sooooo...your girlfriend puts you in jail...you get released..she convinces you to bring her to a meet and greet with your parole officer..gets you thrown in a halfway house..get released..hook back up with her... get in a fight..calls the cops on you again..back to jail..I'm not a gambling man..but odds are..she's bad luck for you guy
This situation is not uncommon. I dunno anything about “luck” but some people just have really defective Pecker Pickers. If it wasn’t this girl it’d be another just like her, unfortunately. This kinda thing may well have it’s genesis in the Wayback Machine.
@@tundrawomansays5067 what i don get is if the girl realy loves him why doesnt she just let him go and let him sort his self out. clearly the relationship was toxic....i mean how can the girl call cops on him twice..
This was originally aired in 2017. (Update on Jessica Proctor.) She continues to work full-time as a home healthcare aid and is in the process of petitioning the court for full custody of her son, Donte. She was scheduled to be on parole until November 2020, so I’m assuming she officially ended her parole a few months ago. Blessings to her and her family. I hope she’s doing well.
I had the intuition jessica was going to make it. She didn't need parole. Although she had a violent crime, I felt she's not a repeat offender. Thank you for the update.
Rob sullivan.. bet if you did an update on him, it wouldn't be successful. Hope I'm wrong, but he's had 10 years to strengthen up for his child. Wrong. He needs to strengthen up for himself, the rest will follow. He's in jail saying he's trying to make it up to her.... How? For spending year after year for ten years behind bars? Got to do it for yourself guy.. the rest will follow. Eventually she will get older and resent you, she's young right now, hope she doesn't act out in her teens, as I've seen that scenario far to many times. It will serve to give you an excuse to keep using and messing up, not that you need one. I say work on yourself so you can be there in person for her, she's going to need you in those teen years, they are brutal guy. I wish you only the best.
Vaughn, doesn't matter what you grew up seeing, what matters is what life you choose for yourself. You know slot because you've seen it all. Make positive decisions for yourself, don't hang with the same crown, think about improving your education, it will help you in the future and occupy your time. Your parole is saying you have to keep a job. Failure right there. With a felony and no education you will be a repeat offender or I dishwasher. GO TO SCHOOL Get that education your going to need it. It may save your life. Best wishes.
I hope Anger Management was a mandatory part of her parole. She clearly has a lot of anger. She said "I didn't kill anyone", but she tried to. She violently slashed the face of another human being and 10 years later she is still justifying her behavior. I wouldn't want her caring for any of my loved ones, or me for that matter.
You can tell that Katherine Montoya - the Latina parole officer - genuinely cares about her parolees, and you can tell that she truly wants them to succeed, be sober and healthy, and happy.
The little girl telling her mom that that’s daddy. I got so emotional, because two years ago my dad passed away suddenly. I hope you love you dad forever and ever.
There was a BLATANT difference between the 2 female correctional officers. One was genuinely helpful and wanting to improve lives, the other was there to just collect the check, hand out neck swings and attitude. Katherine is an Earth Angel! Praying for everyone out there fighting to do right, you can do it!
@@iquitnow you got a time stamp on that? And no. It was his 4th time on parole. If it was his first then maybe you can argue she's a control freak but it was his FOURTH! he's the problem not her. Second, he agreed to the rules of parole. He knew the rules and chose to break them and not only break them but take pic of himself doing so. Her coming from money is irrelevant. Third, you dont kno what past experiences she's had with parolees tht might have made her cynical. Shes dealing with people who are not honest.
A lot could happen in under a year. Regardless of her background, he's still the one who has the power to succeed or fail and he chose to fail. He could either get with the program or serve out his sentence. You cant agree to rules and break them and cry its not fair when caught. It might not be easy but im sure it beats being locked up. Montoya had a woman who had goals and was willing to work with Montoya not against her. Thats why she succeeded. She chose to succeed.
@@gavinb907 WE LET RICH INDIVIDUALS AND RICH COMPANYS GET AWAY WITH BREAKING ALOT OF LAWS. MONEY MATTERS IN COURT! IF YOUR RICH YOU CAN HAVE AN ADVANTAGE. BECAUSE YOU HAVE ALOT OF MONEY AND IN SOME CASES FAME. THEREFORE YOU CAN SPEND ALOT OF MONEY ON A DEFENSE ATTORNEY OR ATTORNEYS. THEN THERE IS PEOPLE IN JAIL OR PRISON, SOME FOR PROFIT PRISONS. OVER A NON VIOLENT SMALL AMOUNT OF MARIJUANA OR DRUGS? THATS EXTREMELY WRONG!!! MONEY SHOULD BE OUT IOF THE EQUATION!
@@ZMAN_420 that’s a dream. Regular folks aren’t even free - depends how you look at it. We still live in a feudalist society where there are castes and nobility. We just dress it up better so people can’t tell the difference. Make a person happy enough, they just won’t know how much they’re being screwed.
That girl at 13:43 “He missed my tenth birthday, but my eleventh is still important…all of my birthdays are important…” that child was trying so hard to give her dad grace. What a beautiful soul.
The way that Dad pushed his crying daughter's arms off of his waist reminds me so much of my dad. My dad was the same type of dude, in and out of my life due to heroin. The only time he would ever show me any type of affection was when he was high or wanted people to think that he had his life together. I remember going over to his house one weekend and he had moved in his girlfriend and her daughter. Her daughter had taken over my room that he had made for me. I had to sleep on the couch. I remember being so angry at 10 years old and sobbing. I threw my arms around him And he laughed like this piece of crap and said "why are you crying tough guy?" Scoffing at me like it was some kind of a joke. My dad passed away in May 2019 due to liver cancer caused by hepatitis C due to his heroin usage. I'm now 41 years old with children of my own. I can still remember to this day that moment, what I was wearing, what he was wearing, what the weather was like, where I was at. This memory will be burned into this little girl's mind for life. I absolutely hate and loathe deadbeat dads with everything in me.
I am terribly sorry you had to experience such, as I too NEVER had my dad in my life or truly knew who he was until I met him at age 26, by then there was no connection, relation nothing. Nonetheless I don't hate him, no longer holds him accountable for anything. . I'm not sure if I forgive him or maybe I just don't care, or that it doesn't matter .. . .but sometimes ”WE” people like me and you just don't know or wouldn't understand THEIR circumstances unless we're actually placed in and have to walk in their shoes.
Oh, Starla. I'm so, so sorry you were hurt so deeply. I was hidden from my father as a child and had a difficult relationship with my stepdad. Thankfully, I found my daddy in my early 40s. However, my daddy issues have affected me all my life and I had to learn to look to the Lord for the love of a Father that I so desperately needed. I will pray for God to heal your heart and draw you close to Himself. Bendiciones. 💙🙏
I had such high hopes for her daddy too, especially after seeing the first two and how they screwed up their parole. I think that sweet little girl deserved a lot more effort on the part of someone she obviously loves more than anything.
@@MrKnoxguy101 I agree. But I don’t think her dads a bad guy. He loves her to pieces but sometimes love just isn’t enough. It broke my heart to see his frustration with the halfway house. I kept thinking - please just deal with the BS for a few months and go home to your baby girl. Broke my heart to see him become a fugitive
Why would Raylees mom think that everything will be so normal after her ex is let out of prison? You need to make a whole new life and establish MAJOR BOUNDARIES. GET REAL WOMAN.
Mom needs to wisen up. The only thing this relationship is doing is teaching the daughter to love from trauma and fear. She is learning that it’s ok for a man to have no empathy for you and hurt you and you’re supposed to just love him any way. I hope the girl gets counseling so she has a fair chance at life later.
Montoya and the bald officer are genuinely making a difference. To not throw the one guy back in jail when he walks up with his victim to his parole meeting…that took understanding and patience
The guy with the tear drops....his poor sweet little girl deserves SO MUCH MORE. When I heard him say that sometimes it's cheaper to buy a beer for 2$ and just forget his problems...I knew one thing. He's not ready. I wish he was but that is defeat before you've even started.
Yes sad when they both know he's going back to jail he's buying her shoes and she starts crying he says 7to her what's wrong why you crying like he doesn't know why she's crying 😭 Sad I been on probation when I was younger and it is tuff if your not ready.
And people that dictate other's emotions are lousy people. Telling his daughter not to cry is BS...I hope his daughter finds a good man who his NOTHING like her father
Him and the other dude who just strolled in with his girlfriend who he was not supposed to be with and think its a ok. He had no sense enough to go in to see his parole officer himself. Your right these guys are not ready or gonna change
That white lady parole officer made me so mad. He wasn't even given a chance, yet the other officers let the others go by with even larger violations. On top of that, her attitude was disgusting. I'm literally fuming. He read her at the end.
@@jonnieinbangkoki think going from a life of committing crimes & have that + other bad habits be a normal part of your life, then going to prison for 10 years unlearning those habits in a controlled setting & then being labeled a felon so that you have a tough road to acclimating back to the outside world and then not resorting back to your old habits to survive are the parts that are hard work. sorry for the run-on sentence, just my rambling thoughts haha
Exactly!!! The way that man used and manipulated his daughter into thinking he really loved her when all he had todo was go to work and go to the halfway house and chill. I was so DISGUSTED.
The one Parole officer who actually cared about their parolee and wanted them to succeed is the only one who had a successful case. Wonder if that's a coincidence?
Maybe, but the parole officer job is to make sure the parolee is following the rules. The parolee can’t control what officer they get, but they can control following the rules
The key is being humble and smart enough to do what you have to do to get where you want. It is that simple. Saying you love your kid and then being unwilling to do what you need to do to get back to her is ridiculous. A parole officer isn't supposed to do things your way. Your way is what gave control of your life to others.
I see your point...But it is also only 1 case for each officer for the documentary out of the 50 - 60 -70 cases they have on-going. We also don't see what was edited.
Mortomor So did you watch a different documentary? Because the one I saw was full of people that still refuse accountability, make excuses, lie, game the system, ignore the rules they find inconvenient, refuse to humble themselves and put their energies into swerving in and around the system with no real goals or plan to succeed. No one, even without the burden of monitored release, can succeed and excel with those attitudes. It's destined for failure... And you blame the parole officer. Unbelievable... I would suggest you do not have a clear vision on what it takes to overachieve. This is in their power... At least to get a better chance.
