Pornography Addiction - Hamza Yusuf & Nouman Ali Khan

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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  • @Dirtpoorhomesteader
    @Dirtpoorhomesteader 8 років тому +173

    I am a Christian but I love some of the Muslim leaders views on porn culture in our world. They really call it out for what it is. To all my brothers out there Muslim and Christian keep fighting and being a light in dark places !

    • @BluePeaceNX
      @BluePeaceNX  8 років тому +3

    • @bilalyounas2200
      @bilalyounas2200 8 років тому

      Branion Woody wellcome to the reality, wellcome to islam

    • @Dirtpoorhomesteader
      @Dirtpoorhomesteader 8 років тому +4

      reality? way to shut down a potential convert with your pride

    • @jaysmith6013
      @jaysmith6013 8 років тому +5

      Branion Woody
      Please forgive our brother, he means no harm. Perhaps we can help him by showing him how respectful adults speak to each other
      I for appreciate it that you've acknowledged our common ground. I feel when you look at Islam and Christianity at their core beliefs, you will find more common ground than differences

    • @fayazkhanilyas5025
      @fayazkhanilyas5025 8 років тому +2

      Branion Woody very nice ama glad that u love muslim . but plz think for a while that what is between u and ur creator ?? no 1 in bible there is not a singlr clear verse that jesus himslef says that i m a god and vership me no2 god is only one in bible . no3 bible and cristianity is not mentioned in bible by jesus . jesus was a muslin . and muhammad is the last and final messenger this written in bible chapter of jon so plz i will pray to allah that hr guide u and believe me brother u will weap when u will find the truth . the scare thing is that life is short so be hurry plz . this is betweeb u and allah

  • @simplelifecooking413
    @simplelifecooking413 9 років тому +79

    Ya Rabb protect our children from this filthy world. Aameen

    • @shanesims8341
      @shanesims8341 9 років тому +7

      Allahumma ameen !

    • @nmkhere536
      @nmkhere536 9 років тому +1

      farhiya mayo Aameeenn Summaameen ... :( !!

  • @TeflonSheikh1987
    @TeflonSheikh1987 9 років тому +54

    my porn addiction has been stopped! i felt the call to the light from God, I will repent and reboot my soul and mind! Ameen.

    • @WaqarKhan-xl2yn
      @WaqarKhan-xl2yn 9 років тому

      not something. u need tonnage with everyone but great

    • @Asterite
      @Asterite 8 років тому

      Ameen

    • @MrWatchmen759
      @MrWatchmen759 8 років тому +2

      +Hassan Sheikh don't expose your sins to the public Allah hided them for you

    • @MuhammadFaizan-AI
      @MuhammadFaizan-AI 8 років тому +3

      +Hassan Sheikh Dear brother hide your sins. :'(

    • @usmanmunj4024
      @usmanmunj4024 8 років тому

      how

  • @scoutrap7092
    @scoutrap7092 9 років тому +59

    This lecture is the best lecture on internet about pornography. Hamza and Nouman Ali Khan explained it all, ALL!
    Bless them both.
    Salam from Bosnia n Herzegovina.

  • @haroonawan6700
    @haroonawan6700 8 років тому +34

    TIPS THAT WORKED FOR ME. Take simple steps. Call your network provider, tell them to block the sites for you, block your wifi connection, so u can't go on sites. put a lock on your phone (tell your friend to put in the code so you don't know what it is) and you won't be able to go on porn sites. I did all that and it worked for me. But most importantly do dua, with good intentions. Hope these little tips help. Good luck and don't give up.

    • @shabbasixtysix1261
      @shabbasixtysix1261 8 років тому

      Elk Lord fear the lord

    • @James-qh9vs
      @James-qh9vs 7 років тому

      Your uneducated, read your own religious history, read biblical history, Mary (May GOD be pleased with her) was 12, when she married Joseph (May GOD be pleased with him) and he was 90 at the time.
      Obviously, there is nothing wrong with this as this was at a different time etc, women reached puberty earlier due to living in hot climates etc.
      Something that science testifies to.
      You actually have no actual, real proof to back up these claims, they are just false and hold no weight.
      Do yourself a favour, go and educate yourself, before opening your mouth or commenting at all.

