I Regret Getting the UFE | Infertility, Early Menopause

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  • Опубліковано 8 кві 2021
  • In this video I discuss the reasons why I decided to an Open Myomectomy one year after having the UFE Uterine Fibroid Embolization. I elected to have the UFE to shrink the uterine fibroids, eliminate my symptoms and improve my quality of life. I discuss the main reason(s) why and how I came to this difficult decision.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 337

  • @cynique46
    @cynique46 3 роки тому +384

    I declare in Jesus name that all women going through this issue is healed and have as many children as desired. I admire you for sharing your story, keep fighting.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +19

      Thank you for your prayers 💗💗💗🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @sizz.6129
      @sizz.6129 3 роки тому +2

      Amen!!

    • @alalapyt
      @alalapyt 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you and I receive it in Jesus's name.

    • @zakiadwyet5377
      @zakiadwyet5377 2 роки тому +6

      I had a myomectomy when I was 27. My husband and I had our first child when I was 29 and we had our second when I was 33. I had a miscarriage between the two and one after my last. I am now 46 and recently had a UFE, I watched your video about that and you were absolutely correct about the pain. I am just a few days out from the surgery but I will tell you to hang in there. The myomectomy helped us have our children. I just chose the UFE because we aren't having any more kids and I wanted the least invasive. I will pray for your healing, I know you will have your hearts desire to become a mother. I love your honesty and transparency. You are not alone. God bless you, looking forward to that positive pregnancy test...IT IS COMING!!!😊

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you!!! So so much for sharing. ♥️🙏🏾

  • @tiffanywilson6420
    @tiffanywilson6420 3 роки тому +81

    In the name of Jesus your womb is Blessed and you will conceive when you begin trying again. Every cell in your body is under His authority and must obey His Divine plan for you. It is so. We thank you Father God in the name of Jesus!!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Amen 💕💗💗🙏🏾🙏🏾 Thank you so much for your prayers.

  • @keesha607
    @keesha607 3 роки тому +131

    Surrender... doesn’t mean give up, but don’t attach to the outcome. Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE. I had a myomectomy about 10 yrs ago and at 40 I delivered a beautiful baby girl who is now 5. All if not more of the fibroids returned and i am now looking into UFE vs. hysterectomy. What women have to endure. God is with you! Stay encouraged and visualize your new bundle of joy! It’s already done ❤️

    • @didanepierre6511
      @didanepierre6511 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you so much for this. I’m very emotional tonight because all my boyfriend wants to do is have a baby and I fear that because of fibroids and having a myomectomy 3 years ago that I won’t be able to get pregnant. But this right here, is light at the tunnel. So thank you so much for this message ❤️

    • @free2bme821
      @free2bme821 2 роки тому +1

      Hello congrats on your baby girl. Did you adapt to a certain lifestyle change via diet after your initial myomectomy?

  • @myramyra2
    @myramyra2 3 місяці тому +6

    I am looking into the UFE and learned it is best to go somewhere that specializes in UFE because if not, some doctors are too aggressive and insert too many particles and that can cause complications. So sorry for what you had to go through

  • @richielaporte3308
    @richielaporte3308 Рік тому +28

    I fully understand what you are going through. I have always wanted a house full of children. I have had 3 surgeries for fibroids and recently a UFE because the fibroids were causing me to be incontinent, very large and directly on my bladder. I listen to your video close to tears because I always wanted to have children and now I am 51 and haven’t had any. It is disheartening and I pray that God blesses you and gives you the desires of your heart. Be blessed and encouraged!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  Рік тому +3

      I’m soooo sorry for all you’ve endured!! Sending you so much love and hugs 💛

    • @bluestsea
      @bluestsea 8 місяців тому +1

      I’m so sorry.

  • @miaschannel5225
    @miaschannel5225 3 роки тому +91

    Hi!!!!! I just had a baby last year!! And it was a surprise baby !!! UFE 2017 ...And thats what doctor said..chances of me of having baby is very small so didn’t use any contraceptive!! I was 44 when I had my baby.. I thought I had my menopause til I had pregnancy test..POSITIVE!!Now my baby 7 months my 5th!!!Just timing hun..Sometimes the less you worry and stress about it makes easier to conceive.Godbless..Youll have baby next month..Promise

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +17

      Omg this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing your testimony! I’m so happy for you!! ♥️♥️😭🙏🏾 Thank you for sharing 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕

    • @keshasimms9912
      @keshasimms9912 3 роки тому +4

      What a blessing ❤

    • @huldahthompson3019
      @huldahthompson3019 2 роки тому +4

      Yes...i realize my body hates stress...and that's it's way of telling me that i need to stop stressing and worrying myself up😪🤕

    • @shereeedwards5827
      @shereeedwards5827 2 роки тому +3

      Amen! Thank you for sharing!

    • @karengodfrey290
      @karengodfrey290 2 роки тому +2

      I needed this. Insurance company would not pay for UFE. I am getting married in September and I am 45. I am also very fertile, only have 1 fibroid so I am believing it is all going to work out. I am thinking UFE was not approved by my insurance for a reason,

  • @amberlavalley
    @amberlavalley 3 роки тому +22

    Vanessa, I've been watching your videos over the last few months and I want to commend you on your composure, and clarity. I have many fibroids as well as endo. I know how difficult this is, I've literally tried everything.The let down of each new procedure, tactic, life style change...becomes more and more unbearable. All the more so when you feel as though no one truly understands. It's incredibly meaningful to hear (and share) your experiences. Thank you for your bravery. I wish you all the very best.

