True Tessie. We live in a world where everyone is offended by something. Just keep doing what you're doing and let the naysayers live in their misery and jealousy. Personally, I would block them from my channel. 😊❤
Well said, Tessie! It sure does seem like someone is offended by something all the time. I'm a recovering people-pleaser, and having those healthy boundaries is so important. Thank you for sharing such a timely message.
Some people are so unhappy themselves that they hate to see others happy. I am happy for you! I don't know if you saw my other comment I made, but I haven't been around because my husband was in the hospital. He goes back in next week for a quadruple heart bypass. Please pray for him! I will catch up as I can! I am not going anywhere. Thank you for the prayers in advance. ❤❤❤
Some people just think they know more or better than anyone else. Boy are they in for a surprise. Keep going Tessie you are doing GREAT. You know they have a sad life when their days are filled looking for someone to put down. I lived in a mobile home for years before I got my home. I had a roof over my head , a warm place to stay, and a great family. Life was good and still is. It’s not the place you live in that makes a great home. Have a great day.
Very well said, Tessie! Just keep being yourself. It doesn’t matter what you do or say, somebody out there won’t like it. This is your channel. If someone is offended, they can go some place else. 🤷🏼♀️
Dear Tessie, thank you so much for your honest, truthful videos ! I will be 64 the last day of this month. I am trying to reach the life changing decision you explained in this video. Fighting childhood trauma, just diagnosed w/ ADHD, skin cancer plus many other ailments in the last 2 yrs. Realizing that my self worth didn't exist. Slowly, working w/ my inner child/ spirit/ soul to heal, learn my worth & purpose. Realized Disease comes from Inner Dis Ease ! Time for the inner me to stand in my worthiness instead of victimhood. Starting to praise myself, forgiving myself, loving myself, listening to my spirit to guide me to my life's purpose. Thank you for giving me inspiration to keep moving forward !!❤
Yes it’s too bad that people choose to live under the influence of the spirit of offense. It’s a spiritual battle and they are succumbing to it. It’s a choice to resist or not with this spirit. Truly the spirit of offense is nothing more than narcissism and control over another. Pure kindness is to well wish others in their own journey, not Erase a persons inner drive to be a character in this world and their life.
Hey Sweet Friend, It is music to my ears that you finally decided that you don't have to or should'nt try to please everyone. I have rambled this around in my head all afternoon. For you to continue explaining yourself and defending yourself with your channel and really enjoy it block these naysayers from your channel. The negativity you deal with is rediculous!!!!! You give of yourself to us daily for free. Most of us appreciate your channel, but for those who constantly complain, nit pic, and leave nasty comments to you, are they worth it? Your to sweet and to caring for people who don't appreciate you and you certainly do not have to deal with this crap!!!! I agree with susannaCdonovan23. Block them. They are not worth your time.
This made me cry because after 32 years of being bullied since the day I married, talked down to and being told I'm being stupid by my family and my husbands family I really don't know who I am anymore. I've heard grow up, act your age, that was just dumb until there is no self left. They have all died off except for 5 of them and I've learned just to walk away from my Mother when shes ugly. One has changed their mind and two I just don't go around when I know they will be there. My sister can still cut me to the quick and I have to associate with her because I love my nieces and she's at every get together. I haven't had a panic attack in over a month so life is getting better and one day maybe I will find my voice again and maybe remember who I am.
Your confidence and strength have grown by leaps and bounds over the years, Tessie. I’m really glad to see it. I’m also glad you finally spoke up for yourself in this video. 👏🏻 If people are so offended by things they may hear or see on UA-cam, then perhaps they should find other ways to spend their time. UA-cam is apparently not for them. But rather than taking it out on you, maybe they should spend some time growing a backbone and a thicker skin. If they can’t handle UA-cam, how in the world do they cope with life??? Anyway, you just keep being you, Tessie - the new and improved Homestead Tessie. 😉
That is darn right crazy that people were offended by your ability to upgrade your plumbing. God blessed you to be able to upgrade your home and you deserve the blessing b/c of all the years you choose to live without it.
I can tell you're a sensitive soul. Most of the people who comment negatively are jealous. I'm happy you're learning not to listen to them. Keep up the good videos.
People that are happy when they make other people unhappy don't deserve your kindness. Family members who make rude comments should be called out for their inappropriate behavior! So glad you turned around your thinking!