  • @MrWatchmen759
    @MrWatchmen759 8 років тому +20

    Brothers And sisters don't expose your sins by saying you had an addiction or did any of those things since Allah hides your sins

  • @realtorrasheeddubai
    @realtorrasheeddubai 9 років тому +25

    May Allah protect us from this dirty sin

  • @susmitroy2398
    @susmitroy2398 6 років тому +5

    Though myself not Muslim but really like the way he discussed this issue, which is destroying us.Thanks Mr Nouman Ali Khan for explaining the cons so well.

  • @Mhumaikani1993
    @Mhumaikani1993 8 років тому +5

    "The only thing we can is have a mature conversation about this".
    This mindset is needed by many religious speakers, but sadly the majority are mere demagogues unable to put forward any argument in a logical or statistical manner. We just hear many of them shouting with emotions and that doesn't solve anything; it just stirs the enthusiasm of the listeners for some minutes and puff all is gone. You trying your best NAK.
    Keep in mind that from the perspective of neuroscience, for someone to be able to fight a certain negative behavior, one should have a positive alternative to engage within.
    Also it is not only about billboards and that, I do agree that those are triggers, but some clicks in google and you shall realize that among the countries that highly consume pornography, women are in "full abaya".
    I am sorry but your advises of countering it by making everyone having all that he/she does online to be public for everyone is a counter-productive idea, as that will create mental circuitry to realize that they are under some surveillance and over time they will come up with the best ways to hide.

  • @Numbers624
    @Numbers624 7 років тому +3

    no demand --> no supply
    May ALLAH (SWT) protect us

  • @eastafricanchiefkimbo6265
    @eastafricanchiefkimbo6265 9 років тому +7

    I was laughing the whole time during teacher Nouman speech. I know this is not a laughing matter, he mentioned how this was a war against the human soul. Spot on. This is absolutely correct, but the question I would like to know is why? Why would they(whoever is doing this) want us to be sexually stimulated on porn all the time?

    • @flappyfeet1147
      @flappyfeet1147 9 років тому +9

      To make money really. When it becomes a norm in society they get more views.

    • @middlepath2061
      @middlepath2061 9 років тому +1

      EastAfrican Chiefkimbo
      It depends on how deep you want to go with what is happening down here on earth. I will give you a Hadith & Quran combo... and let you tie the two together.
      Quran 17: 63-64 (this is Allah Azzawajel telling Satan to his face, to go ahead and bring it)
      "Allah said, "Go, for whoever of them [humans] follows you, indeed Hell will be the recompense of you -an ample recompense.
      "And incite [to senselessness] whoever you can among them with your voice, and assault them with your horses and foot soldiers and become a
      partner in their wealth and their children and promise them." But Satan does not promise them except delusion."
      now keep the narrative, lesson and vibe of that Quran Ayat, and blend it with this Hadith:
      The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Iblis places his throne upon water; he
      then sends detachments (for creating dissension between people); the
      nearer to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating
      dissension. One of them comes and says: “I did so and so.” And he says:
      “You have done nothing.” Then one amongst them comes and says: “I did
      not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between a husband
      and a wife.” Satan goes near him and says: “You have done well.” He then
      embraces him”
      (Source: Sahih Muslim 2813)
      ______________________________________________________________________________
      Men (statistically much higher, yet still applies to women) who get involved with watching pornography lose interest in their wife... or... they change and start becoming abusive and insensitive to their wife, and stop being romantic and instead, only want her to be a rag-doll to do the things he saw done in the porn... essentially she stops being a "wife" or even a human with feelings at some point, and he views her with contempt... the relationship dies. However, for a while, before she leaves him, he will try to get her to make amateur porn with him, and say it is just for them and no one else, and that it will put some "spark" back in the relationship... but he has lost all respect for her already, and he will try to get her to do the most intense things while being recorded, then possibly share it with others later.
      For single men who are not, or have never been married, years of porn make relationships difficult and sometimes impossible. For some men, they can instantly get an erection with porn (because of years of their brain being conditioned to) , but are impotent when in a real situation... that is because their brain as become hard-wired to only understand sexuality from a pornography/masturbation perspective..
      For other singles, who do not have a problem with erections, their problem is like the married man in the first example... the woman is only a vehicle for him to re-create the scenes that are burned into his brain from the porn... often he will try to get her to make amateur porn on the premise that it will be "just for laughs" and to "just see what it looks like" ... That, again, is because his nervous system has grown accustomed to seeing sex from a 3rd person perspective...so even though she is RIGHT in front of him.. he will have the camera on her and be watching watching a screen the whole time... Of course he would say he watched the screen to make sure he is getting a "good shot"... truth is.. he MUST watch the screen because he already gave up his sexuality to the matrix.
      However, it is not long before this new girlfriend (or sometimes new wife), realizes her man's obsession with making and watching porn with her. She may kind of like it at first, but soon she realizes that he is not simply "just doing it for laughs" and that he is, in fact, ultra serious about it, and very abusive, and wants to start videoing more often and more hard-core and even dangerous things,,, it is not long before she realizes that he is sick to his core, and if she is lucky, she will have gotten away from him without him having had hours of porn made with her on his PC's hard-drive .
      I think you get it... Porn keeps everything busted up... it busts up marriages, and it makes singles stay single. No family stability, means just drifting in the wind... cute when your in your 20's perhaps... by 40's its just grim. Satan loves it... "keep 'em down...stupid weak humans!" he says.