  • @yvonneneal8063
    @yvonneneal8063 3 роки тому +9

    Your perspective has been very helpful for me. Thank you for being open and talking about your journey, as I've been looking for UFE info as one of the options for my fibroids. I'll be getting a second and third opinion on my particular situation. I wish you all the best in your journey and pray that you are successful in conceiving.

  • @xg3400
    @xg3400 2 роки тому +12

    Girl you are so strong to get in front of the camera and share your story! You don’t know who you may have helped going through a similar situation. I pray God blesses you with your baby! Stay strong!

  • @tessapayne2878
    @tessapayne2878 3 роки тому +46

    You are going to have your babies in Jesus name God bless you always ❤

  • @HealthyKyla
    @HealthyKyla 3 роки тому +11

    I am so sorry to here about this happening to you Vanessa! I am truly praying with you and your family. Try not to let this steal your joy. I am claiming a healthy pregnancy and motherhood journey for you!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 💕🙏🏾 I’m confident this is all for a reason!

  • @rashedawilliams4845
    @rashedawilliams4845 3 роки тому +27

    There can be no testimony if there is not first the test....Girl. Its definitely all in His plan but you are amazing to see you be able to go through so much so far and KEEP GOING! Im contemplating a UFE vs Hysterectomy procedure and your strength and determination encourages me so much! As always I appreciate you for sharing so much of your story! I am claiming 3 sets of twins for you and your husband in 2021!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +7

      😭😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for your prayers! God gives me the strength bc I wonder sometimes how I’ve made it this far. I believe everything happens for a reason. He’s always working ten steps ahead, he knows best. Pray over your decision & go with what you feel is right.

  • @Hottrose
    @Hottrose 2 роки тому +27

    This is so heartbreaking to watch. We women have to go through so much. I to am fighting to eliminate my fibroids. I had a Laparoscopy Surgery done about 9 years ago. I was young at the time & didn’t even know I had them. My Gyno at the time was pressuring me to have the surgery. Her intentions were money motivated. I regretted having that surgery. Because the fibroids were back in less than 4 years. Wayyy bigger and more this time.
    I am currently living a vegan lifestyle for the past 6 months in an attempt to shrink them. But it doesn’t seem to be working. I tried eating healthy, taking herbs, drinking concoctions, just about everything. Yet still I still have them.
    This is honestly so frustrating. No one still doesn’t know definitively what actually causes these fibroids. Women have to suffer with this condition. It’s so frustrating not being able to wear close fitting clothes without someone asking if you’re pregnant. While NOT being able to conceive because of the same fibroids. I honestly do not want a another surgery. But recently I have been thinking about it because I want these fibroids out of my body!
    I Pray for all the women out there dealing with this condition. It is not easy.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  Рік тому +2

      I'm so sorry. I too know exactly what you mean. I ended up having an Open Myomectomy with an RE (Fertility Specialist) because I couldn't take it anymore. It's completely up to you.... Do as much research as you can before making any decision. Wish you the best 💛

    • @missunique4125
      @missunique4125 Рік тому +1

      I soooo feel you!!!!!

    • @aishac8690
      @aishac8690 Рік тому +1

      Look into keto diet for shrinking fibroids, I recently read about it

  • @WHINNY21389
    @WHINNY21389 3 роки тому +10

    My heart goes out to you. I’m praying you will be able to conceive and carry your children. 💕

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏾🙌🏾💗

  • @taasharenee
    @taasharenee 3 роки тому +6

    My love, I admire you so much for sharing your story. I'm praying for your strength and healing, but most importantly for your peace of mind. Hurdle after hurdle can definitely be stressful and knowing that you have a "time frame" to conceive is enough to stress someone tf out. Starting and growing a family can look different for a lot of people and I pray that it happens for you, however and whenever that time comes. I know how bad it is to want children and seeing constant negative tests...but fortunately, the story, your story isn't over. I love you and sending you so much love. 😘😘😘😘

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much Tash 💗💗💕 I know it will happen in Gods perfect timing! Sending you & your babies & hubby so much love.

  • @bmtwin1898
    @bmtwin1898 3 роки тому +6

    Praying that you get your bundle of joy soon❤️❤️

  • @tawainahollis4770
    @tawainahollis4770 3 роки тому +10

    Awww... So sorry you’re going through all of this! I’m praying that you’re pregnant soon and give birth to healthy babies 🙏🏾💕💕 Thanks for your transparency! You’re helping so many women by sharing your story. GOD bless you and your womb💚

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much!

    • @evammata9463
      @evammata9463 Рік тому +1

      Fibroids behave like little demons. I have been through so much. Hopefully now you are fully recovered and all is well.

  • @tdvaval1
    @tdvaval1 3 роки тому +3

    You're so strong. I'm praying for you!

