Okay so make it illegal for fathers to leave and pick up and go whenever they want. Any man who doesnt take care of his kids will experience harsh consequences. But you won't do that.
@augustG.I.F even if the relationship doesn't work out a man should still be responsible for his children. If they don't want to take care of the human beings they created then the shouldnt have any.
Just because the living conditions and social environment make it hard or even impossible for women to just choose wifehood & motherhood and be done with it - doesn't mean that those roles are inherently "unnatural". So what you just wrote might sound good, but the logic under it is quite weak..🤷🏽♀️
@ nah she’s right. I have never wanted to be a mother. Even if was given a lot of support I still wouldn’t want it, so no it’s not natural for everyone.
Yeah women are taught to put themselves aside to accommodate someone else, men are taught it's ok to infringe themselves on women's decisions. I'm not bringing no more kids to this crazy place. I'd gladly adopt because I love children, but to be expected to have more children to keep the rat race going or because I'm supposed to make babies....naw. It seems like we don't know how to people anymore 😐
The term "pregnant people" is a reference to female born people who get pregnant that don't identify as women, such as non-binary or masculine identifying. Please educate yourself before you come with misinformation.
@jlcii Only women can become pregnant and give life to people. Without women, humans would go extinct. Go and say that statement to those Russian leaders lol. Pregnant woman or women is the correct term.
As a Russian childfree woman I have to say that I'm super scared cos you cannot even discuss any childfree topics in public cos they could be reported to the authorities and the fines are WILD
@@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas In this case, the question is why WOULD they start a war knowing they already had this problem? Doesn’t sound like logic to me, but what do I know I’m just a woman…ba-dom-tss 🥁 😂
Maybe women just don't want to suffer anymore. Being treated like 💩, and not knowing how you are going to feed yourself much less a child is off putting? But what do I know 🤷🏾♀️
This is about ww wanting abortions. Bw aren't having abortions like that, trust me. Governments don't care if bw don't want kids. They probably believe the community should be thinned out anyway. I don't understand why bw took on the ww issues. This was NEVER about bw at all! Ww just suckered bw into fighting for them. There is no sisterhood. Bw need to be smarter than this!
This part! If you are in the USA get ready, it's about to get really bad for us. Prepare for them taking the Internet away.... That will be the first step in taking away our planning and solidarity. Get ready for extreme control, think Afghanistan.
I have two kids as well, but i waited till 33. I’m so hoping this tendency gives a path to real change in society, that SUPPORT women that want kids but can’t afford it or support the change in gender roles and society to support parents.
That “childless cat lady” sh** never bothered me..😂😂😂 I’m a dog parent anyway… and get loads of beauty sleep when my Shih Tzu puppy isn’t running a muck… he is quite enough. I used to be open to being a mom , but it seems the risk isn’t worth the “reward” these days… so I will more than likely opt out..🤷🏽♀️
Governments have made it so hard to raise children in this current day. Most parents have been taken out of the home, because life has become expensive, mental health is at breaking point and the world is selfish in general. How is a life of struggle appealing to people?
Developed countries... My butt. We live like hens in cages. Going to work and back, struggling to keep roofs over our head, with no time or energy to create meaningful societal connections, no community, no village, because there are no places to meet and no time to do so. It takes a village. Children don't have places to play, because even at the park/playground they need to be under parental supervision. So now they are expecting women to work full time, take full time care of kids and her husband and household? Because DeClInInG BiRtHrAtEs... Take care of the real estate prices, childcare prices, employment laws, alimony laws, accessible third places, and THEN we can talk. Sorry for rant.
All of this! 💯 Even if there were better men and women in the world, I'd still be childfree! Children ain't for everybody! Let those who like kids have them and let those who don't like kids (*nor males*) be childfree! And single!
I'm already mad because idk what 60K pounds is in usd but 60K usd only would cover a bad labor in-hospital. The cost of children is from conception to legal adulthood. Roughly two decades. 60K is a drop in the ocean. The men in charge can watch the economies fail. Let the rich birth their own wage slaves. Have those 8+ kids, rich people.
Right! I noticed long ago that most rich/wealthy families don’t have a ton of kids. They usually cap out at 5. I can’t think of any wealthy family with more than that.
Childfree women should not bow to the pressure and mothers need to secure a personal village before they give birth. It was a scam when society used to teach us girls that we can have it all (marriage, children, career, a social life). Nobody told us that all the work would be on our backs and draining our life force. Childfree women often have tremendous value in their families, friend circles, and society.
I distinctly remember it being headline news years ago that were we at 7 billion people globally and that was causing dramatic harm to the planet. Now we are at 8 billion and we need to have more babies !?!?!?!!?
The people saying we're overpopulated (environmental scientists who study the global ecosystem) and the people saying we need more babies (wealthy oligarchs and their political lackeys, who won't have enough workers/consumers to maintain endless exponential stock growth) have completely different goals.
I don’t understand why we need to bring more babies into this world(I mean we’re already 8 billion) ?? It’s not safe for them to live in this world, I think it’s all about the control over women. Because why would I have a kid when I know that I can’t give him anything, there’s no better future for them in this patriarchal world (I’m a bit pessimistic sorry)🙄 Let them do whatever they want, I’m stubborn lady and definitely a childfree. (eng is not my native language sorry for mistakes) 4B!!❤
They will start doing this in the US but it does not contain two black women just white women they will suffer underneath Donald Trump policies just sit back and watch do not engage in white women mess
UA-cam keep erasing my comments. They will start doing this in the US but it only contains two white women only black women do not engage in this mess if they start doing these policies
They will start doing this in the US but it will only contain white women not black women so do not engage in their mess. They only voted to harm black and brown people but Donald Trump policies would hurt white people the most
You couldnt pay me enough to have another child. They are delusional. One lump sum is not going to pay for the child throughout their life. Who wants to wait until the end of rhe year to get some money when you put yourself on debt.
