I Brought the Divorce Papers, We're Over! | KARAMO

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024
  • Shaun says after 18 years of marriage, she's struggling. She says her husband Rocky has is a compulsive liar who has emotionally abandoned her, cheated on her, and told her looks like a "toddler." Rocky says Shaun struggles with alcohol and lies and claims she is a serial cheater. Rocky is bringing divorce papers to the stage but Shaun calls his bluff. Can Karamo help mediate this couple's relationship?
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  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 9 місяців тому +825

    That man done walked on, walked off, walked on, walked off again, walked on... boy, you either stay in or out. You letting the good air out!

    • @chelybeann
      @chelybeann 9 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂

    • @followthelightspeaks
      @followthelightspeaks 9 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ninawebber-towels4019
      @ninawebber-towels4019 9 місяців тому +4

      🤣😂🤣😂

    • @Toriab
      @Toriab 9 місяців тому +17

      This my grandma fasho 😂😂 lord rest her soul

    • @laydeeslim
      @laydeeslim 9 місяців тому +1

      Sam! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Toriab
    @Toriab 9 місяців тому +395

    Karamo basically told him “yo wife is a ho an you need to get that divorce “

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 9 місяців тому +28

      And he isn’t ? He have few dating profiles and spending nights with women . Why blame her and not both

    • @theshape7058
      @theshape7058 9 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @saraivavauoti
      @saraivavauoti 9 місяців тому +14

      @@longbranch11207right I felt like the blame was put on her the most when he clearly is a compulsive liar 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @zyniah24
      @zyniah24 9 місяців тому

      Right

    • @MGk-Farmer
      @MGk-Farmer 9 місяців тому +6

      ⁠@@saraivavauoti the issue wasn't the cheating the issue was she wanted to control the relationship. Don't tell me not to cheat if you're openly cheating in front of my face then you come home and talk about the entire sexual interaction just to make me angry. At least he has the decency to not bring it home with him. if she not giving him know 🐈 then what do expect him to do go without while she gets to do whatever she wants.

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 9 місяців тому +409

    Don’t ever give up everything for someone because if they leave you, you have nothing. Always have a back up plan!

    • @angelowens7497
      @angelowens7497 9 місяців тому +9

      Big facts 💯

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 9 місяців тому +9

      Always have something for yourself

    • @francesrodriguez7656
      @francesrodriguez7656 9 місяців тому +3

      WELL SAID 👏👏👏

    • @wonderfullee2332
      @wonderfullee2332 9 місяців тому +6

      That’s a scared tactic and the worst advice anyone can give. The reality is we don’t own people we experience them.

    • @kendallmax311
      @kendallmax311 9 місяців тому +7

      Also don’t give up everything then go out and cheat on the person that’s handling everything for you financially knowing you don’t have anything to your name lol hopefully the men you cheating with can start looking out for you besides helping you get your rocks off

  • @Aminah6623
    @Aminah6623 9 місяців тому +541

    Ma'am, if it's his money paying the bills, he's the one who pays the bills. She's about to be a waitress at Red Lobster with a boyfriend that doesn't accept her kids

    • @crazymusicgrlcheesecake
      @crazymusicgrlcheesecake 9 місяців тому +19

      Ikr. It's odd how people love cheating so much

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 9 місяців тому

      She full of Crap 💯

    • @moreilly9836
      @moreilly9836 9 місяців тому +21

      @@crazymusicgrlcheesecake I thought she meant literally paying them.. if he's on the road for work she's the one running the house hold really and making sure the money goes to the right places etc

    • @ShesFromVenus
      @ShesFromVenus 9 місяців тому +4

      A terrible waitress at that.

    • @jj-hm4xb
      @jj-hm4xb 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@moreilly9836 I think that's what she meant too but "Paying the bills" means actually working to pay them. Autopay can do what she does, lol

  • @laydeeslim
    @laydeeslim 9 місяців тому +233

    How she saying she pay all the bills and it’s his money?! 😂😂 it’s the least you could do since you’re not making money, you are literally a house wife and it’s your job to take care of the household and kids 🤦🏿‍♀️ Jesus let us pray

    • @roselandebazelais8236
      @roselandebazelais8236 9 місяців тому +5

      NARCISSIST.
      SLEF ENTITLED

    • @basicallyv9873
      @basicallyv9873 9 місяців тому +7

      Maybe she means she's managing the money. Sometimes husbands will go to work and the wife takes care of everything else. Kids managing money, paying the bills, cleaning, cooking activities, basically being a maid and a personal assistant to everyone in the house. But this lady has a lot of audacity!!