  • @lizbeautyxo4584
    @lizbeautyxo4584 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for sharing all of these videos!! I know every women is different and have different results when it comes to fibroids. As a nurse myself I’m doing all of these research and feedbacks from other people who are going through these experiences. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      You are so welcome! & yes, we all have different circumstances. Do as much research as you can and go with the option that works best for you

  • @tamoyachanel
    @tamoyachanel 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your story. I have a 19 yr old daughter but my husband and I have been trying for another for over 10 yrs. I’ve been diagnosed with having 4 fibroids in 2013, the largest being 7.5 cm(basically engulfing my entire uterus). I had gastric bypass thinking my weight and having pre diabetes played a huge factor. After seeing a fertility specialist I was told my egg count was still pretty high. I have lost countless days at work bc I can’t stand too long without bleeding so much(I’m a nurse so bathroom breaks are far and few in between). I’m looking into UFE and pray it helps. I’m now 40 and I would love nothing more than to birth a healthy baby for us(which would be my husbands first 😌). I pray you get to experience the same 😍

    • @helleluyahatanda5886
      @helleluyahatanda5886 2 роки тому

      Am finally a mother today , because of fibroids my tubes was block for 6years I and my husband was having issue because of my situation no child when I was Searching online on UA-cam about fibroids I saw a testimony about dr Omo so I write him and place order for his herbal today I have 2weeks old baby now he can help you too Herb's work like magic. Both on Endometriosis

  • @judyb278
    @judyb278 3 роки тому +33

    I will be praying for you and your situation. May God bless you immensely.

  • @melodylee6672
    @melodylee6672 2 роки тому +4

    I'm so sorry you going through this. I can fully relate to what your going through because I'm going through pretty much the samething. Although, I didn't have UEF done because the guy told me I couldn't have anymore kids or I might go into early menopause if I got that procdure done. I will be getting the myomectomy. It seems much better. Don't give up hun.

  • @harlinranew6641
    @harlinranew6641 3 роки тому +2

    I could feel the frustration that you’ve been going through right now. I’m just like you, still trying to conceive. Let’s just hope miracle is real 🙏🏼 Keep fighting my dear

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Hang in there! ♥️♥️🙏🏾

  • @CC-kl4nh
    @CC-kl4nh 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for having this discussion. I had a consultation with an interventional radiologist.

  • @willieb6307
    @willieb6307 3 роки тому +3

    I have no I deal how your vid popped up on my list but I couldn't turn away I hope your doing better now CONGRATS TO YOUR FIANCEE 🔒

  • @CS-ts4zp
    @CS-ts4zp 3 роки тому +2

    I think we are the same person going through the same thing! I am sending you all the positive energy!!

  • @kaoriaoyagi
    @kaoriaoyagi 3 роки тому +18

    I can relate to your story so much! I had UFE done in Oct 2019 which didn’t work then had saline sonohysterogram in March 2021 which worsened my fibroids symptoms to the point I would bleed heavily with horrible cramps every single day. I ended up having abdominal myomectomy on 4/30 and am still in recovery. I hope everything works out for you and won’t have to deal with fibroids ever again! I know how painful and debilitating they can be😢

    • @roukayyamga4857
      @roukayyamga4857 3 роки тому +1

      Hello..i will get my ufe next month and hope that will work..did ur fibroid was huge? Mine 13cm..

    • @michelleinfo-vlog2449
      @michelleinfo-vlog2449 2 роки тому

      @@roukayyamga4857 How are you doing so far? Did you went through with the UFE?

  • @jacquelinesmith9450
    @jacquelinesmith9450 2 роки тому +8

    I can’t wait to hear about your pregnancy, it will happen Vanessa trust and believe 🙏🏾

  • @odym6090
    @odym6090 2 роки тому +1

    Don’t give up ! It will happen ! You’ll see ! Don’t be sad 🙏. God is with you !

  • @Viable7
    @Viable7 2 роки тому +1

    You will get whatever your heart desires. You are highly favored. God Bless.

  • @chaday7
    @chaday7 3 роки тому +2

    Vanessa, your stories and truth have been so helpful. Thank you for sharing with the world. Know that I will continue to pray for you in your journey to motherhood. Praying that God answers your hearts desire.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾💗💗🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @latoyasmith2049
    @latoyasmith2049 3 роки тому

    I pray your wishes for children and a family come true. Keep believing 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @1357MsButterfly
    @1357MsButterfly 3 роки тому +5

    Watching this video, I felt so connected because I really do feel the same. I'm worried about whether I'll be able to have children and to be honest it kills me. I think I'm in a place in life though that I've convinced myself that I would be okay with it. But I don't know. I just posted a video as well about my fibroid journey too and the pain after the UFE!!
    Thank you for sharing, and I pray you'll be able to have children 🙏🏾❤

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Same to you my love. I hope & pray your womb is restored & healed. We women go through so much. Continue to be strong & keep your spirits high.

  • @Uboh85
    @Uboh85 3 роки тому +27

    Sis! In short GOD IS YOUR DOCTOR his plan his time! I had a great friend experience this and she had numerous big fibroids had to get a myomectomy long story short! She has five kids now I’m not sure if they grew back but moral of the story there are ways around things especially when GOD IS AT WORK! Be encouraged 🤩🥰 and come back with that positive pregnancy test 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      This is facts! 💯🙏🏾 Everything happens for a reason. & I surely will 😬💕 Can’t wait!