Exactly!! And they bringing back no fault divorce. We going backwards and we entering the handsmaids tale irl. Learn how to use one weapon very well ladies!! Practice celibacy ladies!! Focus on yourself ladies ❤
Kenyan here. Africa birth rates are FALLING as well. In 2024, the birth rate in Africa is 4.1 children per woman, down from 5.24 in 2000. By 2030, the birth rate is projected to drop to around 3.8 births per woman. And this data is actually skewed - A few countries have high rates, especially the very poor ones (Somalia, Niger, Chad), with little education for women. Most of the countries with fairly good education levels have around 2-3.5 children per woman (and this is still falling). And some, like Tunisia and Mauritius are below 2 children/woman.
I’m a woman from Russia and absolutely disgusted with all that is happening. Now I have a feeling that I was shut up, I even don’t have a right to put my preferences onto my dating profile, because it will be a propaganda.
@annau8038 of course, it's a choice and a political movement. Your body, your choice always. It's about taking away their access to us as a commodity, as a source of power, validation, energy, labor, and status. You do you ♀️ 🗽 ....just delete your app for now so they can't use you as product, and in solidary for womens oppression globally, and get it again when you might wanna use it 😉
ANd why do they act like it is all us? Sure they can't have the babies without women, but do you know how many of my men friends are terrified of becoming a parent and have no desire to to be fathers. Two of them have had vasectomies already. Kids are expensive as hell
Throughout history most women had no choices regarding reproduction and now they do therefore highlighting that we don’t always want to be mothers. In addition the woman is almost 100% responsibility and accountable for the raising of children while being expected to contribute financially. Women are helping men with providing but the they are not helping them with raising children. There’s really no benefit for women either which way.
I like the News Lady for calling out the Russian government 😂 women can do whatever we want to do with our bodies. I do like children but there’s more to live then having kids
10:47 Child free by circumstance here, if the Government could do ANything for me( cause I do want a daughter❤) 1.Make men behave better ,yall are SCARY, DONT ANYONE want to play with these MICHAEL MEYERS FOOLS
The government needs to ask women and implement what they suggest. Maternity leave, cheaper child care, lower cost of living, a living wage, etc. its that simple.
It's weird that they want to sterilize women who don't have kids. As a woman who's childfree, yes, please pay for my sterilization. This doesn't sound like a threat.
I'd say its equivalent to when men think it's an insult to be called a single cat lady - they don't understand the opposite effect it actually has on us 😂.
Russia has one of the worst single Mother rates, and father abandonment rates. They have yet to address that, or accommodate the single mothers and make it easier for them To support these children. But…. I thought women were not important? Why the change of pace?
Nothing will change my mind about having kids. I don’t want kids and I never ever had the urge to have kids. And now in 2024 it is crazy to want more kids in this fucked up world! Think in 20 years…30 years….what kind of world will these kids live in? If nothing changes it will be a even worse world than the one we live in now! I am 42 and during my life I have had men saying this and that about me being childless and nothing was positive but so many woman agrees with me both older and younger. That tells me that we ladies are sick of this bullshit and if you choose or not choose to have kids it is up to YOU and your partner. Thankfully me and my husband is on the same page and guess what…if we weren’t I would never have married him. It is so important that you do what is right for you and that you talk to your partner about it because no other person is in that relationship. My father in law asked me 12 years ago when I would become pregnant and I said ”You have 2 grandkids from your daughter, be happy with that.” This is also the same man that mentally abused my husband for years out of his own trauma🙄🤮😡Makes me sick. I would never let kids be around abusive people. That is my rant. Sorry for the long comment😜☺️
Every fertile woman needs to know how powerful she is because she can potentially carry a child/children into this world, it is her most powerful bargaining tool for better treatment & a more powerful say in society. No more handing our offspring to a system that cannot function without them that treats them poorly, it's an opportunity to think about how we want our communities & countries to function differently & then demand that, if children are on a woman's the wish list.
I would love to have kids but I can’t afford them especially in Europe and the US. You can not bring your child to a family member and ask them to watch your kid(s) and go to work because you can’t afford daycare People have their own lives too.
Legal good immigration could fix this problem but the xenofobia is sooo high in most countries that theyd rather start oppressing women more again. Rather than help people and themselves in one go. Most countries have BAD IMMIGRATION POLICIES ,that make it harder for new people to integrate, the thing most people complain about... Those same politicans then turn around and blame those people for all the issues caused by bad policy. Plus the bad immigration policies. It makes me so angry. We HAVE THE SOLUTION but this world is too sexist, racist and xenofobic to actually do some good and benefit from
There is nothing anybody could do to make me want to have children, so what the governments should do is prepare for a time when there are a lot more old people than young ones and how to take care of them since that is inevitable.
😂😂😂 i zoned out for a sec, looking at your stunning hair! When i came back to my senses, you were explaining where you got it from. You must have got a lot of compliments, you deserve them! ❤
We now live in a world where 2 people need to work full time in order to NOT afford to live. Doesn't surprise me in the least that in an educated time with access to contraception most people don't choose to further impoverish themselves by having huge families.
I'm been saying this since it started. there's an easy way to get around that shit too. know when you're ovulating. and for all those that are into the hoodoo and the voodoo, if some shit happened go visit your nearest mambo and get them "herbs" and get that shit out you. it has been done for years. if a woman does not want to have no damn kids she will not have no damn kids. there are ways to get a pregnancy to be terminated. they'd better recognize, women have spoken!
Please say you've read/seen The Hand Maids Tale?! As dystopian as that society is from this novel, it does not seem impossible to happen at this point 😬
@@sadiegodwin205 didn't Margaret Atwood confirm that everything in her books has already happened somewhere at some point in history? I remember she said she took a lot of inspiration from the middle East, Russia and North Korea...
Harsh truth, but it's clear as day this is not women in general, but women who can contribute to the future workforce. Women who cannot have children, in this topic, are seen the same way as men are seen - a worker who will eventually die, that's it.
The harsh truth in this topic is that women who cannot have children do not matter as they are not seen to be able to contribute to the future generation (future workforce, which you can only have by creating more human beings, until AI becomes the replacement; Though re-reading your statement, shouldn't they try to do more research and provide alternatives to make it possible for women to have children outside of sexual intercourse? We have IVF treatments so surely we can develop more ways for a child to be conceived and carried alternative to the usual biological means. But this sounds expensive doesnt it? That's exactly why the government would rather convince us to stick with biology and sexual intercourse and make women who can have children keep reproducing.