    • @alicejohnson2285
      @alicejohnson2285 9 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @90sflower95
      @90sflower95 9 місяців тому

      @@basicallyv9873it’s still his money then
      L

    • @MGk-Farmer
      @MGk-Farmer 9 місяців тому +3

      @@basicallyv9873 besides paying the bills with his money you don't know what she be doing all day. You're just assuming she does all those things. Besides taking care of the kids you don't know what she does all day. Because clearly she has enough time to cheat and be disrespectful to her husband by joking about having sex with other men. I know two wrongs don't make a right but hey at least he doesn't bring his cheating home with him.

  • @helpkelp3595
    @helpkelp3595 9 місяців тому +57

    Honestly even signing the papers was for show. It's clear as day he's not ready to let go and she's not ready to lose the person providing financially

  • @tiigarden
    @tiigarden 9 місяців тому +63

    she's highly abusive and has completely ruined this mans self-worth.
    it's very unlikely he'll get out of this mess without professional help.

  • @roxi9897
    @roxi9897 9 місяців тому +236

    Signed papers or not, there will be no divorce. They are codependent and those papers are probably torn up somewhere.

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 9 місяців тому +10

      Thank you I don’t why they’re forcing him to sign he’s not ready

    • @TaxProGirl
      @TaxProGirl 9 місяців тому +10

      True. I've never seen divorce papers, only 2 pages (but I'm not an attorney & maybe things have changed) p.s. did you notice she didn't sign.

    • @krystolyncarpio6010
      @krystolyncarpio6010 9 місяців тому +4

      I noticed she didn't sign either

    • @tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417
      @tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417 9 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @clivefynn9991
      @clivefynn9991 8 місяців тому +2

      my opinion as well papers in the trash can they are codependent

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry 9 місяців тому +37

    He doesn’t know how much better his life would be without her. SMH codependency is bitter

  • @bernardwylie9760
    @bernardwylie9760 9 місяців тому +52

    Wow…..I gotta say, the last couple of yt couples on Karamo have been explosive! Crazy, wild, broken people, harming each other, manipulative. Both headed for divorce. This time the papers signed on the show!

  • @standground7956
    @standground7956 9 місяців тому +58

    *You should always promptly end the relationship at the first instance of cheating regardless of length of time together, children or not.* It’s weird that people believe in second chances. A cheater’s second chance should be them improving themselves in their next relationship, not with you.

    • @SaniNMe23
      @SaniNMe23 9 місяців тому +4

      Well said ❤

    • @Ukissmyashh
      @Ukissmyashh 7 місяців тому

      If this was true & effective I’m sure you wouldn’t even exist. Just saying

  • @christhorpe5076
    @christhorpe5076 9 місяців тому +62

    This man is so submissive after the show they gonna rip those papers up and stay together

    • @kingdjack6
      @kingdjack6 9 місяців тому +9

      There's no guarantee she'll get the kids especially when she has alcohol issues to she had to go to rehab.

    • @kingdjack6
      @kingdjack6 9 місяців тому +2

      Also courts will make her go to work also are they still leaving together she may not even get spousal support because the can go you been living away for so long your not entitled to it.

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 9 місяців тому +96

    That walk off was zesty!

  • @thethreedeshas6011
    @thethreedeshas6011 9 місяців тому +62

    he makes all the money but you pay all the bills ? 😂😂😂

  • @Faithful-Queen
    @Faithful-Queen 9 місяців тому +20

    Don't ever hold on to someone who doesn't hold on to you! Let them go! But, before you do, build that new nest safely, and far away. Because, you will need space and time for healing after the breakup. With children involved seek extra support throughout the process. This is for both mothers and fathers. Someone responsible and kind will hopefully be able to help out with the children. A good support system goes a long way!

