I've been traveling in my SUV for years now and stay at alot of truckstops. Many times in the morning coffee rush, I am the only woman in line. A long time ago a nice cashier suggested to me that it is a good idea to buy 2 cups of coffee...then it's not so obvious that I'm alone. Made sense to me. I put the 2nd cup in a thermos once I'm back in my vehicle and enjoy it later on in my drive.
There was a time when truck drivers would protect a woman because they had a wife and children at home. Then someone got the bright idea to train convicts who were being released from prison so they would have a job. Problem is that S.ks affenders were in that mix.
There are so many risks involved in living in your van. I lived in mine for close to 3 years and NEVER had a problem, because I followed my instincts. Every thing she said was what I did except # 4. The number one thing in my book is to never look like your living in you Vehicle. Keep your car looking clean, inside and out, keep yourself looking clean. Eliminate all clutter that can be observed by anybody walking past your car. Always allow enough room where you park for an emergency exit. Another words if you’re parallel parked allow enough room in front and back of you vehicle to escape quickly if you are in danger. It is a good idea to also know in advance what gas stations are open 24 hours how far away they are this can be a lifeline for many reasons not the least of which is having to use the restroom if you don’t have the means to do so in your vehicle. Also when in danger, any public place that is open and well lit with cameras is your friend. If you have the opportunity to scope out a potential sleeping area do so at various points in the day & night. Take note of what kind of activities are going on outside. A really uncomfortable situation is being in the back of your vehicle and a whole group of people nearby engaging in loud conversations and potentially illegal activities. That leaves you vulnerable to being caught up in their risky behavior. I didn’t travel around the country I stayed in one city and I had a list of no less than six places that I can go to. Rotate your sleeping area’s so as to not Arouse suspicion. People have a tendency to call the cops for the slightest inclination that somebody is up to no good. I had only one encounter with the police, because a homeowner saw me eating chicken in my car. Yeah like I said people call the cops for everything. I’m a guy and have far less fear living in my vehicle, I suspect women have far more to worry about. Girls have your head on a swivel if it feel even slightly wrong my advice is leave! I associated with other car campers and I met a woman who was raped by a guy who had told she was living in her car. She made herself a target. Tell no one your living in your car, # 1 it’s none of anyone’s busyness. If you follow all safety rules you needn’t live in fear.
Great advice and very well spoken as always! I had an experience one time with a hotel in GA, so it doesn't just happen in a van. I booked a hotel thru' a travel agent and when I got there, I picked up my key and ut ohhhh! There was a bunch of real rough guys outside messing around and to get to my room, I would have had to walk by them. They were drinking and loud and boisterous, so I turned right around, went back to the office and asked for a refund. I went down the road a ways and found another hotel where the desk clerk was very understanding of the circumstance and said, "I will put you on the second floor here, high enough to make you feel safe, but close to the elevator and office." I was there for a long 4 day weekend and he watched for me everyday, checking on me and asking if I was okay. So yeah, it's not just camping that a woman alone has to use good sense and trust that gut feeling. You have great videos.... very detailed and so well spoken. Thanks for sharing!
@@jolly7728 ...but then you let others (low-life/street trash) run your life, telling you where you can or can't be. No, we tell THEM what's up, not the other way around. Go where you want, let THEM beware of YOU! CARRY! There's no substitute. Never has been. -- BR
@@billredding2000I hear you, but if those kinds of folks (low-life/street trash) were there, we wouldn't want to be in the same space with them anyway, right? Something would have to be wrong with a place that attracted those kinds of folks. Better to just stay away.
@@jolly7728 True, I don't want to be around primitive/violent savages/nut-case homeless/transient trash, but sometimes I'm forced to be in those areas...like recently when I had to go downtown for Jury Duty -- how many city downtowns are "safe" paces to be nowadays? ;-) But I see it opposite of you: It's not the PLACE itself hat is bad (or good), it's the PEOPLE there who make it good/bad. Get rid of the bad people and the place is fine. But yeah, I tend to avoid trouble -- shouldn't we all -- but at the same time won't be intimidated or run-off from any place I have a right to be. Let them try at their own (and great) personal risk (don't care). Stay safe, HOWEVER you do it! -- BR
Good advice Dee. Here's a few more tips; a pair of men's boots outside your door, dog barking app, police siren app, car alarm app, gun cocking app, set up 2 camp chairs. Smile and enjoy yourself.
Dogs and especially pit bulls work really well too! My big boy Blanco has protected me in my travels across mainland MX. He probably wouldn't hurt a flea, but he has a powerful bark! (Loves people... lol)
A former Manager of mine at a security company, who was also a retired Police Sargent, Had a saying " Just Because You Feel Safe, It Does not Mean You are." Basically know your surroundings.
My Mom taught me another fantastic idea to use if you need protection! She said to keep a can of wasp spray handy! It shoots farther then pepper spray and would stop anything, animal or human! Never tried it on either myself, but always sounded like a winner to me!!
Wasp spray should be a last ditch effort because you will likely blind your attacker for life, which opens you to criminal charges and/or civil lawsuits if you can not prove your life was in danger, depending on what state you are in when the problem occurs. Not saying don't use it, especially if it's life or death, but do try to drive away before resorting to that. Priority #1 is getting away to safety, not defeating an attacker.
I've heard that using wasp spray as a weapon is a felony. Not sure if that's true or not. I mean if I was defending myself I'd use anything as a weapon, but I'd rather not get arrested along with my attacker.
@@mongoose9851 Only if you get caught. Just drive away after you drag his blind carcass back out of your van. It's not like he'll be able to pick you out of a police lineup after that. 😂
Keep your key-fob to your vehicle close by when sleeping, and if you think someone is threatening, set off your vehicle alarm. Other people close by may hear it and come to your rescue. Pepper spray is a must, and a spray can of Wasp and Hornet spray is nice because it has a stream of 12-14 Ft. Aim for the eyes. Recommend that you practice spraying it. These recommendations would apply at home also.
for self defense a good choice also is a fire extinguisher. a good fire extinguisher works on the principle of suppressing oxygen. if a person or an animal is unable to breathe they immediately forget about their original intentions. a fire extinguisher is not restricted anywhere. in fact, in europe every car is required by law to have one.
You can also smack someone with it. Granted - you could actually kill someone doing that as they're very sturdy to contain the high pressure of the gases in the extinguisher so don't do so without good reason.
Excellent video. My same rules. The half tank one saved me. I got very lost once outside Yosemite. My other rule is , if I'm not in a place to sleep before dark. I get a hotel. I don't deviate from that. One other good thing , is to program your car lock system to only unlock the driver side front door. No one can jump in your car that way.
