OUR MISCARRIAGE STORY👼🤍
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- Опубліковано 9 вер 2024
- This video was not an easy one to share. We are so heartbroken at our loss. We thank you for your prayers as we try to heal from this😢🙏🕊️
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Hate clicking “like” on the video but want to show you guys support. You’ll see your baby again behind heavens gates 🙏🏻 so sorry for your loss. 🩶
I agree. I’ve been through it and it’s so difficult but God will heal their hearts.
I feel the same way! I was thinking exactly that. I wish there was a care button.
Im so sorry for your loss. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. 25 years ago my husband and I had tried for 10 years and finally found out that we were pregnant. I was 4 months pregnant and lost our baby boy. Three months later, I got pregnant again and had a girl. She is 24 years old and in medical school to be an OB/GYN. May God comfort your hearts and give you both peace.
So sorry for the loss of your baby. I lost a child at age 5 to cancer many years ago. My comfort is knowing that one day he will run into my arms to never be separated again.
Incredibly sorry for your loss.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. This happened to me with our second child. I found out when I was 20 weeks pregnant that my baby passed away at 16 weeks. It was the hardesr thing I have ever been through. This was 21 years ago. No one talked about it then and I did not how to grieve through this process.
I did find a book through my local Christian Book Store about losing a child, and one of the suggestions it had for helping with the healing process after losing a child was, planting a tree or something in the garden that you can tend to and watch grow over the years. I did end up doing this. We planted a tree in our yard that we nutured and watched grow over the years. That tree stands tall and proud now 21 years later and is a beautiful reminder of our child that waits to welcome us into heaven. We have a bench under the tree and a cherub statue that we put there the day we planted the tree in our baby's honor. This process was huge in my healing journey.
I also delivered a baby at 20 weeks 24 years ago. It was a silent, lonely grief.
That broke my heart Lydia when you couldn’t say goodbye at the end of the video.
I pray for you and Trace, May you keep healing physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Faith with God is a great healer and time
I’m so sorry!💔🙏 We just went through a miscarriage. It’s hard. May the Lord comfort you and give you peace.❤️
My heart breaks for y'all. 💔 Losing a child at any stage in pregnancy is hard! I was 37wks along and went into labor and found out there was no heartbeat. I had to go through labor and delivery. She was my only child and although I will see her in Heaven it is still hard! Sharing does help with healing! Sending lots of hugs and prayers ❤🙏
As a survivor of having a miscarriage at 37 weeks I can understand the pain you are going through. I'm keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers. I know God will bless you again.
I’ve had seven losses. Each one just as heartbreaking as the first. Sending you so many prayers and love! Lydia, just remember that all your feelings are completely valid!
I know your pain Lydia! I lost my second child through a miscarriage. I’m so sorry for your loss. My first born is now 50 years old, and my third is 44 years old. My second child is waiting for me in Heaven, and that has always been reassuring to me. I see so many losses as I read through all the comments here. Your miscarriage is heartbreaking.. and as everyone here shares their loss, my heart goes out to each of them as well. God bless you both!
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious one. I had a miscarriage many years ago and understand the heartbreak; I cried right along with you. I pray our Comforter will give you all the comfort you need as you go through this period of grief. We can be thankful that He is an ever present help in time of trouble. Love and blessings to you both and know we are praying.
Bless your heart ❤️. I am crying right along with this video. I too suffered a loss at 21 weeks and have never left go of that feeling. I feel your pain and loss. You will never forget this baby ever. Here’s to praying for more success and blessings in your future journey
I lost a baby at 20 weeks. Hugs to you. I’m so sorry. ❤
Crying with you, my heart breaks for you ..I know how you feel, been through three miscarriages,
May the Lord bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time...
Hugs and Prayers ..
There no words at a time lime this. Grief is not a sign of weakness nor a loss of faith. It is the price the heart pays for love.
I am sorry your going through this. I had a miscarriage back in 1998 and there were no answers, but I believe that God had a plan even if I didn't know what it was. I had more kids and they were very healthy and now 21 and 22 years. Just lean on each other and talk to family. I know that in Trace's families there has been some miscarriages. Every miscarriage is different , but it may help. Sending prayers.
I’m so sorry for your loss! Because of this you will have a testimony to help others. Praying for you!
So sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that there are people you will never know that are praying for you. God will give you strength and healing that only HE can.
Thank you for showing recognition of the physical pain that the mother goes through, Trace. Having gone through this it was really difficult to deal with that physical pain when I was emotionally struggling so much and I think it’s wonderful for a guy, especially, to be talking about it. So much is often kept private and it can be very startling when you go through it because you don’t know what it will be like. My heart goes out to you two, and I appreciate you sharing on behalf of all of us who have gone through it too. Prayers for you both
I’m so sorry for your loss! Thank you for sharing this extremely hard time in your life. Praying for the Lords peace and healing over yours lives as you walk out this time of grief.
May I gently push back at "this was God's plan"? I firmly believe that God does NOT cause the awful things in our lives. We live in a sinful world and we know that the deceiver is roaming around causing death, heartache, disasters, and pain. I am absolutely convicted that although God does NOT cause death, loss, and pain, He WILL redeem it. And you are already starting to redeem this incredibly painful loss by gently, with sensitivity, sharing your experience so that others don't feel so alone in their loss and pain. Sending love and prayers to your sweet family.
Exactly, you're saying what they're saying. God allowed this for a greater purpose that we might not know here on earth.
We pray for the Bates family daily. Thank you for sharing!
I’ve been in your shoes my sweet mama! Seeing you cry breaks my heart. I understand that deep ache and loss of pain.
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. I know sharing your story will help other people feel less alone while they're grieving as well.
So sorry for your loss, I pray for complete physical healing and spiritual comfort from our great God.
So sorry for your loss! Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story and your precious testimony! Go's Bless you!❤
I’m so sorry for your loss! I appreciate that you both were willing to share your personal feelings and emotions and be so vulnerable and honest with such a heartbreaking time in your life!
Praying for you guys, couldn’t imagine but with Gods Devine help He will see you guys through...
My Mother lost my brother at birth carried him full term and when she had him he didn’t have all his body parts. He lived for like 30mins or less she never got too see him but my daddy did and he said he didn’t think my Mother could handle it. This was almost 50yrs ago so no ultrasound, but for the whole nine months they thought she was carrying twins.. She still to this day mourns the loss, however she finds great comfort in knowing one day she will see him in Heaven... Michael Kain you were loved and still loved today.... Lydia praying for you sweetie in time you will heal from it all...Trace praying for you as well!! Prayers and hugs...
Praying for you! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sure it will help someone else who may be going thru the same thing and who may be feeling scared and alone. Miscarriage is often not talked about. I had a miscarriage almost 10 years ago and it was very scary. I had a healthy 2 year old at the time and it was shocking for us. I never knew how common it was until I started talking to others. I went on to have 2 more healthy pregnancies and babies after so please don’t lose hope for the future. Just continue to be there for each other. I’ll be praying for you and your family!
Thank you for being so open and sharing. Baby loss is difficult. I lost my one and only child at 16 weeks gestation. Sending healing thoughts to you and your family
So sorry ❤
You both are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this grief that you must bear. I know exactly how you feel as I have been through the pain and suffering experience of a miscarriage. It happekned when I was about 3 months along. I , too, had another child to help me through the pain. My daughter was 17 months old when I went through my ordeal. May God bless and keep you as you go through this period of mourning. ❤❤❤
Awww. So sorry for your sad news. I wondered at the I love you party, Lydia, your face looked so much fuller than usual. Being pregnant would explain that.
I’m glad you gave such detail on how it went. Since it’s not really discussed, people may think it’s something that just happens without any physical issues, like you blink and it’s over. That is definitely not the case!
This loss happens so often. But it does not diminish your pain. You are not alone. Many of us moms are mourning the loss of our unborn angels still many decades later. 🌈
These moment will stay in your thoughts for ever...i had a miscarriage at 11 weeks, baby stopped growing at probably 5.5 weeks...al those weeks in between i was hoping for a miracle.... i lost my little one, not even seeable with my eyes sept 9th 2018 and on oct 4t 2018 i was already pregnant again... that pregnancy was hard, SO hard. But we had our rainbow baby on 3th of july 2019 and 2 years later we welcomed even a 5th baby ♡ keep faith, we will pray for you! Don't blame yourselve!