I agree completely. You can’t worry about what other people think you just have to be happy and talk about what you want and don’t worry about them. Most of the people here here because they like you and they like your channel and they support you. Don’t let the trolls and the negative people ever get you down. Like you said you can’t make everyone happy no matter what you do. As long as you are happy that’s all that matters !
Some people are just playing negative people and no matter what you do or what you say or apologize for whatever it is not going to make a difference either way because that is the way these pathetic people are. Keep doing what you are doing tessie. I'm very happy for you that you were able to fix a lot of things in your home that helps you. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks what matters is you and your family and how you live your life. God bless and keep you. You are a child of the most high God.
I find it ironic that someone wants a oerfect video. Do they want a real life video or a fake video. I think some people want the fake because that means that they have to admit we as humans are not perfect and life has hard times. Plus some people just truly like to complain and grumble. I am learning I have to be me with God helps in that I love others but I do not have to be someone's doormat or be a people pleaser. I think we can fall into the people pleasers because some of us that are more sensitive like myself don't want someone upset with us. I just have remind myself if I am not being mean to someone but they are upset still I can not change them. I have to move forward. I am glad you are getting stronger tessie. The world is full of those who will always try to find something wrong with you but God loves you for you.
Hi Tessie!! Some people just belong behind you, so you can keep moving forward. Offense only hurts feelings, and most people make offense an Olympic event.
Oh my word! You are so right. But if all these things about you are offending some people, then they should get off your channel! We love you for those very things they complain about. You show us how to deal with issues, how to overcome, how to save, how upgrade and fix things, new recipes, how to make things and the list goes on and on!! I too have heard the mobile home comments even it's not a real home only brick is a real home. Dumbest comment ever! I'm so glad you overcame the bullies and complainers. And I hope you just keep being you!! I love your beauty and smile and all I learn from you and the wonderful group of viewers here!❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Mom used to say she got offended too much when she was younger. As she aged she lost that spirit of offense. Thank you God for her example. I don’t have that spirit of offense in me either. We are to please God. 1st and foremost. God Bless You!
With me I have a very strong personality and I do not care what people think of me or how I live. I love my life and I am a Christian maybe not the best Christian but I am a child of God and no one but no 1 is going to demeen me. Tessy please hey no mind to these heartless individuals.
Girl I would those kinds people I wouldn’t even give them the time of day block block those people are idiots you have people that really love you 😘 ❤❤❤
Often, the offended are the haters. They obviously have no love in their lives and are to be pitied. Your loyal friends celebrate your successes and pray for you when things go bad.
Hi Tessie sometimes we just have to ignore those negative coments because nothing you will say or do could please those people you end up losing your peace and joy leave them to the lord its not your job to please negativity.. you just be who god called you to be if people find offense let them be..
Tessie don’t worry about other people and their opinions cause in the end it doesn’t matter you know the truth. Don’t even give them this energy to make a video about them don’t engage you’ll be happier
Ignore naysayers. Hey, at least they bring traffic and push your channel more. If we even read their comments, we can figure out what they're about. 🙄😐
True Tessie. We live in a world where everyone is offended by something. Just keep doing what you're doing and let the naysayers live in their misery and jealousy. Personally, I would block them from my channel. 😊❤
EXACTLY
AMEN 🙏. If they get all up in arms then quit watching. This is her life and I ENJOY IT. Tessie.....PAY NO MIND TO THESE TYPE OF FOLKS.
God Bless you, Tessie, instead of people celebrating your home repairs, they are offended? I do NOT get this world today!! Keep being you!!!
Ya me neither. Maybe they don't get real hard life living. Tessie gives me inspiration. I love how she lives. Getting down into God's living .
Tessie I have been watching you for a long time now. You have yet to offend me. 😂love ya
Great message, as always. Sometimes I feel like a doormat too. I appreciate your thoughts. You keep doing what's right you.
Well said, Tessie! It sure does seem like someone is offended by something all the time. I'm a recovering people-pleaser, and having those healthy boundaries is so important. Thank you for sharing such a timely message.
Those people are all narcissists!!
So true. Even close family and friends get offended even though that's not what you meant. 😢
Some people are so unhappy themselves that they hate to see others happy. I am happy for you! I don't know if you saw my other comment I made, but I haven't been around because my husband was in the hospital. He goes back in next week for a quadruple heart bypass. Please pray for him! I will catch up as I can! I am not going anywhere. Thank you for the prayers in advance. ❤❤❤
Will pray for your husband and his successful surgery. ❤🙏
@@susannaCdonovan23 Thank you!!