The birth rate is declining because it is too damn expensive. Daycare, food, diapers, clothes later also school and studies…. Nowadays you can’t give your child the basics to start a life when they have to move out it is too expensive and now that they see the population is shrinking they are screaming we need to make more children, but if they have thought about it before creating pandemics and wars
Instead of pushing for more births, switch the mindset to living with less children, having more single person housing and community supports. Replacement rate for what? The economy is just a concept, if it stops growing life will go on, until it doesn’t. There used to be cries of world overpopulation when we had 4billion people, now we have over 8b.
In order for me to ever have kids, they'd have to eliminate bills, and taxs for mothers and all women alike and I want about 8 million dollars in disposable income for me and my kid. Yes KID because id be a ONE and done type of woman. 😏 Now about the same odds of that happening for me or woman in general is the same probability that id ever have a kid. Fair game #childfree 💜 dont let them persuade you and dont let them put fear in your decision.
WOMEN have always been IMPORTANT just that Men have taken women for granted. Men were too comfortable with their expectations of women. However, now women have taken back their power of control over birthing the human race. Similarly in the United States that’s why Roe v. Wade was overturned because of the fear of declining birth rates which will affect the economy. Yeah religious views were considered about abortion but it was mainly about the economy because when there’s more people in a country that will boost the economy. Also, men should realize that women of this generation and era are not going to be popping out babies like that, especially not in this crazy and expensive world we live in.
Here's an imaginative scenario: Imagine before children are born, we show them the current state of the world and there potential parents in full light as they truly are. Then asks those children if they would still like to continue to be born into this world, what do you think their answer would be? Yeah I dont they would press continue because they would either have hella work to put in to FIX the issue ie being a activist, or some kind of positive change in the world and or suffer a crappy life whether born into money or nah. Most ppl with money have personality disorders and depression just the same as ppl who do not have money.
Its a bit of an odd idea really, if you dont think the world is worth living in why are you still here? Why not opt out of life if life is not worth having in this world?
Just like previous empires, these developed nations are going to crumble... by population decline this time around. Subsaharian Africa hasn't known widespread industrialization and the societal reforms that come consequently.
Few reasons why women probably don't want children... - The cost - regardless of you being with a partner, the cost of living, the cost of your life is a big factor, some countries barely help women financially so why would they have a child they cannot afford? - Safety - The horror stories of child exploitation, online safety is enough to make you sick - Decent partnerships - one thing I value is safety in a relationship, if I can't meet a man who has good values and morals, who will protect and provide for our family (like alot of these so called traditional men should be doing) then why would I have a child? I'm not gonna lay with a deadbeat and alot of women the in the same position. - Body and health changes - for some reason, people seem to think it's easy to just be popping out children? Forgetting the fact that for both parties is hard, getting pregnant for a start can take months of not years, it's a stressful process not to mention all the health implications like low sperm counts or endometriosis. Women lose alot when they have children, you pretty much become a different person, you really have to be ready for that, mentally, emotionally and physically. Not enough people talk about that. - Society - do you really think women would want children in a world that constantly demonises them regardless of what they do? You have one child... 'oh when you having another, you can't leave one alone?' you have 3... 'oh that's too many how do you cope' you have non... 'oh you're a spinster, so selfish, what do you do with all your time? Well, Barbara, I actually look after the kids that are constantly abused by shitty parents because some people should not have kids at all! Which brings me onto my next point... - Mental health - as above, honestly some adults and couples need to go to therapy before pro-creating. Don't have children when you have issues of your own to deal with. It's not fair to dump your unresolved trauma on a child. - The Worlds Current state - were overpopulated, becoming more and more hostile, things are getting harder for the average person, why would you have kids in this state??
Traditional how about the men who don’t want the responsibility of being there to help parent the children help raise them teach them and care for them no treat wife and children like garbage convince me you care not just have me their to pick up where mommy left off
the real issues overpopulation, expensive resources, low levels of family stability( low marriage rate ) b/c men don't often stay and it's not just an America issue clearly and mental health especially because of religious and work level dogmatic cruelty towards single moms especially the government needs to make it more rewarding to have children not threaten the women lol and I'm not sure if this is just an America thing but felons having a difficult time with forward mobility and reform
My whole life people have been telling me that the reason the economy is so bad and there is so much unemployment and poverty and people who work full time and can't get medicine or take care of their families is that the population is too high. I've also been told that wages can't go up because of automation getting better and that if companies have to pay people more then they will just use robots. So the technology would improve by the time kids born today are adults and ready to work. That means that the population should go down. That it would be much easier to take care of the people we have if more of them chose not to have children of their own free will. Definitely it would be bad to force people not to have them if they want them.
Stop name calling women, we're not in kindergarten. Stop men from abandoning their children, while women remain to face the full responsibility of the family unit. Stop misogynistic and patriarchical norms that destry societies. Better healthcare for women, take into account women bodies when given medication. Respect women.
Also better nutrition and environment. They sell us t0xic cook wear, plastic containers, medicine (ex: tampons that are not tested for t0xic elements), vegetables and fruits that are fully pumped with chemicals that destroy our bodies and then they expect us to not have infertility and conception issues.
I live here in TEXAS and it's been difficult to get an updated form of birth control because the one i currently use will be up in 3 yrs. I don't want to risk the one year regardless if i choose to have sex or not. But nobody wants to listen or are too scared to speak.
It's easy to encourage the birth rate to increase. Give women free comprehensive healthcare during pregnancy & atleast for the 1st 2 year of the child's life. Allow 2mos before & 6mos paid mat leave after the kids birth. Gjve tax breaks to married couples with more than one kid. Subsidies baby formula & nappies. Give 2mos before birth & 6mos after birth paid mat leave. Allow women abortion rights under 24weeks. And maybe just name stop starting a new war every 2nd week.
😂😂😂as far as I remember we were 8 billion on this earth have we shrink to 1 billion in 2024 down or please leave us alone there are enough jobs for the whole world to work and eat without experiencing hunger when immigrants come to your lands you get angry at this point my question for western governments what is itching you because you are contradicting yourself.
