Tu siab heev li os muaj ntsis yuav mus zoo li kuv lub neej thiab es kuv thiaj li nrog koj mloog los Nim los los kua muag li os niam ntsuab teev thiab tus me niam tsev ....thxob tu siab os mog vim yog xaiv yug tsis Tau los rau in leej niam leej txiv zoo es los us lub neej ib ya nyob hauv qhov hos ib ya tseem nyob saum no los yus thiaj li tu tu siab tsis txawj tag is tus me niam tsev...
Wow! This story was intense. Totally understand were the mother is coming from because I'm a mother myself. But forgiveness is definitely needed in this story. 😔
I don't blame your mother for having so much hatred toward your husband's side of the family. Forgiveness is the hardest thing anyone can offer, and its going to take time for that to happen. However, your mother should have not allow one incident or a person's action ruin the whole relationship toward you and your husband. Like what the old saying goes, "Don't let one bad apple ruin the whole tree." I would suggest you, your husband and his side of the family ask for her forgiveness, and maybe that can be the start of a whole new relationship.
For the people saying this mother is selfish, and should have forgave the daughter, well..we all don't know what kind of treatments, and shame she had dealt with her ex's family. This story is only a quick summary of the mother's life, I'm sure there is way more details to this ice berg so don't judge her. No one will hold such deep, and strong grudge unless something really bad truly happened. Until you are in her shoes, you wouldn't know how it feels and it would not be easy to forgive someone who has done you so wrongly to the point you hate them with a passion. This daughter chose to be with her husband after knowing well what happened between the families, she can't blame her mom for treating her like that either, it hurts her but it hurts her mom 100x more to know she has a daughter who she truly loves to marry her enemy's family. The mother chose to disassociate herself and cut all lose ends, the daughter needs to respect that if she has already chosen her husband's side. Hope for the best going forward.
Koj puas paub, tos koj niam chim tsis muaj hnub zam txim li los hmoob mas cov ib nyuag muaj nyiaj me me xwb mas twb tsab tsab ntse tsab muaj hais lus tsis saib cov neeg pluag neeg txom nyem hlo li lawm. Lawv hais lus mas hais cuag li sim neej lawv yuav tsis txawj pluag, tsis txawj tuag li. Yim twg ib nyuag ua neej zoo zog xwb mas nim muaj muaj power hais lus caij tsuj neeg nruab zej nruab zog tus ub tus no yam tsis txuag luag hlo li ces muaj ib txhia yeej chim ciaj caub tas tiam neej li koj niam tiag lau. Koj twb nyiam koj twb xaiv koj tus txiv lawm ces ua ib siab tsuav koj lub neej zoo lawm xwb mas.
You did not walk your mom shoes. You don't understand her pains. You choose your husband so just be happy. Can't blame your mom. As a mom, it hurts her more that you are her child, she raised you and you sided with her enemy.
Your mom still love her ex very much that is why she still hurt over everything just remember when she didn't know who your husband was she loved him very much daddy get moms heart n soul and son gets daughter oh that hurt girl
Love this story... pab tus niam tsev no tus siab kawg tab sis if me I would do the same thing as your mom... I know how you feel and I know how your mom feel too...
Txhob tu siab os tus me sister, yog koj Níam teeb meem xwb yog yus hlub tus neeg twg yus yuav txum yuav tus Rawls li yus lub siab nyiam yus thiaj tsis khuv xim yog koj niam hlub koj tiag nws yeej yuav tum ua tau siab zoo rau koj. Zoo kawg rau qhov uas koj niam tsis yog txiv neej ua tsis tau ib tug nom yog koj niam tseem ua tau ib tug nom mas leej twg ua rau koj chim lawm ces nws tsev neeg ces kawg tuag xwb vim koj niam lub siab chim Es chim tag tiam.
Tus niam tsev aw, kuv mas qhuas koj niam heev li os! Ua taus tiag uas cais, tshem koj tawm hauv koj niam thiab koj txiv lub neej mus tag tiam no! Lub ntiaj teb no es neeg muaj coob muaj ntau koj xum mus yuav tsev neeg uas tau thuam koj niam thiab tau ua mob koj niam tshaj plaws es koj thiaj li raug cais tawm ces qhiv nov pab tsis tau! Kav tsij nyob li qhov koj niam zoo siab yog qhov zoo dua! Tuag es koj mam mus los koj niam yeej tsis care txog tsis zoo siab rau koj kiag li lawm! Just leave her alone!
ใจร้ายมากเป็นแม่ที่คิดถึงแต่ตัวเองไม่คิดถึงจิตใจลูกยังไงก็ผัวเก่าคนไม่ดีก็ตายไปหมดแล้ว.yog ib tug niam tai ua siab tsis zoo tsis xav txog tej me nyuam li
Niam Ntais awww... LOL looks like tus niam tais still not over her ex. She’s pissed off cause they didn’t want her. She just jealous that the ex married someone with class and got over her quick. She’s still waiting for him to come for her, but now that her daughter marries the son, there’s no chance to marry her ex. Niam Tais aw... txob ncim ncim los mas, tseem koj tsis tau rog tub qub hmoob pw uake forever los koj tus txais ntub tau pw rog tus tub every day forever ces zoo siab los mas.