Thanks Karen! I like that rule. My doors are not automatic lock. So they are all always locked unless I manually unlock them. I used to find it a pain, but now I am very thankful because it keeps me mindful of having doors locked!
I'm getting ready to start van life, I'm a 50-year-old female, and I had a friend who does van like for the last 3 years say that since van life has become so popular and so many more people know about it that crime has seemed to really go up especially in campground areas or rest Ops, so just be aware of that there's more people aware of van lifers
Great information! I was in a campground and parked facing into the spot rather than backing in. I wanted my back doors to be visible to others if I had to press the alarm. Had I backed in, my back doors would have been hidden from all other vehicles. My safety plan always depends on my circumstances! Love your channel! Thank you for posting!
I like the gas tip. You should never go lower than a quarter of a tank to prevent your fuel pump from burning out. I've been in places where I'm the only camper. But I have 2 dogs. Once at a truck stop, someone was skulking around my mini. Emmy started growling and barking and scared them off.
Good advice! We often think of threats as human. However, safety in terms of weather disasters is something we should all be increasingly prepared for. A video on this topic would be good. Ideas on where and how to prepare and seek shelter when you are in a vulnerable vehicle would be helpful.
Hey girlfriend, Loved the video.putting those wireless cameras on top of my list. That mag light will be there too. Being an X truckdriver l have my 25 yr.old tire thumper. Talk about getting someone's attention with that. GREAT JOB.
I have a Spring loaded baton.. Drove truck for 26 years smacked more than a few fingers and arms with it trying to Put their hand in my door or over my window jamb.. They also make great tire thumper .. I actually put a 300 pound male truck driver that had the audacity to grab my butt on his knees with it in front of his laughing friends..
Very helpful! The mini security camera item was on my wish list for the future build. Agree 100% about the gut check meter. I’ve moved many a time on a gut feel and thankfully to date don’t have a “I had a gut feeling and didn’t heed” story. Have fun! Be safe!
See, thank you so much!! I love how concise you are with the information you share with us. I am easily overwhelmed and I never feel like your videos are too much. You ALWAYS have great information and do such a wonderful job explaining things! THANK YOU AGAIN!
It does not cost any more to fill up the top half of your tank as it does to fill the bottom half. You never run out of gas if you drive on the top half.
A friend told me about the app Life360! A couple of family members always know where I am and even if my phone is going dead so they can hollar at me (and they have) to CHARGE MY PHONE! I also have motion sensor lights and cameras!! You rock, Lady! Love your smile and knowledge.
@@LadyBugout Hey Dee! Did you just use mounting tape for your motion security lights? I just received mine yesterday and wasn't sure if you screwed them in because you haven't made other holes in the van. Thanks for all the links! I just cashed in some of my travel points for amazon gift cards to "be like Dee". haha.
@@bevuntethered Hey Bev. I used magnets. Get ceramic or heavy duty neodymium magnets and glue one to the back with gorilla glue. As long as you let it dry well before use, it works like a charm!
I'm really late here - catching up on your videos - but would like to add "be prepared for a quick get-away if you feel it's sensible to leave" to your list: 1>Always leave your drivers seat free and accessible (assuming you have access from the back of your vehicle). 2> Always have your keys handy in a place you can grab them easily. 3> Always use internal covers for your cab windows so that you can remove them without going outside. Enjoying your content; thanks!
I worked heavy highway construction for 30 some yr..Was majority of the time the only female away from home,working,staying by myself.. My crew I worked with were great.. But they were not always in the same location.. Yes. Definitely yes... Always trust your gut.. Happy traveling my friend.🚐❤
Mag lights are great and make a good club. For truly blinding light, get an Olight or Surefire or other 21st century flashlight. Just one will light up a cathedral and completely blind a 4 or 2 legged predator.
Hi Dee... Good Advice. I drive an 18 wheeler for a living more than 20 years now. Something else is always act like you belong there if you have to be outside. I learned along time ago that no matter what a hammer is always a hammer as opposed to some other tools or things that are sometimes called weapons depending on how you hold them. That flashlight is good too! I recently came across your channel and found it refreshing. Be safe.
Those are all great safety tips, Dee! Your first one is crucial to your safety...trust your gut. I'm well prepared to defend myself but I would rather not be involved in any confrontation. If I feel or see a situation that could evolve, it's time to move on. Perpetrators strike on easy targets; taking the paths of least resistance. If you look confident and you seem to be aware of your environment, perps will go elsewhere. I have a sticker on my van that says, "Never mind the dog, beware of the owner." In 63 years of backpacking, hiking, car camping I've only dealt with one incident involving a mountain lion. I stood my ground, raised my trekking poles and yelled for the cat to go away. I used your Aootek light tip mounting one on my windshield and one on the back door of my van. While boondocking a wild horse activated the windshield light but it just continued to graze.
Also, look up where the nearest police station is before bedding down for the night so you can head straight there if trouble forces you to leave early and tries to follow you as you leave. It is doubtful that someone will continue following once you pull up to the police station. Maybe put the address into GPS before going to sleep.
Mag lites are oldies, but goodies! I have always carried one, got one for my daughter with her first car, and will be getting one for my granddaughter in a couple years with her first car. Great video & safe travels🥰
For security (and my personal lifestyle) I am owned by Buddy, (the sweetest hound dog you ever want to meet) and Baby (terrier/terror dog). Noises at a distance at night, low growl from under the bed lets me know to check the situation. "It's okay Buddy", resets the system. Only once have we had full alarm, that hound dog bark/baying that wouldn't shut off. Whatever it was was gone by the time Buddy and I checked the perimeter, then reset the system. Baby's little bark and growl wouldn't do nearly as much good on a two legged predator. Cameras are a good idea too.
Thanks for the fantastic tips, Dee! I spent my first night in my van last night and thoroughly enjoyed it! The only thing I wished was different was my ability to see what was outside. I am definitely going to get a couple of those cameras! Stay safe and enjoy, beautiful lady!
@@cathieperezreyes so, I am planning on putting one up too. I want an “attic” with a Thule. Which rack are you getting? I’ve got to find someone to install mine.
I might say of all the videos I watch about cargo van live yours has been the most informative. I am researching collecting information and deciding which van I really need to hit the road. Thank you for who you are and all your willingness to share.🚗
Thank you very much for these excellent tips. I would add more, don’t rest on what measures you’ve taken. Regularly review these to see if they can be improved and that you have not missed anything. Keep your ears open for news that may concern you and be proactive as needed. Be promethian. Lastly, stay healthy, get your rest so you can function at your best. Thank you again.
