When You Give a Narcissist the Silent Treatment, This Is How They'll React | NPD | Narcissism

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  • When You Give a Narcissist the Silent Treatment, This Is How They'll React | NPD | Narcissism
    Narcissists are particularly vulnerable because they interpret emotional displays as evidence of weakness and threat. It's likely that these adults' lack of emotional support from their parents as children has left them with a lifetime of difficulty putting their emotions into words. Furthermore, they believe that physical power is essential to earning the admiration of those around them. Is there really anything more debilitating than being unworthy of esteem and regard? NPD
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 48

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 Рік тому +20

    They hate being ignored ! They hate your silence ! They really just hate folks that don’t acknowledge them at all !

  • @ImpulsoCreativo9322
    @ImpulsoCreativo9322 Рік тому +31

    Thanks for your understanding. Many people call me immature for doing silent treatment ti my narcissist, but I need space and I'm sick of his lies and word salad.

    • @kellyann7877
      @kellyann7877 Рік тому +2

      I just try to be happy and live my own life. If he only knew I have no respect for him I just laugh at him and think yeah ok whatever big man lol so pathetic really

  • @sonicleaves
    @sonicleaves Рік тому +9

    Well, my husband called me every name in the book today and I'm so weak from having surgery, I just stayed silent and every time he speaks to me, I pretend he's invisible. You can't fight with someone who is silent. It deflates the argument completely.

    • @paulbennett9028
      @paulbennett9028 10 місяців тому

      My mother and i do this basically everyday its just not worth talking to him

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Рік тому +31

    Once a narcissist can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you.
    💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

    • @amandakropen3273
      @amandakropen3273 Рік тому +4

      But i don't care what her gossipy friends think! YAY!!!

  • @ShadowWarrior496
    @ShadowWarrior496 Рік тому +5

    A few years ago realised i was living with a narcissist who was giving me the silent treatment all the time and when i needed to talk to them about anything really they would get super defensive and stonewall me like no tomorrow. When it suited them though they would ambush me and i couldnt even get a word in. I eventually started giving them the silent treatment back which then eventually led them to disowning me as a friend and blaming me for everything after I moved out and we didnt talk for a long time.
    A few years later at a party they drunkenly spoke to me and told me they were getting help and apologised for her behaviour when we lived together.

    • @caryn9561
      @caryn9561 Місяць тому

      It usually runs in families mother son to daughter to even grandkids.

  • @amandakropen3273
    @amandakropen3273 Рік тому +37

    The sad part is that people actually believe the lies they tell about you.

    • @freeyourselfoftoxicity
      @freeyourselfoftoxicity Рік тому +9

      If what they say about you isn't true, don't worry about it. Who cares. Don't rely on people to validate you, let your fruits show who and what your character truly is. People prefer good character rather than fake ones. God bless and keep doing what's good and right, be yourself and be with people who really care about you. Even if it's just one person in the whole wide world. But, there's only one person who will never leave you or Forsake you and that's Jesus Christ. Try him, he will never fail us. God bless and take care.

    • @faithmpitso8041
      @faithmpitso8041 Рік тому +6

      Very true they're acting as victims

    • @ChooChoo_4u
      @ChooChoo_4u Рік тому +1

      @@freeyourselfoftoxicity You don't give Jesus a try. You serve him. There's a difference. Trying him is selfishness, while serving him is selfless. One says "what can Jesus do for me?" while the other says "what can I do for him?" Jesus doesn't need anything from anyone. Despite this fact he loved us enough to die for our sins so we can be with him. A person must repent of their sin, believe in their heart that Jesus is Lord and confess that belief with their mouth. You pick up your cross and follow him daily. That's way better than just giving him a try. I suggest you watch some of Ray Comfort's videos on evangelism because they really help sharpen a person to share the gospel. We want true converts not self centered false converts who are only in the faith for themselves and life enhancement.

    • @dixiewaller1379
      @dixiewaller1379 Рік тому

      Yes, unfortunately

    • @johncox6204
      @johncox6204 Рік тому

      Those are the people who you should want out of your life anyway, as painful as it may be.

  • @reallypeppers
    @reallypeppers Рік тому +12

    My narc physically assaulted me and stole my phone and tried smashing it on the ground.
    She did this in front of 20 of my coworkers.
    The company refuses to fire her.

    • @melissagreen_
      @melissagreen_ Рік тому

      Our workplaces are clearly run by narcissists and their enablers, otherwise this behaviour would never be tolerated.

    • @victorvondoom4882
      @victorvondoom4882 Рік тому +4

      Mine tried to make me go away,but she fired herself cause she couldn’t stand my no contact… and yes even my company did nothing to help me with all her abuses,i won this battle by myself

  • @mikeclark9073
    @mikeclark9073 Рік тому +2

    When you give a narcissist the silent treatment, they put handcuffs on you and take you to jail. Your opening monologue just described every police officer in the world.

  • @susanneedham2836
    @susanneedham2836 9 місяців тому +2

    It's got to the point of cutting off the person as there wicked actions nearly took a life. Pray for guidance 🙏.

