Bill Burr & Joe Rogan - How to Deal With Chatty People
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- Опубліковано 24 бер 2023
- Bill Burr & Joe Rogan talk about how some people don't know when to stop talking. They do not care about how other people feel, their time, or if their stories don't go anywhere or even provide any entertainment value. Bill has a funny fantasy in his mind for such situations.
Podcast Name - Joe Rogan Experience
By Joe Rogan
#BillBurr #JoeRogan #VerbalWaterboarding - Комедії
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the coach won't put your son in the game.
I heard some dad say this after one of our games. his son was tall so he must be a good player right?
so I told him that we did not need his son in the game or else the coach would have put him in.
but if his son only comes to 1 of 3 trainings a week. no shit the other players will be working together better.
growing up without a father I didn't expect him to answer with a slap across my face.
wich made his son a complete outcast and quit the team a few weeks later.
my point is I'd never demand my son to play in the game if he doesn't earn it.
and liking is the first thing I do when I click on your videos.
@@KimboKG14 Like, what Dad? This broke up fast!
You the real deal, aite
Tryn'a be funny, are ya?
Shut your mouth bill burr assistant
This is hilarious coming from 2 of the “chattiest” people ever 😂😂
Rogan can't stop talking. Especially when you make 40 grand an ep. Have every moron in the world on.
But they provide entertainment value. That’s why they are mega stars and rich.
@@TrojansFirst no doubt. Still
Funny 😂
chattiest people? they're podcasters and stand up comedians, they HAVE to talk a lot, doesn't mean they're chatty
@@TrojansFirst bill burr is NOT a mega star. Joe is, but Bill definitely isn't. He's not even an A-lister.
Like George Carlin said. “ I like people, but I like them in short bursts. About a minute, minute and a half.” Sure enough that explains how I tolerate people too.
I think I have adopted that philosophy. George Carlin was a philosopher and a psychologist for the rest of us.
"You may not know this, for all the stuff I've said over the years... but I like people. (...)"
Imagine comparing George Carlin to Bill Burr.
@@jleffel6969 IMO, that's like comparing Pink Floyd to the Foo Fighters. Two very different amazing animals.
Lol that quotes perfect
“Verbal water boarding”
I am an introvert and I approve this message.
As a chatty extrovert myself, I found this to be very useful information.... and now I'm going to go hug my dog and cry.
It's okay. Lol. I'm the chatty person. I realized this in my 20's and it took my probably a whole year TRYING to focus and listen to people when they talk to me. I literally had to squint my eyes. If it wasn't for a good friend telling me I was selfish, I never would have snapped out of it. It's okay to have good conversation, but if you feel you need to fast talking and just flat listen to people, then do it. It's the best thing I've ever done, and my friendships are so much better now. People even noticed I had changed. Now after hugging your dog, hug yourself because I'm 100% sure you're an awesome person. We all need some work. Signing out, a chatty person :D.
Just be self-aware, not self-conscious, and you'll be ok.
@@ashleyhawkins9278 as a none chatty person i gotta ask, how do you just keep talking without having anything to say??
@@ashleyhawkins9278 At least you're self aware. The worst ones have no self awareness.
@@ashleyhawkins9278 I am glad you were able to change your behaviors and improve your relationships/conversations with people. I am an introvert who has adapted to the point where many would be surprised to learn I am an introvert (unless they knew me well). I can carry a conversation if needed, but LOATH meaningless chit chat. I HATE people who come up to me and just start vomiting words at my face about shit that doesn't matter (Hey, looks like its going to rain today. My kid saw your kid at school the other day. I just went to the doctor and they said I need to limit my sun exposure. or some other nothingness word salad). And the worst is when I try to add something to the conversation and that person is only interested in monologuing at my face. It is completely selfish. To me it is nothing more than verbally masterbaiting and forcing me to watch. I'm fine having conversations with people, I'm NOT fine being someone's captive audience while they jerk off to the sound of their own voice.
The older I get the more I appricate people who actually want to have a conversation. Where they talk but also listen. But it feels like half off the population is just there to say their shit and move on. Selfish behavior. We ain't talking if that's how you are. It took me my entire 20's to realize this.
Right there with ya.