Then hopefully they face no unfair consequences over something they cannot control - its not looking anytime soon the government want to spend money on research to develop birthing options outside of sexual intercourse and IVF treatments.
Women were always important in Russia. Russia never degraded women's role in society, unlike US. Btw the reason many women have no children or only one child is not because of governments but because i would never have a child with a man who cannot provide or be like a second man/child in my life .
I wouldn't say there important to men unless there really rich women were never really that important to men but that could be one of the motive to why those venzelen guys migrate up to the blue states they know that sometimes we are fully educated and women that are fully educated usually make better homemakers because we're already on a schedule at work. They don't want a bimbo with no degree serving them breakfast I've seen some of their women too there stupid versions of American women and maybe they want a smart version of them because it makes them feel safer that their city won't go bankrupt..
@@enjoyjustida9629 а может женщинам не надо терпеть и оставаться в браке? Или вообще не выходить замуж. Дети рождается и без брака где ты себя чувствуешь как в тюрьме. Но да что скажут соседи.
They shame us for having children and shame us for not …..
The authors of confusion 👹🤛🏽
That’s why it’s fuck them. They just want control that’s it and that’s all.
@@kayshawnsimmons5585 you better say it GIRL!!!
Why would we have kids in a world that tells mothers their value is lowered the moment you have kids ….
Exactly
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@@lashwithlex exactly!
Exactly
Did men not say women who have children are low value?
And they did 😒😑🧐🍿☕
Yeah, women who have children by men they’re not married to.
Now their eating those words. This obsession on the birthrate is sickening.
@chinaking918 Yes it is.
@@zizipolusizi4744 They are high value only when it suits them.
Okay so make it illegal for fathers to leave and pick up and go whenever they want. Any man who doesnt take care of his kids will experience harsh consequences. But you won't do that.
That is such a great idea!! Make child abandonment A criminal offense.
Because fatherlessness wreaks havoc on society.
Men start being conmen how they quit their jobs just so they won’t have to pay child support
The domestic violence would be even higher.
@augustG.I.F even if the relationship doesn't work out a man should still be responsible for his children. If they don't want to take care of the human beings they created then the shouldnt have any.
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Remember ladies!!!! If wifehood and motherhood were the “natural role” for women, governments wouldn’t be fighting so hard to bind y’all to it!!!
This 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
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Just because the living conditions and social environment make it hard or even impossible for women to just choose wifehood & motherhood and be done with it - doesn't mean that those roles are inherently "unnatural".
So what you just wrote might sound good, but the logic under it is quite weak..🤷🏽♀️
@ nah she’s right. I have never wanted to be a mother. Even if was given a lot of support I still wouldn’t want it, so no it’s not natural for everyone.
@@isaa8521I agree , I feel the same. I don’t owe this world a fucking baby.
They kept saying we were overpopulated until...
There is too much poverty to demand for more people.
The ultra rich and corporations need an endless supply of laborers and consumers to keep their dragon hoarding piles growing.
Right like how about promote immigration
Russia better take care of the orphans they already have!
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@@_elommusk 💯
There better be a 0 % child poverty rate in Russia.
If society protected women and produced better men it would help but also creating an environment conducive to working class people
Yeah women are taught to put themselves aside to accommodate someone else, men are taught it's ok to infringe themselves on women's decisions. I'm not bringing no more kids to this crazy place. I'd gladly adopt because I love children, but to be expected to have more children to keep the rat race going or because I'm supposed to make babies....naw. It seems like we don't know how to people anymore 😐
They only care about using bodies for their own agendas 👹🤛🏽
Didn't men say that women weren't needed. Pregnant people is what they refer to women as. Let the leaders figure this out.
How are women getting pregnant when their male's are dying in the war?!
The term "pregnant people" is a reference to female born people who get pregnant that don't identify as women, such as non-binary or masculine identifying. Please educate yourself before you come with misinformation.
And why we should have kids if Politicians will use them as tools in a war ? Maths aren't mathing. 💁♀️
@jlcii Only women can become pregnant and give life to people. Without women, humans would go extinct. Go and say that statement to those Russian leaders lol. Pregnant woman or women is the correct term.
@@QueenNehelenia666and labour. They want worker bees.
As a Russian childfree woman I have to say that I'm super scared cos you cannot even discuss any childfree topics in public cos they could be reported to the authorities and the fines are WILD
Be safe this is crazy
This has hand maids tale written all over it. I pray, hope and wish for your society to not fall to such a dystopian state 🙏❤
I'm praying for your safety! 🙏🏾🫂
You can talk in codes or talk in your homes.
This is unreal,they started the war and now shocked that they have peoblems with the population
The population problem was before the war .This is an old story lmao .
@@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas In this case, the question is why WOULD they start a war knowing they already had this problem? Doesn’t sound like logic to me, but what do I know I’m just a woman…ba-dom-tss 🥁 😂
Maybe women just don't want to suffer anymore. Being treated like 💩, and not knowing how you are going to feed yourself much less a child is off putting? But what do I know 🤷🏾♀️
This is about ww wanting abortions. Bw aren't having abortions like that, trust me. Governments don't care if bw don't want kids. They probably believe the community should be thinned out anyway. I don't understand why bw took on the ww issues. This was NEVER about bw at all! Ww just suckered bw into fighting for them. There is no sisterhood. Bw need to be smarter than this!
Great job, ladies. Keep it up. Get your life and move in silence. Be careful because they are dangerous when they can't control our bodies.
This part! If you are in the USA get ready, it's about to get really bad for us. Prepare for them taking the Internet away.... That will be the first step in taking away our planning and solidarity. Get ready for extreme control, think Afghanistan.
Than they gonna give you fake birth control 🫣🫣🫣
It's time to arm ourselves 💯
I honestly hate I brought two beautiful children into this world. This world do not deserve them not one bit. 😢
Agreed, glad to be their mother however this world does not deserve them
Some ppl are needed now more than ever... some ppl make a difference in the world. Have Faith ❤
I feel everything you said! With all my heart ♥️🩷💗💖💙💜💛❣️💓🧡💘💝
I feel the same way. My unborn children are too good for this world.