For a main stream media outlet they are pretty good. Main stream media is 100% propaganda and lies.. For the most part Frontline documentaries are straight foward and to the point. It's not often but sometimes they are guilty of belting out propaganda lies too.
I felt so bad for Raylee. She seems like she holds a lot inside all because her dad doesn't want to be a man and deal with the consequences. He chose the easy way out over wanting to be a better person/father for her. That little girl deserves so much better.
When he told her outside the store, "you can tell me anything." It was obvious that she hoped so hard and waited so long for him to come home and give her some semblance of dad who cares about her. Yet he couldn't see it. Hopefully, she will find her own positive way forward and not solace herself by ending up in a bad situation, pregnant at 15 by someone just like him.
The way he complained about child support he owed and how it would be hard to find a job with his record...like all that was thru no fault of his own. I do feel bad for his daughter, she is in for a lifetime of disappointment coming from him.
He's gonna be a disappointment for life. They almost never change completely. They either stop doing drugs as often or they stop for a short time. The second things get hard, they go right back. Just weak
"He wasn't there for my 10th, but my 11th is still important." Wow! That's about as forgiving as it gets! Should be the fathers alarm clock every morning!
Sadly that’s how a lot of POs are. If there were more like the Hispanic lady PO or that white dude PO I think it would be a lot different for a lot of ppl.
My last week of an alcohol program , my first dwi, we got a new counselor , just like this one , I might actually say was a bit worse, I was so thankful I was done that week . Oh man she was bad.
Out of touch too. “Oh just stop breaking the rules it’s like so easy to stay out omg” yeah right it’s so easy that’s why you good job security like that smh
Those who judge officer Brayfeild do not understand that when a parolee drinks or uses drugs they need to act. The offender in this case was extremely rude to her and he lacked accountability.
Very true...but addicts stay addicted to dysfunctional relationships. It takes intervention and therapy to understand you need to change the way you think.
Parole hits hard... You're free from prison but you don't get to enjoy the freedoms around life even when it's all around you. Good or bad, people who go through this brutal prison system are strong.
@@monacoofthebluepacific2571 That's not true. There are many stories of successful people who came out of prison. The problem is when you know bad people and that's all you know you're going to go back to your former lifestyle.
Parole is F’d up and I ain’t ever been in trouble. I have an uncle on his 2nd time in the joint he told the DA or whoever to put his parole on his sentence.
I’ve been on parole since 2010 and still have 3 more years to go…the simple fact is if you’re honest with your PO and not doing stuff to get in trouble you’re not going to get in trouble. Respect yourself and others and parole will be easy.
The guy who was robbing people said “Nobody got hurt” The people he arrived at gunpoint are scared from that traumatic event for the REST of their lives!!!!
Officer Montoya and the Bald officer are making wonderful progress for their community. It's a thankless job but it's refreshing to see POs who actually care. It's very difficult for folks coming out of the system to make that change. I wish all the folks in this doc the very best. Frontline docs are so fantastic that I feel guilty that they are free so I try to donate to my local PBS when I can.
Yeah her name is Lisa I dealt with somebody like her Believe me they're going to get dealt with down the road God help them if they're ever in a nursing home or a hospital and somebody recognizes them that Lisa girl she walks around like she's hot s*** with that gun it's very easy for someone to grab that gun and shove it up her ass And unfortunately a lot of white chicks are like that nowadays with everything not just being a PO officer but life in general They are soup Nazis You know the grammar Nazis that you see online. One day she's going to get that client that is going to say Oh you want to take me back okay b**** I'll give you a reason to take me back boom and then what. I don't think she's married and if she is it's probably on the decline.
These guys are in serious denial !!!! Ive never seen grown men blame every problem on everyone but themselves. Its unbelievable. But I am so happy for the girl who finished school. God Bless her !
Tbh looking at the parole halfway house rules is insane.. there should be some change to it, its worse then prison imo. The girl was just following the procedure to get her pay check.. while the whole system should be looked over and changes be brought in.
@@LuisRodriguez-zi1tf they were drinking, not even doing illegal drugs. The only reason he was rearrested for doing something that otherwise would be legal is he was on parole.
@@HabeasJ yea and part of his parole requirements was no drinking especially in the halfway house. He knew the rules and broke them anyways and on top of that took pictures of it! He's dumb and has no one to blame but himself.
It’s beyond f’d up for halfway houses to be in the center of drug ridden areas. A set up for failure 🤦🏾♀️ makes it that much harder to stay on the straight path
They didn't put the halfway house in a drug area. The fucking druggies came to the halfway house to sell drugs. It's always somebody else's fault isn't it.
i’ve been in and out of jail and prison for most of my adult life. Which hasn’t been extremely long, but still.. I had the same attitude for awhile UNTIL i realized it’s not about being an “adult” and i’m free i should be able to do what i want.. you committed a crime and it’s about seeing if you can resist the urge to do stupid small things and follow simple rules so when you’re REALLY on your own with no oversight you can exercise judgement to stay drug free and crime free and live a good life. There’s ALWAYS someone above you, there’s always rules.. We all want to be free from that, but it’s not realistic. Once i realized that i never went back. It’s been almost 7 years and i’ve been in rehab for 4 years, at my job for almost 3, have my own home. Me and my fiancé both have brand new cars, a 5 year old daughter and we are taking our 2nd vacation this year in a week to Gatlinburg. It’s extremely hard. Takes a lot of pride swallowing but it’s possible. And now i’m FREE.
☝️☝️this 💯 ☝️☝️ these guys, they are not men, have not realized they need to grow up, stop behaving like victims, and own the consequences of their actions. If you don't want to be a functioning part of society, then go live on the outskirts of it. We all live by rules.
@@Findpepperbridge i had to wait 7 years after my conviction and got a lawyer and filed to seal my record. only place that can see it is if i file for a federal or state job.
Why is she speaking to him like he’s a child? She’s the one with a chip on her shoulder. Hope she found a new profession because she’s not helping parolees succeed.
These are grown men acting like babies thats why. They are f ups and need discipline and structure. They are criminals who have burglarized and in some cases been violent. Do the work to get better or go back to jail. Those are the rules. Its not easy but its that or continue to be a menace to society.
Lets be honest, these guys are the scum of the earth trying to get over on you every other second. You have to be firm with these people especially being a woman. If you can't handle someone in a position of authority over you than you are going to have a rough time in this life. Toughen up and dont be so easily offended
How hard is it to follow the rules get the halfway house ordeal over with. These guys are unbelievable, just cooperate, just get it over. Rob is a complete idiot.
I was placed on probation at 45 y.o. for first time. It was no where near as restrictive as parole but nonetheless life changing. Having to answer to an authority that holds your well being, occupation, future, living arrangements, family along with all hopes and dreams in their grasp is a feeling beyond description. An officer similar to Montoya changed my perspective. We need more understanding and empathy like hers in this impossible system.
probation is nothing like parole. at least misdemeanor probation, which is the only one I've had experience with. Since I've seen plenty of therapists and counselors in my life for drug addiction, the 6 months with the probation officer for petty theft was pretty much just another person to talk to, because I don't really have any friends and my entire life I've had almost no one to talk to about my feelings and issues, so I did not mind the once a month session. but there was basically no rules or conditions for petty theft probation, I was even allowed to drink (not that I did, I've never been an alcohol drinker), I was free to travel, and do whatever. As long as I showed up and did not commit any more crimes there was nothing to worry about. He did want drug tests, but since I was already in an outpatient treatment center for addiction, I was allowed to just fax him the ones I already took there. Maybe a suspended sentence just requires court supervision, and to make sure I did the 32 hours of community service.
@@oldones59 oh i understand that Sir. The meaning i meant to express with my comment was that it is difficult to be a human in a controlled situation. Bless thes Parolees. I just cant even imagine being incarcerated and THEN be restricted in every way upon release.
@@stephenmartinez1 I admitted to my crime. I am a Felon, 5 years highly supervised. highly regimented, a violation will get me incarcerated, that stress has been goin on like 4 years and Im just so damn tired I tell ya. My sons have grown into adults and dont hang around moms.... cant bring your six pack or joint into my backyard for an afternoon bbq.. never know if my Officer might just pop by unannounced. My friends n cousins dont stop by for horseshoes or to play a few hands of cards anymore. we are all left thinking if me going in for the 2 years would have been a better choice for the mental, physical of my and familial well being of our loved ones... so much that we were trying to keep the same has changed because of our choice... idk, you experienced differences ( i also expected to) but i got a lot of parole similarities. say a prayer for me and mine please as i will for you and yours. blessed by differences bringin us together, thank you and take care❤
Some probations make parole look like a cake walk. It depends on the stipulations and provisions with probation. And often, they can be very confusing and inconsistent. Parole is more structured.
I absolutely, love watching Front Line. It's brings important issues into your home, and they make it easy to understand for adults, as well as young adults.
This reminds me of when my friend and I were heroin addicts, he stole some very expensive items over a 4-5 month period and pulled in around 100 grand. I remember being so jealous that he had all this money and dope. Well, he got caught and locked up for 5 yrs. I would never trade 5 years of my life for 100 grand
@@audacityx lol me too but I was free to do whatever I want on my days off, unlike in prison. I was too tired from work to do anything fun most of the time but I could have if I wanted to : )
Frontline is one of the few brands that invests in making the world a better place! Thank you. I'll donate to help you all. Fighting cancer, etc but I'd love to leave the world better than it was when I arrived a few decades ago.
That young man does NOT have 3 mom's!!!! Stop raising these young men in confusion! Just tell him the truth. He will learn to respect that. Also find him a male role model so he can become a Grown Man!!! Women need to stop this madness!!!
Rob wanted to get high. All of his other reasons for leaving the halfway house are just excuses. He wanted to get high more than he wanted to do right by his daughter.
You are exactly right. He complained about having freedom dangled in front of him while he dangled her daddy in front of her. That sweet little girl who obviously loves her daddy more than anything should’ve been all the motivation he needed. He should be ashamed of himself. He needs to grow up and realize that buying shoes a good daddy does not make.