Wow! That’s too extreme! I feel sorry for your mom that she would carry so much hate in her heart over so many years. Even though your parents counted you out I would think at least your siblings would still keep in touch with you. Repairing your relationship with your mom is impossible so if I were you I would live life to the fullest with no regrets. Your kids and your husband should be your life now. It’s not like you didn’t try.
Wow, I cannot believe that the mom refused to forgive her daughter marries her ex son. I feel sorry for her mom who has a very unforgiving heart and her siblings for not even contacting her. I don’t walk in this mom’s shoes but this is the first time I heard about a mom controlling everything in her family. She must be a very miserable person. For the daughter, you chose your husband and did all you can do contacted your family. Be happy with your husband and your children and let your mom’s family go. You didn’t know her history with her ex so you didn’t disobey her prior to your marriage. Just be happy. Good luck to your family.
tus sister aw koj niam hais yog lawm yus tus yeeb ncuab ces yeej chim rau tas ib sim neej kom koj nco ntsoov tias yus niam yus txiv nrhiav hauv lub qab ntuj no nrhiav tsis tau mog yog niag txiv xwb ces tsis tau tus ko los yeej yuav tau lwm tus mog tej zaum koj yuam kev mentsis lawm pab koj tu siab kawg
G yog os nrhiav kom tau tus txiv hlub yus xwb zoo dua nawb niam txiv g kav yis laus ov koj xaiv tau yog lawm os mi ntxhais aw koj niam g hlub koj los koj tus txiv hlub koj ces koj nyob tau lawm
Pab koj tu siab kaws og koj niam yuav ua phem ua luaj rau kojna tus muam txhob tu siab mog niam tais lawm txawm ua li lo rau2 siab ua koj lub neej kom zoo tshaj kj niam laww
Yog kv los kv yeej chim ib yam li no thiab tiag saib tsis taus u li no na tamsim no kv yeej tsis txiav kv tej tub li nws nyiam leej twg nws yuav nws thiaj xav sib hlub
Until you are in the mother’s shoes, you won’t understand. The mother must have been treated so bad that even her ex didn’t stand up for her, the one person she loved. Her grudge runs deep. My ex’s family said a lot of bad things about me and my family when they NEVER met me or my family. He chose his family and even questioned me. I’m so glad I didn’t marry him, I would of been miserable. If this ever happens to me I wouldn’t be like the mom and cut my child out of my life, just her in laws.
Ua cas yuav pab hlub tus niam laus hau zaj neej neeg no ua luaj. Yus nim muaj niam muaj txiv yug los, nim tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub. Ua cas nws niam tais yuav pe ua luaj li. Peb hlub hlub tus niam laus no kawg li os. Thov Kom vaj tswv foom koob foom Hmoov kos Koj lub neeg tsua zoo mus xwb.
Thov txim for what? Truth is, she should have forgotten the past already. I'm not judging anyone here, but I honestly feel bad for the moms husband. He never had her heart. Smh
Ib leej niam phem npaum ko ces kuv yeej tsis suav ua kuv niam lawm thiab. Tej teeb meem no teb tsis yog koj li los cas yuav muab ua yeej ncuab kiag lawm. Yog nyiag neeg laus ces yeej phem li no. Koj niam chim vim nws tsis tau koj txiv yawg thiaj muaj chim los txog hnub no xwb.
Aub tus niam tsev kuv xav twb tsis yog tim koj. Twb yog vim koj niam lub siab tseem mob thiab hlub koj txiv yawg es nws thiaj ua li rau koj xwb. This is one of the reasons forgiveness is so important. It can damage relationships and cause so much grief. I hope that your mother will heal and turn to love you again.
Oh wow chim siab khib siab txog Lwm tiam mam rov sib hai dua kom yus siab nqig laus. Yeej yog niam thiab txiv ua xwb tabsi chim siab kawg os tu me niam tsev. Cas ntiab teb yuav me ua luaj lis tseem rov tau yog poj cuag yawg cuag. Txhob tu siab ntshe neb tiam ntawv los yog cuag xwb Es cia me nyuam mam sib tau sib hlub os. Es puam chawj mog.
Aub yaus to koj niam muab koj lawb cuag lawb dab los koj tus txiv lawv niam pog txiv yawg lawv yeej ua phem dhau thaum is peb nyob tim nplog kuv yeej pom cov neeg muaj yeej saib tsi tau cov neeg pluag yeej khua koj niam chim os
No hais li koj zaj dag neeg no g yg lawm koj niam ntsaw2 lawv g tau lawv tseem khib2 koj niam xwb vim ua neej g pom tom ntej yg tiag mas koj niam tseem yuav ua lawv tsaug koj niam lub neej ho zoo tshaj lawv nam
Tshua yog koj niam thiaj li coj phem li ko xwb os lwm tu luag tsi coj li koj niam os txhawm thaum yu yuav lawv tsi pom zoo li yog Yu mu ua neej zoo lawm ce lawv yeej hloov lawm tab si kuv mloog mas koj niam yog ib leej niam ua coj phem tsaj plaw li
Wow what a sad story. I can only imagined in a movie but this is real. I feel for you lady but dont give up, keep contacting her cause shes your real mother even if she disowned you.