*appreciate
@@PhilomathBret Dont be that guy. Resest the urg. let it go.😉
Great observation- I remember a former friend we’d sit down for 2 hours for lunch and he would talk for maybe 1.5 hours of it, maybe more. Very egotistical guy
@TheFreeThinkingRyan I will continue to be the guy that helps people look like they got through elementary school. You're welcome.
I have a friend like that who just doesn't pause & don't let anybody else talk... ohh man i can only hangout with him once a week at most & not more than that, otherwise i start to get intrusive thoughts lol
Yeah they won't shut the fuck up and they give you every detail... Even though 95 + % of his words are completely useless... And don't add to the story in any meaningful or interesting or humorous way.... Just like turn the lawn mower on in the kitchen letting that fucking run for an hour while you're trying to take a nap on a sof....
Once a week? Lol thats a fucking lot
On The Spectrum.
The desire to talk about every detail and then getting bored instantly when someone else is talking is a sign of Autism.
I've got a buddy that will run his mouth for hours, ask me questions, but then gets itchy when I start to answer him.
He will fill me in on his whole day including when and what he has eaten, and what the people who were with him ate lol.
Oddness aside, he's my best friend, he's fucking hilarious without even meaning it,
And he's got the heart of saint.
I love him like brother, truly.
I have a friend with aspergers most likely who is like that
Life's too short...
The level of projection of two of the chattiest people on the planet 😂.. unreal 👏 😂😂😂
You missed the point.
Can you be any more dense?
THANK YOU.
It’s called a joke… never mind @PoliClips
@@ianmackinlay8925 no it's not
worse than chatty people are people who feel like they have to be funny all the time!
Both are annoying because the 1st ones don't get that you do not want to listen to them and the others don't even know that they are not funny. Worst of it all is when they are laughing at their own joke which nobobdy gets but them....
That’s ol Billy red balls 😂😂
I am both lol
Omg
I have that problem. If the situation is tense and anxiety causing I have a tendency to try and be funny or lighten the mood, even in situations when that’s shouldn’t even remotely be a priority.
People who are actually willing -- and able -- to converse are rare. Most people just want an audience so they can hold forth ... and I suspect that Bill and Joe, beyond their professional capacities, are not exceptions.
Why can’t people just talk to themselves to get it all out then put it on someone else who doesn’t care about what you have to say
Joe's literal career is to have conversations haha, he has to be at least above the mean.
@@musicandpoetry_8 I'm also wondering about this. For some reason they need another human involved🤷♂
@@musicandpoetry_8you touched on a very rare ability. Self reflection is the term i believe. Most people need outside validation and encouragement for their behavior and thoughts. Hermits for example are natural at self reflection however most people are not hermits and it does not come naturally to them.
The worst is when customers treat a retail worker as a therapist and unload all of their issues on a stranger who is essentially trapped by being at work. But also alot of older folks are alone and lonely and you might be the only person they talk to that day or week. Treat em with kindness and respect cause one day that will be you
Trauma dumping. I work in a call center and this is the story of my life
I always stop and have a pleasant ten minute conversation with an elderly person and we get along fine. Then I beat them up and steal their money in the parking lot.
YEEEESSSSSS. I’m like bruh, I can feels my boss staring at me.
"Just running, just running away.. I don't want hurt him, the guys hurt by life" 😂😂😂😂
Everyone laughs at people like that until you see them on the news doing something horrible. Monsters are created, not born.
@@LS-ys8nrI think this kind of guy is way more mundane and subdued to go postal. Doesn’t have the imagination or mania to go insane 😂. Like bukowski said “Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead.”
My dad and me have an electrical company. Most and I mean most rich people we've done work for will talk and talk and tell you a 30 minute story and as soon as you are halfway through your sentence they just start talking to someone else or get on their phone or walk off.
The selfishness in our country is ridiculous. People get a little money and it's just blah blah blah blah.
You've just described the two rich narcissists talking to each other.
My mom had a pretty well off landlord and this guy would constantly brag about how much he paid for this and that. His whole entire life was made up about his possessions and how much money they were. He also had no problem going up on the rent $300 in two years, forcing my mother to move. Some humans are really sad people. I hope the hell I never get like that.