We had a substitute teacher who was a former parole officer. I asked him if the parolees cooperated, and he said most of them did. Especially the older ones, because they'd realized that their luck had run out and didn't want to go back to prison anymore. But if they have a drug problem, the parole doesn't work.
The end is SO sad! Jesus, if they just would have let the guy stay with his girlfriend instead of dropping him off in a heroin park, he would have never been back!!! This System is so broken, but it's designed that way....it needs a complete overhaul, from the Top-down.
If the prisoners are on parole and go break the rules. They should not be allowed no more parole they should have one chance and one chance only and back to the slammer they go for life
That poor baby Raylee. Her deadbeat dad "why you cryin" gee I don't know buddy, maybe it has something to do with her dad copping out and abandoning her for the umpteenth time. Delinquent 100K+ in child support to boot. Good grief, get it together. Then the other dude posting pictures on social media drinking in a half way house 🙄. That's a no brainer chief. Glad to see Jessica rising above the bullshit and taking control of the trajectory of her life. She deserves a second chance for sure. Great work by frontline per usual.
Yup. His priorities are buying sneakers for his daughter rather than following the rules so that he can remain outside & be there for Christmas. What a cop out.
Heroin addiction is real buddy so if you ain't walked in them shoes you don't know I've walked in them shoes for 30 years and I've done 14 years in prison because of that drug but I've beat it cause I've been out this time for 4 years fuck heroin
@@seandaugherty2033 you spent your time the way you wanted to, be it prison or not. I was blown up in iraq and medically retired from the army. Battled oxycontin, heroin, and fentanyl for years bud. But when my kid was born I chose to quit and actually be a father rather than just wasting my life getting high. You can go to rehab, treatment, jail, prison. Doesn't matter what you do, if you aren't ready to put it down you will make up any excuse to justify your bs. I made that choice and never looked back. This fuckin guy in the video repeatedly fucks over his own kid, so I'm sorry but he gets no sympathy from me. Empathy yes, but he's had every opportunity to get it together and he doesn't want to and chooses not to. You can make excuses for him and feel sorry for him all you want, he loves that I'm sure. Gives him a cop out. I've been in the streets buddy, and I choose my kid. Period.
Dad is everything to a little girl even to a grown woman. My dad was my hero and if he kept coming in and out of my life like this I would have broken in two.
“I make a living on second chances”…… Officer Montoya…. God bless you for the work that you do…. Consciously, I know that the type of help ex convicts require stretches well beyond what society deems they deserve…. But what are we doing as a society in not helping these people except make the problem worse…. I get both sides of the argument….
Being paroled means u are out of prizon but still have to follow the laws and sometimes u wear a monitar and if u dont ur right back to prison if u want freedom outside please follow the rulles of probation
I hope he can get his life together he has a drinkng prpblem and drug problrm if he was in prison so mamy times he might not adjust to the out side world and back he goes back imtp prison
If your gonna see the girlfriend at least do it on down low and he would of been ok..bringing her to the parole office in front of the PO was just askin for trouble.
His attitude was lousy, and who's dumb enough to get drunk/high and TAKE PICS in a halfway house? If he was calm and didn't run his mouth, then he wouldn't have sparked the PO's attention. Person accountability.
@John B because they think alcohol will lead to bad behavior, alcohol affects your judgement not saying they will do anything illegal while drinking but that is what they believe can happen
@@AntonioRios3 Thanks! I know with police officers a warrant is required unless a warrantless exception applies. With parole officers, it is different.
Can we all just take a moment thank & appreciate the outstanding job on this documentary that PBS has done! I mean this is very revealing & informative I am loving watching this and learning about it wow
Wow dude...go to jail for sneakers, seeing your own daughter and taking her out to dinner....parole is almost worse than jail, because they dangle your family right in front of you, but tell you can't see them. Yeah, when has that ever worked in human history? o_O
Are they really? Yes. It is needed because it’s harmful to people who are misguided into thinking that they are “free” but still have to attend a court at a later time. Which limits their chance to obtain a higher employment status. Which limits their opportunity to have a better reputation. And thus to just keep up with a crowd
That blonde lady is just on a power trip ... "he seems angry" Why angry? Why not disappointed in himself? Is that illegal? You asked him to get a job, then you lock him up, and now he loses his job. Racial Biases were alive and well unfortunately. Also so sad to hear about Jessica's son. It truly is a cycle.
@@helpu2health did you watch? Did you see when they said any person who is under such magnification would violate? The officer is probably a failed cop who gets a power trip from her job. He’s better off in jail then having to deal w that idiot.
@@tatianar7682 Choice 1....you can stay locked in prison away from your family, eating crappy jail food and being told when to sleep, eat and shit until your sentence is completed or..... Choice 2....we can let you finish the remainder of your sentence NOT locked up where you can see your family, eat regular food, eat, sleep and shit pretty much whenever you want...all you have to do is follow some simple rules, stay out of trouble and check in every month... Hmmmm...the choice would be fairly easy for me.
@@helpu2health the rules are not simple . Did you not watch the doc? I will never encourage a black man to let some white woman or a system dictate his future. Do the time at least you have your dignity
@@tatianar7682 doesnt matter if the parole officer was male or female, white, black, green, blue ect....the guy dictated his future when he committed whatever crime to be sent to prison....there are thousands of other black males that dont commit crime and dont get locked up....
Great documentary. On one hand I have empathy for being treated like a second class citizen during parole. On the other had they don't understand that they are completing their prison sentence at a no security prison. One thing I notice of some of the people being documented... after all the time spend in prison where there are repercussions for breaking the rules... they start out not understanding, rules are rules... all they have to do is prove they have the ability to follow them for a set period of time. The lack of self control and understanding right from wrong is the root of the problem. That is what needs to change, otherwise they will be back in jail again. I am glad to see some of them succeed after falling down. Bless the souls of those parole officers for never giving up and believing in them. Something that we all need.
That’s bs one guy got 5 chances the black guy got one chance. Can u really sit her and tell me it’s not racially motivated cuz it was and is. That parole officer is the problem with parole officers
This was a hard one to watch. I never realized, basically need permission to take a pee, or a coffee! If Jessica see this?! I'm so Proud of her!! She's done it on her own, an setting example for her son!! You go Girl🙏😃
I know right watching her graduate had me emotional...so proud of her Vaughn on the other hand was given a raw stone cold parole officer. And these rules are so f*&k up
Because it was the guys 4th parole officer. She gave him basic parole obligations. Don’t drink. Not only did he break that immediately, he posted photographic proof of it. He’s an idiot and deserves to never see a parole board again.
@@rsod85 agree. And then he tried to argue why others can drink and why he can’t. Because he’s technically STILL serving his sentence, just outside of prison walls. Optimal conditions? NO! But I would think it’s better than prison although I haven’t experienced neither. Maybe in the mind of an inmate it isn’t clear what parole is. 🤷🏻♂️
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For most of these people this is their 3rd/4th "chance". How many do you want to give them before you finally say they're hopeless? Some people are just NOT fit to live in our society
@@kendallevans4079 what’s the crime tho? Some are there for drug charges so them deciding they want to use a substance means they can’t live in our society? Why can we drink but not use anything else to help get by
I just finished off 20 years state of Connecticut Connecticut. Served 11 years in prison followed by 9 years special parole. Not easy staying out and parole. I got one arrest on my record and after I got out I stayed out never went back. All depends on your parole officer. I've had every po in New Haven and for the most part they weren't too tough. I had one that was just a miserable human being and really got off I'm trying to make things as difficult as possible. In general if you're doing the right thing you really don't have much to worry about.
@@oogaboogamaxine3689 must be nice to be perfect. Must be nice to have never committed a mistake. To drink and drive, cheat on a loved one or spouse, cheat on your taxes, be a perfect role model in your community. I'm happy for you and your whole family that also must be perfect by the way for you to sit on your high horse and judge people. But in my world in reality people make mistakes it's what you do afterwards that counts. As for me I'm more than made up for the mistakes I've made but there will always be people like you that want to judge other people like you have no skeletons in your closet LOL
These parole officers have too much power. Plus that blond lady is so rude and likely a racist. There parole rules are too restrictive. But, I wish that father could have held it together and clear parole. Unfortunately, due to the dysfunction of her father, she will likely also get with a dysfunctional man. This is so sad.
Honestly how many cases do they have? Looks like they only care about the paperwork to get done. Really a little cam passion goes a long way she could learn.
@Jarod W You’ll get your time card pulled. It happens to all of us . Even I had to learn that, and I grew up in white areas, thinking “THOSE Black people just need to follow the law.” Just wait until they make up some BS and lie on you. It’ll be your word against an officer’s in court. Then you’ll get on code if you have any sense. The lawyer said to take the deal because “our juries are racist.”
I hope that white blonde lady that was processing Vaughn Gresham gets on the receiving end of the same kind of energy and conduct that she is doling it out herself to some of these offenders.
I agree she needs to work on her people skills and exhibit some degree of sympathy, but as some commentators have mentioned, Vaughan doesn’t appear remorseful or owing up that he messed up. I give him credit for his chill attitude, but if he doesn’t play by the rules, he’s going to do time.
Yeah, a particular brand of issues that, apparently, are a job requirement; a complete surety that she’s better than her charges combined with a total absence of self-reflection.
When I left San Quentin I informed the depth of corruption I needed no parole officer...later when my time was completed at folsom prison I refused parole...that was that
She actually cool as homeboy played her all right and you don't play with rookies they get freaked their going loose their job and respect from colleagues so you drink with them not in secret.