Tsis txhob tu siab hos, yus tus txiv thiab yog yus lub neej yus niam yus txiv ces yog tus muab txoj siab rau yus thiab tus yus ib vuag xwb. Kav liam mog koj txiv ua tsis taus txiv es cia koj niam ua kav xwm koj txiv ua tshwj kab xwb ces tsis pom qab tu siab mog.
Tus niam tais no yuam kev lawm os. Tus mim niam tsev aw tsis ntxhob tus siab muaj ib hnub twg koj niam yuav tu siab heev rau nws tus kheej os. Nws tsuas muaj cai chim rau koj tus txiv yawg xwb nws tsis muaj cai chim rau koj thiab koj tus txiv os mog.
As a mom I would not want my kids marrying my ex's kids for what his parents put me thru. They never liked me and gave me nicknames. I was glad I left my ex to marry someone else. It hurted him so much as on the day I was leaving to get marry he came and said his parents gave in for us to marry since he was going to die...but it was already to late cuz he also cheated before this too which made me go get marry. Now he tells me he regrets and also cheated on his wife the same way. She happens to be a cousin in a way so I can watch how their life is going. Lol! Glad I didn't marry him!
Lesson learned. Don’t disobey your parents. Because when they cut ties, it could be forever. You may have thought she was just kidding, and that it wouldn’t be forever. But some people will take it with them to the grave. Make sure when you choose, you can live with the consequences. It’s your choice, you have no one to blame but yourself. Your mother made her choice, she can live with it, can you? If not, you should have thought about it before disobeying her. Life is a series of choices. People who choice life changing choices will have to live with them forever, this is something most millennials don’t understand. Everything is not owed to you.
Nam tais aw, caag es tam nuav yawm saub tub muab lub fiv tsaam rua koj hloov koj lub sab, cwj pwm los tseem tsim kev npam ntxiv hab. Txhob xaav tas tam nuav koj foom luas tuag kag es yog npam luas. Tsi yog os, yog rov npam koj. Lwm tam los tseem yuav rov npam dlua, ncu ntsoov lwm tam ua lub sab luj es xa tsi nplaam ib txig ntxhais vauv zoo nawb. Luas le kev npam tsuas yog ib vuag vim luas txuj sa tu nrho lawm, koj tseem nyob nyooj koj tug mob khib.
I could relate to some of the pain the woman in this story is going thru, I was in tears, however the only difference is that my parents forgave me and I’m still able to go around and see them, but a non existence person to my grandparents and the rest of my relatives. Don’t be heart broken and move on with your life. You did nothing wrong but married the man you loved and if your mother cannot accept and forgive you then let it be. Your mother is one stubborn woman is all I could say. The elderly men and women in our Hmong community need to understand and leave the past behind and stop bringing things up that happened decades ago and try to make it our problem when we younger generations know nothing about.
Your mom is tough. Your in laws probably said some really hurtful things to her and your father in law cannot man up to marry your mom. But she shouldn't hold those grudges against them because they already got their karma. She should just let it go. Just know that all of your mom's life, she can never be happy because she couldn't let those grudges go.
Koj niam ua tsis ncaj lawm vim nws muab nws cov teeb meem nog rau koj ev ua ab tsi. Pab tu siab rau koj thiab koj txiv vim koj niam yog ib tus neeg lim hiam tshaj plaws.
Your father-in-law dodged a bullet. A smart woman would have made the man that disrespected and lost her, regret and miss her forever. Your mother leaves nothing to be desired. What a cruel, cruel woman.
Wow, yog peb hmoob thaum ub lub siab tawv phem npaum li koj niam ces peb twb yeej nyab laj thiab tsis poob teb poob chaw li tiag. Txhob tu siab rau koj niam vim koj niam tsis muaj kev kawm es thiaj li forgive tsis tau os mog
Koj yuav tsum paub tias thaum koj yog koj niam koj txiv ib me nyuam tsis mloog hais, hais tsis yuav li no lawm lawv thiaj yuav rau txim koj mus tag tiam no vim koj yuav koj niam tus yeeb ncuab loj tshaj plaws hauv qab ntuj no
Sov!! ... yuav zoo dab tsi yog yus mus yuav ib tug txiv es yus niam yus txiv muab yus txiav tu rho es tsua tau nws xwb yus lub neej ho yuav Kaj siab npaum cas. Txoj kev mus ua nyab twb tu siab tsi txawj tag ua yus tsi muaj feem tau nrog yus niam yus txiv nyob hlub lawv thiab Tus lawv mus txog nub kawg xav txog lawv txoj kev hlub, kev khwv tu yus thiaj loj li no saib yus niam yus txiv lub zog nim ntaug tag, es txhob Cia txoj kev mus ua nyab ua rau lawv Tus Siab thiab tsi suav tia muaj yus os. Mus lawm ces Los tsi tau lawm tab si yog tsi tau mus ces txhob mus yuav zoo dua. Muab tshaw tib tug txiv es txawm tsi muaj yus niam yus txiv Los puam chawj khov nov rau kuv tsi OK kuv tsev neeg muaj nqi dua ib tug txiv. Ho ntawm niam tai zam txim os mog cov laus yog cov ua xwb nim no twb tsi muaj lawv lawm, sim neej no Cia txoj kev tuag Cai peb kev niam tub xwb txhob Cia kev chim Los Cai peb mog. Ua neeg nyob tsua nyob ib vuag xwb koj yuav chim mus txog nub tuag ces kev niam tub yeej yuav tag tiagg li.
