11 questions to ask a man to get to know him better, a summary: 1. What is the most important text message you’ve ever received? 2. How do you know you really like someone? 3. If you were a woman what type of man would you date? 4. If you had to give a speech with no time to prepare, what would you talk about? 5. What is the biggest animal you could defeat with no weapons? 6. If you could trave trough time only once, would you go to the past or the future? 7. Would you rather be extremely smart or extremely happy? 8. What content do you watch the most? 9. If something terrible happened to you, who would be the first person you’d call? 10. What is the most important lesson you’ll teach your children? 11. What is the best compliment a woman has ever given you? Don’t ask them all at once, otherwise he will feel like he’s being interrogated. The way you ask a question is sometimes more important than the question itself so keep it lighthearted :)
Thank you very much! You saved me so much time :) I had to re-watch the video and take notes. (Also I liked his expalantions. I recommend girls not to skip the video without watching it, after seeing the questions. Because some questions made sense only after listening his explanations .)
The best compliment someone ever gave me is that they said I have an elegant mind. Wow! I sill savour that compliment. I was a waitress and he was a customer, an elderly English gentleman who taught ESL. He said this after I explained to him a mind trick I did to motivate myself to give good service to a challenging customer. And he also recited Daffodils to me on another occasion. He had such a beautiful, mellifluous accent.
💎 Soaking this in. It has my mind gears rolling. I’m a question person big time and I have noticed how men light up at the opportunity to reveal themselves. I don’t know if it’s because our society uses men for a work horse only which leads to them not opening up what’s in their mind .. but I have almost always received appreciation when I ask open ended questions like this. So glad I have more now! Thank you so much!
You have given great advise in your past videos, but the advice you gave in this one in my estimation was the best yet. Keep up your fantastic work. From an 80 year old fan.
I stumbled on your channel and watched even though I’ve been married for 20+ years. The one about “what animal could you defeat bare-handed” I can answer for him. An alligator - because he had to! Cleaning a pond he and his buddy felt something brush by their legs and boom! Alligator!!! They got it. But oh, my goodness, even typing about it puts my stomach in knots. He’s actually kind of shy about telling it. So I tell it. :-)
FASCINATING! What a way to get to know someone!! I'm bookmaring this for my future. SOOO much better than the regular OBVIOUS questions that we are told will help us get to know someone. These are GREAT! I hope you come up with more... and if you do, I'm going to jot those down too!
Thank you so much To understand his value and intentions 1- what is the most important text message you have ever received? 2- how do you know you really like someone? 3- if you were a woman what type of man would you date? 4- if you had to give a speech with no time to prepare what would you talk about? 5- what is the biggest animal you can defeat without weapon 6- if you can travel through time would you go to future or past 7- would you prefer to be extremely happy or extremely smart? 8-what content you watch the most 9- if something terrible happened who would you call 10-what is the most important lesson you're gonna teach your children? 11- what is the best compliment a woman has given you?
Meantion some kind of power, ask him what he will do with it once acheived. Not money, but direct power that can affect other people. Do it when he seems pretty calm, and he is not distracted. If he considers you inferrior, he wont see you as a Challenger or some one who can threat you. He will answer directly then.His face will twist in an almost unnatural combination of extreme satisfaction and arrogance and evil all in the same time. He will answer something along the line of "I will figure out what I do with it, when I have the power"
You give the best advice❤. I love how these kind of questions can go deep to the core of a man to see what's hidden in there. Can you do a video about how to figure out in the beginning if we are dealing with a momma's boy? Thank you! I trully apreciate your videos.
That's a good question. I'd like to know what he says. My intuition told me that my ex was a mama's boy before I dated him, but I dismissed the idea afterwards. I even told him I thought this about him, and then we both laughed. I found out later that my first impression was right. His mother was jealous and wanted him to be closer to her emotionally than to me. She drove a wedge between us when she saw the opportunity.
You are amazing at your job! I always look forward to every single video! I love how specific you get whilst explaining and I really like it when you give examples. Thank you so much, Ismael!