When I was released on parole I had a condition placed upon me not to drink, I violated it the day after I saw my parole officer. I could have been returned for several infractions but wasn't. I have been out of prison for over fifty years & will never again allow anyone to control my life. Parole is designed to fail and I was glad when I finished it. I worked myself into a civil service job from which I retired. It's an inhumane condition placed on a person trying to reintegrate into civilian life.
on their first day free, i told offenders that probation/parole is their choice, is not mandatory. i told them that although it had been offered and accepted, they could change their mind right now and go do their time, to get out without being on supervision. i went through 1 1/2 pages of dense fine print of rules with them, plainly explaining each one. i told them to imagine being held to those harsh, sometimes impossible rules every day for X number of years, only to be revoked on the very last day, and then incarcerated to serve their entire sentence anyway. i told them they should highly consider, on this first day, going back to the judge to revoke their acceptance of supervision. their responses told me everything i needed to know about their chance of successfully completing supervision.
Rob is weak as hell and is selfish. The way he didn’t surrender his check “so he could buy his daughter gifts and shoes” was bs. That was him deciding he’d rather have a low key life in jail instead of working “for nothing” aka paying his debts and supporting his child AND being able to see her. He’d rather be in jail. Wow. And later his daughter is gonna think it’s her fault her dads in jail cus he just wanted to buy her something nice. Poor mother too, he’s just been leading them on this whole time. What a loser.
37:45: that male agent yelling and cussing at the parolee about how he doesn't CARE about blah blah is not doing a very good job of modeling good, successful social skills.
You don't know how serious it is for people considered victims of their crimes... even before you are convicted, You aren't even allowed to talk to victims of your crime and you sign off of it as a condition of your parole as well so it's considered a big deal.
@@Fleurae being a retired po, i actually do understand the seriousness. and with my experience, i would guess that you are the girlfriend of a man on supervision for hurting you. he has convinced you that he didn't mean it, he loves you, he's changed, and he won't do it again. you are probably conspiring with him to violate his parole by sneaking to be with you, because the no-contact is "so unfair and should be your choice". you don't make the connection that if he's willing to break rules that he agreed to in order to not be locked up, he will break the "new rules" that the two of you have agreed to for him not to put his hands on you. he might actually love you, in his way, to the best of his ability. but the 'love' he's capable of involves dominance over, and pain inflicted, on you. ask yourself if you would ever do to someone you love what he did to you. good love doesn't hurt. i'm just instinctually answering a youtube comment, so maybe i'm all wrong. but if i'm not, please stay away from him. move on. you're empathy and compassion deserve to be placed in the hands of a good and decent man, not someone who uses your goodness against you.
The only parole officer who cares is Jessica’s parole officer. The other ones are power tripping which is so toxic… I feel bad for them. Jessica’s parole officer really cares and that’s so beautiful. She sees a human being asking for a second chance. Stark difference between parole officers who care and those who want to power trip.
sooooo...your girlfriend puts you in jail...you get released..she convinces you to bring her to a meet and greet with your parole officer..gets you thrown in a halfway house..get released..hook back up with her... get in a fight..calls the cops on you again..back to jail..I'm not a gambling man..but odds are..she's bad luck for you guy
This situation is not uncommon. I dunno anything about “luck” but some people just have really defective Pecker Pickers. If it wasn’t this girl it’d be another just like her, unfortunately. This kinda thing may well have it’s genesis in the Wayback Machine.
@@tundrawomansays5067 what i don get is if the girl realy loves him why doesnt she just let him go and let him sort his self out. clearly the relationship was toxic....i mean how can the girl call cops on him twice..
Uh, yeah wtf
If she really cared about him she would stay away. He should have been sent to rehab for 6months to a year. Why even give him the chance to mess up?
Yea, he needs to separate himself from her. She is a nice looking woman and I'm sure the kitty is fire, but don't sit in a cell for it.
This was originally aired in 2017. (Update on Jessica Proctor.) She continues to work full-time as a home healthcare aid and is in the process of petitioning the court for full custody of her son, Donte. She was scheduled to be on parole until November 2020, so I’m assuming she officially ended her parole a few months ago. Blessings to her and her family. I hope she’s doing well.
Thank you for the update.
I had the intuition jessica was going to make it. She didn't need parole. Although she had a violent crime, I felt she's not a repeat offender. Thank you for the update.
Rob sullivan.. bet if you did an update on him, it wouldn't be successful. Hope I'm wrong, but he's had 10 years to strengthen up for his child. Wrong. He needs to strengthen up for himself, the rest will follow. He's in jail saying he's trying to make it up to her.... How? For spending year after year for ten years behind bars? Got to do it for yourself guy.. the rest will follow. Eventually she will get older and resent you, she's young right now, hope she doesn't act out in her teens, as I've seen that scenario far to many times. It will serve to give you an excuse to keep using and messing up, not that you need one. I say work on yourself so you can be there in person for her, she's going to need you in those teen years, they are brutal guy. I wish you only the best.
Vaughn, doesn't matter what you grew up seeing, what matters is what life you choose for yourself. You know slot because you've seen it all. Make positive decisions for yourself, don't hang with the same crown, think about improving your education, it will help you in the future and occupy your time. Your parole is saying you have to keep a job. Failure right there. With a felony and no education you will be a repeat offender or I dishwasher. GO TO SCHOOL Get that education your going to need it. It may save your life. Best wishes.
I hope Anger Management was a mandatory part of her parole. She clearly has a lot of anger. She said "I didn't kill anyone", but she tried to. She violently slashed the face of another human being and 10 years later she is still justifying her behavior. I wouldn't want her caring for any of my loved ones, or me for that matter.
You can tell that Katherine Montoya - the Latina parole officer - genuinely cares about her parolees, and you can tell that she truly wants them to succeed, be sober and healthy, and happy.
See the difference with that Caucasian one?
@Sabrina Valenzuela I care enough about you to let you know that you should be a model if you are not one already.
@@hitzoneproductions7858 - That’s a sweet compliment. Thank you so much!
@@sabrina.natalie You're most welcome. Can you thank me by giving me the opportunity to get to know you?
@@hitzoneproductions7858 simp
The little girl telling her mom that that’s daddy. I got so emotional, because two years ago my dad passed away suddenly. I hope you love you dad forever and ever.
🙏🏼❤️
This narrator... One of the reasons why i watch these videos.
Yes, I like his inflection.
Me too
Samesies. The narrator can make or break a documentary, and if the narration is bad, it can make a program impossible to watch.
It's Will Lyman. Dude is famous for his voice.
Great voice
There was a BLATANT difference between the 2 female correctional officers. One was genuinely helpful and wanting to improve lives, the other was there to just collect the check, hand out neck swings and attitude. Katherine is an Earth Angel! Praying for everyone out there fighting to do right, you can do it!
well one of them had a parolee who was willing to actually change. the other had an idiot.
@@iquitnow lol a probation officer isnt rich wtf.
@@iquitnow you got a time stamp on that? And no. It was his 4th time on parole. If it was his first then maybe you can argue she's a control freak but it was his FOURTH! he's the problem not her. Second, he agreed to the rules of parole. He knew the rules and chose to break them and not only break them but take pic of himself doing so. Her coming from money is irrelevant. Third, you dont kno what past experiences she's had with parolees tht might have made her cynical. Shes dealing with people who are not honest.
A lot could happen in under a year. Regardless of her background, he's still the one who has the power to succeed or fail and he chose to fail. He could either get with the program or serve out his sentence. You cant agree to rules and break them and cry its not fair when caught. It might not be easy but im sure it beats being locked up. Montoya had a woman who had goals and was willing to work with Montoya not against her. Thats why she succeeded. She chose to succeed.
@@LuisRodriguez-zi1tf Truth indeed. Had they switched officers they still would have failed.
If these documentaries weren’t created I probably wouldn’t know about all of these problems in detail. Thank you.
I definitely wouldn’t know a lot about black tar heroin either
I agree the U.S. has the most capita incarcerated. It's a shame!
@@ZMAN_420 We have the most criminals, we are the biggest criminals and dont let people get away with crimes
@@gavinb907 WE LET RICH INDIVIDUALS AND RICH COMPANYS GET AWAY WITH BREAKING ALOT OF LAWS. MONEY MATTERS IN COURT! IF YOUR RICH YOU CAN HAVE AN ADVANTAGE. BECAUSE YOU HAVE ALOT OF MONEY AND IN SOME CASES FAME. THEREFORE YOU CAN SPEND ALOT OF MONEY ON A DEFENSE ATTORNEY OR ATTORNEYS. THEN THERE IS PEOPLE IN JAIL OR PRISON, SOME FOR PROFIT PRISONS. OVER A NON VIOLENT SMALL AMOUNT OF MARIJUANA OR DRUGS? THATS EXTREMELY WRONG!!! MONEY SHOULD BE OUT IOF THE EQUATION!
@@ZMAN_420 that’s a dream. Regular folks aren’t even free - depends how you look at it. We still live in a feudalist society where there are castes and nobility. We just dress it up better so people can’t tell the difference. Make a person happy enough, they just won’t know how much they’re being screwed.
That girl at 13:43 “He missed my tenth birthday, but my eleventh is still important…all of my birthdays are important…” that child was trying so hard to give her dad grace. What a beautiful soul.
Officer Montoya is very commendable. She should train all those parole officers. Congrats to Jessica!
She's being not commendable on purpose to test viewers. She's the worst.
@@julianderosa7563 you make zero sense. You should learn how to speak.
I thought the white guy PO was reasonable. He just wasn't as nicey nicey as Montoya.
@@julianderosa7563 lol imagine thinking she cared what you thought some random nobody
@@julianderosa7563 Do you know her? I thought she was genuine.
The way that Dad pushed his crying daughter's arms off of his waist reminds me so much of my dad. My dad was the same type of dude, in and out of my life due to heroin. The only time he would ever show me any type of affection was when he was high or wanted people to think that he had his life together.
I remember going over to his house one weekend and he had moved in his girlfriend and her daughter. Her daughter had taken over my room that he had made for me. I had to sleep on the couch. I remember being so angry at 10 years old and sobbing. I threw my arms around him And he laughed like this piece of crap and said "why are you crying tough guy?" Scoffing at me like it was some kind of a joke.
My dad passed away in May 2019 due to liver cancer caused by hepatitis C due to his heroin usage. I'm now 41 years old with children of my own. I can still remember to this day that moment, what I was wearing, what he was wearing, what the weather was like, where I was at.
This memory will be burned into this little girl's mind for life. I absolutely hate and loathe deadbeat dads with everything in me.
