Life Lately: Where I’ve Been 😔, I Cut My Hair, New Chapters, Car Attacks and MORE! | Vlog

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  • @FayeInTheCity
    @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +11

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  • @ae7091
    @ae7091 4 місяці тому +10

    My life verse: Romans 8:28 gets me through when things happen unexpectedly or just not how I planned. I’m also learning not to pray to INFORM God, like really? He already knows! But when I pray to INVOLVE Him and He will give us the peace BEYOND understanding. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @n.newsome2086
    @n.newsome2086 4 місяці тому +13

    Ma'am, PLEASE take a break from social media when you don't feel your best. Surround yourself with people who truly love, support, and will pray for you. Caring folks will understand. We're (folks on social media) are not important for you to entertain, but you are important! Will continue to pray for you. ❤️

  • @tatertot58
    @tatertot58 4 місяці тому +33

    I seen, I clicked, I liked, and now Imma watch lol. I love that my fav creators, you and Denise, are so authentic with your followers! I appreciate all of the feedback you gave me when I sent you a dm. I want you to know I feel a difference already!! I’ve gotten so much done in my life that I had put off just by focusing on getting myself right and praying!

  • @chanreka
    @chanreka 4 місяці тому +20

    Never feel bad for putting yourself first!! Be blessed

  • @SKemple81
    @SKemple81 4 місяці тому +18

    That’s why we love you and what you allow us to see. You show the realistic world of your life.

  • @aishalong9735
    @aishalong9735 4 місяці тому +13

    Aww he look so handsome with his hair cut.. hey baby in the city.. he such a big boy now👋🏼

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +3

      He’s HUGE!!! 😂
      And thank you!

  • @learningthruliving
    @learningthruliving 4 місяці тому +8

    I am definitely in my hallway season, so I can absolutely understand! Thank you Faye for consistently showing what it truly looks like to walk with Christ authentically!
    And let me just add, I love the way orange looks on you with the gold accent jewelry.

  • @juanitabrown8805
    @juanitabrown8805 4 місяці тому +5

    Whew I needed that word-healed yet disappointed 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kcourtney6826
    @kcourtney6826 4 місяці тому +5

    Thank you for being vulnerable and authentic, it does help others going through similar seasons.

  • @timaaa50
    @timaaa50 4 місяці тому +5

    I’ve been going through it since March so I totally get it. Glad you are doing better.

  • @MyBrilliantCreationtv
    @MyBrilliantCreationtv 4 місяці тому +8

    You look so pretty, healthy, and youthful in that middle thumbnail photo !!!🔥😀❤💕

  • @emilyoliver8021
    @emilyoliver8021 4 місяці тому +3

    God is good, I’m still praying with you sis. I know exactually what you are going through, believe me but with the help of our Father, it does get better. And I’ll just say as for me, he really had to work on me because I was on my way to hell because of Unforgiveness you hear me, yes!!!But God!!! Keep trusting God, and he will continue blessing and providing for you and my nephew!!! Love you sis!❤️🙏🏽

  • @thatchykcrys
    @thatchykcrys 4 місяці тому +5

    Great video, as always! I love your authenticity. You’re living a real life with real issues; thank you for being so vulnerable with us. Champ had me cracking up with the immediate u-turn when Dad released his hand…🤣

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +3

      LOL!!!!!! Champ loves to make DJ chase him! 😂😂😂😂

  • @ominouscherub
    @ominouscherub 4 місяці тому +5

    Honestly this whole video is a mood I was doing so good my baby boy just learned how to walk and I was so happy but I started talking to my mother briefly after being no contact for months (our relationship is not great which sucks since that’s my mom) and it’s brought my mood so low and I didn’t notice until I started crying in front of my son randomly which I said i’ll never do it’s hard to cope when it’s triggers left and right. I have no family unit and so I feel like I never can fully recover while being the primary parent. My husband has to work a lot so I feel myself also feeling like how I viewed my son being raised hasn’t gone as I would like. It’s made me resentful of my parenting journey but i’m trying to find peace and not anger.

  • @skizbees
    @skizbees 4 місяці тому +5

    I wasn't expecting the lead-in to singing together to click that fast. As a contralto who hasn't sung gospel in years, it put a smile on my spirit. 🎧🎶

  • @mightystrong5484
    @mightystrong5484 4 місяці тому +2

    The triggers, sadness,and disappointment are real real, but I bless GOD for the soul wound healing .tfs MVP 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏼 I'm in the hallway ....