Oh, that last bit makes me want to add something else. Always have a small cup of strong (espresso strength) coffee at the ready. You'll rarely need it, but if you ever find yourself needing to get up in the middle of the night and drive away, a big caffeine boost can help a lot (and it will taste good enough cold too). While the caffeine actually only kicks in after a while, your brain anticipates it so much that it jump-starts itself as if the caffeine is already working (see Lisa Feldman Barrett's Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain).
Viewing this a few months on, but Great advice! I’m a guy, but I totally agree with the precautions you take in sizing up a location. I’ve always found it’s always easier to avoid trouble, than to try and fight your way out of it! I travel in a Transit Connect too (2012). I carry some things you don’t, but I’m very impressed with how much room you’ve squeezed out of yours! And while I sometimes wish I’d gotten a full size van, with the price of gas right now, I’m glad I’m driving a Transit Connect.
I have been considering adding security cameras. I would like the ability to see what is around my van (whether beast or man) without having to take down privacy shades. I will probably have to get at least 2, 1 for each side of the van. Thank you for the recommendation, going to check for any UA-cam how to and review videos next!
Fill your tank to the top or as much as you can. Many vans get lousy gas mileage and you might need to floor the van and blow a lot of gas getting out. Hornet spray is a good plan too you can buy it in home depot and it is a big can too. Great TIPS Lady Bugout.
Ya know what's a bad plan? Using a defensive spray inside a van. Inside a van is a small space with no ventilation. The fumes from the spray will contaminate the air & effect the person who used the spray to begin with!
Great tips! Thanks Dee! I was afraid of living in my RV and I'm so glad I didn't let that fear control/stop me! "Courage is being scared to death- but saddling up anyways" YAS! ❤️ Red
I live in a remote area in the countryside. Darkness is better than yard lights. Humans don't have night vision so to trespass at night the intruder needs a flashlight which makes them visable.
i bought a walking cane, Ventura, CA, my first week out traveling, for a dollar at a thrift store. walking around with a bat or maglight is a little awkward. also later found a good hiking stick to roam the forests, banging bushes and trees so the mama bear and cub wouldn't be startled and I wouldn't be clawed up and down.
Always great advices even for me who doesn’t drive :) thank you , I would get a loud siren to go along the cameras and flash light :) love your adventures , from 🇬🇧
Loved what your mom said about saddling up anyways, and that you decided not to let fear control you. Also props to your stepdad! When I worked as a fire fighter EMT we always carried one on questionable calls. I love the red color! ❤ great suggestions. 😃👍
Dear Dee Again very good advice …I usually trust my gut too …carry ball bat but like the idea of mag light to shine in person’s eyes first and you still can use like a bat lol will rethink that idea …as always be careful and safe and a great weekend!
I am always looking forward to your next video. This one was one I needed. I have thought about car camping but a little scared and unsure about places to stay and if I would be safe. Thanks again for a great video
I am contemplating going on a long road trip after my husband passes. I look forward to more advise you may have for travelling alone in my little van. It is already set up for camping but not as nice as yours.
Wow! that was some talk! all of it so true and very wisely given, you are a very wise lady and very brave. I think I will park near you and you can protect me oop's he he only joking!!! this has to be one of the best bits of advice for lone travellers. best wishes Ken
Thank you for the good advice. With every video I find something useful! I am looking to get a tiny van, but am weary of getting a used one. I am glad yours is working out.
Keep your key-fob close-by and set off alarm if needed. Also purchase a can of Wasp and Hornet Spray, it has a stream of 10-12 ft. And aim for the eyes.
Your Gut is Strategically closer to your Feet than your Brain for a Reason. When your Gut tells you to Walk Away do so, because by the time the Message from your Brain arrives, it might be too late.
I hope you have a "backup plan" after the flashlight: Contact-weapons have to be used close-up (not recommended!), so have a plan for when it's taken away from/used on you. As for bear spray, like tasers it doesn't work on some people. Absolutely zero effect. Have a backup plan for that scenario, too. -- BR
Yes! The key to good self-defense is following the first action with an instant second one. So, for example, first a kick against the shins and then go for the eyes. Never first the groin, if the attacker is male. (It's what many men expect you will do.)
I never go below a half tank of gas! You don't know when traffic will be backed up or hit a long detour! Also that gives me a chance to stretch and restroom trip. A cold drink or coffee. ALSO, since this life style is so popular, the stalkers are stalking these videos and tips. Everyone knows about the boots outside the door trick. Its fast becoming Dead Giveaway! Just saying... I've been loving this lifestyle for 6 years. Never had a problem, but things are different now with so MANY people joining this wonderful way of life. God bless.
Hi there, thank you for this video. It is always a good idea to be prepared and have a plan of action. I think a lot of folks who would love to live this lifestyle on a part time or permanent basis, are afraid. As Bob Wells says, turn the key and drive away. I personally like to sleep at gas stations, and just camp out in a public park somewhere during the day. I would love to be fulltime on the road. At the moment we have the eclipse coming tomorrow and that usually has weird weather just before, during or just after the eclipse. Happy Trails and Safe Journeys. Be Blessed
Thank you for these short videos. You provide more info than others achieve in 30+ minutes. I suspect that is because you spend a lot of time preparing the message.
Thank you so much for sharing this great advice! I'm not yet in my tiny-home-on-wheels but hope to be in the fall (or at the very latest, by spring 2022). One other great form of protection is dogs. I currently have a Chihuahua, who's a great "alarmist" (no need for a door bell)...but once I'm in my tiny-home-on-wheels, I will be getting another dog, one that's more intimidating and will make someone with ill-intentions think twice before confronting me or trying to get into my rig :-) Thank you again for sharing and hope to meet you on the road some day :-)
@Beth's Vanlife Adventure Having a plan sometimes is what separates the living from the deceased. Just never know what may happen. Not all emergency begin with criminal intent.
Thank you for sharing safety tips, very sound advice. I am such a scaredy-cat and it has many times stopped me from enjoying my life to the fullest. I will definitely keep in mind your words of wisdom x
I am all about bonking bad guys upside their heads! 🔦 😂 I'm sure like many, I sleep with my keys around my neck on a lanyard, but I don't sleep during the night. I feel safer snoozing daybreak-late afternoon. My best top-secret tip (in town) is to park in a hospital structure. I even found one with power outlets on every level! They generally have guards and cameras. Yay for tiny wireless cams!! Hip hip hooray for sisterhood safety! 💪🏾
HI there.. caught part of your interview with Ray @Vanliferocks.. Looking forward to catching more of your vblogs!!! Great advice!!! Always trust your gut!!!