    • @jerseyrose_
      @jerseyrose_ 3 роки тому +3

      Yes i believe after the myomectomy she going to pregnant in no time we all praying for u vanessa❤🙏❤

  • @annesiamelbourne6992
    @annesiamelbourne6992 3 роки тому +5

    Oh my God , I have recently been diagnosed with fibroids and researching brought me to your channel , thank you so much for sharing I did my ultrasound and 5 were picked up the largest 6cm , one of my ovaries was not seen , I feel a constant pressure in my pelvic area and I also get constipated and fatigued easily . The journey is not easy but your videos really help , I'm waiting to go back to the doc to discuss the findings of the ultra sound . I believe you will have kids , all the best and thanks for helping us ladies .

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      You’re so welcome! I hope you can get some relief soon 💕

    • @annesiamelbourne6992
      @annesiamelbourne6992 3 роки тому +1

      @@veryvanessa thank you ❤

  • @ms_amaznpersuasion1736
    @ms_amaznpersuasion1736 2 роки тому +10

    I pray for you my love! I have 20 fibroids 🙄 I’m scheduling my ufe now I’m a lil nervous! I pray for all of us

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +3

      20 fibroids? Omg love. Are you planning on having children?

  • @missraeray
    @missraeray 3 роки тому +6

    I can’t believe this . You’re so healthy , sea moss, not over weight , I just don’t get it . I’m so sorry 🥺. I’m going to say a prayer for you for real . I have fibroids as well and I’m hoping to get my weight down . Your channel is amazing . I’m can’t wait till your holding your child on here one day ❤️

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      It’s ok love. They developed years before I became health conscious. Everything happens for a reason & at least I know now how to prevent them with proper nutrition 🌿🌱

  • @JanelReliford
    @JanelReliford 3 роки тому +13

    I'm in my forties now. I never had children because I never found the right person for marriage. But even though I probably warm I have any kids. I still want that option even at my age. I don't want surgery to take away my option. I rather naturally go through menopause. I have an appointment to vivie eve 1st of August for ufe. I have many fibroids in my uterus, and together they fill the space of my entire uterus. I was excited because I thought I found a non-surgical way to rid myself of them. But now I'm afraid of again. But I am grateful UA-cam sent your video directly to my feed. I will weigh all my options before I come to any decision. There's no sense in going through a ufe procedure and still having fibroids. I live here in New York City and there are many fibroid clinics here. I really hope that I find a solution.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +3

      I'm praying you find clarity through this decision making process. I know it can be difficult.... Trust me I know. The best advice I can give to you is to get several opinions before you decide on anything. If you want to have kids, UFE is not the best option.

  • @anajoceb
    @anajoceb 3 роки тому +7

    You are strong for making this video! Hope that you soon you will be able to have as many children as you desire!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏾♥️ I know in the right time it will happen #GodisGood

  • @olakembiletstalkrealestate
    @olakembiletstalkrealestate 3 роки тому +15

    You will have your children in Jesus name as your parents brought you into this world. I admire you so much for your transparency. I am glued to sea moss ever since i discovered it from you. I don't have the pain associated with the fibroid anymore but my belly is still big. It is a body image concern for me. Also the heavy bleeding.

  • @laurenlocd3180
    @laurenlocd3180 2 роки тому +13

    I don’t even know what to get anymore . The ufe has a less cha ce of them coming back where a myomectomy if u have a lot of fibroids , I was told they sometimes can’t get them all and this is why some women are tricked into believing they “grew back “. The myomectomy you have to sign a paper saying that if something goes wrong , they can perform a hysterectomy which is scaryyyyyyyy

    • @helleluyahatanda5886
      @helleluyahatanda5886 2 роки тому

      Am finally a mother today , because of fibroids my tubes was block for 6years I and my husband was having issue because of my situation no child when I was Searching online on UA-cam about fibroids I saw a testimony about dr Omo so I write him and place order for his herbal today I have 2weeks old baby now he can help you too Herb's work like magic. Both on Endometriosis.

    • @mzeye
      @mzeye 4 місяці тому +1

      Agrees Ira the small ones that grow.

  • @RoyMane
    @RoyMane 3 роки тому +3

    God will bless you to live a long healthy life and beautiful babies along the way. 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @Justplainolefunny
    @Justplainolefunny 2 роки тому +9

    Vanessa- Thank you for your bravery. I feel your pain and dealt with fertility issues in my 20s. I had a myomectomy at age 26 & unexpectedly conceived 2 years later. I pray that God blesses you to conceive and put these fibroids behind you. Praying for you...

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your testimony with me.

    • @PolukantiMounika-vm3zf
      @PolukantiMounika-vm3zf 5 місяців тому +1

      I am diagnosed with uae.....can I conceive in future

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  5 місяців тому +1

      Yes it’s possible.