  • @AbracadabraBipipityBopotyBOO
    @AbracadabraBipipityBopotyBOO 4 місяці тому +7

    Glad you're feeling better, Faye! Champ running the opposite way from his dad was hilarious! Poor man was trying to keep up with his baby and Champ had turned into Usain Bolt on him. 🤣

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +5

      LOL!!!!! I have no choice but to stay in the gym cause the energy that little boy has?!!!! WHEW! 😂😂😂😂

  • @cheryltaliaferro4342
    @cheryltaliaferro4342 4 місяці тому +2

    Grief is real although you're healed from the situation there's times when something triggers you. Although it's a brief moment it happens. I'm glad you were able to navigate though it and keep moving! Love you and praying God's best for you🙏🏽❤️

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 місяці тому +2

    its the fact that champ is so unfazed while you are freaking out about the bug haha I would the same way cuz me and bugs dont mix

  • @saritamoorebansa4485
    @saritamoorebansa4485 4 місяці тому +2

    Faye, all I’m going to say is … I GET it, I going through the EXACT same /but different journey. I grew up in a two parent household, church based too.( went to Sunday service, Wednesday choir rehearsal, played piano for Sunday school every 3rd Sunday, went to summer camp at church ( 5 days a week ) , modern dance troop,,,,etc) . I Understand your feelings, my trigger is my house now, 1st we were supposed to get a bigger house, and not only I’m in the old house, I have upkeep ( grass/snow) and repairs I have to figure out . I thank you for validating my feelings!!!!! ( I thought I should be over this or I am weak because I let it bother me at given moments ) ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @-VonD-
    @-VonD- 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey hey! Thank you for showing life life-ing and good good-ing. In a world of seeing everyone’s highlights on social media, it brings balance to us to see/know others go THROUGH challenges as well. Friends are such a gift from God ❤.

  • @shayjohnson1114
    @shayjohnson1114 4 місяці тому +2

    Come on haircut... so handsome!!

  • @lisathomas2486
    @lisathomas2486 4 місяці тому +2

    It's called prayer and prayer and more prayer. I so feel you right now because I went through that still going through it currently we were separated for 6 years before the divorce we've been divorced 2 years and it's still hard. It does get easier with time. I love you and your journey thanks for sharing. 😇🦾💯‼️💜💜💜💜💜

  • @DeniseAdore
    @DeniseAdore 4 місяці тому +1

    Girl how the baby would turn around and take off running in the opposite direction took me out! I said oh yea Champ is giving “If life was a person” 👏🏽😂 I always enjoy your vlogs because you gone give us the good, the bad and the ugly because it’s real. 😉 God got you and glad to see you pushing through cause the sun will come in the morning 🙌🏽

  • @KH-xx1rg
    @KH-xx1rg 4 місяці тому +4

    Girl we missed you!! ❤️☺️ glad to see you!!

  • @tatertot58
    @tatertot58 4 місяці тому +4

    Lmaoooo you freaking out over the bug while champ is in the back chilling out has me in SHAMBLES 😂!! But on a serious note… its ok to mourn and feel disappointment over what you thought life would’ve been.. but the way I stayed in that low spot for 10 years is not ok…. You just gotta keep your faith strong and keep reflecting on Gods grace so you dont stay down too long. That foundation you have that pulled you out of that low spot is the same foundation you’re giving Champ. It may not look like you wanted it to look but its most definitely gonna be there and be strong!!

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +1

      I didn’t even think of it that way. Thank you for this!

  • @mizzj453
    @mizzj453 4 місяці тому +7

    SANG, Faye!!! We hear you

  • @kha1026
    @kha1026 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m sincerely sorry you have to go through your current situation. Reality is hard to deal with at times. I completely understand what you’re going through. Even the part when most days aren’t so bad, you’re able to be grateful to God, understand why certain things happen, and see the goodness of life. It’s those days that you get triggered and it just hurts. Or like you said when you wish your ex partner was there to share the moments, holidays, and day to day routine with you together as a family. It’s a very hard pill to swallow. Like you I follow God and give him my life but it’s still those time where you’re just triggered. I will keep you in my prayers for continuous strength. 🙏🏾

  • @mimiaquariusharris6244
    @mimiaquariusharris6244 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m happy you’re better don’t like seeing you unhappy. But girl! That orange and those brown twist are looking good on that melanated skin 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤

  • @lnyawilliamsmoore
    @lnyawilliamsmoore 4 місяці тому +1

    Psalm 83:18; John 17:3; Isaiah 65:17,25; Rev 21:3-6
    🙏🏽💜💐🙂

  • @cattmarie01
    @cattmarie01 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh yall was jammin in there ooookay Choir Rehearsal 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @FranBenjamin-lc9uk
    @FranBenjamin-lc9uk 4 місяці тому +1

    Heyyyyyy Faye-Faye....glad that you are well...I am getting it together😘🙏❤✌

  • @monisha8939
    @monisha8939 4 місяці тому +1

    Okay that choir rehearsal was something. Definitely will check it out.