@@shrapnel77 damn man that sucks, dude sounds like a loser. Imagine having so much materially but being so empty the only way to fill yourself up is to do a public stocktake all year round
It’s sad how many people treat conversations as a means to hear themselves talk rather than actually absorb the perspective of the other person. Of course not every conversation needs to be deep, but as I get older I’m finding it harder and harder to start a dialogue with the people around me without it turning into them just vomiting random information that’s only half related to the subject.
I have a coworker who’s the nicest guy, but after 2 minutes of talking to him you realize he is just waiting for you to say a word that he recognizes and then he just cues himself in to tell you whatever bullshit he thinks he knows about the topic - which half the time it’s not even related to the point you were trying to arrive at. If I’m not talking with extremely simplified language & I can’t make my point in less than 10 seconds there’s no way the conversation is going to end up where you initially thought.
AWESOME synopsis! I've reached the stage where I asses the pro's vs cons of bothering to introduce a topic - if it's worth having it hi-jacked or not, usually not!
'This is MY idea, based on something I have been considering, and now all of a sudden YOU have ALL the answers based on a QUARTER of what it is I WAS going to talk about BEFORE you decided to UCKIN interrupt !'
So it’s only ok when YOU talk, and people should only respond the way YOU want? Maybe you should try listening too.
@@LS-ys8nr It's only ok when I get to talk? No, that's asinine. What I'm talking about is my own frustration being a conversational pushover and for years I have doubted myself. Active listening and genuine questions are great. Everybody should approach conversations from that angle, but many don't, and those are the folks who can be extremely draining to talk to.
Also when they NEVER get to the point 😂😂😂
LoL...People! They are everywhere. Gotta laugh and love 'em....from afar...but love. 🌱
I find it funny that Joe has the most popular podcast so these people he's talking about are like "oh so that's where I stand hey?" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
"So self-involved"... that's rich coming from these two. Verbal waterboarding... hilarious!
But by god at least they’re entertaining! I don’t understand someone who hogs the conversation mic and is boring, unfunny and has no interest in learning how to tell a good story.
billy ball breaker sure can crank out an EDM beat can't he
One of my favorite things in life is hearing Bill Burr make Joe Rogen laugh!
Funny how Joe did the exact same thing “just wait til you go to school”.
This is the stuff i watch to cheer me up.. billyboy and Joe.
Nothing drains my energy faster than chatty people who won’t let anyone else talk and tell stories in the longest most pointless way possible… 🫠
I know, right, anyway, so I tied an onion on my belt, which was the style at the time. There weren't any white onions back then, because of the war, the only ones you could get were those big yellow ones
@@richardhoare9963 😫😴😂
@@river-yuki My wife has a habit of doing this and it drives me nuts. She talks about our dogs or our kids sports to ANYONE and she has no social awareness regarding peoples interest level. So many times I see her good friends just gloss over but they are too polite to end the conversation or change the subject.
I have even tried to explain this to her and she gets super defensive and just turns it on me and how I am just an introvert who hates people in general so what do I know about social awareness........ Okay honey, keep verbally imprisoning every person who has the misfortune of walking past you in the hallway.
@@nickdipaolofan5948 I’m an introvert and get it thrown in my face a lot so I know how frustrating that must be when you’re trying to help her. My step father loves to talk and tells the longest most pointless stories adding every possible unnecessary detail and it drives me absolutely mental! Like he will tell a story from his past and not just say the year but also the month and what day of the week it was and try to figure out what time of the day it was and what the weather was like even if the story takes place indoors… I love him to bits so I try to be as patient as possible but he’ll come over and just start rattling off when I’m in the middle of something so I have to drop everything and wait for him to be done because he’s very sensitive and gets offended so easily that I can’t just say can you give me a second. Like if I’m cooking he will come into the kitchen and stand right in the way or like right now as I’m writing this he has interrupted me 3 times and I keep saying just let me finish responding to this lad but it’s like he doesn’t even hear me or just instantly forgets. It’s very frustrating at times and my mum has tried to tell him but he always gets super defensive and upset so I just hide in my room most of the time but then I get a bunch of shite for being such an introvert 😩😒 so I totally feel your pain and know the struggle of putting up with a chatterbox lol
@@river-yuki Oh my gosh I can relate to you with your step father!! My wives step dad is also just like that (maybe that is where she gets it from). When ever he comes over he just starts talking almost like he is in the middle of a story so I have zero context to what he is saying. Also he ONLY talks about crap that interests him or makes him look good but with zero regard to whether the person he is talking to is interested. For example, he constantly talks about his job (he has been retired for YEARS) and how great he was at it. Or he will talk about cars or some semi famous person he met at the airport. Even though I am an introvert, I have the ability to behave extroverted and carry conversations so I will engage with him but try to steer the conversation to a topic we both are interested in (we both like guns, both dabble in politics, etc) but he always just goes back to his monologue. That is when I realized that people like him and my wife are actually just selfish with this habit. They both fancy themselves "people persons" but to me they seem like they are just selfish people who want to verbally masterbait while forcing others to watch them, only the "completion" never arrives and the victims only escape when they are brave enough to say they have somewhere to be or it just gets late.