Ntuj os tus me ntxhais aws tsi txhob tu siab mog ua ib siab tias koj tsi muaj niam muaj txiv lawm no os mog ua ca koj niam nim yuav tawv ua luaj es muaj peev xwm ntxub kom txog hnub tuag li lov koj niam kuj tsi dog dig thiab laiv yom
Tsis yog koj niam chi qhov lawv cem koj niam pluag os yog koj niam khib qhov tias ua cas koj niam tsis tau koj txiv yawg xwb es koj tseem tau tus tub thiab uas cas ho tsis yog koj niam no es koj niam thiaj tsis xam muaj koj lawm xwb os vim koj niam tseem 2 khib ne
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Tu siab heev li os muaj ntsis yuav mus zoo li kuv lub neej thiab es kuv thiaj li nrog koj mloog los Nim los los kua muag li os niam ntsuab teev thiab tus me niam tsev ....thxob tu siab os mog vim yog xaiv yug tsis Tau los rau in leej niam leej txiv zoo es los us lub neej ib ya nyob hauv qhov hos ib ya tseem nyob saum no los yus thiaj li tu tu siab tsis txawj tag is tus me niam tsev...
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It hurts you but it hurts your mother double, because she can't forgive her ex family. When you can't forgive you carry the pain forever.
Wow, your mom needs to get over her past. So evil of her to be treating you like that. So sad for you, I hope you find peace in her. 😢
Wow! This story was intense. Totally understand were the mother is coming from because I'm a mother myself. But forgiveness is definitely needed in this story. 😔
Tos koj niam ua tau los yeej tsim nyog lawm os kev tu siab thiab chim siab yeej nyob ntsaim hauv siab mus ib txhis
I don't blame your mother for having so much hatred toward your husband's side of the family. Forgiveness is the hardest thing anyone can offer, and its going to take time for that to happen. However, your mother should have not allow one incident or a person's action ruin the whole relationship toward you and your husband. Like what the old saying goes, "Don't let one bad apple ruin the whole tree." I would suggest you, your husband and his side of the family ask for her forgiveness, and maybe that can be the start of a whole new relationship.
Zoo qhov lawv tsis yuav koj niam os, koj niam phem dhau qhov phem os tus niam tsev aw!!!!.pab koj tu siab os.
Koj niam ua yog lawm .
Your mom must really love your father in law!!!! LOL
Koj xaiv koj na.. koj xaiv tsev neeg ko ces koj kuj plam koj niam koj txiv xwb...
For the people saying this mother is selfish, and should have forgave the daughter, well..we all don't know what kind of treatments, and shame she had dealt with her ex's family. This story is only a quick summary of the mother's life, I'm sure there is way more details to this ice berg so don't judge her. No one will hold such deep, and strong grudge unless something really bad truly happened. Until you are in her shoes, you wouldn't know how it feels and it would not be easy to forgive someone who has done you so wrongly to the point you hate them with a passion. This daughter chose to be with her husband after knowing well what happened between the families, she can't blame her mom for treating her like that either, it hurts her but it hurts her mom 100x more to know she has a daughter who she truly loves to marry her enemy's family. The mother chose to disassociate herself and cut all lose ends, the daughter needs to respect that if she has already chosen her husband's side. Hope for the best going forward.
Koj puas paub, tos koj niam chim tsis muaj hnub zam txim li los hmoob mas cov ib nyuag muaj nyiaj me me xwb mas twb tsab tsab ntse tsab muaj hais lus tsis saib cov neeg pluag neeg txom nyem hlo li lawm. Lawv hais lus mas hais cuag li sim neej lawv yuav tsis txawj pluag, tsis txawj tuag li. Yim twg ib nyuag ua neej zoo zog xwb mas nim muaj muaj power hais lus caij tsuj neeg nruab zej nruab zog tus ub tus no yam tsis txuag luag hlo li ces muaj ib txhia yeej chim ciaj caub tas tiam neej li koj niam tiag lau. Koj twb nyiam koj twb xaiv koj tus txiv lawm ces ua ib siab tsuav koj lub neej zoo lawm xwb mas.