I’m a solo female senior traveler and sleep in my minivan. Do you have any advice for when you actually get a knock on the door during the night. I worry if they are true security guards or police officers. I’m not physically able to get from the back to the driver’s seat.
If they are true security guards or officers, they will show you their badges. For other unwanted ‘guests’ whether animal or human…loud noises are a good way to make them scatter. So beeping your horn or a loud whistle will deter them and alert anyone nearby of your distress. Call someone immediately if it is a human intruder and let them know you have notified authorities. I hope that is useful. Mostly, you will probably not have that happen. But, those would be my tips in that situation. ♥️🐞♥️
That's an old school flash light they are heavy and it really hurts when u get hit with those even like dropping them on your feet. Also thank u with the tips to staying safe as some others would have a teaser and some extreme would have a knife or licensed gun.
I tried a rest area one night backed in and two cars with men in them parked in front of me and I couldn’t get out if I had had to so I waited for them to leave and then I left that rest area that scared me.
Hi again DEE Great info for self protection! Just being self alware and having plans for safety are a good start. Commonsense and keeping a level head as possible with a controlled response will be an important beginning to moving forward with a plan. Like that amazing flashlight bat! Thinking that one could really sting lol lol! Thx for sharing once again your super good ideas. Stay safe and enjoy!
When I am road tripping and need to crash, I usually park in a hotel parking lot - show up after the evening rush - ask if it is okay if I get some shut eye. Been able to snag some coffee/hot water and even offered a shower & use the gym. I solo camp/backpack (tent). If I am asked if I am alone, I say my brothers are coming up after football practice & I wanted to snag the spot. (Use same excuse when hiking solo) Forget mace. Bear spray. You don't have to make contact, just have to hit the ground btwn you (and you're upwind). Please familiarize yourself in advance. Also, self-defense course. Every few years. It gives me an awareness confidence and, I am told, I give off a "don't eff with me" vibe. I keep a "Beware of the Dog" sign visible. No "cutesy" stickers or license plate holders except an NRA or Ducks Unlimited sticker - but remove if not there bc some ppl break in to steal guns.
I've been traveling in my SUV for years now and stay at alot of truckstops. Many times in the morning coffee rush, I am the only woman in line. A long time ago a nice cashier suggested to me that it is a good idea to buy 2 cups of coffee...then it's not so obvious that I'm alone. Made sense to me. I put the 2nd cup in a thermos once I'm back in my vehicle and enjoy it later on in my drive.
Good idea! Thanks♥️🐞♥️
That is a very good idea. Thank you for sharing.
There was a time when truck drivers would protect a woman because they had a wife and children at home. Then someone got the bright idea to train convicts who were being released from prison so they would have a job. Problem is that S.ks affenders were in that mix.
@@MeMe-cd1wythere’s plenty of men out there who haven’t been caught. Danger is always been around us.
There are so many risks involved in living in your van.
I lived in mine for close to 3 years and NEVER had a problem, because I followed my instincts. Every thing she said was what I did except # 4.
The number one thing in my book is to never look like your living in you Vehicle. Keep your car looking clean, inside and out, keep yourself looking clean. Eliminate all clutter that can be observed by anybody walking past your car. Always allow enough room where you park for an emergency exit. Another words if you’re parallel parked allow enough room in front and back of you vehicle to escape quickly if you are in danger.
It is a good idea to also know in advance what gas stations are open 24 hours how far away they are this can be a lifeline for many reasons not the least of which is having to use the restroom if you don’t have the means to do so in your vehicle. Also when in danger, any public place that is open and well lit with cameras is your friend. If you have the opportunity to scope out a potential sleeping area do so at various points in the day & night. Take note of what kind of activities are going on outside. A really uncomfortable situation is being in the back of your vehicle and a whole group of people nearby engaging in loud conversations and potentially illegal activities. That leaves you vulnerable to being caught up in their risky behavior.
I didn’t travel around the country I stayed in one city and I had a list of no less than six places that I can go to. Rotate your sleeping area’s so as to not Arouse suspicion. People have a tendency to call the cops for the slightest inclination that somebody is up to no good. I had only one encounter with the police, because a homeowner saw me eating chicken in my car. Yeah like I said people call the cops for everything.
I’m a guy and have far less fear living in my vehicle, I suspect women have far more to worry about. Girls have your head on a swivel if it feel even slightly wrong my advice is leave! I associated with other car campers and I met a woman who was raped by a guy who had told she was living in her car. She made herself a target. Tell no one your living in your car, # 1 it’s none of anyone’s busyness. If you follow all safety rules you needn’t live in fear.
Great advice and very well spoken as always! I had an experience one time with a hotel in GA, so it doesn't just happen in a van. I booked a hotel thru' a travel agent and when I got there, I picked up my key and ut ohhhh! There was a bunch of real rough guys outside messing around and to get to my room, I would have had to walk by them. They were drinking and loud and boisterous, so I turned right around, went back to the office and asked for a refund. I went down the road a ways and found another hotel where the desk clerk was very understanding of the circumstance and said, "I will put you on the second floor here, high enough to make you feel safe, but close to the elevator and office." I was there for a long 4 day weekend and he watched for me everyday, checking on me and asking if I was okay. So yeah, it's not just camping that a woman alone has to use good sense and trust that gut feeling. You have great videos.... very detailed and so well spoken. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for sharing this Pat! Very important for others to see 😊
The best way to "win a fight" is not to be there (an ancient proverb).
@@jolly7728 ...but then you let others (low-life/street trash) run your life, telling you where you can or can't be. No, we tell THEM what's up, not the other way around.
Go where you want, let THEM beware of YOU!
CARRY! There's no substitute. Never has been.
-- BR
@@billredding2000I hear you, but if those kinds of folks (low-life/street trash) were there, we wouldn't want to be in the same space with them anyway, right? Something would have to be wrong with a place that attracted those kinds of folks. Better to just stay away.
@@jolly7728 True, I don't want to be around primitive/violent savages/nut-case homeless/transient trash, but sometimes I'm forced to be in those areas...like recently when I had to go downtown for Jury Duty -- how many city downtowns are "safe" paces to be nowadays? ;-)
But I see it opposite of you: It's not the PLACE itself hat is bad (or good), it's the PEOPLE there who make it good/bad. Get rid of the bad people and the place is fine. But yeah, I tend to avoid trouble -- shouldn't we all -- but at the same time won't be intimidated or run-off from any place I have a right to be. Let them try at their own (and great) personal risk (don't care).
Stay safe, HOWEVER you do it!