  • @_littlemissdove_
    @_littlemissdove_ 9 місяців тому +22

    He is a good man, no one can convince me otherwise

  • @monetblue2321
    @monetblue2321 9 місяців тому +35

    HOW IS HE NOT PAYING WHEN ITS HIS MONEY FROM HIS JOB YOU USE TO PAY THE BILLS 😂😂😂

  • @SheUhhThot
    @SheUhhThot 9 місяців тому +313

    You can tell she is the problem. She’s ignoring the fact that he makes all the money, but is mad that she has to pay the bills (when he makes the money). Her complaint is that she has to clean, take care of the kids, blah blah… when you’re not working that’s what you should be doing… if she doesn’t want to do that stuff, then go work.. it’s simple.

    • @mermaidhev
      @mermaidhev 9 місяців тому +29

      he should also share responsibility to take care of his kids and clean, job or not

    • @4djinn
      @4djinn 9 місяців тому +11

      EXACTLY! He's going out into the world dealing with people and working and being stressed out. she thought she was just going to sit in her ass with her feet up watching cartoons with the kids? No! doing just around the house is her job if she going to stay home and her job is significantly easier than having to be scheduled and deal with everything else. Man if i was a woman I'd take full advantage with no complaints.

    • @livingforjazztho1195
      @livingforjazztho1195 9 місяців тому +17

      She did say she wanted to work but he will not take care of the kids 50 % so she can work

    • @lv2756
      @lv2756 9 місяців тому +3

      You literally just detailed why alimony exists. When your cheated on/unhappy/anandoned and have no money of your own because you were coerced into the married single mom/stay at home mom life, you’d be forced to stay because you have no money, and a limited/gaps in your work experience. It’s incomparable how much safer it is to either keep a job, keep a stash, or get a prenup.

    • @dalealfred3877
      @dalealfred3877 9 місяців тому +1

      Is that true'? What kind of wife is this. She is crazy ' they need help please.

  • @نيشا-د2م
    @نيشا-د2م 9 місяців тому +24

    The man placing all the blame on himself, & his voice cracking made me feel so bad for him b/c it reminds me of when I was with my ex. I did the exact same thing, even though now I’m more aware of the fact that it was not just my fault, it was also his. I do feel for him, but I’m not picking sides because I do believe there’s truth to both sides. They both have their own pov’s on their situation, so 🤷‍♀️

  • @ebonimynd4133
    @ebonimynd4133 9 місяців тому +27

    Not, “I want her to be her to be safe….” Sir, you pay for your WIFE to go CHEAT? She is trash

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 9 місяців тому +19

    She can’t leave because who can she be mad at. If she leave who they have to take anger out on.

  • @dejaniquenelson9458
    @dejaniquenelson9458 9 місяців тому +21

    Why he give her the papers liked they was signed 😂😂

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 9 місяців тому +66

    “I pay the bills”.
    With whose money, ma’am?
    Are y’all sure she’s only on alcohol? She’s outrageous!

  • @jesseabraham5410
    @jesseabraham5410 9 місяців тому +13

    The sad part is that the children will go through a lot

  • @dbsrsb23
    @dbsrsb23 9 місяців тому +141

    she is a drunk and a cheater.....run brother run

  • @Indigal
    @Indigal 9 місяців тому +75

    She don't have boyfriends because she doesn't have an emotional connection with them.. Is there a nice word for that 🤣🤣

    • @itsjazzlyn101
      @itsjazzlyn101 9 місяців тому

      Emotional cheating

    • @ambberhill1090
      @ambberhill1090 9 місяців тому +6

      its called a farm tool

    • @jazzkittenirl
      @jazzkittenirl 9 місяців тому +3

      It’s a three letter word.

    • @tiannahcollard
      @tiannahcollard 9 місяців тому

      I’m sure there’s a few words for that 😂💯

    • @Mariakadis
      @Mariakadis 9 місяців тому +1

      You're not nice😭​@@jazzkittenirl

  • @sheluvbam5
    @sheluvbam5 9 місяців тому +128

    So she literally sat here and played victim in that recording just for her to be the problem🤦🏾‍♀️ What a great actress😭😭

    • @Muva2Tymes
      @Muva2Tymes 7 місяців тому +3

      Exactly acting like he was so disgusted with her and she wanted to save the marriage

    • @iMsOiNsO
      @iMsOiNsO 7 місяців тому +6

      Yeaaa he probably got those dating apps cuz she would cheat but he couldn’t follow thru. It’ll be hard asf but he has to just give up on HER. He has to half more self love and she’s never gonna help that. Ik damn well he will find someone new lmao

  • @sophiaandre139
    @sophiaandre139 9 місяців тому +71

    I'm listening to this while cleaning up my desk and didn't look at any of the guests. I honestly thought it was two women in a same-sex relationship.