Wow ....tus niam tais no chim tiag2 li os, cov neeg muaj Tsi txhob thuam2 cov neeg txom nyem nawv mog
koj xav li kuv thiab
Vuag cas koj zaj neej neeg no es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os.. zoo li kuv kiag thiab ntag os me vivncaus aw..
You did not walk your mom shoes. You don't understand her pains. You choose your husband so just be happy. Can't blame your mom. As a mom, it hurts her more that you are her child, she raised you and you sided with her enemy.
She ain't playing around...damn!
Wow cas zaj fab neeg no yuav zoo nkaus li ib zaj movie thaib kiag li os
Txoj kev txom nyem luag yeej saib tsis taus tiag2. Rau qhov sib ntsia tsis taus. Yog koj txomnyem ces koj yeej paub zoo li cas kawg.
Koj niam ntxub koj tug txiv tsev neeg vim koj niam tsi tau koj txiv yawm los hlub. Rua siab ntso hlub koj tug txiv pauj koj niam txuj kev chim.
Your mom still love her ex very much that is why she still hurt over everything just remember when she didn't know who your husband was she loved him very much daddy get moms heart n soul and son gets daughter oh that hurt girl
Love this story... pab tus niam tsev no tus siab kawg tab sis if me I would do the same thing as your mom... I know how you feel and I know how your mom feel too...
oaht gnach You need to learn how to get over rejection.
Hais tau tu siab tiag2 os yom,
Kuv los ntshe yeej yuav ua li koj niam ua vim nws yog txoj kev chim siab tuag nthi los tseem tshuav ib nplooj tiag2
Txhob tu siab os tus me sister, yog koj Níam teeb meem xwb yog yus hlub tus neeg twg yus yuav txum yuav tus Rawls li yus lub siab nyiam yus thiaj tsis khuv xim yog koj niam hlub koj tiag nws yeej yuav tum ua tau siab zoo rau koj. Zoo kawg rau qhov uas koj niam tsis yog txiv neej ua tsis tau ib tug nom yog koj niam tseem ua tau ib tug nom mas leej twg ua rau koj chim lawm ces nws tsev neeg ces kawg tuag xwb vim koj niam lub siab chim Es chim tag tiam.
Cas yuav tu siab ib yam li kuv lub neeg thiab os. Kav liam mog ua ib siab🥺🥺
Ca zaj no mloog tau tu siab luaj li os
Tus niam tsev aw, kuv mas qhuas koj niam heev li os! Ua taus tiag uas cais, tshem koj tawm hauv koj niam thiab koj txiv lub neej mus tag tiam no! Lub ntiaj teb no es neeg muaj coob muaj ntau koj xum mus yuav tsev neeg uas tau thuam koj niam thiab tau ua mob koj niam tshaj plaws es koj thiaj li raug cais tawm ces qhiv nov pab tsis tau! Kav tsij nyob li qhov koj niam zoo siab yog qhov zoo dua! Tuag es koj mam mus los koj niam yeej tsis care txog tsis zoo siab rau koj kiag li lawm! Just leave her alone!
ใจร้ายมากเป็นแม่ที่คิดถึงแต่ตัวเองไม่คิดถึงจิตใจลูกยังไงก็ผัวเก่าคนไม่ดีก็ตายไปหมดแล้ว.yog ib tug niam tai ua siab tsis zoo tsis xav txog tej me nyuam li
Koj niam mas heev tiag tiag li os!
Nrog koj tu siab. Li cas los koj twb muaj niam pog txiv yawg zoo hlub koj. Ua ib siab txhob ntshaw koj niam txoj kev hlub lawm.
Niam Ntais awww... LOL looks like tus niam tais still not over her ex. She’s pissed off cause they didn’t want her. She just jealous that the ex married someone with class and got over her quick. She’s still waiting for him to come for her, but now that her daughter marries the son, there’s no chance to marry her ex.
Niam Tais aw... txob ncim ncim los mas, tseem koj tsis tau rog tub qub hmoob pw uake forever los koj tus txais ntub tau pw rog tus tub every day forever ces zoo siab los mas.
Wow! That’s too extreme! I feel sorry for your mom that she would carry so much hate in her heart over so many years. Even though your parents counted you out I would think at least your siblings would still keep in touch with you. Repairing your relationship with your mom is impossible so if I were you I would live life to the fullest with no regrets. Your kids and your husband should be your life now. It’s not like you didn’t try.
Wow, I cannot believe that the mom refused to forgive her daughter marries her ex son. I feel sorry for her mom who has a very unforgiving heart and her siblings for not even contacting her. I don’t walk in this mom’s shoes but this is the first time I heard about a mom controlling everything in her family. She must be a very miserable person. For the daughter, you chose your husband and did all you can do contacted your family. Be happy with your husband and your children and let your mom’s family go. You didn’t know her history with her ex so you didn’t disobey her prior to your marriage. Just be happy. Good luck to your family.
tus sister aw koj niam hais yog lawm yus tus yeeb ncuab ces yeej chim rau tas ib sim neej kom koj nco ntsoov tias yus niam yus txiv nrhiav hauv lub qab ntuj no nrhiav tsis tau mog yog niag txiv xwb ces tsis tau tus ko los yeej yuav tau lwm tus mog tej zaum koj yuam kev mentsis lawm pab koj tu siab kawg
Forgive but never forget is the saying. But in this case it’s never forget what was done.
