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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2020
  • Douglas Wilson speaks to the young men and women at Collegiate Reformed Fellowship (CRF) at the University of Idaho on dating, men and women, and marriage.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 137

  • @HoseaCuervo
    @HoseaCuervo 3 роки тому +134

    Man I hope these kids know how blessed they are to have this sort of advice and counsel lol I wish I had it in college

  • @calvinsbeard7423
    @calvinsbeard7423 3 роки тому +103

    That was a great bit at the end about what masculine piety looks like. A shining example from history: Knox, while a galley-slave, was once ordered to worship a portrait of Mary. Instead, he tossed it into the sea, saying, "Our lady is light enough; let her learn to swim!" I would contend that an essential element of masculine piety involves being a troublemaker when trouble needs to be made. Now let's get out there and slay some dragons!

  • @hanc4547
    @hanc4547 2 роки тому +71

    I listen to Doug's sermons simply to hear him laugh at his own jokes...priceless

  • @GodsServant543
    @GodsServant543 3 роки тому +10

    Difficult to hear him use this from a emotional perspective, when Paul directly explains “HOW” Christ loved the church. He speaks about making her holy, washing her with the word, etc etc. Not buying her flowers. That’s simple, that’s easy, that’s common sense. The remind in today’s society would certainly need to loving them in a way that makes them like God. That’s what Christ did to the church.

  • @ericjames7819

    Women making long term decisions leads to bad long term outcomes. This includes dating and courtship. The modern system of dating inevitably leads to widespread divorce.

  • @jamesh7916
    @jamesh7916 2 роки тому +11

    Said hi AND smiled? Game over!

  • @christophertaylor9100
    @christophertaylor9100 2 роки тому +7

    The love/respect thing I see this way: obviously both need and are owed love and respect. But each side is being told to do the thing that they are less likely to do naturally. Men will more readily offer respect. Women more readily offer love. Paul tells them the other side to remind them of what they aren't as inclined to do.

  • @bothan_janitor6495
    @bothan_janitor6495 2 роки тому +10

    This was both incredibly helpful but also a giant slap in the face for how far I need to go in order to actually be a godly husband in the future and for my role in marriage to be Christ-exalting with how He's wired me. Guess it's time to just pursue Christ and let Him renew me because that gap is far too wide for me to bridge.

  • @GodsServant543
    @GodsServant543 3 роки тому +8

    This requires that a women is at a place where her foundational thought life, perspective, and understanding of life and God is adequate to make a sound judgement, not an emotional one.

  • @tatumleethomas
    @tatumleethomas 3 роки тому

    Brilliant speach!

  • @JonJaeden
    @JonJaeden 3 роки тому +171

    Excellent teaching. It stirred a question for me.

  • @HappySlaveOfChrist
    @HappySlaveOfChrist Рік тому +2

    After the 20 minute mark is where he starts talking about the zone of vulnerability. Very, very helpful.

  • @zapazap
    @zapazap 3 роки тому +19

    On

  • @pietervandeventer8791
    @pietervandeventer8791 3 роки тому +10

    Love your talks, Pastor Doug!

  • @RebekahNicole

    Wow that was tremendously helpful! Thank you so much Pastor Wilson! 😁

  • @s.e.garcia3635
    @s.e.garcia3635 2 роки тому

    Loved this message! Super helpful

  • @kated4359
    @kated4359 3 роки тому +3

    This one was SO funny!!! Super-informative, too, but beyond funny!!!

  • @daphnekaburara9663
    @daphnekaburara9663 3 роки тому +13

    Thanks Musumba ( Pastor) Doug. I love your sense of humor.😅

  • @joyprasad9923
    @joyprasad9923 2 роки тому +1

    This was so good!!!

  • @phazon6179

    Couple of gems: