You Really Don't Lose Friends: The Ones You "Lose" Are Either Removed or Revealed

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  • @reneei9951
    @reneei9951 Рік тому +103

    I thank God for removing and revealing all pointless friendships.

  • @DaughterofZyion
    @DaughterofZyion Рік тому +19

    Finding a true friend is like finding a rare gem in a field

  • @alexisehimen3795
    @alexisehimen3795 Рік тому +16

    I think this is what happened to two people that I met few months ago.. they were both so busy that they didn't even have time to hang out with me at least once or twice a month and they kept saying that they were busy all the time.. I cut them both off

  • @Ms76Cocoa
    @Ms76Cocoa Рік тому +58

    Great message! I've grieved two friendships that were very close to me, at different periods of my life. It was hurtful, but it got better with time, and as new people came into my life. I just appreciate the memories and the lessons.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid7572 Рік тому +24

    I value discretion and confidentialy. Most people do not. (Especially married women who run to their husbands with everything). Their husbands are not my friend. Be careful everyone.

  • @carmelcapricorn7701
    @carmelcapricorn7701 Рік тому +57

    I don't lose nothing. Sleep. ✌️... I gained a perspective...As I have God. And what God has 4 me is 4 me....

  • @ladytosha15
    @ladytosha15 Рік тому +27

    I've never ever had one good real friend said to say but I pray one day I will

  • @tonyaaiken2247
    @tonyaaiken2247 Рік тому +15

    Yes, I had to come to the realization that a friendship must end. God will reveal to you in the most subtle ways that it’s time
    to let go of fake friend. In a recent situation I notice a friend of mine for years started praising me privately in my inbox all of sudden and I noticed that she was openly commenting on mutual friends post on social media. I knew exactly what that meant. Jealousy and secret animosity is real. Learning to move in silent especially in my most vulnerable times and less venting.

  • @diamondjack-cooper5322
    @diamondjack-cooper5322 9 місяців тому +4

    Im so tired of being the friend that always gets exploited and left behind or for dead!
    AMEN!

  • @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife
    @BlessedInEveryAreaOfMyLife 5 місяців тому +5

    At over 40 years old, I decided to cut ties with my entire family starting in 2019, and my only regret is not doing it sooner. I now experience an unexplainable peace and have no intention of reconnecting with them. I focus on my healing process and my personal journey, preferring to stay to myself.

    • @Candlelight777
      @Candlelight777 Місяць тому +1

      I haven't had that kind of peace I deserve yet due to this unwelcomed technology. Can't wait until it's removed period.

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot Рік тому +19

    I am a firm believer that God removed these so called ''friends'' out of my life. A few turned out to be narcissist.

    • @Candlelight777
      @Candlelight777 Місяць тому +1

      You have a right to walk away you don't even have to pray about it either. To thine own self be true.

    • @AbsoluteMdot
      @AbsoluteMdot Місяць тому

      @@Candlelight777 AMEN!

  • @paceyourself5652
    @paceyourself5652 Рік тому +37

    Powerful topic Mrs. Mack. I “lost” two 10+ year long friendships leaving me alone in the largest city in the US after moving cross country alone, but I’ve always felt it wasn’t really a loss.
    I can’t accept people who have revealed their true nature back into my life in my current place and I’d rather forge new connections and move forward than live in the past. Enjoying this topic thoroughly and your perspective!

  • @LotusRed-x9u
    @LotusRed-x9u Рік тому +11

    Enjoy the journey of friendship as long it is possible. But wheh time comes to depart, kiss them goodbye and move on with no regrets and no grudges.

    • @Candlelight777
      @Candlelight777 Місяць тому

      Just move on. People who did you right you know where y'all stand if you ever care to cross paths with them.

  • @writer1986
    @writer1986 Рік тому +18

    Great words.... I was blessed to have a circle of friends for many years after college. However, a year ago I learned that two particular members are not happy that I had moved on from the group, married and started a family. I cut off their friendship because they have not matured and smear names out of insecurity and jealousy, which really surprised me.

  • @EmpressEmpress-53
    @EmpressEmpress-53 Рік тому +13

    I had the assistance of a Smear Campaign to reveal who were really my friends. A random phone call from a stranger shouldn't have ended years and decades of friendships. If it was that easy, then they never cared about me. So I had to accept it for what it is and keep it pushing. Now they really hate me, cause when I walked away, I moved out of they country. This was God's way of showing me that they couldn't go with me. 💯💪✌️💪✌️

  • @tappe9508
    @tappe9508 Рік тому +20

    Grief in friendships is very real. Thank you for doing this! Godly wisdom is key 🔑 in all things!!! Thank you Minister Cassandra for coaching us!❤

  • @ChangedandChosen
    @ChangedandChosen Рік тому +23

    Loving your new intro! Looking forward to this message ❤

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion Рік тому +5

    Thanks for Sharing on friendships❤️, Love the Intro🔥💕🙂I went through this, turn out to be fake, narcissistic behavior, jealousy, envious, GOD revealed to me who that person was, turn out she was a witch, All Praises to the Most High🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️, Much Blessings to you Cassandra Mack❤

  • @Wiseladybrittany
    @Wiseladybrittany Рік тому +3

    Im going through this currently.i lost two ten year friendship . We grew apart ....thank God

  • @user-ov4wr5yu4r
    @user-ov4wr5yu4r Рік тому +4

    Oh, cool theme song! ❤ However, on this topic, eventually no one is left. Humans are just kind of crappy. 😢

  • @PGSL-r5n
    @PGSL-r5n Рік тому +5

    What a great video, I wroke up at 4am and one of the tasks done was block a friend I met at the coast, all seemed to be going well until he tried to use me, since I had a car and he didn't. He has tried to call me 3 times on a blocked number.

  • @brenbren9756
    @brenbren9756 Рік тому +10

    C'mon new intro jingle🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤ Love it!!

  • @user-ov4wr5yu4r
    @user-ov4wr5yu4r Рік тому +2

    I call it friendLY, but not a FRIEND. That's potential, but it may not pan out.

  • @tashalachacha
    @tashalachacha Рік тому +1

    I had this one so called friend in Junior High. She watched me get my ass kicked and didn't jump in to help. As a matter of fact, she covered her mouth and laughed. Yet when she got raped by some thug...I was there to support her like a sister. She ain't a real friend, I guess, and hindsight is 20/20. All I can do is lift her up in prayer.🙏🤔🙏

  • @setapartaay925
    @setapartaay925 Рік тому +9

    Again!! You delivered and hit the nail on the head yet again! I thank Yah for you and your ministry. ALL Praises to The Most High

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 Рік тому +3

    We will be known forever by the tracks we keave. 👣

  • @paulastuckey6546
    @paulastuckey6546 Рік тому +2

    I keep finding myself in one sided friendships. What makes me mad is this a Christian friend. I am learning that some people have been fair weather friends.

  • @ajobforjesus
    @ajobforjesus Рік тому +5

    This could not have come in a better time. Praise God. Thank you! Amen in Jesus name!

  • @yahchelrachel
    @yahchelrachel Рік тому

    People come into your life for a season, reason or lifetime. All friendships are not permanent.

  • @Kari_Michele
    @Kari_Michele Рік тому +9

    Great Word as always. This is definitely a topic that should discussed more often 💗🙏🏾

  • @SyntheticaKishierra
    @SyntheticaKishierra Рік тому +6

    Okay Cassandra! Love the message and the intro! Had me dancing 😊

  • @rosemarybanner
    @rosemarybanner 9 місяців тому +2

    Excellent message and video!! Thank you Cassandra!

  • @kevonphillip-bt6ky
    @kevonphillip-bt6ky Рік тому +2

    Thank you sister Mack for another meaningful teaching. I literally admire the title you choose to discuss about in your lesson. I strongly believe that many Christians easily become stagnant in our relationship with God because we are surrounded by people who reminds us of our "Yesterday". Whenever a friend or family member reminds you of your "Yesterday" sometimes the label is not limited to past failures but previous success. No offense Cassandra I am going to use your situation as an example. Before you commit your entire life to God I strongly assume your friends and family know you as a writer. But when your devotion to God increase and you started church by phone I believe alot of people who knew you from childhood couldn't understand your development in christ. Don't get me wrong not everyone that have a friendship with you from childhood are envious of your positive transformation in life. However most people won't feel comfortable around you because you decide to take your life to the next level of spiritual or personal growth. God has instructed some of us to end our relationship with certain individuals 5 years ago.Because we are reluctant to obey God and decided to remain friends with people who reminds us of our "Yesterday" our future development in God became powerless. Thanks again Cassandra God bless you and fellow viewers.