The most annoying part to me is these types really believe that they are social rock stars who are giving a performance to their fans......when really they are selfish and rarely have give and take conversations.
Verbal waterboarding- Classic!
So i have severe bipolar 1 disorder and it causes me to have rapid speech and ramble at times, depending on how stable my mind is at the time. The shitty part is i hate when people talk to much as well, but i just literally dont even notice that i am doing it until someone tells me i am. then i am able to realize to stop rambling, but its hard sometimes to know that im even doing it. So i feel like people think this about me all the time now. You just never know what people are going through, might seem like they are being annoying asshole, but in reality thats the last thing they are trying to be.
I have bipolar 2 and i also experience rapid speech and rambling, and I actually notice it myself sometimes mid-convo but I just can't seem to control it even tough i hate it lol.
@Wayne need to remember Joe is a masshole so that’s just how he is. What do you know Burr is too lol
Big breaths
Knowing the reason why someone is being irritating or annoying, doesn’t stop it from still being irritating and annoying.
Stop.
Neil deGrasse Tyson enters the chat... And then no one else gets a chance.
I was getting a visual of Bill as The Riddler when he started talking about the tape, LOL!!! >_
I usually dislike channels that are entirely comprised from stealing someone else’s work, but the ending of the videos with Bill’s EDM impression? I can’t help but respect this.
The irony of two guys who talk way too much shitting on people who talk too much 🤣
The techno at the end 🤣
I love the ones at work. That love to complain to each other about their lives while the rest of us work our asses off.
I spent the first 5 years of life learning how to talk and the next 5 decades learning when to shut up.
Someone other than me said that. Now I do too, lol...
Some folks are simply compulsive yammerers. It's like...they're thinking out loud and expecting you to somehow respond. I guess we all do this from time to time, sure, but with some it's especially obnoxious. Compulsive. Perhaps indicative of a profound lack of self awareness or maybe even a solipsistic understanding of their environment.
God it can be wearisome.
"You look like you just got shot and you're waiting for the ambulance."
lmao I love you Bill Burp
The outtro is everything😭😂😂😂😂
It's chatty ASF 😂
I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels anxious and annoyed by all those stranger parents talking nonsense about their kids and other stuff that I'm not interested in 😂
God forbid a fellow human being should try to bond with you. It must get lonely up there on your high horse
@@LS-ys8nr if someone is not interested in "bonding" with you, then you are just pushing yourself on them at that point and you are being an intrusive, selfish asshole, not a friend.
The best part is the intro.
my mum is like this. these days I wear noise cancelling headphones and let her go on, genuiniely talks for several hours uninterrupted about the most insubstantial mundane thing with no response.
Same, I once put my phone down on one of her rambles and took a shit. Came back and she's still going.
I love Tom Seguras bit about feeling poisoned. It's so accurate because for the first minute or so you feel fine and suddenly they switch topics and you felt like someone rufied your drink. Out of nowhere you feel like passing out
yea man same here, I tell her that her story has no value and no relevance and then she gets offended and screams at me
@ben sheard there's those moments where they switch subjects and you can tell they're going to be going on for a while..