    • @garaadsan.6191
      @garaadsan.6191 7 років тому +1

      EastAfrican Chiefkimbo... Because they're #Satan in Human form and you know how Satan wants everyone astray till they go with him in Hellfire!

    • @srirajesh8743
      @srirajesh8743 6 років тому

      Middle Path true..damn true..!! Allah I surrender.. Allah hu Akbar🤚✋

    • @umerjawwad6085
      @umerjawwad6085 2 роки тому

      The question you asked is just the first question that comes to the mind "Why" but it'll be answered last.
      There is a group of people who have an agenda. They are powerful people. They worship satan. They control the media, politics, governments, big events, internet, everything. I've answered the "they". The rest is up to you.

  • @divinefemininee
    @divinefemininee 9 років тому +6

    Subhanallah. May Allah bless him. Jazakallahu.
    أعوذبكلمات اللّه التّامّات من شرّ ماخلق
    A’uudzu bikalimaatilaahit taammati min syarri maa kholaq, aamin.

  • @YusofPillay-qt7xd
    @YusofPillay-qt7xd Рік тому +1

    You can't stopped the porn industry porn industry is indeed much more than any other things in this world it get even more bigger than the other business out there

  • @humanresourcemanagement4293
    @humanresourcemanagement4293 6 років тому +1

    SUBHAN ALLAH...Pornography destroys and devastate life's of children, their personality, self esteem, self confidence, self respect, dignity and the main thing character..

  • @adrianabonitaaziz
    @adrianabonitaaziz 8 років тому +11

    The hipócrits are ruling the world!But eventually, the Christians are going to enjoy Islam, and the ones who remains Christians wil fight armageddon besides the muslims . May Allah forgives us and bless us all .

  • @mariamahmedzein7806
    @mariamahmedzein7806 9 років тому +1

    Shaik Hamza, we don't know any other way to work it out, but to write a comment to remove it. Unless you are already with a good company. Thanks!!

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    I’m voyager 2, 18 beautiful days away from filth Alhamdulilah

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    2 steps that really works
    1:if you watch porn talk about it make the addiction known, it’ll lose power
    2:if you can’t do porn in busy park or airport or public that you’re still alive, stop doing it internet it’s more public than park and airport and it has a lot of kids

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    19 days porn free and just like voyager2 I’m not coming back.

