that. I guess if you really want high value relationship you gotta make some changes in your life or just hope for a chance that may never come. That's what I'm getting from all these videos
Game: open a girl with a bait question. Follow up if she seems uninterested. If she shows no effort, NEXT. I don't have time to be some dance monkey for some low interest girl.
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The problem is as well as being a logical boring conversation the girl can't run away unless another customer comes. It's as if you're cornering the girl.
I'm gonna be honest it doesn't matter even if she wasn't into him from the get-go. It's not always gonna work out with every girl but the point of getting good at game is to not come off as a socially uncalibrated dude that's just goin around trying to get girls randomly but rather a charismatic social guy that's inviting girls into his life ... if she is interested/attracted/intrigued then great if not well it was a fun positive interaction ... the issue is that this guy seemed to be just blandly trying to get an "approach quota" met i.e. hot girl - approach - say words - get number - try to meet ... rather it should be hot girl - fun flirty vibe - approach and be positive - ask questions that are uniquely about her to get her hooked - pepper in jokes - then exchange info/build comfort - qualify a bit - screen a bit - suggest a date first subtly - if she bites then go through logistics and set up date - exchange info - parting words/set up some inside jokes or leave on a positive note so she is excited to see you ... Or alternatively if during the interaction or during screening she seems a bit uninterested just cut the conversation short and say nice to meet you and remember: be pleasant don't be salty she has no obligation to like you
Kyle, what do you think about giving that good compliment at the first instant. Then suddenly pulling back into a conversation?
Is giving a compliment first appropriate? Then talking/flirting?
If you feel the desire to give that good compliment, then do it. You don’t need anyones permission to do something that comes from the heart. If you complement her and she acts like a bitch to you, then she ain’t the one to be around with bro
What is the best move to do when she says we're just friends (over texts) and pass this test ...
Bro ure stuck in the friendzone break contact and hustle in your life
@@nocap3 nah she's trying to get me in it
@@peepee_panda779 nah I'm sure she's just testing me how I would react ...
@@peepee_panda779 lol that's actually what I did
@@peepee_panda779 saying that you're the kind of person who can't be friend with girls lol 🤣
great stuff !!
For all we know this guy could be the smoothest dood of all time and he just got nervous haha and we are judging his one fail out of 10 successes
More of these please !!!
Games not tight but still I got more respect for the dude who at least tried than the recipient living life on easy mode looking like entitlement was a person.
This is the attitude all men should have.
What if I don't actually do anything interesting? I just work and then go home?
Work on yourself first then
Have an inreresring story prepared even of it's a lie
What he had to say was of no interest to her because he was the one saying it. She wouldn't have recorded it otherwise.
I get all the people saying the dude’s appearance is just not her type. I get it. But even that, if this dude was skillful and has a decent amount of game, he could have got her to reply much more positively. Not to mention, i’ve known some people in my life who dated partners that were at first not their type in terms of appearance.
I screenshot the video at 2:58 pure gold
She wasn't interested from the start. Even the best game in the world wouldn't wake her up.
Solid breakdown as usual 💯
Dunno why a lot of women do this
A guy is trying his best to approach u even when he's nervous but for some reason, U feel the need to record and try to embarrass him on tik tok when U can just be nicer or just say no
"Like I'm just trying to do my job"
What the heck! like there was no need to post that
She isn't worth his time tbh
Unrelated to game but could you make a video on your tattoos Kyle? They look fire
Keep up the good work👍
Can someone put this into some sort of summarised bullet form for me ?
I need to save that somewhere
Had the guy looked like Brad Pitt, she would probably have taught he had game...
It was game over she was already in a irritated mood and didn’t like him if bro was asking me these questions I would’ve showed some grace she didn’t give him shit to work with
Why did she have to expose bro like that just for social media?😂
Really asking her if she wants to know your pin😂😂😂😂 no game and wants to get frauded
Lol wtf seriously
its painfull watching that
I know this is an older video. But, I do these exact same things that this guy is doing with an interaction when I don't know the girl. And I can feel the girl wanting to walk away from the conversation, and for me, it's hard to get out of the logical mindset I have when talking to women. When you're used to it, it becomes easy to fall into it, and it's not good. Cause I don't get the responses I want.
Practice self amusement, don’t just go interview mode, do screening + qualifying/disqualifying but only after she’s accepted the intent
I cringed so bad, you got the best title for this clip "He has zero game"
If it was chad her answers would’ve been different.
Maybe slightly, but even if “Chad” asked those questions and in that manner, chances are it would have still gone no where lol. Props to the dude for trying, but it was atrocious. Game and charisma can be learned, its just uncomfortable at first which holds many people back.
🤦🏾♂️ If he was a regular guy who knew how to flirt she'd probably be attracted to him
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What's up Kyle!
I liked the video but i am not cold-approach guy, i mostly don't validate any girl and give a aspect of a mysterious guy, i only approach when a girl gives me a good signal of interest, thats when i start my initial investment on she and get her number.
Broo, shooters shoot
The classic sigma approach
This interaction was so hard to watch 😂
Coach wanted a video on direct game displaying intent right off the bat,is this ok to show intent in first 10 seconds of interaction
Sometimes it isn’t about game but just knowing when a chick isn’t feeling you, if you don’t know how to read women you could be making things awkward by keep on trying when she clearly isn’t feeling you. Learn how to read people
What if you ask her how she's doing and she didn't ask you back
Seems to me like homeboy might have just been a bit afraid of talking to jailbait by accident.
which is common. i be afraid of that too. so i ask every woman i approach their name and age.
@@ronevlogstv We're all feeling the looming threat of false allegations man!
And there ain't just one to be afraid of, there's many!
But I don't ask them their age. I just vet them to make sure they're not crazy, and most of them are!!!
@@SunshineSuperstar i only ask to see if its a healthy gap. last woman i approach was 28
@@ronevlogstv You do you bro. 👍🏻
That guy was so terrible, i laughed 🤣🤣🤣🇧🇷