Txawm leej twg los yeej chim li koj niam tais chim thiab nawb. Yog kuv los kuv tsis yuav cov ntxhais zoo li koj thiab ov.
G yog os nrhiav kom tau tus txiv hlub yus xwb zoo dua nawb niam txiv g kav yis laus ov koj xaiv tau yog lawm os mi ntxhais aw koj niam g hlub koj los koj tus txiv hlub koj ces koj nyob tau lawm
Pab koj tu siab kaws og koj niam yuav ua phem ua luaj rau kojna tus muam txhob tu siab mog niam tais lawm txawm ua li lo rau2 siab ua koj lub neej kom zoo tshaj kj niam laww
Npam lawm tag rov los npam yus ces yog nej nawb. Tab sis ua zoo loj kev npag tag lawm es txij no mus ces nej tsuas ua neej zoo lawm xwb os.
Omg ib tug leej niam zoo li no stubborn tiag li os .
Good story but I dont blame the mom! Blame the life you chose!
Yog kv los kv yeej chim ib yam li no thiab tiag saib tsis taus u li no na tamsim no kv yeej tsis txiav kv tej tub li nws nyiam leej twg nws yuav nws thiaj xav sib hlub
Yeej muaj ib co neeg yug los rau qab ntuj no yeej coj li koj niam tsis zam rau leej twg yog nws tsis tau raws nws lub siab xav. Zoo qhov koj tus txiv who hlub koj koj thiaj tsis nyuaj siab vim koj plam koj koj txiv txoj kev txheeb ze lawm. Tsis pom qab tusiab rau koj niam vim nws yeej chim txaus nkaus nws li thiab mog neb ib niam txiv sib2 hlub xwb ces zoo lawm mog.
Koj niam tsis ntxub lawv tsev hmoob tab sis koj niam tseem khib2 koj txiv yawg thiab ho txaj muag tias thaum ub yog yus tus hlub ib zaug es tsis xav sib fim xwb os
Cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj o
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Lub neeg tu siab vim yus niam tsis zoo li luag niam os
Until you are in the mother’s shoes, you won’t understand. The mother must have been treated so bad that even her ex didn’t stand up for her, the one person she loved. Her grudge runs deep. My ex’s family said a lot of bad things about me and my family when they NEVER met me or my family. He chose his family and even questioned me. I’m so glad I didn’t marry him, I would of been miserable. If this ever happens to me I wouldn’t be like the mom and cut my child out of my life, just her in laws.
Ua cas yuav pab hlub tus niam laus hau zaj neej neeg no ua luaj. Yus nim muaj niam muaj txiv yug los, nim tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub. Ua cas nws niam tais yuav pe ua luaj li. Peb hlub hlub tus niam laus no kawg li os. Thov Kom vaj tswv foom koob foom Hmoov kos Koj lub neeg tsua zoo mus xwb.
Zoo ua rau kev kawm rau lwm tus ntxhias kawm
Koj niam tsis muaj kev zamtxim koj niam yuav mob siab txog ntua hnub tuag. Ya neej nyob yuav tsum zam txim thiaj muaj kev kaj siab
I don’t blame your parents, vim nej tsev neeg twb ua txhaum koj niam lawm los koj tus txiv neb cia li tsis kam Thov txim rau koj niam li ne.
Thov txim for what? Truth is, she should have forgotten the past already. I'm not judging anyone here, but I honestly feel bad for the moms husband. He never had her heart. Smh
@@ChanTVang agreed. Not sure why and what the daughter and son need to apologize for. Her mother is selfish and full of shit.
Wow cas nej 2 tsev neeg no es yuav ua lub neej cov nyom los tau ze 2 century tiag2 li
So sad😢😭. Pab nrog koj tu siab heev os tus viv ncaus.
Ib leej niam phem npaum ko ces kuv yeej tsis suav ua kuv niam lawm thiab. Tej teeb meem no teb tsis yog koj li los cas yuav muab ua yeej ncuab kiag lawm. Yog nyiag neeg laus ces yeej phem li no. Koj niam chim vim nws tsis tau koj txiv yawg thiaj muaj chim los txog hnub no xwb.
Aub tus niam tsev kuv xav twb tsis yog tim koj. Twb yog vim koj niam lub siab tseem mob thiab hlub koj txiv yawg es nws thiaj ua li rau koj xwb. This is one of the reasons forgiveness is so important. It can damage relationships and cause so much grief. I hope that your mother will heal and turn to love you again.
Tu siab thiab txau luag kawg li thiab 🤣😂🤣
Oh wow chim siab khib siab txog Lwm tiam mam rov sib hai dua kom yus siab nqig laus. Yeej yog niam thiab txiv ua xwb tabsi chim siab kawg os tu me niam tsev.