    • @PolukantiMounika-vm3zf
      @PolukantiMounika-vm3zf 5 місяців тому

      @@veryvanessa thank you for the reply.....is malformations came to me again in future

  • @symoneasymonea8041
    @symoneasymonea8041 3 роки тому +9

    Thanks for sharing your story so much to learn. But I myself have just had a second myomectomy done just under a week now. What concerns me about the information you shared is why you're gynaecologist didn't share with you that a UFE can somehow make or cause infertility. This information was disclosed to myself when considering my options for surgery. I trust that everything will work out in your favour in gods timing 🙏 🙌

  • @KIRAAT100
    @KIRAAT100 3 роки тому +2

    It’s all gonna work out I can feel it god god his hands on you he sees your effort you’re so strong you inspire me 🙏🏾

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you ♥️♥️🙏🏾

  • @jthomps733
    @jthomps733 2 роки тому +27

    Ridiculous that they don’t have studies on how UFE affects fertility. They can know how Viagra works for men but they can’t figure out Myomectomy and UFE side effects for women.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +2

      💯💯💯

    • @peace5680
      @peace5680 9 місяців тому

      Facts but it has to be another way

  • @jeff12cu
    @jeff12cu 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for sharing your story Vanessa!

  • @mzorr33
    @mzorr33 3 роки тому +1

    Prayers and Hugs💕

  • @teeree2580
    @teeree2580 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to hear your story.. I had the UFE and it was very successful for me.

  • @speckleofhope
    @speckleofhope 3 роки тому +43

    I will be praying for you hun! You will have kids in Jesus name!

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +4

      Amen 💕🙏🏾 Thank you

    • @beware_xoxo
      @beware_xoxo 3 роки тому +5

      Agreeing in prayer! Where two or more gather in His name, there He is in the midst ❤️

  • @didanepierre6511
    @didanepierre6511 2 роки тому +4

    You will get pregnant ! Keep pushing baby girl ❤️

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I can’t wait 💚

  • @ericanix1847
    @ericanix1847 3 роки тому +2

    I'm so sorry you are going through this 😥❤

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Everything happens for a reason 🙏🏾♥️

  • @aprilshowers3331
    @aprilshowers3331 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing I was diagnosed a few months ago and I’m so happy to discover the natural remedies that are available

  • @kiamiereed
    @kiamiereed 3 роки тому +8

    UFE is being recommended to me. There are no studies to prove the after affects of that procedure. 🤒 I'll be praying for you and your fertility & that you become pregnant. Rest in the Lord. Cast all of your worries upon Him & let His Spirit lead you. 🙏🙌❤

  • @gabriellehanks6850
    @gabriellehanks6850 Рік тому +12

    I had a UFE in 2018. Back then, they called it a UAE or uterine artery embolization. I had already had a myomectomy to remove a fibroid the size of a large orange. I suffered periods so long and heavy that I was anemic and couldn't get out of bed or leave my house on my heaviest days. I didn't want a hysterectomy but decided that I wasn't going to have kids. Keep trying🙏🏽💖🙏🏽

    • @crisharlem8209
      @crisharlem8209 Рік тому +2

      Gabrielle after having both which one would you recommend I am struggling between the two ? Thanks

    • @Maremare680
      @Maremare680 Рік тому +1

      Me too! I had a robotic myomectomy in 2016. Also I had UFE in 2018. Now I'm suffering from terrible cramps that I can't explain. it usually happens around the days my period is supposed to come, but my period doesn't come. Also , during ovulation is the same ordeal. I'm 46 years old and I have been without a normal period for the last 4 months. I don't know if this is due to perimenopause or if is an UFE side effect. I wish I could ask the doctor without expending three thousand dollars in an ultrasound.

  • @fatimohmomodu4092
    @fatimohmomodu4092 2 роки тому +2

    If it's in your heart, God will place it in your hands🙏

  • @serious7179
    @serious7179 Рік тому +3

    I am so very sorry...my husband and I are not trying to conceive (we are 40+), but I have never had an invasive surgery, so I am trying my best to avoid a hysterectomy. I have a ton of fibroids, several large ones, so I am scheduled to get a UFE...even though I am not concerned about my fertility being preserved, I don't want to go into early menopause or have my uterus face complications. This is scary stuff... thank you so much for your vulnerability and candor...I wish you the best ❤️

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  Рік тому +3

      Understandable. For many women UFE works and it works well. But it is helpful to know all of the risks before hand. Just in case. Sending you love! ♥️

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 Рік тому

      @@veryvanessa thank you doll!

  • @Wandafulme613
    @Wandafulme613 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. Same situation since 2010 I have had them even longer. I did all my research even UFE and I did myomectomy and went to a fertility clinic and had my miracle babies. Now they are growing back. I am considering UFE as a last option but want to try naturally

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +2

      If they’re small enough you can shrink them with herbs, yoni steaming, castor oil packs.

  • @peacha7675
    @peacha7675 2 роки тому +2

    My Love I had a myomectomy, I had a miscarriage right afterwards, after my miscarriage I had my rainbow baby, She is now 12, she is my third child and my only daughter, I watched your video bc I myself is trying to avoid a hysterectomy bc guess what when I got pregnant with daughter the fibroids came back too, so I am trying to figure out how I want to approach this thing! Beloved remember that God has the final say so, you will get your baby, it may not happen the traditional way, but it will happen God way, I am a living witness that it can happen, either way you will be an awesome mommy!!!God Bless You!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! 💖🙏🏾 Congratulations on your blessing!! Have you seen an RE (Reproductive Endocrinologist)? They will be able to tell you if the fibroids aren’t in an ideal place for conception? I’d definitely start there and have some baseline testing done for you and your partner! Wishing you the best of luck on this journey!!