  • @royhordstrem4990
    @royhordstrem4990 6 років тому

    If you've tried to quit watching but addictively get back at it, only THEN would I recommend Zeke Vikalen’s Stop Porn for a "different" approach with proven results. Sounds intense, but try reading his stuff to see what I mean.

  • @OurBestVoice
    @OurBestVoice 8 років тому +3

    As Salam Aliekom
    Imam Yusuf
    The main reason pornography exists is due to a lack of an excellent Self-Care Plan that includes the freedom and encouragement to experience, explore our own bodies, enjoy them not be shamed for relieving our stress or sexual tension which in moderation.
    Abstinence in the presence of a high libido Sensory Deprivation can bring on Mild to Severe Psychosis ie Mental Health issues
    Historically people have been shamed, blamed and named for relieving sexual tension or stress and the other part of this people have been left without sexual health education in understanding the hormonal cycle and how and when to relieve it so other medical conditions or Mental Health Condition do not occur.
    Historically we have also shamed nakedness when in truth our Character is our best Hijab as at anytime something could occur where you have to run into the street without cloths
    When we respect everyone no matter what their state of dress is then the there will be less indecent occurrences
    Then there is address the history, the trauma, the War at Home which creates such individuals
    Education in letting go of passed injustices, and finding a healthier way forward as individuals and couples and Families
    Respect is a two way street
    When Poverty is eliminated and the people can afford healthier happier lives then things will change
    Someone mentioned it takes a village to raise a child and it takes a world working together and cooperating in empowering all Mankind to Acquire the Skills and Abilities to Lead and where there are challenges nurture more support so fewer fall through the cracks Ameen

  • @YusofPillay-qt7xd
    @YusofPillay-qt7xd Рік тому +1

    It's common now to watch porn it's so normal so it's really ok to be involved in porn

  • @eng.mohammedmoghrabi2040
    @eng.mohammedmoghrabi2040 5 років тому

    It’s because of our society is Muslim society’s and Arabic societies that made the Halal very hard to get

  • @MegaFarah78
    @MegaFarah78 8 років тому +3

    I do have a problem with watching porn how can I stop

    • @usmanmunj4024
      @usmanmunj4024 8 років тому

      Man I have an addiction as well and I am looking for someone for support. if you want we can get in touch and help each other.

    • @usmanmunj4024
      @usmanmunj4024 8 років тому

      pls I need someone to talk me out of it. If anyone is willing to help me pls message me and I will give you my email.

    • @takemypainaway9517
      @takemypainaway9517 8 років тому

      Are you doing better now?

    • @usmanmunj4024
      @usmanmunj4024 8 років тому

      +nomadonearth yes brother I needed help and a very kind brother on Skype is now currently helping me

    • @takemypainaway9517
      @takemypainaway9517 8 років тому

      Usman Munj okay alhamdulillah. I'm happy to hear that. Can I ask you, are you married or single?

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    Every body is talking about what Israel is doing to Palestine like it’s bigger deal than what porn is doing to the majority of Muslim youth, we’re like walking dead.

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    21 days filth free Alhamdulilah

  • @rampantbreeze
    @rampantbreeze 9 років тому +4

    I wish Hamza spoke in English at the end, especially when he said Allah is a Jealous God. Not sure about that.

    • @abdullahsultan3988
      @abdullahsultan3988 9 років тому +7

      Yeah, I don't think that is correct terminology or usage of words. Allah can't be a jealous God because there is no other God to be jealous of and remember we need Allah and Allah does not need us.