Prayers for your husband and you 💕🙏🏻
Great message! To the offended people...Get over it and get busy improving your own life.
Some people just think they know more or better than anyone else. Boy are they in for a surprise. Keep going Tessie you are doing GREAT. You know they have a sad life when their days are filled looking for someone to put down. I lived in a mobile home for years before I got my home. I had a roof over my head , a warm place to stay, and a great family. Life was good and still is. It’s not the place you live in that makes a great home. Have a great day.
Very well said, Tessie! Just keep being yourself. It doesn’t matter what you do or say, somebody out there won’t like it. This is your channel. If someone is offended, they can go some place else. 🤷🏼♀️
You really seem to be coming into your own lately. Good for you for speaking your truth! The haters can go take a long walk off a short plank!!
Dear Tessie, thank you so much for your honest, truthful videos ! I will be 64 the last day of this month. I am trying to reach the life changing decision you explained in this video. Fighting childhood trauma, just diagnosed w/ ADHD, skin cancer plus many other ailments in the last 2 yrs. Realizing that my self worth didn't exist. Slowly, working w/ my inner child/ spirit/ soul to heal, learn my worth & purpose.
Realized Disease comes from Inner Dis Ease ! Time for the inner me to stand in my worthiness instead of victimhood. Starting to praise myself, forgiving myself, loving myself, listening to my spirit to guide me to my life's purpose. Thank you for giving me inspiration to keep moving forward !!❤
People are ridiculous complaining about your plumbing?!?! They are miserable people who need to release their frustrations on other people very sad,
I can relate to everything you have said. We have to realize we are truly special.
Yes it’s too bad that people choose to live under the influence of the spirit of offense. It’s a spiritual battle and they are succumbing to it.
It’s a choice to resist or not with this spirit.
Truly the spirit of offense is nothing more than narcissism and control over another.
Pure kindness is to well wish others in their own journey, not
Erase a persons inner drive to be a character in this world and their life.
Wow! Well said!❤️
Amen I love you
Hey Sweet Friend, It is music to my ears that you finally decided that you don't have to or should'nt try to please everyone. I have rambled this around in my head all afternoon. For you to continue explaining yourself and defending yourself with your channel and really enjoy it block these naysayers from your channel. The negativity you deal with is rediculous!!!!! You give of yourself to us daily for free. Most of us appreciate your channel, but for those who constantly complain, nit pic, and leave nasty comments to you, are they worth it? Your to sweet and to caring for people who don't appreciate you and you certainly do not have to deal with this crap!!!! I agree with susannaCdonovan23. Block them. They are not worth your time.
Nice video a lot of truth! Blessings ❤️
This made me cry because after 32 years of being bullied since the day I married, talked down to and being told I'm being stupid by my family and my husbands family I really don't know who I am anymore. I've heard grow up, act your age, that was just dumb until there is no self left. They have all died off except for 5 of them and I've learned just to walk away from my Mother when shes ugly. One has changed their mind and two I just don't go around when I know they will be there. My sister can still cut me to the quick and I have to associate with her because I love my nieces and she's at every get together. I haven't had a panic attack in over a month so life is getting better and one day maybe I will find my voice again and maybe remember who I am.
Tessie. ALWAYS STICK UP FOR YOUR SELF. AND IGNORE THE NEGATIVES. YOU'LL FEEL BETTER TRUST ME. BEEN THERE.
Miserable is not happy
Your confidence and strength have grown by leaps and bounds over the years, Tessie. I’m really glad to see it. I’m also glad you finally spoke up for yourself in this video. 👏🏻
If people are so offended by things they may hear or see on UA-cam, then perhaps they should find other ways to spend their time. UA-cam is apparently not for them. But rather than taking it out on you, maybe they should spend some time growing a backbone and a thicker skin. If they can’t handle UA-cam, how in the world do they cope with life???
Anyway, you just keep being you, Tessie - the new and improved Homestead Tessie. 😉
Wow, I don't get people these days. God bless you Tessie! ❤ I am keeping my eyes on the sky waiting on Him!
Tessie, always live by these words you speak, because you are so right about this topic. Thanks for the strong kind words of encouragement ❤
Tessie you are so right this world is crazy now. It's very sad how fellow brothers and sisters have turned on each other ❤
Great message….bravo 👏
thank you
Someone is always offended. People can be weird. 😂🤣🤣
That is darn right crazy that people were offended by your ability to upgrade your plumbing. God blessed you to be able to upgrade your home and you deserve the blessing b/c of all the years you choose to live without it.