I have two kids as well, but i waited till 33.
I’m so hoping this tendency gives a path to real change in society, that SUPPORT women that want kids but can’t afford it or support the change in gender roles and society to support parents.
Theyre aorried because they need more soldiers to fight their silly wars. They need more labourers to make their companies richer.
This is how you make them pay attention!!! Period!
The supposed developed nations engaging in sexual coercion is pretty wild.
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It’s because the rich still depend on the poor for their labor.
Yup, all that religious posturing seems to be a non-factor now lol
I would not consider having children until there is universal healthcare. I'm in the US
@thezu9250 they're replacing our labor with AI now, so they only value us as consumers while also refusing to pay us enough to be able to consume.
I am loving how women are all on the same page for the most part.
Keep up the great work ladies!
Focus on yourself ladies ❤
You look beautiful btw 💋
Yes! Thank you!😊 🫶❤️❤️
We are on the right track y’all! We are not making more future tax payers we are letting the birth rate plummet!
Right! The world gotta change before we bring more people in it.
@@BecuzARealOne Total factory reset where women are calling the shots.
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Not gonna happen, enough women will make more children.
Nope not gonna happen!
That “childless cat lady” sh** never bothered me..😂😂😂 I’m a dog parent anyway… and get loads of beauty sleep when my Shih Tzu puppy isn’t running a muck… he is quite enough. I used to be open to being a mom , but it seems the risk isn’t worth the “reward” these days… so I will more than likely opt out..🤷🏽♀️
One of the best things about cats is that you don't have to push them out of your vagina to have one.
I’m a new dog mom here too! And giiiiiirrrrllll! It’s like having a child, I’m good on having actual children lol they can have that 😂
Governments have made it so hard to raise children in this current day.
Most parents have been taken out of the home, because life has become expensive, mental health is at breaking point and the world is selfish in general. How is a life of struggle appealing to people?
Developed countries... My butt. We live like hens in cages. Going to work and back, struggling to keep roofs over our head, with no time or energy to create meaningful societal connections, no community, no village, because there are no places to meet and no time to do so. It takes a village. Children don't have places to play, because even at the park/playground they need to be under parental supervision. So now they are expecting women to work full time, take full time care of kids and her husband and household? Because DeClInInG BiRtHrAtEs... Take care of the real estate prices, childcare prices, employment laws, alimony laws, accessible third places, and THEN we can talk.
Sorry for rant.
Wtf is wrong with this world? If women wanna be child free than let them be child free!! Jeez
All of this! 💯
Even if there were better men and women in the world, I'd still be childfree! Children ain't for everybody! Let those who like kids have them and let those who don't like kids (*nor males*) be childfree! And single!
“Let” them???????
If a woman does not desire to be pregnant, there’s no “letting” about it. Her reasons for her DECISION are irrelevant
They don't care about women or children. They just want to use people as batteries 👹🤛🏽
@@jandrews6254you’re my type of person
You can't change the world unless you change yourself. People are understanding this and now we are being more intentional with the having kids.
Kids are work. It doesn't matter if Government made it affordable. You still have to raise it
I'm already mad because idk what 60K pounds is in usd but 60K usd only would cover a bad labor in-hospital. The cost of children is from conception to legal adulthood. Roughly two decades. 60K is a drop in the ocean. The men in charge can watch the economies fail.
Let the rich birth their own wage slaves. Have those 8+ kids, rich people.
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Right! I noticed long ago that most rich/wealthy families don’t have a ton of kids. They usually cap out at 5. I can’t think of any wealthy family with more than that.
Childfree women should not bow to the pressure and mothers need to secure a personal village before they give birth. It was a scam when society used to teach us girls that we can have it all (marriage, children, career, a social life). Nobody told us that all the work would be on our backs and draining our life force. Childfree women often have tremendous value in their families, friend circles, and society.
I distinctly remember it being headline news years ago that were we at 7 billion people globally and that was causing dramatic harm to the planet. Now we are at 8 billion and we need to have more babies !?!?!?!!?
They told us repeatedly for 50 years that we’re overpopulated and a “cancer on earth,” and now they’re unhappy that we refuse to have babies. Idiots.
Right! Like I’m no mathematician but I’m pretty sure 8 is more than 7
They need more babies so we don’t end up like India. They have more old people than young people which is detrimental to the economy.
@@SPMunny 😂😂😂
The people saying we're overpopulated (environmental scientists who study the global ecosystem) and the people saying we need more babies (wealthy oligarchs and their political lackeys, who won't have enough workers/consumers to maintain endless exponential stock growth) have completely different goals.
I don’t understand why we need to bring more babies into this world(I mean we’re already 8 billion) ?? It’s not safe for them to live in this world, I think it’s all about the control over women. Because why would I have a kid when I know that I can’t give him anything, there’s no better future for them in this patriarchal world (I’m a bit pessimistic sorry)🙄 Let them do whatever they want, I’m stubborn lady and definitely a childfree. (eng is not my native language sorry for mistakes)
4B!!❤
Right!
You said it beautifully!
They will start doing this in the US but it does not contain two black women just white women they will suffer underneath Donald Trump policies just sit back and watch do not engage in white women mess
UA-cam keep erasing my comments. They will start doing this in the US but it only contains two white women only black women do not engage in this mess if they start doing these policies
They will start doing this in the US but it will only contain white women not black women so do not engage in their mess. They only voted to harm black and brown people but Donald Trump policies would hurt white people the most
That is very funny to me. How will they stop people from abstaining? 😂😂
Change the bible
Most aren't abstaining. So they're probably targeting birth control and abortions
They can't and that's the funny part.
By force and going after children.
Scary but true@Ambrosia__
UMM why don’t HE have that man damn babies. 8 kids is HARD on many women my grandmother had 10 and it wrecked her body she said
he has never raised a child in his entire life, he is a clulees insane male, he is clueless of reality of women I n Russia & DV is soo high in russia
I’m officially convinced we are living in the twilight zone
You couldnt pay me enough to have another child. They are delusional. One lump sum is not going to pay for the child throughout their life. Who wants to wait until the end of rhe year to get some money when you put yourself on debt.