Cas ntiab teb yuav me ua luaj lis tseem rov tau yog poj cuag yawg cuag. Txhob tu siab ntshe neb tiam ntawv los yog cuag xwb Es cia me nyuam mam sib tau sib hlub os. Es puam chawj mog.
Ua ib siab os mog, koj niam phem dhau muaj ib hnub twg koj niam yuav xav txog lig.
Cas lub ntuj yuav nqaim ua luaj li os yom hluas nkauj hluas nraug coob npaum no tsis yuav ho lo yuav ncaj yus tus yeeb ncuab thiab xwb
Luag tej laus ib txwm hais tias ntuj nyob qes2 ces zoo li no mas Hmoob!
Niam tais phem dhau lawm os tsab ntse dhau lawm os
Aub yaus to koj niam muab koj lawb cuag lawb dab los koj tus txiv lawv niam pog txiv yawg lawv yeej ua phem dhau thaum is peb nyob tim nplog kuv yeej pom cov neeg muaj yeej saib tsi tau cov neeg pluag yeej khua koj niam chim os
Zoo siab heev
No hais li koj zaj dag neeg no g yg lawm koj niam ntsaw2 lawv g tau lawv tseem khib2 koj niam xwb vim ua neej g pom tom ntej yg tiag mas koj niam tseem yuav ua lawv tsaug koj niam lub neej ho zoo tshaj lawv nam
Hais tau Zoo tu siab heev
Tshua yog koj niam thiaj li coj phem li ko xwb os lwm tu luag tsi coj li koj niam os txhawm thaum yu yuav lawv tsi pom zoo li yog Yu mu ua neej zoo lawm ce lawv yeej hloov lawm tab si kuv mloog mas koj niam yog ib leej niam ua coj phem tsaj plaw li
Wow what a sad story. I can only imagined in a movie but this is real. I feel for you lady but dont give up, keep contacting her cause shes your real mother even if she disowned you.
Muaj koob muab npe poob nram dej na khooj tas lawm os
Tsis txhob tu siab hos, yus tus txiv thiab yog yus lub neej yus niam yus txiv ces yog tus muab txoj siab rau yus thiab tus yus ib vuag xwb. Kav liam mog koj txiv ua tsis taus txiv es cia koj niam ua kav xwm koj txiv ua tshwj kab xwb ces tsis pom qab tu siab mog.
Tus niam tais no yuam kev lawm os. Tus mim niam tsev aw tsis ntxhob tus siab muaj ib hnub twg koj niam yuav tu siab heev rau nws tus kheej os. Nws tsuas muaj cai chim rau koj tus txiv yawg xwb nws tsis muaj cai chim rau koj thiab koj tus txiv os mog.
As a mom I would not want my kids marrying my ex's kids for what his parents put me thru. They never liked me and gave me nicknames. I was glad I left my ex to marry someone else. It hurted him so much as on the day I was leaving to get marry he came and said his parents gave in for us to marry since he was going to die...but it was already to late cuz he also cheated before this too which made me go get marry. Now he tells me he regrets and also cheated on his wife the same way. She happens to be a cousin in a way so I can watch how their life is going. Lol! Glad I didn't marry him!
Tu siab heev
Poj niam hmoob Aw.... cas koj twb laus lawm los lub siab hluas siab khib2222 tseem nyob nrog nram os pab tus ntxhai tu siab tu siab hwv 😡
Dang, it's TRUE, no one wants to marry ur mom cus she is stubborn n mean (heevheev, phem phem). Dont be sad. It's her lost.
cas yuav tu siab ua luaj tej laus kuj ua tsis yog lawm thiab tus niam poj cuag yam nws ua no tsis yog lawm li cas los yuav tau hlub yus tus ntxhais
Tejzaum tsev neeg muaj yeej paub koj niam tus cujpwm phem lawv thiaj tsis tso lawv tus tub yuav koj niam.
Txhob tusiab os tus muam.
Lesson learned. Don’t disobey your parents. Because when they cut ties, it could be forever. You may have thought she was just kidding, and that it wouldn’t be forever. But some people will take it with them to the grave. Make sure when you choose, you can live with the consequences. It’s your choice, you have no one to blame but yourself. Your mother made her choice, she can live with it, can you? If not, you should have thought about it before disobeying her. Life is a series of choices. People who choice life changing choices will have to live with them forever, this is something most millennials don’t understand. Everything is not owed to you.
Nam tais aw, caag es tam nuav yawm saub tub muab lub fiv tsaam rua koj hloov koj lub sab, cwj pwm los tseem tsim kev npam ntxiv hab. Txhob xaav tas tam nuav koj foom luas tuag kag es yog npam luas. Tsi yog os, yog rov npam koj. Lwm tam los tseem yuav rov npam dlua, ncu ntsoov lwm tam ua lub sab luj es xa tsi nplaam ib txig ntxhais vauv zoo nawb. Luas le kev npam tsuas yog ib vuag vim luas txuj sa tu nrho lawm, koj tseem nyob nyooj koj tug mob khib.