I really appreciate your videos Ismael, it gives me more understanding about people and also helps me to work on myself, but my question on this is "what if he lies about most questions how will u get to know 🤷" Pls reply 😊
Woah. Thank you so much Ismael. These are interesting questions and it will be exciting to see what he says. You're incredible and I love your work and the support you provide us with. I can't wait for your next video.😝
@@SaveTheMessenger how men compete for a women when he knows she is dating multiple people without get physical because she is only looking for her best option and doing rotational dating for marriage. Thx
Ismael, I need help. I have been talking to a man for the past one month. He is from a different country. He seems to be interested only when he wants to be physically intimate (virtually). But he is the only man so far in my 29 years of life who has been sweet and kind to me and didn't insult me. I am thinking I have fallen for him. But he doesn't text me back when I need him. He hasnt replied to any of my texts for the past couple of days. I am not able to concentrate on my work and my health is deteriorating. What should I do?
I feel you. I know how hard it is to be patient with someone from another culture. Especially, when they are so charming and kind. Have you explained to him how you feel and what is important to you? If yes, and he doesn't change, it's a red flag. "Don't fall for sweet words, fall for sweet actions." Don't let him use you only when it's convenient for him.
@@Hannah.1911 Yes Hannah I did. But he disappears and then suddenly I get a text saying "Hey beautiful". Although I must say that he has said that he can't give me what I want. I know I shoukd just cut off all ties with him but his parents are not well and I don't want to be another reason for him to worry (if he does worry at all). The thing is, I have been around too many unkind people and have been through hell that's why I melt at the smallest gestures of kindness.
@@Hannah.1911 I wanted to. But he hasn't seen or replied to my texts for over a week now. I keep checking my phone. My friends and cousins have told me to block him too. But I am worried about his well being, which I shouldn't be because he has family and friends where he lives and I have been living alone in a different city for the last eight years.
This is a humble request :- please make a video on how to manage living with in-laws abroad. 🙏🏽 I belong to India and I love your relationship advice. In the Indian scenario, relationships with in laws is complex and demanding. I’ll be marrying and settling in Canada. My to be husband wants his parents to live with us. I know that I won’t have the luxury of any maid/support staff, neither would I be able to tell my mother in law to help me with the house chores. I intend to study Medicine and work. I have no idea how would I be able to manage attending to home chores, study and work. Please help me out 🙏🏽
have question for you. Does this counts as emotional affair? But keep in mind me and Morgan and Stephen have special needs i feel it not cheating we all got special needs i know it will never never having sex in my affair not never never so does sill counts as infidelity but only physical is hugging and holding hands no sex. It non sexual affair just emotional and physical affair without sex . 1 texting Stephen behind Morgan back 2 meeting with stephen behind morgan back 3 laughing with Stephen 4 watching films with stephen behind morgan back 5 specking to Stephen on phone behind morgan back 6 hiding texts and deleting texts behind morgan back 7 telling Stephen i love him and miss him and i can't holding hands with him and watch my and favourite movie dinsey high school musical that got Zac efron and vanessa Hudgens in it.? 8 getting high school musical balloons with stephen? Does this counts as emotional affair. I ask my mum about it she stay it just cheating but what type of cheating would it be?
Amazing questions! I was answering them for myself lol! Question - do men also ask and assess women on such values? Or do they just want us to sit and look pretty?
As a licensed psychologist, I would love to know where you are getting this information? Not one of the examples you used are clinically accurate. Are you making stuff up and just giving your opinion? Or are you actually trying to pretend that these questions reveal some type of psychological indicators? None of these questions reveal anything about a persons priorities or life goals.
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11 questions to ask a man to get to know him better, a summary:
1. What is the most important text message you’ve ever received?
2. How do you know you really like someone?
3. If you were a woman what type of man would you date?
4. If you had to give a speech with no time to prepare, what would you talk about?
5. What is the biggest animal you could defeat with no weapons?
6. If you could trave trough time only once, would you go to the past or the future?
7. Would you rather be extremely smart or extremely happy?
8. What content do you watch the most?
9. If something terrible happened to you, who would be the first person you’d call?
10. What is the most important lesson you’ll teach your children?
11. What is the best compliment a woman has ever given you?
Don’t ask them all at once, otherwise he will feel like he’s being interrogated. The way you ask a question is sometimes more important than the question itself so keep it lighthearted :)
Thank you very much! You saved me so much time :) I had to re-watch the video and take notes. (Also I liked his expalantions. I recommend girls not to skip the video without watching it, after seeing the questions. Because some questions made sense only after listening his explanations .)
The best compliment someone ever gave me is that they said I have an elegant mind. Wow! I sill savour that compliment. I was a waitress and he was a customer, an elderly English gentleman who taught ESL. He said this after I explained to him a mind trick I did to motivate myself to give good service to a challenging customer. And he also recited Daffodils to me on another occasion. He had such a beautiful, mellifluous accent.