-- BR
Good advice Dee. Here's a few more tips; a pair of men's boots outside your door, dog barking app, police siren app, car alarm app, gun cocking app, set up 2 camp chairs. Smile and enjoy yourself.
Thank you Linda! Great advice.
Great tips!
I like how you think!
thank you for the info. great tips .. always take care & be safe travels🙏
Dogs and especially pit bulls work really well too! My big boy Blanco has protected me in my travels across mainland MX. He probably wouldn't hurt a flea, but he has a powerful bark! (Loves people... lol)
A former Manager of mine at a security company, who was also a retired Police Sargent, Had a saying " Just Because You Feel Safe, It Does not Mean You are." Basically know your surroundings.
Good word!!! 😎
My Mom taught me another fantastic idea to use if you need protection! She said to keep a can of wasp spray handy! It shoots farther then pepper spray and would stop anything, animal or human! Never tried it on either myself, but always sounded like a winner to me!!
That does sound like a good idea! ❤️
Wasp spray should be a last ditch effort because you will likely blind your attacker for life, which opens you to criminal charges and/or civil lawsuits if you can not prove your life was in danger, depending on what state you are in when the problem occurs.
Not saying don't use it, especially if it's life or death, but do try to drive away before resorting to that.
Priority #1 is getting away to safety, not defeating an attacker.
I've heard that using wasp spray as a weapon is a felony. Not sure if that's true or not. I mean if I was defending myself I'd use anything as a weapon, but I'd rather not get arrested along with my attacker.
I just looked it up. Holy crap it actually is a felony!
@@mongoose9851 Only if you get caught. Just drive away after you drag his blind carcass back out of your van. It's not like he'll be able to pick you out of a police lineup after that. 😂
Siphoning gas is more prevalent having a locking gas cap is a must.
Keep your key-fob to your vehicle close by when sleeping, and if you think someone is threatening, set off your vehicle alarm. Other people close by may hear it and come to your rescue. Pepper spray is a must, and a spray can of Wasp and Hornet spray is nice because it has a stream of 12-14 Ft. Aim for the eyes. Recommend that you practice spraying it. These recommendations would apply at home also.
My van doesn’t have a key-fob. But I always keep them in same spot. Great advice. Thanks!!!☺️
for self defense a good choice also is a fire extinguisher. a good fire extinguisher works on the principle of suppressing oxygen. if a person or an animal is unable to breathe they immediately forget about their original intentions. a fire extinguisher is not restricted anywhere. in fact, in europe every car is required by law to have one.
Great advice. Thanks☺️
You can also smack someone with it. Granted - you could actually kill someone doing that as they're very sturdy to contain the high pressure of the gases in the extinguisher so don't do so without good reason.
I prefer a gun
Excellent video. My same rules. The half tank one saved me. I got very lost once outside Yosemite. My other rule is , if I'm not in a place to sleep before dark. I get a hotel. I don't deviate from that.
One other good thing , is to program your car lock system to only unlock the driver side front door. No one can jump in your car that way.
Thanks Karen! I like that rule. My doors are not automatic lock. So they are all always locked unless I manually unlock them. I used to find it a pain, but now I am very thankful because it keeps me mindful of having doors locked!
I'm getting ready to start van life, I'm a 50-year-old female, and I had a friend who does van like for the last 3 years say that since van life has become so popular and so many more people know about it that crime has seemed to really go up especially in campground areas or rest Ops, so just be aware of that there's more people aware of van lifers
That’s a good word of caution. Thank you 😊
Great information! I was in a campground and parked facing into the spot rather than backing in. I wanted my back doors to be visible to others if I had to press the alarm. Had I backed in, my back doors would have been hidden from all other vehicles. My safety plan always depends on my circumstances! Love your channel! Thank you for posting!
Hi Jen! YES...thanks for sharing that!
I like the gas tip. You should never go lower than a quarter of a tank to prevent your fuel pump from burning out. I've been in places where I'm the only camper. But I have 2 dogs. Once at a truck stop, someone was skulking around my mini. Emmy started growling and barking and scared them off.
It’s wonderful you have dogs!!! I might have to settle for a growling or barking app😝
Good info, thanks. Have to check out cameras. Dad always said keep 1/2 tank gas and bought all girls pepper spray
Good dad!
Good advice!
We often think of threats as human. However, safety in terms of weather disasters is something we should all be increasingly prepared for. A video on this topic would be good. Ideas on where and how to prepare and seek shelter when you are in a vulnerable vehicle would be helpful.
Great suggestion! I will put that on the list for future videos☺️
Good idea. I'd like to learn more about that, too!
Me three ❤ I also would like you to do a video on that , where and how .Thank you for sharing with us ❣️
I'm seriously considering van life when my daughter goes to uni next year. This was a fab vid for single people.
Wonderful! You should definitely try it then 🤗
I love Dee's videos, they are so informative and helpful
Hey girlfriend, Loved the video.putting those wireless cameras on top of my list. That mag light will be there too. Being an X truckdriver l have my 25 yr.old tire thumper. Talk about getting someone's attention with that. GREAT JOB.
Hey Fe! Thank you for your encouragement! 🥰
You’re one tough lady bug out
@@LadyBugout love your videos keep up the awesome work
I have a Spring loaded baton.. Drove truck for 26 years smacked more than a few fingers and arms with it trying to Put their hand in my door or over my window jamb..
They also make great tire thumper .. I actually put a 300 pound male truck driver that had the audacity to grab my butt on his knees with it in front of his laughing friends..
What kind of wireless camera? I couldn't find it in the link. Thanks in advance.
Always know where you are. Be able to give a very accurate description of your location for 911.
Great tip!
Getting your GPS coordinates and writing them down.When you arrive.Would be great
Walk softly and carry a gigantic mag light. Another great video. I usually say "be safe" but looks like you are. So have fun.
😂 love it 🔦
Very helpful! The mini security camera item was on my wish list for the future build. Agree 100% about the gut check meter. I’ve moved many a time on a gut feel and thankfully to date don’t have a “I had a gut feeling and didn’t heed” story. Have fun! Be safe!
Thank you Karen! Agreed...I don't want one of those stories either!
See, thank you so much!! I love how concise you are with the information you share with us. I am easily overwhelmed and I never feel like your videos are too much. You ALWAYS have great information and do such a wonderful job explaining things! THANK YOU AGAIN!
Thank you so much Rita! You are so encouraging to me 😊
It does not cost any more to fill up the top half of your tank as it does to fill the bottom half. You never run out of gas if you drive on the top half.
Exactly☺️
A friend told me about the app Life360! A couple of family members always know where I am and even if my phone is going dead so they can hollar at me (and they have) to CHARGE MY PHONE!