CATHARINE IS A DOWNER 4 HER MAN
ALREADY BROKE
PAROL ON 1'ST DAY
KATHERINE MONTOYA
NOW THAT'S A CLASS A"
P.O,NEED MORE LIKE
HER...
I am terribly sorry you had to experience such, as I too NEVER had my dad in my life or truly knew who he was until I met him at age 26, by then there was no connection, relation nothing. Nonetheless I don't hate him, no longer holds him accountable for anything. . I'm not sure if I forgive him or maybe I just don't care, or that it doesn't matter .. . .but sometimes ”WE” people like me and you just don't know or wouldn't understand THEIR circumstances unless we're actually placed in and have to walk in their shoes.
Starla... you deserved better. I'm sorry.
Oh, Starla. I'm so, so sorry you were hurt so deeply. I was hidden from my father as a child and had a difficult relationship with my stepdad. Thankfully, I found my daddy in my early 40s. However, my daddy issues have affected me all my life and I had to learn to look to the Lord for the love of a Father that I so desperately needed. I will pray for God to heal your heart and draw you close to Himself. Bendiciones. 💙🙏
I felt so sorry for the little girl holding back tears when her dad took her to get birthday gifts knowing he'd be gone for Christmas.
I had such high hopes for her daddy too, especially after seeing the first two and how they screwed up their parole. I think that sweet little girl deserved a lot more effort on the part of someone she obviously loves more than anything.
@@MrKnoxguy101 I agree. But I don’t think her dads a bad guy. He loves her to pieces but sometimes love just isn’t enough. It broke my heart to see his frustration with the halfway house. I kept thinking - please just deal with the BS for a few months and go home to your baby girl. Broke my heart to see him become a fugitive
Why would Raylees mom think that everything will be so normal after her ex is let out of prison? You need to make a whole new life and establish MAJOR BOUNDARIES. GET REAL WOMAN.
If those tears don't make you forget who you think you are - man, you're in some deep challenges
Mom needs to wisen up. The only thing this relationship is doing is teaching the daughter to love from trauma and fear. She is learning that it’s ok for a man to have no empathy for you and hurt you and you’re supposed to just love him any way.
I hope the girl gets counseling so she has a fair chance at life later.
Montoya and the bald officer are genuinely making a difference. To not throw the one guy back in jail when he walks up with his victim to his parole meeting…that took understanding and patience
The guy with the tear drops....his poor sweet little girl deserves SO MUCH MORE. When I heard him say that sometimes it's cheaper to buy a beer for 2$ and just forget his problems...I knew one thing. He's not ready. I wish he was but that is defeat before you've even started.
He’s a clown
Yes sad when they both know he's going back to jail he's buying her shoes and she starts crying he says 7to her what's wrong why you crying like he doesn't know why she's crying 😭 Sad I been on probation when I was younger and it is tuff if your not ready.
And people that dictate other's emotions are lousy people. Telling his daughter not to cry is BS...I hope his daughter finds a good man who his NOTHING like her father
Him and the other dude who just strolled in with his girlfriend who he was not supposed to be with and think its a ok. He had no sense enough to go in to see his parole officer himself. Your right these guys are not ready or gonna change
I thought the same thing
That Lisa’s attitude is something else. She likes to show her power. Just a tad antagonistic.
She’s trying to punish more than help
She is hate black people
Those PO's are seriously part of the problem...not solution. But where do these people get off with face tattoos and "brang?" They need a LOT of help.
i agree. . I hate her. . .
SHE IS JUST MAKING ME SO MAD LIKE HE IS HUMAN AND SHE ISNT TREATING HIM SOO SHE SHOULDNT HAVE THIS JOB JUST LIKE SHE HAS NO CHIN
That white lady parole officer made me so mad. He wasn't even given a chance, yet the other officers let the others go by with even larger violations. On top of that, her attitude was disgusting. I'm literally fuming. He read her at the end.
Yes. I love how he ended it.
You'll be alright deal with it.
@@amberhollowell2957 Keyboard pu$$y. You'd never say that to my face.
@@mxdallasboy1 you’ll be alright. Deal with it
@@deadlyoneable lmaooooooooooo
What a difference between the two female correctional officers, one good, one with a bad attitude. Kudos to Jessica!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Not true at all 😞
@@cornell833very true
No, it's called FAFO...
I root for those that make an effort, not excuses. Shoutout to Jessica for doing the hard-work and turning her life around!
Not committing crimes is hard work...then I've been working my ass off for 60 years!
Especially when you can't get a job.
@@jonnieinbangkoki think going from a life of committing crimes & have that + other bad habits be a normal part of your life, then going to prison for 10 years unlearning those habits in a controlled setting & then being labeled a felon so that you have a tough road to acclimating back to the outside world and then not resorting back to your old habits to survive are the parts that are hard work.
sorry for the run-on sentence, just my rambling thoughts haha
Exactly!!! The way that man used and manipulated his daughter into thinking he really loved her when all he had todo was go to work and go to the halfway house and chill. I was so DISGUSTED.
Congratulations to Jessica on you accomplishments and your relationship with your son. I cried happy tears for her.
💯
@@raineyj560 HUNNED!!
She will be a nurse within 5 years. Mark my words
@ALA-FREAKING-BAMA! Really? That's sad. She was only 18 at the time. Maybe she will be the exception
The one Parole officer who actually cared about their parolee and wanted them to succeed is the only one who had a successful case. Wonder if that's a coincidence?
Maybe, but the parole officer job is to make sure the parolee is following the rules. The parolee can’t control what officer they get, but they can control following the rules
The key is being humble and smart enough to do what you have to do to get where you want. It is that simple. Saying you love your kid and then being unwilling to do what you need to do to get back to her is ridiculous. A parole officer isn't supposed to do things your way. Your way is what gave control of your life to others.
I see your point...But it is also only 1 case for each officer for the documentary out of the 50 - 60 -70 cases they have on-going. We also don't see what was edited.
I had a great p.o.
Mortomor So did you watch a different documentary? Because the one I saw was full of people that still refuse accountability, make excuses, lie, game the system, ignore the rules they find inconvenient, refuse to humble themselves and put their energies into swerving in and around the system with no real goals or plan to succeed.
No one, even without the burden of monitored release, can succeed and excel with those attitudes. It's destined for failure... And you blame the parole officer. Unbelievable... I would suggest you do not have a clear vision on what it takes to overachieve. This is in their power... At least to get a better chance.
Jessica seems like a good person. I hope her life turns out great. God bless them all.
Frontline has the best documentaries !!
Panorama is better but you need a UK VPN to use the site and they only make it available for like a few months after it first airs on BBC.
Absolutely
Good to fall asleep to as well!
Truth!
For a main stream media outlet they are pretty good. Main stream media is 100% propaganda and lies.. For the most part Frontline documentaries are straight foward and to the point. It's not often but sometimes they are guilty of belting out propaganda lies too.
Well done Jessica and her PO for giving her a break ,,a true social worker
I felt so bad for Raylee. She seems like she holds a lot inside all because her dad doesn't want to be a man and deal with the consequences. He chose the easy way out over wanting to be a better person/father for her. That little girl deserves so much better.
Her "dad" is a shameless, selfish, pathetic little man.
When he told her outside the store, "you can tell me anything." It was obvious that she hoped so hard and waited so long for him to come home and give her some semblance of dad who cares about her. Yet he couldn't see it. Hopefully, she will find her own positive way forward and not solace herself by ending up in a bad situation, pregnant at 15 by someone just like him.
"Dads" like him are usually a girls first heartbreak
The way he complained about child support he owed and how it would be hard to find a job with his record...like all that was thru no fault of his own. I do feel bad for his daughter, she is in for a lifetime of disappointment coming from him.
He's gonna be a disappointment for life. They almost never change completely. They either stop doing drugs as often or they stop for a short time. The second things get hard, they go right back. Just weak
"He wasn't there for my 10th, but my 11th is still important."
Wow! That's about as forgiving as it gets! Should be the fathers alarm clock every morning!
Sometimes people just need to know that ONE person believes in them.... It's always been MY greatest motivator
Yes
And like I've always said, as long as there's a profit from incarcerating people, NOTHING will change. It's the modern day slave trade.
@@jenniferlawrence9473 Lol, leftie. And what are we supposed to do with them? Send them to daycamp?
@@jenniferlawrence9473 Criminals put themselves in that position by choosing to engage in actions that violate the rules of society.
You have to believe in yourself that is why Jessica made it!
That one lady is a control freak. She took some kind of perverse pleasure in sending that man back to jail.
Sadly that’s how a lot of POs are. If there were more like the Hispanic lady PO or that white dude PO I think it would be a lot different for a lot of ppl.
right and made sure he saw that gun sittin on her hip.
My last week of an alcohol program , my first dwi, we got a new counselor , just like this one , I might actually say was a bit worse, I was so thankful I was done that week . Oh man she was bad.
Out of touch too. “Oh just stop breaking the rules it’s like so easy to stay out omg” yeah right it’s so easy that’s why you good job security like that smh
I did not like her she is a control freak 😏
I was crying seeing Jessica success. She worked really hard and she made really good grades. I hope she's doing well.
Those who judge officer Brayfeild do not understand that when a parolee drinks or uses drugs they need to act. The offender in this case was extremely rude to her and he lacked accountability.
That guy Erroll, his woman played a big part in his downfall. Probably should have left her alone years ago
Very true...but addicts stay addicted to dysfunctional relationships. It takes intervention and therapy to understand you need to change the way you think.
For sure. He was making such good progress.
She probably hooks up with a different drug user boyfriend while Errol's locked up.
@@biglu323 Of course she does
@@biglu323 Guarented
When both of your parents went through the system and you were once these kids, it hits different. Respect to Frontline for this. 🙏🏽
Stay strong. We need to see more how you see things.
Parole hits hard... You're free from prison but you don't get to enjoy the freedoms around life even when it's all around you.
Good or bad, people who go through this brutal prison system are strong.
Only the strong survive.
They come out worse for the wear and never fully recover.