💎 Soaking this in. It has my mind gears rolling. I’m a question person big time and I have noticed how men light up at the opportunity to reveal themselves. I don’t know if it’s because our society uses men for a work horse only which leads to them not opening up what’s in their mind .. but I have almost always received appreciation when I ask open ended questions like this.
So glad I have more now! Thank you so much!
Wonderful. I hope they serve you well Sarah.
i respect the the understanding that man and woman is meant to bring the great balance of a man and a woman together
I absolutely love this comment
Great video!! Thanks Ismael!
You have given great advise in your past videos, but the advice you gave in this one in my estimation was the best yet. Keep up your fantastic work. From an 80 year old fan.
I appreciate that!
I asked a guy what animal he can defeat with his bare hands and he replied 'A cat'😂
I stumbled on your channel and watched even though I’ve been married for 20+ years. The one about “what animal could you defeat bare-handed” I can answer for him. An alligator - because he had to! Cleaning a pond he and his buddy felt something brush by their legs and boom! Alligator!!! They got it. But oh, my goodness, even typing about it puts my stomach in knots. He’s actually kind of shy about telling it. So I tell it. :-)
Some very good ideas here Lovely Ismael….thank you so much ☺️💕
FASCINATING! What a way to get to know someone!! I'm bookmaring this for my future. SOOO much better than the regular OBVIOUS questions that we are told will help us get to know someone. These are GREAT! I hope you come up with more... and if you do, I'm going to jot those down too!
Wonderful! Glad it was helpful!
Thank you so much
To understand his value and intentions
1- what is the most important text message you have ever received?
2- how do you know you really like someone?
3- if you were a woman what type of man would you date?
4- if you had to give a speech with no time to prepare what would you talk about?
5- what is the biggest animal you can defeat without weapon
6- if you can travel through time would you go to future or past
7- would you prefer to be extremely happy or extremely smart?
8-what content you watch the most
9- if something terrible happened who would you call
10-what is the most important lesson you're gonna teach your children?
11- what is the best compliment a woman has given you?
Can you please do a video for questions to ask to test for narcissism on the first date or two? Especially for covert narcissism. Thank you.
Meantion some kind of power, ask him what he will do with it once acheived. Not money, but direct power that can affect other people. Do it when he seems pretty calm, and he is not distracted. If he considers you inferrior, he wont see you as a Challenger or some one who can threat you. He will answer directly then.His face will twist in an almost unnatural combination of extreme satisfaction and arrogance and evil all in the same time. He will answer something along the line of "I will figure out what I do with it, when I have the power"
Ismael, always so wise and so good looking. Women appreciate it!
Thank you! ❤
Great questions! 😊
Hello, Coach Ismael. This was a fun and entertaining video to watch. Thanks. 🎉
Brillant ! Thanks again ..
You give the best advice❤. I love how these kind of questions can go deep to the core of a man to see what's hidden in there. Can you do a video about how to figure out in the beginning if we are dealing with a momma's boy? Thank you! I trully apreciate your videos.
That's a good question. I'd like to know what he says. My intuition told me that my ex was a mama's boy before I dated him, but I dismissed the idea afterwards. I even told him I thought this about him, and then we both laughed. I found out later that my first impression was right. His mother was jealous and wanted him to be closer to her emotionally than to me. She drove a wedge between us when she saw the opportunity.
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You are amazing at your job! I always look forward to every single video! I love how specific you get whilst explaining and I really like it when you give examples. Thank you so much, Ismael!
That's very sweet of you. Thank you.
We need a series like this video, interesting and useful thank you
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I really like no.8&11$&10
Keep up your amazing content✨You don't know how useful your content is to me,thanks alot💙
some of the better questions I have heard for the first few dates, thanks...dts/usa
A great deal of thought went into these questions. I like the perspective.
Glad you enjoyed it, Barbara!
Amazing video
Thank you very much!
Good stuff!
Great questions!
I really appreciate your videos Ismael, it gives me more understanding about people and also helps me to work on myself, but my question on this is "what if he lies about most questions how will u get to know 🤷"
Pls reply 😊
Ismael your videos are amazing🎉
Thank you ❤
Woah. Thank you so much Ismael. These are interesting questions and it will be exciting to see what he says. You're incredible and I love your work and the support you provide us with. I can't wait for your next video.😝
That means a lot to me. Thanks for watching.
