Closure Call: No proposal after 6 years of dating. When they broke up he got engaged within 4 months

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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2023
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @DK-tq3fy
    @DK-tq3fy 6 місяців тому +9

    Don't wait for 6 years for someone to propose to you. Problem one.

  • @adrajohnson
    @adrajohnson 2 місяці тому +3

    We NEED an update for this one

  • @Hannah-ey9eo
    @Hannah-ey9eo 6 місяців тому +15

    Omg! I’m DYING to know!!!!! Please follow up with April!

  • @lorealsp.o.v.4607
    @lorealsp.o.v.4607 7 місяців тому +15

    I, too, would oblige the ex, especially with those questions. Because sis may just have some info I need.

  • @TattooedAussieChick
    @TattooedAussieChick 7 місяців тому +11

    My brother dated a girl for seven years. He broke up with her because she was hinting about marriage. Within a year he was married to someone else. He hadn’t been cheating.
    The reason he married his wife was because her parents were rich. No joke. He was so materialistic. Her parents owned loads of properties, they trained racehorses and owned shares in multiple horses.
    He was a horrible selfish narcissist.

  • @blue-wb8yn
    @blue-wb8yn 7 місяців тому +9

    Ohhf, he was cheating. Agree the new girl has questions about the time-line 👀

  • @megankelly8130
    @megankelly8130 5 місяців тому +5

    Is there an update on this one?!?! I need to knowwww

  • @SCordova19
    @SCordova19 7 місяців тому +8

    Only like 3 minutes in but it’s also possible he got her pregnant…

  • @heathermillard6841
    @heathermillard6841 7 місяців тому +6

    My guess is he lied to the fiance and she wants to talk to his ex and learn the truth! She might want to break up once she knows!

  • @laurao8099
    @laurao8099 7 місяців тому +7

    If I sincerely wanted for my fiance's ex to have closure I would have just given her the answers right then and there and told her to message me anytime. Meeting in person does seem sketchy.
    Especially since she did not answer any of the questions. I would consider having a friend or two possibly come along that could been nearby in the same establishment but not necessarily next to you

  • @katharineharrison9091
    @katharineharrison9091 7 місяців тому +4

    If a man left me and was en engaged in 4 months I’d make the following phone calls 1. Mum/sister/bestie to chat & cry it out 2. Therapist to work out my feelings of rejection. Get healthy and move along in your life.

    • @katharineharrison9091
      @katharineharrison9091 6 місяців тому +2

      @AnastasijaPopeyou have assumed way too much sis. Yes it happened to me. The bonus was that I lost weight, looked hot and met my husband.

  • @frenchbluehen
    @frenchbluehen 7 місяців тому +5

    Any person who would marry 1) someone they were cheating with, if it were so or 2) someone who JUST broke up with someone they were with for 6 years is either really desperate or really stupid. Don't waste your time on it. They'll be divorced by next year.

  • @shanaiaJj
    @shanaiaJj 7 місяців тому +3

    With love I say. Let it go, closure is sometimes a myth the answers you get might not be what you wanted to hear end up hurting your feelings even more. He’s done you have to move on. You know the woman you are and it’s his loss! Good luck but don’t do it sounds sketchy.

  • @kevincormier7417
    @kevincormier7417 24 дні тому

    Watch the tears start pouring out when she meets up with the fiance and she notices 1. How GORGEOUS she is 2. Her preggo baby bump 3. Notices how kind and thoughtful and caring she is
    Then, she's gonna be even more depressed and humiliated that she went down this rabbit hole.
    *Remember the fiance did say, "Someof the questions, I refuse to answer bcuz of THE WEIGHT of them." I suspect, she means BABY WEIGHT. WE NEED AN UPDATE ON THIS
    She's gonna say to her

  • @nybsbfan18
    @nybsbfan18 7 місяців тому +2

    Since he didn't seem excited about a proposal, maybe he just was done with seeing her.

  • @kevincormier7417
    @kevincormier7417 5 місяців тому +3

    I can promise u that she will regret meeting up with the fiance when she is face to face with the woman her ex is gonna marry bcuz she's gonna be in her head n either think, "I'm hotter than her, so why didn't he marry me?" or "Wow, she's absolutely gorgeous!!" And she'll feel just as bad and that's before aby words are spoken. Best & worse case scenario is if the fiance says, "All I'll say is this is the date we started dating and u let me know if yall were still together." Once the ex discovers that he didn't meet her til after the break up n it truly was one of those "When you know, you know" situations she's gonna feel horrible. And if they met while they were still together n he decided to break up with her bcuz he knew he wanted to marry the fiance, she still will feel horrible. There is no possible outcome that the ex won't feel shifty about. She just needs to enroll in therapy to deal with the breakup n accept that that man came across someone he knew he wanted to marry and accept the unfortunate fact that u didn't have that experience.

  • @spiritualpamperingclaresha506
    @spiritualpamperingclaresha506 23 дні тому

    Where is the update ?
    I can’t be the only one that feels they’ve been left hanging

  • @PenelopePeriwinkle
    @PenelopePeriwinkle 7 місяців тому +3

    She didn’t have a relationship with the now ex’s fiancee. Is the exBF such a coward that he can’t be honest with his ex? 4 months and engaged seems very rushed. He knocked her up.

  • @MonicaRicciCoach
    @MonicaRicciCoach 27 днів тому

    UPDAAAAATE please! 🙏

  • @shannonbrophy3687
    @shannonbrophy3687 6 місяців тому +2

    Please, please follow up? I need to know what happened!

  • @MariaMartinez-rs7kb
    @MariaMartinez-rs7kb 7 місяців тому +2

    Girl this sounds sketch. If you go bring a friend with you cause you never know.

  • @devantefrazier6443
    @devantefrazier6443 17 днів тому

    😂 I really don’t understand why ppl do this 🤦🏽‍♂️ it’s over move on 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @mcbailey7446
    @mcbailey7446 7 місяців тому +2

    I would not meet with this chick. If she really wanted to help she would just answer her questions. There is something else going on. Theses relationships definitely overlapped.

  • @JiroProject
    @JiroProject 7 місяців тому +2

    Yup, I already like the new chick

  • @charlottea9054
    @charlottea9054 18 днів тому

    Is there a follow up to this one at all?

  • @nikkihayes9236
    @nikkihayes9236 7 місяців тому +2

    The movie "GOOD LUCK CHUCK"?🤔

  • @more2me100
    @more2me100 7 місяців тому

    I got a message from the woman that my ex cheated on me with and who he married on my birthday… I ignored it and blocked her!

  • @maloryburkhalter6667
    @maloryburkhalter6667 3 місяці тому

    Was there ever an update?

  • @reneemcguinness2136
    @reneemcguinness2136 6 місяців тому +1

    Any uodates on this one guys?

  • @kevincormier7417
    @kevincormier7417 24 дні тому

    This is LUDACRIS. The only relative question I'd answer is "When was the start of ur relationship?" Anything beyond that contact ur ex or go to therapy or both. This guy just dodged a psycho. Who the hell wants an interview with ur exes fiance?

  • @meganmoon6197
    @meganmoon6197 7 місяців тому +1

    Abby is spot on. Sorry but this is how life goes sometimes.

  • @s.holmes613
    @s.holmes613 6 місяців тому

    I wouldn’t respond if I were the fiancé. I would tell my fiancé to handle that and not have her contact me again unless she wants some problems. Leave me the f alone.

  • @suzannadannaTARDIS
    @suzannadannaTARDIS Місяць тому

    This one came up in suggested videos again. Did April meet with the fiancee?