@@monacoofthebluepacific2571 I agree 100%
@@monacoofthebluepacific2571 That's not true. There are many stories of successful people who came out of prison. The problem is when you know bad people and that's all you know you're going to go back to your former lifestyle.
Parole is F’d up and I ain’t ever been in trouble. I have an uncle on his 2nd time in the joint he told the DA or whoever to put his parole on his sentence.
I’ve been on parole since 2010 and still have 3 more years to go…the simple fact is if you’re honest with your PO and not doing stuff to get in trouble you’re not going to get in trouble. Respect yourself and others and parole will be easy.
Thank you and keep it up!!
Your attitude is inspiring and is one that others can aspire to learn from, great job!
My ex was on parole for two years. He got into trouble for not called the parole officer “officer -“ he just said her first name.
one being honest🎉🎉 love it...not playing victim
Oh but that doesn’t fit the poor poor me victim mentality
The guy who was robbing people said “Nobody got hurt”
The people he arrived at gunpoint are scared from that traumatic event for the REST of their lives!!!!
Yes!!!
I have been in an armed robbery (restaurant). It messed me up!
Obviously the ex-con is not rehabilitated yet. It's not his fault, it is the other person's fault, of course.
@@paulazemeckis7835 true
@@KimbradleyMasterGardener I can’t imagine! That’s crazy. Hope you’re ok. How long ago was it?
Truth.
Thank you FRONTLINE. Parole was presented as a lot more nuanced than I understood it to be.
Vaughn,his parole officer is a real witch!
@@mrgonzales5683 he’s just a clown
@@howtorawk yeah, that too lol 😆
jessica's new found confidence💙 in the beginning her head was hanging low..her graduation, her head was high and she was like, look at me. So good
I wouldn’t want to be ill and vulnerable and have a slasher taking care of me.
Prayers for all the parole officers that deal with the daily life of the convicts
Rules and regulations for these covicts they cant handle they go back into the system
Officer Montoya and the Bald officer are making wonderful progress for their community. It's a thankless job but it's refreshing to see POs who actually care. It's very difficult for folks coming out of the system to make that change. I wish all the folks in this doc the very best. Frontline docs are so fantastic that I feel guilty that they are free so I try to donate to my local PBS when I can.
Agreed they are both very very good parole officers. The Brayfield chick however, different story....
Yeah her name is Lisa I dealt with somebody like her Believe me they're going to get dealt with down the road God help them if they're ever in a nursing home or a hospital and somebody recognizes them that Lisa girl she walks around like she's hot s*** with that gun it's very easy for someone to grab that gun and shove it up her ass And unfortunately a lot of white chicks are like that nowadays with everything not just being a PO officer but life in general They are soup Nazis You know the grammar Nazis that you see online. One day she's going to get that client that is going to say Oh you want to take me back okay b**** I'll give you a reason to take me back boom and then what. I don't think she's married and if she is it's probably on the decline.
These guys are in serious denial !!!! Ive never seen grown men blame every problem on everyone but themselves. Its unbelievable. But I am so happy for the girl who finished school. God Bless her !
Amen
That guy saying u don’t care bout me is 100 .
Truth!
True what's also true is that he has a problem following rules your on parole not free
@Frank Maldonado Truth!
@@johnnyfive9815 True.
Tbh looking at the parole halfway house rules is insane.. there should be some change to it, its worse then prison imo. The girl was just following the procedure to get her pay check.. while the whole system should be looked over and changes be brought in.
That power drunk parole officer, I think her name was Karen, was awful. So happy Vaughn got another PO.
she was po number 4 but yeah im sure she's the problem and not the convict in front of her.
Lol Karen lol
@@LuisRodriguez-zi1tf they were drinking, not even doing illegal drugs. The only reason he was rearrested for doing something that otherwise would be legal is he was on parole.
@@HabeasJ yea and part of his parole requirements was no drinking especially in the halfway house. He knew the rules and broke them anyways and on top of that took pictures of it! He's dumb and has no one to blame but himself.
same
imagine getting let out out jail then going right back bc you can’t resist the urge to post pics of yourself breaking the rules on social media
Man as a father with kids. The hardest part is watching the little girl cry missing her father. That touched me
Same
Yeah. Beta father.
He’s a clown
His attitude was horrible, I really dont feel he realizes how much he's hurting his daughter 💔😔 by his words and behavior
It's got to be so tough having such a POS for a father.
he violated parole immediately after being released
for tha rest of us......any idea who is " he " ?
his gf was the one that got him locked up. she doesn’t care about him. it’s a very sad situation.
@@ShitTalkerExtraordinaire she’s not to blame for decisions that he made. She’s clearly toxic and so is he.
Following rules is for chumps, apparently.
It’s beyond f’d up for halfway houses to be in the center of drug ridden areas. A set up for failure 🤦🏾♀️ makes it that much harder to stay on the straight path
So where should the be? Rodeo Drive? Park Ave?
@@JChang0114 a place where the parolees have a chance to succeed
You don’t HELP/TRAIN/POSITIVE enforce/give any gawddamn freedom to life ! Cant even go see anyone ? Go get a coffee ? Wtf
I agree, put these halfway houses smack dab in the middle of a rich white neighborhoods where most brainwashed liberals live!
They didn't put the halfway house in a drug area. The fucking druggies came to the halfway house to sell drugs. It's always somebody else's fault isn't it.
i’ve been in and out of jail and prison for most of my adult life. Which hasn’t been extremely long, but still.. I had the same attitude for awhile UNTIL i realized it’s not about being an “adult” and i’m free i should be able to do what i want.. you committed a crime and it’s about seeing if you can resist the urge to do stupid small things and follow simple rules so when you’re REALLY on your own with no oversight you can exercise judgement to stay drug free and crime free and live a good life. There’s ALWAYS someone above you, there’s always rules.. We all want to be free from that, but it’s not realistic. Once i realized that i never went back. It’s been almost 7 years and i’ve been in rehab for 4 years, at my job for almost 3, have my own home. Me and my fiancé both have brand new cars, a 5 year old daughter and we are taking our 2nd vacation this year in a week to Gatlinburg. It’s extremely hard. Takes a lot of pride swallowing but it’s possible. And now i’m FREE.
☝️☝️this 💯 ☝️☝️ these guys, they are not men, have not realized they need to grow up, stop behaving like victims, and own the consequences of their actions. If you don't want to be a functioning part of society, then go live on the outskirts of it. We all live by rules.
Proud of you!
Good work. Wish you all the best ~~
What job were you able to get with a record?
@@Findpepperbridge i had to wait 7 years after my conviction and got a lawyer and filed to seal my record. only place that can see it is if i file for a federal or state job.
Why is she speaking to him like he’s a child? She’s the one with a chip on her shoulder. Hope she found a new profession because she’s not helping parolees succeed.
My thoughts exactly!!!
These are grown men acting like babies thats why. They are f ups and need discipline and structure. They are criminals who have burglarized and in some cases been violent. Do the work to get better or go back to jail. Those are the rules. Its not easy but its that or continue to be a menace to society.
Lets be honest, these guys are the scum of the earth trying to get over on you every other second. You have to be firm with these people especially being a woman. If you can't handle someone in a position of authority over you than you are going to have a rough time in this life. Toughen up and dont be so easily offended
@@danielgallagher4229 Amen!
How hard is it to follow the rules get the halfway house ordeal over with. These guys are unbelievable, just cooperate, just get it over. Rob is a complete idiot.
I was placed on probation at 45 y.o. for first time. It was no where near as restrictive as parole but nonetheless life changing. Having to answer to an authority that holds your well being, occupation, future, living arrangements, family along with all hopes and dreams in their grasp is a feeling beyond description. An officer similar to Montoya changed my perspective. We need more understanding and empathy like hers in this impossible system.
probation is nothing like parole. at least misdemeanor probation, which is the only one I've had experience with. Since I've seen plenty of therapists and counselors in my life for drug addiction, the 6 months with the probation officer for petty theft was pretty much just another person to talk to, because I don't really have any friends and my entire life I've had almost no one to talk to about my feelings and issues, so I did not mind the once a month session. but there was basically no rules or conditions for petty theft probation, I was even allowed to drink (not that I did, I've never been an alcohol drinker), I was free to travel, and do whatever. As long as I showed up and did not commit any more crimes there was nothing to worry about. He did want drug tests, but since I was already in an outpatient treatment center for addiction, I was allowed to just fax him the ones I already took there. Maybe a suspended sentence just requires court supervision, and to make sure I did the 32 hours of community service.
bation is through the courts. Parole is through a DOC.
@@oldones59 oh i understand that Sir. The meaning i meant to express with my comment was that it is difficult to be a human in a controlled situation. Bless thes Parolees. I just cant even imagine being incarcerated and THEN be restricted in every way upon release.
@@stephenmartinez1 I admitted to my crime. I am a Felon, 5 years highly supervised. highly regimented, a violation will get me incarcerated, that stress has been goin on like 4 years and Im just so damn tired I tell ya. My sons have grown into adults and dont hang around moms.... cant bring your six pack or joint into my backyard for an afternoon bbq.. never know if my Officer might just pop by unannounced. My friends n cousins dont stop by for horseshoes or to play a few hands of cards anymore. we are all left thinking if me going in for the 2 years would have been a better choice for the mental, physical of my and familial well being of our loved ones... so much that we were trying to keep the same has changed because of our choice... idk, you experienced differences ( i also expected to) but i got a lot of parole similarities. say a prayer for me and mine please as i will for you and yours. blessed by differences bringin us together, thank you and take care❤
Some probations make parole look like a cake walk. It depends on the stipulations and provisions with probation. And often, they can be very confusing and inconsistent. Parole is more structured.
Shout out to Jessica man, I'm watching this with 7 minutes left to go in the documentary and it looks like shes doing the best
I absolutely, love watching Front Line. It's brings important issues into your home, and they make it easy to understand for adults, as well as young adults.
I really hope everyone struggling with addiction right now can straighten out their life and be sober
Soooo proud of Jessica!!! Keep up the good work girl!!!