  • @tboykin13tb
    @tboykin13tb 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for The Prayers & PRAYERS TO KEEP U KEPT, Amen & Hallelujah!! ❤❤

  • @BlessedandBeautifullyBlended
    @BlessedandBeautifullyBlended 4 місяці тому +1

    The crowd was definitely giving choir vibes. I would definitely attend this type of event 💜💜

  • @patriciawalkine355
    @patriciawalkine355 4 місяці тому +2

    I love your transparency. I’m going to take your advice and get back in the gym for my mental also

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 місяці тому +1

    so glad you are feeling better 🥰

  • @valerieholmes9409
    @valerieholmes9409 4 місяці тому +1

    Little Sis, Divorce and loss cause us to grieve lost expectations. This is a process, baby girl.

  • @justshinaie
    @justshinaie 4 місяці тому +1

    I'm so glad u are in a better place. Give yourself grace cause u were married for a long time. The blessing is you and your ex are still friends and get along well. While u were fighting for your life in the car, I died laughing cause you were freaking out and Champ was chilling and waving with his handsome self! I understand cause I would have dang near crashed trying to get that thing out the car. 😂😂😂😂

  • @tsumlin8632
    @tsumlin8632 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Faye! Your baby boy is soooo precious. I was just thinking about how I had not seen anything from you and Voila! Here you are! So happy to hear from ya’!

  • @ceceliawinston1263
    @ceceliawinston1263 4 місяці тому

    @FayeInTheCity Yes, please believe her!!! De Marley is the BOMB!!! I got the full size bottle and it's about time for another one. I have to save a couple of coins to get it!!!! But I second her recommendation!!!

  • @HillTopRooted
    @HillTopRooted 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing that! I grew up in a broken home, wicked stepmom, the whole nine. I swore my kids would not have to experience that. I did all the things I thought were right, including attempting to stay in misery for the sake of the children. Then I realized doing that would be teaching them, that was ok. My fairytale life, that version, didn’t work but my children are amazing! They have all grown into amazing human beings. Coparenting wasn’t possible because it takes two. If I wasn’t part of the package, he didn’t want the kids. He really didn’t want the marriage. To date, I don’t really know what he wanted. I just know infidelity was a deal breaker for me. I have 1 daughter and I did not want her to think that level or any level of disrespect was ok. It was hard but we, my children and I , did it and I am grateful to God for the strength to push through. Life won’t always be roses but when it is, I’ve learned to take a deep inhale and put some of that in reserve for when it’s needed. Love your vibe and authenticity and I love that you’re a believer and not afraid to show it and claim it! Blessings to you and the little one. You’ve got a beautiful family with the two of you! 💜🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @PROVERBS365CO
    @PROVERBS365CO 4 місяці тому +1

    It's so powerful to see you embrace every part of your journey, the ups and the downs. Sharing the real moments isn't always easy, but it's so impactful. Thanks for keeping it real and showing us that it's okay to sit down and heal when needed.

  • @marisarodriguez7776
    @marisarodriguez7776 3 місяці тому

    God has a purpose. A reason it gets better we got u in 🙏🙏🙏🙏 luv u. 4yrs since mine left me. I died inside. But GOD. 4yrs later. Im happy enjoying my life. Business and renewed hope joy peace.

  • @patriciawalkine355
    @patriciawalkine355 4 місяці тому +3

    Champ haircut looks good

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +4

      I love it so much! He looks like such a big boy now!

  • @ritadavis3283
    @ritadavis3283 4 місяці тому

    When you drove onto those rumble strips on the highway I hollered!! I’ve been there with a spider (and my baby in the car) but I clean pulled over 😂😂

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 4 місяці тому +3

    Heyyy This is Gonna b so Cool Faye🔥🔥🔥👍n Happy Wednesday😀….

  • @nayb3168
    @nayb3168 3 місяці тому

    I went down your page to your first video… you have like 5 videos of you cutting your hair over the years.. is that like a reset for you?