Exactly!! And they bringing back no fault divorce. We going backwards and we entering the handsmaids tale irl.
Learn how to use one weapon very well ladies!! Practice celibacy ladies!!
Focus on yourself ladies ❤
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This does not refer to Black people white women only
@@Blessed75-c7s I actually WISH they would be honest about who they’re really talking to, because you’re right.
@@Blessed75-c7soh yeah. I forgot that they were supremacists…
HANDMAID'S TALE!!!! Just saying maybe they were subconsciously predispositioning us. Be prepared!!! 🤷🏾♀️
I'm glad someone else who has read/seen this novel has commented this! I didn't think this type of dystopia would be near to us this soon 😬
Kenyan here. Africa birth rates are FALLING as well.
In 2024, the birth rate in Africa is 4.1 children per woman, down from 5.24 in 2000. By 2030, the birth rate is projected to drop to around 3.8 births per woman.
And this data is actually skewed - A few countries have high rates, especially the very poor ones (Somalia, Niger, Chad), with little education for women.
Most of the countries with fairly good education levels have around 2-3.5 children per woman (and this is still falling).
And some, like Tunisia and Mauritius are below 2 children/woman.
That could improve living conditions, I think 🤔
I’m a woman from Russia and absolutely disgusted with all that is happening. Now I have a feeling that I was shut up, I even don’t have a right to put my preferences onto my dating profile, because it will be a propaganda.
Delete your dating app. 4B
@ I’m ok with 4B movement, but not when it’s been imposed. Even though I’m not dating at the moment doesn’t mean I don’t ever want to date
@annau8038 of course, it's a choice and a political movement. Your body, your choice always. It's about taking away their access to us as a commodity, as a source of power, validation, energy, labor, and status.
You do you ♀️ 🗽 ....just delete your app for now so they can't use you as product, and in solidary for womens oppression globally, and get it again when you might wanna use it 😉
ANd why do they act like it is all us? Sure they can't have the babies without women, but do you know how many of my men friends are terrified of becoming a parent and have no desire to to be fathers. Two of them have had vasectomies already. Kids are expensive as hell
I wonder if a lot of people just don’t want to be parents anymore. As well as the economy, and how expensive it is to have and raise a child.
That and infertility is rapidly increasing for both male and female.
Oh well, they should have treated women better.
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@@Rice10120 For real tho. The reckoning for how they been treating women is here.
Throughout history most women had no choices regarding reproduction and now they do therefore highlighting that we don’t always want to be mothers. In addition the woman is almost 100% responsibility and accountable for the raising of children while being expected to contribute financially. Women are helping men with providing but the they are not helping them with raising children. There’s really no benefit for women either which way.
Handsmaid Tale.
I like the News Lady for calling out the Russian government 😂 women can do whatever we want to do with our bodies. I do like children but there’s more to live then having kids
So rather than fix men this is what they do.
Right! 👹🤛🏽
They’ll do anything BUT be better people. It’s ridiculous at this point.
@chinaking918 💯
Social programs to raise boys and men better. Criminalized DV and punish misogyny.
Without that women won't bulge
They think they can just force women to be mothers even if they don't want to. And they wonder where serial killers come from 🙄
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Yessss!! I remember reading something like this in Freakonomics. It's stuck with me to this day.
Exactly, more broken men with mommy issues
Exactly
Lol. 😂
I don't know why that made me laugh but its true.
10:47 Child free by circumstance here, if the Government could do ANything for me( cause I do want a daughter❤)
1.Make men behave better ,yall are SCARY, DONT ANYONE want to play with these MICHAEL MEYERS FOOLS
The government needs to ask women and implement what they suggest. Maternity leave, cheaper child care, lower cost of living, a living wage, etc. its that simple.
That still doesn't give freedom. Kids are work
Social programs to raise boys and men better. Criminalized DV and punish misogyny.
Without that women won't bulge.
It's weird that they want to sterilize women who don't have kids. As a woman who's childfree, yes, please pay for my sterilization. This doesn't sound like a threat.
I'd say its equivalent to when men think it's an insult to be called a single cat lady - they don't understand the opposite effect it actually has on us 😂.
Russia has one of the worst single
Mother rates, and father abandonment rates. They have yet to address that, or accommodate the single mothers and make it easier for them
To support these children. But…. I thought women were not important? Why the change of pace?
News anchor is 🔥 🔥🔥🔥love the sarcasm
😂❤ right, sis was on point!
Nothing will change my mind about having kids. I don’t want kids and I never ever had the urge to have kids. And now in 2024 it is crazy to want more kids in this fucked up world! Think in 20 years…30 years….what kind of world will these kids live in? If nothing changes it will be a even worse world than the one we live in now! I am 42 and during my life I have had men saying this and that about me being childless and nothing was positive but so many woman agrees with me both older and younger. That tells me that we ladies are sick of this bullshit and if you choose or not choose to have kids it is up to YOU and your partner. Thankfully me and my husband is on the same page and guess what…if we weren’t I would never have married him. It is so important that you do what is right for you and that you talk to your partner about it because no other person is in that relationship. My father in law asked me 12 years ago when I would become pregnant and I said ”You have 2 grandkids from your daughter, be happy with that.” This is also the same man that mentally abused my husband for years out of his own trauma🙄🤮😡Makes me sick. I would never let kids be around abusive people. That is my rant. Sorry for the long comment😜☺️
I think tearing down invisible systems that patriarchy reinforced... Like not drafting laws about men's sexual and reproductive responsibilities.
Jesus Christ 🤦🏽♀️ it’s getting worse. I’m glad I’m not able to have children in case they try to pull this here in America 😢
This does not contain to black women only white women white women.
This does not contain to black women so stop it Donald Trump policies will hurt white people the most
Donald Trump policies will hurt the white people the most they only want white babies not black ones so stop it
I’m terrified of the US banning hysterectomies eventually
Abortion bans are not coincidence
I’ll have two for 5 million dollars 💵 from the government 😊
Every fertile woman needs to know how powerful she is because she can potentially carry a child/children into this world, it is her most powerful bargaining tool for better treatment & a more powerful say in society. No more handing our offspring to a system that cannot function without them that treats them poorly, it's an opportunity to think about how we want our communities & countries to function differently & then demand that, if children are on a woman's the wish list.