This reminds me of when my friend and I were heroin addicts, he stole some very expensive items over a 4-5 month period and pulled in around 100 grand. I remember being so jealous that he had all this money and dope. Well, he got caught and locked up for 5 yrs. I would never trade 5 years of my life for 100 grand
What was he stealing?
Did you get help for your addiction? Might take a few years....but stay with it. It is very hard to rehabilitate, but it is doable.
I only got paid $20,000 a year for around 5 years growing up so in a sense I traded 5 years of my life for 100 grand
@@audacityx lol me too but I was free to do whatever I want on my days off, unlike in prison. I was too tired from work to do anything fun most of the time but I could have if I wanted to : )
Yeah, and he didn’t have to spend any of that 100k paying 5 years worth of rent. Where do I sign up?
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That young man does NOT have 3 mom's!!!! Stop raising these young men in confusion! Just tell him the truth. He will learn to respect that. Also find him a male role model so he can become a Grown Man!!! Women need to stop this madness!!!
Well said
I concur completely.
I agreed. The more they know the truth from the being the better they understand. It's important the kids know who their biological parents are.
Yeah he gonna end up becoming a repeat offender just like them for sure.
Respect that Mr
I’m on parole, been doing good , striving for early release off parole! Woot woot .
Keep it up!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Way to go!
Rob wanted to get high. All of his other reasons for leaving the halfway house are just excuses. He wanted to get high more than he wanted to do right by his daughter.
The guy should never get on parole again. It's time to give some else a chance.
You are exactly right. He complained about having freedom dangled in front of him while he dangled her daddy in front of her. That sweet little girl who obviously loves her daddy more than anything should’ve been all the motivation he needed. He should be ashamed of himself. He needs to grow up and realize that buying shoes a good daddy does not make.
@@MrKnoxguy101my heart goes out to her. I hope she doesn’t grow up thinking she’s not good enough. Little girls need their daddies.
@@MrKnoxguy101 preach!
These types are non-fixable.
We had a substitute teacher who was a former parole officer. I asked him if the parolees cooperated, and he said most of them did. Especially the older ones, because they'd realized that their luck had run out and didn't want to go back to prison anymore. But if they have a drug problem, the parole doesn't work.
Ive been through this and having a good parole officer makes all the difference. Props to officer montoya for being a commendable officer.
The end is SO sad! Jesus, if they just would have let the guy stay with his girlfriend instead of dropping him off in a heroin park, he would have never been back!!! This System is so broken, but it's designed that way....it needs a complete overhaul, from the Top-down.
@@williamyoung9401 no he went and found his own place n was free to go n come as he pleased. So that wasn’t the problem
Videos are great this what happens on parole and when u break parole this is real all should watch and learn
Some don't understand the rules of parole and end back in the system to me parole is a joke
If the prisoners are on parole and go break the rules. They should not be allowed no more parole they should have one chance and one chance only and back to the slammer they go for life
My heart broke for Raylee. It just broke. She seems like an awesome kid. Errol🤦🏾
She does. She seems very smart for her age too. Poor things. She deserves so much better.
That poor baby Raylee. Her deadbeat dad "why you cryin" gee I don't know buddy, maybe it has something to do with her dad copping out and abandoning her for the umpteenth time. Delinquent 100K+ in child support to boot. Good grief, get it together. Then the other dude posting pictures on social media drinking in a half way house 🙄. That's a no brainer chief. Glad to see Jessica rising above the bullshit and taking control of the trajectory of her life. She deserves a second chance for sure. Great work by frontline per usual.
Exactly 😡🤦🏽♀️
Yup. His priorities are buying sneakers for his daughter rather than following the rules so that he can remain outside & be there for Christmas. What a cop out.
Heroin addiction is real buddy so if you ain't walked in them shoes you don't know I've walked in them shoes for 30 years and I've done 14 years in prison because of that drug but I've beat it cause I've been out this time for 4 years fuck heroin
You keyboard fuc$s don't have a clue unless you walked in them shoes
@@seandaugherty2033 you spent your time the way you wanted to, be it prison or not. I was blown up in iraq and medically retired from the army. Battled oxycontin, heroin, and fentanyl for years bud. But when my kid was born I chose to quit and actually be a father rather than just wasting my life getting high. You can go to rehab, treatment, jail, prison. Doesn't matter what you do, if you aren't ready to put it down you will make up any excuse to justify your bs. I made that choice and never looked back. This fuckin guy in the video repeatedly fucks over his own kid, so I'm sorry but he gets no sympathy from me. Empathy yes, but he's had every opportunity to get it together and he doesn't want to and chooses not to. You can make excuses for him and feel sorry for him all you want, he loves that I'm sure. Gives him a cop out. I've been in the streets buddy, and I choose my kid. Period.
The lack of maturity, accountability, and self awareness is staggering. No correlation between what theyve done creating their situation.
The dad at 32:00 is teaching his daughter to love a man that treats her like crap. And so the cycle of dysfunction begins.
Dad is everything to a little girl even to a grown woman. My dad was my hero and if he kept coming in and out of my life like this I would have broken in two.
Yea he is a loser
“I make a living on second chances”…… Officer Montoya…. God bless you for the work that you do…. Consciously, I know that the type of help ex convicts require stretches well beyond what society deems they deserve…. But what are we doing as a society in not helping these people except make the problem worse…. I get both sides of the argument….
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Being paroled means u are out of prizon but still have to follow the laws and sometimes u wear a monitar and if u dont ur right back to prison if u want freedom outside please follow the rulles of probation
Jessica has a attitude ptoblem if she doent follow the rules of her probation back she goes into the slammer
I hope he can get his life together he has a drinkng prpblem and drug problrm if he was in prison so mamy times he might not adjust to the out side world and back he goes back imtp prison
Alot of prisonera that get out cant adjudt to change
My parole officer used to brag how she sends all of us back si i got off parole and by the grace of God i javnt been back in almost 15 years
If your gonna see the girlfriend at least do it on down low and he would of been ok..bringing her to the parole office in front of the PO was just askin for trouble.
At end she got him back in prison. Smh
I know!! Just be a little more discreet/smarter for the violations that don't really matter
@@MrDonny27 That’s what I thought why did she get the police involved if she wanted to be able to be with him.
@@MrDonny27 yeah that’s what I was saying she put him back in prison on his fault but still
He was such an idiot for doing that. And kissing her in front of his PO
I feel bad for anyone that gets the blonde PO! She’s a miserable person ready to sabotage any of her clients
His attitude was lousy, and who's dumb enough to get drunk/high and TAKE PICS in a halfway house? If he was calm and didn't run his mouth, then he wouldn't have sparked the PO's attention. Person accountability.
She's probably become jaded by the criminals with whom she must deal.
@John B because they think alcohol will lead to bad behavior, alcohol affects your judgement not saying they will do anything illegal while drinking but that is what they believe can happen
@@davemojarra2666 She just started the job. Lol. That’s usually when people stick to the book.
These ppl are grownnn nobody but to blame but themselves if you didn’t wanna be back in prison you’d do right simple
The blonde officer needs to work on her people skills, and perhaps officers should have a bit of psychology training to be able to work better.
She had a job to do he did it, he choose to violate she just enforced the law
@@scoobydoo3115 with a smile
Don't they have to have reasonable suspicion to search the phone. She just searched his phone in violation of his 4th amendment constitutional rights.
@@AntiMasonic93 No, that doesn't apply to parole officers. They can search whatever and whenever they want.
@@AntonioRios3 Thanks! I know with police officers a warrant is required unless a warrantless exception applies. With parole officers, it is different.
Can we all just take a moment thank & appreciate the outstanding job on this documentary that PBS has done! I mean this is very revealing & informative I am loving watching this and learning about it wow
That lady is rude and difficult from the jump. She most likely sends everyone right back.
The Blond one? She doesn't seem to give a f&%$ about rehabilitation. Just on a power trip.
Yeah she seems like she could have worked with Vaughn.
She started off with a snotty attitude
So disrespectful
She must be on the rag
Never trust anything that bleeds for 7 days,and still lives
I love the fact that they are trying to revamp the parole system and jail system overall. Definitely needs it!
Heard NYC's a shooting gallery and crime has gotten 1970s worse. Cash bail on armed robberies, etc. is huge mistake.
Where
Wow dude...go to jail for sneakers, seeing your own daughter and taking her out to dinner....parole is almost worse than jail, because they dangle your family right in front of you, but tell you can't see them. Yeah, when has that ever worked in human history? o_O
Are they really? Yes. It is needed because it’s harmful to people who are misguided into thinking that they are “free” but still have to attend a court at a later time. Which limits their chance to obtain a higher employment status. Which limits their opportunity to have a better reputation. And thus to just keep up with a crowd
That blonde lady is just on a power trip ... "he seems angry" Why angry? Why not disappointed in himself? Is that illegal? You asked him to get a job, then you lock him up, and now he loses his job. Racial Biases were alive and well unfortunately.
Also so sad to hear about Jessica's son. It truly is a cycle.
The black guy violated his parole ain and simple...
@@helpu2health did you watch? Did you see when they said any person who is under such magnification would violate? The officer is probably a failed cop who gets a power trip from her job. He’s better off in jail then having to deal w that idiot.
@@tatianar7682
Choice 1....you can stay locked in prison away from your family, eating crappy jail food and being told when to sleep, eat and shit until your sentence is completed or.....
Choice 2....we can let you finish the remainder of your sentence NOT locked up where you can see your family, eat regular food, eat, sleep and shit pretty much whenever you want...all you have to do is follow some simple rules, stay out of trouble and check in every month...
Hmmmm...the choice would be fairly easy for me.
@@helpu2health the rules are not simple . Did you not watch the doc? I will never encourage a black man to let some white woman or a system dictate his future. Do the time at least you have your dignity
@@tatianar7682 doesnt matter if the parole officer was male or female, white, black, green, blue ect....the guy dictated his future when he committed whatever crime to be sent to prison....there are thousands of other black males that dont commit crime and dont get locked up....
My probation officer saved my life and im forever grateful for him.