I also have motion sensor lights and cameras!! You rock, Lady! Love your smile and knowledge.
I heard about that app too. I’m going to check it out. Thanks!
@@LadyBugout Hey Dee! Did you just use mounting tape for your motion security lights? I just received mine yesterday and wasn't sure if you screwed them in because you haven't made other holes in the van. Thanks for all the links! I just cashed in some of my travel points for amazon gift cards to "be like Dee". haha.
@@bevuntethered Hey Bev. I used magnets. Get ceramic or heavy duty neodymium magnets and glue one to the back with gorilla glue. As long as you let it dry well before use, it works like a charm!
We used Life360 when the kids were younger, now we just share our location on Google maps.
I'm really late here - catching up on your videos - but would like to add "be prepared for a quick get-away if you feel it's sensible to leave" to your list:
1>Always leave your drivers seat free and accessible (assuming you have access from the back of your vehicle).
2> Always have your keys handy in a place you can grab them easily.
3> Always use internal covers for your cab windows so that you can remove them without going outside.
Enjoying your content; thanks!
Yep! Great suggestions. Love it♥️🐞♥️
I worked heavy highway construction for 30 some yr..Was majority of the time the only female away from home,working,staying by myself.. My crew I worked with were great.. But they were not always in the same location.. Yes. Definitely yes... Always trust your gut.. Happy traveling my friend.🚐❤
Thank you Arna! You too😊
Mag lights are great and make a good club. For truly blinding light, get an Olight or Surefire or other 21st century flashlight. Just one will light up a cathedral and completely blind a 4 or 2 legged predator.
Thanks for the suggestion! 🤩
@@LadyBugout , you're welcome. I really appreciate and value your advice.
Hi Dee... Good Advice. I drive an 18 wheeler for a living more than 20 years now. Something else is always act like you belong there if you have to be outside. I learned along time ago that no matter what a hammer is always a hammer as opposed to some other tools or things that are sometimes called weapons depending on how you hold them. That flashlight is good too! I recently came across your channel and found it refreshing. Be safe.
Thank you. It means a lot coming from someone with so much experience. Welcome to the channel💃🏻🐞🚗
Those are all great safety tips, Dee! Your first one is crucial to your safety...trust your gut. I'm well prepared to defend myself but I would rather not be involved in any confrontation. If I feel or see a situation that could evolve, it's time to move on. Perpetrators strike on easy targets; taking the paths of least resistance. If you look confident and you seem to be aware of your environment, perps will go elsewhere. I have a sticker on my van that says, "Never mind the dog, beware of the owner." In 63 years of backpacking, hiking, car camping I've only dealt with one incident involving a mountain lion. I stood my ground, raised my trekking poles and yelled for the cat to go away. I used your Aootek light tip mounting one on my windshield and one on the back door of my van. While boondocking a wild horse activated the windshield light but it just continued to graze.
Wow! Thanks for sharing your experience!
Also, look up where the nearest police station is before bedding down for the night so you can head straight there if trouble forces you to leave early and tries to follow you as you leave. It is doubtful that someone will continue following once you pull up to the police station. Maybe put the address into GPS before going to sleep.
Great advice! Thanks for adding it here☺️
Mag lites are oldies, but goodies! I have always carried one, got one for my daughter with her first car, and will be getting one for my granddaughter in a couple years with her first car. Great video & safe travels🥰
Thank you! That is awesome!
For security (and my personal lifestyle) I am owned by Buddy, (the sweetest hound dog you ever want to meet) and Baby (terrier/terror dog). Noises at a distance at night, low growl from under the bed lets me know to check the situation. "It's okay Buddy", resets the system. Only once have we had full alarm, that hound dog bark/baying that wouldn't shut off. Whatever it was was gone by the time Buddy and I checked the perimeter, then reset the system. Baby's little bark and growl wouldn't do nearly as much good on a two legged predator. Cameras are a good idea too.
That’s great! Glad you can have your dogs☺️
Best public service video for females traveling alone educational and realistic to work with Thank You.
Thank you! I really appreciate that encouragement😌
Thanks for the fantastic tips, Dee! I spent my first night in my van last night and thoroughly enjoyed it! The only thing I wished was different was my ability to see what was outside. I am definitely going to get a couple of those cameras! Stay safe and enjoy, beautiful lady!
Yay! So exciting!!! I can’t wait to meet up.
@@LadyBugout yes!! Soon 😊❤️😘
@@cathieperezreyes where will you mount the cameras, Cathie? I just put two in my cart!
I’m going to install a roof rack so I’m thinking on either side of it
@@cathieperezreyes so, I am planning on putting one up too. I want an “attic” with a Thule. Which rack are you getting? I’ve got to find someone to install mine.
I might say of all the videos I watch about cargo van live yours has been the most informative. I am researching collecting information and deciding which van I really need to hit the road. Thank you for who you are and all your willingness to share.🚗
I really appreciate that encouragement Jean! It means so much to me☺️
Yes please stay safe. You are living the dream.
Thank you! I will 😊
Flash 'em and bash 'em -- gotta love it!
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Yup - “Trust your gut” is very important for all of us. Great video with great advice….thanks for sharing.
Thank you for watching!😃
Thank you very much for these excellent tips. I would add more, don’t rest on what measures you’ve taken. Regularly review these to see if they can be improved and that you have not missed anything. Keep your ears open for news that may concern you and be proactive as needed. Be promethian. Lastly, stay healthy, get your rest so you can function at your best. Thank you again.
Thank you for those great tips!!!
Oh, that last bit makes me want to add something else. Always have a small cup of strong (espresso strength) coffee at the ready. You'll rarely need it, but if you ever find yourself needing to get up in the middle of the night and drive away, a big caffeine boost can help a lot (and it will taste good enough cold too). While the caffeine actually only kicks in after a while, your brain anticipates it so much that it jump-starts itself as if the caffeine is already working (see Lisa Feldman Barrett's Seven and a Half Lessons About the Brain).
Viewing this a few months on, but Great advice! I’m a guy, but I totally agree with the precautions you take in sizing up a location. I’ve always found it’s always easier to avoid trouble, than to try and fight your way out of it! I travel in a Transit Connect too (2012). I carry some things you don’t, but I’m very impressed with how much room you’ve squeezed out of yours! And while I sometimes wish I’d gotten a full size van, with the price of gas right now, I’m glad I’m driving a Transit Connect.