  • @keepnit100
    @keepnit100 9 місяців тому +9

    She manipulates him. She was using those papers to hold over him knowing that he didnt want a divorce and that she had no real intention of getting one. Her saying he doesnt pay bills so she knows he wouldnt pay child support when in all actuality he pays all the bills and all she does is submit the payments. Comparing the established man he is now to the struggling young man he was before they were married is all manipulation. Shes a horrible person and I hope he smarten up and lets her go.

  • @Zee-ob1pe
    @Zee-ob1pe 9 місяців тому +17

    Their relationship is a wreck. What are they holding onto ?

  • @bpheavyrocker1
    @bpheavyrocker1 9 місяців тому +6

    If your partner/spouse cheats on you or breaks up with because you are insecure its not true. You are insecure person if you decide to tolerate your man/womans disrespect, bad behavior in a relationship/marriage and constantly giving the multiple chances after cheating. You are a secure person if you leave the relationship/marriage with self respect and not tolerate them. Its all about boundaries and if they don't like it and decides to break them its on them not on you. Boundaries and controlling are not the same

  • @nicpat121
    @nicpat121 9 місяців тому +2

    This man is acting like the front door is only an entrance, it’s an exit too!!! Leave this woman

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 9 місяців тому +23

    She is a hot excuse of a mess. Nasty by nature without a conscience

  • @Nelley_Nell_507
    @Nelley_Nell_507 9 місяців тому +4

    Some people need to be completely fed up in order to leave someone I don’t think he’s completely fed up.

  • @b.u.dmusic9424
    @b.u.dmusic9424 9 місяців тому +31

    Karamo takes it WAY too easy on the women that are hos. Way too easy. This guy is MUCH nicer than I would've been. She would've been gone THE MOMENT she got caught.

    • @AtheneHolder
      @AtheneHolder 9 місяців тому +3

      Exactly.... she's a nut case.
      He works, you use the money he earns to pay the bills... what you complaining about
      And she's telling you she got other people? Ain't no way

    • @MGk-Farmer
      @MGk-Farmer 9 місяців тому +1

      Exactly I be feeling like he be taking sides and it's usually more on the woman's side majority of the time.

  • @bpheavyrocker1
    @bpheavyrocker1 9 місяців тому +6

    If your partner/spouse cheats on you and he/she is apologizing they are only sorry because the mistake was made not because the trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes but never break the trust. Forgiving and giving your cheating partner/spouse is easy, but forgetting and trusting is impossible.

  • @anagxnzalez
    @anagxnzalez 9 місяців тому +18

    how she mad she payin the bills wit HIS money 🤣

  • @cocochante6685
    @cocochante6685 9 місяців тому +13

    Just like Karamo said, it’s both of their faults.

  • @jamilladanae
    @jamilladanae 9 місяців тому +22

    he’s going to find another woman who loves him deeply

  • @NubianP6
    @NubianP6 9 місяців тому +9

    How is she seriously sitting up there shouting about being the one who “pays the bills”, when it’s the money that HE is making on HIS job that the payments are being made with?? Oh Heaven forbid that you be the one who has to actually go into an app, and click a few buttons to pay a bill. Ot that you have to be the one to take out a checkbook, (if your old school), and write out a check to pay a bill. My goodness…the absolute CRUELTY of it all. How dare he! 🙄 Ma’am, if you aren’t working outside of the home, that is what you’re SUPPOSED to do! Marriage is a partnership. Yes, keep the house clean. Yes, cook the meals. Yes, use your little thumbs to pay the bills. What you DON’T do is go lay up under some other man because you need “comfort”.