I can tell you're a sensitive soul. Most of the people who comment negatively are jealous. I'm happy you're learning not to listen to them. Keep up the good videos.
People that are happy when they make other people unhappy don't deserve your kindness. Family members who make rude comments should be called out for their inappropriate behavior! So glad you turned around your thinking!
I agree completely. You can’t worry about what other people think you just have to be happy and talk about what you want and don’t worry about them. Most of the people here here because they like you and they like your channel and they support you. Don’t let the trolls and the negative people ever get you down. Like you said you can’t make everyone happy no matter what you do. As long as you are happy that’s all that matters !
You can never please everyone that's for sure! Do what makes you happy Tessie. We love you for you. Have a blessed day friend
Some people are just playing negative people and no matter what you do or what you say or apologize for whatever it is not going to make a difference either way because that is the way these pathetic people are. Keep doing what you are doing tessie. I'm very happy for you that you were able to fix a lot of things in your home that helps you. It doesn't matter what anybody else thinks what matters is you and your family and how you live your life. God bless and keep you. You are a child of the most high God.
I find it ironic that someone wants a oerfect video. Do they want a real life video or a fake video. I think some people want the fake because that means that they have to admit we as humans are not perfect and life has hard times. Plus some people just truly like to complain and grumble. I am learning I have to be me with God helps in that I love others but I do not have to be someone's doormat or be a people pleaser. I think we can fall into the people pleasers because some of us that are more sensitive like myself don't want someone upset with us. I just have remind myself if I am not being mean to someone but they are upset still I can not change them. I have to move forward. I am glad you are getting stronger tessie. The world is full of those who will always try to find something wrong with you but God loves you for you.
Hi Tessie!! Some people just belong behind you, so you can keep moving forward. Offense only hurts feelings, and most people make offense an Olympic event.
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What a positive growth transformation I am seeing in you. I like it.
I am interested how you do your composting. I saw your bin. How's that work for you?
Wow!
Such wise words Sweet Tessie!
Our dear Lord could not please everybody… and we shouldn’t try to either.
Why do people watch your videos if they find fault
Oh my word! You are so right. But if all these things about you are offending some people, then they should get off your channel! We love you for those very things they complain about. You show us how to deal with issues, how to overcome, how to save, how upgrade and fix things, new recipes, how to make things and the list goes on and on!! I too have heard the mobile home comments even it's not a real home only brick is a real home. Dumbest comment ever! I'm so glad you overcame the bullies and complainers. And I hope you just keep being you!! I love your beauty and smile and all I learn from you and the wonderful group of viewers here!❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Wonderful video, thanks for sharing YAH bless you sister !
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Mom used to say she got offended too much when she was younger. As she aged she lost that spirit of offense. Thank you God for her example. I don’t have that spirit of offense in me either.
We are to please God. 1st and foremost. God Bless You!
With me I have a very strong personality and I do not care what people think of me or how I live. I love my life and I am a Christian maybe not the best Christian but I am a child of God and no one but no 1 is going to demeen me. Tessy please hey no mind to these heartless individuals.
Offended is the new black.
Girl I would those kinds people I wouldn’t even give them the time of day block block those people are idiots you have people that really love you 😘 ❤❤❤
Don't let people run over you Tessie stand up for your self. It doesn't matter what people say you do what God wants you to do.
Some good advice I heard once: Bullies love victims. DON'T BE A VICTIM.
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Often, the offended are the haters. They obviously have no love in their lives and are to be pitied. Your loyal friends celebrate your successes and pray for you when things go bad.
Hi Tessie sometimes we just have to ignore those negative coments because nothing you will say or do could please those people you end up losing your peace and joy leave them to the lord its not your job to please negativity.. you just be who god called you to be if people find offense let them be..
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Tessie don’t worry about other people and their opinions cause in the end it doesn’t matter you know the truth. Don’t even give them this energy to make a video about them don’t engage you’ll be happier
Geesh i guess i am trash because im in a double wide LOL . Almost paid for, dont care what there opinions are
Ignore naysayers. Hey, at least they bring traffic and push your channel more. If we even read their comments, we can figure out what they're about. 🙄😐
Who really cares?
Well just maybe some people are just too thin-skinned. And if you were that fragile then I truly feel sorry for yo
Wow! How incredibly rude!
@@joanapthorp1976 this was not meant for tessie.