Ladies it's time to stop blasting everything that's going on in the movement online.
Aww what you said about your mom 😢. This is why we have to include all generations!
Ummm this is terrifying.
Governments can also create woman and child centric health care systems.
Yes. That's to much like right for men to do😒😑
I would love to have kids but I can’t afford them especially in Europe and the US. You can not bring your child to a family member and ask them to watch your kid(s) and go to work because you can’t afford daycare
People have their own lives too.
Legal good immigration could fix this problem but the xenofobia is sooo high in most countries that theyd rather start oppressing women more again. Rather than help people and themselves in one go.
Most countries have BAD IMMIGRATION POLICIES ,that make it harder for new people to integrate, the thing most people complain about... Those same politicans then turn around and blame those people for all the issues caused by bad policy. Plus the bad immigration policies. It makes me so angry. We HAVE THE SOLUTION but this world is too sexist, racist and xenofobic to actually do some good and benefit from
So, what I heard you say is our current society seems to be ineffective for MOST. Interesting lol
I have a 25 yo adult woman... 0 grandkids... T Gawd!!!
There is nothing anybody could do to make me want to have children, so what the governments should do is prepare for a time when there are a lot more old people than young ones and how to take care of them since that is inevitable.
😂😂😂 i zoned out for a sec, looking at your stunning hair! When i came back to my senses, you were explaining where you got it from. You must have got a lot of compliments, you deserve them! ❤
We now live in a world where 2 people need to work full time in order to NOT afford to live. Doesn't surprise me in the least that in an educated time with access to contraception most people don't choose to further impoverish themselves by having huge families.
interesting to see how many women DON'T want children now that they have a choice. watch: contraception will be banned.
Then black market will became a possibility ...
I mean...I'm a woman and I PREFER "buttshmex" 🤷🏻♀️ makes it pretty hard to get pregnant 😅
I'm been saying this since it started. there's an easy way to get around that shit too. know when you're ovulating. and for all those that are into the hoodoo and the voodoo, if some shit happened go visit your nearest mambo and get them "herbs" and get that shit out you. it has been done for years. if a woman does not want to have no damn kids she will not have no damn kids. there are ways to get a pregnancy to be terminated. they'd better recognize, women have spoken!
Please say you've read/seen The Hand Maids Tale?! As dystopian as that society is from this novel, it does not seem impossible to happen at this point 😬
@@sadiegodwin205 didn't Margaret Atwood confirm that everything in her books has already happened somewhere at some point in history? I remember she said she took a lot of inspiration from the middle East, Russia and North Korea...
It will stop nothing. Only strengthen our resolve 😂❤
Thank you for keeping me informed.
So what he gonna do for those who can’t have kids ?
Harsh truth, but it's clear as day this is not women in general, but women who can contribute to the future workforce. Women who cannot have children, in this topic, are seen the same way as men are seen - a worker who will eventually die, that's it.
The harsh truth in this topic is that women who cannot have children do not matter as they are not seen to be able to contribute to the future generation (future workforce, which you can only have by creating more human beings, until AI becomes the replacement;
Though re-reading your statement, shouldn't they try to do more research and provide alternatives to make it possible for women to have children outside of sexual intercourse? We have IVF treatments so surely we can develop more ways for a child to be conceived and carried alternative to the usual biological means.
But this sounds expensive doesnt it? That's exactly why the government would rather convince us to stick with biology and sexual intercourse and make women who can have children keep reproducing.
The birth rate is declining because it is too damn expensive. Daycare, food, diapers, clothes later also school and studies…. Nowadays you can’t give your child the basics to start a life when they have to move out it is too expensive and now that they see the population is shrinking they are screaming we need to make more children, but if they have thought about it before creating pandemics and wars
Instead of pushing for more births, switch the mindset to living with less children, having more single person housing and community supports. Replacement rate for what? The economy is just a concept, if it stops growing life will go on, until it doesn’t. There used to be cries of world overpopulation when we had 4billion people, now we have over 8b.
Agree, that black curly hair suits you a lot ! ❤
I don’t understand what the issue is, don’t they constantly like to remind us that the earth is overpopulated?
In order for me to ever have kids, they'd have to eliminate bills, and taxs for mothers and all women alike and I want about 8 million dollars in disposable income for me and my kid. Yes KID because id be a ONE and done type of woman. 😏
Now about the same odds of that happening for me or woman in general is the same probability that id ever have a kid.
Fair game
#childfree 💜 dont let them persuade you and dont let them put fear in your decision.
I see a max exodus for many countries.
WOMEN have always been IMPORTANT just that Men have taken women for granted. Men were too comfortable with their expectations of women. However, now women have taken back their power of control over birthing the human race. Similarly in the United States that’s why Roe v. Wade was overturned because of the fear of declining birth rates which will affect the economy. Yeah religious views were considered about abortion but it was mainly about the economy because when there’s more people in a country that will boost the economy. Also, men should realize that women of this generation and era are not going to be popping out babies like that, especially not in this crazy and expensive world we live in.
Here's an imaginative scenario: Imagine before children are born, we show them the current state of the world and there potential parents in full light as they truly are. Then asks those children if they would still like to continue to be born into this world, what do you think their answer would be? Yeah I dont they would press continue because they would either have hella work to put in to FIX the issue ie being a activist, or some kind of positive change in the world and or suffer a crappy life whether born into money or nah. Most ppl with money have personality disorders and depression just the same as ppl who do not have money.
Its a bit of an odd idea really, if you dont think the world is worth living in why are you still here? Why not opt out of life if life is not worth having in this world?
They can act like women are not part of the human race. More people come from spirit. I am telling you spirit is not giving more. Joan (Mother Nature)
Just like previous empires, these developed nations are going to crumble... by population decline this time around. Subsaharian Africa hasn't known widespread industrialization and the societal reforms that come consequently.
Few reasons why women probably don't want children...