  • @firstladyshanab
    @firstladyshanab 4 місяці тому +2

    My friend went to rehearsal with friends, it was the one all over tik tok when they were singing the the Jefferson’s theme song

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +4

      He did that one with us too and the crowd went crazy! LOL!!!

  • @frend4lyf2002
    @frend4lyf2002 4 місяці тому

    Grief happens in divorce as well. One minute at a time. Then one day.

  • @firstladyshanab
    @firstladyshanab 4 місяці тому +3

    Champ so handsome 💙

  • @bellajxoxo1651
    @bellajxoxo1651 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey girl! Glad you're back 💜💜💜💜💜

  • @sonhg7951
    @sonhg7951 3 місяці тому

    😭😭😂😂 Not thing one and thing twO! In the building

  • @elecktrastorm9916
    @elecktrastorm9916 4 місяці тому +1

    Welcome back! I thought we lost you down the rabbit hole.😋 I am happy your are back. 🙂

  • @conchataperry700
    @conchataperry700 4 місяці тому +1

    You are still Human and you will get through this 🙏🏾❤. God has something in store for you!

  • @ashleyallen8094
    @ashleyallen8094 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey booski!! I was just thinking about you, Love

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +2

      Love you!!!

    • @ashleyallen8094
      @ashleyallen8094 4 місяці тому +1

      @@FayeInTheCity Doing this single mom thing hits different sometimes and we never know when those moments of sadness or angry will creep up. I’m so glad that you have a coparent you can rely on.

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 місяці тому

    omgeeee you went to choir rehearsal!! thats my kind of carrying on 👏🏾

  • @dcameron1213
    @dcameron1213 4 місяці тому +1

    Hallelujah! You all did that!

  • @lorettacox7990
    @lorettacox7990 4 місяці тому +1

    Absolutely Awesome !!

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 місяці тому

    I was definitely thinking about you the other day, glad to see you on my screen 🥰

  • @gomasworld7215
    @gomasworld7215 3 місяці тому

    Glad you okay...🙌

  • @godcaresjab
    @godcaresjab 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey Faye, glad you're back. Who sang that song you were singing in the car?

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +3

      It’s a UA-cam video! Search for Sunmisola Agbedi at the Liberty Church Global

    • @godcaresjab
      @godcaresjab 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @tukababy
    @tukababy 4 місяці тому

    Peace be still in Jesus name. Amen

  • @avantaesavage9137
    @avantaesavage9137 4 місяці тому

    Faye! Girlllll I’m in tears. Your testimony was POWERFUL and very insightful and inspiring. Kudos to you for knowing when to disconnect and take care of YOU❤. May God continue to keep you and bless you!!!!

  • @DecemberJones4
    @DecemberJones4 4 місяці тому

    Love you and thank you for sharing. You are amazing. Keep up the great work. God is truly ❤🙏🏽😊amazing!

  • @kishagreen4578
    @kishagreen4578 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey, Faye. Glad you're doing well. Will is hilarious. ❤

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +1

      Heyyyy! Thank you and yes he is!

  • @lexi.d.s
    @lexi.d.s 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m glad you’re out of that sad girl phase Faye. Always good to see you and Champ happy and thriving 🫶🏾

  • @kidnumberfive
    @kidnumberfive 4 місяці тому

    So I had to stop watching the vlog because I am deathly afraid of bugs and the moment you said "cicadas" I had a meltdown. In fear that you were actually showing these horrible bugs, I stopped the video and I turned your video off. I was able to get myself together to finish watching this video. Thanks for not actually showing the cicadas. I know this is extreme but I am super triggered by bugs. I can't....

  • @blissfulmom21
    @blissfulmom21 4 місяці тому

    So grateful God has been a comforter to you! A healer to you, in those times of weakness I am grateful for His strength! In the name of Jesus, He always makes a way! I love to see you thriving! I love to see champ doing so well! May God cover and keep you and your loved ones! Thank you for allowing us to see the Light, God placed in you!

  • @cherishwilliams8902
    @cherishwilliams8902 4 місяці тому

    EBBBBBB!!! I love watching your blogs since meeting you at a Dinner Eb had us go to like a year or so ago at Prime 55!

  • @lake1978
    @lake1978 4 місяці тому

    Not to be insensitive, but would you feel like this had, GOD forbid, he passed away? Allow yourself to feel how you feel. We love you and understand that you are healing and growing in your new journey.