I could relate to some of the pain the woman in this story is going thru, I was in tears, however the only difference is that my parents forgave me and I’m still able to go around and see them, but a non existence person to my grandparents and the rest of my relatives. Don’t be heart broken and move on with your life. You did nothing wrong but married the man you loved and if your mother cannot accept and forgive you then let it be. Your mother is one stubborn woman is all I could say. The elderly men and women in our Hmong community need to understand and leave the past behind and stop bringing things up that happened decades ago and try to make it our problem when we younger generations know nothing about.
uag cas tu siab ua luaj
dang your mom one old bitter lady that can not let go of the past. dont give up and keep showing her ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ it will care all hate.
Your mom is tough. Your in laws probably said some really hurtful things to her and your father in law cannot man up to marry your mom. But she shouldn't hold those grudges against them because they already got their karma. She should just let it go. Just know that all of your mom's life, she can never be happy because she couldn't let those grudges go.
Tu siab tshaj li os😭
Lub ntiaj teb no, tseem nuaj tej tug poj niam phem npaum no thiab os ntuj aw!!!!!.
I agree with the Mom..
...... That's why there's karma. Karma return at some point. Maybe the rich family is right at the beginning not to marry her.
Leej niam thiaj yog tus npam loj!
Koj niam ua tsis ncaj lawm vim nws muab nws cov teeb meem nog rau koj ev ua ab tsi. Pab tu siab rau koj thiab koj txiv vim koj niam yog ib tus neeg lim hiam tshaj plaws.
Your father-in-law dodged a bullet. A smart woman would have made the man that disrespected and lost her, regret and miss her forever. Your mother leaves nothing to be desired. What a cruel, cruel woman.
Wow, yog peb hmoob thaum ub lub siab tawv phem npaum li koj niam ces peb twb yeej nyab laj thiab tsis poob teb poob chaw li tiag. Txhob tu siab rau koj niam vim koj niam tsis muaj kev kawm es thiaj li forgive tsis tau os mog
What a sad story.........
vuag, cas yuav chim tusiab tag tiam neej li.
Koj yuav tsum paub tias thaum koj yog koj niam koj txiv ib me nyuam tsis mloog hais, hais tsis yuav li no lawm lawv thiaj yuav rau txim koj mus tag tiam no vim koj yuav koj niam tus yeeb ncuab loj tshaj plaws hauv qab ntuj no
Tus niam tais no mas zoo muab 1 tus Nais phoos rau kom tiv thaiv roob phuv npiab kawg nawb.....,.
Wow! Koj niam mas phem tiag tiag li. Tsis forgive li. Nashe Vaj tswv yuav tsis zam txim thiab ov.
Sov!! ... yuav zoo dab tsi yog yus mus yuav ib tug txiv es yus niam yus txiv muab yus txiav tu rho es tsua tau nws xwb yus lub neej ho yuav Kaj siab npaum cas. Txoj kev mus ua nyab twb tu siab tsi txawj tag ua yus tsi muaj feem tau nrog yus niam yus txiv nyob hlub lawv thiab Tus lawv mus txog nub kawg xav txog lawv txoj kev hlub, kev khwv tu yus thiaj loj li no saib yus niam yus txiv lub zog nim ntaug tag, es txhob Cia txoj kev mus ua nyab ua rau lawv Tus Siab thiab tsi suav tia muaj yus os. Mus lawm ces Los tsi tau lawm tab si yog tsi tau mus ces txhob mus yuav zoo dua. Muab tshaw tib tug txiv es txawm tsi muaj yus niam yus txiv Los puam chawj khov nov rau kuv tsi OK kuv tsev neeg muaj nqi dua ib tug txiv. Ho ntawm niam tai zam txim os mog cov laus yog cov ua xwb nim no twb tsi muaj lawv lawm, sim neej no Cia txoj kev tuag Cai peb kev niam tub xwb txhob Cia kev chim Los Cai peb mog. Ua neeg nyob tsua nyob ib vuag xwb koj yuav chim mus txog nub tuag ces kev niam tub yeej yuav tag tiagg li.
Eb cas nim muaj neeg zoo li kuv niam thiab os kuv niam ces teej nus nim tsis suav kuv niam ua lawv nkauj lawv muam li thiab tu siab tshaj li os
Ntuj os tus me ntxhais aws tsi txhob tu siab mog ua ib siab tias koj tsi muaj niam muaj txiv lawm no os mog ua ca koj niam nim yuav tawv ua luaj es muaj peev xwm ntxub kom txog hnub tuag li lov koj niam kuj tsi dog dig thiab laiv yom
KOJ NIAM YUAV TSUM TAU ZAM TXIM RAU KOJ THIAB, NEJ LOS TWB TSIS TAU THEM IB CO NYIAJ TUAJ KHO KOJ NIAM THIAB NE!!
Tsis yog koj niam chi qhov lawv cem koj niam pluag os yog koj niam khib qhov tias ua cas koj niam tsis tau koj txiv yawg xwb es koj tseem tau tus tub thiab uas cas ho tsis yog koj niam no es koj niam thiaj tsis xam muaj koj lawm xwb os vim koj niam tseem 2 khib ne