  • @El-bz1tq
    @El-bz1tq 8 місяців тому +1

    Makes it very easy to use the silent treatment and call it protection.

  • @byronhooppaw6615
    @byronhooppaw6615 Місяць тому

    Great video! 14:02

  • @SuperNova-el3pk
    @SuperNova-el3pk Рік тому +5

    Silent protection ‼️‼️‼️

  • @cindycleland7026
    @cindycleland7026 Рік тому +3

    I am in a difficult situation with a narcissist/personally disorder grown daughter. I am 65 she is 35 and I have no relationship with her since I asked her to give me a break from her destructive behavior. 2 years ago She was picking holes in her skin that became infected she wouldn't shower for months and I couldn't watch her do it anymore. She was seeing a psychiatrist and psychologist that she liked, I took her to a dermatologist that told her she had to wash every day and it made her very mad. she went to live with her dad and his wife. She slowly cut me out of her life since then. Her dad got her on disability and an apartment, I don't think she has been out of it in over a year. she blocked me so I went to check on her and says how dare I come over uninvited. I am very sad about the loss of the relationship we once enjoyed. She was a happy child and told me she loved that I was a stay at home mom and was there for her and her older brother. I was "June Cleaver " they went to public school, played outside, we sat down to the dinner table every night and talked about anything the kids wanted. Her brother is very successful, I work fulltime and doing well by myself since the divorce when she was 15. She just fell apart and made so many poor choices after that, her own divorce, drugs etc.. What can I do NOW? I feel like I have a broken heart.

    • @amandabailey1876
      @amandabailey1876 Рік тому +1

      GOD, can only fix this situation. Pray, and continue to pray. When you pray, go in a private closet and close the door and speak to GOD how you are feeling, what upsets you, worries you, all of it!!Be willing to allocate the HOLY SPIRIT to come and confront you. If you have to cry, then cry, if you have to scream, then scream!! All answers will not come to you all at once, but it will come when GOD knows you are ready for the truth and accept the truth. I pray that this is helpful to you. A lot of times, we may have had truma in our own childhood that plays out in our adulthood and taught to one's we love and close to us. Remember, you are valuable, and everyone is responsible for their own behavior and accountability.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken Рік тому

      Hopefully the skin picking behaviour, reclusiveness & your daughters lack of hygiene habits are just symptoms brought on from her drug use & not from disturbed gratuitous mental illness behaviour.
      I'm thinking it has to be the former (considering that your son is successful). Drug addiction is totally treatable but your daughter has to do the independent, responsible thing & get treatment for it for her negative behaviours to subside.

  • @cherylthompson2731
    @cherylthompson2731 Рік тому +6

    Excellent explanation. Thank you.

  • @Micazasdebandito79
    @Micazasdebandito79 Рік тому +1

    You clarify it nicely.

  • @marlanaedwards5296
    @marlanaedwards5296 Рік тому +2

    Great advice!

  • @Sara-et8sn
    @Sara-et8sn Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @beverleyhayes2344
    @beverleyhayes2344 Рік тому

    Thanks you

  • @maureenbennett809
    @maureenbennett809 3 місяці тому

    Great!😁

  • @caryn9561
    @caryn9561 Місяць тому

    The narc does this also they ignore you.

  • @jonburrows9816
    @jonburrows9816 Рік тому +3

    4:11

  • @heartsongz9
    @heartsongz9 Рік тому +2

    Confusing

    • @sausage6984
      @sausage6984 Рік тому +1

      In a nutshell, Narcissists are emotionally dysfunctional (retarded) and emotionally unintelligent. Narcissists are broken so they try to break others to attempt to lower people under themselves. Narcissists are incredible fragile in terms of sensitive but incredibly strong manipulators.

  • @truthh8597
    @truthh8597 Рік тому +7

    Narcissists are the people who use silent treatment not empaths..

    • @justifiedfreely6715
      @justifiedfreely6715 Рік тому +2

      Exactly ❤correct

    • @chelseascott5872
      @chelseascott5872 Рік тому +7

      That's not true. If you have ever dealt with narcissists this is the only method that works. It's hard for empaths to do this as we don't wish to hurt anyone, still sometimes we must do that to stop a fight from escalating.

    • @crystalcolleen2686
      @crystalcolleen2686 Рік тому

      ​@@chelseascott5872 you are incorrect it's called no contact or using gray rock method. The silent treatment is punishment and used by an abuser to gain control. Look it up. No contact is enforcing boundaries which is a completely healthy response to an abuser. A healthy individual does not go silent as a form of punishment.

    • @RosmertaOfficial
      @RosmertaOfficial Рік тому

      They do it in retaliation.

  • @jonburrows9816
    @jonburrows9816 Рік тому

    3:30

  • @akalucinda8821
    @akalucinda8821 Рік тому

    You didn’t explain how a narcissist would react at all

  • @jonburrows9816
    @jonburrows9816 Рік тому +1

    4:54