  • @1vixen1
    @1vixen1 4 місяці тому

    La rosee is that gurllllll I love love love it especially for the spring/summer time. Chile I wanted to remind you on IG about the wig but I don’t like to bother people because you have a life too so whenever you get around to it we’ll be here.
    Now on a more serious note I’m glad you gave yourself time. You were part of something that comes naturally to humans; love, marriage, family so when it falls apart it’s only right to feel a great measure of disappointment. Continue to surround yourself with love and positivity and when you feel those emotions again, let it happen. Scream in your pillow, cry the night away, hit something (punching bag not a face lol) just to get them out so it doesn’t stay bottled up. We love you girl 🤗
    ……the cicada part 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I hate those things

  • @CurlsofaCPA
    @CurlsofaCPA 4 місяці тому

    Champs haircut is sooo cute!!!

  • @pricillawillis878
    @pricillawillis878 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing Faye, I have a really close friend who is going through this very same thing. This has help me to understand her journey even more.
    I’m sending you ❤’s and Hugs and nothing but love from South Georgia!!!

  • @nikiedmonds6236
    @nikiedmonds6236 4 місяці тому

    Your friends statement is my new motto "my life is not about to gather me, I'ma gather it" PERIOD 💯

  • @KimberlyDurant-rh2uh
    @KimberlyDurant-rh2uh 4 місяці тому

    Hii Sis hang in they we are human and things happen but remember you would be alright in Jesus' Name sis❤

  • @Choklatekisses1
    @Choklatekisses1 4 місяці тому

    I'm in here having CHURCH!!! I need to look for this fella and his tour.. I would love to go.. what a time what a time

  • @jewellemason4614
    @jewellemason4614 4 місяці тому +1

    Hi girl you looking good and so is champ

  • @firstladyshanab
    @firstladyshanab 4 місяці тому +2

    The cicada omg 😂😂

    • @FayeInTheCity
      @FayeInTheCity  4 місяці тому +3

      I WAS HORRIFIED!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lgreen32
    @lgreen32 4 місяці тому

    Welcome Back ! 😍Love Delina also try Parfums de Marly Valaya Perfume!

  • @tbev58
    @tbev58 4 місяці тому

    That’s a good way of explaining the Hallway experience 💜💜
    Your hair is so pretty and that orange looks good on you

  • @cheshiredj
    @cheshiredj 4 місяці тому

    We understand taking a break, you have to take care of yourself. And I have been there with yelling with a bug in the car!

  • @ShakiraKGardner
    @ShakiraKGardner 4 місяці тому

    You loosing it and Champ playing close open with his hand is hilarious!!!!

  • @juanitabrown8805
    @juanitabrown8805 4 місяці тому

    Why I immediately clicked I sent you an inbox. Missed you sis

  • @staggld
    @staggld 4 місяці тому

    I Have been in a hallway season for a couple of years now but I’m still hopeful ❤

  • @patriciawalkine355
    @patriciawalkine355 4 місяці тому +1

    I love you too and I missed ya. So excited to see this video

  • @bobbuilder2356
    @bobbuilder2356 4 місяці тому

    I'm glad you posted this because I sure was about to message you to see where you were 😂😂

  • @starmaxx4
    @starmaxx4 4 місяці тому

    Soooo glad you took a very much needed break! 🥰💙.. thank you Faye 🥰

  • @veronicacurlee3131
    @veronicacurlee3131 4 місяці тому +1

    Love you baby cousin

  • @JustShara4
    @JustShara4 3 місяці тому

    Hey Faye! 💛💛💛💛
    Loved the snippet of the event!

  • @cherylchestnut4366
    @cherylchestnut4366 4 місяці тому

    Welcome back and glad your mental is better! ❤❤❤

  • @patriciacairo4002
    @patriciacairo4002 4 місяці тому

    🤣He was not feeling that sun he kept running to the shade🏃💨🌴😊

  • @jazzmyn5804
    @jazzmyn5804 4 місяці тому

    Love Prasino down! Hope you get to try it some other time!

  • @jeanninegorden8142
    @jeanninegorden8142 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey beautiful!!!

  • @naturalshatara9559
    @naturalshatara9559 4 місяці тому

    always get Cuban twist hair 15:20

  • @shondawalker2554
    @shondawalker2554 4 місяці тому

    Champ hair cut looks good 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤

  • @poobied79
    @poobied79 4 місяці тому

    The end had me hollering loud. 😂😂😂

  • @jeffmoore5399
    @jeffmoore5399 4 місяці тому

    ALLLLLL IN HIS HANDS! I STOPPED THE VID JUST TO SAY THAT! YESSSSS

  • @sharibland4808
    @sharibland4808 4 місяці тому +1

    Shalom Sis ❤️🙏