  • @jilliebee
    @jilliebee 5 місяців тому +1

    I don’t think people understand how it feels to be a MARRIED SINGLE PARENT. She has a lot of resentment for him that brought her this far! It doesn’t excuse her behavior but are u truly going to remain attracted and in love with someone you do everything for like another child ? Just because he pays for everything she should shut up right? He knows she’s a full time mom and he pays for everything and holds that over her head.

  • @shirleyearnest1832
    @shirleyearnest1832 9 місяців тому +4

    I hope he asked the courts for joint custody. Then she'll have no choice but to work. He deserves a woman with morals.

  • @MelaninGold
    @MelaninGold 9 місяців тому +2

    Wife: “I pay the bills.”
    Also her: “I can’t have a career.” “I would love to have a job.”
    Ma’am, if you don’t work and he is the only one with a job, that means HE PAYS THE BILLS! You may physically pay the bills, but it’s his money you’re paying the bills with.

  • @HeiressEurheinessHighley
    @HeiressEurheinessHighley 9 місяців тому +6

    They are definitely in a cycle of abuse, it's even bad for the kids to witness it. The best thing for them to do is take some time apart and heal...

  • @iLoVeaNiMeS101
    @iLoVeaNiMeS101 9 місяців тому +8

    Your nervous system doesn’t know what’s healthy after being in dysfunction for that long.. she was your security. I’m sorry dude!

  • @gwa3925
    @gwa3925 9 місяців тому +5

    The way they interact is so toxic - manipulation, hurt, breaking other down... It needs to stop

  • @joanbeckford5724
    @joanbeckford5724 9 місяців тому +17

    She needed the financial support for her to live her lifestyle, sleeping around wiyh men and drinking.

  • @quisams78
    @quisams78 9 місяців тому +5

    I pay all the bills, am the mom & dad😂😂😂😂really? With his money? What common sense is this

  • @TheophanyKirindongo
    @TheophanyKirindongo 9 місяців тому +3

    I think proper marriage counseling and prayer can and will restore this marriage. These 2 clearly love eachother and just needs time to work things out, communicate, go to therapy. Listen, no matter how dark, long or impossible the night seems, the sun will always rise again. Every marriage can go through it's hars seasons, but where there's love, there can be restoration. Praying for them both and their family.

  • @necee11
    @necee11 9 місяців тому +3

    Dude RUN FAR AWAY FROM THIS WOMAN !!!

  • @disoba1
    @disoba1 3 місяці тому

    I would highly suggest that Karamo should start give the audience an update on couples like this. It’s heartbreaking that they are both stuck and it becomes unending cycle. I feel bad for their kids😢

  • @collinsugonnalawrence7113
    @collinsugonnalawrence7113 9 місяців тому +11

    Best decision Key word

  • @loverzxlane
    @loverzxlane 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm happy that the guy is getting the house and the kids.

  • @jackwalter5970
    @jackwalter5970 9 місяців тому +8

    Did she sign the papers after he did?

  • @smoothking5873
    @smoothking5873 9 місяців тому +2

    Shes using him to the fullest😢. He needs to get some balls and move on and run fast. She will regret her actions very soon she thinks the men she slept with will take on thr responsibilities with her 3 kids oh pls 😅

  • @thesugarcase7431
    @thesugarcase7431 9 місяців тому +13

    He’s sweet, zesty and spicy. His walk was so childish 😂

  • @zaraosman-hs2ed
    @zaraosman-hs2ed 9 місяців тому +1

    She doesn't make sense at all. Hurting your husband like that.

  • @_beautifullyflawed144
    @_beautifullyflawed144 9 місяців тому +6

    This man works, pays all the bills, and puts up with your cheating, and you thank him by sleeping around and blaming him for your drinking problem. Ma'am you're trash. Take accountability for your actions, and use the time you spend cheating, to work.

  • @yimmyrich
    @yimmyrich 9 місяців тому +11

    Run Forrest Run 🏃💨

  • @ilerilawal
    @ilerilawal 9 місяців тому +1

    I get this man. I understand his pain and I feel sorry for him.

  • @rosegreen8441
    @rosegreen8441 9 місяців тому

    That's right girl, do NOT sign anything before reviewing it with your attorney first. 10:05

  • @Nina-Bananaaa
    @Nina-Bananaaa 9 місяців тому +10

    She’s annoying and he deserves better!