Exactly! I agree. Thank you for watching, Jonathon☺️
I have been considering adding security cameras. I would like the ability to see what is around my van (whether beast or man) without having to take down privacy shades. I will probably have to get at least 2, 1 for each side of the van. Thank you for the recommendation, going to check for any UA-cam how to and review videos next!
Perfect!
Thank you for your sage advice. I respect and admire your reassuring, practical manner.
You are so kind♥️🐞♥️
Fill your tank to the top or as much as you can. Many vans get lousy gas mileage and you might need to floor the van and blow a lot of gas getting out. Hornet spray is a good plan too you can buy it in home depot and it is a big can too. Great TIPS Lady Bugout.
Thanks for the suggestions!☺️
Ya know what's a bad plan? Using a defensive spray inside a van. Inside a van is a small space with no ventilation. The fumes from the spray will contaminate the air & effect the person who used the spray to begin with!
Great tips! Thanks Dee! I was afraid of living in my RV and I'm so glad I didn't let that fear control/stop me! "Courage is being scared to death- but saddling up anyways" YAS! ❤️ Red
Thanks Red😌
I live in a remote area in the countryside. Darkness is better than yard lights. Humans don't have night vision so to trespass at night the intruder needs a flashlight which makes them visable.
Good to know!
Great tips. I love the idea of a spy camera. I hadn't heard that one before and the flashlight baton is great. Happy travels.
Thank you! ❤️
i bought a walking cane, Ventura, CA, my first week out traveling, for a dollar at a thrift store. walking around with a bat or maglight is a little awkward. also later found a good hiking stick to roam the forests, banging bushes and trees so the mama bear and cub wouldn't be startled and I wouldn't be clawed up and down.
Yes! I have a walking cane as well…and bear spray.☺️
My goodness!!! Thank you for the information. Starting my van build next week. Saving this to my folder of "things I need".
Awesome! Glad it is helpful information☺️
Always great advices even for me who doesn’t drive :) thank you , I would get a loud siren to go along the cameras and flash light :) love your adventures , from 🇬🇧
Thank you. Yes. I have a bear horn!
Loved what your mom said about saddling up anyways, and that you decided not to let fear control you. Also props to your stepdad! When I worked as a fire fighter EMT we always carried one on questionable calls. I love the red color! ❤ great suggestions. 😃👍
Thank you. I’m honored 😌
Five shot Taurus .38 Spl revolver...👍👍👍👍👍
Dear Dee Again very good advice …I usually trust my gut too …carry ball bat but like the idea of mag light to shine in person’s eyes first and you still can use like a bat lol will rethink that idea …as always be careful and safe and a great weekend!
Thank you Vicki!
I am always looking forward to your next video. This one was one I needed. I have thought about car camping but a little scared and unsure about places to stay and if I would be safe. Thanks again for a great video
Hi Tanya! So glad it was helpful. That’s why I do them 🥰
Ty very much for taking the time in putting these helpful tips together. Quite eye opening, indeed.💐
You are very welcome!☺️
You so sweet and kind to share your knowledge. Thx to your channel
Thank you again! I appreciate the encouragement ♥️🐞♥️
Thank you your video are great. Stay safe bless and healthy 🌝
Thank you Mary!
I am contemplating going on a long road trip after my
husband passes. I look forward to more advise you may have for travelling alone in my little van.
It is already set up for camping but not as nice as yours.
I will be doing more in the future. Thanks for the suggestion ☺️
Wow! that was some talk! all of it so true and very wisely given, you are a very wise lady and very brave. I think I will park near you and you can protect me oop's he he only joking!!! this has to be one of the best bits of advice for lone travellers. best wishes Ken
Thanks Ken!
Thank you for making this video 😊 it’s much appreciated ❤️
You are very welcome!
Your space looks so comfy, cozy.
Thanks☺️
Note- women should never assume you’re alone.
Keep extra large workbooks outside your tent
Keep extra large dog bowl outside too….
Good advice!
Found the link to the mini spy cameras, thank you so much. Your videos are such a breath of fresh air and I love all your tips.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 great!!!
Thank you for the good advice. With every video I find something useful! I am looking to get a tiny van, but am weary of getting a used one. I am glad yours is working out.
Thank you Kay! I hope you find a good one☺️
I have that same fear. 180k miles on a van seems unsafe for an old lady alone on the road.
Going to get me one of those flashlights, great idea!
Thanks Adele! 🤗
Carry some fire power...
Keep your key-fob close-by and set off alarm if needed. Also purchase a can of Wasp and Hornet Spray, it has a stream of 10-12 ft. And aim for the eyes.
Great idea about those wire less camera and i like your idea about motion sensor lights.
Thank You
You are welcome!
Very good safety tips for anyone. Thank you.
Thank you Rosemary!
Your Gut is Strategically closer to your Feet than your Brain for a Reason.
When your Gut tells you to Walk Away do so, because by the time the Message from your Brain arrives, it might be too late.
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Another great video! I love your attitude of not letting fear control you.👍
Thank you as always!!! ☺️
Wow, I’m so amazed in your blog Lady Bugout…👌👌👌👏👏👏
Thank you so much Tess♥️🐞♥️
I like the new background curtain! Nice!
Thank you😊
I hope you have a "backup plan" after the flashlight: Contact-weapons have to be used close-up (not recommended!), so have a plan for when it's taken away from/used on you.
As for bear spray, like tasers it doesn't work on some people. Absolutely zero effect. Have a backup plan for that scenario, too.
-- BR
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Yes! The key to good self-defense is following the first action with an instant second one. So, for example, first a kick against the shins and then go for the eyes. Never first the groin, if the attacker is male. (It's what many men expect you will do.)
I never go below a half tank of gas! You don't know when traffic will be backed up or hit a long detour! Also that gives me a chance to stretch and restroom trip. A cold drink or coffee.
ALSO, since this life style is so popular, the stalkers are stalking these videos and tips. Everyone knows about the boots outside the door trick. Its fast becoming Dead Giveaway! Just saying... I've been loving this lifestyle for 6 years. Never had a problem, but things are different now with so MANY people joining this wonderful way of life.
God bless.
Yes! Agreed 😝
Hi there, thank you for this video. It is always a good idea to be prepared and have a plan of action. I think a lot of folks who would love to live this lifestyle on a part time or permanent basis, are afraid. As Bob Wells says, turn the key and drive away. I personally like to sleep at gas stations, and just camp out in a public park somewhere during the day. I would love to be fulltime on the road. At the moment we have the eclipse coming tomorrow and that usually has weird weather just before, during or just after the eclipse. Happy Trails and Safe Journeys. Be Blessed
I’m glad you liked it. I agree, there are times when it is just safer and easier to drive away, even if it is just a gut feeling.