    • @middlepath2061
      @middlepath2061 9 років тому +15

      *****
      It is ok... Sheikh Hamza Yusuf would not say something so infinity important off-handedly. Below is your proof for he word "Jealous". BTW you have to get out of the dimension of "English", and what is associated. For example, when you here the term "slave of Allah Azzawajal"... well of course, in America, the word "slave" can only bring to mind whips and chains and slave-ships... however, that vibe should not be transferred onto our idea of "Abdul".... We are 100% absolutely, straight-up, OWNED by Allah Azzawajal, as our very Soul is created... so even words that seem heavy-duty like "servent" or "slave" are not even deep enough for what we REALLY are. Anyway... without further ado, here is your Hadith:
      Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah becomes jealous and His jealousy is provoked when the believers approach what He has made unlawful.”
      Source: Sahih Bukhari 4925
      Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
      أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغَارُ وَغَيْرَةُ اللَّهِ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ الْمُؤْمِنُ مَا حَرَّمَ اللَّهُ
      4925 صحيح البخاري كِتَاب النِّكَاحِ لا شيء أغير من الله

    • @middlepath2061
      @middlepath2061 9 років тому +4

      Abdullah Sultan
      Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Allah becomes jealous and His jealousy is provoked when the believers approach what He has made unlawful.”
      Source: Sahih Bukhari 4925
      Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
      أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغَارُ وَغَيْرَةُ اللَّهِ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ الْمُؤْمِنُ مَا حَرَّمَ اللَّهُ
      4925 صحيح البخاري كِتَاب النِّكَاحِ لا شيء أغير من الله

    • @timatiamo22
      @timatiamo22 9 років тому +3

      +rampantbreeze Allah's jealousy is His keenness to protect and safeguard His religion and consequently protect and safeguard the Umma (i.e. The Muslim nation). So when any one violates Allah's commandments (religion) they are actually jeopardising the well-being of Umma as whole and that is what invokes His jealousy.

    • @timatiamo22
      @timatiamo22 9 років тому +1

      +rampantbreeze TRUIE. Allah often use terms that has some human aspects in them when He describes His attributes but ONLY so we can relate to these attributes. For example Allah says in the Quran (Surat Al Ma'ida verse 64):
      The Jews say: "Allah's HAND is tied up." Be their hands tied up and be they accursed for the (blasphemy) they utter. Nay, both His HANDS are widely outstretched: He giveth and spendeth (of His bounty) as He pleaseth.
      Allah used the term 'Hand' to describe His generosity. We say about Allah what He said about Himself and we stop at that.

  • @Cagzstar
    @Cagzstar 5 років тому

    Allah have mercy please that we humans are pathetic and miserable we are very sorry 🙏

  • @abdifatahmohamed4825
    @abdifatahmohamed4825 4 роки тому +1

    وَلَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا الْإِنسَانَ وَنَعْلَمُ مَا تُوَسْوِسُ بِهِ نَفْسُهُ ۖ وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ الْوَرِيدِ - 50:16
    And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein
    SAHIH INTERNATIONAL

  • @saiful7097
    @saiful7097 7 років тому

    Zajakallahu Khairan.

  • @ozzozz3529
    @ozzozz3529 7 років тому

    thank god its not written in book that support porn....

  • @lanaaqrabawi2593
    @lanaaqrabawi2593 9 років тому

    Allahoamma anna naoutho beca men elfeten ma thaher menha wama batan

  • @YusofPillay-qt7xd
    @YusofPillay-qt7xd Рік тому +1

    Porn in used as sex education

  • @DewBoy2009
    @DewBoy2009 9 років тому +1

    Ameen

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    24 days porn free, Alhamdulilah

  • @YusofPillay-qt7xd
    @YusofPillay-qt7xd Рік тому +1

    Porn is normal to me

  • @williamwinn109
    @williamwinn109 9 років тому +5

    you are wrong,porn does not cause homosexuality.
    porn is a personal release of built up
    sexual frustration..
    your kids will be exposed to the world
    even if you cast a shell in them..teach them
    to understand between lust and love.

  • @SyedAli-cs9hy
    @SyedAli-cs9hy 9 років тому

    bayyans more effective if their starting point is, sins are unavoidable. and then proceed in providing simple, pragmatic advice based on the seerat. nouman ali khan is cringeworthy

  • @amerh.d.8961
    @amerh.d.8961 7 років тому +1

    May Allah bless the viewers of pornhub!

  • @khalidmohamed1790
    @khalidmohamed1790 8 місяців тому

    24 days porn free, Alhamdulilah