@@jinxxintraffic I could never tell my grandma her stories have no relevance, but I'm starting to reframe it in my mind and I'm impressed that she can fire off all these random details about people she does not know but heard about from someone she was talking to.
Poor dude was probably just nervous talking to Joe Rogan.
I only watch these videos so I can hear the burr techno song at the end...
Thank em
Funny sketches 😂
danm it's a long time since bill was on the JRE last time.
My boss is like that. And I do exactly what Bill said (look straight ahead and don't engage) lol.
the way Joe said rambling. Lol
I barely "like" anything ten seconds in and I had to whoever is doing this is a legend, big ups
I have several friends/relatives that, for some reason, think that they have to dominate the entire time I'm around them. It bothers the sh*t out of me. I went to my friends house once to see him, and his wife, who never shuts up, talked constantly for almost an hour. When it was time to leave, I was so pissed off. My wife laughed once we got in the car and I told her that it was not funny. Why are some people like this?
Using the Wim Hof method. Not for ice .. or climbing a mountain but for “chatty” people 😂😂😂
I bet my family has this conversation about me! 😅
Some people know just the right amount to talk. Others… not so much. It’s a curse being a friendly person tbh lol
At the very beginning Bill was talking about how other parents say “just wait till”, Joe proceeds to say “just wait till” fucking hilarious.
I love chatty people - my office hours are dull as fuck and I love people who can chat and tell jokes to pass time
Yeah I don’t
@@christopheresson3158 thats fine. Do you prefer total silence?
The definition of 2 bullies
Nah, the rude ones are people who keep talking, you don't know them, and they think you care.
"Awkwardly" lol
that outro song is pretty cool
Great advice from two dudes who never stfu
Thanks for the video. I still don't know how to deal with chatty people, tho.
"You know you don't have to voice every single thought you have, right?"
Ear buds.
@@jsmithsemper4848 Ignoring is not dealing with, just like a simp is not a man.
@@em0_tion idk what that last part is but you’re absolutely right. Ignoring problems is a horrible idea.
@@jsmithsemper4848 Just a topical example, demonstrating that we need to be "brave", honest and direct with each other and state the truths and what's normal. "Yes, honey", "Sure, honey" and "fine" mentality is eroding our psyche and society. Little by little everything gets worse, because we give up, instead of fight against mediocrity. 😉
I know so many people this way . I can’t get out of a conversation. I need help ASAP 😂
As someone with adhd, and a rambler; it's physically painful when I get into rambling mode and I know it's happening only halfway though....then I just stop abruptly and try to switch to something that acually will engage the other person... sadly I would love if people kindly stopped my intrusive thoughts process by KINDLY redirect or remind me that I'm rambling too fast for both our brains...😅
Oh dude I thought I was the only one. The fact I wear ear defenders to soften my gfds voice plus I ramble all day is probably criminal.
For this reason i like super direct organized people that don't always get too caught up in my whirlwind of over excitement and wacky ideas
Joe RAMBLING! RAMBLING! about the guy rambling is glorious
Joe did exactly what billy described
“Friends who you would never wanna be friends with” -
“WELL UP YOURS, JOE ROGAN”
Oh the video of this is hilarious. The faces Rogan is making when he's talking like the guy he's quoting ("he's a good player, good player........OOOOOOOHHHHHHH!!!!!!!)
I was so sure there was a Pauly toon animated version of this. Cant find it anywhere!
With people like this I always think -you know what your days been like so why make ME suffer through it.
🤪
Lol how good is the outro!
I look at a chatty person in the eye....turn around and walk away. Most of the time they are too oblivious or too self absorbed to even understand why.
😂😂😂😂 this shit is so funny to me lmap
How would you feel if someone did that to you?
Rogan said something very important here that will likely be ignored by many; “I don’t want to hurt this guy - he’s been damaged by life”. Too bad most people can’t see that and you get BOTH extremes….
The chatty people who were run over so much by WORSE people controlling, criticizing, and questioning the living s-- out of them (creating an “explainer” hoping somebody finally f--- believes they used to have something to offer), and the opposite, “cool” person overconfident and talking over others with soundbites uttered as final… yet vague and very flawed.
Too bad the confident types usually get the most following, because the nervous damaged explainers were at one time the people who actually knew the truth, and wanted more understanding between everyone.