I'm so sorry! I cried right with y'all and am praying for y'all!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I too had a miscarriage after my second child was born. I was three months pregnant and had an appointment scheduled for two days later to hear the heartbeat for the first time. It was a similar situation regarding bleeding and tissue. We went to ER and they did an ultrasound and said that they saw nothing in my womb. I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for your comfort, peace, and strength as you grieve.
I am so sorry for your loss. Our God is a God of healing, comfort, peace and restoration. Praying for Him to heal your hearts and give you a peace that transcends all understanding.
So so sorry for your loss. I lost twins in 2015 at 19 weeks and it is the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. The pain gets easier to handle but never goes away. It’s the club no one should ever have to be a part of. Lifting your sweet little family in prayer. 😢
Sorry for your loss. Twins is unimaginable. I cannot imagine your pain.
So sorry for your loss. I am so impressed and moved at how much you shared about your experience. Your faith is so strong
Praying for you as you go through this time of grief. I experienced a miscarriage with similar timing a little over 22 years ago. I feel it is so important that you are sharing this as it can help others as well. The hardest part for me was that everyone else seemed to not talk about it much after it happened. They didn’t realize how it affected me and that even the process took at least two weeks or more, and much longer for hormones to adjust and that was just the physical part. Surrounded yourself with loving friends and family who will let you talk when you need to. 🙏🏻
I am so sorry for the loss. That is always so hard, you guys are in my prayers.
I’m so sorry Trace and Lydia for your loss. I also had a miscarriage over 20 years ago and I will never forget all that in it entailed emotionally and physically. Had a DNC. also had to take medication to put me into labor. And my story was almost like yours. Lydia, I have never seen you anything but happy and upbeat, so this was really sad for me to watch to see the pain you were going through emotionally. I will pray the Lord will Bless you with a healthy pregnancy and a sibling for Ryker. You are both excellent parents! So loving! I’m sorry you have to go through this grief. Lydia, you could attend a grief share class. Look it up online. You both could go to it. They are so helpful.♥️🙏🏼✝️
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your experience. Talking about it, sharing it will help others and even help your family to grieve. Take time and be good to yourselves. Praying for you.
You all are in my prayers!! I'm so sorry you lost your sweet little Angel!!
Gosh I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. Sending love and comfort ❤
5 years ago, I got pregnant 8 months after I had brain surgery. I had just turned 40. It was my 1st and probably only pregnancy. I was so excited, but then i lost the pregnancy. It was the hardest and most emotional experience I have gone through. I have 2 wonderful sons by marriage, and even though they are not biologically mine, I feel they are my sons. I felt that the baby that I lost was a girl, and I named her Jordan. I have a necklace that my SIL gave me, and I were that a lot.
My heart aches for you all and what you are going through. We will all see and have our babies that we have lost in heaven, and that will be forever. Hugs and prayers.
The Lord gives and takes, so true. It's so common and you're right people don't often discuss. The whole question of Why and Why me, I've heard Why not me? And that's true. Through the good and bad why not you. We're human and it happens. It's definitely tough. The physical aspect is crazy. And thankfully hopefully you don't need the surgery too. It sucks. You're also right that it's easier to swallow when you have a kiddo to come home too. Definitely helps with the grief. God bless and hang in there. You're young and your 🌈 rainbow will come! 🤗
I was 10 was and 5 days when I lost my baby. No cramping or bleeding. Went into my 16 week appointment not even know I lost the baby. I have no other kids to snuggle with at the time.
Sooo absolute sorry for your loss! You both are strong. God will heal your broken hearts!❤ much love from Ohio
There is nothing you could have done to change the outcome. Trace is exactly right, this was part of God’s plan. He knows exactly what He’s doing. I’ve had several miscarriages as well as healthy children. You did all that you could do! It does get easier over time. Hang in there. 🥰
Very sorry for your loss!!! Hugs & Prayers
I am so sorry!! Sending out prayers for you guys. God has you guys and will heal all wounds
Thank you for your sweet transparency. Others will be helped by your story 💜
So sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you everyday. I'm so thankful you had so many family members around you.
I’m sorry for your loss! Praying for you during this hard time.