  • @lakevahopps7120
    @lakevahopps7120 9 місяців тому +1

    This message is called a “God pinch” a warning ⚠️ of danger, right now God has me studying Ephesians 6:10-13, Learning how to utilize the Full Armor of God. Thanks you for being an obedient vessel!

  • @Prettynice214
    @Prettynice214 Рік тому +6

    Good morning Cassandra I love your intro🥰 Thank you for this important and also true message. GOD BLESS YOU!❤

  • @kimbush8162
    @kimbush8162 Рік тому +8

    Needed this ❤

  • @cinnabun715
    @cinnabun715 Рік тому +7

    Who’s beautiful voice is that on the intro? Got me dancing in my kitchen this morning ❤

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  Рік тому +5

      Thank you. It's yours truly

    • @cinnabun715
      @cinnabun715 Рік тому +1

      @@CassandraMack❤

    • @divaextraordinary
      @divaextraordinary Рік тому +1

      @@CassandraMack beautiful voice, Cassandra! 😊 Multi-talented you are. Thank you for your inspiration!

  • @antmarzo9392
    @antmarzo9392 Рік тому +8

    Big Sister Cassandra Mack, this is YOU singing in the background!!?😍

  • @tidyupclean
    @tidyupclean Рік тому +2

    Love the intro! Most uplifting! Keep doing your Most High God thing. What about your friends??? Revealed, Removed, or Restored! Yes, Lord.

  • @patricerenee1717
    @patricerenee1717 8 місяців тому

    You’re doing great work on this channel. Thank you!❤

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +1

    Wow that's was awesome message on this topic because I'm dealing with something like that now but it's concerning a family memeber God really exposed her to me while going through a situation in my life God removed from her I don't want be connected to anyone rather family member or person claim they are my friend if they are not in my life for right motive I'm glad God removed them I'm still treat them right but keep my distance Thanks minister Cassandra Mack for this very encouraging message God bless you

  • @marya1522
    @marya1522 8 місяців тому

    Yes grief over friendship !!
    Ty for this can u do a payer for this topic too

  • @thataprilglow
    @thataprilglow Рік тому +3

    Love the intro song, Cassandra! 😍🙏🏽✨️

  • @Jerusha.b_creations
    @Jerusha.b_creations Рік тому

    Thank you for this I don’t believe it was coincidence that I came across this on my fyp and not only that I asked God while on my week of fasting last week if I made the right decision in cutting them off. I take the dream I had about them and this info you provided as confirmation that I did.
    Thank you Lord that I was able to come around to have the courage to make a hard decision. I deeply grieved it and still think about them at times. All I can do is pray that they’ll change and truly see the heart I always had for them. 🥺💔

  • @savtelly3817
    @savtelly3817 Рік тому +3

    Sing it!!!! Love the intro

  • @simp4jesusco_
    @simp4jesusco_ Рік тому +4

    okay intro is lit sister Cassandra

  • @marygoodman9530
    @marygoodman9530 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Cassandra, such a realistic video with much truth. God's blessings upon us all 🌞🙏🕊️

  • @shirleygonzales5284
    @shirleygonzales5284 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Cassandra. Great video. 💯 Blessings! ♥️

  • @diginandpitchin
    @diginandpitchin Рік тому

    Love the new theme song!!! 👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @SpontaniuzProductions2
    @SpontaniuzProductions2 Рік тому +1

    💯 always powerful life changing gems 💎 love ur channel CM👑

  • @CrocGangEnt
    @CrocGangEnt 2 місяці тому

    Can you please put the theme song on apple music

  • @Undermineded-333
    @Undermineded-333 Рік тому +1

    They jump relationships all da time,,scared to walk da plank

  • @chriswalls5831
    @chriswalls5831 Рік тому

    We are different people in many ways

  • @hannahbrown5069
    @hannahbrown5069 Рік тому

    Amen!🙏🏾

  • @mgtv5482
    @mgtv5482 Рік тому +2

    Nice intro

  • @Sweetdreamz313
    @Sweetdreamz313 Рік тому +1

  • @AMiah-jz8uu
    @AMiah-jz8uu Рік тому

    Kwiin of musik

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan Рік тому +6

    Love the new intro!🫶🏻
    I’m in that pruning season. It isn’t fun.🤯🥴

  • @sottie9597
    @sottie9597 Рік тому

    I know one thing..I always get motivated with Cassandra Mack…may God continue blessing and guiding you Cassandra and all of you as well🙏🏾🤍