  • @taylorhughes100
    @taylorhughes100 2 роки тому +8

    I’m going through the same thing . I had UFE in 2019. I don’t know what my egg quality is etc b/c we just started working with a fertility specialist so I have some blood work and then a hysteroscopy and I’m hoping to hear good news. We did try once and I didn’t get pregnant which is what led us to a fertility specialist. I wish they wouldn’t offer UFE to women who haven’t had kids yet b/c it is very risky and the risks aren’t always explained thoroughly. I’m praying for you and hoping that we both are able to have our miracle child!💕

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +4

      I’m praying for you as well hun. I wish I never did the UFE but I didn’t know the risks at the time. And my aunt was able to get pregnant after she had UFE (she’s much older than I am) so I thought it was ok.

  • @try2justbe
    @try2justbe 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for sharing as I was considering UFE because they say it preserve fertility

  • @ellis7989
    @ellis7989 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this vid. While I am not trying to conceive, I did have a UFE June 2020. Almost a year later the symptoms seem as if they're back. May look into getting a myomectomy.

  • @sotero5674
    @sotero5674 3 роки тому +1

    Thank You for sharing this!

  • @afiaoni1375
    @afiaoni1375 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. Previously, you mentioned the 3 fibroids from the UFE had decreased in size with one being undetectable. Did more fibroids grow after the UFE procedure within that short time frame?

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      You’re welcome. From what my doctor told me, there were two hiding behind the largest one. It’s unknown when they developed.

  • @missac270
    @missac270 2 роки тому +10

    I had UFE in 2016 and they told me several times that I shouldn't do it If I wanted more children. Right before I went into the OR. They told me again this procedure can kick you into early menopause. I'm very sorry that happened to you.

    • @mzeye
      @mzeye 4 місяці тому +1

      Same, I would sue that Dr because mine said the same l. Myomectomy sounds worse but it gives you more chances to have kids. Ufe doesn't he was clear about that

  • @estherjeudy23
    @estherjeudy23 3 роки тому +2

    Praying for you Sis , start thanking God for the babies now he is able

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Yes! Thank you! I'm believing for it!

  • @meishelgordon1482
    @meishelgordon1482 3 роки тому +3

    ❤️🙏🏾❤️ all in Gods timing...

  • @EgyptBXO
    @EgyptBXO 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sharing this whole experience

  • @yesic2288
    @yesic2288 3 роки тому +5

    I was given the option of a UFE and I chose laparoscopic mayectomy. It has been 3 weeks and Im feeling better everyday. I talked to my doc and we discussed that if my fibroids came back Id consider UFE. But I would do mayectomy all over again if I had to. I would definitely never remove my uterus

  • @jerseyrose_
    @jerseyrose_ 3 роки тому +2

    God bless you vanessa god is in control we all praying for you and you will have your baby in jesus name❤❤❤

  • @inezcandelario3970
    @inezcandelario3970 3 роки тому +23

    Hi there, I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ve been following your journey since I too have been struggling with Fibroids. I actually did go through with the UFE procedure a little over a month ago because I didn’t want to get cut opened. I had already gone through a myomectomy and didn’t want to go they it again. I’m curious to know, you mentioned that your fibroids did shrink after UFE in your earlier videos, was that not the case after all? Or did they grow back?? Or was the scar tissue the issue? Thanks so much!

    • @niknikm4169
      @niknikm4169 2 роки тому +1

      Good question! I too had the UFE…I’m actually post-op day 1 (painful).

    • @sharieldharri1705
      @sharieldharri1705 2 роки тому

      @@niknikm4169 yes very painful . I am 5 days in and the gas pain is out of this World..ginger ale did it's thing. The pain killers constipate you.
      It's still to soon to give it a pass

    • @Nejims
      @Nejims 2 роки тому

      Hello and to the other ladies who also went through with the UFE. Trust y’all are doing well? Wanted to know how you’re healing journey is? I’m considering the procedure but it scares me to here about the possible effect on fertility with the adverse effect on blood supply to the uterus.

    • @latoshadillard1046
      @latoshadillard1046 Рік тому

      Hello Inez,
      I've also been struggling with fibroids. I had a myomectomy 10 years ago and now the fibroids have grown back. I'm considering UFE. Can I ask you was it painful and how long was the healing process for you?

  • @krisnobles
    @krisnobles 2 роки тому +3

    I had an open myomectomy in 2010. It resulted in massive amounts of scar tissue. Had laproscopic to remove the scar tissue. I ended up getting a divorce so conception wasn't an issue anymore but 3 days ago I had the UFE with the understanding that it could push me into early menopause. I really hate that you went through all that and still couldn't get what you were seeking.

  • @Wandafulme613
    @Wandafulme613 2 роки тому +1

    I hope your okay now and keep us updated

  • @sarakeo9479
    @sarakeo9479 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing your story! I, myself gave up on having a child because of the fibroids monsters.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      I’m so sorry to hear this! Have you seen a Fertility Specialist?