😢 awe Lydia I know your pain ❤ I also have 2 grown Irish twins adults now and two younger Irish twins 😊 just so you know they hate sharing bdays lol ..... thank you for being so open about ur lost there was not much about when I went though my miscarriage 😢 I felt it was a he ...... and I found out by a medium it was a boy and my grandmother had named him callum.... she said my lost was her gain ❤ I don't know if you believe in that but that made me know he was still around me and our older children ..... anyway im sending you so much healing 💓 and trace thank you for supporting you ur wife and also griefing your self don't forget about yourself ❤ your allowed to feel theses feelings and grief and do whatever you can to get thorough this difficult time ❤ on a positive omg look how big your boy is ❤ he's one handsome little bundle of joy xxxx
Sending many prayers your way. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I had seen this before but watched it again after Ryker doing his Smash Cake. Thinking of you guys at this time. So glad you have little Ryker. My Cousin had 3 boys and another one on the way in 2010.She was due any day and her and baby had the same routine every morning where they had a game they did. Well, that morning he wasn't responding to her like he normally did or even moving. So, she knew something was definitely wrong. So, she went in, and they did an ultrasound, and the Nurse Assistant said you can go home and rest and if anything changes come back. She was like something is wrong I know there is. She had to take iron shots every day, but baby was growing & thriving. Well, she went home and ended up going back in and there was no heartbeat! Come to find out the Nurse Assistant read the report wrong it said emergency C-section! Come to find out he had the Umbilical Cord wrapped around his neck so to tight and he would have been fine if they would had listened to her when she went in the 1st time! It was sad because her doctor had delivered her and her 2 sisters and her sons and then this one. He took it so bad that he retired. We don't know why these things happen, but we will see them one day. I have my little Levi in Heaven it was a very sad thing that happened I lost him at 8 weeks he would have been 14 months younger than my oldest. My husband lost his son at 2 years of age his 1st son, but we have been Blessed with A Son and 4 daughters and 3 Grand Children. And 2 sons in Heaven. I have no doubt you are both going to be Blessed with more Children. Little Ryker is a Cutie! I love watching you guys.
Awwww! I'm so very sorry! Big hugs and prayers!
I am so sorry for your loss! I am sending prayers that you will be comforted and you are very brave to share! I know that your sweet baby is waiting for you in heaven.
Thank you for sharing this sad news. Praying for you both - so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss 😢
Sending prayers and hugs!🙏💕🙏
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love from Eton,Ga. 🩵
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story!
I am so desperately sorry. I know the pain and grief that miscarriage brings. My husband and I lost two babies.
I am so sorry for your loss! I will be praying for you!❤🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you! ❤
For the rest of your life when people ask how many children you have it will take you back to this moment. My daughter lost 6 babies and was able to have 1. This was the hardest question for her. Now She chooses to answer this question with “I have 1 child. Here with me, and I have 6 babies waiting for me in heaven”. She feels like she is honoring her heavenly babies and it gives her peace. I will pray for her you❤
Thank you for sharing. Condolences to your family.
In my prayers. 🙏🏽
So beautiful how you speak about this ❤
My daughter had 9 miscarriages before she had my grandson. 3 years later she was pregnant with triplets and lost 2 of them but was able to carry my granddaughter to term. God has a plan and one day you’ll be reunited. God bless you 🙏🏻
Praying for you all. Thank you for sharing this difficult time with us. I pray your continuing healing.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for ya'll as you go through this tough time. ❤
I had a loss,too. I was 8 months along. It was very hard & heartbreaking. It happened 14 yrs ago & still get emotional at times. We go & put flowers & a bollon on her birthday. It's ok to be sad. I hope the Lord will bless you with another one. My prayers for you & your family. Love watching your updates that you do.
Thank you for sharing. Praying for y’all
Thank you for sharing your story. My prayers are with y’all
Thank you so much for sharing your story!! ❤️🩹🥺🙏🏻
I lost a child in Dec, 1991. I pray God will give you peace of mind and a comforted heart. I will continue to pray for your family.