  • @darayy6352
    @darayy6352 9 місяців тому +2

    Idk what to say I'm baffled n speechless

  • @giselleromero9350
    @giselleromero9350 9 місяців тому +5

    How is she stating that she pays all the bills when its his money she is using to pay all the bills

  • @myaominky
    @myaominky 9 місяців тому +1

    Some people thrive on conflict.

  • @valenciaaniese
    @valenciaaniese 9 місяців тому +1

    She said she’s paying the bills ….. with HIS MONEY 💰 😒🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MaxineShaw-de7bh
    @MaxineShaw-de7bh 9 місяців тому +3

    This trick of a mess 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @daritykane7
    @daritykane7 9 місяців тому +1

    He is an extreme narcissist. All that walking back and forth than saying it's all his fault he wants everyone to pity him. But at the same time with her she is a housewife she don't gotta work and is complaining about being a housewife. They dint belong together at all

  • @ItsimplyJae
    @ItsimplyJae 9 місяців тому +1

    Lol never thought i will ever hear someone say " stay strong and keep this Divorce". But it is for the best tho.

  • @joannturner1453
    @joannturner1453 9 місяців тому +1

    He is not going to lose his live-in maid, accountant, babysitter. He's a man-child.

  • @longbranch11207
    @longbranch11207 9 місяців тому +10

    He’s not leaving his wife. I don’t know why they’re forcing him to sign the papers. He’ll sign when he’s ready

  • @dbsrsb23
    @dbsrsb23 9 місяців тому +52

    How can that woman judge that man?????? she is trashy

  • @maishamaee_9507
    @maishamaee_9507 9 місяців тому +1

    When I see them cheeta tattoo prints, oh I KNOW it’s a wild one 🤣

  • @wiseman1186
    @wiseman1186 9 місяців тому

    This is one of the things that kill men in a relationship. Karamo this is the hardest part of your job.

  • @user-bl2kh7lb4z
    @user-bl2kh7lb4z 9 місяців тому

    Are we gonna gloss over the fact that she said she gets mad and “gets physical”?? Literally admitting to physical abuse, of course it’s hard to walk away from such a relationship. This is just the tip of the iceberg, I hope he has a happy life 🤍🤍

  • @eileenleech
    @eileenleech 9 місяців тому +3

    She pays all the bills? Yes, with his money he's earned. She doesn't have a job

  • @thabsmkhize2481
    @thabsmkhize2481 9 місяців тому +2

    I just came back from “Who tf did I marry?” on TikTok and came back to this toxic drama 🥴

  • @ceegee5335
    @ceegee5335 9 місяців тому

    I feel what this woman is going through tbh. Hearing her apologize for reaching out to her husband for love and emotional support is gut wrenching.

  • @dbsrsb23
    @dbsrsb23 9 місяців тому +62

    OMG Karamo almost defended a husband????? Notice how the serial cheating wife was excused for her behavior? Karamo said her cheating was her choice, not that she betrayed her husband and children.....disgusting

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 9 місяців тому +9

      And the husband not cheating with his profiles ?

    • @ilerilawal
      @ilerilawal 9 місяців тому +7

      Let's acknowledge Karamo's growth please. He's making an effort and he almost called a woman out for her bad behaviour this time.

    • @ilerilawal
      @ilerilawal 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@longbranch11207Those are two very different things. Being on a dating app because your wife separated from you temporarily and actually sleeping with other men (in hotel rooms paid for by your husband) are not the same level of disrespect.

    • @AtheneHolder
      @AtheneHolder 9 місяців тому +1

      THIS

  • @kingdjack6
    @kingdjack6 9 місяців тому +2

    If she has alcohol problems there's no guarantee she'll get the kids in fact they may make her pay support also courts are now not letting mothers just leave off of child support so she'll have to get a job

  • @lovej_76
    @lovej_76 9 місяців тому

    omg not the maurey style confessionals 😭😭. pls nooo karamo!

  • @trinitypowell1114
    @trinitypowell1114 9 місяців тому

    This made me cry.. i feel so sorry for him.

  • @foreverunbothered1951
    @foreverunbothered1951 9 місяців тому

    It’s crazy how they paint each other.
    Both sound believable
    Listen, and you will hear it all.