Almost all the crap you deal with that os annoying, to life-changing to global threatening, was EXPLAINED by those “chatty” people but you f--- MISSED it while being too cool. Then years later you think you and your buds are figuring it out, slightly high or drunk, shouting quips over each other feeling smart but still not quite gettibf 1:52 there.
They’ll even see my comment as “chatty”, and the cycle starts over again all because of style and stage.
If you or somebody had just given that person less judgement at an earlier age, they may have been someone we all see as those famous for wise thoughts instead of nervous and worrying about every word so they get lost in their own thoughts and aren’t sure how to deliver anymore.
Just remember we all had different experience. Don’t assume they could/should have been able to get out of it. Then I’ll REALLY know your intelligence.
Brother you have the most rambling podcast ive ever heard 🤣
I have a coworker that has no concept of other people’s time. All he wants to do is chitchat about unimportant things while you are working and he just won’t give you that break so you can tell him you need to go. I work in a big company and I’ve witnessed him trap people in the hallways for 30 minutes talking while they are leaning away and trying to continue their day. He’s a super nice guy but he doesn’t get it that people have jobs to do and don’t have time to stop and talk for so long.
If somebody randomly starts talking to me I tune them out then when there's a lull I say "oh I'm sorry were you talking to me?"
I’m chatty but you never left me lol
I swear there is a race of humans that are afraid they'll disappear if they stop talking.
conversation is exhausting
I’ll try imagine duck tape thing lol
Just hit em with a damn that’s crazy
Bill discussing how to deal chatty person with most chatty person on the internet
Bill is very chatty/ranty too lol
my dad is like that, ruined ppl and conversations for me
Rogan's kid's friend's dad is slowly dying listening to this..."I thought Joe Rogan was my friend!"
Why does he have the sharingon sound in his intro😂
This is their egos ranting 😂
Song in the intro?
''So.. That hitler guy huh, bad fella'' usually works for me in these situations
Dang how dare humans have the need to communicate.
Giant roll of duct tape... ✅
Videos like these make people not have friends and be too self-conscious
It was like this in the eighties, when my wife and I were raising our kids. Everybody's kid was a fucking genius.
Joe was spitting fire about Adam Carolla 😂
am i the only one who sees the irony? the irony being that both joe and bill talk for a living, and they both have looooonnng podcasts where they basically ramble for hours on end ? Like yeah, they're entertaining to listen to, since they're both professional comedians, and they've found a way to become good at rambling / make their rambling interesting to listen to.. but at the end of the day, don't they both just pretty much ramble about a bunch of shit 24/7?
Yes, but unlike the Chatty Cathies they're describing, they don't do their rambling at people who are clearly not interested in what they have to say. Whether they're performing in a venue or talking on a podcast, the only people they're talking to are an audience who have made a conscious decision to listen to them and are interested in what they have to say. If someone in the audience was not interested in listening to them, they could simply walk away.
The life of retail ownership has sapped my soul of these types bros lol
I don't want to hurt him, he's already hurt by life.
What angers me is when I’m
standing in a grocery line and the cashier and the person in front of me just having a casual conversation not trying to speed this line up, especially when I’m holding my groceries
On point with this 1
Nice, Bill Burr has a story about that scenario in this video
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OMG. That’s the worst.
Causes me rage.
Joe Rogan rambling about chimpazees and dmt is not exactly what i would call captivating
He doesn't make you listen
Imagine being Adam's dad and listening to this 😅
Funny shit …. I understand Joe’s pain … That’s over for me now thank God. 😅.
Us school teachers have to deal with parents like this. Oh the perks of the job.
The song in the intro. What is it?!?!
That's why I hate psychotherapy, I can't stand just talking about myself for an hour.
Thank you! I’m like that too. And I think it’s from being hated on for years, I don’t even feel comfortable talking much anymore
maybe some of these guys are super intimidated by having to make conversation with a mega succesful, super funny comic who has never shied away from saying how they only find other comics funny and don't relish talking to civilians. maybe it could be that?
Verbal water boarding 💀 I hate being hostage to uninteresting conversation
Bill has an obsession with how other parents do parenting