    • @sarakeo9479
      @sarakeo9479 3 роки тому +1

      @@veryvanessa yes I have. I also have a fibroid that’s blocking my tube. I am waiting for my insurance to approve the surgery. Hopefully soon.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      That was the same problem I was having! Hopefully you can get the surgery soon 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @cicilewis2043
    @cicilewis2043 3 роки тому +2

    Hi beautiful. So glad you getting better and sorry you had to go through that. If you don't mind me asking how long you would say does spotting and or discharge from the fibroids after they start to die?

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +3

      Up to 1 year, maybe even more

    • @cicilewis2043
      @cicilewis2043 3 роки тому +4

      @@veryvanessa...wow that is crazy..I thank you so much for keeping it real. Some people that have had ufe that I've read their story make it sound like they were back to normal in no time with no after effects..smh

  • @kpohpatience5206
    @kpohpatience5206 3 роки тому +6

    That what doctors say,but what is God saying, my dearest never loss hope it normal,everything will come back to it normal after the myo. U are having twins just focus and ur doings and let God tell the wheel. I'm praying for u so so much. Cos I love u like a sister I never had. Let him take the wheel

    • @kpohpatience5206
      @kpohpatience5206 3 роки тому +3

      Dont cry never give up, rather take care of urself everything will come back to normality it will shock u.Rather thank God for everything,He is with u.

    • @kpohpatience5206
      @kpohpatience5206 3 роки тому +2

      A year to come u will be standing here make another video that 'hey guys I'm pregnant ' Glory be to God, yes it will happen

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you 🙏🏾💗💗💗💗 I believe everything happens for a reason. There’s No testimony without the actual Test 🙌🏾💯

  • @staysillim572
    @staysillim572 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your experience. This is very helpful information. I have many fibroids, I have close to 8 of them and one of them recently I had my sonogram done on 4/11/2021 and one of the fibroids is 6cm. I am scheduled to have a saline sonogram done in few weeks. I'm still uncertain on what procedures.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      The saline sonogram isn’t bad! Weigh all of your options before deciding on anything.

  • @ZawadiBirya
    @ZawadiBirya 3 роки тому +13

    God has the last say. Adding you to my prayer list. God will give you the desires of your heart in Jesus name. Sending you light and prayers.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your prayers 💗💗🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @expressyyourself5204
    @expressyyourself5204 2 роки тому +6

    i heard about a new procedure with radiofrequency (HIFU, Sonata system), it'is difficult to find testimonies about the non surgical procedure

  • @itoroe1149
    @itoroe1149 3 роки тому +7

    I'm praying for you 🙏🏾. Just got back from seeing the fertility doctor today. Guys, DO NOT DO UFE, if you want children. She actually told me if i know anyone trying to get ufe done and wants kids, i should advise them not to. She is over all THE BEST fertility doctor in Atlanta

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you! I definitely agree on this.

    • @25tjack25
      @25tjack25 2 роки тому

      How does UFE affect having children?

    • @Nejims
      @Nejims 2 роки тому

      @@25tjack25 from my readings in the process of cutting off blood supply to the fibroids to shrink it/them, it can also cut off blood supply to the uterus which can kick one into early menopause reducing one’s egg count

  • @PanAfricanist
    @PanAfricanist 3 роки тому +10

    In the name of Jesus, you will have healthy children naturally...praise be to the most high God

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯

  • @lovelyladylove3641
    @lovelyladylove3641 3 роки тому +1

    ❣🙏🏽❣😇... sending LOVE and LIGHT your way. 👶🏽👶🏽❣❣😇

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much it’s appreciated💕♥️

  • @colorsntrees1531
    @colorsntrees1531 3 роки тому

    are fibroids scar tissue? I know they say muscle, not like in arms or legs muscle but a different kind of muscle but any idea how much scar tissue may be involved? Any help or answer appreciated & yes, I have them too. I named mine Toby since it makes me look pregnant I thought I should name it. ;) Thank you & good luck, I'm going thru your videos now.

  • @PRESENTYOURCASEISAIAH
    @PRESENTYOURCASEISAIAH 3 роки тому +4

    May The Lord bless you with your miracle in Jesus Name

  • @monarnyc
    @monarnyc 2 роки тому +2

    I had 6 fibroids by a myomectomy removed they weighed 23 lbs. When I had a sonogram a small piece of a fibroid was left in my uterus o. Well that small fibroid has grown to take up my entire uterus. Previously I could feel each 6 fibroids. Now I can feel the entire one fibroid. It is still growing. It has been a journey, want to have it removed.

    • @helleluyahatanda5886
      @helleluyahatanda5886 2 роки тому

      Am finally a mother today , because of fibroids my tubes was block for 6years I and my husband was having issue because of my situation no child when I was Searching online on UA-cam about fibroids I saw a testimony about dr Omo so I write him and place order for his herbal today I have 2weeks old baby now he can help you too Herb's work like magic. Both on Endometriosis

  • @SammieBee1989
    @SammieBee1989 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Vanessa. Thank you for sharing your experiences with fibroids. I also have many fibroids and have to make the decision between UFE and myomectomy. I have found your videos to be incredibly helpful! I have a question about your myomectomy. Did they have you take any medication beforehand to prepare for the surgery? More specifically, did they suggest that you take Lupron Depot? If you took Lupron, could you share your experience on it? I will be praying for you on your fertility journey and for the blessings of children in Jesus name.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your prayers 💗💗💗 I didn’t take any medication prior to surgery. The UFE essentially cut off the blood supply to the fibroids and did shrink them slightly.