- The cost - regardless of you being with a partner, the cost of living, the cost of your life is a big factor, some countries barely help women financially so why would they have a child they cannot afford?
- Safety - The horror stories of child exploitation, online safety is enough to make you sick
- Decent partnerships - one thing I value is safety in a relationship, if I can't meet a man who has good values and morals, who will protect and provide for our family (like alot of these so called traditional men should be doing) then why would I have a child? I'm not gonna lay with a deadbeat and alot of women the in the same position.
- Body and health changes - for some reason, people seem to think it's easy to just be popping out children? Forgetting the fact that for both parties is hard, getting pregnant for a start can take months of not years, it's a stressful process not to mention all the health implications like low sperm counts or endometriosis. Women lose alot when they have children, you pretty much become a different person, you really have to be ready for that, mentally, emotionally and physically. Not enough people talk about that.
- Society - do you really think women would want children in a world that constantly demonises them regardless of what they do? You have one child... 'oh when you having another, you can't leave one alone?' you have 3... 'oh that's too many how do you cope' you have non... 'oh you're a spinster, so selfish, what do you do with all your time? Well, Barbara, I actually look after the kids that are constantly abused by shitty parents because some people should not have kids at all! Which brings me onto my next point...
- Mental health - as above, honestly some adults and couples need to go to therapy before pro-creating. Don't have children when you have issues of your own to deal with. It's not fair to dump your unresolved trauma on a child.
- The Worlds Current state - were overpopulated, becoming more and more hostile, things are getting harder for the average person, why would you have kids in this state??
In a nutshell, the powers that be is making the 🌎 a horrible place to live. The woman get it so ✌️.
Traditional how about the men who don’t want the responsibility of being there to help parent the children help raise them teach them and care for them no treat wife and children like garbage convince me you care not just have me their to pick up where mommy left off
I see why handmaid's tale waited for the next season, it was waiting for reality to catch up
Holy shiza 😫 we need to see the next season now to be mentally prepared at least 😭
the real issues overpopulation, expensive resources, low levels of family stability( low marriage rate ) b/c men don't often stay and it's not just an America issue clearly and mental health especially because of religious and work level dogmatic cruelty towards single moms especially the government needs to make it more rewarding to have children not threaten the women lol and I'm not sure if this is just an America thing but felons having a difficult time with forward mobility and reform
My whole life people have been telling me that the reason the economy is so bad and there is so much unemployment and poverty and people who work full time and can't get medicine or take care of their families is that the population is too high. I've also been told that wages can't go up because of automation getting better and that if companies have to pay people more then they will just use robots. So the technology would improve by the time kids born today are adults and ready to work. That means that the population should go down. That it would be much easier to take care of the people we have if more of them chose not to have children of their own free will. Definitely it would be bad to force people not to have them if they want them.
It’s because everything is EXPENSIVE!!!!!!! most newborns are in daycare now SMH
Jobs not offering PAID maternity leave, childcare, and the cost of food and housing!
The lack of outside support.
Ms.Destiny looks pretty.Loher nail color.Very classic color.
Thank you! 🤗
They want soldiers.
Stop name calling women, we're not in kindergarten. Stop men from abandoning their children, while women remain to face the full responsibility of the family unit. Stop misogynistic and patriarchical norms that destry societies. Better healthcare for women, take into account women bodies when given medication. Respect women.
Also better nutrition and environment. They sell us t0xic cook wear, plastic containers, medicine (ex: tampons that are not tested for t0xic elements), vegetables and fruits that are fully pumped with chemicals that destroy our bodies and then they expect us to not have infertility and conception issues.
I live here in TEXAS and it's been difficult to get an updated form of birth control because the one i currently use will be up in 3 yrs. I don't want to risk the one year regardless if i choose to have sex or not. But nobody wants to listen or are too scared to speak.
It's easy to encourage the birth rate to increase. Give women free comprehensive healthcare during pregnancy & atleast for the 1st 2 year of the child's life. Allow 2mos before & 6mos paid mat leave after the kids birth. Gjve tax breaks to married couples with more than one kid. Subsidies baby formula & nappies. Give 2mos before birth & 6mos after birth paid mat leave. Allow women abortion rights under 24weeks.
And maybe just name stop starting a new war every 2nd week.
THIS right here, is WHY people are considering Lavender Marriages😅
I want to hear more from the Russian woman and see what they think about this.
It will happen here too. Please share all of your favorite content creators pages before this happens
The more expensive life is the less future workers or soldiers they'll hasn't
As if they can force women to hate kids 😂
😂😂😂as far as I remember we were 8 billion on this earth have we shrink to 1 billion in 2024 down or please leave us alone there are enough jobs for the whole world to work and eat without experiencing hunger when immigrants come to your lands you get angry at this point my question for western governments what is itching you because you are contradicting yourself.
This needs to happen in Africa!!!.
But what if you’re in a country where you can’t carry?
Then hopefully they face no unfair consequences over something they cannot control - its not looking anytime soon the government want to spend money on research to develop birthing options outside of sexual intercourse and IVF treatments.
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CRAZY WUKKKK!!!!!
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Women were always important in Russia.
Russia never degraded women's role in society, unlike US.
Btw the reason many women have no children or only one child is not because of governments but because i would never have a child with a man who cannot provide or be like a second man/child in my life .
Домашнее насилие у нас декриминализировали тоже от большого уважения к женщинам?
I wouldn't say there important to men unless there really rich women were never really that important to men but that could be one of the motive to why those venzelen guys migrate up to the blue states they know that sometimes we are fully educated and women that are fully educated usually make better homemakers because we're already on a schedule at work.
They don't want a bimbo with no degree serving them breakfast I've seen some of their women too there stupid versions of American women and maybe they want a smart version of them because it makes them feel safer that their city won't go bankrupt..
@@enjoyjustida9629 а может женщинам не надо терпеть и оставаться в браке? Или вообще не выходить замуж. Дети рождается и без брака где ты себя чувствуешь как в тюрьме.
Но да что скажут соседи.
@@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwasопять самивиноваты😢
@@zerotolerance9128 я тоже женщина ,у меня были тоже плохие отношение, но я не терпела, я бросала и уходила. Тоже самое моя мать.