  • @shaym754
    @shaym754 9 місяців тому +6

    Lady you don’t pay the bills, you use his money

  • @Frosty0762
    @Frosty0762 8 місяців тому

    He needs to rebuild who he is. He's so submissive and his self esteem is shattered. Seek help, not as a couple but, for yourself. You'll have so much clarity once your eyes are actually opened to the situation.
    He went back I'm sure. He needs and deserves better. She's a cheater, manipulative and only is in it for the money, the house, the car, and a free ride. She has her cake and is eating it too. I feel horribly for him. LEAVE this time.

  • @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
    @tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t 9 місяців тому +2

    Oh hunnay…. I was cat walking to my TV, snapping my fingers like I was at a ball when he came out with that pen. Yes, God honey.

  • @antoinettehardy905
    @antoinettehardy905 9 місяців тому +12

    You don't work, and he's paying all the bills, so he's taking care of his kids.

    • @RoseReadings
      @RoseReadings 9 місяців тому +3

      Taking care of doesn't solely mean financially. U think kids don't need anything but money thrown at them? Get real!🤬

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 9 місяців тому +3

      I mean sure financially but theres more to childcare than money

    • @RoseReadings
      @RoseReadings 9 місяців тому

      @@helpkelp3595 exactly

  • @Arcadia61
    @Arcadia61 9 місяців тому +2

    Women should never give up their careers/jobs/independence when married. No matter how good the husband's pay is. But this woman is using it as an excuse to not get out of the marriage. Neither of them really want to. I can't see what either of them is getting out of it emotionally. Also, I don't understand why wives cheat on their husbands the minute they need to travel somewhere. My husband works in the offshore oil industry and is away for weeks at a time. Never have I ever taken that as an excuse for infidelity. All along, I've kept my job because I like my financial independence, and I want to contribute to our lifestyle as well. Obviously, I had to do the lion's share of housekeeping, rearing our son, and taking care of the finances. When my son was young and lived with us, I used to make sure they got a lot of bonding time together because children need both their parents' influence and guidance. People cheat because they want to. Because they don't care how the other half is going to be affected.

  • @ilerilawal
    @ilerilawal 9 місяців тому +2

    He's not leaving. She's not leaving. They're used to their familiar toxicity.
    Personally, I would recommend couples therapy and not a divorce.

  • @sharanharvey5552
    @sharanharvey5552 9 місяців тому

    They aren’t through with each other…they will go home and stay together

  • @Moimen._
    @Moimen._ 8 місяців тому

    I feel bad for him. He really deserves better.. it’s a lot of women who would cherish him. She’s ungrateful

  • @renalove7123
    @renalove7123 9 місяців тому +5

    God and marriage counseling will help. FixitLord!

  • @niyahsimone5104
    @niyahsimone5104 9 місяців тому

    “I don’t want to but I am ready”😭

  • @JC_le_Canadien
    @JC_le_Canadien 9 місяців тому +1

    How old are the children? I'm done with lies and I'm not in the marriage.

  • @boyothapresident
    @boyothapresident 9 місяців тому

    If she cheat even for once she tell you about it, immediately ask for a divorce bruh…that’s so disrespectful act and the fact that she said it means she’ll never respect you.

  • @unanorman5597
    @unanorman5597 Місяць тому

    Hi lady u hve a good husband and he's realy a piece of gold to the husband u realy deserve better 😢😢

  • @joanbeckford5724
    @joanbeckford5724 9 місяців тому +3

    she needs a full time job to feel what she is putting him through.

  • @Bless26771
    @Bless26771 9 місяців тому +18

    I can never give up everything for a man, sorry

    • @kendallmax311
      @kendallmax311 9 місяців тому

      She didn’t give up nothing cause she never had nothing to begin with lol

  • @Leene15
    @Leene15 9 місяців тому

    The disrespect! Wanting him to pay for hotels so u can cheat on him wtf this lady is a real piece of work and doesn’t deserve him! LEAVE DUDE WTH!

  • @ezekielwashington3671
    @ezekielwashington3671 7 місяців тому

    That woman about to take him for everything, he's not going to need any pockets when she's done smmfh