    • @lizbeautyxo4584
      @lizbeautyxo4584 3 роки тому +1

      Lupron isn’t a good choice to take. It makes you go into menopause. I follow this group on Facebook Nancy Nook (endometriosis). I have endometriosis and many women across the world don’t recommend taking that! It will give you lots of problems.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing!

  • @seharbarket6672
    @seharbarket6672 2 роки тому +2

    Does the fibroid cured. Shrieked. In nederland I had it. I feel sorry for u. I had the same health issue after embolization.

  • @TheGamersGuide819
    @TheGamersGuide819 6 місяців тому +2

    It depends on how they do the UFE. They shouldn’t go through the ovaries when they do it .

  • @saniaduporte2636
    @saniaduporte2636 2 роки тому +1

    I pray for you to have your children 🙏🏽

  • @kerryberi6058
    @kerryberi6058 3 роки тому +3

    I am storn between myomectomy And UFE but I think I'll go with the myomectomy. This will be my second myomectomy

  • @TashaPsychNP
    @TashaPsychNP 3 роки тому +2

    I am praying for you. Im going through the same thing😔

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +1

      Praying for you sister. Be encouraged & be strong 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @gabelle6773
    @gabelle6773 2 роки тому

    I pray that all will be well with you and continue to have faith. Im on the other side,I have 4 adult children and thought Iwas done. I found out I was pregnant 2 days ago..6 months after ufe. I was not trying. I am in my forties my husband is almost 50 and my 25 yr is about to have the 1st grandchild😒

  • @rachelmccall5512
    @rachelmccall5512 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I pray that the Lords will be done (Jeremiah 29:11). Is it better to have the myomectomy right before you plan to have children? I’ve noticed that many women have this procedure and the fibroids come right back. I’m uncertain of when I’ll have children but one doctor recommended that wait to get the procedure until months before I plan to conceive.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  2 роки тому +1

      There are some conflicting opinions about that. You do have to wait a certain amount of time to heal before trying to conceive. I say to discuss all options with your doctor and if you still have some hesitations you can go for a 2nd opinion.

  • @h.p4831
    @h.p4831 3 роки тому +2

    ❤️ 👑,I COME IN 🤲 🌜🌟

  • @Dazzlin826
    @Dazzlin826 3 роки тому +3

    So sorry to hear. My UFE didn't last long. 2 months later I was back in hell. I will have to have a hysterectomy, I so did not want this outcome 😩. But you have your eggs so you may have to do invitro for your baby. Lots of stardust to you❤.

    • @Muzomah
      @Muzomah 2 роки тому +2

      Omg. I’m looking at UFE. I don’t know what to do now

    • @Dazzlin826
      @Dazzlin826 2 роки тому +1

      @@Muzomah Get your doctor to put you on continuous birth control pills. That seems to be helping me so far. Or go for the hysterectomy if you don't want any kids. Try to make that your last resort if you can help it. If you have painful periods, you can take cbd to help with the pain. They made me very sleepy but they helped a lot.

    • @Muzomah
      @Muzomah 2 роки тому

      @@Dazzlin826 I’m 40 kids are all grown. Geez. I just want this to be over

    • @Dazzlin826
      @Dazzlin826 2 роки тому

      @@Muzomah Girl I feel you. Life has to be better than this. Be happy you already had kids.

  • @njoo5657
    @njoo5657 Рік тому +4

    I regret getting it done. My obgyn recommended it. I completely trusted her. No mention of infertility and early menopause from radiologist or obgyn. I'm in early menopause at 40 now. So devastated. I underwent this procedure trying to preserve my uterus. No children. I feel like such a fool. I hope everyone has recovered and to others researching, please don't have this procedure.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  Рік тому +1

      I agree with you fully. Trust me I understand…

    • @njoo5657
      @njoo5657 Рік тому

      I'm so sorry for everything that you're going through. Keeping you in my prayers. I have a question regarding the UFE procedure if you don't mind me asking. Did it cause early menopause for you as well? I'm trying to catch up on your videos. Thank you.

  • @anacristinanicolaie7595
    @anacristinanicolaie7595 2 роки тому +2

    After the UFE I have so much pain,for 10 days, very bad pain. Maybe it normal becouse they say that my uterus looks like 6 month pregnant. Did anyone have same exp.?

  • @dorcaslomo4418
    @dorcaslomo4418 3 роки тому +1

    Look into Acessa procedure its a laproscopic radio-frequency ablation procedure.

    • @veryvanessa
      @veryvanessa  3 роки тому +3

      I had 2 other failed fibroid surgeries (Myosure and UFE) before I did the open myomectomy. Thankfully they’re all gone now 🙌🏾

  • @lem8304
    @lem8304 2 роки тому +1

    I so sorry, I hope you get answers

  • @lulubayou1897
    @lulubayou1897 3 роки тому +4

    Would you ever consider getting a surrogate or adoption? This is a terrible situation and I hope you’ll be able to get pregnant. They had a fertility statue at ripleys museum I’m Florida & my sister got pregnant after 3 months (after she touched it). I know a lot of people don’t believe in that stuff but she tried for years and them bam 💥 3 months after she touched the statue.