I like it~ thanks Ismael!
Thanks for the FYI😂
I'd like to hear some of the answers that women have received.
Part 2 please. ❤
I never asked any of these questions Ismael. Thank you for the tips. Tone of voice matters the most
Tone of voice matters the most indeed.
Really, yr videos are gorgeous
Ismael, Could you please talk about rotational dating for woman?
What specifically do you want to know about it?
@@SaveTheMessenger how men compete for a women when he knows she is dating multiple people without get physical because she is only looking for her best option and doing rotational dating for marriage. Thx
Ismael, I need help. I have been talking to a man for the past one month. He is from a different country. He seems to be interested only when he wants to be physically intimate (virtually). But he is the only man so far in my 29 years of life who has been sweet and kind to me and didn't insult me. I am thinking I have fallen for him. But he doesn't text me back when I need him. He hasnt replied to any of my texts for the past couple of days. I am not able to concentrate on my work and my health is deteriorating. What should I do?
I feel you. I know how hard it is to be patient with someone from another culture. Especially, when they are so charming and kind.
Have you explained to him how you feel and what is important to you? If yes, and he doesn't change, it's a red flag. "Don't fall for sweet words, fall for sweet actions."
Don't let him use you only when it's convenient for him.
@@Hannah.1911 Yes Hannah I did. But he disappears and then suddenly I get a text saying "Hey beautiful". Although I must say that he has said that he can't give me what I want. I know I shoukd just cut off all ties with him but his parents are not well and I don't want to be another reason for him to worry (if he does worry at all). The thing is, I have been around too many unkind people and have been through hell that's why I melt at the smallest gestures of kindness.
Run…and block his number
@@sweetsimpleslowlife2709 why? He told her he can't give her what she wants. Just leave on good terms
@@Hannah.1911 I wanted to. But he hasn't seen or replied to my texts for over a week now. I keep checking my phone. My friends and cousins have told me to block him too. But I am worried about his well being, which I shouldn't be because he has family and friends where he lives and I have been living alone in a different city for the last eight years.
This is a humble request :- please make a video on how to manage living with in-laws abroad. 🙏🏽
I belong to India and I love your relationship advice. In the Indian scenario, relationships with in laws is complex and demanding. I’ll be marrying and settling in Canada. My to be husband wants his parents to live with us.
I know that I won’t have the luxury of any maid/support staff, neither would I be able to tell my mother in law to help me with the house chores. I intend to study Medicine and work.
I have no idea how would I be able to manage attending to home chores, study and work.
Please help me out 🙏🏽
This sounds complex. Maybe your mother in law would be very happy with helping you with the house chores?
have question for you.
Does this counts as emotional affair? But keep in mind me and Morgan and Stephen have special needs i feel it not cheating we all got special needs i know it will never never having sex in my affair not never never so does sill counts as infidelity but only physical is hugging and holding hands no sex. It non sexual affair just emotional and physical affair without sex .
1 texting Stephen behind Morgan back
2 meeting with stephen behind morgan back
3 laughing with Stephen
4 watching films with stephen behind morgan back
5 specking to Stephen on phone behind morgan back
6 hiding texts and deleting texts behind morgan back
7 telling Stephen i love him and miss him and i can't holding hands with him and watch my and favourite movie dinsey high school musical that got Zac efron and vanessa Hudgens in it.?
8 getting high school musical balloons with stephen?
Does this counts as emotional affair.
I ask my mum about it she stay it just cheating but what type of cheating would it be?
There should be an honest tell all video in why women go to work.
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You say that they will text you back no matter how besy they are and every day.
Amazing questions! I was answering them for myself lol!
Question - do men also ask and assess women on such values? Or do they just want us to sit and look pretty?
Some guys want a cheerleader. Others want a teammate. So it depends on who you pick.
What about you? Can we ask you?
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Why is always man lies😂
As a licensed psychologist, I would love to know where you are getting this information? Not one of the examples you used are clinically accurate. Are you making stuff up and just giving your opinion? Or are you actually trying to pretend that these questions reveal some type of psychological indicators? None of these questions reveal anything about a persons priorities or life goals.
Why would you say that? These questions seem very reasonable to me in the colloquial sense. Why would normal folks ask clinical questions?
It calls “wisdom”, not psychology dear
Tony Robbins isn’t a psychologist yet he’s highly effective
Some things you can’t Learn in the Books
Will you turn off instagram monster?
Thank you❤
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