Great documentary. On one hand I have empathy for being treated like a second class citizen during parole. On the other had they don't understand that they are completing their prison sentence at a no security prison. One thing I notice of some of the people being documented... after all the time spend in prison where there are repercussions for breaking the rules... they start out not understanding, rules are rules... all they have to do is prove they have the ability to follow them for a set period of time. The lack of self control and understanding right from wrong is the root of the problem. That is what needs to change, otherwise they will be back in jail again.
I am glad to see some of them succeed after falling down. Bless the souls of those parole officers for never giving up and believing in them. Something that we all need.
That’s bs one guy got 5 chances the black guy got one chance. Can u really sit her and tell me it’s not racially motivated cuz it was and is. That parole officer is the problem with parole officers
This was a hard one to watch. I never realized, basically need permission to take a pee, or a coffee!
If Jessica see this?! I'm so Proud of her!! She's done it on her own, an setting example for her son!!
You go Girl🙏😃
I know right watching her graduate had me emotional...so proud of her
Vaughn on the other hand was given a raw stone cold parole officer. And these rules are so f*&k up
Because it was the guys 4th parole officer. She gave him basic parole obligations. Don’t drink. Not only did he break that immediately, he posted photographic proof of it. He’s an idiot and deserves to never see a parole board again.
@@rsod85 agree. And then he tried to argue why others can drink and why he can’t. Because he’s technically STILL serving his sentence, just outside of prison walls. Optimal conditions? NO! But I would think it’s better than prison although I haven’t experienced neither. Maybe in the mind of an inmate it isn’t clear what parole is. 🤷🏻♂️
Plus when you delete something it isn't actually deleted(yes even when you empty recycle bin)
it is just marked by the device as overwritable so when you write new data it will go away but you can use tools to get it back unless its been writen over because then it would be un-recoverable. the only way to delete is to overwrite with 0's or 1's
It is so difficult to get out of the system once you go in...no matter what state you live in
Nah it varies. I did it.
Some people are their own worst enemies… For many of these people, you can change the surroundings all day long but not the situation
Wishing all of the parolees best of luck in their lives. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance. Sending love and light to their families.
For most of these people this is their 3rd/4th "chance". How many do you want to give them before you finally say they're hopeless? Some people are just NOT fit to live in our society
@@kendallevans4079 what’s the crime tho? Some are there for drug charges so them deciding they want to use a substance means they can’t live in our society? Why can we drink but not use anything else to help get by
It would be nice if these criminals had given their VICTIMS a second chance.
Do the entire bid.
@@Harlowerayne most are in for drug crimes or again victimless crimes so that doesn’t make sense to about 80% of all people in jail and prison
@@airassault1151 Please read my comment above because it pertains to your comments too.
I just finished off 20 years state of Connecticut Connecticut. Served 11 years in prison followed by 9 years special parole. Not easy staying out and parole. I got one arrest on my record and after I got out I stayed out never went back. All depends on your parole officer. I've had every po in New Haven and for the most part they weren't too tough. I had one that was just a miserable human being and really got off I'm trying to make things as difficult as possible. In general if you're doing the right thing you really don't have much to worry about.
Don’t commit crime
@@oogaboogamaxine3689 thanks for the nugget of wisdom
@@LaStOnE_leFt sorry you lack common sense 🤷🏼♂️
@@oogaboogamaxine3689 you're 100% right why did I never think of that
@@oogaboogamaxine3689 must be nice to be perfect. Must be nice to have never committed a mistake. To drink and drive, cheat on a loved one or spouse, cheat on your taxes, be a perfect role model in your community. I'm happy for you and your whole family that also must be perfect by the way for you to sit on your high horse and judge people. But in my world in reality people make mistakes it's what you do afterwards that counts. As for me I'm more than made up for the mistakes I've made but there will always be people like you that want to judge other people like you have no skeletons in your closet LOL
We need more people like Officer Montoya. God bless and protect her. 💙🙏🙏
I'm crying for Jessica but of happiness, soo proud of her!! She did amazing and her son looks amazingly happy for her. God bless her and her future!
Crying over a video?
These parole officers have too much power. Plus that blond lady is so rude and likely a racist. There parole rules are too restrictive. But, I wish that father could have held it together and clear parole. Unfortunately, due to the dysfunction of her father, she will likely also get with a dysfunctional man. This is so sad.
She is a miserable bia for sure!!
@Jarod W where was politics mentioned 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Honestly how many cases do they have? Looks like they only care about the paperwork to get done. Really a little cam passion goes a long way she could learn.
@Jarod W You’ll get your time card pulled. It happens to all of us . Even I had to learn that, and I grew up in white areas, thinking “THOSE Black people just need to follow the law.” Just wait until they make up some BS and lie on you. It’ll be your word against an officer’s in court. Then you’ll get on code if you have any sense. The lawyer said to take the deal because “our juries are racist.”
Quit using the race card..
I hope that white blonde lady that was processing Vaughn Gresham gets on the receiving end of the same kind of energy and conduct that she is doling it out herself to some of these offenders.
I agree she needs to work on her people skills and exhibit some degree of sympathy, but as some commentators have mentioned, Vaughan doesn’t appear remorseful or owing up that he messed up. I give him credit for his chill attitude, but if he doesn’t play by the rules, he’s going to do time.
Just remember she's only one mistake away from becoming a parolee herself
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@@jimhabsfan I'm with C M - name is Agnus? Straight to prison! Grow up.
I cant believe that man could watch his daughter cry and NOT BE WILLING TO DO THE REAL HARD WORK OF DESERVING THAT CHILD!
If he loved his kid more than himself he would have done anything to get back to being with her. Shameful.
So basically, you taught your daughter that shiny sneakers were more important than holding yourself accountable. Ok!
The blonde parole officer, has issues
think she's tha secretary
Yeah, a particular brand of issues that, apparently, are a job requirement; a complete surety that she’s better than her charges combined with a total absence of self-reflection.
@@melanielemire3766 right!! She is out of control
Yeah, racism. Pretty big issue.
Yes! Like she wanted to stick it to him instead of trying to help him transition into society.
Your parole officer owns you.
And, the state.
Preach it
Not in california
When I left San Quentin I informed the depth of corruption I needed no parole officer...later when my time was completed at folsom prison I refused parole...that was that
I seriously can't get over how toxic that white lady PO was.
Once an Karen always a Karen
She a racialist
Its on the offender to wipe his tracks.
She actually cool as homeboy played her all right and you don't play with rookies they get freaked their going loose their job and respect from colleagues so you drink with them not in secret.
I listen to crime documentaries to fall asleep but when they are well made I end up watching them and staying up late…
I thought I was the only one does that. 😆
When I was released on parole I had a condition placed upon me not to drink, I violated it the day after I saw my parole officer. I could have been returned for several infractions but wasn't. I have been out of prison for over fifty years & will never again allow anyone to control my life. Parole is designed to fail and I was glad when I finished it. I worked myself into a civil service job from which I retired. It's an inhumane condition placed on a person trying to reintegrate into civilian life.
Good for Jessica for turning her life around! She's very fortunate to have a good son who is doing good things for himself.
Certain Parole Officers appear to be gaslighting. Not sure that's the best approach.
ok
That's what probation officers do.
I agree
on their first day free, i told offenders that probation/parole is their choice, is not mandatory.
i told them that although it had been offered and accepted, they could change their mind right now and go do their time, to get out without being on supervision.
i went through 1 1/2 pages of dense fine print of rules with them, plainly explaining each one.
i told them to imagine being held to those harsh, sometimes impossible rules every day for X number of years, only to be revoked on the very last day, and then incarcerated to serve their entire sentence anyway.
i told them they should highly consider, on this first day, going back to the judge to revoke their acceptance of supervision.
their responses told me everything i needed to know about their chance of successfully completing supervision.
Rob is weak as hell and is selfish. The way he didn’t surrender his check “so he could buy his daughter gifts and shoes” was bs. That was him deciding he’d rather have a low key life in jail instead of working “for nothing” aka paying his debts and supporting his child AND being able to see her. He’d rather be in jail. Wow. And later his daughter is gonna think it’s her fault her dads in jail cus he just wanted to buy her something nice. Poor mother too, he’s just been leading them on this whole time. What a loser.
Rob really opened my eyes when he offered up these wise words... "some kids want both of their parents"
These men need to grow up!! They act like 12 year olds!
Exactly nobody but to blame but themselves they know right from wrong jus dumb decisions means they want to be back locked up 🤷🏽♂️
37:45: that male agent yelling and cussing at the parolee about how he doesn't CARE about blah blah is not doing a very good job of modeling good, successful social skills.
You don't know how serious it is for people considered victims of their crimes... even before you are convicted, You aren't even allowed to talk to victims of your crime and you sign off of it as a condition of your parole as well so it's considered a big deal.
@@Fleurae being a retired po, i actually do understand the seriousness. and with my experience, i would guess that you are the girlfriend of a man on supervision for hurting you. he has convinced you that he didn't mean it, he loves you, he's changed, and he won't do it again. you are probably conspiring with him to violate his parole by sneaking to be with you, because the no-contact is "so unfair and should be your choice". you don't make the connection that if he's willing to break rules that he agreed to in order to not be locked up, he will break the "new rules" that the two of you have agreed to for him not to put his hands on you.
he might actually love you, in his way, to the best of his ability. but the 'love' he's capable of involves dominance over, and pain inflicted, on you.
ask yourself if you would ever do to someone you love what he did to you.
good love doesn't hurt.
i'm just instinctually answering a youtube comment, so maybe i'm all wrong. but if i'm not, please stay away from him. move on. you're empathy and compassion deserve to be placed in the hands of a good and decent man, not someone who uses your goodness against you.
When you break the law continually you don't deserve social skills.
He was putting up his boundaries against the convicts manipulations..so good for him.
I’m from Connecticut never seen a documentary like this about Connecticut ! I hope everyone does there best to get there life back!
Born and raised in Connecticut. I really liked the documentary
The only parole officer who cares is Jessica’s parole officer. The other ones are power tripping which is so toxic… I feel bad for them. Jessica’s parole officer really cares and that’s so beautiful. She sees a human being asking for a second chance. Stark difference between parole officers who care and those who want to power trip.