Thank you for these short videos. You provide more info than others achieve in 30+ minutes. I suspect that is because you spend a lot of time preparing the message.
Thank you Kim! I try to keep to what I think will be helpful. I watched so many videos and I liked ones that had helpful info I could use! 😊
Thank you for always leaving information in you description. I love having your information at my fingertips and ears!
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Hey Deneen! So glad it is helpful. ❤️OKC
Thank you so much for sharing this great advice! I'm not yet in my tiny-home-on-wheels but hope to be in the fall (or at the very latest, by spring 2022). One other great form of protection is dogs. I currently have a Chihuahua, who's a great "alarmist" (no need for a door bell)...but once I'm in my tiny-home-on-wheels, I will be getting another dog, one that's more intimidating and will make someone with ill-intentions think twice before confronting me or trying to get into my rig :-) Thank you again for sharing and hope to meet you on the road some day :-)
Thank you Elizabeth! Yes, dogs are great. Maybe one day☺️ I hope our paths cross some day too!
@@LadyBugout 🙂🤗
Why not find the nearest hospital or cop shop when you turn in. GPS at the ready to bring you to a safe place. Hospital has armed security.
Those are great options too!
great idea. I worked in hospitals all my life and never thought of this. Love it.
@Beth's Vanlife Adventure Having a plan sometimes is what separates the living from the deceased. Just never know what may happen. Not all emergency begin with criminal intent.
@@GEAUXFRUGAL best way to get hurt is to not have a plan B for almost everything.
Great information especially about the gas and cell phone topics.
Thanks!
Love the flashlight! BOOMMM!!!
😂hey my friend!!! Good to see you here ☺️
Thank you for sharing safety tips, very sound advice. I am such a scaredy-cat and it has many times stopped me from enjoying my life to the fullest. I will definitely keep in mind your words of wisdom x
You are welcome Susan! ♥️🐞♥️
What a lovely life you have nice to watch You and listen to your everyday adventures Thank you lady ☘️☘️☘️
Thank you as always☺️
All good tips! Thank you for sharing!
You are welcome!☺️
Thanks alot for your tip, soon am starting my traveling
You are welcome. How exciting! Best wishes to you and your travels!🥳
@@LadyBugout
Thank lady
Great advice. Thank you for sharing. I’m very impressed with the huge flashlight!! 😃 stay safe.
Thanks! 😂 yep, it was a great gift-didn’t hurt that it was red🤗☺️🚗🐞♥️
Great advice. Enjoy the van ladies on GLOW discussion.
Thank you Lorraine! Glad you enjoyed♥️🐞♥️
Check out The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, and a dog is always good.
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I just found yoir channel, and I love it!
Thank you! Glad you are enjoying the content 🐞🚗💃🏻
I hope someday I am able to do this it
I hope so too☺️
I am all about bonking bad guys upside their heads! 🔦 😂
I'm sure like many, I sleep with my keys around my neck on a lanyard, but I don't sleep during the night. I feel safer snoozing daybreak-late afternoon. My best top-secret tip (in town) is to park in a hospital structure. I even found one with power outlets on every level! They generally have guards and cameras. Yay for tiny wireless cams!! Hip hip hooray for sisterhood safety! 💪🏾
😂 yep! Great ideas. Thank you!
Great strategy - to keep a different sleeping schedule also "fools" security or cops who will roust van-dwellers that they imagine are homeless.
Do you mind if I ask what you do during the night instead of sleep? Since the pandemic, a ton of 24-hour joints close at night.
Very well said touched on many good points
Thank you Natalie!🥰
HI there.. caught part of your interview with Ray @Vanliferocks.. Looking forward to catching more of your vblogs!!! Great advice!!! Always trust your gut!!!
Thank you for hopping over here to check it out, Gracie! ☺️
Thank you, really good info and presentation??? Not the word I wanted but hope you know what I mean. Have subscribed 🙂
Thanks you and welcome to the channel💃🏻🐞🚗
I’m a solo female senior traveler and sleep in my minivan. Do you have any advice for when you actually get a knock on the door during the night. I worry if they are true security guards or police officers. I’m not physically able to get from the back to the driver’s seat.
If they are true security guards or officers, they will show you their badges. For other unwanted ‘guests’ whether animal or human…loud noises are a good way to make them scatter. So beeping your horn or a loud whistle will deter them and alert anyone nearby of your distress. Call someone immediately if it is a human intruder and let them know you have notified authorities. I hope that is useful. Mostly, you will probably not have that happen. But, those would be my tips in that situation. ♥️🐞♥️
That's an old school flash light they are heavy and it really hurts when u get hit with those even like dropping them on your feet.
Also thank u with the tips to staying safe as some others would have a teaser and some extreme would have a knife or licensed gun.
Yes! Very true🐞🚗☺️
Great video! I am interested in what else you learned from your stepdad. Awesome Channel, your so down to earth. I love it.
Thank you for sharing.
He has taught me so much about safety and survival. I’ll have to convince him to be in one of my videos😜
I tried a rest area one night backed in and two cars with men in them parked in front of me and I couldn’t get out if I had had to so I waited for them to leave and then I left that rest area that scared me.
That would be scary. Glad you left when you could!
Thank you for the good advices.
You are very welcome! ☺️
TY for all the gr8 tips! Bless you & TY😊👍
You are welcome! ☺️
Great info beautiful lady, thank you so much🙏🌹
Hi again DEE
Great info for self protection! Just being self alware and having plans for safety are a good start. Commonsense and keeping a level head as possible with a controlled response will be an important beginning to moving forward with a plan. Like that amazing flashlight bat! Thinking that one could really sting lol lol!
Thx for sharing once again your super good ideas. Stay safe and enjoy!
Hello 👋 Glad it was helpful. Yes, I totally agree☺️
When I am road tripping and need to crash, I usually park in a hotel parking lot - show up after the evening rush - ask if it is okay if I get some shut eye. Been able to snag some coffee/hot water and even offered a shower & use the gym.
I solo camp/backpack (tent). If I am asked if I am alone, I say my brothers are coming up after football practice & I wanted to snag the spot. (Use same excuse when hiking solo)
Forget mace. Bear spray. You don't have to make contact, just have to hit the ground btwn you (and you're upwind). Please familiarize yourself in advance.
Also, self-defense course. Every few years. It gives me an awareness confidence and, I am told, I give off a "don't eff with me" vibe.
I keep a "Beware of the Dog" sign visible. No "cutesy" stickers or license plate holders except an NRA or Ducks Unlimited sticker - but remove if not there bc some ppl break in to steal guns.
Thanks for the tips!