36 years ago I was in your same spot. My husband and I were 22 years old. It was heartbreaking and painful. Lydia I look in your eyes and you mirrored me. I am so happy you have the wonderful families that you both have. Woman that have gone before you and can love you and tell you how to get through it. I didn’t have that. I was the first to lose a baby in my family. A few days later was my cousin’s baby shower. We went to the same church. Everybody knew I was expecting. You know how that works. You tell one person and the next thing you know the whole church knows. lol My mother begged me not to go to the shower but I had to. I just did the best that I could and I did get through it. In church the next Sunday my MIL had put a beautiful little rosebud on the organ. Little did we know that 10 months later the Lord blessed us with Amelia Rose. Lydia and Trace, you know that the Lord is carrying you through this. He loves you dearly. I’m praying for your healing body and hearts. In time this will get a little easier🩷🙏🏻✝️
I did something similar at 9 weeks but when I went to the Dr I was still pregnant but had a blood clot between the placenta and uterus wall. He’s 10 yrs old now.
I am so so so truly sorry! I will be keeping your sweet family in my prayers. Praying for peace!
I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks while I had a 4 month old baby. It was so many different emotions being the shock of pregnant that soon, to almost immediately finding out I was losing the baby. I’m so sorry you have had to experience it and I pray that God grows your family again soon. I’ve had 2 more babies since my miscarriage and I still think about the baby I lost often. So glad our little ones are safe in Jesus’ arms until we get to meet them! ❤️
I’m so very sorry! I myself have had 4 pregnancy’s. Only 1 living child a daughter that we love so very much. She was our rainbow baby. We had a miscarriage 1st at 9 1/2wks gestation, then we had a 9lb 1oz baby boy stillborne at 41weeks gestation, then our beautiful daughter & then another miscarriage at 9 1/2wks. It was heartbreaking, so I know how difficult mentally & all it is. God Bless you with many more healthy, beautiful children.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
❤🙏 So sorry for your loss your sweet and precious baby is a little beautiful Guardian Angel up in HEAVEN
GOD Bless this family 🙏❤️
Awww..I am so sorry for your loss. xoxo sending prayers and hugs your way.
Miscarriage is so hard to go through. You're not alone. Hugs and prayers to your family ❤️
You two are sooo brave! Thank you for sharing your pain with us. You are in my prayers!! ❤
This is the second time I watched this. I just couldnt take it all in....cried the 1st time and crying this time. ❤😢. Sharing this will be a blessing yo so many. I had one 45 yrs ago. And still think about what kind of child would u have been.
You two are so strong.
The doctors and nurses seemed to exceptional. Love u two so much. God Bless. Praying for u both.And your angel.
So so sorry for your loss. My 2nd baby boy passed on the third day after giving birth at full term. He was born w/ a serious congenital heart disease. They didn't detect anything in the sonagram back 31 yrs. ago. It still really hurts but not as bad as when it first happened. It really was traumatic. I pray God comforts both your hearts and gives you peace & strength.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Y'all will be in my prayers!
I lost a baby at 22 weeks. They had passed weeks before and I had no sign anything was wrong until the bleeding started. My prayers are with you. I now have 2 daughters and 4 grandchildren. Hugs to you all.
I’m sorry yall and we send you both all our love here in Texas! You will be blessed with another and just keep praying for his guidance and peace
It's never easy when you are filled with joy finding out your pregnant. I've had 2 miscarriages myself. It's never easy. I'm so sorry.
So sorry for you. I can relate to your story many years ago.
Sorry for your loss
My daughter is 18 now but when she was 6yrs old. I had a marriage and gave birth to a stillborn boy. She would have had a lil brother. The worse pain of giving birth knowing he isn’t coming home with you and my body going through cramps and milk supply. Pray 🙏🏾 your continual strength during this time. My heart goes out to you both and your family but know the Lord will see you through as He did for me! Keep strong! 💪🏾 ❤
Aw guys so sorry for your loss will be praying for you it’s so heartbreaking big hugs
I've never had a miscarriage but we did loose a son when he was 15 months. It's so hard to loose a child either before or after their due date. We were nervous with the 3 pregnancies after but at the same time, God was teaching us to trust Him. Praying you will find comfort and peace knowing that your baby is in the arms of God and that you will see her some day.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤ I am currently 37 weeks right now with our rainbow baby. I had a miscarriage previously to this pregnancy so I know the pain you guys are going through. Praying for comfort and peace for your family during this time 👼🏼
I’m sorry for your loss. I had two healthy babies, then had two miscarriages, then two more healthy babies. Praying for you both.
Praying for you and your sweet family. I am 56 years old and remember each child I lost by miscarriage like it was yesterday. Hold on to the Lord and each other.
Praying for your sweet family! I'm so sorry for your loss.